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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 35f and have two younger brothers: Y, 28, and O, 31. O is married and has a house, and Y has been living with him (paying rent) for a year. \n\nY has always been a late bloomer; he's flaky and irresponsible and changes his life plan pretty frequently. A few years ago the whole family encouraged him, pretty strongly, to join the military. He did, and from the outside it looks like it helped him a lot, but he hated it. Two years ago he was deployed, and got back about a year ago and moved in with O. \n\nWhen he got back he was depressed. He saw a therapist but said it didn't really help. He's now in college and going to bartending school and seems to be doing OK, but he's having trouble with time management (he plays a lot of video games and feels he's addicted) and school is hard and he feels like giving up. He's also not great with money and has burned through most of his savings and doesn't have a job. \n\nHe says that since he's gotten back from his deployment, he's depressed and anxious and worse at getting grownup stuff done (he calls himself a loser) but as far as I can tell, he's the same as he's always been; just now that he's older, the stakes are higher and my parents, who when he was younger would always step in and take care of anything he flaked out on, have stopped being his safety net. \n\nHow do I tell whether he needs to grow up and fix his issues, or needs professional help? So far I've told him that being an adult is hard, and it's just going to get harder, and he just needs to learn to deal with it, but I could tell that's not what he wanted to hear. I'm also pretty sure he wants me to invite him to move in with me and my husband, but I don't want to do that. \n\nMaking all of this worse is the fact that O and I both fled the nest and succeeded pretty quickly and have great lives now (with problems, but we have jobs and savings), and he compares himself to us."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 35f and have two younger brothers: Y, 28, and O, 31. O is married and has a house, and Y has been living with him (paying rent) for a year. \n\nY has always been a late bloomer; he's flaky and irresponsible and changes his life plan pretty frequently. A few years ago the whole family encouraged him, pretty strongly, to join the military. He did, and from the outside it looks like it helped him a lot, but he hated it. Two years ago he was deployed, and got back about a year ago and moved in with O. \n\nWhen he got back he was depressed. He saw a therapist but said it didn't really help. He's now in college and going to bartending school and seems to be doing OK, but he's having trouble with time management (he plays a lot of video games and feels he's addicted) and school is hard and he feels like giving up. He's also not great with money and has burned through most of his savings and doesn't have a job. \n\nHe says that since he's gotten back from his deployment, he's depressed and anxious and worse at getting grownup stuff done (he calls himself a loser) but as far as I can tell, he's the same as he's always been; just now that he's older, the stakes are higher and my parents, who when he was younger would always step in and take care of anything he flaked out on, have stopped being his safety net. \n\nHow do I tell whether he needs to grow up and fix his issues, or needs professional help? So far I've told him that being an adult is hard, and it's just going to get harder, and he just needs to learn to deal with it, but I could tell that's not what he wanted to hear. I'm also pretty sure he wants me to invite him to move in with me and my husband, but I don't want to do that. \n\nMaking all of this worse is the fact that O and I both fled the nest and succeeded pretty quickly and have great lives now (with problems, but we have jobs and savings), and he compares himself to us."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 35f and have two younger brothers: Y, 28, and O, 31. O is married and has a house, and Y has been living with him (paying rent) for a year. \n\nY has always been a late bloomer; he's flaky and irresponsible and changes his life plan pretty frequently. A few years ago the whole family encouraged him, pretty strongly, to join the military. He did, and from the outside it looks like it helped him a lot, but he hated it. Two years ago he was deployed, and got back about a year ago and moved in with O. \n\nWhen he got back he was depressed. He saw a therapist but said it didn't really help. He's now in college and going to bartending school and seems to be doing OK, but he's having trouble with time management (he plays a lot of video games and feels he's addicted) and school is hard and he feels like giving up. He's also not great with money and has burned through most of his savings and doesn't have a job. \n\nHe says that since he's gotten back from his deployment, he's depressed and anxious and worse at getting grownup stuff done (he calls himself a loser) but as far as I can tell, he's the same as he's always been; just now that he's older, the stakes are higher and my parents, who when he was younger would always step in and take care of anything he flaked out on, have stopped being his safety net. \n\nHow do I tell whether he needs to grow up and fix his issues, or needs professional help? So far I've told him that being an adult is hard, and it's just going to get harder, and he just needs to learn to deal with it, but I could tell that's not what he wanted to hear. I'm also pretty sure he wants me to invite him to move in with me and my husband, but I don't want to do that. \n\nMaking all of this worse is the fact that O and I both fled the nest and succeeded pretty quickly and have great lives now (with problems, but we have jobs and savings), and he compares himself to us."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 35f and have two younger brothers: Y, 28, and O, 31. O is married and has a house, and Y has been living with him (paying rent) for a year. \n\nY has always been a late bloomer; he's flaky and irresponsible and changes his life plan pretty frequently. A few years ago the whole family encouraged him, pretty strongly, to join the military. He did, and from the outside it looks like it helped him a lot, but he hated it. Two years ago he was deployed, and got back about a year ago and moved in with O. \n\nWhen he got back he was depressed. He saw a therapist but said it didn't really help. He's now in college and going to bartending school and seems to be doing OK, but he's having trouble with time management (he plays a lot of video games and feels he's addicted) and school is hard and he feels like giving up. He's also not great with money and has burned through most of his savings and doesn't have a job. \n\nHe says that since he's gotten back from his deployment, he's depressed and anxious and worse at getting grownup stuff done (he calls himself a loser) but as far as I can tell, he's the same as he's always been; just now that he's older, the stakes are higher and my parents, who when he was younger would always step in and take care of anything he flaked out on, have stopped being his safety net. \n\nHow do I tell whether he needs to grow up and fix his issues, or needs professional help? So far I've told him that being an adult is hard, and it's just going to get harder, and he just needs to learn to deal with it, but I could tell that's not what he wanted to hear. I'm also pretty sure he wants me to invite him to move in with me and my husband, but I don't want to do that. \n\nMaking all of this worse is the fact that O and I both fled the nest and succeeded pretty quickly and have great lives now (with problems, but we have jobs and savings), and he compares himself to us."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 35f and have two younger brothers: Y, 28, and O, 31. O is married and has a house, and Y has been living with him (paying rent) for a year. \n\nY has always been a late bloomer; he's flaky and irresponsible and changes his life plan pretty frequently. A few years ago the whole family encouraged him, pretty strongly, to join the military. He did, and from the outside it looks like it helped him a lot, but he hated it. Two years ago he was deployed, and got back about a year ago and moved in with O. \n\nWhen he got back he was depressed. He saw a therapist but said it didn't really help. He's now in college and going to bartending school and seems to be doing OK, but he's having trouble with time management (he plays a lot of video games and feels he's addicted) and school is hard and he feels like giving up. He's also not great with money and has burned through most of his savings and doesn't have a job. \n\nHe says that since he's gotten back from his deployment, he's depressed and anxious and worse at getting grownup stuff done (he calls himself a loser) but as far as I can tell, he's the same as he's always been; just now that he's older, the stakes are higher and my parents, who when he was younger would always step in and take care of anything he flaked out on, have stopped being his safety net. \n\nHow do I tell whether he needs to grow up and fix his issues, or needs professional help? So far I've told him that being an adult is hard, and it's just going to get harder, and he just needs to learn to deal with it, but I could tell that's not what he wanted to hear. I'm also pretty sure he wants me to invite him to move in with me and my husband, but I don't want to do that. \n\nMaking all of this worse is the fact that O and I both fled the nest and succeeded pretty quickly and have great lives now (with problems, but we have jobs and savings), and he compares himself to us."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit, I just recently ruined a close relationship with 2 close friends and Im very lost in what to do. The girl and me had been friends for a couple months, I met her as she broke up with my other friend (A guy) and we became very close. We told each other everything and we always were strictly friendzone because we lived 5 hours away and neither of us ever tried to make it work. Fast forward to this past few days I was in her town for a sporting event and we spent the entire weekend together, and surely enough that magic moment happened and we kissed and eventually a bit further. My other friend (her ex) was also in town for the event and he said it didn't matter if I hung with her but after my hookup with her he found out through a friend and now he hates me for what happened, and she hates me because I promised it was between me and her but I had to tell him because I couldn't live a lie between 2 people."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit, I just recently ruined a close relationship with 2 close friends and Im very lost in what to do. The girl and me had been friends for a couple months, I met her as she broke up with my other friend (A guy) and we became very close. We told each other everything and we always were strictly friendzone because we lived 5 hours away and neither of us ever tried to make it work. Fast forward to this past few days I was in her town for a sporting event and we spent the entire weekend together, and surely enough that magic moment happened and we kissed and eventually a bit further. My other friend (her ex) was also in town for the event and he said it didn't matter if I hung with her but after my hookup with her he found out through a friend and now he hates me for what happened, and she hates me because I promised it was between me and her but I had to tell him because I couldn't live a lie between 2 people."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit, I just recently ruined a close relationship with 2 close friends and Im very lost in what to do. The girl and me had been friends for a couple months, I met her as she broke up with my other friend (A guy) and we became very close. We told each other everything and we always were strictly friendzone because we lived 5 hours away and neither of us ever tried to make it work. Fast forward to this past few days I was in her town for a sporting event and we spent the entire weekend together, and surely enough that magic moment happened and we kissed and eventually a bit further. My other friend (her ex) was also in town for the event and he said it didn't matter if I hung with her but after my hookup with her he found out through a friend and now he hates me for what happened, and she hates me because I promised it was between me and her but I had to tell him because I couldn't live a lie between 2 people."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit, I just recently ruined a close relationship with 2 close friends and Im very lost in what to do. The girl and me had been friends for a couple months, I met her as she broke up with my other friend (A guy) and we became very close. We told each other everything and we always were strictly friendzone because we lived 5 hours away and neither of us ever tried to make it work. Fast forward to this past few days I was in her town for a sporting event and we spent the entire weekend together, and surely enough that magic moment happened and we kissed and eventually a bit further. My other friend (her ex) was also in town for the event and he said it didn't matter if I hung with her but after my hookup with her he found out through a friend and now he hates me for what happened, and she hates me because I promised it was between me and her but I had to tell him because I couldn't live a lie between 2 people."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit, I just recently ruined a close relationship with 2 close friends and Im very lost in what to do. The girl and me had been friends for a couple months, I met her as she broke up with my other friend (A guy) and we became very close. We told each other everything and we always were strictly friendzone because we lived 5 hours away and neither of us ever tried to make it work. Fast forward to this past few days I was in her town for a sporting event and we spent the entire weekend together, and surely enough that magic moment happened and we kissed and eventually a bit further. My other friend (her ex) was also in town for the event and he said it didn't matter if I hung with her but after my hookup with her he found out through a friend and now he hates me for what happened, and she hates me because I promised it was between me and her but I had to tell him because I couldn't live a lie between 2 people."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit, I just recently ruined a close relationship with 2 close friends and Im very lost in what to do. The girl and me had been friends for a couple months, I met her as she broke up with my other friend (A guy) and we became very close. We told each other everything and we always were strictly friendzone because we lived 5 hours away and neither of us ever tried to make it work. Fast forward to this past few days I was in her town for a sporting event and we spent the entire weekend together, and surely enough that magic moment happened and we kissed and eventually a bit further. My other friend (her ex) was also in town for the event and he said it didn't matter if I hung with her but after my hookup with her he found out through a friend and now he hates me for what happened, and she hates me because I promised it was between me and her but I had to tell him because I couldn't live a lie between 2 people."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: What title says- we're on our mid 20s, and my friend (F) has been seeing this guy for about three weeks, who has a gf, and is hence cheating on her. All his friends know he's cheating on her and they don't care about it, seems like this is something he's done before. Gf obviously doesn't know.\nWhat title says- we're on our mid 20s, and my friend (F) has been seeing this guy for about three weeks, who has a gf, and is hence cheating on her. All his friends know he's cheating on her and they don't care about it, seems like this is something he's done before. Gf obviously doesn't know.\n\nMy friend and cheater are not serious, just hooking up, *our* friends that know she's hooking up with him think it's okay. Except me. Obviously I'm not okay with cheating, I think cheater is an asshole, deserves the worst happening to him, and should stop both relationships, *BUT* I think that doesn't make my friend the good/innocent one, after all, cheating's happening because she keeps enabling it and isn't stopping it. I don't even know the gf but I pity this is happening behind her back; she's going to be the hurted one in the end.\n\nWhat'd you do if your friend did this, what'd you tell her? Should I just give a f*k and keep going, or tell my friend to put an end to it, if only for gf? Or it's cheater the only bad one here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: What title says- we're on our mid 20s, and my friend (F) has been seeing this guy for about three weeks, who has a gf, and is hence cheating on her. All his friends know he's cheating on her and they don't care about it, seems like this is something he's done before. Gf obviously doesn't know.\nWhat title says- we're on our mid 20s, and my friend (F) has been seeing this guy for about three weeks, who has a gf, and is hence cheating on her. All his friends know he's cheating on her and they don't care about it, seems like this is something he's done before. Gf obviously doesn't know.\n\nMy friend and cheater are not serious, just hooking up, *our* friends that know she's hooking up with him think it's okay. Except me. Obviously I'm not okay with cheating, I think cheater is an asshole, deserves the worst happening to him, and should stop both relationships, *BUT* I think that doesn't make my friend the good/innocent one, after all, cheating's happening because she keeps enabling it and isn't stopping it. I don't even know the gf but I pity this is happening behind her back; she's going to be the hurted one in the end.\n\nWhat'd you do if your friend did this, what'd you tell her? Should I just give a f*k and keep going, or tell my friend to put an end to it, if only for gf? Or it's cheater the only bad one here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: What title says- we're on our mid 20s, and my friend (F) has been seeing this guy for about three weeks, who has a gf, and is hence cheating on her. All his friends know he's cheating on her and they don't care about it, seems like this is something he's done before. Gf obviously doesn't know.\nWhat title says- we're on our mid 20s, and my friend (F) has been seeing this guy for about three weeks, who has a gf, and is hence cheating on her. All his friends know he's cheating on her and they don't care about it, seems like this is something he's done before. Gf obviously doesn't know.\n\nMy friend and cheater are not serious, just hooking up, *our* friends that know she's hooking up with him think it's okay. Except me. Obviously I'm not okay with cheating, I think cheater is an asshole, deserves the worst happening to him, and should stop both relationships, *BUT* I think that doesn't make my friend the good/innocent one, after all, cheating's happening because she keeps enabling it and isn't stopping it. I don't even know the gf but I pity this is happening behind her back; she's going to be the hurted one in the end.\n\nWhat'd you do if your friend did this, what'd you tell her? Should I just give a f*k and keep going, or tell my friend to put an end to it, if only for gf? Or it's cheater the only bad one here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: What title says- we're on our mid 20s, and my friend (F) has been seeing this guy for about three weeks, who has a gf, and is hence cheating on her. All his friends know he's cheating on her and they don't care about it, seems like this is something he's done before. Gf obviously doesn't know.\nWhat title says- we're on our mid 20s, and my friend (F) has been seeing this guy for about three weeks, who has a gf, and is hence cheating on her. All his friends know he's cheating on her and they don't care about it, seems like this is something he's done before. Gf obviously doesn't know.\n\nMy friend and cheater are not serious, just hooking up, *our* friends that know she's hooking up with him think it's okay. Except me. Obviously I'm not okay with cheating, I think cheater is an asshole, deserves the worst happening to him, and should stop both relationships, *BUT* I think that doesn't make my friend the good/innocent one, after all, cheating's happening because she keeps enabling it and isn't stopping it. I don't even know the gf but I pity this is happening behind her back; she's going to be the hurted one in the end.\n\nWhat'd you do if your friend did this, what'd you tell her? Should I just give a f*k and keep going, or tell my friend to put an end to it, if only for gf? Or it's cheater the only bad one here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: What title says- we're on our mid 20s, and my friend (F) has been seeing this guy for about three weeks, who has a gf, and is hence cheating on her. All his friends know he's cheating on her and they don't care about it, seems like this is something he's done before. Gf obviously doesn't know.\nWhat title says- we're on our mid 20s, and my friend (F) has been seeing this guy for about three weeks, who has a gf, and is hence cheating on her. All his friends know he's cheating on her and they don't care about it, seems like this is something he's done before. Gf obviously doesn't know.\n\nMy friend and cheater are not serious, just hooking up, *our* friends that know she's hooking up with him think it's okay. Except me. Obviously I'm not okay with cheating, I think cheater is an asshole, deserves the worst happening to him, and should stop both relationships, *BUT* I think that doesn't make my friend the good/innocent one, after all, cheating's happening because she keeps enabling it and isn't stopping it. I don't even know the gf but I pity this is happening behind her back; she's going to be the hurted one in the end.\n\nWhat'd you do if your friend did this, what'd you tell her? Should I just give a f*k and keep going, or tell my friend to put an end to it, if only for gf? Or it's cheater the only bad one here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 32, and I've had some relationships. I can't account for why I misled her except embarrassment and just discomfort. When discussing whom I lost my virginity to and some of my girlfriends I exaggerated how long we were together etc. 8 months became 1.5 years. Losing my virginity at 25 became 22. Who I lost my virginity to changed from one girl to another. Where I lived with one girlfriend changed cities. I feel stupid, and ultimately are these things that truly define me? I don't think so. But, I hate lying and I hate lying to her. BI misled her about other stuff and came clean. I forgot that I'd been deceptive about this stuff until I was reading an old journal and I realized if she read it she would be thrown off by names and dates. \n\nThis is a great relationship, we love one another and we're ultra supportive. Do I bury this or come clean risking it all?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 32, and I've had some relationships. I can't account for why I misled her except embarrassment and just discomfort. When discussing whom I lost my virginity to and some of my girlfriends I exaggerated how long we were together etc. 8 months became 1.5 years. Losing my virginity at 25 became 22. Who I lost my virginity to changed from one girl to another. Where I lived with one girlfriend changed cities. I feel stupid, and ultimately are these things that truly define me? I don't think so. But, I hate lying and I hate lying to her. BI misled her about other stuff and came clean. I forgot that I'd been deceptive about this stuff until I was reading an old journal and I realized if she read it she would be thrown off by names and dates. \n\nThis is a great relationship, we love one another and we're ultra supportive. Do I bury this or come clean risking it all?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 32, and I've had some relationships. I can't account for why I misled her except embarrassment and just discomfort. When discussing whom I lost my virginity to and some of my girlfriends I exaggerated how long we were together etc. 8 months became 1.5 years. Losing my virginity at 25 became 22. Who I lost my virginity to changed from one girl to another. Where I lived with one girlfriend changed cities. I feel stupid, and ultimately are these things that truly define me? I don't think so. But, I hate lying and I hate lying to her. BI misled her about other stuff and came clean. I forgot that I'd been deceptive about this stuff until I was reading an old journal and I realized if she read it she would be thrown off by names and dates. \n\nThis is a great relationship, we love one another and we're ultra supportive. Do I bury this or come clean risking it all?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 32, and I've had some relationships. I can't account for why I misled her except embarrassment and just discomfort. When discussing whom I lost my virginity to and some of my girlfriends I exaggerated how long we were together etc. 8 months became 1.5 years. Losing my virginity at 25 became 22. Who I lost my virginity to changed from one girl to another. Where I lived with one girlfriend changed cities. I feel stupid, and ultimately are these things that truly define me? I don't think so. But, I hate lying and I hate lying to her. BI misled her about other stuff and came clean. I forgot that I'd been deceptive about this stuff until I was reading an old journal and I realized if she read it she would be thrown off by names and dates. \n\nThis is a great relationship, we love one another and we're ultra supportive. Do I bury this or come clean risking it all?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 32, and I've had some relationships. I can't account for why I misled her except embarrassment and just discomfort. When discussing whom I lost my virginity to and some of my girlfriends I exaggerated how long we were together etc. 8 months became 1.5 years. Losing my virginity at 25 became 22. Who I lost my virginity to changed from one girl to another. Where I lived with one girlfriend changed cities. I feel stupid, and ultimately are these things that truly define me? I don't think so. But, I hate lying and I hate lying to her. BI misled her about other stuff and came clean. I forgot that I'd been deceptive about this stuff until I was reading an old journal and I realized if she read it she would be thrown off by names and dates. \n\nThis is a great relationship, we love one another and we're ultra supportive. Do I bury this or come clean risking it all?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 32, and I've had some relationships. I can't account for why I misled her except embarrassment and just discomfort. When discussing whom I lost my virginity to and some of my girlfriends I exaggerated how long we were together etc. 8 months became 1.5 years. Losing my virginity at 25 became 22. Who I lost my virginity to changed from one girl to another. Where I lived with one girlfriend changed cities. I feel stupid, and ultimately are these things that truly define me? I don't think so. But, I hate lying and I hate lying to her. BI misled her about other stuff and came clean. I forgot that I'd been deceptive about this stuff until I was reading an old journal and I realized if she read it she would be thrown off by names and dates. \n\nThis is a great relationship, we love one another and we're ultra supportive. Do I bury this or come clean risking it all?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've got a fat indoor cat that's been on a diet for about 10 months now. She was a rescue a few years ago and was a total glutton (took advantage of a weak-willed roommate) Not entirely sure on the starting weight, but I would estimate it in the 20lb range. She is now down to 15.2, much happier, much more active, but seems to have stalled in the weight loss department. We're aiming for about 11-12lbs. We'll check in with the weight at that point and see if more is possible, or maintain that weight. \n\nWe've been feeding Authority brand Real Chicken, weight management dry formula since the beginning of the regime. Scheduled feedings, 2x per day, 1/2 cup each time shared between 2 cats. We estimate that they get 1/4 cup each, 2x per day. They share pretty evenly, but I've noticed lately that the other cat is leaving a bit more in the dish and fatty is getting a bit more food. Not sure if this is a new behavior, or if it has always been this way. Anyways, we are starting to feed them in separate dishes, 1/4 cup each, 2x per day. Anything that the other cat doesn't eat gets put back in the bag. \n\nHere's the issue I am running into. I am thinking that 1/4 cup is about as many calories as it takes to maintain 15lbs. I have no way of knowing how many calories are in a serving, however. I can't find this information on the package or through any other resources! I thought all cat food had a # of calories/serving breakdown.but evidently not. I have a target of how many calories fatty should consume every day (based on a 13lb cat, in order to continue losing weight), but I have no idea how much actual food it equates to."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've got a fat indoor cat that's been on a diet for about 10 months now. She was a rescue a few years ago and was a total glutton (took advantage of a weak-willed roommate) Not entirely sure on the starting weight, but I would estimate it in the 20lb range. She is now down to 15.2, much happier, much more active, but seems to have stalled in the weight loss department. We're aiming for about 11-12lbs. We'll check in with the weight at that point and see if more is possible, or maintain that weight. \n\nWe've been feeding Authority brand Real Chicken, weight management dry formula since the beginning of the regime. Scheduled feedings, 2x per day, 1/2 cup each time shared between 2 cats. We estimate that they get 1/4 cup each, 2x per day. They share pretty evenly, but I've noticed lately that the other cat is leaving a bit more in the dish and fatty is getting a bit more food. Not sure if this is a new behavior, or if it has always been this way. Anyways, we are starting to feed them in separate dishes, 1/4 cup each, 2x per day. Anything that the other cat doesn't eat gets put back in the bag. \n\nHere's the issue I am running into. I am thinking that 1/4 cup is about as many calories as it takes to maintain 15lbs. I have no way of knowing how many calories are in a serving, however. I can't find this information on the package or through any other resources! I thought all cat food had a # of calories/serving breakdown.but evidently not. I have a target of how many calories fatty should consume every day (based on a 13lb cat, in order to continue losing weight), but I have no idea how much actual food it equates to."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've got a fat indoor cat that's been on a diet for about 10 months now. She was a rescue a few years ago and was a total glutton (took advantage of a weak-willed roommate) Not entirely sure on the starting weight, but I would estimate it in the 20lb range. She is now down to 15.2, much happier, much more active, but seems to have stalled in the weight loss department. We're aiming for about 11-12lbs. We'll check in with the weight at that point and see if more is possible, or maintain that weight. \n\nWe've been feeding Authority brand Real Chicken, weight management dry formula since the beginning of the regime. Scheduled feedings, 2x per day, 1/2 cup each time shared between 2 cats. We estimate that they get 1/4 cup each, 2x per day. They share pretty evenly, but I've noticed lately that the other cat is leaving a bit more in the dish and fatty is getting a bit more food. Not sure if this is a new behavior, or if it has always been this way. Anyways, we are starting to feed them in separate dishes, 1/4 cup each, 2x per day. Anything that the other cat doesn't eat gets put back in the bag. \n\nHere's the issue I am running into. I am thinking that 1/4 cup is about as many calories as it takes to maintain 15lbs. I have no way of knowing how many calories are in a serving, however. I can't find this information on the package or through any other resources! I thought all cat food had a # of calories/serving breakdown.but evidently not. I have a target of how many calories fatty should consume every day (based on a 13lb cat, in order to continue losing weight), but I have no idea how much actual food it equates to."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've got a fat indoor cat that's been on a diet for about 10 months now. She was a rescue a few years ago and was a total glutton (took advantage of a weak-willed roommate) Not entirely sure on the starting weight, but I would estimate it in the 20lb range. She is now down to 15.2, much happier, much more active, but seems to have stalled in the weight loss department. We're aiming for about 11-12lbs. We'll check in with the weight at that point and see if more is possible, or maintain that weight. \n\nWe've been feeding Authority brand Real Chicken, weight management dry formula since the beginning of the regime. Scheduled feedings, 2x per day, 1/2 cup each time shared between 2 cats. We estimate that they get 1/4 cup each, 2x per day. They share pretty evenly, but I've noticed lately that the other cat is leaving a bit more in the dish and fatty is getting a bit more food. Not sure if this is a new behavior, or if it has always been this way. Anyways, we are starting to feed them in separate dishes, 1/4 cup each, 2x per day. Anything that the other cat doesn't eat gets put back in the bag. \n\nHere's the issue I am running into. I am thinking that 1/4 cup is about as many calories as it takes to maintain 15lbs. I have no way of knowing how many calories are in a serving, however. I can't find this information on the package or through any other resources! I thought all cat food had a # of calories/serving breakdown.but evidently not. I have a target of how many calories fatty should consume every day (based on a 13lb cat, in order to continue losing weight), but I have no idea how much actual food it equates to."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've got a fat indoor cat that's been on a diet for about 10 months now. She was a rescue a few years ago and was a total glutton (took advantage of a weak-willed roommate) Not entirely sure on the starting weight, but I would estimate it in the 20lb range. She is now down to 15.2, much happier, much more active, but seems to have stalled in the weight loss department. We're aiming for about 11-12lbs. We'll check in with the weight at that point and see if more is possible, or maintain that weight. \n\nWe've been feeding Authority brand Real Chicken, weight management dry formula since the beginning of the regime. Scheduled feedings, 2x per day, 1/2 cup each time shared between 2 cats. We estimate that they get 1/4 cup each, 2x per day. They share pretty evenly, but I've noticed lately that the other cat is leaving a bit more in the dish and fatty is getting a bit more food. Not sure if this is a new behavior, or if it has always been this way. Anyways, we are starting to feed them in separate dishes, 1/4 cup each, 2x per day. Anything that the other cat doesn't eat gets put back in the bag. \n\nHere's the issue I am running into. I am thinking that 1/4 cup is about as many calories as it takes to maintain 15lbs. I have no way of knowing how many calories are in a serving, however. I can't find this information on the package or through any other resources! I thought all cat food had a # of calories/serving breakdown.but evidently not. I have a target of how many calories fatty should consume every day (based on a 13lb cat, in order to continue losing weight), but I have no idea how much actual food it equates to."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've got a fat indoor cat that's been on a diet for about 10 months now. She was a rescue a few years ago and was a total glutton (took advantage of a weak-willed roommate) Not entirely sure on the starting weight, but I would estimate it in the 20lb range. She is now down to 15.2, much happier, much more active, but seems to have stalled in the weight loss department. We're aiming for about 11-12lbs. We'll check in with the weight at that point and see if more is possible, or maintain that weight. \n\nWe've been feeding Authority brand Real Chicken, weight management dry formula since the beginning of the regime. Scheduled feedings, 2x per day, 1/2 cup each time shared between 2 cats. We estimate that they get 1/4 cup each, 2x per day. They share pretty evenly, but I've noticed lately that the other cat is leaving a bit more in the dish and fatty is getting a bit more food. Not sure if this is a new behavior, or if it has always been this way. Anyways, we are starting to feed them in separate dishes, 1/4 cup each, 2x per day. Anything that the other cat doesn't eat gets put back in the bag. \n\nHere's the issue I am running into. I am thinking that 1/4 cup is about as many calories as it takes to maintain 15lbs. I have no way of knowing how many calories are in a serving, however. I can't find this information on the package or through any other resources! I thought all cat food had a # of calories/serving breakdown.but evidently not. I have a target of how many calories fatty should consume every day (based on a 13lb cat, in order to continue losing weight), but I have no idea how much actual food it equates to."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been putting it off for a number of financial reasons, which I will list below.\n\n1. We both think putting ourselves in debt for rings/a wedding is stupid, but he has a very traditional Greek family that would be insulted if we didn't have a traditional wedding.\n\n2. My family is completely useless for a long laundry list of reasons and we most likely will not be able to depend on them for financial support. His family will be willing to help, but we're unsure of how much.\n\n3. He had medical insurance through his parents and without it, we would have to pay hundreds of dollars for his contact lenses. He is nearly legally blind without them.\n\nAll these things considered, in bed last night he turns to me and says: \"I've really been thinking about this a lot lately. Should we just say fuck my parent's insurance, etc and just get married?\" \n\nI of course want to leap for joy and say yes, but what I said instead was, \"Could we really afford to do that? We don't even know what being legally married means for our finances as far as taxes and insurance goes.\" \n\nSo married members of r/relationships, can you give me a crash course on what getting married actually means financially? Can we get married in the near future without financial ruin and/or a huge amount of debt? Any and all advice is greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been putting it off for a number of financial reasons, which I will list below.\n\n1. We both think putting ourselves in debt for rings/a wedding is stupid, but he has a very traditional Greek family that would be insulted if we didn't have a traditional wedding.\n\n2. My family is completely useless for a long laundry list of reasons and we most likely will not be able to depend on them for financial support. His family will be willing to help, but we're unsure of how much.\n\n3. He had medical insurance through his parents and without it, we would have to pay hundreds of dollars for his contact lenses. He is nearly legally blind without them.\n\nAll these things considered, in bed last night he turns to me and says: \"I've really been thinking about this a lot lately. Should we just say fuck my parent's insurance, etc and just get married?\" \n\nI of course want to leap for joy and say yes, but what I said instead was, \"Could we really afford to do that? We don't even know what being legally married means for our finances as far as taxes and insurance goes.\" \n\nSo married members of r/relationships, can you give me a crash course on what getting married actually means financially? Can we get married in the near future without financial ruin and/or a huge amount of debt? Any and all advice is greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been putting it off for a number of financial reasons, which I will list below.\n\n1. We both think putting ourselves in debt for rings/a wedding is stupid, but he has a very traditional Greek family that would be insulted if we didn't have a traditional wedding.\n\n2. My family is completely useless for a long laundry list of reasons and we most likely will not be able to depend on them for financial support. His family will be willing to help, but we're unsure of how much.\n\n3. He had medical insurance through his parents and without it, we would have to pay hundreds of dollars for his contact lenses. He is nearly legally blind without them.\n\nAll these things considered, in bed last night he turns to me and says: \"I've really been thinking about this a lot lately. Should we just say fuck my parent's insurance, etc and just get married?\" \n\nI of course want to leap for joy and say yes, but what I said instead was, \"Could we really afford to do that? We don't even know what being legally married means for our finances as far as taxes and insurance goes.\" \n\nSo married members of r/relationships, can you give me a crash course on what getting married actually means financially? Can we get married in the near future without financial ruin and/or a huge amount of debt? Any and all advice is greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been putting it off for a number of financial reasons, which I will list below.\n\n1. We both think putting ourselves in debt for rings/a wedding is stupid, but he has a very traditional Greek family that would be insulted if we didn't have a traditional wedding.\n\n2. My family is completely useless for a long laundry list of reasons and we most likely will not be able to depend on them for financial support. His family will be willing to help, but we're unsure of how much.\n\n3. He had medical insurance through his parents and without it, we would have to pay hundreds of dollars for his contact lenses. He is nearly legally blind without them.\n\nAll these things considered, in bed last night he turns to me and says: \"I've really been thinking about this a lot lately. Should we just say fuck my parent's insurance, etc and just get married?\" \n\nI of course want to leap for joy and say yes, but what I said instead was, \"Could we really afford to do that? We don't even know what being legally married means for our finances as far as taxes and insurance goes.\" \n\nSo married members of r/relationships, can you give me a crash course on what getting married actually means financially? Can we get married in the near future without financial ruin and/or a huge amount of debt? Any and all advice is greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been putting it off for a number of financial reasons, which I will list below.\n\n1. We both think putting ourselves in debt for rings/a wedding is stupid, but he has a very traditional Greek family that would be insulted if we didn't have a traditional wedding.\n\n2. My family is completely useless for a long laundry list of reasons and we most likely will not be able to depend on them for financial support. His family will be willing to help, but we're unsure of how much.\n\n3. He had medical insurance through his parents and without it, we would have to pay hundreds of dollars for his contact lenses. He is nearly legally blind without them.\n\nAll these things considered, in bed last night he turns to me and says: \"I've really been thinking about this a lot lately. Should we just say fuck my parent's insurance, etc and just get married?\" \n\nI of course want to leap for joy and say yes, but what I said instead was, \"Could we really afford to do that? We don't even know what being legally married means for our finances as far as taxes and insurance goes.\" \n\nSo married members of r/relationships, can you give me a crash course on what getting married actually means financially? Can we get married in the near future without financial ruin and/or a huge amount of debt? Any and all advice is greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been putting it off for a number of financial reasons, which I will list below.\n\n1. We both think putting ourselves in debt for rings/a wedding is stupid, but he has a very traditional Greek family that would be insulted if we didn't have a traditional wedding.\n\n2. My family is completely useless for a long laundry list of reasons and we most likely will not be able to depend on them for financial support. His family will be willing to help, but we're unsure of how much.\n\n3. He had medical insurance through his parents and without it, we would have to pay hundreds of dollars for his contact lenses. He is nearly legally blind without them.\n\nAll these things considered, in bed last night he turns to me and says: \"I've really been thinking about this a lot lately. Should we just say fuck my parent's insurance, etc and just get married?\" \n\nI of course want to leap for joy and say yes, but what I said instead was, \"Could we really afford to do that? We don't even know what being legally married means for our finances as far as taxes and insurance goes.\" \n\nSo married members of r/relationships, can you give me a crash course on what getting married actually means financially? Can we get married in the near future without financial ruin and/or a huge amount of debt? Any and all advice is greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I struggle with self-confidence. I constantly compare myself to others over mundane things (like posts on social media) and always find a reason to think of myself as lesser.\n\nI put a lot of emphasis on what other people think of me, no matter how much I try not to. I've been working on this for a while, and I'll have periods where I feel a lot better in general about myself but I always tend to find myself back where I started at some point. \n\nI used to see a therapist about a year and half ago because I was constantly overwhelmed and upset with myself, but I don't anymore (because I got better for a while). When I'm especially down, it causes rifts in my relationships with family and friends. People say it is taxing to listen to me complain about myself, and I completely understand that. But it feels like I don't have anyone to talk to about it anymore.\n\nPerhaps I am being dramatic, but I often find that I just straight up hate myself. I'm often excluded when my friends do something together, so I've basically cut off a decent chunk of my friend group since this kept happening and I was feeling worse and worse. That leaves me with not very many people in my life that I truly enjoy spending time with, and I am worried that my constant negativity will drive them away as well.\n\nI just want some advice on how to start feeling better about myself and how to not worry about other people. I work out regularly, I'm going to a great school, and I think in general I have some good things going for me. But I can't appreciate them, because I focus on the faults and how so-and-so is doing much better. \n\nAny advice would be helpful. Thank you to those who read all the way."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I struggle with self-confidence. I constantly compare myself to others over mundane things (like posts on social media) and always find a reason to think of myself as lesser.\n\nI put a lot of emphasis on what other people think of me, no matter how much I try not to. I've been working on this for a while, and I'll have periods where I feel a lot better in general about myself but I always tend to find myself back where I started at some point. \n\nI used to see a therapist about a year and half ago because I was constantly overwhelmed and upset with myself, but I don't anymore (because I got better for a while). When I'm especially down, it causes rifts in my relationships with family and friends. People say it is taxing to listen to me complain about myself, and I completely understand that. But it feels like I don't have anyone to talk to about it anymore.\n\nPerhaps I am being dramatic, but I often find that I just straight up hate myself. I'm often excluded when my friends do something together, so I've basically cut off a decent chunk of my friend group since this kept happening and I was feeling worse and worse. That leaves me with not very many people in my life that I truly enjoy spending time with, and I am worried that my constant negativity will drive them away as well.\n\nI just want some advice on how to start feeling better about myself and how to not worry about other people. I work out regularly, I'm going to a great school, and I think in general I have some good things going for me. But I can't appreciate them, because I focus on the faults and how so-and-so is doing much better. \n\nAny advice would be helpful. Thank you to those who read all the way."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I struggle with self-confidence. I constantly compare myself to others over mundane things (like posts on social media) and always find a reason to think of myself as lesser.\n\nI put a lot of emphasis on what other people think of me, no matter how much I try not to. I've been working on this for a while, and I'll have periods where I feel a lot better in general about myself but I always tend to find myself back where I started at some point. \n\nI used to see a therapist about a year and half ago because I was constantly overwhelmed and upset with myself, but I don't anymore (because I got better for a while). When I'm especially down, it causes rifts in my relationships with family and friends. People say it is taxing to listen to me complain about myself, and I completely understand that. But it feels like I don't have anyone to talk to about it anymore.\n\nPerhaps I am being dramatic, but I often find that I just straight up hate myself. I'm often excluded when my friends do something together, so I've basically cut off a decent chunk of my friend group since this kept happening and I was feeling worse and worse. That leaves me with not very many people in my life that I truly enjoy spending time with, and I am worried that my constant negativity will drive them away as well.\n\nI just want some advice on how to start feeling better about myself and how to not worry about other people. I work out regularly, I'm going to a great school, and I think in general I have some good things going for me. But I can't appreciate them, because I focus on the faults and how so-and-so is doing much better. \n\nAny advice would be helpful. Thank you to those who read all the way."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I struggle with self-confidence. I constantly compare myself to others over mundane things (like posts on social media) and always find a reason to think of myself as lesser.\n\nI put a lot of emphasis on what other people think of me, no matter how much I try not to. I've been working on this for a while, and I'll have periods where I feel a lot better in general about myself but I always tend to find myself back where I started at some point. \n\nI used to see a therapist about a year and half ago because I was constantly overwhelmed and upset with myself, but I don't anymore (because I got better for a while). When I'm especially down, it causes rifts in my relationships with family and friends. People say it is taxing to listen to me complain about myself, and I completely understand that. But it feels like I don't have anyone to talk to about it anymore.\n\nPerhaps I am being dramatic, but I often find that I just straight up hate myself. I'm often excluded when my friends do something together, so I've basically cut off a decent chunk of my friend group since this kept happening and I was feeling worse and worse. That leaves me with not very many people in my life that I truly enjoy spending time with, and I am worried that my constant negativity will drive them away as well.\n\nI just want some advice on how to start feeling better about myself and how to not worry about other people. I work out regularly, I'm going to a great school, and I think in general I have some good things going for me. But I can't appreciate them, because I focus on the faults and how so-and-so is doing much better. \n\nAny advice would be helpful. Thank you to those who read all the way."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I struggle with self-confidence. I constantly compare myself to others over mundane things (like posts on social media) and always find a reason to think of myself as lesser.\n\nI put a lot of emphasis on what other people think of me, no matter how much I try not to. I've been working on this for a while, and I'll have periods where I feel a lot better in general about myself but I always tend to find myself back where I started at some point. \n\nI used to see a therapist about a year and half ago because I was constantly overwhelmed and upset with myself, but I don't anymore (because I got better for a while). When I'm especially down, it causes rifts in my relationships with family and friends. People say it is taxing to listen to me complain about myself, and I completely understand that. But it feels like I don't have anyone to talk to about it anymore.\n\nPerhaps I am being dramatic, but I often find that I just straight up hate myself. I'm often excluded when my friends do something together, so I've basically cut off a decent chunk of my friend group since this kept happening and I was feeling worse and worse. That leaves me with not very many people in my life that I truly enjoy spending time with, and I am worried that my constant negativity will drive them away as well.\n\nI just want some advice on how to start feeling better about myself and how to not worry about other people. I work out regularly, I'm going to a great school, and I think in general I have some good things going for me. But I can't appreciate them, because I focus on the faults and how so-and-so is doing much better. \n\nAny advice would be helpful. Thank you to those who read all the way."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have known each other for 5 years, but have been dating for the last 6 months after I got out of a 5+ year relationship.\n\nHe recently accepted a job offer 2 states away. I was willing to do long distance, but he doesn't think we have what it takes to make it, though he says he still loves me. He openly admits that he isn't the best communicator, and thinks the distance will only hurt us both, which is why he'd rather end it on a high note than drag it out into months of fighting. I do agree that he is probably right, but it stings.\n\nSo, we agreed to keep it going until he leaves. He had 3 options for start dates and picked the nearest one because \"he doesn't want to be alone on his birthday\" and thinks he will have met people by then. This hurts because if he chose the second start date, although he would arrive to his new town on his birthday, it would mean spending an extra two weeks with me and if chose the third, it would mean two extra months as he wouldn't be leaving until August.\n\nIn addition, he keeps saying things like \"Oh, we need to do \"x\" this summer\" full well knowing that we only have like 5 weeks left before he leaves. It just hurts every time he suggests things I know we don't have time to do and is a painful reminder.\n\nShould I explain these two points to him? He hasn't given official notice of the start date.\n\nLastly, does anyone have any suggestions on what I should do when we do break up? In terms of hobbies, activites, etc? Last time I broke up with someone, it was my doing, and it was a long time coming so it didn't affect me as much. This feels worse because we both love each other, but just know it won't work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have known each other for 5 years, but have been dating for the last 6 months after I got out of a 5+ year relationship.\n\nHe recently accepted a job offer 2 states away. I was willing to do long distance, but he doesn't think we have what it takes to make it, though he says he still loves me. He openly admits that he isn't the best communicator, and thinks the distance will only hurt us both, which is why he'd rather end it on a high note than drag it out into months of fighting. I do agree that he is probably right, but it stings.\n\nSo, we agreed to keep it going until he leaves. He had 3 options for start dates and picked the nearest one because \"he doesn't want to be alone on his birthday\" and thinks he will have met people by then. This hurts because if he chose the second start date, although he would arrive to his new town on his birthday, it would mean spending an extra two weeks with me and if chose the third, it would mean two extra months as he wouldn't be leaving until August.\n\nIn addition, he keeps saying things like \"Oh, we need to do \"x\" this summer\" full well knowing that we only have like 5 weeks left before he leaves. It just hurts every time he suggests things I know we don't have time to do and is a painful reminder.\n\nShould I explain these two points to him? He hasn't given official notice of the start date.\n\nLastly, does anyone have any suggestions on what I should do when we do break up? In terms of hobbies, activites, etc? Last time I broke up with someone, it was my doing, and it was a long time coming so it didn't affect me as much. This feels worse because we both love each other, but just know it won't work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have known each other for 5 years, but have been dating for the last 6 months after I got out of a 5+ year relationship.\n\nHe recently accepted a job offer 2 states away. I was willing to do long distance, but he doesn't think we have what it takes to make it, though he says he still loves me. He openly admits that he isn't the best communicator, and thinks the distance will only hurt us both, which is why he'd rather end it on a high note than drag it out into months of fighting. I do agree that he is probably right, but it stings.\n\nSo, we agreed to keep it going until he leaves. He had 3 options for start dates and picked the nearest one because \"he doesn't want to be alone on his birthday\" and thinks he will have met people by then. This hurts because if he chose the second start date, although he would arrive to his new town on his birthday, it would mean spending an extra two weeks with me and if chose the third, it would mean two extra months as he wouldn't be leaving until August.\n\nIn addition, he keeps saying things like \"Oh, we need to do \"x\" this summer\" full well knowing that we only have like 5 weeks left before he leaves. It just hurts every time he suggests things I know we don't have time to do and is a painful reminder.\n\nShould I explain these two points to him? He hasn't given official notice of the start date.\n\nLastly, does anyone have any suggestions on what I should do when we do break up? In terms of hobbies, activites, etc? Last time I broke up with someone, it was my doing, and it was a long time coming so it didn't affect me as much. This feels worse because we both love each other, but just know it won't work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have known each other for 5 years, but have been dating for the last 6 months after I got out of a 5+ year relationship.\n\nHe recently accepted a job offer 2 states away. I was willing to do long distance, but he doesn't think we have what it takes to make it, though he says he still loves me. He openly admits that he isn't the best communicator, and thinks the distance will only hurt us both, which is why he'd rather end it on a high note than drag it out into months of fighting. I do agree that he is probably right, but it stings.\n\nSo, we agreed to keep it going until he leaves. He had 3 options for start dates and picked the nearest one because \"he doesn't want to be alone on his birthday\" and thinks he will have met people by then. This hurts because if he chose the second start date, although he would arrive to his new town on his birthday, it would mean spending an extra two weeks with me and if chose the third, it would mean two extra months as he wouldn't be leaving until August.\n\nIn addition, he keeps saying things like \"Oh, we need to do \"x\" this summer\" full well knowing that we only have like 5 weeks left before he leaves. It just hurts every time he suggests things I know we don't have time to do and is a painful reminder.\n\nShould I explain these two points to him? He hasn't given official notice of the start date.\n\nLastly, does anyone have any suggestions on what I should do when we do break up? In terms of hobbies, activites, etc? Last time I broke up with someone, it was my doing, and it was a long time coming so it didn't affect me as much. This feels worse because we both love each other, but just know it won't work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have known each other for 5 years, but have been dating for the last 6 months after I got out of a 5+ year relationship.\n\nHe recently accepted a job offer 2 states away. I was willing to do long distance, but he doesn't think we have what it takes to make it, though he says he still loves me. He openly admits that he isn't the best communicator, and thinks the distance will only hurt us both, which is why he'd rather end it on a high note than drag it out into months of fighting. I do agree that he is probably right, but it stings.\n\nSo, we agreed to keep it going until he leaves. He had 3 options for start dates and picked the nearest one because \"he doesn't want to be alone on his birthday\" and thinks he will have met people by then. This hurts because if he chose the second start date, although he would arrive to his new town on his birthday, it would mean spending an extra two weeks with me and if chose the third, it would mean two extra months as he wouldn't be leaving until August.\n\nIn addition, he keeps saying things like \"Oh, we need to do \"x\" this summer\" full well knowing that we only have like 5 weeks left before he leaves. It just hurts every time he suggests things I know we don't have time to do and is a painful reminder.\n\nShould I explain these two points to him? He hasn't given official notice of the start date.\n\nLastly, does anyone have any suggestions on what I should do when we do break up? In terms of hobbies, activites, etc? Last time I broke up with someone, it was my doing, and it was a long time coming so it didn't affect me as much. This feels worse because we both love each other, but just know it won't work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have known each other for 5 years, but have been dating for the last 6 months after I got out of a 5+ year relationship.\n\nHe recently accepted a job offer 2 states away. I was willing to do long distance, but he doesn't think we have what it takes to make it, though he says he still loves me. He openly admits that he isn't the best communicator, and thinks the distance will only hurt us both, which is why he'd rather end it on a high note than drag it out into months of fighting. I do agree that he is probably right, but it stings.\n\nSo, we agreed to keep it going until he leaves. He had 3 options for start dates and picked the nearest one because \"he doesn't want to be alone on his birthday\" and thinks he will have met people by then. This hurts because if he chose the second start date, although he would arrive to his new town on his birthday, it would mean spending an extra two weeks with me and if chose the third, it would mean two extra months as he wouldn't be leaving until August.\n\nIn addition, he keeps saying things like \"Oh, we need to do \"x\" this summer\" full well knowing that we only have like 5 weeks left before he leaves. It just hurts every time he suggests things I know we don't have time to do and is a painful reminder.\n\nShould I explain these two points to him? He hasn't given official notice of the start date.\n\nLastly, does anyone have any suggestions on what I should do when we do break up? In terms of hobbies, activites, etc? Last time I broke up with someone, it was my doing, and it was a long time coming so it didn't affect me as much. This feels worse because we both love each other, but just know it won't work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Today I took my 4 year old, neutered cat to the vet because he had blood on his 'area' and was acting funny. She explained that his urethra was blocked and his bladder was very large and hard and sent me to an emergency hospital. Due to financial limitations I was unable to have him stay there for the recommended 36-48 hours with a catheter and bag the whole time, opting instead for an outpatient procedure to unblock the urethra and drain the bladder (about $385). Has anyone else been forced to go this route? Did your cat end up ok? Do you have any tips or suggestions for me? They did give me a few medications; an antibiotic, a painkiller, and some kind of relaxant to make urinating easier (and also some special urinary health food to last the weekend). I'm so worried that this treatment isn't good enough because I couldn't afford the $1200 hospitalized treatment. He's being extra cuddly right now and pretty tired, but purrs when I pet him. He has urinated a few times since we've been home, pink urine but I read that's normal. He barely ate any dinner but did drink a little water."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Today I took my 4 year old, neutered cat to the vet because he had blood on his 'area' and was acting funny. She explained that his urethra was blocked and his bladder was very large and hard and sent me to an emergency hospital. Due to financial limitations I was unable to have him stay there for the recommended 36-48 hours with a catheter and bag the whole time, opting instead for an outpatient procedure to unblock the urethra and drain the bladder (about $385). Has anyone else been forced to go this route? Did your cat end up ok? Do you have any tips or suggestions for me? They did give me a few medications; an antibiotic, a painkiller, and some kind of relaxant to make urinating easier (and also some special urinary health food to last the weekend). I'm so worried that this treatment isn't good enough because I couldn't afford the $1200 hospitalized treatment. He's being extra cuddly right now and pretty tired, but purrs when I pet him. He has urinated a few times since we've been home, pink urine but I read that's normal. He barely ate any dinner but did drink a little water."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Today I took my 4 year old, neutered cat to the vet because he had blood on his 'area' and was acting funny. She explained that his urethra was blocked and his bladder was very large and hard and sent me to an emergency hospital. Due to financial limitations I was unable to have him stay there for the recommended 36-48 hours with a catheter and bag the whole time, opting instead for an outpatient procedure to unblock the urethra and drain the bladder (about $385). Has anyone else been forced to go this route? Did your cat end up ok? Do you have any tips or suggestions for me? They did give me a few medications; an antibiotic, a painkiller, and some kind of relaxant to make urinating easier (and also some special urinary health food to last the weekend). I'm so worried that this treatment isn't good enough because I couldn't afford the $1200 hospitalized treatment. He's being extra cuddly right now and pretty tired, but purrs when I pet him. He has urinated a few times since we've been home, pink urine but I read that's normal. He barely ate any dinner but did drink a little water."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Today I took my 4 year old, neutered cat to the vet because he had blood on his 'area' and was acting funny. She explained that his urethra was blocked and his bladder was very large and hard and sent me to an emergency hospital. Due to financial limitations I was unable to have him stay there for the recommended 36-48 hours with a catheter and bag the whole time, opting instead for an outpatient procedure to unblock the urethra and drain the bladder (about $385). Has anyone else been forced to go this route? Did your cat end up ok? Do you have any tips or suggestions for me? They did give me a few medications; an antibiotic, a painkiller, and some kind of relaxant to make urinating easier (and also some special urinary health food to last the weekend). I'm so worried that this treatment isn't good enough because I couldn't afford the $1200 hospitalized treatment. He's being extra cuddly right now and pretty tired, but purrs when I pet him. He has urinated a few times since we've been home, pink urine but I read that's normal. He barely ate any dinner but did drink a little water."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Today I took my 4 year old, neutered cat to the vet because he had blood on his 'area' and was acting funny. She explained that his urethra was blocked and his bladder was very large and hard and sent me to an emergency hospital. Due to financial limitations I was unable to have him stay there for the recommended 36-48 hours with a catheter and bag the whole time, opting instead for an outpatient procedure to unblock the urethra and drain the bladder (about $385). Has anyone else been forced to go this route? Did your cat end up ok? Do you have any tips or suggestions for me? They did give me a few medications; an antibiotic, a painkiller, and some kind of relaxant to make urinating easier (and also some special urinary health food to last the weekend). I'm so worried that this treatment isn't good enough because I couldn't afford the $1200 hospitalized treatment. He's being extra cuddly right now and pretty tired, but purrs when I pet him. He has urinated a few times since we've been home, pink urine but I read that's normal. He barely ate any dinner but did drink a little water."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Today I took my 4 year old, neutered cat to the vet because he had blood on his 'area' and was acting funny. She explained that his urethra was blocked and his bladder was very large and hard and sent me to an emergency hospital. Due to financial limitations I was unable to have him stay there for the recommended 36-48 hours with a catheter and bag the whole time, opting instead for an outpatient procedure to unblock the urethra and drain the bladder (about $385). Has anyone else been forced to go this route? Did your cat end up ok? Do you have any tips or suggestions for me? They did give me a few medications; an antibiotic, a painkiller, and some kind of relaxant to make urinating easier (and also some special urinary health food to last the weekend). I'm so worried that this treatment isn't good enough because I couldn't afford the $1200 hospitalized treatment. He's being extra cuddly right now and pretty tired, but purrs when I pet him. He has urinated a few times since we've been home, pink urine but I read that's normal. He barely ate any dinner but did drink a little water."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For the past two years I have only dated sporadically and casually. If a date was going well and the guy initiated sexual contact, I never turned them down. Most of the time, I would typically become intimate with them in some way between dates 1-3. \n\nNow, I feel ready for a relationship for the first time and only want to date guys who feel the same. I have decided that the next time I have sex it will be with someone who I am either exclusive with or am on the path to exclusivity. But I know that when I like a guy I find it difficult to slow things down, and have trouble saying no when they make a move.\n\nAlso, I have become so used to equating sexual interest with general interest that I worry I might misread the situation. For example, if a guy doesn't attempt to kiss me at the end of the first date I automatically think he isn't interested, no matter how well the date went.\n\nWill having sex too early prevent potential boyfriends from taking me seriously? If so, how can I have more self control (I wish it grew on trees) and go slow?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For the past two years I have only dated sporadically and casually. If a date was going well and the guy initiated sexual contact, I never turned them down. Most of the time, I would typically become intimate with them in some way between dates 1-3. \n\nNow, I feel ready for a relationship for the first time and only want to date guys who feel the same. I have decided that the next time I have sex it will be with someone who I am either exclusive with or am on the path to exclusivity. But I know that when I like a guy I find it difficult to slow things down, and have trouble saying no when they make a move.\n\nAlso, I have become so used to equating sexual interest with general interest that I worry I might misread the situation. For example, if a guy doesn't attempt to kiss me at the end of the first date I automatically think he isn't interested, no matter how well the date went.\n\nWill having sex too early prevent potential boyfriends from taking me seriously? If so, how can I have more self control (I wish it grew on trees) and go slow?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For the past two years I have only dated sporadically and casually. If a date was going well and the guy initiated sexual contact, I never turned them down. Most of the time, I would typically become intimate with them in some way between dates 1-3. \n\nNow, I feel ready for a relationship for the first time and only want to date guys who feel the same. I have decided that the next time I have sex it will be with someone who I am either exclusive with or am on the path to exclusivity. But I know that when I like a guy I find it difficult to slow things down, and have trouble saying no when they make a move.\n\nAlso, I have become so used to equating sexual interest with general interest that I worry I might misread the situation. For example, if a guy doesn't attempt to kiss me at the end of the first date I automatically think he isn't interested, no matter how well the date went.\n\nWill having sex too early prevent potential boyfriends from taking me seriously? If so, how can I have more self control (I wish it grew on trees) and go slow?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: (I don't want to come across as arrogant by seeming like I'm saying \"Dude this chick is totally into me.\" without any evidence. Trust me, it's there. I'm not the kind of guy who thinks that way at all. In fact, I'm extremely shy around girls.)\n\nReceived a \"Hey I need to ask you something\" text and I'm currently staying the uni library to avoid the inevitable question: \"Think we could be more than friends?\"\n\nI know the best course of action is to be honest. I'm definitely into other girls around me and I don't want to say \"Oh, sorry, I just broke up with a girl and I'm not really looking for a relationship right now.\" and then turn around and start dating another girl.\n\nIt's hard to explain but she's just not \"my type.\" I certainly hope I'm not being superficial and I like spending time with her as a friend but I just can't see myself dating her. Physical attraction is one aspect of the situation, yes, but I've also noticed we disagree a fair amount on certain \"touchy\" subjects and I'm sure those would come up at some point.\n\nI've played around with the idea of \"just going for it\" but I honestly don't want to. To me, healthy relationships need to be mutual and I'm afraid we'd date for a week and I'd want to call it off. We have common friends and it would just be awkward as hell."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: (I don't want to come across as arrogant by seeming like I'm saying \"Dude this chick is totally into me.\" without any evidence. Trust me, it's there. I'm not the kind of guy who thinks that way at all. In fact, I'm extremely shy around girls.)\n\nReceived a \"Hey I need to ask you something\" text and I'm currently staying the uni library to avoid the inevitable question: \"Think we could be more than friends?\"\n\nI know the best course of action is to be honest. I'm definitely into other girls around me and I don't want to say \"Oh, sorry, I just broke up with a girl and I'm not really looking for a relationship right now.\" and then turn around and start dating another girl.\n\nIt's hard to explain but she's just not \"my type.\" I certainly hope I'm not being superficial and I like spending time with her as a friend but I just can't see myself dating her. Physical attraction is one aspect of the situation, yes, but I've also noticed we disagree a fair amount on certain \"touchy\" subjects and I'm sure those would come up at some point.\n\nI've played around with the idea of \"just going for it\" but I honestly don't want to. To me, healthy relationships need to be mutual and I'm afraid we'd date for a week and I'd want to call it off. We have common friends and it would just be awkward as hell."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: (I don't want to come across as arrogant by seeming like I'm saying \"Dude this chick is totally into me.\" without any evidence. Trust me, it's there. I'm not the kind of guy who thinks that way at all. In fact, I'm extremely shy around girls.)\n\nReceived a \"Hey I need to ask you something\" text and I'm currently staying the uni library to avoid the inevitable question: \"Think we could be more than friends?\"\n\nI know the best course of action is to be honest. I'm definitely into other girls around me and I don't want to say \"Oh, sorry, I just broke up with a girl and I'm not really looking for a relationship right now.\" and then turn around and start dating another girl.\n\nIt's hard to explain but she's just not \"my type.\" I certainly hope I'm not being superficial and I like spending time with her as a friend but I just can't see myself dating her. Physical attraction is one aspect of the situation, yes, but I've also noticed we disagree a fair amount on certain \"touchy\" subjects and I'm sure those would come up at some point.\n\nI've played around with the idea of \"just going for it\" but I honestly don't want to. To me, healthy relationships need to be mutual and I'm afraid we'd date for a week and I'd want to call it off. We have common friends and it would just be awkward as hell."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: (I don't want to come across as arrogant by seeming like I'm saying \"Dude this chick is totally into me.\" without any evidence. Trust me, it's there. I'm not the kind of guy who thinks that way at all. In fact, I'm extremely shy around girls.)\n\nReceived a \"Hey I need to ask you something\" text and I'm currently staying the uni library to avoid the inevitable question: \"Think we could be more than friends?\"\n\nI know the best course of action is to be honest. I'm definitely into other girls around me and I don't want to say \"Oh, sorry, I just broke up with a girl and I'm not really looking for a relationship right now.\" and then turn around and start dating another girl.\n\nIt's hard to explain but she's just not \"my type.\" I certainly hope I'm not being superficial and I like spending time with her as a friend but I just can't see myself dating her. Physical attraction is one aspect of the situation, yes, but I've also noticed we disagree a fair amount on certain \"touchy\" subjects and I'm sure those would come up at some point.\n\nI've played around with the idea of \"just going for it\" but I honestly don't want to. To me, healthy relationships need to be mutual and I'm afraid we'd date for a week and I'd want to call it off. We have common friends and it would just be awkward as hell."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: (I don't want to come across as arrogant by seeming like I'm saying \"Dude this chick is totally into me.\" without any evidence. Trust me, it's there. I'm not the kind of guy who thinks that way at all. In fact, I'm extremely shy around girls.)\n\nReceived a \"Hey I need to ask you something\" text and I'm currently staying the uni library to avoid the inevitable question: \"Think we could be more than friends?\"\n\nI know the best course of action is to be honest. I'm definitely into other girls around me and I don't want to say \"Oh, sorry, I just broke up with a girl and I'm not really looking for a relationship right now.\" and then turn around and start dating another girl.\n\nIt's hard to explain but she's just not \"my type.\" I certainly hope I'm not being superficial and I like spending time with her as a friend but I just can't see myself dating her. Physical attraction is one aspect of the situation, yes, but I've also noticed we disagree a fair amount on certain \"touchy\" subjects and I'm sure those would come up at some point.\n\nI've played around with the idea of \"just going for it\" but I honestly don't want to. To me, healthy relationships need to be mutual and I'm afraid we'd date for a week and I'd want to call it off. We have common friends and it would just be awkward as hell."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: (I don't want to come across as arrogant by seeming like I'm saying \"Dude this chick is totally into me.\" without any evidence. Trust me, it's there. I'm not the kind of guy who thinks that way at all. In fact, I'm extremely shy around girls.)\n\nReceived a \"Hey I need to ask you something\" text and I'm currently staying the uni library to avoid the inevitable question: \"Think we could be more than friends?\"\n\nI know the best course of action is to be honest. I'm definitely into other girls around me and I don't want to say \"Oh, sorry, I just broke up with a girl and I'm not really looking for a relationship right now.\" and then turn around and start dating another girl.\n\nIt's hard to explain but she's just not \"my type.\" I certainly hope I'm not being superficial and I like spending time with her as a friend but I just can't see myself dating her. Physical attraction is one aspect of the situation, yes, but I've also noticed we disagree a fair amount on certain \"touchy\" subjects and I'm sure those would come up at some point.\n\nI've played around with the idea of \"just going for it\" but I honestly don't want to. To me, healthy relationships need to be mutual and I'm afraid we'd date for a week and I'd want to call it off. We have common friends and it would just be awkward as hell."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I posted this in /r/computers but thought I'd try here as well.\n\nI have an XPS M1330 that has shat the bed like so many others with the NVidia chipset. No power, no nothing. The system is out of warranty, but I have been told that due to lawsuits etc, Dell will replace, not repair these units if you can get to the right person on the phone. The best option I have gotten from Dell so far is a $200 discount off a $500 repair. AFAIK these repairs often don't last 90 days before failing again. Are there any Redditors here in the know that can help facilitate a replacement for me? I used to be an L2 at Dell back in the day, but I know longer have any contacts on the inside."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I posted this in /r/computers but thought I'd try here as well.\n\nI have an XPS M1330 that has shat the bed like so many others with the NVidia chipset. No power, no nothing. The system is out of warranty, but I have been told that due to lawsuits etc, Dell will replace, not repair these units if you can get to the right person on the phone. The best option I have gotten from Dell so far is a $200 discount off a $500 repair. AFAIK these repairs often don't last 90 days before failing again. Are there any Redditors here in the know that can help facilitate a replacement for me? I used to be an L2 at Dell back in the day, but I know longer have any contacts on the inside."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I posted this in /r/computers but thought I'd try here as well.\n\nI have an XPS M1330 that has shat the bed like so many others with the NVidia chipset. No power, no nothing. The system is out of warranty, but I have been told that due to lawsuits etc, Dell will replace, not repair these units if you can get to the right person on the phone. The best option I have gotten from Dell so far is a $200 discount off a $500 repair. AFAIK these repairs often don't last 90 days before failing again. Are there any Redditors here in the know that can help facilitate a replacement for me? I used to be an L2 at Dell back in the day, but I know longer have any contacts on the inside."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I posted this in /r/computers but thought I'd try here as well.\n\nI have an XPS M1330 that has shat the bed like so many others with the NVidia chipset. No power, no nothing. The system is out of warranty, but I have been told that due to lawsuits etc, Dell will replace, not repair these units if you can get to the right person on the phone. The best option I have gotten from Dell so far is a $200 discount off a $500 repair. AFAIK these repairs often don't last 90 days before failing again. Are there any Redditors here in the know that can help facilitate a replacement for me? I used to be an L2 at Dell back in the day, but I know longer have any contacts on the inside."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I posted this in /r/computers but thought I'd try here as well.\n\nI have an XPS M1330 that has shat the bed like so many others with the NVidia chipset. No power, no nothing. The system is out of warranty, but I have been told that due to lawsuits etc, Dell will replace, not repair these units if you can get to the right person on the phone. The best option I have gotten from Dell so far is a $200 discount off a $500 repair. AFAIK these repairs often don't last 90 days before failing again. Are there any Redditors here in the know that can help facilitate a replacement for me? I used to be an L2 at Dell back in the day, but I know longer have any contacts on the inside."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have two best friends for over 15 years, lets call them Mike and Nick. Objectively, all three of us were born into upper middle class families in the suburbs. There was always a wealth disparity between my family and Mike's and Nick's family but it was unspoken because no one really talks about that stuff. However, as the years progressed throughout childhood and into adulthood I can recall numerous instances where I was made to feel inferior by them for no reason other than jealousy. These instances have become more and more apparent. \n\nSome backstory:\n\nI went to an Ivy League school while Mike and Nick went to good schools but just not as prestigious so they equate that to \"my dad being able to pay for private school throughout my education.\" \n\nAfter college I decided to forgo graduate school and manage my father's company since I graduated during a time where times were economically uncertain (still are). Mike and Nick constantly bring it up that I just got a \"hand me down\" business and that I'm set. But what they forget is that I bust my ass at this job and its a large business so my stress level is super high and I did it to help my father who was needed to take care of my sick mother. \n\nNote: Mike's father is a doctor and Nick's dad is an artist in high ddemand so they both make pretty good money. \n\nI buy an Audi with my own money that I earned and Mike and Nick say that I wouldn't have been able to get it if I didn't have my dad's company. Its just one thing after the other. Mind you, Nick's dad bought him an Audi.\n\nI'm tired of them constantly berating me and my success. I genuinely have never rubbed my fortunate life to them and have always been grateful for being able to have this opportunity. It's just really hard to let these friends go because our families are very close and these guys have been my best friends for my entire memorable life."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have two best friends for over 15 years, lets call them Mike and Nick. Objectively, all three of us were born into upper middle class families in the suburbs. There was always a wealth disparity between my family and Mike's and Nick's family but it was unspoken because no one really talks about that stuff. However, as the years progressed throughout childhood and into adulthood I can recall numerous instances where I was made to feel inferior by them for no reason other than jealousy. These instances have become more and more apparent. \n\nSome backstory:\n\nI went to an Ivy League school while Mike and Nick went to good schools but just not as prestigious so they equate that to \"my dad being able to pay for private school throughout my education.\" \n\nAfter college I decided to forgo graduate school and manage my father's company since I graduated during a time where times were economically uncertain (still are). Mike and Nick constantly bring it up that I just got a \"hand me down\" business and that I'm set. But what they forget is that I bust my ass at this job and its a large business so my stress level is super high and I did it to help my father who was needed to take care of my sick mother. \n\nNote: Mike's father is a doctor and Nick's dad is an artist in high ddemand so they both make pretty good money. \n\nI buy an Audi with my own money that I earned and Mike and Nick say that I wouldn't have been able to get it if I didn't have my dad's company. Its just one thing after the other. Mind you, Nick's dad bought him an Audi.\n\nI'm tired of them constantly berating me and my success. I genuinely have never rubbed my fortunate life to them and have always been grateful for being able to have this opportunity. It's just really hard to let these friends go because our families are very close and these guys have been my best friends for my entire memorable life."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have two best friends for over 15 years, lets call them Mike and Nick. Objectively, all three of us were born into upper middle class families in the suburbs. There was always a wealth disparity between my family and Mike's and Nick's family but it was unspoken because no one really talks about that stuff. However, as the years progressed throughout childhood and into adulthood I can recall numerous instances where I was made to feel inferior by them for no reason other than jealousy. These instances have become more and more apparent. \n\nSome backstory:\n\nI went to an Ivy League school while Mike and Nick went to good schools but just not as prestigious so they equate that to \"my dad being able to pay for private school throughout my education.\" \n\nAfter college I decided to forgo graduate school and manage my father's company since I graduated during a time where times were economically uncertain (still are). Mike and Nick constantly bring it up that I just got a \"hand me down\" business and that I'm set. But what they forget is that I bust my ass at this job and its a large business so my stress level is super high and I did it to help my father who was needed to take care of my sick mother. \n\nNote: Mike's father is a doctor and Nick's dad is an artist in high ddemand so they both make pretty good money. \n\nI buy an Audi with my own money that I earned and Mike and Nick say that I wouldn't have been able to get it if I didn't have my dad's company. Its just one thing after the other. Mind you, Nick's dad bought him an Audi.\n\nI'm tired of them constantly berating me and my success. I genuinely have never rubbed my fortunate life to them and have always been grateful for being able to have this opportunity. It's just really hard to let these friends go because our families are very close and these guys have been my best friends for my entire memorable life."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have two best friends for over 15 years, lets call them Mike and Nick. Objectively, all three of us were born into upper middle class families in the suburbs. There was always a wealth disparity between my family and Mike's and Nick's family but it was unspoken because no one really talks about that stuff. However, as the years progressed throughout childhood and into adulthood I can recall numerous instances where I was made to feel inferior by them for no reason other than jealousy. These instances have become more and more apparent. \n\nSome backstory:\n\nI went to an Ivy League school while Mike and Nick went to good schools but just not as prestigious so they equate that to \"my dad being able to pay for private school throughout my education.\" \n\nAfter college I decided to forgo graduate school and manage my father's company since I graduated during a time where times were economically uncertain (still are). Mike and Nick constantly bring it up that I just got a \"hand me down\" business and that I'm set. But what they forget is that I bust my ass at this job and its a large business so my stress level is super high and I did it to help my father who was needed to take care of my sick mother. \n\nNote: Mike's father is a doctor and Nick's dad is an artist in high ddemand so they both make pretty good money. \n\nI buy an Audi with my own money that I earned and Mike and Nick say that I wouldn't have been able to get it if I didn't have my dad's company. Its just one thing after the other. Mind you, Nick's dad bought him an Audi.\n\nI'm tired of them constantly berating me and my success. I genuinely have never rubbed my fortunate life to them and have always been grateful for being able to have this opportunity. It's just really hard to let these friends go because our families are very close and these guys have been my best friends for my entire memorable life."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have two best friends for over 15 years, lets call them Mike and Nick. Objectively, all three of us were born into upper middle class families in the suburbs. There was always a wealth disparity between my family and Mike's and Nick's family but it was unspoken because no one really talks about that stuff. However, as the years progressed throughout childhood and into adulthood I can recall numerous instances where I was made to feel inferior by them for no reason other than jealousy. These instances have become more and more apparent. \n\nSome backstory:\n\nI went to an Ivy League school while Mike and Nick went to good schools but just not as prestigious so they equate that to \"my dad being able to pay for private school throughout my education.\" \n\nAfter college I decided to forgo graduate school and manage my father's company since I graduated during a time where times were economically uncertain (still are). Mike and Nick constantly bring it up that I just got a \"hand me down\" business and that I'm set. But what they forget is that I bust my ass at this job and its a large business so my stress level is super high and I did it to help my father who was needed to take care of my sick mother. \n\nNote: Mike's father is a doctor and Nick's dad is an artist in high ddemand so they both make pretty good money. \n\nI buy an Audi with my own money that I earned and Mike and Nick say that I wouldn't have been able to get it if I didn't have my dad's company. Its just one thing after the other. Mind you, Nick's dad bought him an Audi.\n\nI'm tired of them constantly berating me and my success. I genuinely have never rubbed my fortunate life to them and have always been grateful for being able to have this opportunity. It's just really hard to let these friends go because our families are very close and these guys have been my best friends for my entire memorable life."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have two best friends for over 15 years, lets call them Mike and Nick. Objectively, all three of us were born into upper middle class families in the suburbs. There was always a wealth disparity between my family and Mike's and Nick's family but it was unspoken because no one really talks about that stuff. However, as the years progressed throughout childhood and into adulthood I can recall numerous instances where I was made to feel inferior by them for no reason other than jealousy. These instances have become more and more apparent. \n\nSome backstory:\n\nI went to an Ivy League school while Mike and Nick went to good schools but just not as prestigious so they equate that to \"my dad being able to pay for private school throughout my education.\" \n\nAfter college I decided to forgo graduate school and manage my father's company since I graduated during a time where times were economically uncertain (still are). Mike and Nick constantly bring it up that I just got a \"hand me down\" business and that I'm set. But what they forget is that I bust my ass at this job and its a large business so my stress level is super high and I did it to help my father who was needed to take care of my sick mother. \n\nNote: Mike's father is a doctor and Nick's dad is an artist in high ddemand so they both make pretty good money. \n\nI buy an Audi with my own money that I earned and Mike and Nick say that I wouldn't have been able to get it if I didn't have my dad's company. Its just one thing after the other. Mind you, Nick's dad bought him an Audi.\n\nI'm tired of them constantly berating me and my success. I genuinely have never rubbed my fortunate life to them and have always been grateful for being able to have this opportunity. It's just really hard to let these friends go because our families are very close and these guys have been my best friends for my entire memorable life."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *Details:*\n\n*Pros;*\n\nTogether for two years. \n\nWe both care for each other very much.\n\nShe is an amazing person. \n\nWhen she is happy we are amazing together \n\nI understand her in every sense. \n\n*Cons;* \n\nShe is almost always depressed. I can't spend one day with her without getting very depressed over something. Its aggravating. \n\nShe's the most dependent person I've ever met. Want her to make a decision? Nope you better make it for her. \n\nHer parents are nuts. Not going into details, so just know they're nuts. \n\nShe turned down a VERY large scholarship to a school to take time off school. I'm staying local for college, so she is going to be with me for another year.\n\n*Other thoughts*\n\nI have heard too many stories of couples being destroyed because one person is ALWAYS miserable. This is going to be her and I. Which is depressing seeing how much I like her. \n\nI feel like it would be bad to break up with her considering I'm going to see her for the next one or two years. That seems kind of selfish, I know. I want to stay with her, but I know she will drag me down with her. \n\nWhat should I do reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *Details:*\n\n*Pros;*\n\nTogether for two years. \n\nWe both care for each other very much.\n\nShe is an amazing person. \n\nWhen she is happy we are amazing together \n\nI understand her in every sense. \n\n*Cons;* \n\nShe is almost always depressed. I can't spend one day with her without getting very depressed over something. Its aggravating. \n\nShe's the most dependent person I've ever met. Want her to make a decision? Nope you better make it for her. \n\nHer parents are nuts. Not going into details, so just know they're nuts. \n\nShe turned down a VERY large scholarship to a school to take time off school. I'm staying local for college, so she is going to be with me for another year.\n\n*Other thoughts*\n\nI have heard too many stories of couples being destroyed because one person is ALWAYS miserable. This is going to be her and I. Which is depressing seeing how much I like her. \n\nI feel like it would be bad to break up with her considering I'm going to see her for the next one or two years. That seems kind of selfish, I know. I want to stay with her, but I know she will drag me down with her. \n\nWhat should I do reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *Details:*\n\n*Pros;*\n\nTogether for two years. \n\nWe both care for each other very much.\n\nShe is an amazing person. \n\nWhen she is happy we are amazing together \n\nI understand her in every sense. \n\n*Cons;* \n\nShe is almost always depressed. I can't spend one day with her without getting very depressed over something. Its aggravating. \n\nShe's the most dependent person I've ever met. Want her to make a decision? Nope you better make it for her. \n\nHer parents are nuts. Not going into details, so just know they're nuts. \n\nShe turned down a VERY large scholarship to a school to take time off school. I'm staying local for college, so she is going to be with me for another year.\n\n*Other thoughts*\n\nI have heard too many stories of couples being destroyed because one person is ALWAYS miserable. This is going to be her and I. Which is depressing seeing how much I like her. \n\nI feel like it would be bad to break up with her considering I'm going to see her for the next one or two years. That seems kind of selfish, I know. I want to stay with her, but I know she will drag me down with her. \n\nWhat should I do reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *Details:*\n\n*Pros;*\n\nTogether for two years. \n\nWe both care for each other very much.\n\nShe is an amazing person. \n\nWhen she is happy we are amazing together \n\nI understand her in every sense. \n\n*Cons;* \n\nShe is almost always depressed. I can't spend one day with her without getting very depressed over something. Its aggravating. \n\nShe's the most dependent person I've ever met. Want her to make a decision? Nope you better make it for her. \n\nHer parents are nuts. Not going into details, so just know they're nuts. \n\nShe turned down a VERY large scholarship to a school to take time off school. I'm staying local for college, so she is going to be with me for another year.\n\n*Other thoughts*\n\nI have heard too many stories of couples being destroyed because one person is ALWAYS miserable. This is going to be her and I. Which is depressing seeing how much I like her. \n\nI feel like it would be bad to break up with her considering I'm going to see her for the next one or two years. That seems kind of selfish, I know. I want to stay with her, but I know she will drag me down with her. \n\nWhat should I do reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *Details:*\n\n*Pros;*\n\nTogether for two years. \n\nWe both care for each other very much.\n\nShe is an amazing person. \n\nWhen she is happy we are amazing together \n\nI understand her in every sense. \n\n*Cons;* \n\nShe is almost always depressed. I can't spend one day with her without getting very depressed over something. Its aggravating. \n\nShe's the most dependent person I've ever met. Want her to make a decision? Nope you better make it for her. \n\nHer parents are nuts. Not going into details, so just know they're nuts. \n\nShe turned down a VERY large scholarship to a school to take time off school. I'm staying local for college, so she is going to be with me for another year.\n\n*Other thoughts*\n\nI have heard too many stories of couples being destroyed because one person is ALWAYS miserable. This is going to be her and I. Which is depressing seeing how much I like her. \n\nI feel like it would be bad to break up with her considering I'm going to see her for the next one or two years. That seems kind of selfish, I know. I want to stay with her, but I know she will drag me down with her. \n\nWhat should I do reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm on my way home from work, getting on the on-ramp to the parkway. I'm the third car in line, with about 10 more cars behind me. The car at the very front is going about 5 mph trying to merge onto the parkway.but there are no other cars in sight. In other words, he's driving about 30 miles below the speed limit for no good reason. The car in front of me, a green (Honda, maybe?) understandably honks. Not obnoxiously, but enough to let the guy know to get a move on. The first car, a Volvo who I'll refer to as Bitchdick McGee, finally speeds up, heading straight into the right lane. Greeny speeds up and tries to pass on the left. BM VIOLENTLY SWERVES into the left lane to prevent him from passing. Maybe it was an honest mistake, but probably not. Ok. Greeny speeds up and tries to pass him on the right. BM again, violently swerves into the right lane to prevent the pass. Greeny moves left again, then right, but BM matches him swerve for swerve, driving right down the middle at one point, defending each lane like a basketball player protects his basket. This back and forth went on for about 15 seconds while I sat there astonished and unconsciously speeding to keep up with them. Eventually Greeny settled into the left lane behind BM, obviously not willing to mess with this crazy fucking asshole any longer. Unsure of what else to do, I snapped a picture of his car and license plate. *reddit, my question to you is, is there anything that can be done to get this obviously unstable driver off the road?* I know I've often seen things while driving and said to myself, \"If there was an efficient way to do it, I'd totally report that guy.\" Well, reddit? What do you got? *Is there anything that can be done about this, besides complaining about it on reddit?*\nI'm headed to dinner now, but I'd appreciate any comments you guys leave!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm on my way home from work, getting on the on-ramp to the parkway. I'm the third car in line, with about 10 more cars behind me. The car at the very front is going about 5 mph trying to merge onto the parkway.but there are no other cars in sight. In other words, he's driving about 30 miles below the speed limit for no good reason. The car in front of me, a green (Honda, maybe?) understandably honks. Not obnoxiously, but enough to let the guy know to get a move on. The first car, a Volvo who I'll refer to as Bitchdick McGee, finally speeds up, heading straight into the right lane. Greeny speeds up and tries to pass on the left. BM VIOLENTLY SWERVES into the left lane to prevent him from passing. Maybe it was an honest mistake, but probably not. Ok. Greeny speeds up and tries to pass him on the right. BM again, violently swerves into the right lane to prevent the pass. Greeny moves left again, then right, but BM matches him swerve for swerve, driving right down the middle at one point, defending each lane like a basketball player protects his basket. This back and forth went on for about 15 seconds while I sat there astonished and unconsciously speeding to keep up with them. Eventually Greeny settled into the left lane behind BM, obviously not willing to mess with this crazy fucking asshole any longer. Unsure of what else to do, I snapped a picture of his car and license plate. *reddit, my question to you is, is there anything that can be done to get this obviously unstable driver off the road?* I know I've often seen things while driving and said to myself, \"If there was an efficient way to do it, I'd totally report that guy.\" Well, reddit? What do you got? *Is there anything that can be done about this, besides complaining about it on reddit?*\nI'm headed to dinner now, but I'd appreciate any comments you guys leave!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm on my way home from work, getting on the on-ramp to the parkway. I'm the third car in line, with about 10 more cars behind me. The car at the very front is going about 5 mph trying to merge onto the parkway.but there are no other cars in sight. In other words, he's driving about 30 miles below the speed limit for no good reason. The car in front of me, a green (Honda, maybe?) understandably honks. Not obnoxiously, but enough to let the guy know to get a move on. The first car, a Volvo who I'll refer to as Bitchdick McGee, finally speeds up, heading straight into the right lane. Greeny speeds up and tries to pass on the left. BM VIOLENTLY SWERVES into the left lane to prevent him from passing. Maybe it was an honest mistake, but probably not. Ok. Greeny speeds up and tries to pass him on the right. BM again, violently swerves into the right lane to prevent the pass. Greeny moves left again, then right, but BM matches him swerve for swerve, driving right down the middle at one point, defending each lane like a basketball player protects his basket. This back and forth went on for about 15 seconds while I sat there astonished and unconsciously speeding to keep up with them. Eventually Greeny settled into the left lane behind BM, obviously not willing to mess with this crazy fucking asshole any longer. Unsure of what else to do, I snapped a picture of his car and license plate. *reddit, my question to you is, is there anything that can be done to get this obviously unstable driver off the road?* I know I've often seen things while driving and said to myself, \"If there was an efficient way to do it, I'd totally report that guy.\" Well, reddit? What do you got? *Is there anything that can be done about this, besides complaining about it on reddit?*\nI'm headed to dinner now, but I'd appreciate any comments you guys leave!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with this guy for a few months. I was anxious, afraid to show feelings, etc. and I broke up because I couldn't take the obviously strained relationship anymore.\n\nHe was always the one to show feelings, he's a person that gets attached quickly, etc.\n\nSo a few months after the break up - a few days ago, actually, we were both at a party on the beach and we were both drunk so we got in a fight that we both barely remembered, but we went out to talk it out so we wouldn't stay in bad relations.\n\nWe ended up talking about our whole relationship and everything - it ended with him kissing me and us agreeing to stay fwb or something like that.\nHe expressed his concern with his quick development of feelings, with the way it ended the last time, his worry I might find someone else, etc.\n\nHowever, after a few days he broke it off saying that he doesn't really feel anything towards me, that he's just going to hurt me and so on.\n\nI can't really ask him about this again randomly, before I could I'd have to try to get in contact again slowly or something, and I just don't know what to do.\n\nI mean it happened so quickly and his behavior and his words in those few days were all kind of contradicted. \n\nAny opinions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with this guy for a few months. I was anxious, afraid to show feelings, etc. and I broke up because I couldn't take the obviously strained relationship anymore.\n\nHe was always the one to show feelings, he's a person that gets attached quickly, etc.\n\nSo a few months after the break up - a few days ago, actually, we were both at a party on the beach and we were both drunk so we got in a fight that we both barely remembered, but we went out to talk it out so we wouldn't stay in bad relations.\n\nWe ended up talking about our whole relationship and everything - it ended with him kissing me and us agreeing to stay fwb or something like that.\nHe expressed his concern with his quick development of feelings, with the way it ended the last time, his worry I might find someone else, etc.\n\nHowever, after a few days he broke it off saying that he doesn't really feel anything towards me, that he's just going to hurt me and so on.\n\nI can't really ask him about this again randomly, before I could I'd have to try to get in contact again slowly or something, and I just don't know what to do.\n\nI mean it happened so quickly and his behavior and his words in those few days were all kind of contradicted. \n\nAny opinions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with this guy for a few months. I was anxious, afraid to show feelings, etc. and I broke up because I couldn't take the obviously strained relationship anymore.\n\nHe was always the one to show feelings, he's a person that gets attached quickly, etc.\n\nSo a few months after the break up - a few days ago, actually, we were both at a party on the beach and we were both drunk so we got in a fight that we both barely remembered, but we went out to talk it out so we wouldn't stay in bad relations.\n\nWe ended up talking about our whole relationship and everything - it ended with him kissing me and us agreeing to stay fwb or something like that.\nHe expressed his concern with his quick development of feelings, with the way it ended the last time, his worry I might find someone else, etc.\n\nHowever, after a few days he broke it off saying that he doesn't really feel anything towards me, that he's just going to hurt me and so on.\n\nI can't really ask him about this again randomly, before I could I'd have to try to get in contact again slowly or something, and I just don't know what to do.\n\nI mean it happened so quickly and his behavior and his words in those few days were all kind of contradicted. \n\nAny opinions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with this guy for a few months. I was anxious, afraid to show feelings, etc. and I broke up because I couldn't take the obviously strained relationship anymore.\n\nHe was always the one to show feelings, he's a person that gets attached quickly, etc.\n\nSo a few months after the break up - a few days ago, actually, we were both at a party on the beach and we were both drunk so we got in a fight that we both barely remembered, but we went out to talk it out so we wouldn't stay in bad relations.\n\nWe ended up talking about our whole relationship and everything - it ended with him kissing me and us agreeing to stay fwb or something like that.\nHe expressed his concern with his quick development of feelings, with the way it ended the last time, his worry I might find someone else, etc.\n\nHowever, after a few days he broke it off saying that he doesn't really feel anything towards me, that he's just going to hurt me and so on.\n\nI can't really ask him about this again randomly, before I could I'd have to try to get in contact again slowly or something, and I just don't know what to do.\n\nI mean it happened so quickly and his behavior and his words in those few days were all kind of contradicted. \n\nAny opinions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with this guy for a few months. I was anxious, afraid to show feelings, etc. and I broke up because I couldn't take the obviously strained relationship anymore.\n\nHe was always the one to show feelings, he's a person that gets attached quickly, etc.\n\nSo a few months after the break up - a few days ago, actually, we were both at a party on the beach and we were both drunk so we got in a fight that we both barely remembered, but we went out to talk it out so we wouldn't stay in bad relations.\n\nWe ended up talking about our whole relationship and everything - it ended with him kissing me and us agreeing to stay fwb or something like that.\nHe expressed his concern with his quick development of feelings, with the way it ended the last time, his worry I might find someone else, etc.\n\nHowever, after a few days he broke it off saying that he doesn't really feel anything towards me, that he's just going to hurt me and so on.\n\nI can't really ask him about this again randomly, before I could I'd have to try to get in contact again slowly or something, and I just don't know what to do.\n\nI mean it happened so quickly and his behavior and his words in those few days were all kind of contradicted. \n\nAny opinions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with this guy for a few months. I was anxious, afraid to show feelings, etc. and I broke up because I couldn't take the obviously strained relationship anymore.\n\nHe was always the one to show feelings, he's a person that gets attached quickly, etc.\n\nSo a few months after the break up - a few days ago, actually, we were both at a party on the beach and we were both drunk so we got in a fight that we both barely remembered, but we went out to talk it out so we wouldn't stay in bad relations.\n\nWe ended up talking about our whole relationship and everything - it ended with him kissing me and us agreeing to stay fwb or something like that.\nHe expressed his concern with his quick development of feelings, with the way it ended the last time, his worry I might find someone else, etc.\n\nHowever, after a few days he broke it off saying that he doesn't really feel anything towards me, that he's just going to hurt me and so on.\n\nI can't really ask him about this again randomly, before I could I'd have to try to get in contact again slowly or something, and I just don't know what to do.\n\nI mean it happened so quickly and his behavior and his words in those few days were all kind of contradicted. \n\nAny opinions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Whether it be the \"one that got away,\" problem family member or what have you, how do you deal with the day-to-day stress of them on your conscience? Here's what I mean:\n\nIt's been about 5 years now. Back in 2007 I confronted my best friend on the feelings I had for him. We had known each other since middle school and over the years we grew close. I started to look to him as a means of reinforcing my own identity and, somewhere along the line, it crossed into an actual attraction. He is, to this day, the only person who has even given me the true sensation of \"butterflies\" when I spoke to or saw him. Needless to say, my feelings weren't reciprocated. While initially we didn't intend to cut things off as friends, he quickly grew distant and soon we had no contact whatsoever. The first few years were really tough, and I found myself constantly trying to get back into his life or be in the periphery. Now, I can manage going for a day or two without thinking about him too much, and it doesn't interfere with my life regularly. I got the urge to write this, however, because I had a dream last night where I spent quite a bit of time trying to rekindle our friendship, often to be strung along be him. I've had several dreams over the course of these years about him that have totally ruined my progress in letting him go. If it's not apparent already, we're both dudes. I wouldn't identify as gay necessarily, but that's a whole other thread."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Whether it be the \"one that got away,\" problem family member or what have you, how do you deal with the day-to-day stress of them on your conscience? Here's what I mean:\n\nIt's been about 5 years now. Back in 2007 I confronted my best friend on the feelings I had for him. We had known each other since middle school and over the years we grew close. I started to look to him as a means of reinforcing my own identity and, somewhere along the line, it crossed into an actual attraction. He is, to this day, the only person who has even given me the true sensation of \"butterflies\" when I spoke to or saw him. Needless to say, my feelings weren't reciprocated. While initially we didn't intend to cut things off as friends, he quickly grew distant and soon we had no contact whatsoever. The first few years were really tough, and I found myself constantly trying to get back into his life or be in the periphery. Now, I can manage going for a day or two without thinking about him too much, and it doesn't interfere with my life regularly. I got the urge to write this, however, because I had a dream last night where I spent quite a bit of time trying to rekindle our friendship, often to be strung along be him. I've had several dreams over the course of these years about him that have totally ruined my progress in letting him go. If it's not apparent already, we're both dudes. I wouldn't identify as gay necessarily, but that's a whole other thread."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Whether it be the \"one that got away,\" problem family member or what have you, how do you deal with the day-to-day stress of them on your conscience? Here's what I mean:\n\nIt's been about 5 years now. Back in 2007 I confronted my best friend on the feelings I had for him. We had known each other since middle school and over the years we grew close. I started to look to him as a means of reinforcing my own identity and, somewhere along the line, it crossed into an actual attraction. He is, to this day, the only person who has even given me the true sensation of \"butterflies\" when I spoke to or saw him. Needless to say, my feelings weren't reciprocated. While initially we didn't intend to cut things off as friends, he quickly grew distant and soon we had no contact whatsoever. The first few years were really tough, and I found myself constantly trying to get back into his life or be in the periphery. Now, I can manage going for a day or two without thinking about him too much, and it doesn't interfere with my life regularly. I got the urge to write this, however, because I had a dream last night where I spent quite a bit of time trying to rekindle our friendship, often to be strung along be him. I've had several dreams over the course of these years about him that have totally ruined my progress in letting him go. If it's not apparent already, we're both dudes. I wouldn't identify as gay necessarily, but that's a whole other thread."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Whether it be the \"one that got away,\" problem family member or what have you, how do you deal with the day-to-day stress of them on your conscience? Here's what I mean:\n\nIt's been about 5 years now. Back in 2007 I confronted my best friend on the feelings I had for him. We had known each other since middle school and over the years we grew close. I started to look to him as a means of reinforcing my own identity and, somewhere along the line, it crossed into an actual attraction. He is, to this day, the only person who has even given me the true sensation of \"butterflies\" when I spoke to or saw him. Needless to say, my feelings weren't reciprocated. While initially we didn't intend to cut things off as friends, he quickly grew distant and soon we had no contact whatsoever. The first few years were really tough, and I found myself constantly trying to get back into his life or be in the periphery. Now, I can manage going for a day or two without thinking about him too much, and it doesn't interfere with my life regularly. I got the urge to write this, however, because I had a dream last night where I spent quite a bit of time trying to rekindle our friendship, often to be strung along be him. I've had several dreams over the course of these years about him that have totally ruined my progress in letting him go. If it's not apparent already, we're both dudes. I wouldn't identify as gay necessarily, but that's a whole other thread."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Whether it be the \"one that got away,\" problem family member or what have you, how do you deal with the day-to-day stress of them on your conscience? Here's what I mean:\n\nIt's been about 5 years now. Back in 2007 I confronted my best friend on the feelings I had for him. We had known each other since middle school and over the years we grew close. I started to look to him as a means of reinforcing my own identity and, somewhere along the line, it crossed into an actual attraction. He is, to this day, the only person who has even given me the true sensation of \"butterflies\" when I spoke to or saw him. Needless to say, my feelings weren't reciprocated. While initially we didn't intend to cut things off as friends, he quickly grew distant and soon we had no contact whatsoever. The first few years were really tough, and I found myself constantly trying to get back into his life or be in the periphery. Now, I can manage going for a day or two without thinking about him too much, and it doesn't interfere with my life regularly. I got the urge to write this, however, because I had a dream last night where I spent quite a bit of time trying to rekindle our friendship, often to be strung along be him. I've had several dreams over the course of these years about him that have totally ruined my progress in letting him go. If it's not apparent already, we're both dudes. I wouldn't identify as gay necessarily, but that's a whole other thread."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Whether it be the \"one that got away,\" problem family member or what have you, how do you deal with the day-to-day stress of them on your conscience? Here's what I mean:\n\nIt's been about 5 years now. Back in 2007 I confronted my best friend on the feelings I had for him. We had known each other since middle school and over the years we grew close. I started to look to him as a means of reinforcing my own identity and, somewhere along the line, it crossed into an actual attraction. He is, to this day, the only person who has even given me the true sensation of \"butterflies\" when I spoke to or saw him. Needless to say, my feelings weren't reciprocated. While initially we didn't intend to cut things off as friends, he quickly grew distant and soon we had no contact whatsoever. The first few years were really tough, and I found myself constantly trying to get back into his life or be in the periphery. Now, I can manage going for a day or two without thinking about him too much, and it doesn't interfere with my life regularly. I got the urge to write this, however, because I had a dream last night where I spent quite a bit of time trying to rekindle our friendship, often to be strung along be him. I've had several dreams over the course of these years about him that have totally ruined my progress in letting him go. If it's not apparent already, we're both dudes. I wouldn't identify as gay necessarily, but that's a whole other thread."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically, I lived in the middle east for about 9 years, I was mostly surrounded by people from the UK and everyone had similar interests in music and T.V shows. Now that i'm actually living in the UK everyone is so different, including this girl i've grown close to. \n\nA little back story: when I lived in the middle east I was always awkward with girls unless I was under the influence of alcohol, I had one relationship that lasted a month, but I still maintained a fairly active sex life. The last time I did anything sexual with a woman was March of last year (yeah, a long time, not much luck in Uni). My friends tell me i'm attractive, the people i've done things with have been attractive so i've started to assume I'm attractive. \n\nSo anyway, this girl is beautiful, but not in the generic blond-hair-blue-eyes-big-breasts-fat-ass kind of way. Since i've met her, she's changed the colour of her SHORT hair maybe 5/6 times, she's got piercings and she wears stretchers. She listens to K-pop and uses tumblr and she has a healthy body image. \n\nI pretty much have nothing in common with her. Like, at all (I listen to Drake and the Weeknd, spend my time on reddit and occasionally browse 4chan (yeah 4chan+tumblr, not the best mix). We've been on long walks and I somehow managed to keep it from getting too awkward, we also played through the entirety of amnesia together which was a blast. The thing I'm scared about is if we do end up getting together and we surpass the honeymoon stage, will our lack of common interests wreck the relationship or will we have enough time to develop some? I feel like we're already running out of things to talk about."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically, I lived in the middle east for about 9 years, I was mostly surrounded by people from the UK and everyone had similar interests in music and T.V shows. Now that i'm actually living in the UK everyone is so different, including this girl i've grown close to. \n\nA little back story: when I lived in the middle east I was always awkward with girls unless I was under the influence of alcohol, I had one relationship that lasted a month, but I still maintained a fairly active sex life. The last time I did anything sexual with a woman was March of last year (yeah, a long time, not much luck in Uni). My friends tell me i'm attractive, the people i've done things with have been attractive so i've started to assume I'm attractive. \n\nSo anyway, this girl is beautiful, but not in the generic blond-hair-blue-eyes-big-breasts-fat-ass kind of way. Since i've met her, she's changed the colour of her SHORT hair maybe 5/6 times, she's got piercings and she wears stretchers. She listens to K-pop and uses tumblr and she has a healthy body image. \n\nI pretty much have nothing in common with her. Like, at all (I listen to Drake and the Weeknd, spend my time on reddit and occasionally browse 4chan (yeah 4chan+tumblr, not the best mix). We've been on long walks and I somehow managed to keep it from getting too awkward, we also played through the entirety of amnesia together which was a blast. The thing I'm scared about is if we do end up getting together and we surpass the honeymoon stage, will our lack of common interests wreck the relationship or will we have enough time to develop some? I feel like we're already running out of things to talk about."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically, I lived in the middle east for about 9 years, I was mostly surrounded by people from the UK and everyone had similar interests in music and T.V shows. Now that i'm actually living in the UK everyone is so different, including this girl i've grown close to. \n\nA little back story: when I lived in the middle east I was always awkward with girls unless I was under the influence of alcohol, I had one relationship that lasted a month, but I still maintained a fairly active sex life. The last time I did anything sexual with a woman was March of last year (yeah, a long time, not much luck in Uni). My friends tell me i'm attractive, the people i've done things with have been attractive so i've started to assume I'm attractive. \n\nSo anyway, this girl is beautiful, but not in the generic blond-hair-blue-eyes-big-breasts-fat-ass kind of way. Since i've met her, she's changed the colour of her SHORT hair maybe 5/6 times, she's got piercings and she wears stretchers. She listens to K-pop and uses tumblr and she has a healthy body image. \n\nI pretty much have nothing in common with her. Like, at all (I listen to Drake and the Weeknd, spend my time on reddit and occasionally browse 4chan (yeah 4chan+tumblr, not the best mix). We've been on long walks and I somehow managed to keep it from getting too awkward, we also played through the entirety of amnesia together which was a blast. The thing I'm scared about is if we do end up getting together and we surpass the honeymoon stage, will our lack of common interests wreck the relationship or will we have enough time to develop some? I feel like we're already running out of things to talk about."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically, I lived in the middle east for about 9 years, I was mostly surrounded by people from the UK and everyone had similar interests in music and T.V shows. Now that i'm actually living in the UK everyone is so different, including this girl i've grown close to. \n\nA little back story: when I lived in the middle east I was always awkward with girls unless I was under the influence of alcohol, I had one relationship that lasted a month, but I still maintained a fairly active sex life. The last time I did anything sexual with a woman was March of last year (yeah, a long time, not much luck in Uni). My friends tell me i'm attractive, the people i've done things with have been attractive so i've started to assume I'm attractive. \n\nSo anyway, this girl is beautiful, but not in the generic blond-hair-blue-eyes-big-breasts-fat-ass kind of way. Since i've met her, she's changed the colour of her SHORT hair maybe 5/6 times, she's got piercings and she wears stretchers. She listens to K-pop and uses tumblr and she has a healthy body image. \n\nI pretty much have nothing in common with her. Like, at all (I listen to Drake and the Weeknd, spend my time on reddit and occasionally browse 4chan (yeah 4chan+tumblr, not the best mix). We've been on long walks and I somehow managed to keep it from getting too awkward, we also played through the entirety of amnesia together which was a blast. The thing I'm scared about is if we do end up getting together and we surpass the honeymoon stage, will our lack of common interests wreck the relationship or will we have enough time to develop some? I feel like we're already running out of things to talk about."
} |
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically, I lived in the middle east for about 9 years, I was mostly surrounded by people from the UK and everyone had similar interests in music and T.V shows. Now that i'm actually living in the UK everyone is so different, including this girl i've grown close to. \n\nA little back story: when I lived in the middle east I was always awkward with girls unless I was under the influence of alcohol, I had one relationship that lasted a month, but I still maintained a fairly active sex life. The last time I did anything sexual with a woman was March of last year (yeah, a long time, not much luck in Uni). My friends tell me i'm attractive, the people i've done things with have been attractive so i've started to assume I'm attractive. \n\nSo anyway, this girl is beautiful, but not in the generic blond-hair-blue-eyes-big-breasts-fat-ass kind of way. Since i've met her, she's changed the colour of her SHORT hair maybe 5/6 times, she's got piercings and she wears stretchers. She listens to K-pop and uses tumblr and she has a healthy body image. \n\nI pretty much have nothing in common with her. Like, at all (I listen to Drake and the Weeknd, spend my time on reddit and occasionally browse 4chan (yeah 4chan+tumblr, not the best mix). We've been on long walks and I somehow managed to keep it from getting too awkward, we also played through the entirety of amnesia together which was a blast. The thing I'm scared about is if we do end up getting together and we surpass the honeymoon stage, will our lack of common interests wreck the relationship or will we have enough time to develop some? I feel like we're already running out of things to talk about."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically, I lived in the middle east for about 9 years, I was mostly surrounded by people from the UK and everyone had similar interests in music and T.V shows. Now that i'm actually living in the UK everyone is so different, including this girl i've grown close to. \n\nA little back story: when I lived in the middle east I was always awkward with girls unless I was under the influence of alcohol, I had one relationship that lasted a month, but I still maintained a fairly active sex life. The last time I did anything sexual with a woman was March of last year (yeah, a long time, not much luck in Uni). My friends tell me i'm attractive, the people i've done things with have been attractive so i've started to assume I'm attractive. \n\nSo anyway, this girl is beautiful, but not in the generic blond-hair-blue-eyes-big-breasts-fat-ass kind of way. Since i've met her, she's changed the colour of her SHORT hair maybe 5/6 times, she's got piercings and she wears stretchers. She listens to K-pop and uses tumblr and she has a healthy body image. \n\nI pretty much have nothing in common with her. Like, at all (I listen to Drake and the Weeknd, spend my time on reddit and occasionally browse 4chan (yeah 4chan+tumblr, not the best mix). We've been on long walks and I somehow managed to keep it from getting too awkward, we also played through the entirety of amnesia together which was a blast. The thing I'm scared about is if we do end up getting together and we surpass the honeymoon stage, will our lack of common interests wreck the relationship or will we have enough time to develop some? I feel like we're already running out of things to talk about."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was just going to verbally express my sympathies and a coworker told me he was going to send flowers. When I said, \"Aww,\" he said, \"It's not aww, it's just something you do.\" I had no idea. I've never had anyone close to me die, and I've never had anyone I'm close to lose a close family member.\n\nI have been working in the office with her 2 years. My dad is my boss, and the coworker whose dad died is his assistant. She and I are relatively close. She and her dad were not close, but she's been out of the office for two days. Should I send flowers? Should I bake a dish and give it to her when she returns to the office? A card? Should my dad and I give her a gift - like the flowers - from both of us, instead of two bouquets?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was just going to verbally express my sympathies and a coworker told me he was going to send flowers. When I said, \"Aww,\" he said, \"It's not aww, it's just something you do.\" I had no idea. I've never had anyone close to me die, and I've never had anyone I'm close to lose a close family member.\n\nI have been working in the office with her 2 years. My dad is my boss, and the coworker whose dad died is his assistant. She and I are relatively close. She and her dad were not close, but she's been out of the office for two days. Should I send flowers? Should I bake a dish and give it to her when she returns to the office? A card? Should my dad and I give her a gift - like the flowers - from both of us, instead of two bouquets?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was just going to verbally express my sympathies and a coworker told me he was going to send flowers. When I said, \"Aww,\" he said, \"It's not aww, it's just something you do.\" I had no idea. I've never had anyone close to me die, and I've never had anyone I'm close to lose a close family member.\n\nI have been working in the office with her 2 years. My dad is my boss, and the coworker whose dad died is his assistant. She and I are relatively close. She and her dad were not close, but she's been out of the office for two days. Should I send flowers? Should I bake a dish and give it to her when she returns to the office? A card? Should my dad and I give her a gift - like the flowers - from both of us, instead of two bouquets?"
} |
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