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{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was just going to verbally express my sympathies and a coworker told me he was going to send flowers. When I said, \"Aww,\" he said, \"It's not aww, it's just something you do.\" I had no idea. I've never had anyone close to me die, and I've never had anyone I'm close to lose a close family member.\n\nI have been working in the office with her 2 years. My dad is my boss, and the coworker whose dad died is his assistant. She and I are relatively close. She and her dad were not close, but she's been out of the office for two days. Should I send flowers? Should I bake a dish and give it to her when she returns to the office? A card? Should my dad and I give her a gift - like the flowers - from both of us, instead of two bouquets?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was just going to verbally express my sympathies and a coworker told me he was going to send flowers. When I said, \"Aww,\" he said, \"It's not aww, it's just something you do.\" I had no idea. I've never had anyone close to me die, and I've never had anyone I'm close to lose a close family member.\n\nI have been working in the office with her 2 years. My dad is my boss, and the coworker whose dad died is his assistant. She and I are relatively close. She and her dad were not close, but she's been out of the office for two days. Should I send flowers? Should I bake a dish and give it to her when she returns to the office? A card? Should my dad and I give her a gift - like the flowers - from both of us, instead of two bouquets?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was just going to verbally express my sympathies and a coworker told me he was going to send flowers. When I said, \"Aww,\" he said, \"It's not aww, it's just something you do.\" I had no idea. I've never had anyone close to me die, and I've never had anyone I'm close to lose a close family member.\n\nI have been working in the office with her 2 years. My dad is my boss, and the coworker whose dad died is his assistant. She and I are relatively close. She and her dad were not close, but she's been out of the office for two days. Should I send flowers? Should I bake a dish and give it to her when she returns to the office? A card? Should my dad and I give her a gift - like the flowers - from both of us, instead of two bouquets?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost four months, so not that long. We live two hours away from each other so we only see each other on the weekends. \n\nI am graduating from college in a month and considering living with him for the summer and getting a job serving or waiting tables where he lives. I would be doing the same thing if I stayed for the summer where I live but I don't see the point of that when it will only complicate when we can see each other. \n\nHe has an adult job and works all day all week so it would suck when I would be working a lot on the weekends and trying to coordinate when to come down. The idea of living with him and working there seems way better. He lives in a lot busier city that I do and I would make better money there as well. \n\nHere are the concerns- \n\n1. Parents (who are paying my current rent) would not be cool with it. A solution to that would be I can start paying my rent as I will hopefully be making good money and working a lot more than I do now (my lease ends in August). They will still not be happy so I am not sure how to respectfully tell them I am 22 and can make this decision.\n\n2. Is it too much to live with someone I have only been dating for four months, if even just for the summer? We have talked about it and he is totally supportive of it but I want to be smart. I fucking love him so much though I am about to be like yolo. Just want to try and think before I act." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost four months, so not that long. We live two hours away from each other so we only see each other on the weekends. \n\nI am graduating from college in a month and considering living with him for the summer and getting a job serving or waiting tables where he lives. I would be doing the same thing if I stayed for the summer where I live but I don't see the point of that when it will only complicate when we can see each other. \n\nHe has an adult job and works all day all week so it would suck when I would be working a lot on the weekends and trying to coordinate when to come down. The idea of living with him and working there seems way better. He lives in a lot busier city that I do and I would make better money there as well. \n\nHere are the concerns- \n\n1. Parents (who are paying my current rent) would not be cool with it. A solution to that would be I can start paying my rent as I will hopefully be making good money and working a lot more than I do now (my lease ends in August). They will still not be happy so I am not sure how to respectfully tell them I am 22 and can make this decision.\n\n2. Is it too much to live with someone I have only been dating for four months, if even just for the summer? We have talked about it and he is totally supportive of it but I want to be smart. I fucking love him so much though I am about to be like yolo. Just want to try and think before I act." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost four months, so not that long. We live two hours away from each other so we only see each other on the weekends. \n\nI am graduating from college in a month and considering living with him for the summer and getting a job serving or waiting tables where he lives. I would be doing the same thing if I stayed for the summer where I live but I don't see the point of that when it will only complicate when we can see each other. \n\nHe has an adult job and works all day all week so it would suck when I would be working a lot on the weekends and trying to coordinate when to come down. The idea of living with him and working there seems way better. He lives in a lot busier city that I do and I would make better money there as well. \n\nHere are the concerns- \n\n1. Parents (who are paying my current rent) would not be cool with it. A solution to that would be I can start paying my rent as I will hopefully be making good money and working a lot more than I do now (my lease ends in August). They will still not be happy so I am not sure how to respectfully tell them I am 22 and can make this decision.\n\n2. Is it too much to live with someone I have only been dating for four months, if even just for the summer? We have talked about it and he is totally supportive of it but I want to be smart. I fucking love him so much though I am about to be like yolo. Just want to try and think before I act." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost four months, so not that long. We live two hours away from each other so we only see each other on the weekends. \n\nI am graduating from college in a month and considering living with him for the summer and getting a job serving or waiting tables where he lives. I would be doing the same thing if I stayed for the summer where I live but I don't see the point of that when it will only complicate when we can see each other. \n\nHe has an adult job and works all day all week so it would suck when I would be working a lot on the weekends and trying to coordinate when to come down. The idea of living with him and working there seems way better. He lives in a lot busier city that I do and I would make better money there as well. \n\nHere are the concerns- \n\n1. Parents (who are paying my current rent) would not be cool with it. A solution to that would be I can start paying my rent as I will hopefully be making good money and working a lot more than I do now (my lease ends in August). They will still not be happy so I am not sure how to respectfully tell them I am 22 and can make this decision.\n\n2. Is it too much to live with someone I have only been dating for four months, if even just for the summer? We have talked about it and he is totally supportive of it but I want to be smart. I fucking love him so much though I am about to be like yolo. Just want to try and think before I act." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost four months, so not that long. We live two hours away from each other so we only see each other on the weekends. \n\nI am graduating from college in a month and considering living with him for the summer and getting a job serving or waiting tables where he lives. I would be doing the same thing if I stayed for the summer where I live but I don't see the point of that when it will only complicate when we can see each other. \n\nHe has an adult job and works all day all week so it would suck when I would be working a lot on the weekends and trying to coordinate when to come down. The idea of living with him and working there seems way better. He lives in a lot busier city that I do and I would make better money there as well. \n\nHere are the concerns- \n\n1. Parents (who are paying my current rent) would not be cool with it. A solution to that would be I can start paying my rent as I will hopefully be making good money and working a lot more than I do now (my lease ends in August). They will still not be happy so I am not sure how to respectfully tell them I am 22 and can make this decision.\n\n2. Is it too much to live with someone I have only been dating for four months, if even just for the summer? We have talked about it and he is totally supportive of it but I want to be smart. I fucking love him so much though I am about to be like yolo. Just want to try and think before I act." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost four months, so not that long. We live two hours away from each other so we only see each other on the weekends. \n\nI am graduating from college in a month and considering living with him for the summer and getting a job serving or waiting tables where he lives. I would be doing the same thing if I stayed for the summer where I live but I don't see the point of that when it will only complicate when we can see each other. \n\nHe has an adult job and works all day all week so it would suck when I would be working a lot on the weekends and trying to coordinate when to come down. The idea of living with him and working there seems way better. He lives in a lot busier city that I do and I would make better money there as well. \n\nHere are the concerns- \n\n1. Parents (who are paying my current rent) would not be cool with it. A solution to that would be I can start paying my rent as I will hopefully be making good money and working a lot more than I do now (my lease ends in August). They will still not be happy so I am not sure how to respectfully tell them I am 22 and can make this decision.\n\n2. Is it too much to live with someone I have only been dating for four months, if even just for the summer? We have talked about it and he is totally supportive of it but I want to be smart. I fucking love him so much though I am about to be like yolo. Just want to try and think before I act." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's been 11 months now since she broke up with me, on may 3rd it'll be a year exactly, I don't want to get back with her at all, I'm over her in that respect, but even after all this time has passed, and I've had other lovers, met new friends, now I'm going to a different college and my lifestyle has changed drastically, if we were to speak now she'd probably be surprised at how different I am, and yet in the past ~9 days I've been thinking about her a lot, not so much about how I feel about her, I'm just wondering how she's doing, want to talk to her again (even though that's a very bad idea), and I'm thinking about the times we had together, all the times good and bad and it makes me want to speak to her again.\n\nTo clarify, I'm not going to try and get back into contact with her, I'm pretty sure that even if she doesn't hate me now, she at least doesn't want to ever talk to me again, our breakup was anything but smooth, and I never got a chance to really say goodbye properly or to say sorry for all the arguments we had leading up to us cutting contact to begin with, not that she probably cared, but that does make me feel bad, since I acted like a colossal cunt back then. I'm just wondering if anyone has any tips for forgetting about them, so that it's easier to get over it in the long run. thanks in advance for any replies!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's been 11 months now since she broke up with me, on may 3rd it'll be a year exactly, I don't want to get back with her at all, I'm over her in that respect, but even after all this time has passed, and I've had other lovers, met new friends, now I'm going to a different college and my lifestyle has changed drastically, if we were to speak now she'd probably be surprised at how different I am, and yet in the past ~9 days I've been thinking about her a lot, not so much about how I feel about her, I'm just wondering how she's doing, want to talk to her again (even though that's a very bad idea), and I'm thinking about the times we had together, all the times good and bad and it makes me want to speak to her again.\n\nTo clarify, I'm not going to try and get back into contact with her, I'm pretty sure that even if she doesn't hate me now, she at least doesn't want to ever talk to me again, our breakup was anything but smooth, and I never got a chance to really say goodbye properly or to say sorry for all the arguments we had leading up to us cutting contact to begin with, not that she probably cared, but that does make me feel bad, since I acted like a colossal cunt back then. I'm just wondering if anyone has any tips for forgetting about them, so that it's easier to get over it in the long run. thanks in advance for any replies!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's been 11 months now since she broke up with me, on may 3rd it'll be a year exactly, I don't want to get back with her at all, I'm over her in that respect, but even after all this time has passed, and I've had other lovers, met new friends, now I'm going to a different college and my lifestyle has changed drastically, if we were to speak now she'd probably be surprised at how different I am, and yet in the past ~9 days I've been thinking about her a lot, not so much about how I feel about her, I'm just wondering how she's doing, want to talk to her again (even though that's a very bad idea), and I'm thinking about the times we had together, all the times good and bad and it makes me want to speak to her again.\n\nTo clarify, I'm not going to try and get back into contact with her, I'm pretty sure that even if she doesn't hate me now, she at least doesn't want to ever talk to me again, our breakup was anything but smooth, and I never got a chance to really say goodbye properly or to say sorry for all the arguments we had leading up to us cutting contact to begin with, not that she probably cared, but that does make me feel bad, since I acted like a colossal cunt back then. I'm just wondering if anyone has any tips for forgetting about them, so that it's easier to get over it in the long run. thanks in advance for any replies!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's been 11 months now since she broke up with me, on may 3rd it'll be a year exactly, I don't want to get back with her at all, I'm over her in that respect, but even after all this time has passed, and I've had other lovers, met new friends, now I'm going to a different college and my lifestyle has changed drastically, if we were to speak now she'd probably be surprised at how different I am, and yet in the past ~9 days I've been thinking about her a lot, not so much about how I feel about her, I'm just wondering how she's doing, want to talk to her again (even though that's a very bad idea), and I'm thinking about the times we had together, all the times good and bad and it makes me want to speak to her again.\n\nTo clarify, I'm not going to try and get back into contact with her, I'm pretty sure that even if she doesn't hate me now, she at least doesn't want to ever talk to me again, our breakup was anything but smooth, and I never got a chance to really say goodbye properly or to say sorry for all the arguments we had leading up to us cutting contact to begin with, not that she probably cared, but that does make me feel bad, since I acted like a colossal cunt back then. I'm just wondering if anyone has any tips for forgetting about them, so that it's easier to get over it in the long run. thanks in advance for any replies!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's been 11 months now since she broke up with me, on may 3rd it'll be a year exactly, I don't want to get back with her at all, I'm over her in that respect, but even after all this time has passed, and I've had other lovers, met new friends, now I'm going to a different college and my lifestyle has changed drastically, if we were to speak now she'd probably be surprised at how different I am, and yet in the past ~9 days I've been thinking about her a lot, not so much about how I feel about her, I'm just wondering how she's doing, want to talk to her again (even though that's a very bad idea), and I'm thinking about the times we had together, all the times good and bad and it makes me want to speak to her again.\n\nTo clarify, I'm not going to try and get back into contact with her, I'm pretty sure that even if she doesn't hate me now, she at least doesn't want to ever talk to me again, our breakup was anything but smooth, and I never got a chance to really say goodbye properly or to say sorry for all the arguments we had leading up to us cutting contact to begin with, not that she probably cared, but that does make me feel bad, since I acted like a colossal cunt back then. I'm just wondering if anyone has any tips for forgetting about them, so that it's easier to get over it in the long run. thanks in advance for any replies!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this girl, we'll call her \"Maya\", went to the same college I did. We kissed a couple of times in college, and would always dance when we saw each other out at the bar. But Maya and I were never anything more than that. \n\nAbout six months after we graduated, I decided to ask Maya on a date. She said yes, and we had an awesome evening together cooking dinner at her apartment. We went on one more date after that. Since then, she has cancelled a couple of would-be dates we had made due to scheduling conflicts. \n\nNormally, I wouldn't deal with that. My general rule is that if a girl cancels on me twice, I move on. But it's different with Maya. I think her excuses for cancelling were legitimate, and as I said, I have a major thing for her. \n\nBut I also think Maya is using the cancellations to figure out how much effort I'm willing to put in to dating her. It sounds stupid, but she knows she's a quality girl. She's never slept around, she's kind, she's funny, and is generally a great person. She wants to make sure I'm for real before she lets her walls down. \n\nSo my question to you, Reddit, is this - how long did you spend courting the person you knew was the one for you? It's a strange feeling for me to continue to pursue a person after they have broken two dates. I'm curious about you all's experience with situations like this." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this girl, we'll call her \"Maya\", went to the same college I did. We kissed a couple of times in college, and would always dance when we saw each other out at the bar. But Maya and I were never anything more than that. \n\nAbout six months after we graduated, I decided to ask Maya on a date. She said yes, and we had an awesome evening together cooking dinner at her apartment. We went on one more date after that. Since then, she has cancelled a couple of would-be dates we had made due to scheduling conflicts. \n\nNormally, I wouldn't deal with that. My general rule is that if a girl cancels on me twice, I move on. But it's different with Maya. I think her excuses for cancelling were legitimate, and as I said, I have a major thing for her. \n\nBut I also think Maya is using the cancellations to figure out how much effort I'm willing to put in to dating her. It sounds stupid, but she knows she's a quality girl. She's never slept around, she's kind, she's funny, and is generally a great person. She wants to make sure I'm for real before she lets her walls down. \n\nSo my question to you, Reddit, is this - how long did you spend courting the person you knew was the one for you? It's a strange feeling for me to continue to pursue a person after they have broken two dates. I'm curious about you all's experience with situations like this." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this girl, we'll call her \"Maya\", went to the same college I did. We kissed a couple of times in college, and would always dance when we saw each other out at the bar. But Maya and I were never anything more than that. \n\nAbout six months after we graduated, I decided to ask Maya on a date. She said yes, and we had an awesome evening together cooking dinner at her apartment. We went on one more date after that. Since then, she has cancelled a couple of would-be dates we had made due to scheduling conflicts. \n\nNormally, I wouldn't deal with that. My general rule is that if a girl cancels on me twice, I move on. But it's different with Maya. I think her excuses for cancelling were legitimate, and as I said, I have a major thing for her. \n\nBut I also think Maya is using the cancellations to figure out how much effort I'm willing to put in to dating her. It sounds stupid, but she knows she's a quality girl. She's never slept around, she's kind, she's funny, and is generally a great person. She wants to make sure I'm for real before she lets her walls down. \n\nSo my question to you, Reddit, is this - how long did you spend courting the person you knew was the one for you? It's a strange feeling for me to continue to pursue a person after they have broken two dates. I'm curious about you all's experience with situations like this." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this girl, we'll call her \"Maya\", went to the same college I did. We kissed a couple of times in college, and would always dance when we saw each other out at the bar. But Maya and I were never anything more than that. \n\nAbout six months after we graduated, I decided to ask Maya on a date. She said yes, and we had an awesome evening together cooking dinner at her apartment. We went on one more date after that. Since then, she has cancelled a couple of would-be dates we had made due to scheduling conflicts. \n\nNormally, I wouldn't deal with that. My general rule is that if a girl cancels on me twice, I move on. But it's different with Maya. I think her excuses for cancelling were legitimate, and as I said, I have a major thing for her. \n\nBut I also think Maya is using the cancellations to figure out how much effort I'm willing to put in to dating her. It sounds stupid, but she knows she's a quality girl. She's never slept around, she's kind, she's funny, and is generally a great person. She wants to make sure I'm for real before she lets her walls down. \n\nSo my question to you, Reddit, is this - how long did you spend courting the person you knew was the one for you? It's a strange feeling for me to continue to pursue a person after they have broken two dates. I'm curious about you all's experience with situations like this." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this girl, we'll call her \"Maya\", went to the same college I did. We kissed a couple of times in college, and would always dance when we saw each other out at the bar. But Maya and I were never anything more than that. \n\nAbout six months after we graduated, I decided to ask Maya on a date. She said yes, and we had an awesome evening together cooking dinner at her apartment. We went on one more date after that. Since then, she has cancelled a couple of would-be dates we had made due to scheduling conflicts. \n\nNormally, I wouldn't deal with that. My general rule is that if a girl cancels on me twice, I move on. But it's different with Maya. I think her excuses for cancelling were legitimate, and as I said, I have a major thing for her. \n\nBut I also think Maya is using the cancellations to figure out how much effort I'm willing to put in to dating her. It sounds stupid, but she knows she's a quality girl. She's never slept around, she's kind, she's funny, and is generally a great person. She wants to make sure I'm for real before she lets her walls down. \n\nSo my question to you, Reddit, is this - how long did you spend courting the person you knew was the one for you? It's a strange feeling for me to continue to pursue a person after they have broken two dates. I'm curious about you all's experience with situations like this." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been working together a little over a month. I have never been so attracted to someone as I am to my boss. He is a genuinely good person who shares my interests. He has no children and is not married.\n\nWorking with him is very fun and easy going. I do not want to feel uncomfortable working with him, which is why I have yet to invite him out. My only concern (obviously a concern) is the age difference. I may be taking his small comments the wrong way. He may be saying nice things to me because he looks at me as a \"younger sister\" rather than a potential date. \n\nI'm afraid giving out too much information may lead to him or another coworker seeing this. I feel as though there is some chemistry there, but my fear is that my infatuation is clouding my vision.\n\nI need some guidance. Anyone been in a similar situation? How long do I wait? Should I even go for it?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been working together a little over a month. I have never been so attracted to someone as I am to my boss. He is a genuinely good person who shares my interests. He has no children and is not married.\n\nWorking with him is very fun and easy going. I do not want to feel uncomfortable working with him, which is why I have yet to invite him out. My only concern (obviously a concern) is the age difference. I may be taking his small comments the wrong way. He may be saying nice things to me because he looks at me as a \"younger sister\" rather than a potential date. \n\nI'm afraid giving out too much information may lead to him or another coworker seeing this. I feel as though there is some chemistry there, but my fear is that my infatuation is clouding my vision.\n\nI need some guidance. Anyone been in a similar situation? How long do I wait? Should I even go for it?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been working together a little over a month. I have never been so attracted to someone as I am to my boss. He is a genuinely good person who shares my interests. He has no children and is not married.\n\nWorking with him is very fun and easy going. I do not want to feel uncomfortable working with him, which is why I have yet to invite him out. My only concern (obviously a concern) is the age difference. I may be taking his small comments the wrong way. He may be saying nice things to me because he looks at me as a \"younger sister\" rather than a potential date. \n\nI'm afraid giving out too much information may lead to him or another coworker seeing this. I feel as though there is some chemistry there, but my fear is that my infatuation is clouding my vision.\n\nI need some guidance. Anyone been in a similar situation? How long do I wait? Should I even go for it?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been working together a little over a month. I have never been so attracted to someone as I am to my boss. He is a genuinely good person who shares my interests. He has no children and is not married.\n\nWorking with him is very fun and easy going. I do not want to feel uncomfortable working with him, which is why I have yet to invite him out. My only concern (obviously a concern) is the age difference. I may be taking his small comments the wrong way. He may be saying nice things to me because he looks at me as a \"younger sister\" rather than a potential date. \n\nI'm afraid giving out too much information may lead to him or another coworker seeing this. I feel as though there is some chemistry there, but my fear is that my infatuation is clouding my vision.\n\nI need some guidance. Anyone been in a similar situation? How long do I wait? Should I even go for it?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been working together a little over a month. I have never been so attracted to someone as I am to my boss. He is a genuinely good person who shares my interests. He has no children and is not married.\n\nWorking with him is very fun and easy going. I do not want to feel uncomfortable working with him, which is why I have yet to invite him out. My only concern (obviously a concern) is the age difference. I may be taking his small comments the wrong way. He may be saying nice things to me because he looks at me as a \"younger sister\" rather than a potential date. \n\nI'm afraid giving out too much information may lead to him or another coworker seeing this. I feel as though there is some chemistry there, but my fear is that my infatuation is clouding my vision.\n\nI need some guidance. Anyone been in a similar situation? How long do I wait? Should I even go for it?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me two months ago, and we've been no contact since then. I've had some really bad days and some okay days. I still miss her, sometimes a lot, sometimes less, but I know it'll get better with time. I'm still dealing with the thought that we almost certainly won't be together again, but it's tough.\n\nNow, the problem is that we're at the same University, though different majors. We share a building, and she literally has classes on the floor above me, though of course, not always around the same time. We haven't had any classes since we broke up because of exam periods, but they start in a week.\n\nI'm absolutely *terrified* of running into her." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me two months ago, and we've been no contact since then. I've had some really bad days and some okay days. I still miss her, sometimes a lot, sometimes less, but I know it'll get better with time. I'm still dealing with the thought that we almost certainly won't be together again, but it's tough.\n\nNow, the problem is that we're at the same University, though different majors. We share a building, and she literally has classes on the floor above me, though of course, not always around the same time. We haven't had any classes since we broke up because of exam periods, but they start in a week.\n\nI'm absolutely *terrified* of running into her." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me two months ago, and we've been no contact since then. I've had some really bad days and some okay days. I still miss her, sometimes a lot, sometimes less, but I know it'll get better with time. I'm still dealing with the thought that we almost certainly won't be together again, but it's tough.\n\nNow, the problem is that we're at the same University, though different majors. We share a building, and she literally has classes on the floor above me, though of course, not always around the same time. We haven't had any classes since we broke up because of exam periods, but they start in a week.\n\nI'm absolutely *terrified* of running into her." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me two months ago, and we've been no contact since then. I've had some really bad days and some okay days. I still miss her, sometimes a lot, sometimes less, but I know it'll get better with time. I'm still dealing with the thought that we almost certainly won't be together again, but it's tough.\n\nNow, the problem is that we're at the same University, though different majors. We share a building, and she literally has classes on the floor above me, though of course, not always around the same time. We haven't had any classes since we broke up because of exam periods, but they start in a week.\n\nI'm absolutely *terrified* of running into her." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me two months ago, and we've been no contact since then. I've had some really bad days and some okay days. I still miss her, sometimes a lot, sometimes less, but I know it'll get better with time. I'm still dealing with the thought that we almost certainly won't be together again, but it's tough.\n\nNow, the problem is that we're at the same University, though different majors. We share a building, and she literally has classes on the floor above me, though of course, not always around the same time. We haven't had any classes since we broke up because of exam periods, but they start in a week.\n\nI'm absolutely *terrified* of running into her." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me two months ago, and we've been no contact since then. I've had some really bad days and some okay days. I still miss her, sometimes a lot, sometimes less, but I know it'll get better with time. I'm still dealing with the thought that we almost certainly won't be together again, but it's tough.\n\nNow, the problem is that we're at the same University, though different majors. We share a building, and she literally has classes on the floor above me, though of course, not always around the same time. We haven't had any classes since we broke up because of exam periods, but they start in a week.\n\nI'm absolutely *terrified* of running into her." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So as many others here, this happened 2yrs ago. I work for a Music School, and we organised a band event a while ago where a lot of people participated. The Top 5 would get Disks of their performances (video and mixed audio), and some other prizes (that aren't important to the story). \n\nHere's the fuck up. Because at the time, this place was just started, I had been working really hard, very long erratic hours, functioning on very little sleep and rest. My brain was not what you would call 'normally functional', resulting in slight slurring in my speech, and some mumbling and bumbling. I walked up to this particular band, and in front of a whole bunch of really impressive people from the industry (crucial to my success as a musician), said \"Congratulations GenericBandName! I am proud to present to you blah blah gifts, as well as a mixed & mastered copy of your performance on tape! Here's your Dick!\". \n\nLuckily, I burst out laughing as I said it, they realised it was a FU and laughed, the audience and panelists laughed. Good times." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So as many others here, this happened 2yrs ago. I work for a Music School, and we organised a band event a while ago where a lot of people participated. The Top 5 would get Disks of their performances (video and mixed audio), and some other prizes (that aren't important to the story). \n\nHere's the fuck up. Because at the time, this place was just started, I had been working really hard, very long erratic hours, functioning on very little sleep and rest. My brain was not what you would call 'normally functional', resulting in slight slurring in my speech, and some mumbling and bumbling. I walked up to this particular band, and in front of a whole bunch of really impressive people from the industry (crucial to my success as a musician), said \"Congratulations GenericBandName! I am proud to present to you blah blah gifts, as well as a mixed & mastered copy of your performance on tape! Here's your Dick!\". \n\nLuckily, I burst out laughing as I said it, they realised it was a FU and laughed, the audience and panelists laughed. Good times." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So as many others here, this happened 2yrs ago. I work for a Music School, and we organised a band event a while ago where a lot of people participated. The Top 5 would get Disks of their performances (video and mixed audio), and some other prizes (that aren't important to the story). \n\nHere's the fuck up. Because at the time, this place was just started, I had been working really hard, very long erratic hours, functioning on very little sleep and rest. My brain was not what you would call 'normally functional', resulting in slight slurring in my speech, and some mumbling and bumbling. I walked up to this particular band, and in front of a whole bunch of really impressive people from the industry (crucial to my success as a musician), said \"Congratulations GenericBandName! I am proud to present to you blah blah gifts, as well as a mixed & mastered copy of your performance on tape! Here's your Dick!\". \n\nLuckily, I burst out laughing as I said it, they realised it was a FU and laughed, the audience and panelists laughed. Good times." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So as many others here, this happened 2yrs ago. I work for a Music School, and we organised a band event a while ago where a lot of people participated. The Top 5 would get Disks of their performances (video and mixed audio), and some other prizes (that aren't important to the story). \n\nHere's the fuck up. Because at the time, this place was just started, I had been working really hard, very long erratic hours, functioning on very little sleep and rest. My brain was not what you would call 'normally functional', resulting in slight slurring in my speech, and some mumbling and bumbling. I walked up to this particular band, and in front of a whole bunch of really impressive people from the industry (crucial to my success as a musician), said \"Congratulations GenericBandName! I am proud to present to you blah blah gifts, as well as a mixed & mastered copy of your performance on tape! Here's your Dick!\". \n\nLuckily, I burst out laughing as I said it, they realised it was a FU and laughed, the audience and panelists laughed. Good times." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So as many others here, this happened 2yrs ago. I work for a Music School, and we organised a band event a while ago where a lot of people participated. The Top 5 would get Disks of their performances (video and mixed audio), and some other prizes (that aren't important to the story). \n\nHere's the fuck up. Because at the time, this place was just started, I had been working really hard, very long erratic hours, functioning on very little sleep and rest. My brain was not what you would call 'normally functional', resulting in slight slurring in my speech, and some mumbling and bumbling. I walked up to this particular band, and in front of a whole bunch of really impressive people from the industry (crucial to my success as a musician), said \"Congratulations GenericBandName! I am proud to present to you blah blah gifts, as well as a mixed & mastered copy of your performance on tape! Here's your Dick!\". \n\nLuckily, I burst out laughing as I said it, they realised it was a FU and laughed, the audience and panelists laughed. Good times." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So as many others here, this happened 2yrs ago. I work for a Music School, and we organised a band event a while ago where a lot of people participated. The Top 5 would get Disks of their performances (video and mixed audio), and some other prizes (that aren't important to the story). \n\nHere's the fuck up. Because at the time, this place was just started, I had been working really hard, very long erratic hours, functioning on very little sleep and rest. My brain was not what you would call 'normally functional', resulting in slight slurring in my speech, and some mumbling and bumbling. I walked up to this particular band, and in front of a whole bunch of really impressive people from the industry (crucial to my success as a musician), said \"Congratulations GenericBandName! I am proud to present to you blah blah gifts, as well as a mixed & mastered copy of your performance on tape! Here's your Dick!\". \n\nLuckily, I burst out laughing as I said it, they realised it was a FU and laughed, the audience and panelists laughed. Good times." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm part of an engineering club, and we've been preparing for a big competition. Two teammates were in charge of managing our project, a car that would compete in a race, and they fucked it up so horribly that the car did not pass inspection and didn't get to race.\n\nI have sacrificed grades and money for this contest, and they ruined it all with their procrastination and laziness.\n\nFunny thing is that I'm going to be the club's president next semester. I want to kick them both out as my first official act. The only problem is that a lot of people in the group didn't really care about this in the first place.\n\nI want to kick them out, but by then the anger will have died down, and people probably won't care at all next semester. I don't want them to get away with this colossal fuckup.\n\nWhat can I do about this?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm part of an engineering club, and we've been preparing for a big competition. Two teammates were in charge of managing our project, a car that would compete in a race, and they fucked it up so horribly that the car did not pass inspection and didn't get to race.\n\nI have sacrificed grades and money for this contest, and they ruined it all with their procrastination and laziness.\n\nFunny thing is that I'm going to be the club's president next semester. I want to kick them both out as my first official act. The only problem is that a lot of people in the group didn't really care about this in the first place.\n\nI want to kick them out, but by then the anger will have died down, and people probably won't care at all next semester. I don't want them to get away with this colossal fuckup.\n\nWhat can I do about this?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm part of an engineering club, and we've been preparing for a big competition. Two teammates were in charge of managing our project, a car that would compete in a race, and they fucked it up so horribly that the car did not pass inspection and didn't get to race.\n\nI have sacrificed grades and money for this contest, and they ruined it all with their procrastination and laziness.\n\nFunny thing is that I'm going to be the club's president next semester. I want to kick them both out as my first official act. The only problem is that a lot of people in the group didn't really care about this in the first place.\n\nI want to kick them out, but by then the anger will have died down, and people probably won't care at all next semester. I don't want them to get away with this colossal fuckup.\n\nWhat can I do about this?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm part of an engineering club, and we've been preparing for a big competition. Two teammates were in charge of managing our project, a car that would compete in a race, and they fucked it up so horribly that the car did not pass inspection and didn't get to race.\n\nI have sacrificed grades and money for this contest, and they ruined it all with their procrastination and laziness.\n\nFunny thing is that I'm going to be the club's president next semester. I want to kick them both out as my first official act. The only problem is that a lot of people in the group didn't really care about this in the first place.\n\nI want to kick them out, but by then the anger will have died down, and people probably won't care at all next semester. I don't want them to get away with this colossal fuckup.\n\nWhat can I do about this?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm part of an engineering club, and we've been preparing for a big competition. Two teammates were in charge of managing our project, a car that would compete in a race, and they fucked it up so horribly that the car did not pass inspection and didn't get to race.\n\nI have sacrificed grades and money for this contest, and they ruined it all with their procrastination and laziness.\n\nFunny thing is that I'm going to be the club's president next semester. I want to kick them both out as my first official act. The only problem is that a lot of people in the group didn't really care about this in the first place.\n\nI want to kick them out, but by then the anger will have died down, and people probably won't care at all next semester. I don't want them to get away with this colossal fuckup.\n\nWhat can I do about this?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm part of an engineering club, and we've been preparing for a big competition. Two teammates were in charge of managing our project, a car that would compete in a race, and they fucked it up so horribly that the car did not pass inspection and didn't get to race.\n\nI have sacrificed grades and money for this contest, and they ruined it all with their procrastination and laziness.\n\nFunny thing is that I'm going to be the club's president next semester. I want to kick them both out as my first official act. The only problem is that a lot of people in the group didn't really care about this in the first place.\n\nI want to kick them out, but by then the anger will have died down, and people probably won't care at all next semester. I don't want them to get away with this colossal fuckup.\n\nWhat can I do about this?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, for the past 6 months or so, I've been seeing this girl.\nSchool just ended, and I've moved back and stuff, but not everything seems settled. So, both I and this girl don't have previous relationship experience (in other words, neither of us has ever had a serious boyfriend or girlfriend).\nWe have a really close sense of humor, and I feel like we connect well on a personal level too. We just have different interests, like she likes to smoke more than I do, she likes concerts, and I skate.\n\nOur friendship started near the end of the first semester, although I knew she liked me for a while before, I never really acted on it. She said she really liked me and thought I was really cool, in which I told her the same. After winter break we hung out more, studied together a lot of nights, smoked together sometimes, and went to parties together, and near the end of the school year we slept together every couple nights or so, had intimate relations, etc. But it's weird because *we never called each other boyfriend or girlfriend.*\n\nBut sometimes she'd ignore my texts & didn't seem enthusiastic about hanging out, in which I'd reciprocate by doing the same to her. And it kind of made an almost \"competitive\" dating environment idk haha.\n\nWhen we moved out, we hugged, kissed, and said we'd miss each other, and she told me to visit. and It's only been a week and I kinda miss her, and I wanna call her but I'm not sure if that would be cool you know? I've noticed that I always worry about her response to these things because I'm not sure if she actually *wants* the relationship." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, for the past 6 months or so, I've been seeing this girl.\nSchool just ended, and I've moved back and stuff, but not everything seems settled. So, both I and this girl don't have previous relationship experience (in other words, neither of us has ever had a serious boyfriend or girlfriend).\nWe have a really close sense of humor, and I feel like we connect well on a personal level too. We just have different interests, like she likes to smoke more than I do, she likes concerts, and I skate.\n\nOur friendship started near the end of the first semester, although I knew she liked me for a while before, I never really acted on it. She said she really liked me and thought I was really cool, in which I told her the same. After winter break we hung out more, studied together a lot of nights, smoked together sometimes, and went to parties together, and near the end of the school year we slept together every couple nights or so, had intimate relations, etc. But it's weird because *we never called each other boyfriend or girlfriend.*\n\nBut sometimes she'd ignore my texts & didn't seem enthusiastic about hanging out, in which I'd reciprocate by doing the same to her. And it kind of made an almost \"competitive\" dating environment idk haha.\n\nWhen we moved out, we hugged, kissed, and said we'd miss each other, and she told me to visit. and It's only been a week and I kinda miss her, and I wanna call her but I'm not sure if that would be cool you know? I've noticed that I always worry about her response to these things because I'm not sure if she actually *wants* the relationship." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, for the past 6 months or so, I've been seeing this girl.\nSchool just ended, and I've moved back and stuff, but not everything seems settled. So, both I and this girl don't have previous relationship experience (in other words, neither of us has ever had a serious boyfriend or girlfriend).\nWe have a really close sense of humor, and I feel like we connect well on a personal level too. We just have different interests, like she likes to smoke more than I do, she likes concerts, and I skate.\n\nOur friendship started near the end of the first semester, although I knew she liked me for a while before, I never really acted on it. She said she really liked me and thought I was really cool, in which I told her the same. After winter break we hung out more, studied together a lot of nights, smoked together sometimes, and went to parties together, and near the end of the school year we slept together every couple nights or so, had intimate relations, etc. But it's weird because *we never called each other boyfriend or girlfriend.*\n\nBut sometimes she'd ignore my texts & didn't seem enthusiastic about hanging out, in which I'd reciprocate by doing the same to her. And it kind of made an almost \"competitive\" dating environment idk haha.\n\nWhen we moved out, we hugged, kissed, and said we'd miss each other, and she told me to visit. and It's only been a week and I kinda miss her, and I wanna call her but I'm not sure if that would be cool you know? I've noticed that I always worry about her response to these things because I'm not sure if she actually *wants* the relationship." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, for the past 6 months or so, I've been seeing this girl.\nSchool just ended, and I've moved back and stuff, but not everything seems settled. So, both I and this girl don't have previous relationship experience (in other words, neither of us has ever had a serious boyfriend or girlfriend).\nWe have a really close sense of humor, and I feel like we connect well on a personal level too. We just have different interests, like she likes to smoke more than I do, she likes concerts, and I skate.\n\nOur friendship started near the end of the first semester, although I knew she liked me for a while before, I never really acted on it. She said she really liked me and thought I was really cool, in which I told her the same. After winter break we hung out more, studied together a lot of nights, smoked together sometimes, and went to parties together, and near the end of the school year we slept together every couple nights or so, had intimate relations, etc. But it's weird because *we never called each other boyfriend or girlfriend.*\n\nBut sometimes she'd ignore my texts & didn't seem enthusiastic about hanging out, in which I'd reciprocate by doing the same to her. And it kind of made an almost \"competitive\" dating environment idk haha.\n\nWhen we moved out, we hugged, kissed, and said we'd miss each other, and she told me to visit. and It's only been a week and I kinda miss her, and I wanna call her but I'm not sure if that would be cool you know? I've noticed that I always worry about her response to these things because I'm not sure if she actually *wants* the relationship." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, for the past 6 months or so, I've been seeing this girl.\nSchool just ended, and I've moved back and stuff, but not everything seems settled. So, both I and this girl don't have previous relationship experience (in other words, neither of us has ever had a serious boyfriend or girlfriend).\nWe have a really close sense of humor, and I feel like we connect well on a personal level too. We just have different interests, like she likes to smoke more than I do, she likes concerts, and I skate.\n\nOur friendship started near the end of the first semester, although I knew she liked me for a while before, I never really acted on it. She said she really liked me and thought I was really cool, in which I told her the same. After winter break we hung out more, studied together a lot of nights, smoked together sometimes, and went to parties together, and near the end of the school year we slept together every couple nights or so, had intimate relations, etc. But it's weird because *we never called each other boyfriend or girlfriend.*\n\nBut sometimes she'd ignore my texts & didn't seem enthusiastic about hanging out, in which I'd reciprocate by doing the same to her. And it kind of made an almost \"competitive\" dating environment idk haha.\n\nWhen we moved out, we hugged, kissed, and said we'd miss each other, and she told me to visit. and It's only been a week and I kinda miss her, and I wanna call her but I'm not sure if that would be cool you know? I've noticed that I always worry about her response to these things because I'm not sure if she actually *wants* the relationship." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, for the past 6 months or so, I've been seeing this girl.\nSchool just ended, and I've moved back and stuff, but not everything seems settled. So, both I and this girl don't have previous relationship experience (in other words, neither of us has ever had a serious boyfriend or girlfriend).\nWe have a really close sense of humor, and I feel like we connect well on a personal level too. We just have different interests, like she likes to smoke more than I do, she likes concerts, and I skate.\n\nOur friendship started near the end of the first semester, although I knew she liked me for a while before, I never really acted on it. She said she really liked me and thought I was really cool, in which I told her the same. After winter break we hung out more, studied together a lot of nights, smoked together sometimes, and went to parties together, and near the end of the school year we slept together every couple nights or so, had intimate relations, etc. But it's weird because *we never called each other boyfriend or girlfriend.*\n\nBut sometimes she'd ignore my texts & didn't seem enthusiastic about hanging out, in which I'd reciprocate by doing the same to her. And it kind of made an almost \"competitive\" dating environment idk haha.\n\nWhen we moved out, we hugged, kissed, and said we'd miss each other, and she told me to visit. and It's only been a week and I kinda miss her, and I wanna call her but I'm not sure if that would be cool you know? I've noticed that I always worry about her response to these things because I'm not sure if she actually *wants* the relationship." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (30/F) have been hanging with out this guy (26/M) for about a month. We met online. My profile said looking for friends, his said looking for a relationship. We had a ton in common so we began chatting. \n\nWe've hung out a lot. We hang out at least twice a week at this point. We've hugged a few times, never kissed and never held hands.\n\nI posted about this a week ago and the consensus was that dude is into me, but wasn't sure if I liked him so I asked him out on a date. He said he'd really love to and has started planning our date as he \"want's to impress\" me. \n\nThe reason I'm so confused is that since I've asked him out, we've hung out twice and both times nothing happened. I am itching to hold his hand, kiss him, whatever. I don't want to push for anything, but I'm starting to feel like maybe he doesn't like me because he hasn't tried to put the moves on me at all. \n\nBasically, I'm afraid to be too pushy by kissing him first or whatever. He's from a small town, and he's mentioned that he's a little old fashioned. We've hung out a bunch. what do I do? Should I just give up?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (30/F) have been hanging with out this guy (26/M) for about a month. We met online. My profile said looking for friends, his said looking for a relationship. We had a ton in common so we began chatting. \n\nWe've hung out a lot. We hang out at least twice a week at this point. We've hugged a few times, never kissed and never held hands.\n\nI posted about this a week ago and the consensus was that dude is into me, but wasn't sure if I liked him so I asked him out on a date. He said he'd really love to and has started planning our date as he \"want's to impress\" me. \n\nThe reason I'm so confused is that since I've asked him out, we've hung out twice and both times nothing happened. I am itching to hold his hand, kiss him, whatever. I don't want to push for anything, but I'm starting to feel like maybe he doesn't like me because he hasn't tried to put the moves on me at all. \n\nBasically, I'm afraid to be too pushy by kissing him first or whatever. He's from a small town, and he's mentioned that he's a little old fashioned. We've hung out a bunch. what do I do? Should I just give up?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (30/F) have been hanging with out this guy (26/M) for about a month. We met online. My profile said looking for friends, his said looking for a relationship. We had a ton in common so we began chatting. \n\nWe've hung out a lot. We hang out at least twice a week at this point. We've hugged a few times, never kissed and never held hands.\n\nI posted about this a week ago and the consensus was that dude is into me, but wasn't sure if I liked him so I asked him out on a date. He said he'd really love to and has started planning our date as he \"want's to impress\" me. \n\nThe reason I'm so confused is that since I've asked him out, we've hung out twice and both times nothing happened. I am itching to hold his hand, kiss him, whatever. I don't want to push for anything, but I'm starting to feel like maybe he doesn't like me because he hasn't tried to put the moves on me at all. \n\nBasically, I'm afraid to be too pushy by kissing him first or whatever. He's from a small town, and he's mentioned that he's a little old fashioned. We've hung out a bunch. what do I do? Should I just give up?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (30/F) have been hanging with out this guy (26/M) for about a month. We met online. My profile said looking for friends, his said looking for a relationship. We had a ton in common so we began chatting. \n\nWe've hung out a lot. We hang out at least twice a week at this point. We've hugged a few times, never kissed and never held hands.\n\nI posted about this a week ago and the consensus was that dude is into me, but wasn't sure if I liked him so I asked him out on a date. He said he'd really love to and has started planning our date as he \"want's to impress\" me. \n\nThe reason I'm so confused is that since I've asked him out, we've hung out twice and both times nothing happened. I am itching to hold his hand, kiss him, whatever. I don't want to push for anything, but I'm starting to feel like maybe he doesn't like me because he hasn't tried to put the moves on me at all. \n\nBasically, I'm afraid to be too pushy by kissing him first or whatever. He's from a small town, and he's mentioned that he's a little old fashioned. We've hung out a bunch. what do I do? Should I just give up?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (30/F) have been hanging with out this guy (26/M) for about a month. We met online. My profile said looking for friends, his said looking for a relationship. We had a ton in common so we began chatting. \n\nWe've hung out a lot. We hang out at least twice a week at this point. We've hugged a few times, never kissed and never held hands.\n\nI posted about this a week ago and the consensus was that dude is into me, but wasn't sure if I liked him so I asked him out on a date. He said he'd really love to and has started planning our date as he \"want's to impress\" me. \n\nThe reason I'm so confused is that since I've asked him out, we've hung out twice and both times nothing happened. I am itching to hold his hand, kiss him, whatever. I don't want to push for anything, but I'm starting to feel like maybe he doesn't like me because he hasn't tried to put the moves on me at all. \n\nBasically, I'm afraid to be too pushy by kissing him first or whatever. He's from a small town, and he's mentioned that he's a little old fashioned. We've hung out a bunch. what do I do? Should I just give up?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (30/F) have been hanging with out this guy (26/M) for about a month. We met online. My profile said looking for friends, his said looking for a relationship. We had a ton in common so we began chatting. \n\nWe've hung out a lot. We hang out at least twice a week at this point. We've hugged a few times, never kissed and never held hands.\n\nI posted about this a week ago and the consensus was that dude is into me, but wasn't sure if I liked him so I asked him out on a date. He said he'd really love to and has started planning our date as he \"want's to impress\" me. \n\nThe reason I'm so confused is that since I've asked him out, we've hung out twice and both times nothing happened. I am itching to hold his hand, kiss him, whatever. I don't want to push for anything, but I'm starting to feel like maybe he doesn't like me because he hasn't tried to put the moves on me at all. \n\nBasically, I'm afraid to be too pushy by kissing him first or whatever. He's from a small town, and he's mentioned that he's a little old fashioned. We've hung out a bunch. what do I do? Should I just give up?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have 2 relationship questions, if that's not too greedy!\n\n1) So I a blind date and we hit it off, so we're going to meet up again. While planning this, he said he'd meet me at my house, I guess so we can walk to dinner together.\n\nWeird? I can't imagine just telling someone I'll meet them at their house, though mine is admittedly conveniently located. Am I being too territorial? I feel claustrophobic, but was looking forward to it until then.\n\n- possibly related, or I'd put it in a separate thread:\n\n2) Recently (on separate occasions) I also met a couple of other, mildly spectrum-y guys that I immediately felt comfortable with. I have a lot of aspie-like traits (possibly due to unresolved trama issues rather than actual AS, if that matters - though most likely some combination), to an extent that has contributed to the demise of romantic relationships. Kind of interestingly, I met one of these guys immediately before being hit on by a super nice and handsome socially competent guy - who conversely made me want to flee. \n\nBasically it got me thinking. being kind of closed off myself, maybe I should be dating similar people. I'm afraid I'm just going to implode anything that I get into with a more feelings-displaying kind of person (like Exhibit A, above). Or am I just going for whatever is easier? But will I ever really be able to relax with someone that expects me to be more open? Or should I be challenging myself to share more emotions?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have 2 relationship questions, if that's not too greedy!\n\n1) So I a blind date and we hit it off, so we're going to meet up again. While planning this, he said he'd meet me at my house, I guess so we can walk to dinner together.\n\nWeird? I can't imagine just telling someone I'll meet them at their house, though mine is admittedly conveniently located. Am I being too territorial? I feel claustrophobic, but was looking forward to it until then.\n\n- possibly related, or I'd put it in a separate thread:\n\n2) Recently (on separate occasions) I also met a couple of other, mildly spectrum-y guys that I immediately felt comfortable with. I have a lot of aspie-like traits (possibly due to unresolved trama issues rather than actual AS, if that matters - though most likely some combination), to an extent that has contributed to the demise of romantic relationships. Kind of interestingly, I met one of these guys immediately before being hit on by a super nice and handsome socially competent guy - who conversely made me want to flee. \n\nBasically it got me thinking. being kind of closed off myself, maybe I should be dating similar people. I'm afraid I'm just going to implode anything that I get into with a more feelings-displaying kind of person (like Exhibit A, above). Or am I just going for whatever is easier? But will I ever really be able to relax with someone that expects me to be more open? Or should I be challenging myself to share more emotions?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have 2 relationship questions, if that's not too greedy!\n\n1) So I a blind date and we hit it off, so we're going to meet up again. While planning this, he said he'd meet me at my house, I guess so we can walk to dinner together.\n\nWeird? I can't imagine just telling someone I'll meet them at their house, though mine is admittedly conveniently located. Am I being too territorial? I feel claustrophobic, but was looking forward to it until then.\n\n- possibly related, or I'd put it in a separate thread:\n\n2) Recently (on separate occasions) I also met a couple of other, mildly spectrum-y guys that I immediately felt comfortable with. I have a lot of aspie-like traits (possibly due to unresolved trama issues rather than actual AS, if that matters - though most likely some combination), to an extent that has contributed to the demise of romantic relationships. Kind of interestingly, I met one of these guys immediately before being hit on by a super nice and handsome socially competent guy - who conversely made me want to flee. \n\nBasically it got me thinking. being kind of closed off myself, maybe I should be dating similar people. I'm afraid I'm just going to implode anything that I get into with a more feelings-displaying kind of person (like Exhibit A, above). Or am I just going for whatever is easier? But will I ever really be able to relax with someone that expects me to be more open? Or should I be challenging myself to share more emotions?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have 2 relationship questions, if that's not too greedy!\n\n1) So I a blind date and we hit it off, so we're going to meet up again. While planning this, he said he'd meet me at my house, I guess so we can walk to dinner together.\n\nWeird? I can't imagine just telling someone I'll meet them at their house, though mine is admittedly conveniently located. Am I being too territorial? I feel claustrophobic, but was looking forward to it until then.\n\n- possibly related, or I'd put it in a separate thread:\n\n2) Recently (on separate occasions) I also met a couple of other, mildly spectrum-y guys that I immediately felt comfortable with. I have a lot of aspie-like traits (possibly due to unresolved trama issues rather than actual AS, if that matters - though most likely some combination), to an extent that has contributed to the demise of romantic relationships. Kind of interestingly, I met one of these guys immediately before being hit on by a super nice and handsome socially competent guy - who conversely made me want to flee. \n\nBasically it got me thinking. being kind of closed off myself, maybe I should be dating similar people. I'm afraid I'm just going to implode anything that I get into with a more feelings-displaying kind of person (like Exhibit A, above). Or am I just going for whatever is easier? But will I ever really be able to relax with someone that expects me to be more open? Or should I be challenging myself to share more emotions?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have 2 relationship questions, if that's not too greedy!\n\n1) So I a blind date and we hit it off, so we're going to meet up again. While planning this, he said he'd meet me at my house, I guess so we can walk to dinner together.\n\nWeird? I can't imagine just telling someone I'll meet them at their house, though mine is admittedly conveniently located. Am I being too territorial? I feel claustrophobic, but was looking forward to it until then.\n\n- possibly related, or I'd put it in a separate thread:\n\n2) Recently (on separate occasions) I also met a couple of other, mildly spectrum-y guys that I immediately felt comfortable with. I have a lot of aspie-like traits (possibly due to unresolved trama issues rather than actual AS, if that matters - though most likely some combination), to an extent that has contributed to the demise of romantic relationships. Kind of interestingly, I met one of these guys immediately before being hit on by a super nice and handsome socially competent guy - who conversely made me want to flee. \n\nBasically it got me thinking. being kind of closed off myself, maybe I should be dating similar people. I'm afraid I'm just going to implode anything that I get into with a more feelings-displaying kind of person (like Exhibit A, above). Or am I just going for whatever is easier? But will I ever really be able to relax with someone that expects me to be more open? Or should I be challenging myself to share more emotions?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have 2 relationship questions, if that's not too greedy!\n\n1) So I a blind date and we hit it off, so we're going to meet up again. While planning this, he said he'd meet me at my house, I guess so we can walk to dinner together.\n\nWeird? I can't imagine just telling someone I'll meet them at their house, though mine is admittedly conveniently located. Am I being too territorial? I feel claustrophobic, but was looking forward to it until then.\n\n- possibly related, or I'd put it in a separate thread:\n\n2) Recently (on separate occasions) I also met a couple of other, mildly spectrum-y guys that I immediately felt comfortable with. I have a lot of aspie-like traits (possibly due to unresolved trama issues rather than actual AS, if that matters - though most likely some combination), to an extent that has contributed to the demise of romantic relationships. Kind of interestingly, I met one of these guys immediately before being hit on by a super nice and handsome socially competent guy - who conversely made me want to flee. \n\nBasically it got me thinking. being kind of closed off myself, maybe I should be dating similar people. I'm afraid I'm just going to implode anything that I get into with a more feelings-displaying kind of person (like Exhibit A, above). Or am I just going for whatever is easier? But will I ever really be able to relax with someone that expects me to be more open? Or should I be challenging myself to share more emotions?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I think it's odd how men and women look at sex so differently. Most men are pretty open about it, while most women are not. Another way men and women are different is our approach to how we deal with our own emotions. Women are taught to be vocal about how they feel, while men are taught to repress it, because we're subconsciously trying to preserve out masculinity and consequently give ourselves an illusion of invulnerability. So my question is: Do women repress their sexuality to subconsciously preserve their femininity and consequently make it seem like they have the shit-end of the stick when it come to interacting with the opposite sex? (I know, sounds dirty given the context)\n\nThe reason I ask this is because I've noticed that the stereotype of emotionless men, despite a small kernel of truth to it, is ultimately false. Maybe the same thing applies to the stereotype of prudish women?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I think it's odd how men and women look at sex so differently. Most men are pretty open about it, while most women are not. Another way men and women are different is our approach to how we deal with our own emotions. Women are taught to be vocal about how they feel, while men are taught to repress it, because we're subconsciously trying to preserve out masculinity and consequently give ourselves an illusion of invulnerability. So my question is: Do women repress their sexuality to subconsciously preserve their femininity and consequently make it seem like they have the shit-end of the stick when it come to interacting with the opposite sex? (I know, sounds dirty given the context)\n\nThe reason I ask this is because I've noticed that the stereotype of emotionless men, despite a small kernel of truth to it, is ultimately false. Maybe the same thing applies to the stereotype of prudish women?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I think it's odd how men and women look at sex so differently. Most men are pretty open about it, while most women are not. Another way men and women are different is our approach to how we deal with our own emotions. Women are taught to be vocal about how they feel, while men are taught to repress it, because we're subconsciously trying to preserve out masculinity and consequently give ourselves an illusion of invulnerability. So my question is: Do women repress their sexuality to subconsciously preserve their femininity and consequently make it seem like they have the shit-end of the stick when it come to interacting with the opposite sex? (I know, sounds dirty given the context)\n\nThe reason I ask this is because I've noticed that the stereotype of emotionless men, despite a small kernel of truth to it, is ultimately false. Maybe the same thing applies to the stereotype of prudish women?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I think it's odd how men and women look at sex so differently. Most men are pretty open about it, while most women are not. Another way men and women are different is our approach to how we deal with our own emotions. Women are taught to be vocal about how they feel, while men are taught to repress it, because we're subconsciously trying to preserve out masculinity and consequently give ourselves an illusion of invulnerability. So my question is: Do women repress their sexuality to subconsciously preserve their femininity and consequently make it seem like they have the shit-end of the stick when it come to interacting with the opposite sex? (I know, sounds dirty given the context)\n\nThe reason I ask this is because I've noticed that the stereotype of emotionless men, despite a small kernel of truth to it, is ultimately false. Maybe the same thing applies to the stereotype of prudish women?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I think it's odd how men and women look at sex so differently. Most men are pretty open about it, while most women are not. Another way men and women are different is our approach to how we deal with our own emotions. Women are taught to be vocal about how they feel, while men are taught to repress it, because we're subconsciously trying to preserve out masculinity and consequently give ourselves an illusion of invulnerability. So my question is: Do women repress their sexuality to subconsciously preserve their femininity and consequently make it seem like they have the shit-end of the stick when it come to interacting with the opposite sex? (I know, sounds dirty given the context)\n\nThe reason I ask this is because I've noticed that the stereotype of emotionless men, despite a small kernel of truth to it, is ultimately false. Maybe the same thing applies to the stereotype of prudish women?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I think it's odd how men and women look at sex so differently. Most men are pretty open about it, while most women are not. Another way men and women are different is our approach to how we deal with our own emotions. Women are taught to be vocal about how they feel, while men are taught to repress it, because we're subconsciously trying to preserve out masculinity and consequently give ourselves an illusion of invulnerability. So my question is: Do women repress their sexuality to subconsciously preserve their femininity and consequently make it seem like they have the shit-end of the stick when it come to interacting with the opposite sex? (I know, sounds dirty given the context)\n\nThe reason I ask this is because I've noticed that the stereotype of emotionless men, despite a small kernel of truth to it, is ultimately false. Maybe the same thing applies to the stereotype of prudish women?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So recently I have been hanging out with a good friend of mine whom I met this year. When I first met him I thought he was pretty strange and a bit dorky. Now that I have gotten to know him, I am in love with his personality and I trust him more than pretty much anyone else here, I just don't know how I feel about his looks. I don't think I'm being shallow, I just want that attraction. He is pretty cute though.\n\nHe is single and I would love to ask him out, just to see if it's what I really want, but I don't want to risk anything." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So recently I have been hanging out with a good friend of mine whom I met this year. When I first met him I thought he was pretty strange and a bit dorky. Now that I have gotten to know him, I am in love with his personality and I trust him more than pretty much anyone else here, I just don't know how I feel about his looks. I don't think I'm being shallow, I just want that attraction. He is pretty cute though.\n\nHe is single and I would love to ask him out, just to see if it's what I really want, but I don't want to risk anything." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So recently I have been hanging out with a good friend of mine whom I met this year. When I first met him I thought he was pretty strange and a bit dorky. Now that I have gotten to know him, I am in love with his personality and I trust him more than pretty much anyone else here, I just don't know how I feel about his looks. I don't think I'm being shallow, I just want that attraction. He is pretty cute though.\n\nHe is single and I would love to ask him out, just to see if it's what I really want, but I don't want to risk anything." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So recently I have been hanging out with a good friend of mine whom I met this year. When I first met him I thought he was pretty strange and a bit dorky. Now that I have gotten to know him, I am in love with his personality and I trust him more than pretty much anyone else here, I just don't know how I feel about his looks. I don't think I'm being shallow, I just want that attraction. He is pretty cute though.\n\nHe is single and I would love to ask him out, just to see if it's what I really want, but I don't want to risk anything." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So recently I have been hanging out with a good friend of mine whom I met this year. When I first met him I thought he was pretty strange and a bit dorky. Now that I have gotten to know him, I am in love with his personality and I trust him more than pretty much anyone else here, I just don't know how I feel about his looks. I don't think I'm being shallow, I just want that attraction. He is pretty cute though.\n\nHe is single and I would love to ask him out, just to see if it's what I really want, but I don't want to risk anything." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met a guy through a friend, and we've hung out in a big group a few times. We get along swimmingly; We're both obsessed with Joseph Gordon-Levitt, love Mad Men, and laugh at girls feeding seagulls because it reminds us of the beginning of Jurassic Park, to name a few things, and we're both into the exact same music, AND, the winner, we're both Redditors. Only thing is, he is really cool (I feel like a sixth grader) and I am not great at getting to know people. I'd ask our mutual friend but I don't want her to think I'm using her to get to him, which people have done before. So reddit, what are ways you get to know someone better when you feel like you have chemistry without being annoying or creepy?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met a guy through a friend, and we've hung out in a big group a few times. We get along swimmingly; We're both obsessed with Joseph Gordon-Levitt, love Mad Men, and laugh at girls feeding seagulls because it reminds us of the beginning of Jurassic Park, to name a few things, and we're both into the exact same music, AND, the winner, we're both Redditors. Only thing is, he is really cool (I feel like a sixth grader) and I am not great at getting to know people. I'd ask our mutual friend but I don't want her to think I'm using her to get to him, which people have done before. So reddit, what are ways you get to know someone better when you feel like you have chemistry without being annoying or creepy?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met a guy through a friend, and we've hung out in a big group a few times. We get along swimmingly; We're both obsessed with Joseph Gordon-Levitt, love Mad Men, and laugh at girls feeding seagulls because it reminds us of the beginning of Jurassic Park, to name a few things, and we're both into the exact same music, AND, the winner, we're both Redditors. Only thing is, he is really cool (I feel like a sixth grader) and I am not great at getting to know people. I'd ask our mutual friend but I don't want her to think I'm using her to get to him, which people have done before. So reddit, what are ways you get to know someone better when you feel like you have chemistry without being annoying or creepy?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met a guy through a friend, and we've hung out in a big group a few times. We get along swimmingly; We're both obsessed with Joseph Gordon-Levitt, love Mad Men, and laugh at girls feeding seagulls because it reminds us of the beginning of Jurassic Park, to name a few things, and we're both into the exact same music, AND, the winner, we're both Redditors. Only thing is, he is really cool (I feel like a sixth grader) and I am not great at getting to know people. I'd ask our mutual friend but I don't want her to think I'm using her to get to him, which people have done before. So reddit, what are ways you get to know someone better when you feel like you have chemistry without being annoying or creepy?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met a guy through a friend, and we've hung out in a big group a few times. We get along swimmingly; We're both obsessed with Joseph Gordon-Levitt, love Mad Men, and laugh at girls feeding seagulls because it reminds us of the beginning of Jurassic Park, to name a few things, and we're both into the exact same music, AND, the winner, we're both Redditors. Only thing is, he is really cool (I feel like a sixth grader) and I am not great at getting to know people. I'd ask our mutual friend but I don't want her to think I'm using her to get to him, which people have done before. So reddit, what are ways you get to know someone better when you feel like you have chemistry without being annoying or creepy?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met a guy through a friend, and we've hung out in a big group a few times. We get along swimmingly; We're both obsessed with Joseph Gordon-Levitt, love Mad Men, and laugh at girls feeding seagulls because it reminds us of the beginning of Jurassic Park, to name a few things, and we're both into the exact same music, AND, the winner, we're both Redditors. Only thing is, he is really cool (I feel like a sixth grader) and I am not great at getting to know people. I'd ask our mutual friend but I don't want her to think I'm using her to get to him, which people have done before. So reddit, what are ways you get to know someone better when you feel like you have chemistry without being annoying or creepy?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all,\n\nSo basically I have been struggling to find girls to even talk to lately, but have finally succeeded. I have been somewhat acquainted with this girl for a while, but we'd only ever talked like once briefly. Than last weekend, we were at a party together and just started talking for a while. We have been snapchatting all the time since than, and I actually think I like her a lot. We already have a couple of like inside jokes or things we always bring up, and just enjoy talking to each other a lot. But I am wondering how I can start talking to her in person more. We go to the same school, but have 0 classes together. I just want to have some more good in-person convos with her before I ask her to hangout (Good decision, right?)\n\nSo anyway, how do I do this? When/How should I talk to her?\n\nAll help appreciated! Thanks!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all,\n\nSo basically I have been struggling to find girls to even talk to lately, but have finally succeeded. I have been somewhat acquainted with this girl for a while, but we'd only ever talked like once briefly. Than last weekend, we were at a party together and just started talking for a while. We have been snapchatting all the time since than, and I actually think I like her a lot. We already have a couple of like inside jokes or things we always bring up, and just enjoy talking to each other a lot. But I am wondering how I can start talking to her in person more. We go to the same school, but have 0 classes together. I just want to have some more good in-person convos with her before I ask her to hangout (Good decision, right?)\n\nSo anyway, how do I do this? When/How should I talk to her?\n\nAll help appreciated! Thanks!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all,\n\nSo basically I have been struggling to find girls to even talk to lately, but have finally succeeded. I have been somewhat acquainted with this girl for a while, but we'd only ever talked like once briefly. Than last weekend, we were at a party together and just started talking for a while. We have been snapchatting all the time since than, and I actually think I like her a lot. We already have a couple of like inside jokes or things we always bring up, and just enjoy talking to each other a lot. But I am wondering how I can start talking to her in person more. We go to the same school, but have 0 classes together. I just want to have some more good in-person convos with her before I ask her to hangout (Good decision, right?)\n\nSo anyway, how do I do this? When/How should I talk to her?\n\nAll help appreciated! Thanks!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all,\n\nSo basically I have been struggling to find girls to even talk to lately, but have finally succeeded. I have been somewhat acquainted with this girl for a while, but we'd only ever talked like once briefly. Than last weekend, we were at a party together and just started talking for a while. We have been snapchatting all the time since than, and I actually think I like her a lot. We already have a couple of like inside jokes or things we always bring up, and just enjoy talking to each other a lot. But I am wondering how I can start talking to her in person more. We go to the same school, but have 0 classes together. I just want to have some more good in-person convos with her before I ask her to hangout (Good decision, right?)\n\nSo anyway, how do I do this? When/How should I talk to her?\n\nAll help appreciated! Thanks!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all,\n\nSo basically I have been struggling to find girls to even talk to lately, but have finally succeeded. I have been somewhat acquainted with this girl for a while, but we'd only ever talked like once briefly. Than last weekend, we were at a party together and just started talking for a while. We have been snapchatting all the time since than, and I actually think I like her a lot. We already have a couple of like inside jokes or things we always bring up, and just enjoy talking to each other a lot. But I am wondering how I can start talking to her in person more. We go to the same school, but have 0 classes together. I just want to have some more good in-person convos with her before I ask her to hangout (Good decision, right?)\n\nSo anyway, how do I do this? When/How should I talk to her?\n\nAll help appreciated! Thanks!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all,\n\nSo basically I have been struggling to find girls to even talk to lately, but have finally succeeded. I have been somewhat acquainted with this girl for a while, but we'd only ever talked like once briefly. Than last weekend, we were at a party together and just started talking for a while. We have been snapchatting all the time since than, and I actually think I like her a lot. We already have a couple of like inside jokes or things we always bring up, and just enjoy talking to each other a lot. But I am wondering how I can start talking to her in person more. We go to the same school, but have 0 classes together. I just want to have some more good in-person convos with her before I ask her to hangout (Good decision, right?)\n\nSo anyway, how do I do this? When/How should I talk to her?\n\nAll help appreciated! Thanks!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So here's the deal, when I was around eight years old, I was sitting in the back of my mother's minivan. It was night time and I could clearly see the reflection of my face in the window as the street lights passed. As it would happen, one passed by, only this time it was clearly not my reflection, but that of creature that I still remember vividly. It's skin was wrinkled and light brown, (imagine a brown paper bag that had been wrinkled and flattened many times, until it was soft) it's \"eye sockets\" were elongated diamond shaped slits, completely void of any matter, as were it's \"nostril\" slits, and its black slit of a \"mouth\", atop it's head was a small tufft of feathery orangi-sh red \"hair\".\n\nI leaped to the passenger seat, crying and terrified. My mother coddled me, but at this point I think she chucked it all up to an overactive imagination.\n\nThis event lead to about eleven terror-stricken years of similar incidents. I become an insomniac, too afraid to close my eyes at night, went through a bout of unexplained illness that put me in the hospital for two weeks, and the worst part of it all was there was absolutely no explanation for any of it. I was completely sound minded, normal, happy, and totally healthy.\n\nI have done some research, and I would have assumed Night Terrors was what this might have been, but in almost every incident, like the first, I was completely awake." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So here's the deal, when I was around eight years old, I was sitting in the back of my mother's minivan. It was night time and I could clearly see the reflection of my face in the window as the street lights passed. As it would happen, one passed by, only this time it was clearly not my reflection, but that of creature that I still remember vividly. It's skin was wrinkled and light brown, (imagine a brown paper bag that had been wrinkled and flattened many times, until it was soft) it's \"eye sockets\" were elongated diamond shaped slits, completely void of any matter, as were it's \"nostril\" slits, and its black slit of a \"mouth\", atop it's head was a small tufft of feathery orangi-sh red \"hair\".\n\nI leaped to the passenger seat, crying and terrified. My mother coddled me, but at this point I think she chucked it all up to an overactive imagination.\n\nThis event lead to about eleven terror-stricken years of similar incidents. I become an insomniac, too afraid to close my eyes at night, went through a bout of unexplained illness that put me in the hospital for two weeks, and the worst part of it all was there was absolutely no explanation for any of it. I was completely sound minded, normal, happy, and totally healthy.\n\nI have done some research, and I would have assumed Night Terrors was what this might have been, but in almost every incident, like the first, I was completely awake." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So here's the deal, when I was around eight years old, I was sitting in the back of my mother's minivan. It was night time and I could clearly see the reflection of my face in the window as the street lights passed. As it would happen, one passed by, only this time it was clearly not my reflection, but that of creature that I still remember vividly. It's skin was wrinkled and light brown, (imagine a brown paper bag that had been wrinkled and flattened many times, until it was soft) it's \"eye sockets\" were elongated diamond shaped slits, completely void of any matter, as were it's \"nostril\" slits, and its black slit of a \"mouth\", atop it's head was a small tufft of feathery orangi-sh red \"hair\".\n\nI leaped to the passenger seat, crying and terrified. My mother coddled me, but at this point I think she chucked it all up to an overactive imagination.\n\nThis event lead to about eleven terror-stricken years of similar incidents. I become an insomniac, too afraid to close my eyes at night, went through a bout of unexplained illness that put me in the hospital for two weeks, and the worst part of it all was there was absolutely no explanation for any of it. I was completely sound minded, normal, happy, and totally healthy.\n\nI have done some research, and I would have assumed Night Terrors was what this might have been, but in almost every incident, like the first, I was completely awake." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So here's the deal, when I was around eight years old, I was sitting in the back of my mother's minivan. It was night time and I could clearly see the reflection of my face in the window as the street lights passed. As it would happen, one passed by, only this time it was clearly not my reflection, but that of creature that I still remember vividly. It's skin was wrinkled and light brown, (imagine a brown paper bag that had been wrinkled and flattened many times, until it was soft) it's \"eye sockets\" were elongated diamond shaped slits, completely void of any matter, as were it's \"nostril\" slits, and its black slit of a \"mouth\", atop it's head was a small tufft of feathery orangi-sh red \"hair\".\n\nI leaped to the passenger seat, crying and terrified. My mother coddled me, but at this point I think she chucked it all up to an overactive imagination.\n\nThis event lead to about eleven terror-stricken years of similar incidents. I become an insomniac, too afraid to close my eyes at night, went through a bout of unexplained illness that put me in the hospital for two weeks, and the worst part of it all was there was absolutely no explanation for any of it. I was completely sound minded, normal, happy, and totally healthy.\n\nI have done some research, and I would have assumed Night Terrors was what this might have been, but in almost every incident, like the first, I was completely awake." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So here's the deal, when I was around eight years old, I was sitting in the back of my mother's minivan. It was night time and I could clearly see the reflection of my face in the window as the street lights passed. As it would happen, one passed by, only this time it was clearly not my reflection, but that of creature that I still remember vividly. It's skin was wrinkled and light brown, (imagine a brown paper bag that had been wrinkled and flattened many times, until it was soft) it's \"eye sockets\" were elongated diamond shaped slits, completely void of any matter, as were it's \"nostril\" slits, and its black slit of a \"mouth\", atop it's head was a small tufft of feathery orangi-sh red \"hair\".\n\nI leaped to the passenger seat, crying and terrified. My mother coddled me, but at this point I think she chucked it all up to an overactive imagination.\n\nThis event lead to about eleven terror-stricken years of similar incidents. I become an insomniac, too afraid to close my eyes at night, went through a bout of unexplained illness that put me in the hospital for two weeks, and the worst part of it all was there was absolutely no explanation for any of it. I was completely sound minded, normal, happy, and totally healthy.\n\nI have done some research, and I would have assumed Night Terrors was what this might have been, but in almost every incident, like the first, I was completely awake." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So here's the deal, when I was around eight years old, I was sitting in the back of my mother's minivan. It was night time and I could clearly see the reflection of my face in the window as the street lights passed. As it would happen, one passed by, only this time it was clearly not my reflection, but that of creature that I still remember vividly. It's skin was wrinkled and light brown, (imagine a brown paper bag that had been wrinkled and flattened many times, until it was soft) it's \"eye sockets\" were elongated diamond shaped slits, completely void of any matter, as were it's \"nostril\" slits, and its black slit of a \"mouth\", atop it's head was a small tufft of feathery orangi-sh red \"hair\".\n\nI leaped to the passenger seat, crying and terrified. My mother coddled me, but at this point I think she chucked it all up to an overactive imagination.\n\nThis event lead to about eleven terror-stricken years of similar incidents. I become an insomniac, too afraid to close my eyes at night, went through a bout of unexplained illness that put me in the hospital for two weeks, and the worst part of it all was there was absolutely no explanation for any of it. I was completely sound minded, normal, happy, and totally healthy.\n\nI have done some research, and I would have assumed Night Terrors was what this might have been, but in almost every incident, like the first, I was completely awake." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not necessarily sure what I'm asking for help with, but the story goes something like this:\nI [18/m] started talking to this girl [18/f] about six days ago. We had a few good conversations, and we went to an open mic night as sort of a date (she's an art major, so she likes that kind of stuff). We came back to my room and had sex sort of spur of the moment. We have had sex several more times over the past few days, and she thinks we have a relationship going. I'm not sure that I want a relationship, even though I may have said that I did when we first started talking. I have been in a semi-depressed place lately, my grandma died recently, and my cheating ex and I recently broke up. I was emotionally vulnerable, and I made a bad choice, sex when not necessarily interested in something long term, in order to make myself feel better. Now that it has happened, I really don't want to continue it, but I also don't want to be that guy. \nI guess I'm really just asking for some analysis, and asking for advice on what to do. But then again I might be looking at this wrong, so I welcome your thoughts and opinions. And of course, if you need more info, just ask. Thank you /r/relationship_advice!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not necessarily sure what I'm asking for help with, but the story goes something like this:\nI [18/m] started talking to this girl [18/f] about six days ago. We had a few good conversations, and we went to an open mic night as sort of a date (she's an art major, so she likes that kind of stuff). We came back to my room and had sex sort of spur of the moment. We have had sex several more times over the past few days, and she thinks we have a relationship going. I'm not sure that I want a relationship, even though I may have said that I did when we first started talking. I have been in a semi-depressed place lately, my grandma died recently, and my cheating ex and I recently broke up. I was emotionally vulnerable, and I made a bad choice, sex when not necessarily interested in something long term, in order to make myself feel better. Now that it has happened, I really don't want to continue it, but I also don't want to be that guy. \nI guess I'm really just asking for some analysis, and asking for advice on what to do. But then again I might be looking at this wrong, so I welcome your thoughts and opinions. And of course, if you need more info, just ask. Thank you /r/relationship_advice!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not necessarily sure what I'm asking for help with, but the story goes something like this:\nI [18/m] started talking to this girl [18/f] about six days ago. We had a few good conversations, and we went to an open mic night as sort of a date (she's an art major, so she likes that kind of stuff). We came back to my room and had sex sort of spur of the moment. We have had sex several more times over the past few days, and she thinks we have a relationship going. I'm not sure that I want a relationship, even though I may have said that I did when we first started talking. I have been in a semi-depressed place lately, my grandma died recently, and my cheating ex and I recently broke up. I was emotionally vulnerable, and I made a bad choice, sex when not necessarily interested in something long term, in order to make myself feel better. Now that it has happened, I really don't want to continue it, but I also don't want to be that guy. \nI guess I'm really just asking for some analysis, and asking for advice on what to do. But then again I might be looking at this wrong, so I welcome your thoughts and opinions. And of course, if you need more info, just ask. Thank you /r/relationship_advice!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not necessarily sure what I'm asking for help with, but the story goes something like this:\nI [18/m] started talking to this girl [18/f] about six days ago. We had a few good conversations, and we went to an open mic night as sort of a date (she's an art major, so she likes that kind of stuff). We came back to my room and had sex sort of spur of the moment. We have had sex several more times over the past few days, and she thinks we have a relationship going. I'm not sure that I want a relationship, even though I may have said that I did when we first started talking. I have been in a semi-depressed place lately, my grandma died recently, and my cheating ex and I recently broke up. I was emotionally vulnerable, and I made a bad choice, sex when not necessarily interested in something long term, in order to make myself feel better. Now that it has happened, I really don't want to continue it, but I also don't want to be that guy. \nI guess I'm really just asking for some analysis, and asking for advice on what to do. But then again I might be looking at this wrong, so I welcome your thoughts and opinions. And of course, if you need more info, just ask. Thank you /r/relationship_advice!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not necessarily sure what I'm asking for help with, but the story goes something like this:\nI [18/m] started talking to this girl [18/f] about six days ago. We had a few good conversations, and we went to an open mic night as sort of a date (she's an art major, so she likes that kind of stuff). We came back to my room and had sex sort of spur of the moment. We have had sex several more times over the past few days, and she thinks we have a relationship going. I'm not sure that I want a relationship, even though I may have said that I did when we first started talking. I have been in a semi-depressed place lately, my grandma died recently, and my cheating ex and I recently broke up. I was emotionally vulnerable, and I made a bad choice, sex when not necessarily interested in something long term, in order to make myself feel better. Now that it has happened, I really don't want to continue it, but I also don't want to be that guy. \nI guess I'm really just asking for some analysis, and asking for advice on what to do. But then again I might be looking at this wrong, so I welcome your thoughts and opinions. And of course, if you need more info, just ask. Thank you /r/relationship_advice!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For about 9 months I have become close friends with a girl I met at school. We've been hanging out nearly every day for 9 months, and I've developed feelings for her. \n\nShe lives with her boyfriend, and has developed feelings for me as well. I made the choice, against my better judgement to kiss her. Last night her boyfriend called me and threatened me after he found out we kissed. \n\nI've now taken measures to remove all contact with her, despite my feelings. The issue I have is that the boyfriend has threatened me. Should I just give it time with him, or just allow the roller coaster of emotions, or be worried about this?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For about 9 months I have become close friends with a girl I met at school. We've been hanging out nearly every day for 9 months, and I've developed feelings for her. \n\nShe lives with her boyfriend, and has developed feelings for me as well. I made the choice, against my better judgement to kiss her. Last night her boyfriend called me and threatened me after he found out we kissed. \n\nI've now taken measures to remove all contact with her, despite my feelings. The issue I have is that the boyfriend has threatened me. Should I just give it time with him, or just allow the roller coaster of emotions, or be worried about this?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For about 9 months I have become close friends with a girl I met at school. We've been hanging out nearly every day for 9 months, and I've developed feelings for her. \n\nShe lives with her boyfriend, and has developed feelings for me as well. I made the choice, against my better judgement to kiss her. Last night her boyfriend called me and threatened me after he found out we kissed. \n\nI've now taken measures to remove all contact with her, despite my feelings. The issue I have is that the boyfriend has threatened me. Should I just give it time with him, or just allow the roller coaster of emotions, or be worried about this?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For about 9 months I have become close friends with a girl I met at school. We've been hanging out nearly every day for 9 months, and I've developed feelings for her. \n\nShe lives with her boyfriend, and has developed feelings for me as well. I made the choice, against my better judgement to kiss her. Last night her boyfriend called me and threatened me after he found out we kissed. \n\nI've now taken measures to remove all contact with her, despite my feelings. The issue I have is that the boyfriend has threatened me. Should I just give it time with him, or just allow the roller coaster of emotions, or be worried about this?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For about 9 months I have become close friends with a girl I met at school. We've been hanging out nearly every day for 9 months, and I've developed feelings for her. \n\nShe lives with her boyfriend, and has developed feelings for me as well. I made the choice, against my better judgement to kiss her. Last night her boyfriend called me and threatened me after he found out we kissed. \n\nI've now taken measures to remove all contact with her, despite my feelings. The issue I have is that the boyfriend has threatened me. Should I just give it time with him, or just allow the roller coaster of emotions, or be worried about this?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For about 9 months I have become close friends with a girl I met at school. We've been hanging out nearly every day for 9 months, and I've developed feelings for her. \n\nShe lives with her boyfriend, and has developed feelings for me as well. I made the choice, against my better judgement to kiss her. Last night her boyfriend called me and threatened me after he found out we kissed. \n\nI've now taken measures to remove all contact with her, despite my feelings. The issue I have is that the boyfriend has threatened me. Should I just give it time with him, or just allow the roller coaster of emotions, or be worried about this?" }