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99% sure it isn't.
Living in Aus we don't get too much christian facebook posts, however my old bestfriend (from when I was in church) posted this
"Professor : You are a Christian, aren’t you, son ?
Student : Yes, sir.
Professor: So, you believe in GOD ?
Student : Absolutely, sir.
Professor : Is GOD good ?
Student : Sure.
Professor: Is GOD all powerful ?
Student : Yes.
Professor: My brother died of cancer even though he prayed to GOD to heal him. Most of us would attempt to help others who are ill. But GOD didn’t. How is this GOD good then? Hmm?
(Student was silent.)
Professor: You can’t answer, can you ? Let’s start again, young fella. Is GOD good?
Student : Yes.
Professor: Is satan good ?
Student : No.
Professor: Where does satan come from ?
Student : From … GOD …
Professor: That’s right. Tell me son, is there evil in this world?
Student : Yes.
Professor: Evil is everywhere, isn’t it ? And GOD did make everything. Correct?
Student : Yes.
Professor: So who created evil ?
(Student did not answer.)
Professor: Is there sickness? Immorality? Hatred? Ugliness? All these terrible things exist in the world, don’t they?
Student : Yes, sir.
Professor: So, who created them ?
(Student had no answer.)
Professor: Science says you have 5 Senses you use to identify and observe the world around you. Tell me, son, have you ever seen GOD?
Student : No, sir.
Professor: Tell us if you have ever heard your GOD?
Student : No , sir.
Professor: Have you ever felt your GOD, tasted your GOD, smelt your GOD? Have you ever had any sensory perception of GOD for that matter?
Student : No, sir. I’m afraid I haven’t.
Professor: Yet you still believe in Him?
Student : Yes.
Professor : According to Empirical, Testable, Demonstrable Protocol, Science says your GOD doesn’t exist. What do you say to that, son?
Student : Nothing. I only have my faith.
Professor: Yes, faith. And that is the problem Science has.
Student : Professor, is there such a thing as heat?
Professor: Yes.
Student : And is there such a thing as cold?
Professor: Yes.
Student : No, sir. There isn’t.
(The lecture theater became very quiet with this turn of events.)
Student : Sir, you can have lots of heat, even more heat, superheat, mega heat, white heat, a little heat or no heat. But we don’t have anything called cold. We can hit 458 degrees below zero which is no heat, but we can’t go any further after that. There is no such thing as cold. Cold is only a word we use to describe the absence of heat. We cannot measure cold. Heat is energy. Cold is not the opposite of heat, sir, just the absence of it.
(There was pin-drop silence in the lecture theater.)
Student : What about darkness, Professor? Is there such a thing as darkness?
Professor: Yes. What is night if there isn’t darkness?
Student : You’re wrong again, sir. Darkness is the absence of something. You can have low light, normal light, bright light, flashing light. But if you have no light constantly, you have nothing and its called darkness, isn’t it? In reality, darkness isn’t. If it is, well you would be able to make darkness darker, wouldn’t you?
Professor: So what is the point you are making, young man ?
Student : Sir, my point is your philosophical premise is flawed.
Professor: Flawed ? Can you explain how?
Student : Sir, you are working on the premise of duality. You argue there is life and then there is death, a good GOD and a bad GOD. You are viewing the concept of GOD as something finite, something we can measure. Sir, Science can’t even explain a thought. It uses electricity and magnetism, but has never seen, much less fully understood either one. To view death as the opposite of life is to be ignorant of the fact that death cannot exist as a substantive thing.
Death is not the opposite of life: just the absence of it. Now tell me, Professor, do you teach your students that they evolved from a monkey?
Professor: If you are referring to the natural evolutionary process, yes, of course, I do.
Student : Have you ever observed evolution with your own eyes, sir?
(The Professor shook his head with a smile, beginning to realize where the argument was going.)
Student : Since no one has ever observed the process of evolution at work and cannot even prove that this process is an on-going endeavor. Are you not teaching your opinion, sir? Are you not a scientist but a preacher?
(The class was in uproar.)
Student : Is there anyone in the class who has ever seen the Professor’s brain?
(The class broke out into laughter. )
Student : Is there anyone here who has ever heard the Professor’s brain, felt it, touched or smelt it? No one appears to have done so. So, according to the established Rules of Empirical, Stable, Demonstrable Protocol, Science says that you have no brain, sir. With all due respect, sir, how do we then trust your lectures, sir?
(The room was silent. The Professor stared at the student, his face unfathomable.)
Professor: I guess you’ll have to take them on faith, son.
Student : That is it sir … Exactly ! The link between man & GOD is FAITH. That is all that keeps things alive and moving.
P.S.
I believe you have enjoyed the conversation. And if so, you’ll probably want your friends / colleagues to enjoy the same, won’t you?
Forward this to increase their knowledge … or FAITH.
By the way, that student was EINSTEIN.
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And GOD did make everything. Correct? \n Student : Yes. \n Professor: So who created evil ? \n (Student did not answer.) \n Professor: Is there sickness? Immorality? Hatred? Ugliness? All these terrible things exist in the world, don’t they? \n Student : Yes, sir. \n Professor: So, who created them ? \n (Student had no answer.) \n Professor: Science says you have 5 Senses you use to identify and observe the world around you. Tell me, son, have you ever seen GOD? \n Student : No, sir. \n Professor: Tell us if you have ever heard your GOD? \n Student : No , sir. \n Professor: Have you ever felt your GOD, tasted your GOD, smelt your GOD? Have you ever had any sensory perception of GOD for that matter? \n Student : No, sir. I’m afraid I haven’t. \n Professor: Yet you still believe in Him? \n Student : Yes. \n Professor : According to Empirical, Testable, Demonstrable Protocol, Science says your GOD doesn’t exist. What do you say to that, son? \n Student : Nothing. I only have my faith. \n Professor: Yes, faith. And that is the problem Science has. \n Student : Professor, is there such a thing as heat? \n Professor: Yes. \n Student : And is there such a thing as cold? \n Professor: Yes. \n Student : No, sir. There isn’t. \n (The lecture theater became very quiet with this turn of events.) \n Student : Sir, you can have lots of heat, even more heat, superheat, mega heat, white heat, a little heat or no heat. But we don’t have anything called cold. We can hit 458 degrees below zero which is no heat, but we can’t go any further after that. There is no such thing as cold. Cold is only a word we use to describe the absence of heat. We cannot measure cold. Heat is energy. Cold is not the opposite of heat, sir, just the absence of it. \n (There was pin-drop silence in the lecture theater.) \n Student : What about darkness, Professor? Is there such a thing as darkness? \n Professor: Yes. What is night if there isn’t darkness? \n Student : You’re wrong again, sir. Darkness is the absence of something. You can have low light, normal light, bright light, flashing light. But if you have no light constantly, you have nothing and its called darkness, isn’t it? In reality, darkness isn’t. If it is, well you would be able to make darkness darker, wouldn’t you? \n Professor: So what is the point you are making, young man ? \n Student : Sir, my point is your philosophical premise is flawed. \n Professor: Flawed ? Can you explain how? \n Student : Sir, you are working on the premise of duality. You argue there is life and then there is death, a good GOD and a bad GOD. You are viewing the concept of GOD as something finite, something we can measure. Sir, Science can’t even explain a thought. It uses electricity and magnetism, but has never seen, much less fully understood either one. To view death as the opposite of life is to be ignorant of the fact that death cannot exist as a substantive thing. \n Death is not the opposite of life: just the absence of it. Now tell me, Professor, do you teach your students that they evolved from a monkey? \n Professor: If you are referring to the natural evolutionary process, yes, of course, I do. \n Student : Have you ever observed evolution with your own eyes, sir? \n (The Professor shook his head with a smile, beginning to realize where the argument was going.) \n Student : Since no one has ever observed the process of evolution at work and cannot even prove that this process is an on-going endeavor. Are you not teaching your opinion, sir? Are you not a scientist but a preacher? \n (The class was in uproar.) \n Student : Is there anyone in the class who has ever seen the Professor’s brain? \n (The class broke out into laughter. ) \n Student : Is there anyone here who has ever heard the Professor’s brain, felt it, touched or smelt it? No one appears to have done so. So, according to the established Rules of Empirical, Stable, Demonstrable Protocol, Science says that you have no brain, sir. With all due respect, sir, how do we then trust your lectures, sir? \n (The room was silent. The Professor stared at the student, his face unfathomable.) \n Professor: I guess you’ll have to take them on faith, son. \n Student : That is it sir … Exactly ! The link between man & GOD is FAITH. That is all that keeps things alive and moving. \n P.S. \n I believe you have enjoyed the conversation. And if so, you’ll probably want your friends / colleagues to enjoy the same, won’t you? \n Forward this to increase their knowledge … or FAITH. \n By the way, that student was EINSTEIN.\nShare\"",
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I honestly can't think of anything that would look good over a du-rag except MAYBE a crisp snapback. | Nothing. | [
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11 years ago, one of my sisters (J) committed suicide and left a suicide note basically blaming our mother. (who was not a bad mother at all, my sister had borderline personality disorder.) the decision was made at the time, to protect our mother by not letting her know the existence of the note. another of my sisters (K) is absolutely batshit insane and is a huge attention whore. whenever she doesn't get her way, she hangs this note over our heads and threatens to send it to our mother...usually she chills out and doesn't do it, but this time i think she will. if she does, i think its something our family could get through, but everyone is in agreeance that if she does, she will be cut off from everyone. has anyone else had to cut off a sibling? was it hard to do? what are your experiences? | one sister committed suicide, another sister has her secret suicide note never shown to mother...holds family hostage with it. | [
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Hey guys, first off I've been on Finpecia 0.5mg (half of a 1mg tablet) per day for around a year now. For the most part it stopped my hairloss completely.
So the problem is that I have some mild gyno, it's been there since puberty (have seen a doctor about it before) but has always been pretty much unnoticeable. After about 6-8 months on fin it became more tender and my left nipple is now puffed out in a cone shape.
I should mention that I have low bodyfat, the gyno is a hard lump of tissue about 1cm big. Not pseudo(fat guy)gynocomastia.
A few months ago I stopped taking fin because I figured the DHT would shrink the gyno back down. It didn't, so I also started taking 60mg Raloxifene every day on the advice of some bodybuilder friends (and there are multiple studies showing the effectiveness of this drug on pubertal gyno).
The Raloxifene reduced some of the tenderness, but all that time off finasteride was not good for my hair, and I was shocked when I saw how much my temples had thinned out again.
At this point I got back on fin. It was a hard decision, but I came to the conclusion that I would rather have hair, even if it meant some mild gyno. The surgery to remove gyno is about $5k, which is still cheaper than a hair transplant after all.
So now I'm wondering what to do, because I've been back on fin for a while now and my hair is still getting worse . I really wish I didn't stop in the first place.
Should I:
a) Keep taking .5mg of fin and maybe start Minoxidil to recover back the ground that I lost?
b) Bump up to 1mg and see if that helps? (risk making gyno worse)
In any case I still plan on finishing the course of Raloxifene, maybe I'll still see some results while on fin. | Fin made my pre-existing gyno flare up, stopped taking it, lost a lot of my hair, restarted fin but didn't recover what I lost. | [
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It could possibly work, but neither Fire Fists, nor Gravekeeper's are a "lean" engine; both decks run very specific cards that take up a lot of deckspace. Gravekeeper's take up ~17 cards, in 3x necrovalley, Spy, Recruiter, Descendant and Royal Tribute. Not sure how big you want your Fire Fists to be, because 3x Tenki, Bear and Gorrilla is about as lean as it gets.
Add to that ~10 assorted staples, and you have 36 cards in your deck. Add Starlight Road(not a staple), maybe Wonder Wand for GK's or some other FF support, and it's a deck. A very bad one, but a starting point.
All theorycrafting aside, BOtFF and Gravekeeper's don't really share a goal. The best hybrid decks have some common ground: FFGlads share the lv4 Beast Warriors, MerLanteans supplement eachother in the discard-effects and I can't really think of other recent examples that are really good. FF runs on plusses through continous spells/traps and 1-for-1 destruction effects, Gravekeeper's run on graveyard control through Necrovalley and slow beatdown through souped up Gravekeeper's monsters. What goal do they share? I can't really think of one. They just don't share elements of strategy.
On top of that, and quite possibly the nail in the coffin of every Gravekeeper's hybrid, Gravekeeper's eat A LOT of deckspace. I just counted 17 cards for a lean GK engine, and that's without Guard, Assailant or Steele. Not to mention the trapsupport Gravekeeper's need. GK's just don't play well together. They take up to much couch space for anyone else to comfortably sit on the couch. | Gravekeeper's are a fat bastard. | [
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Hi guys. Thanks for this amazing place to find reasonable people with reasonable goals. Which we shall achieve.
I am a (almost) nomad worker that works mostly online. I've had a nice run and made a lot of money in the past years, and also spent it. I've never been frugal by principle, but actually making a lot and spending it was what I needed to demystify that spending money doesn't make you happy, and that the best things can't be bought.
Also the way I stopped making that much money (a contract that went south) made me want to wish to fi-re.
I'm a 28M, born in south america, but currently living in Europe. I travel a lot and love the good life. Even so, I can comfortably live with 1500€, sometimes even less, by spending most of my time in my favourite cities of eastern Europe, which are amazingly cheap.
I have no debt, no property, and close to 100k in an investment account with a very aggressive portfolio, especially some corporate bonds that pay 6-11% interest a year. Yep, that's true. Fuck AAA debt that pays 1%.
My current passive income in around 400€ a month, but I never capitalize it, it's reinvested (started just a year ago, let's not get ahead of ourselves).
Now my question to you guys is... given that my income is variable (1000-3000€ a month) and I'm about to go through some changes in my contracts and I may be experiencing some rough time... where should I put my focus, and how do I plan for a fire(lean as it may be) when I have so little certainty regarding my income?
This being said, nothing excludes the possibility of landing a huge contract again and be making the big bucks once again, but I wouldn't count it. Although if I did, I know this time I'd put the focus on something else.
Thanks! | I have what i considered to be reasonable investments, low expenses, a good standard of living but also a very variable income stream. According to this numbers... when could I expect to leanFIRE? What do you guys think?
edit1: I already have an emergency fund of 6-7 months expenses. Not included in the aforementioned numbers. | [
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"content": "I have what i considered to be reasonable investments, low expenses, a good standard of living but also a very variable income stream. According to this numbers... when could I expect to leanFIRE? What do you guys think? \n edit1: I already have an emergency fund of 6-7 months expenses. Not included in the aforementioned numbers.",
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Wife and I, both 33, have been together for 5 years. We love each other and our relationship is quite good except for the sex: no sex in the last 6 months, average of 6 times per year for at least 3 years. Sex was OK at the very beginning (maybe 1/week for the first 3 months?) but never up to my expectations (not a single blowjob in 5 years, can you imagine that? And yes, I do (did..?) go down on her).
No stressful situations. No kids, no debt, no fights, no trust issues. We have a comfortable life, travel a lot, and save ~50% of our incomes. She has no serious medical issues, I have none at all. I'm a good husband, successful, good looking, very affectionate (more than her).
Only possible causes I can think of (and we've discussed everything in these 5 years!): she's ~25 lb overweight (she gained a lot of weight at the beginning, now she's steadily losing it); I've become quite beta lately, in part because the huge self-esteem hit I take with a wife who doesn't find me attractive (that's how I feel - she swears she's very attracted, but then again, she's my wife - she's supposed to say that)
She's not interested in sex in general. She doesn't masturbate. We bought a dildo some 3 years ago to try to motivate her somehow, and it sits unused in its box. I seriously doubt she's cheating. She has actually told me "I'm dead down there" :(
I feel short-changed. I feel I've kept my end of the "monogamy" deal but she hasn't, essentially turning it into a "celibacy". She's aware of my unmet needs but does nothing about it (I think any decent person would at least offer BJs or HJs?)
So... WTF do I do? Here are the options as I see them:
1) Carry on, hoping it magically improves. Realistically, give up sex to be with her. She's not bad, and the perfect woman doesn't exist, so accept it. I don't think this is right.
2) End the relationship. It feels stupid to throw away all the good bits of the relationship because one of them doesn't work.
3) Propose an open relationship. Keep all the good bits of the marriage and get what she can't/won't give me somewhere else. I seriously doubt she'll go for this. If she does, I'm not sure what would it do to the relationship in the long term.
Is "I married a woman who isn't interested in sex" reasonable grounds to end a relationship? Am I being selfish for thinking this? Am I being an idiot for tolerating it this long?
(So why did I marry in the first place? She always promised awesome sex and offered all sorts of explanations about why we weren't having it. I believed her. I don't think she was lying to me; maybe she was lying to herself)
In the mean time I'm doing the only thing I can do, which is improving myself. Losing some weight (maybe 5 lbs?), going back to my 25-year-old level of fitness, dressing better, and being less beta.
So... help. What do I do? How does my situation look from the outside? | Life is good, relationship is good, except no sex. Should I leave? | [
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I'm 23. I was baptized Pentecostal when I was in middle school. Sparing uncomfortable details, I come from what one might call a "rough" childhood by most standards. Church was more of an escape from the shit at home than it was a real belief, but I'm not sure I realized that at the time. My extended family doesn't know I'm now an atheist, and I'm fairly certain only a couple of siblings and my stepmom know for sure.
That being said... Once I finally realized that I had been on auto-pilot, basing my entire life and every choice I made off a system in which I didn't even believe, I sort of had this moment of disappointment in myself. I didn't want to base my life off what someone else told me to believe. It wasn't a rebellious retaliation at my parents--I lived with my father growing up and he claimed to be a believer, but never made an attempt at "walking the walk" or whatever, nor was he a very moral being—it was more just about staying true to myself. My experiences have taught me a great many lessons. I generally try not to discuss my beliefs (or, lack thereof) unless I’m asked or it’s on r/atheism. I do not, under any circumstances, try to sway someone to my side—I find it to be hypocritical, as that’s one of the very reasons I can’t respect organized religion. I consider myself to be a good, selfless person, and for that reason I would never throw my beliefs in anyone’s face, least of all with the intent to hurt or disappoint.
Also, upvoting the thread. I think this is a really awesome post and could potentially start some insightful discussion amongst atheist redditors. | I'm not rebellious, and upvote. :) | [
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So we have been separated for about 7 weeks due to him being done "walking on eggshells" around me. I have anger issues, he has emotional issues. Neither one of us was perfect but we loved each other, been together almost 7 years, married for 3. He always told me he was happy and that we were fine, I knew better and desperately tried to get us into couples counseling. I had always acknowledged my issues and had tried working on them. However he never acknowledged his own faults and major issues with communication. I'm talking super bad communication, he wouldn't tell me when he was upset or anything, in fact trying to talk about any of our issues was like pulling teeth and of course the frustration only aggravated me further. We had actually broken ground and started really working on things about 2 months before he asked for the divorce.
Now I'm getting ahead of myself here, I failed to mention that I lost my father to cancer a few months before this, he was diagnosed then did one round of chemo and died a few weeks later. So I was (am?) dealing with that as well as having a husband who was pretending everything was fine and he was happy. Fast forward to exactly one week after my birthday almost 2 months ago and he goes out to drink with coworkers to celebrate a girl's last day working in the office. He was at the bar for 7 hours, jerking me around about what time he was going to be home, "I'm having so much fun they want to keep this going blah blah" so I'm hurt and a little upset so when he finally comes home, knowing I have work at 4 am the next day, he tries to cuddle on me and initiate sex. So I tell him not to touch me and then of course it caused a major meltdown and then all of a sudden he is throwing around the word divorce and he is done and blah blah. Turns out his coworker, that was leaving to work from home, came onto him pretty strong and asked him out. He didn't tell me this, I found out about it the next day after he packed all of his clothes and moved in with his brother.
Long story short they are dating now, they've been fucking since he left me and they are in love. He had actually been having an emotional affair with her around the time I found out my dad had cancer. I found messages between them that were inappropriate and he apologized and said that I come first and that if I told him to stop speaking to her he would. I said no its fine I don't want to be controlling, just don't talk to her that way anymore. She is a real piece of work, she has 3 kids by 3 different fathers and she had a boyfriend at the time as well (not the father of any of them). Now what complicates things is all the bs he had been telling me that had done nothing but fuck with my head this entire time. He says he loves us both and I was the love of his life and he doesn't even remember a time before me. The past week he said we could try to see if there was a chance we could reconcile, but what he failed to mention at the time was that he would still be having sex with her and that he is in love with her. Before I knew that, I told him we can take things as slow as he needs to and I won't have sex with him because I didn't want to confuse him (or myself) and we both had separate counseling sessions to work through our own issues. So I'm over here thinking wow we might actually have a real shot at making this work.
All I wanted was a chance, because he had never mentioned divorce before and never said he wasn't happy, I knew we had problems but I thought we were ok for the most part. I was blindsided by this all, especially since he didn't even want to try a trial separation. Straight to divorce do not pass go, do not collect $200, just divorce. We filed for the dissolution on Oct 1st, and the lady who helped us asked why we were doing this since we seemed to get along so well, that was a stab into my heart. Tonight he was texting me a little bit and I finally asked him wtf are we doing, do you really want to try or what's going on? Do you love her? Then he replies with "I love you and I love her, that's why I'm going to counseling to see what the hell I want to do." He text this to me all while laying next to her naked in her bed. I mean, can it get much more fucked up than this? I keep going back and forth between bargaining, denial and acceptance. There's more to the story but my head is just a jumbled mess right now, which is probably apparent by how I'm writing. How crazy am I for still loving this guy? | thought I had a salvageable marriage, turns out I was wrong and my husband wanted to have his cake and eat it too, I'm dumb.
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The pretty streets are distracting. This is a plan for developers to build condos/apartments along Eglinton. Just like every other plan in the city.
I cannot emphasize this part enough, as it is the part they are trying to avoid people noticing. This is barely about the street lanes.
For some reason it comes with the argument that a higher population density will reduce traffic. It assumes the people in the new condos won't commute anywhere by car.
LRTs are cool. If you can make separate bike lanes, that's cool. More rental units in Little Jamaica? No thanks. | More condos. | [
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Hi everyone! I'm an archaeologist, aspiring to get my PhD in Classical Archaeology.
I have quite a bit of experience in the field working on projects outside of Ostia and most recently outside of Naples. I also hold an MA from BU. I am conversational in Italian and German, and have the ability to brush up on Spanish and French as well.
I'm looking to return to the field this summer; however, because of my limited resources (temping between your MA and getting into a PhD program doesn't pay well) and more extensive experience, I'd like to join a project where I could hold more responsibility than the average participant (i.e. as a Trench Supervisor, field technician, intern etc.) and avoid the typical "tuition" fees that come with being one. Funding/stipends of any kind are a huge bonus.
My research interests are Roman culture and history, and I have a fascination with mortuary contexts and the presence of slavery in the archaeological record. I'd like to expand my experience to working on the archaeology Roman frontier and the provinces, as I have spend a good amount of time working in Italy.
I'd be happy to apply my skills and experience with project research/report writing, photography, site survey/GIS, even social media/PR.
Does anyone know of any archaeological projects going on that fit these criteria?
Apologies for the Resume-like narrative; however, due to the nature of my request, I figured it would be good to list my qualifications. | Anybody know of Roman-archaeology projects looking for supervisors, interns, etc. that I wouldn't have to pay/would get paid to participate in? Inb4 "check the AIA website or shovelbums" If I'm asking in the wrong place, feel free to direct me accordingly :) | [
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Lawyers of Reddit:
First I would like to say that I am keenly aware of the fact that the following diatribe will make me sound like a complete party pooper, that said, I need your help. I live in a loft district in downtown Los Angeles, which is pretty much what you what you would expect from the downtown area of any major city: loft living intermixed with bars, restaurants, boutiques, etc. Recently a night club opened up on my block, that has pretty much made our apartment unlivable Thursday through Sunday. The club starts lining people up on the sidewalk at around 7:00 PM and by 9:00 our entire side of the street is pack with people, making it impossible walk past without pushing through a densely packed crowd of over a thousand people. The club also completely ignores the neighborhood noise ordinances by blasting music and setting up a smoking area behind the club, in a public alley on which jubilant party goes yell versions "WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO", both of which are so loud that they can be heard in our interior apartment well past 3:00 AM. Considering my fiance and I both often work at 6:00 AM on the days the club is open, the situation has become completely untenable; I am not the only one who feels this way. I have spent many nights filing noise complaints, but as we live in a fairly hectic metropolitan area, noise complaints are low priority for the police; last night I received a call from the police at 5:30 (4 hours after I had called) from an officer saying he was standing outside and heard nothing, which of course was true as by that time everyone had cleared out. I really don't want to move, and I'm not interested in having the place shutdown, just in making sure that public ordinances are followed so that myself, my fiance and my neighbors are no longer encumbered by its operation. What I'd love to learn from you is: what, if any legal recourse do I have, and how best to go about enforcing it?
Thank you so much in advance,
Cameron | Nightclub turning me into a zombie, want to make sure they are abiding by all local ordinances, HELP. | [
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My [26f] live-in boyfriend [27m] hasn't told his ex [33f] that were in a relationship and living together- just dating.
My [26f] live-in boyfriend [27m] hasn't told his ex [33f] that were in a relationship and living together- just dating. We've been living together for a month now and he hasn't told her because she has mental health issues/is suicidal and it would break her heart and her sobriety if he told her the truth. They keep in contact as friends due to her still having his dog (pets are not allowed at my place).
I have mental health issues as well and feel that the best way to move on/get help and be independent is to be told the truth. The world shouldn't be sugar coated.
Am I selfish for wanting him to come clean? He says he will eventually tell her but should I leave him if he doesn't? I feel like he's considering someone else's opinions more so than my own and trying to protect her which is not even his job anymore.
What do I do? | My boyfriend won't tell his ex were in a serious relationship because she might get heartbroken and harm herself. | [
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Not really sure how to awnser this properly but I'll try:
Most of it is the way the tail's designed. In almost all aircraft the rear rudder is a 'wing' that sticks up vertically at the rear end off the craft.
The predator drone ( the most commonly known drone IMO ) has a diffrent tail design known as a V-tail ( ) which combines the functions of the three control surfaces in to two.
Now this alone doesn't make it look like it's upside down. But a V-tail design doesn't require the rear control surfaces to be arced upwards as long as they aren't completely parralel to the wings.
With the predator they point down. Just like this aircraft:
So | The rear control surfaces are mounted upside down for how we'd expect them to fit on a plane. | [
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I'm no lawyer, but as I understand it, if he is producing the works in question under a contract of employment in which they are an integral part of the role, or under a similar contract that includes copyright transfer, then the images would fall under "work made for hire" and be under the copyright of the employer.
On the other hand, if this is not the case, it is likely that he owns the copyright, and is merely exercising his rights. In this case you will need to negotiate a non-attributional license for the images in order to legally use them without the watermarks (I imagine you will have to pay him). Otherwise you would open yourself up for liability to DMCA takedown notices et cetera.
Have you tried offering a byline/attribution elsewhere on the site? (Captions with a byline are generally a good balance between clean design and attributional integrity if you're using the images in articles)
There is (at least in British academia) an unfortunate tendency for academic instititions to appropriate creative works. | If you're paying him, they're probably yours, if you're not, you should probably pay him. | [
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I'd suggest checking out Beer4theBeerGod's translation | s. They are gold. | [
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I'm super ADHD and need to write down all the shit I think about so that I can get to it later. Movie ideas, stuff I want to tell my friends about, potential reddit posts, all that. I do happen to use an iPad for my classes so I know a bunch of traditional note-taking apps like notability and Evernote and that's not really the type of thing I'm looking for. I need something that I can use to take a bunch of text notes with and organize them cleanly without any of the other nonsense that you get with Evernote and other such apps. Just to be able to write everything down, organize it all into folders, and, hell, even password protect it would be nice. I've been mostly using the default notes app but with over 140 notes and some fairly personal information I'd like a separate app that I can just jot shit down with. | If Guy Pearce from Memento had an iPhone, what app would he use to remember shit | [
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A few years back my wife and I were travelling around the states. We arrived via Greyhound into Dallas, after a 7 hour ride from Amarillo, at about 9pm on a steaming hot night. Outside the Greyhound station a group of young men were hanging around. About 15 or 20 guys, just... loitering. Not really talking to each other or anything, just waiting. For something - I don't know what.
Across the street we spy a McDonalds. Hungry, we decide to grab some food before we jump in a taxi to our hotel. We approach the crossing, but before we can hit the button one of the guys peels away from the group and hobbles over. He's tall, about 6'4 but really skinny, wearing a big jacket and a cap. He smiles, and his teeth are brown and crooked.
Y'all need to cross the street?
We nod, and explain we're just going to get some food.
Just need to hit the button here. Here, let me get it for ya.
He presses the button for the crossing, and then holds out his hand. We'd been in the country long enough to know what he was after. Sorry mate, I said. I don't have any cash on me.
I was lying, of course, but I wasn't about to get my wallet out and flash my cash around this guy and his buddies. He retracted his outstretched hand, tucking it back into his dirty jacket. He was about to turn back, but then he looked back and smiled at us.
No money? How you gon' get food then?
We've got a card
What else could I say? The guy had a point, and I'd talked myself into a corner.
You gon' buy me a burger then?
Not much I could do, I suppose, so we crossed the street with our new friend in tow, and spun through the revolving doors of McDonalds. Before we'd even approached the counter the guy was licking his lips in anticipation. The guy at the desk took our order, and I asked for a couple of meals for my wife and myself.
And a hamburger , I added, nodding at our guest. He leans over conspiratorially and nods at the server.
Cheeseburger, he says. And a chocolate shake.
The server didn't even look back at me, just rang it up. I tutted to myself, but didn't say anything whilst I ran the card through the reader.
When the food came our friend grabbed his from the bag and ambled back out the doors. Didn't even say thank you.
We spent the next four days in Dallas, but that experience soured the whole visit. | Fuck Greyhound bus stations, and fuck Dallas. | [
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I used to be a complete IRC/chatroom addict. Back then I was a little bit more paranoid about keeping my real identity private (obviously don't care about this anymore given my username). So when I was asked for a picture I had a pic of me with an awesome dragon mask on. One of the girls I talked to shared this picture with a friend who became immediately obsessed. I soon started to receive messages from this girl on MSN messenger. At first I was a little weirded out by how aggressive this girl was. I was still a little naive, and had little social experience. I was warned that she was a notorious stalker, but she was fun to talk to so whatever.
On one occasion I was talking about how much Catholic churches creep me out. The ones I've been in have grotesque pictures on the wall, and I just don't like the feeling in them. The girl asked me what I was doing in a Catholic church. I told her it was for a concert that my sister was in. Big mistake.
Next day my mom says "a girl called, she sounded upset that you weren't home". Girls only ever called me if it was a school project so I was understandably confused. Later that night the phone rang. As soon as I touched the phone it hit me. Sure enough it was the girl from MSN Messenger. She had a friend that was in the same choir as my sister, and they used this information to determine my identity. We talked on the phone a few times, but nothing came of it at the time. I was just too weirded out by how she was stalking me. Eventually we stopped talking.
Fast forward a few years later. I grew out of spending all my time online, and she grew out of stalking people. I had just come off a relationship, and somehow ended up talking to her again. She was already engaged at this point, but she was still a good friend when I was down. Eventually we had a chance to meet, and I ended up kissing her. She broke it off with her fiancee, and now we've been married for 4 years. | I married my stalker. | [
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Hey guys,
Let's get straight to the point. I have been a co-founder at a startup for well-over 3 years now and recently, I have been feeling unsatisfied with my life and career. There are many reasons for these feelings, some of them revolving around the fact that I couldn't make ends meet while working at my startup as well as I was being burned out on a constant basis which started to affect my mental well-being.
After a long thought, I realized that I would like to move out of my startup and look for other opportunities elsewhere. Maybe getting back into a regular 9to5 for the time being while I figure out my next move.
I spoke to my team about my decision and everyone was OK with me leaving, however, the founder of the startup did have some issues that he wanted to address with me before I moved on.
At the moment, our startup is on a high growth path and we are just ready to close a "pre-series A" round of funding to further expand our business. With that, my founder told me that if anyone were to find out that I have decided to leave, it can cause issues during the funding round where investors may start digging further into why I decided to leave (being co-founder and all).
Therefore, he told me that I have a responsibility to the company not to take up full-time employment at least until the funding round has closed. He told me that preferably, it would be better if I don't take any full-time position anywhere in the city until Series A which can possibly take 12 months at best.
Now the problem is that I can't survive doing freelance or part-time work and supporting myself on an unstable income is not an option. I am wondering if any of you can give me advice on how to convince him to let me take up full-time employment elsewhere without making him a total enemy.
Also, not to mention that I am a foreigner where I am which means that I have a visa under the company. If I want to leave the company and move to another, my current company would have to cancel my visa which means my founder has to give me a release letter before I can officially transfer. So he technically has me by the balls at this point because no release letter means no full-time work for me.
Any help is highly appreciated!! | Decided to leave my startup as co-founder, founder doesn't want me to take full-time role elsewhere as it will jeopardize potential funding in future, company has me by the balls as work visa is under them and to work somewhere else they need to issue a release letter first to cancel visa. Help? | [
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I'm always the one to turn arguments around and make myself the victim.
I realize I'm being manipulative when I do this, and other things such as starting arguments over nothing, being passive aggressive, and asking loaded questions.
Now my s/o says she doesn't know how to talk to me about anything because I just turn it around on her.
How do I stop being manipulative? | Being manipulative, need to stop. how? | [
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Well thanks for not being overly insulting I guess. I'll start by saying I guess people don't understand what the "all men are created equal" thing actually means. It means that no person is just born with the right to rule over others. The mistake is taking it too literally. That being said, this theory mostly applies to first world countries and the people in them. Which brings me to my next point, I wasn't stating this as a fact, it is a theory. Which basically means its my opinion forged by my thoughts about events that have happened. We can argue about wether I'm right or wrong until we are both blue in the face but you might want to accept that I've put a consider amount of time into this and it will take more than a condescending comment on the Internet to change my ideas. Most insulting about your comment is the assumption that I came up with this because I was butt hurt over girls who won't date me, of which I assure you there have been girls who didn't like me. But I'm not sore about it, I've been steadily dating since I was 13 except a period of about 7 months when finding a job was my only concern. I get girlfriends because I am actually a generous, and caring person with a sense of humor. I'm not some beta pining over how women should be falling over each other on their way to me because they shouldn't. I'm not saying that women see a confident asshole and instantly fall in love because they are slaves to their biological disposition. I'm saying it plays a role in initial attraction. To say it doesn't is just silly to say the least. To say that all women are exactly the same in this regard is even more ridiculous. What I find curious, is if people wanted to poke holes in my theory, why not go the route of homosexuality? (which I fully support as well) Surely a man attracted to other men does not look for the same attributes in a man as a straight man does in a woman. The reason my theory doesn't apply to this is because my theory (while it might seem like a broad generalization about the some 3.5 billion women on earth) is not some all encompassing master key to the female psyche. It applies under very specific situations to a very specific group of men and women. Yet for some reason nobody is arguing that men get attraction from their base impulses but I'm getting plenty of hate from the women. You talk about misogyny but you are ignoring the male half of the argument. If I am so off with my idea, then why do you accept that men are base creatures, yet women are somehow more evolved. If feminisms goal was equality then why aren't they called something like equalitists? Feminism, at the very least implies a superiority over men. I mentioned in a separate comment in this thread about how regardless of what gender you are, you are a human. Humans are mammals and therefore have certain impulses about how to survive and continue the species, just like how birds instinctively know to build a nest. They don't go to bird school and get taught they need to. | I don't expect you to read this, it is far too long. But in case you do, I hope that it clarified a few things. If at the end of this you still consider me a misogynist piece of filth, I'm sorry. I've done all I can. | [
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I'm a first-year living in IV. If cost is an issue, I'd strongly suggest exploring this option (I regret nothing!). Living here, you REALLY "meet people you never thought you would". It's really freakin' fun, too.
Living in an apartment is cheaper and you don't have to share bathrooms with an entire hall! You get a whole new experience that actually helps you build valuable living-on-your-own skills and not rely on maid services and dining commons to clean up after you and feed you (though you can get a meal plan if you want).
Dorming is expensive and from what I've seen and heard, not worth the cost, though I know I don't have any authority to say that because I don't live in them.
I moved here in July to start working and am paying my way through college (currentely holding 2 jobs). I haven't had to take a single loan because I was crafty with financial aid. My parents made over 100k and I initially didn't qualify for finaid. Currently, I live with four 3rd years in an apartment in IV and it's probably one of the best decisions I've made.
Trust me, you'll met just as many people, and maybe an even more diverse crowd if you live in IV instead of the dorms. Don't listen to the people who tell you that you won't make as many friends, because it all depends on you. The dorms just kinda hold your hand through the transition process, which you don't REALLY need. I helped people move in during move-in week and met more people than my friend who actually lives in the dorms.
If your parents ARE going to help you out financially, then living in IV should cut their costs by THOUSANDS of dollars. It all depends on what you think is worth more: the university "experience" or not trying to dig yourself out of a loan hole when the time comes. I think CC is a good option, too. | CC is a good option. If you're hell-bent on going to UCSB, try living in IV. | [
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Also - because of certain spoilers - whoever it was made that website with the halloween masks (the one of Gus "face off" fring) kind of ruined it for me in that I knew it was coming, I just didnt know when. But what I didnt see coming was the Lily of the Valley. That was such an awesome and absolutely mindblowing touch. Makes me second-guess everything he said previousley. | Watch Breaking Bad. You wont regret it. | [
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We dated for 1.5 years and broke up in October 2012. He (let's call him S) was the one who initiated the breakup, citing grades/med school as the main reason; said he needed to focus on school and work and getting into grad school.
Fast forward a few months, this kid (mutual friend of ours) asks to hang out with me, so we went out and grabbed drinks a couple weeks ago. He starts asking about my dating life (which has been nonexistent) and keeps repeating that S wasn't dating anyone. I was a bit weirded out so I changed the subject. Last night, the same kid messaged me on FB to ask me about my love life again.
This week, S started reaching out to me on his own volition, flirting on and off by bringing up some of our memories and inside jokes. He asked when I would return to the city (I'm currently out of the country for a little bit). And today, he (while claiming he was tipsy/drunk) admitted that he missed me and wanted to see me this coming Friday.
I still very much have feelings for him and love him, and would most definitely say yes if he asked to get back together. I don't want to overthink anything though, and I'm not quite sure what to expect. Any pointers, /r/breakups? | ex wants to reconnect, mutual friend seems to be dropping hints, not quite sure what to expect/if I should hope for some sort of reunion or at least final resolution. | [
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Factors effecting the situation:
I'm recently divorced, my last relationship lasted 9.5 years. It was my only serious relationship before now.
I live 3 hours from BF
No immediate short term plans to move nearer to each other, though we both agree it would be nice to have happen when possible, he's looking at going back to school and is making that a priority regarding his work and his living situation.
We see each other on weekends as possible, but sometimes go 2-3 weeks because our schedules make the drive not feasible for a short period of time together
Our work schedules make it very hard on a daily basis to have downtime at the same time. I work 9a-6p and ideally try and be in bed asleep by 12am. He works 3p-12am and goes to bed around 4am and wakes up around 2pm. His work does not allow the use of phones/social media. Finding time to even talk on the phone when we're both awake and functional is hard. Mainly I've been staying up late and cutting in on my sleep to do it.
I'm having trouble with craving constant contact (frequent texting, talking on the phone at least once a day) and feeling disconnected when I am not able to get that contact with him I crave.
I trust him, the "L" word has been used. I don't doubt his feelings or intentions to stay together and see where this relationship goes, but he's a very independent guy who has stated that he doesn't need contact with me to feel connected when we're not together. Our vision of how a partner fits into our lives is different. I've talked to him about how I want to be able to share mundane details of my day, random thoughts, small experiences. That sharing those things with my partner is important to me and is something I'd gotten used to in my last relationship where we lived together the past 6 years. I understand that in a young relationship it does take time to get your lives closer together, but I do feel like I'm in limbo until we can get to that point of being nearer each other physically.
He's much more hands off, he likes spending time together when we can, but prefers to only communicate big events/changes in our daily chats, not trivial things, though we do still have small talk, it's not a need for him to talk about small things about his day, etc. In the interim he still feels connected, that we're 'together' and assumes that nothing has changed between us until I speak up about something.
There is often a delay in replying to my texts/messages, sometimes a few hours. In those times, it is very hard for me to be patient and not start obsessing over why he's not replying to me. It's not a rational feeling, because I don't actually think it's a sign that he's blowing me off or that he's not invested in this relationship. There are other signs that he very much is invested. I've met his family on multiple occasions, and while he's been in many relationships, I am only the second relationship he's talked about seeing going to marriage, which he states is his goal.
So my main question is, how do I make my brain shut up and not freak out when I don't get that contact I crave (but he doesn't)? I'm not interested in leaving this relationship, it has great potential and I care for him very much. I have hope it will get better in the future, I just don't know how to deal with my immediate short term frustrations in a healthy way. | Serious LDR relationship, differences in how we each feed that 'connected' feeling with partner. He's more 'hands off' while I am very 'constant contact is preferred'. | [
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A dealership will say that it is covering their expenses for mailing/working on the vehicle documentation/registration. While this might be true, because there is a lot of paperwork involved, it is certainly outrageously expanded. My dealership charges $599. There is absolutely NO WAY that it costs us $599 in labor/paper/fees to submit everything. | It's like 90+% profit. | [
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Actually the increase in unemployment due to higher minimum wages seems like a reasonable assumption, but it's not clear that this happens in real life (and it's also highly dependent on the amount the minimum wages is increased by). There have been a number of studies which point to evidence that unemployment increases due to an increase in minimum wage, and some that show unemployment decreasing or staying the same.
Most businesses which employ low skilled labor are already at the minimum number of workers they can be - example, in a McDonalds, there are only a handful of people working at any time. If the minimum wage increased, the McDonalds would still need the same number of people to staff the store. Now if the increase was relatively small, say a dollar or two more, then there probably wouldn't be an issue. If it was a rather large increase (eg. up to $15), then some of those stores might close, if they couldn't make the revenue back by increasing prices. | Moving to $10/hour probably would have a small, possibly not noticeable effect on employment. Up to $15/hour, and unemployment for low skilled workers would increase, at least in the short term. | [
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As an update the marathon sold out on 8 August 2013. You can still participate in the Goofy Challenge and register for the marathon as part of a package through travel agents and as a fundraiser for various charity groups. | 4 months to sell out this year. | [
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I am posting this again because it got no attention and I really am looking for an answer)
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allow me to skip all the boring RP or just somehow speed all of that up (mostly just the starting, all the way up until you get the whirlwind shout)
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even in the later content, just something that makes the gameplay different
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Not a stupid question, I learned this after I started working as well.
So when people aspirate the problem isn't actually the food coming back up and obstructing the airway, the problem is gastric acid, which has two effects:
Gastric acid is very caustic d/t the low pH, so when it contacts lung tissue it causes inflammation which can close up the airway. So when people aspirate in the surgical setting, we will have to intubate them (if they aren't intubated already), which can lead to mechanical ventilation / ICU transfer and all the associated complications with being on a ventilator.
The second thing is that gastric contents are dirty as fuck, and the lungs are sterile. Combine the two and you get pneumonia, which can be very difficult to treat depending on the patient.
When you chew gum, even though you don't swallow anything, your body thinks you are eating so it starts producing stomach acid. When you have been NPO for 8 hours, there is basically no stomach acid in your body, so when we are inducing you we aren't even considering the fact that you might have stomach acid in your belly (if we did we could apply cricoid pressure blocking the esophagus while intubating).
So we lie you flat for induction which means the gastric acid doesn't have to resist gravity to come toward the airway, AND we aren't really preparing for the likliehood of aspiration because you said you haven't eaten anything.
All of a sudden gastric acid comes out and we're like WTF! and we have to scramble to intubate you/suction out what we can/ventilate you/etc. Everything becomes a struggle.
Some anesthesiologists have told me aspirating gastric acid increased your mortality by 30%. I haven't really found any data that backs this up, but maybe they have read something different. [This study]( said that aspiration led to a 17% of the sample needing mechanical ventilation, and 5% dying. So I guess depending on the mortality rate of the surgery originally it could be a 30% increase? I dunno. | it is significantly worse to be chewing gum or candy and spitting it out, than it is to drink entire glasses of water right before surgery. | [
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Here's Calvin Johnson's stats against us since 2010.
Games in bold represent games Cook did not participate in.
Year
Catches
Yards
Touchdowns
2010 (@Min week 3/@ Det week 17 )
6/-
56/-
0/-
2011(@Min week 3/@ Det week 14 )
7/ 3
108/ 29
2/ 0
2012 (@Det week 4/@ Min week 10 )|5/ 12 |54/ 207 |0/ 1
2013 (@Det week 1/@Min week 17)|4/-|37/-|0/-
Cook matched up against Calvin Johnson four times in his career, and in those games Calvin was only able to reach 60 yards once, though he did have his only two touchdowns in that game (2011 week 3).
[The first touchdown]( is classic Cook in position but unable to make a play on the ball, though Johnson did a great job highpointing the ball. Also note that that catch accounts for 32 of his 108 yards.
[The second touchdown]( was in the redzone and was not Cook's fault at all. It was zone coverage and Johnson found the hole inbetween EJ Henderson and Jamarca Sanford. Cook trailed him and then returned to his assignment in the flat when Tony Scheffler enters the flat. | Calvin Johnson has not had much success against Cook.
5.5 catches/game 61.25 yards/game and .5 touchdowns/game (including the second Cook-less touchdown). | [
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Demonstrate the severity of the risk, that's all I ask. The original commenter didn't even bother to differentiate between the risks that different drugs pose, as you have, instead choosing to generalize all drugs into a single group.
It's pretty clear you've done very little reading on the subject. Use of cannabis, for instance, is correlated with mental illness, but where usage rates of marijuana have increased, there has been no increase in rates of psychosis, suggesting very little, if any causal link. Alcohol, on the other hand, is one of the most common drugs to induce psychosis.
Come back when you can have a meaningful conversation about the risk instead of simply berating others for clarification requests. | Of course there's always a risk. The question needs to be "how great is the risk?" Or, better yet, "Is the risk to a drug-user greater than the risk to the general population?" | [
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Good for you to get involved again!
Since you've played before, its important to remember that playing keeper is nothing like what happens during practice. However, with actual matches and repetition training, you have your mechanics and mental speed prepared.
Immediately, depending on your fitness level, get started on [plyometrics]( to be in your best physical shape. Plyometics workouts involve a lot of the same muscle groups that goalkeepers use when making a save. It also consists of a lot of the same movement goalkeepers will use during a game.
After you start your fitness, look into doing some drills. Some can be done by yourself, others you need another to help (not necessarily another keeper, but just an able body really). I use this free site to help with drills when I'm preparing my coaching sessions. well indexed drills to start working through. Best to follow the indexed categories in order to build up your mechanics correctly.
While this is all going on, FIND A CLUB TEAM TO PLAY ON! Does your friend play on a club team that you can play on in the school offseason? If not or they are already good on keepers, look for one yourself. Even if you can just train with their team during practice while you find a spot to get consistent play time in. It's imperative, no matter how much training you're doing, to be used to actual game speed. If you don't have a readily available team to join during the school offseason, look locally via teams looking for keepers on Craigslist, newspaper postings, state league sites to get in touch with league contacts that you're available. FIND somewhere to play! Will look great to your school coach. Make sure he/she is aware and makes some time to watch. | 1) Proper Fitness/Conditioning .
2) Mechanics
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So earlier this week I asked this girl who I've been seeing for a few months to become official and she accepted. I really like her so I was really excited. We both go to the same school, she's in grad school I'm undergrad, and we're both from different states so once school is up in May we'll be long distance. She is going to be staying on campus for the next two years pursuing a phD and my hometown is only about 2 hours from the school. She assured me we could make it work.
She's amazingly accomplished, she's captain of a sports team here, she's pursuing her phD, it's all really incredible and I'm happy for her. The problem is I haven't seen her yet this week in person (keep in mind we go to the same school and both live off campus about 5-10 minutes away) because she's busy preparing for her huge presentation next week that's basically the entire evaluation of her grad school studies.
I don't hear from her via text all day until late, she's sporadic with her answers, and she goes to bed really early since she has to wake up early either because she has practice or she has to continue working early the next morning.
It seems like it's just a bad time for her but I guess I just get frustrated because we're now official and we've been talking drastically less than we previously have, and like I said I haven't seen her all week. Am I overreacting/being possessive? I don't text her to respect her space since I know she's busy and I haven't expressed my frustration so she has no idea. keep in my that I in no way expect to come before her work, but I can't help but get frustrated when I don't hear from her all day and I don't get to see her at night. This is going to stop once her presentation is over next next week (in theory) but even after that she leaves for spring break two days later.
In the few months we've been seeing each other we've never had an argument so I'm afraid if I bring this up to her she'll think I'm possessive or needy or something and if this is annoying me now, I can't imagine how it'll be when we're both in different states starting in May. Long winded, but any advice would be awesome, let me know what if anything I should clarify. Thanks! | Just became official with my SO, happened to pick the busiest week for her academically and it's showing. Am I overreacting or am I justified when I get frustrated about not hearing from her or seeing her? We're going to be long distance soon so I'm afraid this is a sign of things to come.
Edit: Spelling. Also for some context, it's currently 3pm and still haven't heard from her all day... | [
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In my most recent Sephora order I got the Lancome Energie de Vie Cleansing Oil as a 100 point perk. I was looking for a new 1st cleanser after realizing that the Face Shop Rice Brightening Cleansing Oil was worsening a bad hormonal break out, and the reviews were decent. However, I can't technically do a full review as this product was so horrible for me I only used it once.
PROS: It does break down makeup and did a through job in that regard. That was literally the only pro.
CONS: Holy sweet baby Snezus this thing is perfumey. Like, the second I opened it I should have just included it in a destash on the exchange level perfumey. I can do fine with scented products but this shit smelled like I was sitting next to a little old lady in furs and a fancy hat at church. I momentarily wondered if I had been sent a perfume sample by mistake. And while I know some higher end brands like to add their perfume to EVERYTHING (I'm looking at you, Diorshow Mascara. Mascara is pretty pointless if my eyes won't stop watering) but I've not had that experience with Lancome before so it was surprising. However, my new cleansing oil wasn't arriving for another 2 days, so instead of just using some of my mineral oil like I should have, I figured, what the hell? Let's give it a shot.
No, just no. I have no one to blame but myself for what happened next. I will never ignore my nose again.
Patch testing went smoothly so I moved into testing. I had to use regular makeup remover for eye make up as simply putting the oil on my face was causing my eyes to water. And while it didn't sting or burn, I still felt like something was wrong. And oh, something was wrong. It just didn't show up until the next morning in the form of clogged pores galore. Clogged pores that normally don't get clogged - forehead, lower cheeks, by my ears; curiously enough, my normally clogged prone nose, jaw, and cheek bones were not affect by clogged pores. That's because they had developed some wonderful sets of CCs.
After some weeping and gnashing of the teeth, promises to my nose that I will never ignore its warnings again, the sample was promptly thrown in with the litter box trash and was never spoken of again. My only saving grace was that I was already on stay-cation for Christmas and was able to spend the day rehabbing my skin. Thanks to gentle extraction, actives, LJH and propolis, my skin is (mostly) on the rebound, but the few spots of hormonal acne that I had finally gotten to calm down a bit got irritated and are still bright red.
So for those of you who have considered this cleansing oil - even taking YMMV into account, just don't. The full sized product is like $40 or more, it smells like bottled old fussy church lady, and may or may not wage war on you entire face. | Learn from my mistake and don't let this thing near your face. Don't let my poor life choice be in vain! | [
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Long time lurker, first time poster.
My 25 year old friend just got hit with a huge bombshell this week. Her parents brought her over from Thailand when she was 7 using her cousin's social security. I'm a little confused about how she got the name changed to her real name, but the fact of the matter is she's always thought she was a naturalized American citizen. Her passport has her name on it, she has a driver's license, a social security card, bank accounts etc.
Her mom (a naturalized citizen) called her this weekend and informed her of all of this and she broke down. Her cousin in Thailand wants to come to America and wants her identity back. Her family's plan is for my friend to fly back to Thailand and give her passport to her cousin and for her cousin to resume living HER life. My friend can barely read/write in Thai. She graduated from high school and college in the US and manages a successful restaurant in the US. Her life is in the US. It's all she's ever known. When she finally told me, she broke down in a way I've never seen another human being do. I've never seen anyone have their entire life taken away from them and be forced to live in a country they can scarcely call home.
I know technically, she is a legal US citizen. She's got the documents to prove it. However, if short of giving the finger to her cousin and just staying the US, what course of action can she take? The situation is so messed up that I don't know where to begin. If anyone has any insight, please help. | Friend found out she's been using a family member's social her entire life and is in fact an illegal immigrant. | [
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Background: We dated in high school and broke up amicably. We are both 30. I've been divorced a couple years, he has been divorced for 5 years. We both have children from those marriages. He is currently working in VA but will be moving back to GA (where I am) in a few months. We haven't seen each other in person in almost 10 years.
He contacted me on facebook about 2 months ago. We spent some time catching up, he asked if I was seeing anyone (neither of us were), and we have talked almost every day since via facebook or text. We have made tentative plans for sporting events, concerts, etc. when he gets back. There has been a little sexting (nothing too dirty, mostly a little teasing). But I seem to keep getting inside my own head a bit and I am confusing myself. I periodically think "he really likes me, this could turn into something great when he gets back" which sometimes turns to "maybe I'm one of many he's talking to in this manner, or no one special, just the next in line" Of course, gut feelings tell me that no guy would spend this amount of time talking to someone he doesn't care about. He wouldn't text me in the morning and carry on a conversation all day if he didn't like me on some level. But looking at his facebook, he seems to be desired by quite a few girls (some of whom are post-divorce exes) and I can't help but wonder if he's playing the field... from far away. That said, we're not anything yet, so there are no rules. I guess I just want to know where I stand before I invest much more of myself... but ideally I'd like to know this without having to ask since we're both a little shy. sigh
Curiously, a few days ago he sent me a song from youtube. It was a few years old, so not a new one. He didn't say much else about it other than he found and liked it. It was a beautiful song about two people who ended their relationship, but the one singing still had feelings and regretted not speaking up. This stood out to me because a couple months ago while we were first catching up, he admitted that he had wanted to date me when we reconnected (I thought as friends) almost 10 years ago, but didn't have the courage to make a move at the time. He has mentioned a few times that he wonders what might have been. Admittedly, I have always thought of him in this same fashion and wondered myself.
I'm afraid of messing things up before they even begin. But I don't want to pull away due to misreading the situation or out of fear of messing it up. I honestly don't even know what I am asking here. I guess I am wondering the likelihood of this being a potential "real" thing vs me just being someone to talk to while he's away? And I suppose I'm asking guys in general what his behaviors say about his intentions? | I'm a jumbled mess and wondering how much time a guy would invest if he were interested in something real. | [
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Okay, I get Ted Nugent's a terrible person and we all hate him. That's cool.
But let's hate him because he's a hypocrite and a warmonger now that it's not him going to war.
Not because he dodged the draft. The draft sent way too many people (read: any at all) to their deaths or physical/psychological maiming in order to support a war effort most of them didn't believe in.
The draft is a horrendous thing that does nothing but take away democratic rights. It forces us to go to war. It forces human beings to kill other human beings in the name of "duty" and "patriotism."
We give people shit for doing whatever they can to avoid going into live combat, and I, personally, think that's some of the worst kind of bullshit. How dare they not want to stand in front of a bullet? | Fuck Ted Nugent for all the warmongering, the lies he's spread, the heinous shit he's pulled. But dodging the draft is not why he's a terrible person. | [
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Well you have your head better on about this than I did in this situation so kudos. Let her know it's no issue and encourage her to keep trying. Do your best to be an example and never voluntarily bring up the situation. Even asking "have you applied anywhere today".
In retrospect, I kinda wonder if my ex meant she just thought she didn't want to be with me but didn't know how to leave because of her financial situation. Beware of that because to this day I think this might have been what was really happening.
I did the above and this is what happened to me:
When I graduated from university I was making around $100k and my girlfriend wasn't able to find a job. Long hours made shit stressful and I started resenting the fact she was resenting me for working so long but when I had free time she never wanted to do anything.
After nearly 3 months told her I was going to help her and wrote her a new resume and applied about 3 dozen places for her on my one free weekend a month and got her over a dozen interviews. She ended up getting an offer and quit less than a month later. She kept talking about how the job wasn't a good fit so she wanted to keep "waiting for the right one". I kinda blew a gasket at this as I put so much work into all this because she constantly complained about it, but than after leaving the situation she put herself right back in it of her own free will.
Good old college try isn't necessarily good enough in the real world, it's hard to constantly persevere and it's definitely a mindfuck for many students when they leave. | Similar situation made me learn as long as they are trying it's all ok, but inactivity leads to laziness and resentment. So beware and do your best to curb it. | [
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The Bible doesn't really talk all that much about Heaven, therefore, in my opinion it is difficult to asses or even imagine in our minds what we would be thinking/feeling in Heaven.
Per the Bible, we know that God will "wipe away our tears" and there will be no more sorrow; but the Bible also says that the things we see or understand now, here on earth, are as if looking "through a clouded mirror," meaning, we can't really understand how a place so different from this place will actually be. | attributing known feelings to a place entirely unknown may not be possible - or at least may not be a fair comparison. | [
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Not this time, though. I end up hitting on a girl, saying stuff like "The world's going to end, how about we get together". She's really into it, and we go to my place (guess the refugee center wasn't really necessary after all). So when she's laying there in my bed, I check my email real quick, meaning to turn off my computer right afterwards. However, I realize that I know how to "solve everything", so I contact the proper authorities, share my ideas, save the world. Turning around in my chair, I expect the girl to be really fucking impressed. Turns out she left. | I got ditched by a girl in my dreams after saving the world. | [
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I'm sitting here feeling kinda shitty after getting called a retard for 10 minutes by a teammate who sat in the fountain at the 15 min. mark in an unranked match because of my items and I just sorta have to get a few things off my chest:
Why do so few people seem to remember that this is a game? I feel like the 3 and 4k players I play with are on the clock or something. IT'S NOT A FUCKING JOB. YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO ENJOY WHAT YOU'RE DOING. IT'S OPEN-ENDED BECAUSE YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO TRY NEW STRATEGIES INSTEAD OF MINDLESSLY REPEATING THE SAME THING OVER AND OVER. Sometimes what you're trying to do doesn't work out--life's hard. The way people react, though, it ALMOST seems like many (most?) Dota players want to play Dota not because they enjoy the game but because they want an excuse to be complete dicks to people they don't care about. And that's without getting into the problems with language/culture that can also result in racism/sabotage/misery for no reason. Yes, I'm a bad player. So is just about everyone who gets matched with me. If we were good, we'd get paid to win. Even then it'd STILL BE A FUCKING GAME. It's just fucking sad that so many people can't even try to have a good time unless they're camping the enemy fountain at 18 minutes. It's almost like they need to feel validated by acting like a diva in a VIRTUAL BATTLE FOR CONTROL OF A FANTASY FOREST AGAINST COMPLETE STRANGERS. SHIT DOES. NOT. MATTER. I guess I need to lighten up too. Idkman--people's attitudes are just poisonous. | going to play against bots | [
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One of the more famous pranks at my high school involved hoisting an old VW Beetle (sans engine) on top of a large concrete dome that covered the outdoor lunch area and leaving it there. Everyone was puzzled as to how they got it there, and the school had to get a crane to remove it. That one occurred a few years before my time.
The prank that my class performed (in which I was not involved) was decidedly less awesome, as the prankers just put super-glue in the locks of classrooms belonging to teachers they didn't like, which just inconvenienced a bunch of people and it cost the school a few thousand dollars to replace the locks. | Put unusual things where they don't belong and avoid property damage. | [
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I'm self-taught, and from my experience, /u/byrondv is giving you some of the best advice anyone could (and something I wish I'd heard sooner - I had been programming for a year or so before someone opened my eyes to the world of algorithms, Big O notation, etc) .
I'd take someone with a solid understanding of algorithms (whether self-taught or college degree) but little to no rails experience over someone with rails experience but little to no algorithm knowledge any day. Why? Because the one lacking an understanding of computer science is likely to use a solution that "works" with small amounts of data, but quickly crashes when faced with large amounts of data - e.g. they will use an O( n^2 ) solution for something that could be solved O(n).
Yes, you need to know some language to get a job, but the choice of language is far less important to your long-term career than learning the basics of computer science. Pick a language (Python or something else) and learn its syntax, but also learn algorithms, data structures, design patterns, etc., and learn when and why you should choose one approach over another (and don't ever stop learning). | algorithm/data structure knowledge > specific language experience | [
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So this friend and I are (were?) quite close. We usually talk on a daily basis, mostly through text and Facebook. We chat about anything and everything, but the thing we initially bonded over is the fact that we are both "crazy dog people" if you will. We're both the kind of people whose dogs are our best friends.
My dog was elderly and I was having a hard time coming to grips with the fact that he was going to pass away soon, and this friend was always there for me when I needed to talk about it. He seemed to be the one person who understood that for me it was like watching a family member waste away.
A few days ago I had to make the decision to have my dog put to sleep. He had stopped eating and could no longer stand up on his own, and it knew it was the right thing to do, but that didn't make it any easier for me. I'd had my dog my entire adult life and he was my best friend.
After coming home from the vet all I could do was curl up in a ball spend the day crying and sleeping. In the evening I finally collected myself enough to call my parents and let them know what happened, but I couldn't summon the energy or emotional strength to individually contact everyone who I thought might care about my dog passing, so I posted my favorite picture of him on Facebook and said that he was gone and very missed.
I spent the rest of the evening and the next day receiving lovely, supportive messages and phone calls from friends and family members who were sorry to hear about my dog passing, but oddly my one fellow "crazy dog person" friend who I thought would understand how I was feeling the most didn't make a peep.
I know he saw my post because he's the kind of person who is constantly Facebook. He's been posting things to his wall and joking with his buddies on there as usual, but he hasn't taken a moment to even ask me if I'm alright or offer condolences.
I was quite shocked that he didn't reach out to me, but despite that I felt that I needed his support so I messaged him directly to let him know what happened at that I was taking it hard. It's been a few days now and I've had no response, and at this point I've gone from shocked and disappointed to angry.
I know I shouldn't be making rash decisions while I'm still grieving, but honestly his reaction (or lack of) to this situation makes me want to cut ties. If he were in my situation I know I would have done whatever I could to be comforting and helpful, and the fact that he can just ignore me in my time of need like this feels like a stab in the back. He clearly isn't the friend I thought he was.
Am I right to be so upset over this? Should I just chalk it up to some people not knowing what to say in these situations and let it slide? Or should I go with my gut and cut ties? It might seem like a petty thing to end a friendship over, but I was expecting support from him that just never came and I don't know if I can let that go. | A close friend did nothing to comfort me and ignored me reaching out for support after my dog passed away. Am I overreacting by wanting to cut ties? | [
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WARNING: This is a long story that you probably don't care about.
I don't quite know how to explain it reddit. The worst year I have ever experienced in my life was from around August 2011 - September/October 2012 but suddenly everything is getting better. As previously noted, during that time I fell into a deep depression. Over the course of several months, I lied to my parents about what I had done in school/what my grades were. Eventually they found out and by then it was almost too late to save me. I narrowly (Very narrowly) escaped failing out of high school and ruining my life forever. I had never seen my parents so angry. I still don't know if they'll ever trust me again. Over the course of this year, I had also experienced unrequited love. After finally working up the courage to ask out my dream girl, who I thought loved me in return. I was flat out rejected. Absolutely shocked and crushed. Later on, I found another girl but it didn't take long to realize I made big mistake. It ended badly. We don't speak to each other anymore. All this with practically nothing positive going on in my life. I didn't know what to do. I felt alone. Distant from friends and family.
Then something changed.
I don't know what it was or how it happened. But suddenly everything has been going my way lately. I've now been in a healthy, happy relationship with a wonderful girl for good chunk of time now. Things are going well and we're both very happy. I finally had a breakthrough with my studies. After having Ds/Fs in my worst classes they suddenly turned into B's and A's. Things are going better with my parents. As a left-wing individual I was happy to see Obama triumph over Romney. I had been hearing for months on end from people I knew about how stupid Obama was and that Romney was much better. The shocked facebook statuses were priceless. Also, my friend had been trying to convince me to play varsity level soccer for about a month. I finally caved, and joined the team. This team had never beaten another varsity team in its history. Then, in our first game of the season. We defeat one of the top ranked schools in our region. 1-0 Was the final score. There were dogpiles on the field, some tears welling up in the coaches eyes, he couldn't believe it. I was the goal keeper in the game. The coach named me MVP of the game and my teammates applauded and hugged me. I felt like I actually gained some acceptance from my peers.
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I disagree, a good jungler will make the right decision, and know who will make more use of the buff. I am a platinum and relaying on your mid to kill or start to snowball his lane isn't a proper way to approach things. As a plat player, i often meet people that are equally matched as me, and it's REALLY hard to kill them without trying to pull some risky faker play, which in ranked is something, you want to avoid. For example, a good Lee jungler, would be able to realize that his mid Orianna would make more use of the blue buff against the enemy Syndra, despite nobody dying yet. It would instantly give your ally the ability to pressure,harass,and roam, and just a full control over the lane, which is crucial for a mid laner to carry. But if you're an Elise, and both enemy top and bot are aggressive, and you need the extra cdr and mana to gank, while your mids are passive, than sure as hell take it, because you will make more use of it. But most of the time when you're a lee, it's good to give it to your ally, unless they are losing their lane hard, and have died few times already. | A good jungler will be able to decide who will make more use of the buff. | [
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It's been a little over 2 months since we've broken up. For some reason today it just hurts even more than ever. 22 (M) and 20 (F).
I really miss her but I've done everything Reddit has said to do and more. But for some reason it just hurts. | 4 year relationship gone. Our 4 year anniversary was supposed to be yesterday. Just feeling sick to my stomach and need anybody to talk to at this point. Friends are busy with work, school, and or plans. I work tonight and just need random encouragement at this point. | [
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Last week he packed a bag and walked out "it's just too hard" and "I can't cope with this-it's too much. I didn't think it'd be like this." This was said right in front of our sons (1,3).
Our oldest son has cerebral palsy and I feel/have felt that my husband feels cheated or wronged somehow by this. Nate is not intellectually challenged in anyway and is extremely bright (he can even read a little!), the doctors also think he will be able to walk with crutches or a cane when he is older. I feel so lucky, when I see other moms at therapy with children so much worse off. Yes, he will walk with a cane but he will walk and he will be able to go to college and get married and have children of his own.
But when Nate makes progress, Daniel seems to almost brush it off as insignificant, or not enough. He has this image of a son in his head that isn't fair. He is very stressed out by it. He favors our youngest son Owen but is stressed out by him to, he cries too much/he's too picky about food/he's too loud,etc.
But I keep telling myself this will all pass. That it's a phase, that small children aren't his forte. He loves them, that's a lot to build on. When he walked out last week.
I understandably freaked out. I'm a SAHM with two kids. He took the only car and left. Other than a handful of text messages, that's all I heard from him.
Then he came back. He was very apologetic, had flowers and toys. He was "stressed" but he "missed us, even the problems". I took him back. If only because I was so relieved..it's sad to say but I was scared. I didn't know how I was going to get by.. If I got a job (Can I get a job?) how would I take care of my kids? Who would watch Owen, he's so small for daycare. and If Nate doesn't get to his rigorous, frequent therapy, he may not reach his potential.
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Would all of this apply to non-rigid denim, like 511 indigo? Specifically, the hang dry advice: I know using the drier is ill-advised, but for a few of my 511 or 510 pairs in the past (again, non-rigids, in case that makes any difference) I liked drying in a drier because it tightened them up a bit--never shrinkage, but rather after long periods of non-washing they'd stretch out a bit. | Does the drier fuck up my non-raw, non-rigid denim? | [
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I've never done a Genocide run myself, it takes too much time to grind all the monsters in every area (and my heart can't take the sadness), but most, if not all of the Genocide run experiences I've heard and eatched of had people going into it, knowing about the run to some degree.
Is there anyone here who did a Genocide run without knowing it was a Genocide run? You just farmed and killed everyone like it was a regular rpg, or you wanted to see what would happen, but you actually had no clue what was at the end. You hadn't Googled alternate endings yet, sstunbled you stumbled upon the Genocide ending, it was a complete surprise to you.
If so, what was it like? We're you confused? Scared? Happy? I remember when I was little, and games broke the 4th wall like that, I would get so scared, I'd turn the game off, because I thought that Psycho Mantis was actually talking to me our whatnot. Did you feel like that at all? Even for a second? | Has anyone ever done a blind Genocide run, and how was the surprise ending for you? | [
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This. OP may have been right, worrying about pulmonary edema, and they could have been overcompensating for hypoxia by hyperventilating, causing some hypocarbia. We need the paO2. If low (less than 60), maybe CPAP? (if BPs are good) I've got the feeling this was probably a large person, probably has underlying OSA as well. Would also get a repeat bedside CXR on this person, and ? if they have heart failure (BNP?) or liver Dz (think 3rd spacing). If the pt's pooping their brains out, a low bicarb is to be expected (HCO3 Excreted to buffer stomach contents in small intestines), the overall base excess/deficit would be more beneficial when trending buffering capacity. Also would want to know underlying kidney function, if good bicarb drip may or may not do anything useful. If pt is already borderline alkalosis d/t hyperventilation, worsening alkalosis could lead to respiratory depression and subsequent deterioration in a pt with underlying pulmonary edema/hypoxia. | OPs probably right, whats the paO2? | [
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20, no I don't regret it. It happened maybe a month into our relationship, at one point we came back from a party a bit drunk and she just really wanted to have sex. She had experience, I didn't. Couldn't get it up, typical story, then tried a second time, didn't work. Third time I came to her apartment one day and just kinda spontaneously grabbed her and just wanted to get through the act so I could calm my nerves.
She loved that. After that it was some pretty great sex for awhile. Hell, she thought she was more into women because she had bad experiences with men until she met me, but hey, I put in effort. Then before the summer she told me she loved me, cared more for me than anyone she'd met before, and of course I responded, although a little bit surprised at the time. It was my first relationship, so I do kinda regret that. What did I know, right? Not that it was so terrible. I absolutely did care greatly for her. I ended up visiting her in Chicago over the summer, she was fairly wealthy so we had her parent's apartment to ourselves overlooking most of the city in the loop. We had sex on that balcony, she wasn't feeling so well after a different attempt at drunk sex, so I took her outside for some fresh air and to relax... And she got real playful. That was great. And right afterwards we went back inside and just continued to have sex, for like 3 hours, it was kinda insane... Then she was having some kind of problem, she thought she was a lesbian because she couldn't get wet enough, and she said something to the effect of "I'd marry you now if it weren't for this." course she was drunk and half-kidding, so I didn't think too much of it. But it was kind of off for her.
And between then and the next semester she changed and broke up with me a week into the semester. She was crying while she did it. I mean, I knew something was off because she had been distant for awhile. I still don't really understand what the problem was. I don't think she understood it too well either, she just said she stopped caring for me. That ate at me for awhile, then like a week and a half later we had sex again... Yeah... It was kind of off. But I thought maybe she'd take me back. Dumb.
And then recently she sends me an email about how bad she felt during our breakup about how she treated me and still wanted to be friends. I don't hate her, but I did feel like shit for awhile, I let her know. But I guess we're kinda friends now.
Relationships are... Confusing. Why did I write all this out...? Felt like it. It's still somewhat in recent memory for me so I think about it quite a bit. I never felt like I had closure. I've come to accept it and I've moved on, but wish I could understand.
Was one hell of a way to have a first relationship. There's definitely parts I regret, but I don't think I would trade it. How often do you get to see a pretty girl who you thought was out of your league choke out that she loves you? It's great to feel so wanted.
Egh. Might as well post this by now. | Dumb relationship story, you'll probably roll your eyes a lot. | [
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except she's fat... Peter Jackson directed Lord of the Rings and he was a fat fuck. He realized this was unhealthy and lost some fucking weight. | people have too many fucking excuses for being fat these days | [
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This was quite a few years ago, but let me try to recreate the setting...
I was headed to school (middle school at the time), but when I got on the bus, all of my friends (that rode my bus) weren't riding, only a few kids, and all of their faces were fuzzed out (think Pink Floyd - The Wall the part where everyones faces are all dull ovals with no features)...
I went to school -- all the sudden the day was over and it was time to go home, only now I had my old bike (which had been stolen from me many years ago) to ride home to my fathers house which was in the town not far from the school. On the way home I came to the turn onto the road my fathers road is off of and instead of there being the Methodist Church Camp grounds that have been there for all my life, there was a little cabin looking store with weird colored objects in the windows. On the other side of it was a huge hill I had to go down to get to the road (which is flat IRL) to my dads house. When I get there he greets me wearing his clothes backwards and talks to me backwards. I write down the sounds he says and make out that he said my friend Mikey had came by looking for me. I venture out on my bike to go to Mikey's house and when I get there the house is cut in half horizontally, only the first 3 feet off the ground of the house was there, and their stuff was still there, but had also been cut off at the 3 foot mark. I realized something is WRONG and decide to go back to the strange shop I had passed on the way to my fathers house. On my way there I see my friend Travis riding his bike, he follows me to the new shop. We go inside the shop and an old shady fat guy with a giant beard is running it (think biker version of Santa Claus, but with mixed black and gray hair), he also had a monocle and is wearing a lab coat. We start looking around theres all kinds of toys like Yo-Yo's and Slinky's and Etch-a-Sketches and Pop-cap Guns and Kites... I start looking around the shop and pick up a Slinky to bounce back and forth. As it makes its "ca-chink, ca-chink" sound I hear my friend Michaels voice kind of choppy mixed with the sound of the Slinky... I put the Slinky up to my ear and wave it back and forth and I can hear him asking me for help, he was trapped in the slinky. I pick up another Slinky and it was another friend, all the Slinky's were PEOPLE. I pick one up and its a girl, she tells me how to free her, so I use my toe to hold one end of the slinky to the ground, the other I held in my hand and stretched it apart, then I let go from both ends and in a flash of smoke and sparks a crazy looking 80's punk chick appears with huge crazy pink/purple hair, a silver and purple striped leotard and her face panted purple with a silver star painted over her eye like someone from KISS. She told me that the shop owner was imprisoning people and we had to get away right away.
We go outside the building and she summons a huge fucking Tiger and we fly away on it to San Fransisco. She has a loft apartment under the Golden Gate bridge, both sides facing the water are full wall windows. Its sunset now, with a orange purple sky, and we sat at her loft on a big round rotating bed listening to music. The Tiger is now chillin in the corner. She starts to dance to the music and strip in front of me and just when things started getting interesting in the bed I got woke up to go to school by my mom...
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Am I the only who thinks Thomas and Guy-Man aren't going to win this? Don't get me wrong, I want them to win, but the fact that it's another one of those "Fan Voted" award shows makes me think Avicii is gonna win it, especially with "Wake Me Up!" being on every single pop radio station in the country while "Get Lucky" has been reduced to playing on public radio or one of those Best of/Variety radio stations. | If it's all over the airwaves, chances are it'll win automatically. Therefore, Avicii's winning it and we can just go on with our lives, because who really cares about these award ceremonies? | [
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Again, you seem to mistakenly believe I am making the argument that no central authority will exist. In fact, I'm not making any argument with regards to anything you've said. You're assuming a whole bunch of world view on me and asking me to respond, which is rather counter-productive.
I am not foisting a worldview on you, I am simply stating that capitalism does not necessitate the state by displaying examples where an authority is required to enforce societal norms in any society.
Whereas it is true I assumed you were of a specific persuasion and it may have flavored some of my answers, it doesn't detract from the point.
>I am simply and explicitly responding, generally, to the argument ancaps make, that capitalism is possible sans this central authority. The only thing you are doing here by saying "but but [x irrelevant philosophy] will also require this central authority!!" is conceding my point, not refuting it.
A central authority isn't required, only an authority. Other groups don't critique ancaps on having a central authority, because we don't advocate one - they challenge the authority itself centralized or not, and call it a false idol according anarchist dogma - a government but not a government.
Even if it is a decentralized authority protecting you, that doesn't matter.
It is my argument that the argument falls flat on it's face because an authority, central or not, is required to protect one thing or another. No ideology saves you from the necessity of protection from what your ideology deems is aggression. The entire critique lacks self-awareness. | if DROs are government, then so is any authority by which society is governed. | [
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I asked her to marry me today. She said yes!
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I'm looking to find the best laptop possible with my shitty budget that is a collection of what me and my family can afford for my boyfriend's birthday. Other than normal computer usage he games a good bit, he used to have a pretty fancy gaming desktop he built himself, he sold it so he could move in with me and for months it's been something I've wanted to help get back to him. He's expressed the want for a laptop instead though, since we plan on traveling a little here and there to see family. I know absolutely nothing about computers though and am not a PC gamer so sadly it's an area I know nothing about. | Boyfriend needs decent gaming laptop for birthday with a very horrible humble budget.
EDIT : I'm sorry if I seem completely idiotic and clueless, it's just that I am, and also never post really on Reddit. Sorry. | [
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Pay the Taxes,
Set Aside 5% of remaining money so that I can retire,
Donate 65% percent to charities
Put aside 20-25% in a trust fund, hire people to multiply the money through investments. Take the profits and give it away to charity. Hopefully the thing would last to help generations to come. | Retire, set aside a reasonable amount to live a comfortable life, donate the rest to various charites. | [
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In case you don't know what survey I am talking about, here is the Link:
Now to the aftertalk, which isn't gonna publish the results, espacially not the ones that would encourage witch hunting!
First off, we got 921 participants that gave a lot of feedback. So I for myself don't see any need to create or participate in any reddit post of this kind in the near future! Dear reddit people, you voiced your opinions (and as of now you still can in the survey) and I handed the results over to HiRez! And I can confirm they at least recognized the results and had a look into it! Everything else is up to HiRez!
While my thread was on the frontpage I got some feedback regarding the survey itself and I am gonna quote some and answer them:
>>The only issue with volunteer survey's like this is that it does not provide a proper sample that actually represents the entire population of the smitegame stream viewers, because usually the people who fill out volunteer surveys are those with strong opinions who want to get their opinion out and those people will usually have had a negative experience with the stream. As a result this survey will be somewhat biased.
That is indeed true! HiRez knows that the survey was on reddit and I am pretty sure that they know that only a part of the Smitegame viewers go to reddit and voice their opinions. However since the survey was anonymous and gave you the possibility to just mark the answers I think I collected additional responses, including the response of people that wouldn't make a post about the topic!
>>This streamer is missing
I am sorry I forgot some streamers! However all streamers that stream five days a week were part of the survey and so I got the most of them into it.
>>Good god are those questions loaded. You're practically filling the questionnaire out for people just with your phrasing.
That's your opinion! A lot of the questions were inspired by reddit posts. But they weren't inspired by the streamer the people talked about, they were inspired by the things that people blaimed/ praised the streamer for. But thanks for being a smart pantypants!
>>If you make a study aiming to see how bad something is the result will reflect that.
I see that point! I shouldn't have started the survey with Which Streamers tempt to loose his or her temper when things go wrong in the game? . I should have started with Overall, which streamers offer the most educational stream experience? . However I made sure that for every possibility to say something bad about streamers, you get the possibility to say something good!
>>Literally every question was directed to a specific streamer.
Nope, just nope! There was literally only one question that fits this statement. And I am gonna be honest, it's this one: Which streamers get a lot of bad feedback from the community, but don't deserve it? . I was considering to remove it before I posted the survey on reddit, but I decided against it! The previous question to this one allowed you to talk bad about a streamer, so why not give you the possibility to defend a streamer?
That's it about the responses to the survey itself
I was arrogant enough to read some replies and I have to thank all the people that participated, but I have to give special thanks to those that took the time and used their chance to give out more details about their thought than just marking the name of a certain streamer. While the voting results can be informative, a well thought text will always be a better source of feedback. With that being said, if you call someone an "ass" it's unlikely that your opinion will be considered of high value (Just a reminder, I am not in charge of valueing the results)!
But now to a question that some of you might have asked yourself: Why did I create that survey?
a) To reduce the witch hunting on this reddit! I hoped that a lot of people would participate and it actually happened. And so I can say that HiRez has your feedback now! You voiced your opinion. There is literally no need to make a new reddit post about this topic in the near future.
b) To see why certain streamer's are loved more and why others get bashed. The survey wasn't created in order to give HiRez a reason to fire Streamer xyz. It was created to give HiRez the possibility to talk to streamer's that got good/ bad feedback and tell them why other streamers got good/ bad feedback. Overall it is meant to allow the streamers to improve while avoiding the mistakes others might be doing!
c) In order to look like a nice person. Okay, this is a joke, because I am obviously not a nice person! A nice person would just not watch the streams of streamers they don't like, check the schedule and tune in when another one is streaming (Yeah, Yeah I know ... the problem that a lot of people see is that all streamers are representing the game we love. But then again I [and that is a personal opinion] sometimes get the feeling that those who are offended already know the game for a while and already made their decission whether they want to continue playing it or not!).
So with this all being said, here are a few of the most positive results that I feel comfortable posting. I will only name the top two names and don't say who got more votes!
Which streamers handle bad situations in an excellent way that ensures an enjoyable stream? --> DryBear and HirezKelly (the names are in the order you found them in the survey)
Overall, which streamers offer the most educational stream experience? --> DryBear and DMBrandon (again, this is the order of names you found in the survey)
Overall, which streamers offer the most fun stream experience? --> DryBear and HirezKelly (Do I need to say it a third time?) | A summary of something that doesn't need to be known by you! You are to lazy anyways! Just don't start a witch hunt here, cause that's against the rules! | [
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I shouldn't have started the survey with Which Streamers tempt to loose his or her temper when things go wrong in the game? . I should have started with Overall, which streamers offer the most educational stream experience? . However I made sure that for every possibility to say something bad about streamers, you get the possibility to say something good! \n >>Literally every question was directed to a specific streamer. \n Nope, just nope! There was literally only one question that fits this statement. And I am gonna be honest, it's this one: Which streamers get a lot of bad feedback from the community, but don't deserve it? . I was considering to remove it before I posted the survey on reddit, but I decided against it! 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so almost 2 years ago i was drinking heavily every day. i was depressed and suicidal and working at a bar just to make ends meet. i was living with my boyfriend, but i had sunk to such a low point that he says that he didn't even know me. i spent 90% of my time at the bar i worked at, drinking with my coworkers. i wound up drunkenly cheating on my boyfriend with a coworker. shortly after this event, my boyfriend confronted me with his feelings: he didn't know me anymore, seeing me like this made him unbearably sad and angry, he couldn't stand being constantly and sloppily lied to by a drug addict, he missed the girl he fell in love with, etc. I decided to quit the job and try and follow my old goals that i had given up on. I eventually came clean to him and told him all the crappy stuff I'd done over the previous several months (lying about drinking, lying about drugs, cheating, suicide attempts, etc.) and because we still loved each other, we mutually decided to stick it out and help me get better.
fast forward to now: i have a job in my field, i've been totally sober for a year and a half, i have some good friends who respect my life choices, i'm on my medications again and feeling happier, and boyfriend and i make each other happy and our love is strong again. HOWEVER, the relationship is not perfect (duh). we both have some pretty deep scars from my history. he did nothing wrong back then, i am the causation of these problems which fucking sucks. i am still dealing with some self hate for this and other reasons. when i think about the things i did back then, i get sick. now my need for advice arises from HIS attitude about my past. it's been almost 2 years and i have improved IMMENSELY to the point that i would never have thought possible. i want him to be proud of me. i want him to acknowledge that i've gotten better. but it seems that in his eyes, what i did to him remains more powerful than anything i can do to move on. he still distrusts me. and i KNOW that he has every reason in the world to think i'm lying about stuff and i KNOW that it might never go away, but when he starts in on one of his lectures/interrogations, he is so mean and calloused and assumes the absolute worst about me that it feels like the last year and a half of self exploration and work never happened. it feels like i'm right back to my lowest point and it makes me sick and panicky and i cry at the drop of a hat and that MAKES me look guilty, when really i'm just having a panic attack. i feel like he is lording my mistakes over me. but i don't think he's doing it on purpose..
one thing that he often does to show his mistrust is going through my phone and computer history. in the past we fought about this a lot, but after hearing him out i've agreed that he should be able to do this. however, the agreement that we came to was that he can do it whenever he wants, but he has to ask me. there has to be a mutual agreement. but he doesn't!!! i just caught him last night when he thought i was in the shower, taking my computer out of my bag and going through it. i walked in when he was ERASING HIS HISTORY of snooping. there is literally nothing on my computer or phone that i want to hide from him, but it's the fucking principle of the matter! how the fuck are we supposed to build trust if he is sneaking around behind my back, looking through my stuff for "clues" to my "bad behavior" that he obviously thinks i am still partaking in. am i wrong? should he be allowed to do whatever he wants because i'm the one who cheated and lied? even if i've proven again and again that i am not that person anymore? will he EVER be able to trust me again if he gives into his temptations to "check up on me" every fucking time? and how can i trust him if he is lying to my face about an agreement that we promised to keep to one another?
i don't know what to do. when i try to talk to him about it he throws my past back in my face and i honestly have no idea if i deserve it or not. who is right? who is wrong? how do we get over this?
EDIT: | i went through a rough patch 2 years ago and did some really bad shit. now i'm way better and still improving, but my boyfriend doesn't trust me yet. is he allowed to lord it over me? am i allowed to deny him access to my computer and phone? how do we rebuild trust. | [
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I think everyone doubts their beliefs. I'm a Christian and I certainly doubt mine. Any Atheist capable of thinking should realize that they can never know they're right. Atheism has never been proven true.
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Remorse]: If you feel bad
I am a 30yo single male. I grew up in a messed up home and that experience completely turned me off of women. Furthermore, I look at my friends who are married and they are not happy. Getting married is something that I will never do because I already know it would never work out.
I do want kids though. I leaned towards adoption but the red tape and expenses and the lack of functional, healthy kids also turns me off.
I have thought about surrogacy. Just to 'break' the chain of dysfunction, I would not even use my sperm. I would not want to bring anymore people like my family into the world. I've met families who used sperm donors or surrogacy and it seemed right for me.
Then I saw my family. I looked at my psychotic, unbalanced, black hole mother. My recovering junkie sister who is dating a molester. My brother who wants nothing to do with us and hates me. My half-sister who is a selfish bitch who also keeps us at a distance. My family is filled with monsters and it's easy to see why that is.
I realized that even if I were to be blessed with the most perfect child, I would be committing a sin because if anything happened to me, my child would be fucked. Where would they go if I died? I would rather have my child die with me before being raised by anyone in my family because I know how that would turn out. It would be like feeding them to a pack of wolves. And that's even if they would take them.
I look at those successful families and having a strong supportive family is what made their kids who they are.
I thought about having more than one but how can I teach them what it means to be a family if I don't know? I can't reference to my own family. | Single guy with no desire to marry and has a dysfunctional family beginning to realize that having children would be selfish because if anything happened to me, my children would be fucked. | [
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As the title says, I need help. I know by 25 I should be more comfortable with myself but I keep finding myself in this dark place where my insecurities are spilling over and impacting my relationship.
I've been dating this GREAT human being (34M) since January of 2016. I find that the more serious we get, the crazier I feel. I have never really liked myself and I feel like I should be over that period of my life by now. Buuuuut, I keep hearing this little voice in my head telling me I'm not "enough" for him. He gets so frustrated validating me and I'm frustrated, too. A lot of times this spirals into an argument and has me in tears. I need advice, how do you guys quell those negative feelings when they come up? I don't want to ruin my relationship with my great guy because of this little voice.
I'm sorry this might seem like a silly question, it's my first time posting ever and I want some insight from people who have no idea who I am, and I hope I can find that here! | insecurities keep causing fights with my s/o and I need advice or even past experiences/insight so I don't self-sabotage and lose a great relationship! | [
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Bonjour there. I'm in Paris now, and I must confess that I love slang, no matter what the language is (my native tongue is English.)
For example, money in America is green. And since it's green, you can also refer to it as other things that are green: salad, lettuce, etc. Thus, there is almost an unlimited number of things you can refer to as money, and it's up to other people to figure out what you're referring to.
Or it's like cockney slang: you start with a phrase, Barney Rubble (from Flintstones), shorten it (to Rubble), and make it rhyme (Trouble). Thus, a bit of barney = trouble. I can't get enough of stuff like that. It's like a really fun game that everyone plays, and when someone uses a unique, perfect-for-the-situation word or phrase some time, there a few that I enjoy more.
I saw the list of French slang words on reddit before, but I would like something a little more guided, from a real french person. I'm particularly interested in verlan, because I love words with games. I know the following:
trainer - hang out, meuf = femme, canont = hot (like for a girl), ça dechirent = that's awesome, fric - cash, flic - police, pompes - sneakers, relou - annoying I think?
And some others, but I'm not just gonna start listing all the words I know. Again, any words that are actually used by les jeunes françaises would be best. Thanks a lot! | Your actually-used-by-young-french-people slang/verlan please!
edit: /r/French obviously. | [
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So im looking for some friends to play with, I know some friends IRL that play csgo but they are not very good and im looking to get more competitive with CSGO, I recently got gold nova 1 after countless games of shit teams in the silver ranks (I would rate myself as a nova 3-4ish but because I cant ace every round ive been stuck in silver), so basically im looking for some friends that are looking to get better with me instead of solo queing every game. Im EST sooooo yea | Looking for other gold novas that are EST, PM me or leave your steam down below. | [
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Okay, so this is going to be my first big post here :). It needs more research, but I have a liberal arts degree so... I tried my best. Hopefully someone else can chime in! Also, you can skip part one if this is too long for you!
Part One: Tap water's effect on skin
I've recently relocated to Houston, TX from the Pacific Northwest. The water in the PNW is known as some of the best tap water in the country. It doesn't contain fluoride (to clarify, I'm not opposed to drinking fluoride, just putting it on my skin), has a pH range of 7.2-8.2, and is some of the softest city water. Almost no one there bothers to filter their tap water, and some even insist water from the tap tastes better than bottled water.
The first thing I noticed in Houston was how terrible the tap water tasted. Even filtered water from the tap had a strange taste and texture. After a few months I noticed my hair thinning in the front and tons of split ends... things have never effected me before...but I assumed it was the stress of a new job. However, my skin became progressively worse eventually leading me to r/AsianBeauty (love you guys!). My skin was so dry it started to peel, I started getting pimples weekly (note: before the move I got about 4 pimples in my lifetime ), the pores on my nose grew so big they should've gotten bail-out money, and my skin seemed resistant to EVERYTHING that used to work.
Here's how I deduced that the water specifically was the culprit for my skin woes. 1) Skin is a fickle friend, so this doesn't pinpoint water by itself, but my skincare regimen that had been working for years, stopped working. 2) Humidity. My first thought was the climate change... but Portland, OR has a yearly humidity average of 73% My skin, hair, and nails were also suffering. My whole body felt like it was becoming brittle. Also, while my job can be stressful, I definitely felt more stressed in grad school, so I was doubting that this was the reason for my hair breakage. 4)** On a trip back home last summer (when humidity is peaking in Houston and Oregon is extremely dry) my skin was less dry, my pores cleared up, and my hair felt soft and luscious instead of dry and brittle.
Part Two: WHY tap water can harm your skin
Tap water is constantly tested and is (almost) always safe to drink in the US. Almost no other cities get the benefit of fresh mountain spring water running through their taps, yet their water passes the strict guidelines. (Also want to note that this isn't putting Portland above other cities... they can be extremely stupid about their water. A few years ago they wanted to drain the entire reservoir because someone peed in it. California might never have forgiven us if that happened).
Here are some of these guidelines:
Testing several hundred times per month
Free of harmful bacteria
Free of dangerous pollutants
But here are some aspects that could harm your skin:
pH levels can range from 5.0-9.0
silicon dioxide is unregulated (silica in water can exist in dissolved, particle, or colloidal form which can result in "build up" on scalp or film over skin)
Fluoride added (debated, but some argue that when used topically, it damages collagen and contributes to dry skin)
"Hard" water is acceptable, and common, in most cities. Hard water is generally more basic and contains additional deposits, such as calcium.
Crap.
Part 3: The best water for your skin
Non-Acidic Drinking-water with a pH lower than 6.5 is considered acidic and may contain lead or copper (usually from degrading plumbing). Water from lakes, streams, even mountains tend to be more acidic because of the increasing CO2 while well or ground water is less acidic as it is less affected by CO2.
Non-Basic Drinking water with a pH higher than 8.5 is considered basic. Basic water is actually what has caused my skin woes, since Houston water is generally more basic than Portland's. Cities with well/ground water systems usually have water with a higher pH.
Softer water Hard water contains dissolved minerals (like calcium) while soft water is treated water where the only mineral is sodium. While soft water generally has a lower pH than hard water, calculating "hard" and "soft" water is not solely based on the pH, but a number of different factors that my brain doesn't let me understand because science iz hrd.
Aaannddd... a bunch of other stuff that is too complicated for me. Hopefully someone else can come up with other aspects we should look for in water!
Part 4: What to do
This is where I'm stuck. Filtering water (carbon, ion and sulfite, fluoride, and sediment are all considered filters, but they each do something different. Most people are familiar with carbon filters.) will help with SOME of the issues of tap water. Filtering helps remove silicon dioxide, a significant amount of fluoride, large particles, contaminates, harmful and harmless bacteria, etc... Filtering can also have an effect on pH, generally lowering it through the removal of particles and minerals.
However, water hardness is effected by calcium and magnesium levels. Water softeners act through adding sodium ion which dissolves calcium and magnesium deposits (ok, doesn't "dissolve" but ion-exchanges, catalytic conversion... oxi-whatever... SCIENCE!). These, however, are generally giant-ass machines that are thousands of dollars. Bottled water is usually softer than tap water, but some aren't, so do research before-hand!
So, while water hardness has clearly harmed my skin, it seems that there is nothing I can do about it unless I only want to bathe in Disani.
My current filter solution
For now, I've found this great mini carbon filter [Every Drop]( that works perfect for my bathroom vanity. My bathroom sink didn't fit the faucet filters, and the big filters looked ugly. This one also comes in a little case, and I use the bottom as a little bowl to keep the filtered water in to dip my konjac sponge into. Plus, it's super cute!
Here's some pics of the filter, as well as my new vanity set up for my skincare routine and face masks . Also still waiting on my 100+ face mask haul that none of my non-AB friends understand or support...
Also, here's some sources:
[Climate](
[Weather](
[US Water Regulations](
[Super biased blog about fluoride, but still interesting](
[Filters vs. Softeners](
[pH of drinking water](
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There is an absolutely ridiculous bug for some people(read: probably a shitload of people) on the "At the Summit of Apocrypha" quest.
I know, it just came out and there's bound to be bugs, but this is the kind of bug that should have delayed release. It is a bug that has its own bugs, which in turn have their own bugs. I almost let Bethesda's "profit now, quality later if we feel like it" approach get to me, but there is a way to work around it.
After you learn the Dragon Aspect word and use your Bend Will shout on Sahrotaar, some of you will get on his back only to have him fly away while you sit there floating in a "mounted" position. You subsequently have to wait until he lands(Wherever that is) to leave this position, and even then you may or may not find yourself walking on an uneven invisible floor above the one you were just on.
If this happens, you can use the console command "TCL" to turn off collision and then just run through the air to the top of the large structure in the distance. Then use the command again to turn collision back on.
I hate that I had to do this, as I have never "cheated" before, but it seems to be the only option. I had to do it a few times before the battle sequence engaged properly, but it did work. | If Sahrotaar flies away without you, use "TCL" console command and run to the structure in the distance. | [
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Hey guys, let me first explain that I do not want to do anything outside of my marriage or looking for justification to do shitty things to our monogamous marriage just because I'm bisexual. I'm in a committed marriage and don't want to do anything outside of it. I love my wife and want to spend the rest of my life with her.
That said. I still feel very guilty and depressed that I sometimes I seek out gay porn and I still have homoerotic fantasises from time to time (in dreams and when I see a handsome guy walking by). I don't desire to seek fulfilling these sexual fantasises irl.
My wife knows that I'm Bisexual ( a 3 on the kinsey scale ) and we do things in the bedroom to accommodate things as much as she can. but I feel guilty that it doesn't satisfy me as much as it would be as if was a man.
are the anyone else who is bisexual in a committed relationship have any advice for me? who know where I'm coming from? | I'm a bisexual who feels guilty about looking at gay porn and still have male desires while in a committed m/f relationship! | [
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orange. you will be glad you did. | orange, you glad. | [
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Oh ya, "parties" full of 21 year college chicks where you're the only dude are the beeeeest. I hope you like Grey's Anatomy and stories about that way hot TA from intro to Pysch. And Jesse? I mean he's a little short but he's bomb in bed. Too bad he's an asshole when he drinks. Guys, right? Do these pajama pants look ok? Oh fuck it I don't even care, I'm just gonna keep rocking this $8 vodka with lemon Gatorade until Grey's Anatomy ends or I run out of tissues. Don't you love talking about your feelings? Soomuchcoffee are we boring you? Who wants more popcorn?
This is indeed an unfair, sweeping generalization but I swear to God I've experienced it a handful of times. I dated a girl with five roommates. They were cool people, but damn. Oh, and Jesse was an asshole all the time. And he's crazy short.
I remain unsure, though, how Grey's Anatomy is different than a flowery soap opera set in a hospital. Garbage.
Your comfy pants look OK. The bra-free thing is pretty great, though. | Way hetero gal pal here. | [
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Not as hot, but sometime when they die, horrible things happen. I was taking a shit one day when the cfl over the sink started to flicker, then went out with a pop. There were still two or three more lit so I continued pooping with little concern. About 30 seconds later, I hear another pop, and look up to see a jet of flame and smoke coming out where the glass tube meets the plastic base on the blown bulb. Literally scared the rest of the shit out of me. Turned off the lights and the fire went out. Promptly threw the rest of those brand of cfl away. Turns out some of the cheaper cfls have a crappy starting system that goes overboard when the bulb dies and can get so hot it burns the plastic. | don't by cheap cfl bulbs, some die a fiery death | [
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Recently on reddit, there has been some controversy surrounding the idea of karma and those who are (for lack of better words) "aiming for karma" when they make a comment.
Most people here on reddit like to call karma "Meaningless internet points". And while there is some truth to that statement, I believe it is widely misused. For one, most people use this statement when referring to karma because karma brings no monetary value. This is very true. I have yet to meet a single person who has made money directly from earning their karma.
While the monetary value of karma lies at nothing, there is another value to karma. Lets think for a second, what are votes primarily used for? Huh, lets see. Rediquette says to vote based on whether or not the comment added to the discussion, but is that always the case? Hardly. Votes in most cases mean feedback. The more upvotes you have, the more people that enjoyed it. This not only gives a good idea of just how many people saw the comment, but It also shows just how many people liked the comment.
Using CationBot, I do a number of things. In the past, ive poked fun at the post the OP made, offered advice to the readers and the OP alike, and have acted like a downright asshole at times as well, jokingly of course. There are times when I have fucked up, or made a post that wasn't really that funny. And during both of those times, I was downvoted heavily. Not only did this show that everyone was obviously unhappy with my comment, but it showed that I needed to make a change so that it would not happen again next time.
And that is what I'm here to talk about. The main point is, Karma is not truly a meaningless internet point . Karma is a valued form of feedback that helps users, including novelty accounts like myself, be able to come up with better content and be "rewarded" for giving good content without having to spend money or receive a monetary asset.
That being said, does your total karma count have anything to do with how much people like you? Absolutely not. There might be some correlation, especially if your account is brand new and has a lot of karma, but for the most part there isnt much correlation between the two. There are users on reddit (I'm not mentioning any names, i fuckin hate drama to be honest), who have used their total karma count to justify being a total douchebag to other people on reddit. There are people who have used their karma count to justify their sense of entitlement for things on reddit, i.e. Hosting an AMA for a famous person when you have no previous experience in doing such a thing and have never met the person, and are just doing so because of your ranking on karmawhores.net
So lets just cut to the chase, I just want people who come across my comments to know a few things when it comes to voting: Voting is feedback. If you liked my comment, I heavily encourage you to upvote it, because that lets me know that you liked it. Leave me a comment if you like too, I appreciate all forms of feedback, but voting is by far the easiest for everyone. If you disliked my comment, leave me a downvote. Maybe even leave a comment about why you disliked it, it helps me a lot, more than you know.
The only reason I still make captions for you guys is because there are people out there who genuinely enjoy them enough, and would hate it if I quitted. I love you guys so much, ^^Except ^^for ^^anionbot. | Karma is valuable feedback for users like me, and I rely heavily on karma to see if you liked my post or not. Like my post? Please let me know that you did and leave an upvote. Hated my post? Please leave me a downvote, as all feedback is valuable. | [
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Struggle no longer!
The build I am about to share with you is so op that I have not lost a single game yet this season with it! It is the +2 blink stalker attack off of a FFE. I don't even follow an exact build order to do it, and still no Zerg scum can handle it!
But this is the gist of what I do:
FFE - Ensure that you have a zergtight wall at natural. It helps to put your first pylon out at the natural ramp.
Build gateway around 18-19 supply, then put cannon at wall. Cannons are the best zergling bouncer to your Protoss dance club.
Take both gasses around 21 supply and fill them when completed.
Start cyber core as soon as gateway is done.
Start +1 attack, and twilight counsel after cyber is done and you start warp research.
Add 1 gas at natural and fill it!
Start blink when twilight is done.
From here all I do is continue probing until I have 16 probes on both mineral lines and 3 full gasses, get pylons on the map for aggressive warp ins, build gateways as your money allows up to 7 or 8, and chrono the crap out of blink and +1 and 2.
Start warping in 7-8 stalkers at a time at a forward pylon right before blink is done and continue warping in when your gates are off cool down. Also try to chrono boost your gates during the attack. This build is super awesome in gold league and is pretty easy to pull of and really hard for a Zerg to defend.
Here is are play of me doing this build in a recent choboteamleauge game. have fun and craft with the Stars, my friends! | I didn't actually change ANY of your content so do everyone else a favor and copy and paste this over your OP. | [
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My high school had many but probably the most infamous one was during my senior year.
Like any other typical high school we had a freshman Friday, where kids dump smaller kids in trash cans. Well for some reason my (dingus) class thought it would be a good idea to go against the norm and just go all out. So over a hundred seniors met up that Friday morning, wearing all black, and divided up into trucks and armed theirselves with water balloons, flour bombs, . They drive around the school and parking lot as kids came to school, pelting them and "kidnapping" them by grabbing them off the side walk and driving off with them. And they even hit random pedestrians. One of the rumors was a dog was hit.
I'm not entirely sure where the line of truth becomes rumor because I did not participate ( mostly bc I really could've cared less about being a senior and "asserting my dominance" or whatever this is supposed to prove... And I'm a 5 '4 indian dude, not quite that intimidating).
That morning the ENTIRE senior class was called into the lunchroom and were given a very "stern" talking to. And then we broke the record for most suspensions in one day. | A bunch of seniors threw water balloons and flour bombs at freshman and random pedestrians. Broke record for most students suspended in one day. | [
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Would you accept $100 million if it meant 4000 strangers would die?
Edit: You're not allowed to donate the money to save more lives. That's missing the point.
No. Because the way you have set it up, $100 million is the price for the death of 4000 people. If I dont take the $100 mill, the 4000 continue to live. Its the equivalent, in my opinion, of getting paid $100 million to kill 4000 people. Other 4000 people would die anyway, because people die all the time, but these would be people who were sick, poor, depressed(suicide), killed in accident or just old - no body can be placed as the cause of their deaths, so there is no immorality.
Its immoral and I would not take it. And, you cannot use the $100 million to save more people than you killed because, put in other words, would you say it is ok for a hitman to kill someone for $100 mill if he promises to use $50 mill to save 1000 others? We can keep on taking this same scenario to other hypotheticals, like is it ok to steal $100 mill from a rich business man, if you promise to give $50 mill to help the poor? Keep in mind that not all business men are evil; maybe the man struggled all his life to make $100 mill (people have the right to earn $100 mill fair and square in USA), and maybe he planned on giving far more than $50 mill to charity himself. | 100 m for killing 4000 is same as killing someone for bounty;
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I didn't want to hijack /u/r35h93's thread, but felt that it would help to introduce myself as well.
My name is Glenn and as many of you know I've been very active here on this sub since 2012. Some of you who might remember some of my other posts from either here or over at /r/eagles (or would look at my history) know that I am actually no longer living in the greater Philadelphia area, rather I live in beautiful Orlando, Florida (I wore t-shirt, shorts and flip flops out tonight, you can't do that in Philly in December).
I moved in 1991 when I was only 10 years old and before watching out of town games was even remotely realistic, still I have bled Phillies red my entire life and never once wavered on that! I will love Mike Schmidt to the day I die and if I ever meet Joe Carter's kids/grandkids/great grandkids/whatever, I'm going to tell them that there is no Santa Claus or Tooth Fairy just to ruin their childhood as Joe ruined mine.
I generally get to Philly at least once a year and try to do a full weekend slate of games, but can sometimes only hit one. My sister moved back up there a few years ago and her fiancé and I will go to games when I go. I don't go to many road games here in Florida, mainly because Miami is a 4 hour drive, and a shit hole and Tampa is 2 hours and they usually play during the week and I travel for work. I DID attend game 1 of the 2008 World Series though with my father and cousin and it was amazing watching a Phillies road World Series game when the crowd was 30-40% Phillies fans.
As stated above I travel for work 100% of the time, so sometimes I'm going to be a bit slow in checking Reddit, but as a mod over at /r/cruise I have done everything I can to stay as active as possible, checking usually once a day at a minimum.
Ultimately the things I'm going to bring as a mod are to help ensure we limit the spamming sites that come here, it's gotten better as we've sucked but for a while there a new Philly blog popped up every day and felt the need to come and spam this board. Also, I will do my best to help keep the sidebar updated, the standings and game results will be the toughest thing for me to keep up with, but I trust with the rest of the mods that we can do a better job of keeping them up to date.
Ok, so that's a ton of information, feel free to ask me anything or try to question my Phillies fandom anytime you want, it happens all of the time to me living out of town and I always win the trivia contests.
Thanks!
Glenn | I live in Florida, but am still head over heels in love for the only team to give me a title in my lifetime | [
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My partner and I (both 25) were watching TV and the idea of being abstinent throughout the engagement period came up. We're sexually active but we (think we) could do that for the last 99 days of our own engagement. We pretty much fool around every day now that he's back from deployment with the Marines so it'd be a huge change to our lifestyle (we don't live together, just nearby right now, we've planned to move in together around the same time we ring shop).
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It was a beautiful day in Washington D.C. My wife and I were visiting her best friend, hanging out, when we somehow got on the subject of the film "Apollo 13." We all agreed the film was excellent. But, somewhere along the way, as were talked about the cool special effects and filming techniques, my wife references how they used those "anti-gravity chambers."
"Huh?" I replied.
"Y'know," she says, "The anti-gravity chambers. How they got the actors to float around."
At first I thought she was joking. But upon further investigation I realized she was dead serious.
"There is no such thing as an anti-gravity chamber!" I said.
Then her best friend jumped in, making matters even more difficult.
"There are too!" her friend laughed, "How else do they train the astronauts for their missions in space?"
I was shocked.
"Ummm..." I replied. "A lot of different ways actually. Water training. Vacuum training. I don't know NASA protocol but there is no such thing as an anti-gravity chamber!!"
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The other book I want to give me a similar feeling or deal with similar themes as the move "5 cm per Second". I just saw this movie yesterday and I can't get it out of my head. For those who have seen it, it's less about plot than it is about conveying a feeling, I want that feeling to be conveyed to me again, but in book format. | I want a Murakami book and a book similar to the movie "5 cm per Second"
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You make it sound like he's definitely deliberately avoiding it: ask him about it rather than jump to the conclusion that he's deliberately avoiding it and basing all this "well he might be thinking this or that" off one impression you've not confirmed with him. | talk to him about it if you want to know what he's thinking; talk to Reddit to find out what a sample of guys think about what he might be thinking, or what they think they'd be thinking, or what they think generally. | [
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Considering the Imperial Edition costs 79 or 75 EURO on their own website, and G2A sells them for 10-15$ a piece, I'd call it a good investment either way.
But yes, it's definitely worth it. Just make sure that you take your time and enjoy every single aspect of the game. See something interesting? Check it out, explore. Interested in the lore? Read / listen to quest dialogue. Do the side-quests, try to complete everything.
It's an amazing experience if you let it sink in and treat it like a TES game. The lore is amazing, many quests are very well written, and the books and papers scattered everywhere are interesting to read as you go through the quests. | Don't rush it. Endgame isn't going anywhere, you have all the time in the world to enjoy the vast world of ESO. | [
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I work in maintenance in a hospital but this story comes from out of work hours.
Back in November my grandfather passed away. He had been living in a care home for several years now, and as we were from a smaller city, his main care aid was actually an exes mother who I am still close to.
Nearing his final days she texted me that things weren't looking good and to get my mom(who works out of town) and myself to see him ASAP.
The next two nights were exhaustive. Her and I barely left his bed side. We were wetting his lips, rubbing his head and singing Charley Pride and telling him stories from my childhood and from my moms. At one point Is Anybody Going to San Antone comes on the CD player and mom tears up talking about how this song reminds her of her father th most. He wasn't really coherent besides a glimmering moment the first day we had gotten there.. And by the final day we were sitting, watching the breaths turn to choke breaths.
As the hour got nearer, my exes mom was contacted and came in on her day off to sit with us for that final hour. My mom had her fathers head in her lap and we still had Charley Pride on the radio. She was whispering in his ear to stop being stubborn, that she would take care of her brothers and that she had me to take care of her. The gaps got longer and longer in his breaths. My exes mom was sitting next to me, the CD player playing behind us and my mom laying on the opposite side of the care home bed.
All of a sudden his breathing stops and in that moment, so did the CD player. It hadn't skipped once the whole weekend. My mom, figuring Taryne had turned it off,starting sobbing assuming it was to signify he was officially gone. I just sat and looked at Taryne like... "Did that just happen?!" After a good 20 seconds...Out of nowhere he took a shuddery breath... And The cd scrambled forward... And the song just before Is Anybody Going to San Antone--not sure if that's the name of the song but it was about not wanting to miss someone-- started playing. And then he was gone by the end of San Antone; the song mom remembered him most by.
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I recently moved to rural Colorado from across the country and have been renting a nice duplex here for about a week. Gradually, I have noticed my neighbor's habits are becoming increasingly bothersome and rather frightening.
I usually work late, meaning I get home and go to bed around 12 or 1 a.m. Last night, someone was pacing around the house yelling, hitting walls and banging on doors. This continued well into the early morning, at least until 5 a.m. Someone was also vacuuming when I went to sleep at 2.
Alarm clocks will go off for hours at a time. There is rarely a vehicle there. Sometimes a bike or a beat up old car. But I can almost always hear someone over there.
The past two days, the same individual who bangs on doors and yells has been continuing their activity throughout the day and into the night. Sometimes there are two other people there who will turn on the radio at 7 am while the yeller sounds to be secluded in the laundry room.
I've contacted my landlady and she told me she would call the tenant and find out what was happening.
My gut instinct is that someone with a severe mental disability is living there who is supposed to be supervised by a caregiver or family member and is being left alone at night and locked in a room during the day.
A few of my friends have said the behavior sounds like that of someone who is using meth or cocaine (what with the never sleeping and constant movement).
Either way, I don't think what is going on is okay and I'm afraid to confront whoever is living there in case they are violent or dangerous due to possible drug use.
I'm going to give my landlady a day to rectify the situation and if it continues, I'll be filing some kind of report with the police. Worst case scenario is I'll look like a cock when I call out a handicapped person. | Neighbors are loud, yell, slam doors and never sleep. Are they on drugs or handicapped? Halp. Share your stories/advice. | [
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I got the game a few months ago, and started out playing on professional difficulty. It took a little to get accustomed, since I hadn't played a Fifa game since 12 or 13, but eventually I was winning almost every game handily. I messed with the sliders some to make it a bit more difficult, but that wasn't enough, and I eventually moved up to world class.
Whoa, world class is a whole different game. It was interesting at first, with some games being more competitive, but it got old very quickly. I still won a lot, most of the games. But some games the CPU went into god-mode, and became unbeatable. CPU players were mind readers, avoiding nearly every challenge I made. The most frustrating part was that 50-50 balls were now 5-95 balls. Solid tackles would no longer win possession, the ball would consistently bounce right to the CPU, or my player would just fall down. CPU players grew go-go-gadget legs on slide tackles, and every one was perfectly timed and the ball would stick to their feet until they got up. Some games were closer, I lost a bit more than before (like I wanted), but I ended up hating the game. It was extremely frustrating and no longer fun.
In an attempt to bring the fun back to the game, I went back to professional, but made the sliders much more difficult. I lowered CPU shot, pass, and first touch errors down to the 20s and 30s, while raising mine to the 60s and 70s. I raised CPU shot and pass speeds. I lowered my goalkeeping slightly, while raising theirs. I learned that professional leads to a much more realistic game. Both teams are equals, instead of one being far more competent (CPU) than the other (me). Tackles for me do the same as tackles for the CPU. When players are jostling for position, sometimes I win, sometimes I lose. It's still difficult, games are challenging, and I'm actually losing more than on world class. But every game is fair , and that's exactly what I wanted. | If you're struggling to find a difficulty that fits what you're looking for, I suggest trying professional, but with strong CPU favored sliders.
Edit: As requested, here's the sliders: I also have the game speed set to slow. And if you're not on manual passing, I definitely recommend it. Too many times on assisted or semi, passes would go to the wrong player, or behind them, etc. With manual, it takes some getting used to, but you can put the ball right where you want to, and make sure it's going to the right person. Manual through balls are a bit tougher to master, but assisted has the same flaws as regular passes, too often they try to do a through ball to the teammate right next to them instead of the one making a run ahead. If you're on assisted everything now, try manual passes first, but leave assisted through balls as a safety net.
And if you're looking for something really different, try the pro camera. It gives you a view of the field from behind your players. It can get a little wonky in corners or when your dribbling across the box, but it's so satisfying to see the shots curve around the goalie into the back of the net just like the players would. | [
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Just an idea for something I wish Riot'd consider: when a champion gets formally announced and is put on the PBE, Riot should put the champion up for "pre-order." Some people will buy every champion/bundle or skin for champions, no matter what. Seems like a quick way to generate sales and for people who already know they want it to get the purchasing procedure out of the way. It might also take some of the load off the store servers, since orders could be processed in advance and then on the day of release, the patch comes up, and people who pre-ordered don't even have to go to the store - they can go straight to the field. Riot could even sweeten the deal for pre-orders by offering icons or theme downloads (I'd have bought Vi just for the song!) or whatever. | Riot, shut up and take my money. Early, if you want. | [
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I kind of thought that taking a Women & Gender Studies course in college was pretty pointless (other than filling in some requirement for electives) but it was a great environment for discussing this sort of thing openly.
One of the interesting things I learned, which one woman mentioned and others agreed with, is that apparently from a young age many girls are taught that social rejection in any form is rude. This can get so ingrained in someone that they don't want to outright reject someone who is flirting with them.
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I can only speak for myself, I have a bachelors degree in political science, loved a lot of my education. I've actually had it come up as "interesting" in a good number of my interviews, they ask me why political science and I have a canned excerpt about how I want to be a true leader and what better way to figure that out than to study them.
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So, I've been seeing this girl(21F - I'm 22M) for about 5 months now. She's great in bed, has a great face, and I just like being around her. She's also my first girlfriend ever. However, she's large. Like, she has to lose more then 50% of her body weight to be considered healthy. Least to say, I'm not very physically attracted to anything but her face. Now, I'm no skinny guy myself (5'11, 265), so I feel like I shouldn't judge, but she's at least 120lbs away from a chick that I would normally even consider dating. But then again, what I did find out (And this is why I started dating her) is that we're very compatible otherwise. She's normally fun to be around, and I love just not having to really try - We just get along that much. She also has a personality, which is seemingly a rarity in my age group. I like having conversations with her, long into the night. I've talked to her about her weight, and she says that she keeps trying diets, but the chick has the willpower of a starved dog in a steakhouse. Every week it's something new because she can't keep herself doing diets - Probably because she only does crash diets.
But, she also has this thing, where we can't spend money. Going to a free museum for the day? Fine. Going to the 5$ putput game? Nope. We'll stay at home and watch a movie. There's so much stuff I'd like to do with her, but she guilts me into not doing it because she doesn't want to feel like I'm draining her of cash. I've talked to her about it, but she always does this passive aggressive thing where she'll start talking, saying that we shouldn't do it, then suddenly go closed-mouthed and be like "Nope, we're going to do it. I changed my mind."
She also has no goals in life. Seriously. She wants to go to college, but changes what major she wants to do almost every week. It's irksome! And with this, comes complete indecision. I honestly have to decide everything for her. We haven't done a single thing that she wants to do, because she's never said that she wants to do something. I feel like I'm taking care of a child, at times. She has no idea what she wants from life, and has no real goals.
You know, just writing this out makes me feel like I should just dump her, but at the same time, I feel bad because I know that she has really strong feelings for me. But at the same time, I don't want to give up the spontaneity and (Minor) irresponsibility that comes with my current age (Early 20s).
Help? | Girl is great in bed and has a personality and intelligence, but I'm not physically attracted to her, mainly due to her weight, and she has other issues affecting our relationship, such as unwillingness to spend money, and has no idea what she wants in life. Should I continue dating her, and try and push through these issues, or just move on?
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