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As far as I can tell I have an unusual penis. I will describe it in detail (sorry, I don't mean to overshare). It's not particularly long. At 100% full salute, it's about 7.25" long. The head is about 5.9" around. The "neck" just below the head is only about 5.3". It then tapers up to about 6.125" at about midshaft, and then increases to somewhere around 6.75" at the base. I am hoping someone else has found a condom solution that works with this type. When I wear a condom, it always ends up rolling itself back up to the neck portion, and looks ridiculous. I should also mention that I am somewhat inexperienced. I never realized I was large until recently when the need for a condom arose (oh yeah!), and nothing seemed right.
I was told in school the condom is supposed to go on with one hand ;( It won't. I didn't realize my penis was large because of the proportions, it actually looks like a short 'n' stubby proportionally. I should also mention that I am in the US, and only have access to American condoms (dammit!). I have tried One Legend (ordered a dozen, Amazon sent me 112, thanks!), and they are better than the basic Trojans, but still cut off circulation, roll back up, and are somewhat longer than they need to be. Can anyone recommend something that will work? | I have a weird shaped dick and can't find condoms that work. Help! | [
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A bit of background, I have had one relationship in my life, it lasted over 3 years and ended somewhat horribly. I have been trying to get used to living life single again and there has been ups and downs but that's normal I think.
Shortly after I became single I started chatting with a girl I met on /r/kikpals. It turned out that we had an immense amount in common and became very good friends rather quickly. (I am from PA, she is in NY) She was in (a bad) relationship at the time and we kind of helped each other through things.
About a month ago, she became single. We actually had met and hung out as friends before, so it wasn't a surprise when she asked to meet me for dinner to celebrate getting out of that bad relationship. We met half way at a restaurant and ate and talked and had a great time. When the time came to leave she kissed me and started making out with me. She asked if she could come back to my place for the night.
She followed me back to PA, we ended up having sex that night. She stayed the over the whole weekend the following week. Now I had brought up the possibility of us being in a relationship, she said she didn't want to feel pressured into things and wasn't sure if the potential for an actual relationship with me was there.
We've hung out again since then just having fun, without any intimate moments.
Now, about a week ago I started talking to another girl, who lives very close to me. We hit it off, met for coffee and one thing led to another she ended up spending the night at my place.
Now the conundrum, I've expressed my desire to the first girl to be in a relationship. I know at this point we have said nothing about being together. However, I still feel somewhat guilty for talking to and sleeping with this other girl, who I do in fact like as well, obviously the length of us knowing each other is much shorter, but it was not a one night stand type of situation.
So I guess my problem lies in that I'm not sure if a relationship with NY girl will ever happen (even though I want it to). I don't know if this feeling of guilt for liking more than one person is misplaced or usual. | I'm interested in more than one person for the first time, feeling guilty about it. | [
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I take a long bus ride every morning, and I like to listen to music and play games, but all to often a game will stop the music coming from the default music app and instead play its own game music. Is there a way to have my audio be primary and not stop when I open a game? | Game stops my music for its own soundtrack, way to stop that? | [
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I'm gonna throw a curveball here and say "Angel", as judging by my experience of knowing three men named Angel,
one was a huge, muscly, Puerto Rican baddass doorman in Brooklyn who protected me from a man who was hassling me by merely walking over and saying "Sir, look at me and walk away." which was enough to scare the bad guy off,
the other was a 6'5 the rock esque Nigerian male nurse who would carry me around the hospital on his shoulders, and take shit from no one. He single handedly saved my moms life from a crazy man on PVC with a knife, yet was amazing on the kids ward, playing games with us all.
The third Angel I know was this old South American man who was getting chemo. He didn't say much, but his arms looked like they were made out of rawhide, and he told me once he had been in some kind of trouble in South America, so had to sneak into the US. He was fierce, moral, quiet, 75 plus, and a gentlemen.
So in conclusion ( | Angel is the surprise manliest name in my experience as the ones I met are the most excruciatingly wonderful examples of masculine gentlemen I have ever met. | [
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I had a lot of stress, events, crazy work patterns and two holidays over winter and have found it really, really hard to stick to healthy eating. When I began my journey I was 224lbs (16 stone for us Brits) and I'm now 13 stone 0.5lbs (182.5lbs for Americans)
Every few days there's a binge session, although they aren't anywhere near as bad as they used to be and I'm eating so well between them that the gains are minimal. This really isn't healthy though but I'm just finding it difficult to stick to my guns. I find myself aimlessly eating a whole large bar of chocolate before I even realise I've done it...
I don't think ill ever be happy with my body, an I'm not aiming for a weight in particular as I have no idea what my body shape will look like when I'm smaller (I'm white but have an African bum and tiny waist, its a pain to buy clothes for despite everyone saying they wished they were curvy)
As for exercise I don't do much that is specifically for weight loss. I do lots of landscape gardening which is pretty hard work, and have long walks. Am considering joining the gym again - mainly for the pool and classes. I have stupid anxiety around my health and am petrified of heart attacks/asthma attacks and that sort of thing so cardio scares the shit out of me. Weights were never my thing, even though I enjoy them, because I have arthritis in my wrists and left shoulder. My body is crap, I know. I'll be asking for a refund if it turns out the imaginary neckbeard in the sky exists ;)
Not sure how anyone can help but if you have ever found yourself aimlessly binging then being good for a few days just to repeat; now is your time to tell me how to over come it. Maybe because I have no ultimate aim or goal, maybe it's because I still see myself exactly the same as I did 40lbs ago (still wearing the same clothes too - yeah, go figure) maybe it's because I want something I can't have (a 'normal' typical European figure and not my gravitational arse/thunder thighs)
In 40lbs of weight loss, my top size has changed a bit but my bottom/trouser size is exactly the same. Wtf!!!!!!
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I can't stand people like this in colleges. Yes, Colleges!
I am enrolled in a Community College because I didn't get accepted into a University and I also have to pay for my own classes. I'm 20. I work full time. I also am a full time student. No summer breaks for me.
It disgusts me when I see students my age not want to go to class. Not want to learn. Not want to study.
They think school is just some sort of hindrance to their social lives, which seem to envelope the younger generations as being a top priority.
I loathe group-projects and presentations. They really enrage me because I have to work with a group of selfish kids who don't actually want to do the work. They'd rather half-ass their part and get it done as fast as possible. This was high school for me too, and I usually had to pick up everyone's slack because I give a fuck about my future .
Everyone in my classes think I'm an aggravating person or an annoying person because I love to participate by asking multiple questions and answering Professors' questions. Can you believe that?
I usually ask my professors if I can do group-projects and presentations by myself. Some allow me. Others don't.
And when they don't, I usually become dictator of the group, because I want shit done right and I want it done well . I don't give a fuck if your mommy and daddy are paying for you to be here. I don't give a fuck if you don't want to be here. I don't give a fuck if you don't want to do your homework. But if you don't collaborate with us and half ass your part- I'm going to kick your ass out of this group and refuse to let you participate in the presentation. I will try my best to make your life miserable during this group presentation if you slack off.
I'm paying to be here, and I'm going to get the most I can out of it. | I hate group projects. And if you are a slack off, then fuck you. | [
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I was driving my van up a three-lane Interstate near my house, and my exit was coming up. As this was a 70mph zone (hooray for Washington speed limits), I was probably going 75-80 mph (because why not?) up a rather large hill (my exit was more-or-less at the top of said hill) in the fast lane.
Two tractor-trailers were in the middle and slow lanes, with the one in the slow lane about two car lengths ahead of the other (enough that they weren't quite next to each other, but a car couldn't fit between the two)
As they were going up a hill, these two trailers were downshifting and summarily slowing down. My thought was "Oh, I'll pass both of them in time to get off the highway - no problem."
I floored it, began to overtake the middle trailer, when apparently he decided I was inhibiting his manliness in my mom-mobile. He speeds up too, to the point he's about halfway up the right trailer. I was still going faster, but now my exit was coming up. The next turnaround was about 4 miles away, which I didn't want to wait until.
I ended up cutting off both trucks and just barely made the exit. I don't know how close I got to either truck, but based on how loud the trucks' horns were, it couldn't have been more than 6 inches or so. If I had hit them, I would've flipped. | Cut off two tractor trailers at 80 mph on the freeway. Came within 6 inches of dying. | [
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That's such a terrible generalization.
If you head into best buy and already know the exact model and location of the item you want, then good for you, I suppose. You should be in and out before anyone has a chance to bother you with helpfulness or manners.
If you go into a clothing store and are already familiar with the entire seasonal catalog, color range, and exact store sizing inventory, then you should probably be working there yourself, and you must have a lot of free time.
Most people who go to a clothing store, regardless of age, are either there to browse, have a general idea of what they want, or are looking for something else like a gift.
If you're just looking around, great, let me tell you briefly about the extra 25% off promotion we're running today, or point out the new sweaters or boots we just got in this morning.
If you're looking for black pants or an outfit to wear for a job interview, great! I can point out where the different styles of dark pants are, or I can even help you put together an outfit. Shock! I'm good at picking out clothes and I know what we have and where they are! Surprising, I know. It's like it's my JOB or something.
If you're looking for a gift and just know they'd like something from our store, I can help you there too! I am familiar with all of our products, and what things would make a good gift. I can even help you figure out what size someone is, or what to get if you don't know the size.
If you already know what you want and don't need my help, then just take the 3 seconds it takes to say so. Trust me, I have a lot of other stuff to do.
If you can't handle being an adult and communicating with someone like a human being, even just to say "No thanks, I know what I want", then maybe you should stick to shopping online where no one will trouble you with courtesy. | don't be a dick. | [
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A female friend I like and who recently experienced a break-up instigated by her boyfriend. Now, she talks to me all the time about how she feels about it and how she thinks she's ugly, impossible to be in a relationship with and all the faults she thinks she have. We talk about anything and everything apart from that, but no sexual talk yet.
I have tried to comfort her, telling her that there is absolutely nothing wrong with her and that I'm always there for her if she wants someone to talk with, and while doing so I have dropped a few cues which she have responded quite positively to.
How should I proceed further? I will be seeing her in the week between Christmas and New Year as we are going to the same sports event (we do the same sport). How should I be when I'm around her then and what is my best bet when it comes to trying to slowly start becoming more than friends (she has told me that when she enters a new relationship it can't go as fast as it has done before). | Girl [19] I like recently broke up with boyfriend [19] and now she talks to me [20 M] about their relationship and how she feels. How to proceed? | [
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I see so many people use this word wrong.
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Without assuming psychological issues, I'd say the most likely culprit is the fact that most point and shoot cameras have very wide-angle lenses, which distort things at close proximity.
Check out the picture of the guy's face.
The problem is that most people don't know how to actually use a camera, so they stand 3 ft away from the person and take their pic at the widest angle possible, which ends up having a funhouse mirror effect on the everyone in the pic, especially anyone near the center.
The solution? Zoom a bit and stand further back, or hell, just stand further back and it'll help.
My question to you is, do you see the same thing when you look at yourself in professional photos, such as those shot at a wedding? If so, it may be a psychological issue. | It's (mostly likely) not you, it's (most likely) the camera/photographer. | [
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Back Story: So I dont know what town i was in but I was just chilling on a high pop server looking for other people to fight or be friends with. I had a mosin on my back with like 20 shots and a repeater in my hands with like 20 shots and a pickaxe and some other bullshit.
Alright so I walk out into the street to see someone standing over a corpse that had been there for a while and I told him to stop and put up his hands. He yells back at me that there is someone behind me and I freak out because Im a noob and I turn around to see a dude in all black with a sledge hammer. The kid I orginally was going to hold up ends up coming to my rescue as I am almost killed by sledge hammer guy. I ended up dropping my repeater for him to use which he killed my would be murderer with and soon after that ordeal we became friends.
Not but 5 minutes later after some talking and what not, two more people are seen looting the corpse down the street and we start to shoot at them because they seemed to be geared up. My new friend and I separate to find them in the town and I realize my green shirt is ruined so i throw on a nice red tracksuit top. Right after I dawned my new clothing I hear my friend yell out that he got one so I run outside towards his voice and he turns and looks at me and shoots me on the spot. He then yells,"YO man I gottem both! come see this shit!" and then a few seconds later he realized he shot me and he's like,"wait a min..oh shit." | Changed clothes and wasn't recognized. Got fucking wasted by my own gun and friend. smh I love this game. | [
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I'm fine with the spiders in Seattle. I see a lot of [Barn Funnel Weavers]( and I have only been bit once by this species and it honestly barely hurt. There are also a fair amount of [Giant House Spiders]( in Washington, but while they are gross as fuck, they're also relatively rare and not medically dangerous.
A little more scary are [Wolf Spiders]( but I've only seen a few of these and all of them have been outside.
In Eastern Washington, I have seen [Black Widows]( but they're very rare in the Seattle area and are not the infamous widows everyone has nightmares about, but actually one of the many species of "black widow" spiders, and not a particularly venomous or aggressive one at that.
So common spiders we see aren't scary, and the scary kinds are really rare, with the exception of the [Hobo Spider]( which I have seen on multiple occasions, and once in my garage. But even these guys aren't too bad. They're rarely aggressive, and will only attack when threatened or when guarding an egg sack, and while they are venomous, they're not venomous enough to usually kill a healthy human. We're pretty lucky in terms of spiders in Washington, try living in the south, California, or god forbid, South America or Australia. (South America has the world's most venomous spider, the [Brazilian Wandering Spider]( and Australia has the second most, the [Sydney Funnel-Web]( and this other nasty one, the [Redback]( | Spiders aren't that bad here. | [
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Cheating is not a "mistake" OOps I tripped and fell on his dick. It is a conscious decision to go have physical intimacy with another person while in a relationship with another. If you want to bang another person and actually go through with it, fucking break up with them and go do what you want to do!!! There is no excuse for cheating at all ever, nothing ever makes it OK to do and there is no such thing as "building trust back" because that shit is gone when cheating occurs. Oh sure you might get some semblance of it back, but it always hangs out there in the back of the relationship and you always know that things are this way and the days feel different because of the cheating that took place by one party. | Fuck Cheating, just break up if you want other dick/vagina | [
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I had an incredibly difficult time trying to think of a hook for this book, not because it isn't hook-worthy, but because the book's entire goal is to put personal hookishness into perspective (meaning: stop with the posturing, just say something because it is true and the right thing to say). If my use of the totally unreal term 'hookishness' doesn't resonate here in the intro, please just read the rest of the review, and maybe it will make sense three paragraphs later.
PLOT | The Brothers K is a book about Hugh and Laura Chance raising six children in Camas, Washington. The story is told by Kincaid Chance, the fourth-oldest child (youngest male), and despite being narrated primarily by Kincaid, we don't learn much about him. You learn that Kincaid is writing his family's story as some sort of project, and as part of that project, there are some cool inclusions of letters, school essays, and correspondences with other characters. To say more of the plot and characters would be to spoil a very enchanting read, and so concludes my discussion of plot.
Obligatory Q&A: Do I need to read The Brothers Karamazov to understand Duncan's take? No familiarity with the original Bros K is required. The narrator Kincaid, who is writing his family's story, uses the original Bros K as a sort of scaffolding, and sort-of invites comparisons here and there. So, if you have read Dostoevsky's heavyweight, you may get a little extra mileage out of the book.
ANALYSIS | If I had a gun to my head and was required to recite the 'deeper meaning', it would be: DJD (author) wanted to prove that both our successes and failures are two sides of the same coin, and even though Fate or Chance or God or Society is the one doing the flipping, it is our family members that are doing the ones catching. Notable threads within the text worth talking about at book club include: criticisms of organized religion, relationships between fathers and sons, criticisms of war, the shallowness of politics, the insufficiencies of solitude, the importance of self-discovery, and, finally, how to write a ridiculously funny book with 3D characters. On that last point, The Brothers K is incredibly well-written from a technical standpoint, but a discussion of the mechanics would at least double the length of this post. Suffice it to say, uproarious puns, satirical prayers, goofy limericks, and humorous insights abound.
QUOTES | The following are some of my favorite quotes from the book, and I've included them to help inspire you to tackle the other 649-ish pages (I've tried to give a context for each quote, but I probably failed):
Kincaid comments on his father's difficulties pitching, and the time he (Papa) spends on his homemade mound throwing baseballs despite his injury: "But it was that maimed little remnant of what had once been Papa's great art form that has really stayed with me. There is a part of me that wants to state flat out that I learned more in the hedge about the defiance of dullness and career death, about the glory hidden in defeat, about the amazing inner capacities of a straightforward, no-frills man - even a man stripped of hope - tan I've learned anywhere since." (p.153)
Kincaid's description of Papa on the baseball diamond: "All he really wanted was to remain where he was - to go on smelling the scent of the desert and grass of the five green diamonds; to go on listening to the varied pops and cracks of leather and bad wits, fungo bats and bubble-gum wads. And not for a week or two. He wanted measureless amounts, days and days. He had promised himself and us, before leaving Camas, that he'd enjoy what was enjoyable here and head home when it was over. But he'd forgotten something: this too was a home." (p. 261)
Winnifred, the youngest daughter, describing the Sunday School teacher Mrs. Babcock: "the old cow was spraying manure all over the room and calling it Christianity." (p. 326)
Oldest son Everett on his own student radicalism: "I needed, all student rabble-rousers needed to know how to stop being witty and rhetorical, how to be a plain private person who cared about other private people, and how to speak unadorned, unmanipulative sentences simply because they were true." (p. 353)
Kincaid's description of Papa's fight to free his son from being held unjustly at an insane asylum: "Papa's first stop after leaving the asylum was a 7-Eleven, where his first purchase was a quart of Colt 45 malt liquor and his second a carton of Lucky Strikes. Toss an old ballplayer into a Kafka nightmare and the least he'll do is try to poison it back around into something recognizably American." (p. 464)
CONCLUSION | As much as I love difficult literary fiction, it's really nice to be able to let my defenses down and enjoy a piece of sustained, pithy writing that is not simultaneously smarmy, self-conscious, chronologically fractured, overly bookish, or cartoonish in its implausibility. It's nice to read a book that is funny without making fun of others, a book that isn't afraid to see characters live and dies, a book about why baseball is so meaningful, a book that isn't afraid to make a claim about the American spirit is (that is, without making America out to be some sort of egocentric has-been, full of greed and narcissism). The Brothers K is the best book I had never heard of, and you can bet your ass that I've already bought The River Why and, well, the rest of Duncan's works.
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Suffice it to say, uproarious puns, satirical prayers, goofy limericks, and humorous insights abound. \n \n QUOTES | The following are some of my favorite quotes from the book, and I've included them to help inspire you to tackle the other 649-ish pages (I've tried to give a context for each quote, but I probably failed): \n \n Kincaid comments on his father's difficulties pitching, and the time he (Papa) spends on his homemade mound throwing baseballs despite his injury: \"But it was that maimed little remnant of what had once been Papa's great art form that has really stayed with me. 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Toss an old ballplayer into a Kafka nightmare and the least he'll do is try to poison it back around into something recognizably American.\" (p. 464) \n \n \n \n CONCLUSION | As much as I love difficult literary fiction, it's really nice to be able to let my defenses down and enjoy a piece of sustained, pithy writing that is not simultaneously smarmy, self-conscious, chronologically fractured, overly bookish, or cartoonish in its implausibility. It's nice to read a book that is funny without making fun of others, a book that isn't afraid to see characters live and dies, a book about why baseball is so meaningful, a book that isn't afraid to make a claim about the American spirit is (that is, without making America out to be some sort of egocentric has-been, full of greed and narcissism). The Brothers K is the best book I had never heard of, and you can bet your ass that I've already bought The River Why and, well, the rest of Duncan's works. \n ",
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I've tried unmuting it, I've tried plugging it and unplugging it. I've also tried to put it on the TV setting, but no luck. Also, I switch from External Audio, to TV Audio, which also won't work.
I muted it for a second, tried to unmute and have had no audio for TV, HOWEVER, it still works when I watch netflix on the bluray (the blu ray is the receiver) Its a sony bdv-e385. | was dumb when posting this, TV won't unmute, audio works on other channels | [
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I'll get right into the nuts and bolts, and try to make this readable. Sorry for the length and the English (not my first language).
So me and "Tom" met at university, fell in love, and have had a great relationship ever since. He is wonderful, loving and giving, he makes me extremely happy, he understands me very well. He HAS proven that he will put me first sometimes -- he cancelled trips when I was very ill, and rearranged another when a friend of mine passed away suddenly. But I still feel he is spread too thin at the moment. We have only this issue: how much time he spends with his family abroad.
Backgrounds
I was badly neglected as a child, and do not have much family as a result. Sometimes I fear I am clingy and needy because of this, but most of my friends and my therapist think I am normal with attachment and affection etc.
Tom was born into a close, loving and pretty wealthy family. His mother is from a country in South America (Tom and I live and were both raised in Northern Europe). They are all very close -- they have a family group chat which is always buzzing, they get together for birthdays, and generally all get along and support each other.
Problem
Tom works at a university. This means he has lots of "free" time. Essentially, whenever the students are on break, he doesn't need to go into work so long as he can access to the internet. Tom spends lots of this time with his mother and siblings in South America, who moved "back home" 3 years ago after retiring.
We disagree about how long is reasonable to spend there at a time. I do not mind when he is gone for a week to 10 days, I just watch girly movies, have friends over, or sometimes take small trips alone. But longer than that is stressful. I feel very blue, alone and isolated (I think this is from being left as a child). Since I never "go home for Christmas" or whatever, I don't know how long people tend to visit their parents for (opinions welcome!)
I also get a bit jealous that he has a loving, caring, wonderful family to spend time with when I do not. I am pleased for him, but I can't help but get sad when he sends me pictures of family parties and tells me about his father, mother and his aunts. I feel second place, or like I am dating long distance, when he is gone from our home to his home for weeks at a time.
This summer he was gone for a total of 6 weeks (3 of May, 3 of August); for 2 and 1/2 months in total of the year. He wants to go for 3 weeks of Christmas (leaving me to have Christmas alone). He loves his family and wants to be with them. I am also aware that his parents had him quite late and he worries for their health (his father is well into his 70s), and I do not want to take away from his possibly limited time with them. I also know that it is a 20 hours flight, and he wants to stay for some time. I understand.
Tom has suggested I come with him, which is kind, but there are reasons not to. It is very expensive, so if I went too everytime, we would only be able go half as often -- I know Tom doesn't want this. I am also very obviously foreign there, both in his family and out and about, and feel alien. His parents are polite enough but not very fond of me -- they think we are living in sin, etc. It is a choice between feeling bad here and feeling bad (and broke) there.
Basically, my question is: how long is "normal" or usual for people in romantic/domestic relationships to be away from their partner? How can we compromise better? How can I cope better with the loneliness? | BF visits family far away for weeks at a time, and we are struggling to find a compromise that doesn't leave me feeling abandoned and him missing his family. How can we compromise better? | [
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I started seeing this guy at the beginning of the year (I didn't know him long before then), and we had the "what are we?" talk a month or two ago, and he said he didn't see us dating. Well, nothing changed in our 'relationship.' We still hang out regularly, sleep together, and text every day. He also has a female best friend who he used to date a couple years ago and they keep in similar contact (I've never met her, but I assume they aren't sleeping together?) I've pretty much adjusted to the situation, I think.
Anyway, he asked me if I wanted to go to a music fest in October, and has found a house that we're going to rent for a couple nights, and he said that he could probably find a couple friends to share it with (but they may not go).
I've bought my tickets and stuff, but now I'm a little conflicted because so much could happen in 6 months. What if one of us has a SO by that point? I'm a little surprised he's making plans that far out because that means he's planning on things being the same by that point, or at least being close enough with me to go somewhere for a weekend. His behavior hasn't really changed. He still texts me every day, but he's not flirty or anything. Not like he was when we first met, anyway.
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A bit late, but last night I had a weird dream. I dreamed that my brother contains Shadow Fiend from Dota 2 within his body. Basically he is a demon thing that literally collects souls. Anyway, I was worried about my brother because I thought he wasn't aware this guy was within him, but we were at war with some people and my brother used the demon to win the clashes that he fought. He would eat the people he killed. I distinctly remember one part where I was observing my brother with his back facing me and seeing the demon's hands extend from my brother's chest to kill enemies using Shadow Raze, one of his skills in the game. I was freaked out!
Here is an image of Shadow Fiend: | My brother possessed by a video game character. | [
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Everyone is probably going to tell you not to be a dick and leave it at that.
He freely offered you something, it would be impolite to refuse. He actually went out of his way to look for the box, he wants you to have it.
Keep the box- as is and put it somewhere, they will only increase in value anyway. Frame that shit if you want to. You are a collector now.
Let him know about how you want to collect cards, I'm sure he will be happy that you went through his collection. | I am devil's advocate | [
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Way to read nearly every paywall article:
Incognito mode...
Copy headline...
Paste into google...click News tab...
Click link from there | SF is dirty, author didn't goto dirty places in Manhattan. | [
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Hello all! I recently moved to Palo Alto from out of state. My car came with me but now I realize that, living in the most bicycle-friendly place on Earth, I no longer need it. :D
So instead of trudging to the DMV when its out-of-state registration expires this summer, I'd rather sell the car by then.
I have no experience buying or selling used cars, so I'm hesitant to sell it on my own. But I don't want to lose too much potential profit by going through a dealer, either.
My 4-door sub-compact sedan is almost ten years old, but it's lightly used (low mileage, good condition), recently cleaned, and a model that's still very popular. Kelly Blue Book values it at a few thousand dollars but one of my expat friends thinks I could get more if I sold it to someone who needs a car but lacks an American drivers license.
Also, this car was registered once in California a few years ago and I still have one (but not both) of the plates from that, so could the new owner save money by renewing a lapsed registration, or do new owners require new registrations anyway? Does a lapsed California registration and current out-of-state registration make any difference in the paperwork?
What is the best way for me go about selling this car? I don't need a dealer to give me cash immediately, but I would like a specialist who can hold my hand and process the paperwork between me and the buyer. | How do I turn my barely used car into money? | [
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I've seen dozens of threads asking for co-op recommendations, but... how about competitive?
Recently, I tried Halo 4 with some friends and had a blast playing different competitive gamemodes in splitscreen.
Since Halo is Xbox-only, I'm looking for a similar experience for my PS3. The first thing that came to my mind was Call of Duty, but there are so many entries in the franchise that I wouldn't even know where to begin. If there's a better, non-Call of Duty alternative, I might with that instead. | name your favorite competitive splitscreen game (and i will probably buy it). | [
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i've recently developed mild plaque psoriasis which has extended onto my face in my recent outbreak. I live in Europe and usually buy high street make up, with the exception of treating myself to a Studio Fix Foundation every once in a while. I can't find a foundation that doesn't dry my skin out more, and then when I wake up, I find another psoriasis sore on my face. I know it's probably best to let my face breathe, but as I'm sure a lot of you know, going bare faced is just not an option for me without these blemishes so with them, I just couldn't go bare. | have psoriasis on my face, looking for something soothing and hydrating & preferably under 30 quid. | [
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My partner and I disagreed on this. I can't remember her position exactly but it was something along the lines of being selfish, that it's not the kids fault and saying this kid was five years old or something, you've made the attachment and you 'are' its father, biology or not. So it got me thinking:
It is a fair point, that all of the emotions that surround this, the deception of the woman, the other guy who is gets off scot-free, you and the 'wasted' resources has nothing to do with this child. As men I think we tend to think about this in National Geographic terms about some bird being tricked into fetching worms for another bird's chick and this bird is the dupe because he is putting energy into the continuance of another bird's progeny, his genes. And this is the core of our paranoia. But when looking at it this way, that our only real concern is about the continuance of our genes it is hard to think of this in a way that is not selfish. It is our desire to pass on genes and become an ancestor is great and what got us all here today but considering our modern context is this not antiquated?
My partner and I have only discussed children in very hypothetical terms, and the idea of adoption as an option has been floated (my family took in foster kids when I was young). So considering adoption is even an option for us (my partner and I), the reasons for our (men's) paranoia, bar the very valid concern of deception, do appear to be selfish e.g. notions of ancestry, social standing, the other bastard.
All this being said though, I am still uncomfortable with the concept on a primal level, but if I knew the situation and I had legal protections against the biological father I would probably manage fine. | We have a biological drive to pass on our genes so we may very well be selfish. But biology doesn't make a father. | [
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whether you're for, or against GMOs I think most of us can agree that they are better than starvation.
In the future, yes, they could save humanity/reshape our world.
Corporate behemoths like Monsanto and DuPont altering the staple crops of America to spray their own chemicals on, force-feeding them to the world's population, etc etc...this is not the "reshaped world" I want to live in. Stuff like this needs to be highly studied and regulated, and the FDA seems to be doing a great job of sitting back and letting a few giant monopolies take over, no, sorry, replace our food system. | GMOs in their current form are all about profit, not human health. | [
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Hello, my fellow ents! I've never posted on r/trees before but I love this sub, particularly because I love to read about the awesome smokescapade stories you guys have. With that said, something exciting happened to me a little while ago that I think is worth sharing with you guys!
Here's a little background: My girlfriend and I moved in to a great new neighbourhood a few months ago; there's a little Krispy Kreme café down the street. Let's begin:
A couple weeks back I was finishing up a particularly grueling shift at work and, realizing we hadn't checked out the Krispy Kreme yet, I thought I'd pick us up a dozen for our inevitable munchies to come! I got home and explained the idea to my girl -- she was way into it (it's Krispy Kreme!). So we lit up and headed out down the street.
When we got there we were a little disappointed to see that they were out of original glazed doughnuts (it was less than an hour to close), but it was Krispy Kreme, dammit, and we knew that no matter what we chose, we wouldn't be disappointed. So we picked out our assorted dozen and were practically drooling at the cash counter, sitting at a steady [6]. The guy working there got all our doughnuts together and then gave me my total (about $10). I held out my debit card since I rarely carry cash on me. Their debit machine looked pretty dated and it must have been too because as I handed him my card, the machine shut itself off. He asked if I would mind waiting a few minutes for it to boot up again. I said not at all! It would be worth it once we had those glorious doughnuts..
A number of customers came and went, paying with cash. Finally, the machine was back on and ready to go. The employee took my card and everything was going great. I even got to punch in my PIN. And then everything went wrong. It shut off again! Upon seeing this, the employee sighed, looked at me and said "Hey.. Just take 'em, okay? On the house. Just don't tell." I was so floored by his kindness that all I could really do was smile real big and stutter "Woah.. Thanks, man!" over and over.
Walking out of there, my girlfriend and I were still in disbelief. We were just given twelve top quality Krispy Kreme doughnuts (with approximately a $10 value) for FREE. It was a starving student toker's dream come true! And the awesome kindness and generosity of that employee really stuck with me! This was a very refreshing experience to come out of a very selfish world and it made me a very happy ent. And those doughnuts ... Absolutely divine! We became Krispy Kreme connoisseurs that night.
Have any other ents here on r/trees experienced something like this? | My girlfriend & I went out to Krispy Kreme for doughnut munchies and the employee gave us a dozen assorted for free! Hurray for generous people! | [
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Hello Friends. Its Tank here. I have some bad news for yall. When The Range started this summer, I have been on anywhere from 5-7 hours a day, 6-7 days a week. A few weeks ago, I realized I grew tired of Minecraft. I think Ill be takin a break for a while. I know, so sad, much cry, whatever. Ill be on every once and a while, and ill do my best to be there for community events like UHC, The Building Game, etc, but I am stopping MC for a while. My apologies if youre sad, but it is what it is. Im rambling now. Oh well. | Burned out on MC. Might be on every once and a while, but dont get your hopes up. Sorry
EDIT: 2 Things: 1)I am just sick of Vanilla Stuff. 2) I am not leaving the Range Community; I love you guys. wanna play a CTM maps? lemme know. Ill rage with you. <3 | [
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I'm not going to argue that sex isn't an emotional need or an important part of many peoples' emotional health, because I think that would be a dumb thing to argue. I will, however, say that I have always seen sex as a physical desire/need, that when satisfied, can make a person happy (thus affecting them emotionally). Yet, there are people that value things like cuddling, intelligent conversation, and just connecting with other people moreso than they value things that satisfy them at a more sexual, physical level. I guess the best way to " | this is that some people can get emotional highs that transcend physical highs, and if you're not one of those people...then you're not. | [
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My personal favorite was something I did while deployed... Every time I saw my boss I would give her a tootsie roll (her favorite candy). I did this for weeks, maybe a couple of months. Mind you, she never asked me for one... she just kind of came to expect it after a while. One day I decided to pull the plug on my experiment, so I walked into her office with no candy and sure enough she just held out her hand. I walked past her and she asked where her candy was. I then explained what I had been doing, more or less training her much like one would a dog. Her boss heard me explain it all and laughed for a good five minutes and she stormed out of the office. | I trained my boss like a dog | [
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He puts a girl, sorry "hooker", with Narcolepsy in a cake. Tried to get this one guy drunk so they can make it seem like he killed her haha. It's a great show. | Gob Puts hooker in cake, brother drinks all of the fake blood, guy never gets drunk. | [
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I used to love drawing and writing.
Those two were killed quickly in quick succession when two of my friends ruined it for me.
One decided to take the only thing I held close to me dear, my drawing skills, and one-upped me in front of others. Comparing my hours of work with their hour of work, making me feel like a failure.
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Hello Reddit, I am from Grand Rapids Michigan in the US and I am in desperate need of advice. My dad passed away a couple of months ago at the end of March. He owned a small business of 3 regular employees including myself as well as the building that the business was in. The building contains 2 residential apartments and 2 business locations one being the business I am running right now. My mom (who is the sweetest lady you will ever meet) has decided to sell the building (which I think is an awful idea in the long run from an accounting stand point but that doesn't really enter in in a legal way). The sale of the building will be an incredible burden on the business so I will have no choice but to move as the potential buyer will charge us a much higher rent than we can afford. I have no desire to take my mom to court over this but I am making sure that everything she is doing is legal. Basically, my dad did not have a will so all of his estate is in probate and will be for at least another month. Given this can my mom even sell the building? None of the money from the sale of the building will go to anyone but her at this point and I can't believe that that's how probate works. My mom was my dad's only wife and I am one of 5 kids he had with her. Does the estate get split up among us kids at all. The day my mom put the building on the market an offer was put in for 300,000 our counter offer was 320,000 and they have accepted. | My dad passed away and my mom is trying to sell a building he owned, do I get any say in the matter? | [
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My wife is a lawyer who has read several RP books. She catches most of her Shit Tests now but a couple weeks ago we were both sick with that flu. She was in a bad mood and asked me to get her a juice box. We were both sitting at the table and both equally close to the fridge.
I paused for several seconds and smiled, but then my curiosity got the better of me and I complied. Total failure of an obvious Shit Test. I knew it and just wanted to see how it played out.
Can you guess what happened?
Within SECONDS of getting her juice box she started to crab and pick a fight with me. It only took seconds and she had NO IDEA what she was doing. None. | AWALT | [
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I wouldn't say she's a hypocrite for that reason. More that she cherrypicks her arguments and doesn't look at the counterpoints with any forethought. | I think she's got the right idea, just going about it ass backwards. | [
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Your opening paragraph states that you don't mean to imply that these issues are irrelevant or unimportant, but the paragraph directly succeeding the first one states that you feel that these issues are being used to distract 'progressives', from an agenda that is implied, through your language, to be more important. I'd argue that you are implying that social issues are a red herring, but that's not particularly relevant to your overall point.
What is relevant is that I'm not sure whether or not you understand the implications of social issues like gender, racial discrimination and social value judgements on the subjects of those value judgements. Take, for one example, perceptions of a particular minority, and the ways in which these influence the lived experience of those minorities. It's very easy to say that racial profiling and/or subversive racial prejudice isn't of real importance if, say, for example, you're white. And it's very easy to say that social vilification of LGBTI people is less important than, as you say "the ecological and economic exploitation of the earth", if, say, for example, you are a heterosexual, let alone a heterosexual male. If you are none of these things, then I take back my opinion entirely and I'll be much more interested in what led you to believe this.
And to be completely honest, there are often a number of social issues that directly impact people's lived experience, be they minorities or otherwise. On the other hand, ecological devastation has an impact on people's personal experience to the same degree only in a very small number of places, and it probably won't be perceived to affect the majority of people for a good 25 years yet.
Lastly, there are a very diverse range of things that are classed as social issues, and not that many of them are the kinds of personal issues that you identified. For example, the rising unemployment in countries such as the UK and the United States in particular is also a social issue, one that definitely doesn't get in the way of an agenda that is critical of business. In fact, it contributes very actively to people's critique of business.
Another problem is that often conservative stakeholders such as business don't simply remove their hands from a particular social issue like legalised abortion, because they actually want to actively involve themselves in keeping certain worldviews in place. We can only speculate as to why this is, but it's entirely possible that there's a fear of some kind of convoluted domino-theory pertaining to social values. Maybe stakeholders in the traditional world-view are afraid that if some social beliefs begin to change, the economic beliefs that people hold around work and profit will also begin to slide.
Apologies for digressing. | is that I think social issues are much more directly relevant to many people's life than economic and environmental exploitation are. | [
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Not exactly surprising but I've read quite a few responses by people who I feel are judging Psychedelics without really reading up on them or experiencing them. For everyone who hasn't taken them here is my advice.
Read up on them or any drug on Erowid.org. If you'd like something that's a little more personal check out some great subreddits we have such as /r/LSD, /r/Psychonaut, and /r/Drugs. I have gained pretty much all my pre-experience knowledge from the helpful people at all these places. From there learn about the drug, what it does, what kind of environment and state of mind you should be in, and overall PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE learn to respect psychedelic drugs. These are not recreational I use them every weekend and sometimes during the week substances. They are awesome, amazing, and humbling.
Next Step!
1 Get a sitter (someone you can trust, who has the day open, and who won't fuck with you) When wanting to go places like a park or something you NEED a driver. To many interesting things to look at instead of focusing on the road. They should also know a little about psychedelics as if you're having a bad trip they can be your anchor to reality. They can also keep you away from people (roomates or friends) who would think it would be funny to fuck with your trip. Saying shit like "2 makes 4 unless you're dead"
2 Get some open minded, fun friends who have also read up or experienced before. Make sure you're comfortable. If someone is fairly nervous they may want to sit that day out. Dress comfortably even if you look stupid and dress appropriately if you're going out into the snow.
3 Find a time period of 2 days to do the. 1 day to trip, 1 day to recover. Make sure you don't have major responsibilities the next day because that can lead to a very bad spiral down into anxiety. I tripped with someone who had homework due on Monday and we tripped Saturday and while getting into the evening, even while the LSD was wearing off she went into a huge freakout mode that she wouldn't be able to get all her work done and would fail out of college. *Personally I'm emotionally exhausted after tripping and after shrooms I felt so quite inside that I really needed about a day to resonate with it.
3.5 Give your sitter your phones - the only people who will call is your parents
4 Go into it just wanting the experience. While knowing what to expect is smart don't go into it expecting certain things. Expecting things can turn a trip bad. There are some people who get really lost in thought and don't have visuals and there's people who have visuals and are distracted too much to think. Everyone trips differently *Just my opinion
5 Don't fight the drug. I've been around people who freak out because they feel the air or faces distort. (I prefer to not use the term melting because it carries bad vibes). Personally I would advise to just sit back and let the drug take over (if you have a bad trip remember it's just a drug you'll be find eventually). Your emotions are on your sleeves and everything is open and everything is good. The universe is putting on a show for you and trust me you don't want to miss it.
6 Have some fun! Go for a stoll, watch an awesome movie like Fear and Loathing, Go to an art museum (personally pictures move like in Harry Potter for me while on shrooms - one word: Awesome!), Maybe go to the zoo, pick up some colored pencils and draw what you're seeing/feeling. Do whatever feels right! Personally the only limitation I have is I like to stay away from places with people who would look down on your actives. My group went to a store once and ended up giggling everywhere and trying to figure out what people not on drugs do which is harder to do that you think - it was fun but a little stressful if for some reason you turn around or go to the bathroom and can't find your friends anywhere. If you do go out, one awesome thought we have was "We are the 'I want what they're having' people!" Which was pretty awesome.
7 These are just my suggestions for what makes my trips so fun, memorable, mind blowing, and life changing. What works for me may not be the perfect fit for everyone but I think you'll have an enjoyable time with few to no undesirable incidents.
Again I really would advise trying these at least once in your life but like the boy scouts Be prepared. Due to the topic of this thread I do thoroughly enjoy psychedelics but I think that due to the amount of knowledge and preparedness I feel people should have before taking them I cannot advocate them being legal in the same way that Alcohol and cigarettes. | Psychedelics are awesome, try them, be safe, don't legalize. | [
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This is especially even more frustrating in the survival mode, since they ask you to leave your extra weapons back at HOME.
Last night I bought the Overseer's guardian and Spray and Pray from Vault 81 and outside, dumped it in my weapons locker and went to sort the junk and farms out. Suddenly we get attacked by robots and just as I am about to shoot them, nukes start going off everywhere besides me, thought it was multiple legendary robots, but couldn't find any of them so after it's done I sort up my junk and farms and go to modify my newly bought weapons only to find my locker almost empty. I go around searching for them but nobody had it in their inventory. After breaking down and starting to cry, I killed one of the settlers and another pulled out the Fat Man on me, at this point I realized why i couldn't see my weapons in their Inventory, those bastard equipped it. Now I had two options kill all my settler's one by one stealthily and take my weapons back or load an earlier save putting two hours of my work down the drain. I chose the latter, rushed back to Sanctuary, and took all the weapons from the locker. As I took the weapons the attack began, and I hid like a coward in a corner because of my 1000+ load and damage due to over-encumbrance. While my settlement fought it out. This is how I saved my weapons. I've since not booted fallout back up, because where the fuck do I keep my weapons if not at my settlement. Fuck Wasteland Workshop and all those damned lights, give me lockable containers, and before you say it no I don't want mods, thank you. | Give us lockable containers, from which settlers can't take anything. Or let us assign a structure as Home, where the settlers can't come inside. | [
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The game definitely is light on content, but I think it's pretty clear to everyone involved that it was "released" before it was done. I'm sure it will flesh itself out over the next few months.
Also, I'm pretty sure you're right, he totally | d it and then replied. I think you brought up some excellent points, and this other guy is a bonehead. Ignore him. | [
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Hello seddit.
After a longterm relationship ended I hit the gym, created a facebook account and found seddit. Now I would rank myself as a novice In terms of "know how" from the teachings of seddit community. My goal here has not been able to recite openers or become the master. I have enjoyed the wisdom and experience you guys have had to offer and I now have a different outlook on my interactions with other people and have broken through some personal barriers and for this I thank you.
Now my current dilemma there is this girl in my class that Is most definitely my type. Now after just noticing her from afar I made some excuse to finally go talk to her. The convo went great just talking about school stuff and things. So I ad this girl on facebook before I make the move to ask her out. Turns out she is in a 3year relationship with some random dude. Now when I found out I kinda just put her out of my mind in the sense of her being a potential target but kept on bumping into her when I got the chance.
Now recently I seam to be getting a lot of attention from her in forms of Facebook texts and talking at school. Now me being as oblivious to hints or IOI's as a brick wall I naturally just think she is being nice or she is just such a open person. This is also what I thought about my X-girlfriend when she basically threw herself onto me and it still took me a month to figure that out.
Now this is not oneitis I do go out and try to become a better person with the help of the seddit community.
My 2 options as I can see them are:
Open door nr 1 and enter the friendzone and just keep on chatting with her on friendly notes and do nothing on my part and take no risk to damage our little friendship.
Door nr 2. Nuke it from orbit. Say something so there is no doubt in her mind or my mind that I like her in a certain way. She probably would not speak to me much again if she is very invested in her current Bf.
Door nr3: Is there a third option that would not leave the earth scorched? Maybe something with finesse? | Girl at school I like and have created a small friendship with has a boyfriend. Should I tell her how I feel even tho its a longshot? | [
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Hey guys.
So here's my op.gg link:
I'm a Silver 5 player, ranked Bronze 1 last season, peaked at promos to S4 twice this season and failed both times.
I'm having a lot of trouble winning games lately and I'm looking for some help to improve. I'm not sure whether the problem lies in my decision making, my champion pool, my mechanics, or a lot of other things (or probably just all of the above).
Decision making . I often find myself thinking my teammates are making a really bad call that will get them killed - fighting when the opponents are stronger and we lose the fight, trying to start an unwarded Baron/dragon with no vision on all the members of the enemy team, overextending and getting into fights... So half the time I just try to ping warning and I don't follow. They die. Should I always follow? Was it my fault if they died? (probably, but i guess that depends on my role and how behind we are). Any tips on decision making, rotations and objective control would be appreciated.
Champion pool . Looking at my op.gg you can see my most played champions are Sivir Orianna and Nami . I usually ask for mid, adc or support in champselect and can sometimes fill for top - jungle is really my worst role and I think i have a 0% winrate as jungler.
The thing is I have 79% win rate with Sivir out of 14 games, but being the one-trick pony that I am (or 3-trick pony) I usually play my most comfortable champions and while I don't think I necessarily did bad (I might die too much, averaging 5 deaths on Ori and Nami) I feel like I can't win.
I have a pretty terrible winrate on Orianna while I feel like I should be able to win a lot more on her (the last few games I've had with her weren't all good examples of a regular game though, either toplane or botlane lost really hard and I couldn't make the team come back in teamfights).
(Example: this match
I had 62% win rate with Nami last season with pretty much the same KDA, I have 22% this season and feel like I never win. Is it because the meta changed? I absolutely love playing Nami and it's really frustrating to lose every game even if I didn't necessarily do too bad (in my opinion of course).
So I guess I should extend a bit my champion pool. What supports should I play? I suppose there are better champs who can turn the game around. Leona and Blitzcrank maybe? At the moment I can only play Janna (I know I should play her more often though, I just never know when to pick her and usually feel like Nami is a better pick), Nami, Lulu, used to play a bit of Karma and I suck at Thresh. How do I know who I should pick according to the enemy team?
Depending on the support I'm playing, should I play the game differently? (warding, peeling and roaming is what I usually do on every support, but I guess some supports are better at different things). | Decision making sucks, I might be playing too scared or my team is not scared enough and I don't know what to do. Champion pool too small, I lose with my faves, need help.
Thanks for the attention guys. | [
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"content": "Decision making sucks, I might be playing too scared or my team is not scared enough and I don't know what to do. Champion pool too small, I lose with my faves, need help. \n \n Thanks for the attention guys.",
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I had a c-section and my baby is almost 8 months old. My OB told me I could start exercising at 6 months and so I did. I overdid it. Resistance training m-w-f and Running t-th-s. For resistance training, I incorporated a shitload of core workouts which is such a bad idea because of my stitch. I followed the startbodyweight program + some extra exercises. I also followed the beginners running program...so I started with 1 min run 2 min walk. I also changed my diet. Tried to eat cleaner..
I took a break from exercising because of the pain and the sicknesses. So now I'm back. Now I'm only doing resistance training but not doing any core exercises. Can I run too? And can I incorporate some planks because I really want to tone that tummy (but significantly smaller than right after birth)? | What would be a good post c-section fitness program that would prevent overexertion?
Thanks | [
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Depends what you do. In a position where you have to establish relationships with customers, like in sales (particularly business-to-business), medical/health professions, accounting, insurance, law, etc., some customers might be offended or get the wrong idea if you've got pictures of yourself drunk/drinking all over your facebook. | just make your profile private and take the booze out of your profile pic. Facebook should be personal, twitter and linkedin should be professional. | [
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Pro: Increased yields. No evidence that they are harmful.
Cons: In a capitalist economy, they, in combination with intellectual property, are used to enforce a monopoly on good seeds by patenting them, preventing the farmers who get them to do with them as they wish. This means that, if the farmer intentionally uses the seeds in a way that goes against the contract by the IP holder, they have legal grounds to sue. This means that the farmers keep having to go back to the owner of the IP to get more seeds rather than simply reusing seeds from last harvest. This is, essentially, a form of exploitation, just as wage work is exploitation, and is especially bad against small farmers who own the lands they work, while being less disadvantageous to large capitalist firms, which allows the large capitalist firms to out compete the small farmers who are not participating in exploitation themselves.
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TIFU - Okay so I obviously fucked up. But not today but on saturday.
So I went out with my best friend and her boyfriend (which was a bad idea to begin with because..well, we can't do the 'oh look how cute he is' when she has her boyfriend with her for obvious reasons) but okay, so we drove to another city because that's where we usually go 2 times a month. Everything seemed to be okay till we told him to sit down and not get in my sight because I wanna watch cute boys.
He got mad and just left the room (there's 4 floors in this club so try find someone) and I convinced her to talk to him about what was wrong.
See, I always think it's good to talk stuff out before it is too bad. But they kinda aren't like that. He didn't wanna talk and she just pushed him into doing it anyways. So he started to be a little bitchy and she reacts by getting mad.
Skip forward a few minutes with mean words and rude accusations on both sides, see her just walk out the club, him getting kicked out because he threw a glass of beer.
That was a long 1 hour drive home considering we had to drive in one car and they breaking up in the meantime.
Also they actually live together since a few months. | I caused a couple to break up because I advised them to talk something out. | [
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Yes but legalized marijuana only destroys one part of the cartels MASSIVE business. Cartels have known about this for a long time. Here's a quote from one of the Ochoa brothers who switched from marijuana trafficking to cocaine and this was in the 70's-80's,
>Yes. In the beginning . . . the big business was the marijuana. Cocaine was not a big part. The marijuana business ended because they started to produce that drug in the US. Very few people exported marijuana. . . . They were growing marijuana in the United States, so then there's no need for them to receive any marijuana. So the business of cocaine was very small. It was very small. And then, little by little, it became more important than the marijuana business.
edit; [source]( | The switch from marijuana dealing to cocaine happened in the 80's and has been reinforced by America's positive attitude towards marijuana. Cartels have not been crippled at all. They still thrive as long as demand for illegal narcotics exists. It's that simple.
Legal pot certainly is a blow to cartels, but it's a very, very, very small one. | [
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Twas the night before Christmas,
and all through the place,
every eye was sleeping,
except for one familiar face.
Twas my face of course,
lit by the screen,
as I attempted for the trillionth time,
for the mount I was keen.
3 characters raid locked,
it seemed to no avail,
the time grew later,
I was ready to wail.
But trudged on I did,
with my final alt in tow,
a swig of Dr. Pepper,
and I was ready to go.
Selama ashal'anore!
what the hell does that even mean?
i'd been clearing Tempest Keep,
since I was a teen.
As Kael'thas neared,
the end of his life,
I thought of the many nights,
I raged here strife.
but RNGesus would be kind,
'twas the season's call,
if not this run now,
then none further at all,
when Kael'Thas was slain,
he began twinkling on high,
as bright as the star,
that marked Christ's birth in the sky.
"Yes!", I exclaimed,
as I robbed his lewtz,
it wasn't that retarded staff,
or a pair of mangy old boots.
there was the phoenix,
in front of my eyes,
I was so beyond happy,
I cried of surprise.
let this be a lesson,
to those who patiently wait,
your day will come,
and it will be great. | After many years of trying for Ashes of Al'ar, it finally dropped for me on Christmas Eve. I was so excited. I'd had one alt remaining for the raid lockout of Christmas week, but I was so tired and wanted to go to bed. I convinced myself to try for one last run, and there it was.
EDIT: I also forgot to mention that as Christmas neared, a guildy of mine who I have known over 5 years, but never met in person made my Christmas by pooling his money and getting me the Vial of the Sands. The Christmas spirit is very much alive in WoW. Reach out to your guildies and friends and remind them of how much you love playing with them and maybe even get them at Battle.net Shop gift. Happy Holidays everyone! | [
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RTS games aren't really my thing, so I don't feel I can give too much feedback on this from a "knows about SC" standpoint.
Right off the bat, you've got a ton of white noise coming through the mic. It's not terrible, but it's pretty distracting. At times your voice gets a bit loud and clips, so look into that.
I skipped around once or twice, and I have no idea what's going on. You talk about stats and stuff, and I'm sure that to somebody who knows their way around Starcraft those words mean things. | Your audio could use some work, maybe explain strategies and units more? If the target audience is "people who know SC", then it's fine.
Keep it up, m8! :) | [
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just of note most 'kill' shelters don't actually put down animals for space and that's not usually the reason behind being 'kill'. It means it has an open door policy: no animal is turned away regardless of health or potentially dangerous behavior. 'No kill' shelters would have to turn the animals away.
I can't speak for Calgary based shelters, but I used to work in one in the maritimes. In all my years there not a single animal was euthanized for a reason other than health/aggressive behavior. Admittedly many shelters are limited in the effort they can put into the health and behavior training, but they have vets/trainers on staff that can fix the majority of things.
Other things to consider, the cats that take the longest to find homes are the older, cranky ones, but outside of that they don't stay too long. Dogs (other than puppies) find homes faster the better behaved they are. | Kill' shelters are not a bad thing even though they get a bad rep. If you pick up a non-aggressive, healthy animal they will find a new home. | [
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Hey all.
Right now I am about level 25 and doing fine on games in my own league.
But, last night I was in a higher level game and there was a Jax on there that mid game started raping me completely.
It was disheartening to feel helpless as I was continually violated ;)
Anyway, I still did o.k. with 20 assists, but what are your suggestions as a counter?
(His strategy was to wait for me to initiate team fights, then watch as my health got lower and outflank when I held back).
I read elsewhere the trick is to kite, and to make sure he can't jump and stun..
I also read about using: Frozen Heart, Randulin's Omen and Sword of the Divine from here: | Considering that I am not religious at LOL and still a noobish player, what do you think a strategy should be to counter a dominating Jax.
Edit: Thanks for the feedback! I think that game was a bit irregular as I was definitely being singled out.. although from feedback there is still a lot I can do to be more competitive! thanks! | [
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Here's the guide]( that I followed when building my array. It didn't have all the info but is very clear and explains a lot that you need to know.
Using MDADM you'll just need to write one command to creat a RAID 5 array and then wait a few hours whilst it initiallises the array. The command will be:
mdadm --verbose --create /dev/md0 --chunk=512 --level=5 --raid-devices=8 /dev/sdb1 /dev/sdc1 /dev/sdd1 /dev/sde1 /dev/sdf1 /dev/sdg1 /dev/sdh1
This can also be written shorthand like this:
mdadm --verbose --create /dev/md0 --chunk=512 --level=5 --raid-devices=8 /dev/sd[bcdefgh]1
What this command does is this:
"--verbose" - This means that it will output as much info to you / log files as possible. Good to have to see what's happening.
"--create /dev/md0" - This will create a new "MD" device at /dev/md0. This is how you'll refer to your array in the future.
"--chunk=512" - This will assign a chunk size of 512kb to each "block" of information that's written to disk. It means that 512k will be written on one disk then the next 512 will be written to the next disk and so on. More info [can be viewed here](
"--level=5" - This is saying you want RAID 5. You should know a bit about RAID now and 5 is the bare minimum for redundancy with striping. You can lose 1 disk and you'll still have all data intact (until you add a new disk and rebuild) but you are limited to an array size of (nDisks -1) ie; (8Disks -1) = 7x3TB = 21TB. RAID 6 has double parity information so you can lose 2 disks without the loss of any data but you're limited to (nDisks -2) ie; (8Disks -2) = 6x3TB = 18TB.
"--raid-devices=8" - The number of disks to add to the array. You could choose 7 and then later add one of those 8 disks as a "hot spare" which means it won't be part of the main array but if a disk ever dies it will be dynamically added to the array and instantly rebuilt.
Then the list of partitions to use for the array.
Your array will assemble and build. You can find more info about this at some links at the bottom.
Once the array is assembled you have a big bare disk that you need to format to a filesystem type. I used EXT4 as a filesystem for it since it's a nice and new one (think of Window's FAT32 / NTFS. Linux has many choices and I believe that EXT4 is a nice one for RAID arrays).
To create the EXT4 filesystem on your array type the following:
mkfs.ext4 /dev/md0
This does the following:
"mkfs.ext4" - This runs the command " m a k e f ile s ystem. It tells the filesystem type to be EXT4.
"/dev/md0" - This is the name of your array. You're telling the mkfs command to create a file system on your new array.
So there you have it. You now have an array and a file system on the array in 2 commands. You now need to mount the file system. Linux operates a bit differently from Windows in that regards. You can mount a drive to a folder. So in Windows land I could have a folder on my C:\ drive called "C:\Games\". But I could then mount that folder to another drive. So when I go to C:\Games\ the files inside are actually on an entirely different disk. This is what Linux does.
First you need to make a folder:
md /home/<username>/RAID
"md" - m ake d irectory.
"/home/<username>/RAID" - This is where the directory is. I chose the /home/<username> folder because it means that when you login (my TVBOX only has 1 automatic login since we only use it for the TV) you will have full permission to that folder.
Then I mount the array to the folder:
mount /dev/md0 /home/<username>/RAID
When you reboot this mounting may disappear. There's ways to do it automatically so just find out ([some info here on how to do it. Basically edit a file and add the array and path to auto mount](
I then made some folders in my /home/<username>/RAID directory (ie; "TV", "HD Movies", "Music" etc.) for the files. Then I used a program called SAMBA so I could share those folders and files over my network. So from my Windows PC I can just type \TVMachine\Music and access the files in there. I even use Utorrent to download directly to \TVMachine\Dump\Torrents for instance. Almost all network capable devices can read samba shares (I use a Wii to load SD tv shows in the bedroom). Also if you're running XBMC then the server can become a DLNA Server and you can send things to Android phones, iPads, Set top boxes, networked TVs, Other PC media players etc.
Anyways that's all there is to it really. If you ever need to find details of the array then use:
mdadm --detail --scan --verbose
And you'll get an output like this:
ARRAY /dev/md0 level=raid5 num-devices=3 UUID=3f4cebfd:00173804:0d99f2b4:a79ece10 devices=/dev/sdc1,/dev/sdd1,/dev/sde1
That UUID is important. It is the globally unique identifier for your array on your machine. You can use it instead of "/dev/md0" to refer to your array in the future.
Some additional info and threads to read:
[Linux RAID]( Details about RAID under Linux. Info on MDADM.
[How to use Software RAID under Linux]( An old thread on Ubuntu forums about Software RAID. Mostly still relevant.
[Partitioning with FDISK]( FDISK is the Linux disk partitioner.
RAID performance with Chunk Size . I chose 512 in the axample command above but it recommends 1024 / 2048 as well. Just depends on what you want to do. Writing more will be quicker I guess (2 meg writes per stripe) across a lot of disks.
[Details about MDADM showing some sample code and outputs]( This helped me.
[Growing an MDADM array]( May be helpful in the future. | There's a shit tonne of information about mdadm online. You won't have any lack of resources or trouble finding help. You can grow and add to your array and slowly swap out your drives if you ever want to under Linux mdadm RAID. You can't do that in Windows 7 and you'll get to learn about Linux and have your veritable choice of operating system environments.
Edit I should point out that all of this could be done from the LiveCD with blank disks too. You can make an array and run it off the LiveCD just out of interest before you go ahead and install Mint / Ubuntu / Whatever. If you like how it works and the interface then you still have the drives to reassemble a Linux array in the future. If you don't like it and want to go to Windows 7 then you can just format everything and do that. But remember Linux has a massive community and you'll find answers to every one of your questions with enough searching.
Since you want to use old, slow components I'd also be worried about the responsiveness of Windows 7. You might not be able to use Aero for instance. With Linux you can just disable stuff so it's bare bones and it will run really snappy on older hardware compared with Windows. Also Linux now has Steam and all Source games work. I've played a bit of Team Fortress 2 on my TV and it runs well. Chuck a nice card in there and you won't need to worry nor will you need 2 PCs (server / HTPC) if you do it this way.
Good Luck!!! | [
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You could choose 7 and then later add one of those 8 disks as a \"hot spare\" which means it won't be part of the main array but if a disk ever dies it will be dynamically added to the array and instantly rebuilt. \n Then the list of partitions to use for the array. \n Your array will assemble and build. You can find more info about this at some links at the bottom. \n Once the array is assembled you have a big bare disk that you need to format to a filesystem type. I used EXT4 as a filesystem for it since it's a nice and new one (think of Window's FAT32 / NTFS. Linux has many choices and I believe that EXT4 is a nice one for RAID arrays). \n To create the EXT4 filesystem on your array type the following: \n mkfs.ext4 /dev/md0\n \n This does the following: \n \"mkfs.ext4\" - This runs the command \" m a k e f ile s ystem. It tells the filesystem type to be EXT4. \n \"/dev/md0\" - This is the name of your array. You're telling the mkfs command to create a file system on your new array. \n So there you have it. You now have an array and a file system on the array in 2 commands. You now need to mount the file system. Linux operates a bit differently from Windows in that regards. You can mount a drive to a folder. So in Windows land I could have a folder on my C:\\ drive called \"C:\\Games\\\". But I could then mount that folder to another drive. So when I go to C:\\Games\\ the files inside are actually on an entirely different disk. This is what Linux does. \n First you need to make a folder: \n md /home/<username>/RAID\n \n \"md\" - m ake d irectory. \n \"/home/<username>/RAID\" - This is where the directory is. I chose the /home/<username> folder because it means that when you login (my TVBOX only has 1 automatic login since we only use it for the TV) you will have full permission to that folder. \n Then I mount the array to the folder: \n mount /dev/md0 /home/<username>/RAID\n \n When you reboot this mounting may disappear. There's ways to do it automatically so just find out ([some info here on how to do it. Basically edit a file and add the array and path to auto mount]( \n I then made some folders in my /home/<username>/RAID directory (ie; \"TV\", \"HD Movies\", \"Music\" etc.) for the files. Then I used a program called SAMBA so I could share those folders and files over my network. So from my Windows PC I can just type \\TVMachine\\Music and access the files in there. I even use Utorrent to download directly to \\TVMachine\\Dump\\Torrents for instance. Almost all network capable devices can read samba shares (I use a Wii to load SD tv shows in the bedroom). Also if you're running XBMC then the server can become a DLNA Server and you can send things to Android phones, iPads, Set top boxes, networked TVs, Other PC media players etc. \n Anyways that's all there is to it really. If you ever need to find details of the array then use: \n mdadm --detail --scan --verbose\n \n And you'll get an output like this: \n ARRAY /dev/md0 level=raid5 num-devices=3 UUID=3f4cebfd:00173804:0d99f2b4:a79ece10 devices=/dev/sdc1,/dev/sdd1,/dev/sde1\n \n That UUID is important. It is the globally unique identifier for your array on your machine. You can use it instead of \"/dev/md0\" to refer to your array in the future. \n Some additional info and threads to read: \n [Linux RAID]( Details about RAID under Linux. Info on MDADM. \n [How to use Software RAID under Linux]( An old thread on Ubuntu forums about Software RAID. Mostly still relevant. \n [Partitioning with FDISK]( FDISK is the Linux disk partitioner. \n RAID performance with Chunk Size . I chose 512 in the axample command above but it recommends 1024 / 2048 as well. Just depends on what you want to do. Writing more will be quicker I guess (2 meg writes per stripe) across a lot of disks. \n [Details about MDADM showing some sample code and outputs]( This helped me. \n [Growing an MDADM array]( May be helpful in the future.",
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It's primarily due to those schemas (I know your V has been C'd but I want to help you understand). They feel like they are a man in a womans body to such an extent that they feel compelled to be identified as such. It's hard to explain the why, beyond it just is, much the same way that the flu is a virus, it's just something that is. It's the same for people with OCD, they HAVE to fufill their compulsion, or else it causes psychological distress (I'm so sorry for drawing so many parallels with disease :x). It's the wiring of the brain that makes them that gender, same goes for cis people. We were just lucky enough to get the wiring that matches the hardware, whereas they sadly were not. | It's all psychology. | [
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You make decent points. The only issues is that the majority of us at YouTube just want things left the way they were before (or, say, 2007 YouTube).
There shouldn't BE a need to incorporate links into YouTube comments. There just shouldn't! Who thought it'd be a great idea to implement such a thing? With these new systems in place, people can just post whatever links they want!
I hate sounding like a broken record here, but if my younger sibling is watching his favorite YouTuber, what is stopping a sack of shit from linking to something that would scar him for life? I heard of a new feature watching Jerma that explains how you may be able to stop SOME links, but not all of them.
And as far as the unlimited character limit, people can start their comment logically, but after they know they are past the "read more", they can do fuck all! It's ridiculous!
I don't think I need to re-iterate the top comment system. Yes, in theory, it's great. But Google is forgetting that most YouTube is a cesspool of shit when it comes to comment quality. If a YouTuber like Boogie is getting shit from comments telling him "your fat, kill yourself", WHICH THERE ARE GUARANTEED TO BE, they are surely to rise to the top of his videos due to how many replies they'll get!
I've been on YouTube since it first came to be, and NO change has been as bad as this. Most of the changes before this were mostly to due with the interface, sub-boxes, and what-have you, and most were shitty, yes. But this?
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1) If you like academia and research (bonus points for liking theory and mathematics! though not all research occurs in these areas, you'll fucking NEED them), major in CS and go on to a grad degree.
2) if you just really like to code, major in CS and get a desk job.
3) if you like hardware design, major in ECE. | what the hell kind of new technologies? better think on that a bit.
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Quit smoking three days ago with the help of Mr. Carr's Easy Way to Stop Smoking. This man should be knighted. Every other time I've tried to quit it has been utter misery, marked by moping and eventual capitulation. This time is different. This book helped me never want to smoke again. If anyone is thinking about reading this book, you need to just go ahead and do it.
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A little background: girlfriend (35) of 5 years and I (23) separated recently. We have a child (2.5 yrs) and I spend most of my time with him. The mom was the breadwinner and I was more of a stay at home dad, working when I could. After we broke up I moved in with my folks till I can get my own place. However, I can't seem to get ahead working only around her schedule. She works about 55hrs a week. I work 3 shifts a week (if I'm lucky) and she pays me a little cash to stay with the kid more often. This is not enough to go live on my own. It's barely enough to pay for gas and groceries.
I'm trying to be accommodating and it's only making me miserable. I have a lawyer but have decided that after court and lawyer fees, it's not worth the trouble to go through with it. I am having trouble finding a better job because of how unavailable I am. What can I do to make things even (or better yet in my favor)? I don't want it to get ugly. I just don't want to be taken advantage of anymore. | can't get a 9-5 and move out of my dads because my ex is basically forcing me to stay with our young son. | [
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In the beginning of the series, the characters would move around like real ponies, manipulate objects with their mouth, and have an equine range of movement. Not to mention they ate food that actual horses would eat, instead of mostly human food these days. These little funny details seem to have gone out the window after Lauren Faust left, and now every other time the characters move it looks like it could break a real pony's bones, or they eat alot of "human" food. They also grab shit with their hooves, which shouldn't be possible. It was definitely at it's worst in Sleepless in Ponyville. Maybe it's my CDO, but it's starting to get a little bothersome. | The ponies are too humanized.
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ALSO: Repost now that it's No-pics thursday. | [
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Funspot...
As a kid my parents often went on vacation to the Laconia/Weirs Beach/Gilford area. We had family that decided to live in that area. We even bought a vacation home up there that my parents sold in 2003. So we spent all of my summers from 5 to 17 up there.
It was amazing, as a kid, obsessed with video games. Who can still remember when he got his first Nintendo, then saved money from delivering newspapers to buy Genesis, Super Nintendo, Sega CD (regret that one). Arcades were amazing. Consoles couldn't touch their graphics and you always got a better experience playing at the arcade. Funspot was chock full of cabinets I couldn't get enough of. I remember letting Daytona and Terminator 2 eat all my tokens with glee.
Then consoles started being capable of pumping out better graphics than the arcade. Developers stopped trying to produce cabinets. The modern arcade started to die.
I moved away from the New England area for about 5 years to go to college and get a degree. Then moved back home without visiting the Lakes Region for a while. It'd been, in total, 7 years since I'd gone. And when I returned Funspot seemed to me where dreams went to die.
They had their classic gaming area, which is pictured, and maybe a few favorite/classic cabinets, but the appeal of arcade gaming fell apart when consoles and PCs got capable of doing things amazing graphically. The carpets were all stained and in disrepair. To begin with, the local populace depends on business from summer and bike week to bring them through the harsh winter months. The economic down turn really had a strong affect on the area. There wasn't much of an economy in that area to begin with. Now a lot of area attractions (Surf Coaster, the Weirs Beach docks attractions I can't remember the name of) have shut their doors. People in the New England area who visited are poorer now so they don't spend their summers on the lake like they used to.
Last year I took my 3 year old to Funspot remembering the magic I had found there in some of my formative years. How I'd spent hours playing all the awesome motion controlled or gun games. And it was a shadow of its former self. The classic/pinball area had grown while the entire arcade itself was dominated by ticket machines. I guess cabinet developers have given up almost altogether now that the console is king, because the only innovative cabinets I saw was the Terminator: Salvation.
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I feel really kind of silly even talking about it, but it's been bothering me for a while. I am also a terrible writer, so I apologise in advance.
A bit of backstory, in case it's relevant: we met on a dom/sub-related Omegle tag, as I was looking to talk to people about it, without looking for any partners. He heeded this extremely well but after a few weeks of endlessly texting we both got a bit more attached to each other than we expected. He confessed to having an internet crush on me, and I'd been having smooshy feelings for him for a while too. We never expected to meet, but things happened and bada bing bada boom, out of the blue I was lined up to go study in his country (and he wasn't a major deciding factor).
For the 3 months I was there, we were weekend-LDR (i.e. I took a 4-hour train down every weekend or slightly less, as I was staying with a friend's family) and it was lovely. I'm back in my country for the holidays and am returning in September to a city now only an hour away from his, and we're definitely looking to continue the relationship. The weekends I were there we mostly stayed indoors or occasionally went out to the museums, and everything has been amazing so far.
So I guess what I'm cheesed off at is his general "academic's cynicism" at the world and everything, including romance. Valentine's Day? Overcommercialised corporate drivel. Holding hands in public? Makes him feel self-conscious.
I am however a very "smooshy" emotional romantic person, and having been fed the regular pre-teen diet of terrible romcoms and overly-sappy fanfic might have unreasonable expectations of romance. I want to be asked out on dates and bought silly romantic trinkets and feel adored.
And I do do my best to make him feel adored. Mailed him postcards on holidays, bought him books online that reminded me of him, bought quite a bit of expensive lingerie and surprised him with it, wrote him good-bye cards when I flew off.
He doesn't really do any of that for me. Well, he mailed me a wonderful care package/present for my birthday, and cooked me chicken soup once (it's my favourite and I adore chicken soup). He also once gave me a bit of chocolate from a package his mum had mailed him for Easter, I guess. But that's it.
When go out to eat or buy groceries, we split bills evenly, as we're both poor students (he's on his PhD) and while I'm all about equality, I do sometimes like to be treated like a "lady" and not like I'm hanging with my girls. I'm always the ones paying for the train tickets when I come down, and they come to about ~50€ per weekend trip on average. I would like being treated to dinner sometimes. I would also like to be bought small things. As the situation stands right now, I feel horribly unvalued and I barely feel like his girlfriend. Am I being unreasonable?
I've brought up the issue of not feeling appreciated with him once while we were talking on Skype, and he promised to try harder, but despite my obviously being extremely upset during the call and asking him not to leave he still left at a certain time an hour in for a dinner/pub thing with his friends.
He knows my fear that he's only with me for the sex (he was the first partner I've ever had) and he does his best to assuage me of that, but all of this still feeds into that fear.
I don't know how to bring this issue up to him and frankly, I'm scared to. I have a somewhat illogical fear that he might make fun of me for it. Am I being unreasonable in my expectations? What should I do? | Boyfriend not very keen on traditionally romantic things, such as dates, gift-giving and Valentine's day. I feel unvalued, even though I suppose I shouldn't. Am afraid to ask him for them as he is extremely cynical. Am I being unreasonable? What should I do? | [
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The Wild Africa Trek is fun and the food is good. It's especially awesome for those who like taking pictures or seeing animals. You get a more slow and personalized "safari". You get see things with a much slower pace than the regular safari. I took the earliest trip they had available and the only people there were for the character breakfast and CMs heading to work.
The only "disappointment" for me was the quality and quantity of photos taken on the trek by their photographer. They took some of the whole group and some individual posed images. The photo cd that you get includes some more professional images taken for the trek. Which is sort of cheating the system to me. This really could be me being nit picky since I'm into photography. | It was worth it and fun, I would do it again! Just watch the weather closely.
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Among my circle of best friends there is one girl who is particularly egoistic. Usually she is nice and chill, but she firmly believes that she is the one essential leader among us and we will fall apart without her help and directions. We pretty much just roll along with it since it's mostly just a minor nuisance which we don't really care anyway.
She has a degree in animation and does amateur photography outside of work. Her photography is OK. Acceptable but faaaaaaar from anywhere professional. The subjects of her "portraits" look like murdered and taxidermied human remains posed in awkward positions with the lingering horror of their tragic death engraved on their face due to her "perfect lighting and posing and flawless touch-ups", and she insists it's haute arte that we ordinary earthlings cannot comprehend.
Ever since I got my current bf, she quickly and passionately made the decision upon herself that she WILL be the one and only designated photographer for my engagement, bridal shower, wedding, honeymoon (What?!), and everything and anything, and she would do them all at absolutely no charge. While I sincerely appreciate her friendship, love and dedication, I just can't take her offer because...well, her photography SUCKS. Plus she procrastinates and never get things done in time. It's been two years and she still hasn't returned one of her relative's wedding photos.
Here comes the problem. Every time I show the slightest objection she takes it personal and gets extremely offended, no matter how nicely and politely I try to be. I've tried to tell her that as my best friend of many years, she deserves to sit down and enjoy the parties free from the highly demanding duty of an event photographer. She then got extremely upset at me and told me I was stupid for not recognizing the rare opportunity of being photographed by one of the most genius photographer alive and saving myself thousands of $$$, and that I didn't value the friendship between us as she does and I should be ashamed of my foolishness. Then I tried to tell her that my parents would pick the photographer for my life events since they would help me make decisions as well. She then got even more upset and told me that I should stand firmly by her instead of letting my parents diminish her values.
Well, I don't want to lose her as a friend but I can't exactly take her offer either, and we are a low-key, drama-free bunch so I'd love to avoid the drama. I want her at all my life events but absolutely not as the photographer. How do I tell her to back off without damaging her epic ego which would flare up drama? Our other friends understand my struggle but they don't want to gang up against anyone. | Friend takes bad photo, wants to be my photographer, gets mad when I say no, what should I do? | [
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So got a quick personal question. GF (20) of almost 6 years, has been stressed out lately with schooling and I (22) have as well with work. She gets home extremely late and never wants to do anything. I try to be sweet by helping her out and make her dinner.
Anyways, it seems like she isn't interested anymore with me. Anytime i try to be intimate with her, she says I'm being pushy, which really I'm not trying to be. Then other nights she teases me like she is interested and we go to bed, but then its like a switch and she is more interested in sleep.
I know i should talk to her, which I plan to tonight, just stressed out on what could have changed... | GF and I stressed, Been 3 weeks since last time being intimate. Being teased like she is interested, then pushed away. | [
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Was in a cable car with three other people: a guy and and an attractive girl my age, and a young kid. The girl and I were given pistols, and we were given instructions to shoot the person adjacent to us in the head, take out their heart and eat it in order to get the next clue. The guy and I stood up against a wall, and the girl fired. I felt blood trickling down the back of my neck, but I didn't die. I chased them both out of my house. I found the kid looking as proud as ever, so I took him up into my kitchen and beat him to death on the floor with my bare hands until his ribs cracked to pieces. I considered calling an ambulance on account of the gunshot wound in the back of my head, but I decided against it because I knew I would be blamed for the kid's death. I was then transported to a small rainforest clearing where I was having a barbeque on a tree stump with some scouts, including some friends from school and Groundskeeper Willie. Later on I was set the same task, but with different people, both of whom are friends of mine. We were walking along a path wondering what to do when they found a pile of rocks with metal rods in it and started poking around with them. I warned them of the dangers, but they wouldn't listen. The guy blew up first, as he struck a mine and was blasted into pieces. The girl took one more swing and all her clothes, hair, lower body and most of her torso were instantly burned or blown away. I approached her and politely asked if I may take her heart. Grudgingly she allowed me to, and so I continued on down the path. At the end was a small hut, where two strange middle-aged women were flirting. One was in the process of being assembled, and the other one was clothed in a towel. I needed a place to cook said heart, because eating raw meat is gross, and it was covered in dirt and shrapnel. When I went inside I saw a sprawling metropolis through one window, and an exercise yard full of sex machines through the other. At this point I just about threw up, and managed to wake myself up by doing so. | Got shot, watched a girl get blown up then tried to eat her heart. | [
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The game is made by professional game developers and they made the game the way they intended it to be played... If you have to play modified versions of a game so it seems like a past iteration of the series... maybe that's showing that you are not good at the game the way it was intended. | Prove that you are good at the normal game, then come back and brag. | [
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It's not as though the embassy was saying, "The US government will find the assholes who made this video and make sure they get a big ol' spanking!" Their statement was more akin to that of a publisher disclaiming the opinions of a controversial op-ed columnist. Nobody is calling for an abridgment of free speech here. I think it's fucked up and wrong for people to deliberately disrespect someone else's beliefs, especially when the reaction to that disrespect will almost certainly carry consequences beyond, say, trolling someone on the internet. Are the makers of that video responsible for the angry mobs and attacks on our embassies? Not at all. But providing the catalyst for angry militants to act is pretty fucking unwise, and short of actually eradicating everyone who opposes us (impossible), we don't have much other choice than to be as respectful as we can without limiting the rights of US citizens.
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I've been monitoring the [Sochi 2014 FB page]( over the past few weeks and have noticed that they're actively and regularly deleting comments from anybody who is critical of the games, in particular its anti-gay stance, (more info see [here]( [here]( and [here](
[Click here for proof]( (in the form of before and after screencaps, with times that they were taken. I can also provide original screencaps with metadata including the exact dates and times if anyone needs further proof.
Have a read through [the comments]( and then [watch them magically disappear in the followup screencaps](
I feel this is pretty relevant given Russia's history of silencing dissent of any form, but particularly relevant given that it's in the context of an international event that preaches acceptance, tolerance, etc.
I posted about this [the other day]( but didn't have quite as much proof. | Russian Olympic FB page is censoring their page to remove anti-regime comments. | [
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Kiwanis Park in tempe on mill just south of baseline is a really fun spot to catch pokemon. It is a rather large park with a man made lake in the middle so you can catch water types as well as many others, for some reason ponyta love this place and there are pokestops all over the park. Many overlap so it is a great spot to drop lures and many people do so. Ive never seen the park without a lure at night. I was there with friends last night and I would say there were about 500+ people playing there. Ivysaur was spotted along with ninetales, bulbasuar, charmander, Pikachu, alakazam and many more. There are also gyms around the park which make for some fun competition. Last night team mystic had a level 8 gym there. GO TEAM MYSTIC! | Kiwanis Park is prime pokemon GO territory and also a safe place to play due to the shear number of people. | [
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Hello all, I recently started using a GC controller on dolphin and I was playing SSBM and the controls are a bit slow. The left analog stick is not as responsive and i cant sprint sometimes. However, when i plug in an xbox 360 controller it works perfectly fine. So I was wondering if the problem was with the particular gamecube controller or if it was something else. The GC controllers are relatively old and even have similar problems when played on a gamecube. | GC controllers not working properly on Dolphin (pc) don't know if its problem with controller or something else | [
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Honestly, I'd just ride your bike as is. It's capable of a lot more than you would think. Besides, having 2 wheel sets, rotors, cassettes, and everything else just seems like a waste of time and money. You've got some really nice hubs, so you can have a bike shop lace up some new rims if you blow your current ones up and it'd be cheaper than buying another complete set of wheels. I wouldn't mess with your drive train much unless if you are dropping chains all the time and even that could be a simple fix (ie: clutch derailuer, chain guide, narrow wide ring). | Just ride your bike as is. Replace things as they break or if they cause you problems. | [
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My boyfriend and I have been together for three years. Up and downs like any relationship, but generally we are pretty happy together.
I was an artist since before we met and him and I have always fought over it. He told me how artists make no money, how I would have no retirement funds, how it's undependable. It was a sore spot for a really, really long time. He made it very clear that he didn't support that career and he didn't see a future with me if I chose that path.
I've finally decided to pursue nursing, which means I will be going to school full time for three years. I currently have a contract with at a successful tech start up and make a decent salary (around 40k,) but I feel that nursing would be a better career long term and I'm willing to go back to school.
I've tried talking to my boyfriend about me eventually moving in with him and beginning to depend on him while going to school. (He makes about 100k a year.) I told him that he can claim me as a "dependent" and it helps with his income tax.
He automatically closes the conversation down and says "absolutely not."
I don't want to depend on him 100%. I will continue working part time to pay for my own personal expenses and school, but I can't contribute much to the house hold when I'm in school full time.
I understand that it's a big commitment to make, but I mean... his own words were "our lives would be so much better if you worked in a trade." He seemed very supportive of the nursing, which I agree that I want 100%, but then he will say things like "you need to depend on yourself and do things for yourself."
It's confusing because our relationship is serious and we have had a lot of talks about kids/marriage and retirement. (I made the effort to spend time with his family and we're all very close.)
I moved back in with my parents to save money for school, but they live in a 1 bedroom apt and there are four of us sharing it. My boyfriend has a four bedroom house.
Am I wrong to give him an ultimatum? He encouraged me to leave my current job to pursue a better career long term. I feel that he needs to make a decision about what he really wants. I have supported his career (he works long hours and holidays,) I've made an effort to become really close with his family, friends and neighbors, helped him renovate his house... I don't know what else to do anymore. | Boyfriend pressures me into career change, does not want me depending on him while I go through three year program although he is financially able to do so. | [
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If so, we should exchange our RealID info! Proud member of the Horde, myself. What about you guys?!
Been a huge WoW fan and player since BC. WoW has really went down hill in recent years, the number of subs has declined drastically, they made the game too easy, etcetera, etcetera, I know. I still love it despite its flaws, though, and you can't really argue that it is still one of the better MMOs out there, and that damn near every MMO to come out since then has been inspired in some way by WoW. Anyway, my dad currently has my laptop in his possession for me so that I don't wind up selling it (it's rough being a junkie and a gamer), so I haven't been on in quite some time, but I should hopefully be getting it back within the next month or so. So, if any of you play I def wanna exchange info. Need arena partners fo sho, PvP is my fucking shit! Always down for battlegrounds, raiding, and running thru dungeons, too. Last but not least, what do the rest of you think about the new expansion coming out this year? | If you play WoW, we should exchange info. I am a member of the Horde, how about yourselves? Dad currently has laptop but will be getting it back soon. PvP is my shit, and I would love to PvP with some peeps. Also, how does everyone feel about the new xpac coming out this year? | [
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My mother was physically and emotionally abusive when I was a child. When I reached adulthood, she chilled out some, and for the most part, she acts better now but insists that the terrible things she did in the past were for my own good.
I've moved several times and live on my own, but when I visit her for family events, I can't control how much I irrationally hate everything she does (even the smallest things like washing pots and pans in the sink loudly) and how much especially the sound of her voice puts me on edge.
I feel like I'm a horrible person for how disgusted and ornery I feel with her.
I've read some articles on misophonia but I only experience this with her. Is this normal? How do I deal with this? I want to be able to cope better. | Mother's voice stresses me out. | [
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The quick background:
I hate my current job. I mean, I HATE it. I am extremely overworked, underpaid, we are understaffed and management continues to not give a fuck. Luckily, I have performed very well and was promoted (although the pay is shit and still not competitive at all, but the title "looks good" - they did it to try and keep me around). My experience is now legitimately valuable to other companies. I am 24 years old so it definitely was not this way when I graduated college. I am making my move now.
So, I just finished the interview process with Company A. It went very well and I will likely receive a pretty good offer soon - maybe even by tomorrow.
Insert Company B. A juggernaut company that I would really LOVE to join. The pay will likely be better, I will be able to live in a less expensive area, and I will not have to commute. I really want this job. However, my first phone interviews are tomorrow (when I will likely receive an offer from Company A).
The last thing I want is to turn down Company A to go for Company B, have Company B not work out, and then wind up stuck at my current job. I really hate it, people. I have REALLY been wanting to quit for like 8 months now.
Is there a good way to manage this process? Should I be straight up with Company A and tell them I need a week or so to prospect another potential offer? [this just sounds like a terrible way to go about things in my opinion] Should I tell them I need longer to consider their offer? [feasibly I can only ask for 2-3 days, right???]. I really don't want to alienate A to make B try and work (when B is not really a sure thing). Is there a "good" way to go about this process? | I'm trying to find out how to manage timelines (and relationships) when you have job offers from some companies but are still interviewing with others | [
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TV and movies consider Las Vegas to be paradise. The paradise where dreams come true, Adult Disneyland, etc. In reality, Las Vegas is the quintessential "nice place to visit, wouldn't want to live there".
Off of the Strip (which no one lives on, by the way) a staggering majority of locals work in the service industry. In fact, the entire city is effectively geared towards running the Strip. Because of this, a 'creative class' of people don't exist. Young, business-minded professionals are essentially a falacy. Orchestras, museums and the like all fall by the wayside. In fact, only this past fall, did a performing arts center finally open.
Education is arguably top 5 (Bottom 5?) worst in the nation and there is almost no sense of community as a result of all the transience inherent with the city as well as the ridiculously high foreclosure rates.
I should probably also mention the institutionalized degenerate gambling that is rampant among the population. There are casinos deep far from the Strip that cater almost exclusively to locals that take advantage of this. | Vegas is New Sodom | [
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obvious this is anecdotal, but i started driving in 2004. my town is about 5,000 people (but right next to a town of 40,000). decent size, but there were about 15 places around town where cops would hang out, pull people over.. etc.
last couple years, i'm still slowing down in these spots but police are never sitting there. seems like they only get people when they are out cruising on patrol. | less speed traps, less tickets. | [
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I grew up with ice tea, my mom's a fanatic. But I sort of forgot about it as I got older. And I found myself drinking more soda than I thought was appropriate. So I started making ice tea, and now I can't stop.
Here's my system, which is even cheaper than yours and serves me well enough. I make 1/2 gallon of tea probably every other day. I only use two tea bags, and that serves me just fine. Minimum steeping is probably about ten minutes, but sometimes (being the stoner that I am) the tea ends up steeping for way longer. Have never had a problem with bitterness. I have however noticed that I prefer some teas to others. And so I buy accordingly. Sweeten to taste, voila. | I think you're using too many tea bags. | [
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I'm 22 and have been diagnosed with bipolar disorder since I was about 16 (not currently on medication, however). For those of you not familiar with bipolar symptoms, they generally involve swinging between states of heightened confidence, extreme outgoing social behavior and general ecstatic feelings (manic episodes) and states of lowered confidence, antisocial behavior and feelings of depression (depressive episodes).
I have found that when I am in my manic state, picking up woman comes naturally. I love being the life of the party and I exude extreme confidence and alpha behavior. I've even gone through periods where I have been having sex with 3 different women per week. It almost feels like I am invincible.
When I go into my depressive state, however, I slip into a state of extreme self-doubt, which really damages my luck with the ladies. My alpha behavior from my manic state turns more into beta tendencies. I have little desire to socially interact with others and would rather keep to myself. My depressive state has always caused an issue with my relationships, which generally do not last very long and are often very turbulent (also doesn't help that I tend to attract girls who also have similar issues).
My bipolar disorder has not been as big of an issue when I've lived with fewer roomates/appartment mates, but right now, I live in a house with about 26 people (not to mention there are 18 people at the house next to mine that always come over to party), and about half of these people include horny chicks (a plus side in my manic state). Because of this, sometimes I feel more pressured into partying with the rest of my house, even when I am not in the right state of mind to. I recently just slipped into a depressive episode and last night at a bonfire, one girl in my house noticed I seemed troubled and asked me what was eating me. I didn't want to tell her everything I had been experiencing, so I just told her not to worry and that every once in awhile, I like to self-evaluate myself and question whether I'm really reaching my full potential. She hugged me and said that if I ever needed someone to talk to that she's there to listen.
Anyways, I realize a lot of this has a "woe is me" type of feel to it, but I was wondering if there are any of you guys who have bipolar disorder and how you deal with these kind of mood swings. I really hate being a buzzkill and I feel a big part of this subreddit is dedicated to self-improvement, which I am in the process of right now. | Have bipolar disorder, depressive state often interferes with seduction. | [
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Hey everyone. I'm not looking for a silver bullet or anything like that. I just hope you can give me some advice that may help us with this issue.
So, starting with the basics... I'm 21 and she's 20. We're each other's firsts everything (first kiss, etc). We've been dating since March and living together since September (I know, we move crazy-fast).
We've tried to have sex many times, but every time we do, my penis doesn't fit in her vagina. I know it sounds crazy, but that's literally what happens — it slips out. My penis isn't especially big, so I don't think that's the problem. She says she thinks she doesn't get wet enough, but she always stains her panties and sometimes we'll even do foreplay for 15-20 minutes (maybe that's not enough? I really don't know). And sometimes when we do foreplay that long, I lose my erection. Sometimes we both get really nervous (about another failure) before we try to get it in there, and that doesn't help.
She really isn't sure why we can't have sex, but she thinks it's because she gets too nervous and/or that we don't do enough foreplay.
Me? I don't really know either. Maybe she is getting too nervous. I can't help but think we do enough foreplay, but I could be wrong. Also, I don't like telling her this, but I wonder if it's because she never fingers herself. She told me that, before we met each other and started fooling around, she had never fingered herself before. Even now, she or I can only fit one finger in there (and it usually feels uncomfortable for her). Two fingers is unbearably painful. I can't help but wonder if this is why my penis won't fit in there either, but, still, she has no motivation to finger herself (or be fingered) because it feels uncomfortable.
Anyway, since we can't have sex, when we fool around, we usually dry hump (like, being on top of her as though we were having sex, but without actually being inside her). It sounds silly, but I actually enjoy it, and she used to really enjoy it (not so much lately; it's like a 50/50 thing for her now). But, anyway, an even bigger problem is that she doesn't even seem to be in the mood at all. And it sucks because I really like being physically intimate with her, even if we can't have sex. It's not even so much about the pleasure, it's more about having that connection with her.
Anyway, the sex thing actually doesn't bother me so much. It bothers her way more . She's actually cried about it a few times. I just want us to be physically intimate more. It sucks that it feels like she doesn't find me sexy/attractive anymore (she says she does, but it doesn't feel like she does anymore). And, anyway, I know not having sex really bothers her (and maybe that's a big reason why she's not as interested anymore, maybe she's giving up), so I'm trying to figure out how we can do that.
I dunno, our relationship is really good in every other way, but we talk about/fight/get upset about this sex thing way too often. It sucks. Does anyone have any advice? | My girlfriend and I have been trying to have sex for months, but my penis just doesn't fit and slips out of her vagina, so we usually dry hump instead. Lately, she's not even enjoying sexual activity or in the mood very often anymore. | [
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On the beta part.
I hope you don't rush it to public release, i think you should consider going public or to /r/windowsphone sub for more feedback if you feel that you are not getting pushed/challenged by the feedback here or by your team itself or the app is at a very refined stage.
Hitting the new users with an app which is really refined would blow then away more and leave a greater impression.
It will have the effect of greater retention rate then if its released now while its incomplete, people will undoubtedly check it and love it but will go back to Baconit sooner for normal use. | Make a Bigger Splash & Bang. | [
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NOTE: sorry if this isn't the subreddit for this, I'm just trying to figure out how I should go about fixing my issues. I see the "don't diagnose others" thing in the sidebar but I figure it's okay if people specifically ask for it?
I am trying to diagnose myself and so far the closest disorders to my symptoms are AvPD and Paranoid Personality Disorder. I was hoping you folks might be able to help me identify exactly what I'm dealing with and hopefully give me some advice about treatment.
My stats/symptoms:
(sorry if this is rambly or incoherent - I'm not used to talking about myself)
28 year-old male
Enough people have told me I'm attractive that I am pretty confident that I am, but I have never really felt attractive. I'm hypercritical of myself
I never felt this way, but people throughout college and a bit after said I was very socially capable.
Never had a large group of friends, just acquaintances -- I used to have a small group of close friends but after college I've become a hermit of sorts -- I dislike going out where there will be a lot of people
I crave attention, but only good attention. I need people to like me and to think I'm cool.
On a similar note, I HATE to lose/be wrong. I'll make excuses and have a lot of trouble admitting guilt.
I'm always in a relationship. I think this might be a crutch that I use to affirm that I'm worthwhile -- if someone likes me enough to be with me, I can't be worthless. Even when I've been in a relationship that I knew I didn't want to be in, I stuck with it until I found a new girl who liked me to switch over to (I should mention though that I waited until after breakups to pursue)
I hate myself. I yell at myself all the time - this started at around the age of 20 or so. It wasn't that bad at first, but now every day I call myself a loser/piece of shit/etc. and I tell myself to kill myself every day. I am not the least bit suicidal though, I just have such contempt for myself that I'll say it.
Sometimes I'll just think of all my failings/shortcomings and have a full-body twitch while swearing. I'm pretty good about not doing it in front of people to avoid embarrassment. I try very hard to avoid embarrassment, and I'm very easily embarrassed.
I have been jealous in relationships all my life. I've gotten much, much better about dealing with it, but I still have completely irrational fears and paranoia about being cheated on. I also read way into innocuous looks from anyone and fear that people are judging me/comparing me negatively to others all the time.
I'm constantly comparing myself to others and if someone is better than I am at something I will (internally) get upset and angry.
I started smoking pot two years ago and I've formed quite a habit. I think I use it as a crutch because I'm very unhappy and use it to turn off my brain for a bit.
I have stopped caring about things (existential stuff-- "I should clean the house but what's the point if none of it matters anyway") and I've gotten very lethargic and will go straight home from work to smoke weed or fuck around on the internet.
I can't get anything done because I will suddenly go to reddit or facebook or an online game to distract me from important stuff.
I have a terrible long-term memory. I don't remember a LOT of things. I don't know if this is related, but maybe it's worth noting. | u/AvPD_Throwaway is a late 20s male who hates and insults himself on a daily basis. He is paranoid sometime and thinks everyone judges him and compares him to others. He is hypercritical of himself and whenever he sees anybody better than he is at anything he will hate himself even more. He smokes weed every day to avoid feeling feelings and to turn off his brain.
So anyway, those are most of my issues, although I'm sure not all of them (yikes). Any advice/help would be much appreciated. | [
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"content": "u/AvPD_Throwaway is a late 20s male who hates and insults himself on a daily basis. He is paranoid sometime and thinks everyone judges him and compares him to others. He is hypercritical of himself and whenever he sees anybody better than he is at anything he will hate himself even more. He smokes weed every day to avoid feeling feelings and to turn off his brain. \n So anyway, those are most of my issues, although I'm sure not all of them (yikes). Any advice/help would be much appreciated.",
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I apologise if this is the wrong subreddit, I couldn't think of anywhere else to put it.
Okay so heres my idea. We take all the inventors of reddit, and all the redditors with a little bit of extra cash lying around, and all the redditors with
a skill or an interest in related subjects and we put them together in a venue with a business setting with investors and say "These people have ideas they think could change the
world. These people have the skills to turn ideas into prototypes. These people have the money to get the ideas out there." According to the [Reddit blog]( there were 8 million redditor in 2010. 8 million people have one hell of a lot of
ideas when they're all working together.
I'm nothing special in the inventing world. I'm just an average kid who has an idea. There have got to be people on here who have the ideas but either don't have
the motivation to make something of them or just don't know what to do with them. This is something to do with them. Present your ideas to real people in real life
and see where it gets you.
I will organise everything, but I need your support. If you have an idea and you want to do something with it, PM me. If you want to volunteer your time helping me
make calls and run interviews, PM me. If you'd be interested in investing, PM me. If you think this is a good idea, comment and give me your ideas on venues
or anything that you think could possibly make this a worthwhile event or upvote so maybe somebody else with an idea will see it.
EDIT: please understand that this is THE first draft of this idea. It's not perfect by any means but it's the best that I could come up with by myself.
EDIT:EDIT: another idea, to pay for the Venue, a kickstarter could be started where donations above a certain amount got you a ticket into the event. Just an idea,
if you have others please tell me. | Put redditors with ideas in a room with people with money and make sweet, sweet inventions happen. | [
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Alright so I decided to start a 3-day workout this week (Chest/Tri, Back/Bi, Legs/Shoulders) just to get used to working out and lifting again. I haven't stepped foot in a gym regularly for about two years until this and have been mostly sedentary with scattered activity here and there.
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There's no pain or loss in mobility, but it is swollen so I'm not sure what to do. Please help me out guys, I was so motivated to get back in shape this is so depressing... | I just started working out again this week and think I already injured something. Wat do? | [
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Please repost on /r/dating_advice - and be sure to include a | Thanks. | [
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I understand that a gun can be a tool or used for sport. I enjoy going to the range and shooting as much as the next guy. I enjoy exercising my right to bear arms. However, when it comes down to it, if there is ever a shooter on campus ( God forbid), I would feel much more comfortable knowing there was only one shooter. I would at least be able to pinpoint where the danger was and I wouldn't have to be worried about getting in anyone else's line of fire. I don't trust anyone who can't guarantee me they've had rigorous training and aren't going to discharge in a populated area that me or my loved ones are in. Police officers are trained for that type of situations, they wear uniforms so I can spot them easily, even if I am panicking. People who are concealed carrying do not wear uniforms. You also can't guarantee me that they are trained for this situation, if they are, it's a hobby, not a job (veterans could be excluded from this group but they don't make up all CHL holders and who can say what they're sidearm proficiency is in the heat of the moment). I understand the concern if you have to walk through a dangerous neighborhood but that's not really the issue here. If your destination bans concealed carry, that's just how it goes. In my opinion, concealed carry should remain banned. This is a school, concealed carry would cause more problems than it would fix. | I like being able to know that there is only one shooter so I can get away from danger, cops wear uniforms and are trained, concealed carry won't solve any problems on campus. | [
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It's so annoying. I do so much for the girls I have crushes on. I go out of my way for them because that's the type of guy I am. I want to help people and I care about people feeling happy. I want everyone to be happy. But it fucking sucks when the girls who make me feel happy when I'm in love with them, can make me feel like complete and utter shit when they reject me or imply that they're not interested.
The last girl especially. More in love with her than I had ever been before and I knew that she was the girl I want to love forever and ever. Yea I'm 18 year old guy and it's fuckin idiotic to be in love with someone like that but I can't help. She makes me happy, all the damn time, no matter what. I see her and my heart drops to the ground. I do so much for her and she's my best friend but it's bullshit how she can't see as anything more. She knows I love her and claims to can't confide in me as much as she would with other people because she knows it would hurt. It's true and I appreciate the gesture but I honestly don't care. I'd rather be hurt by that, but still know her as much as I can, then just be best friends who can't be that close because one has obvious feelings for the other.
I always plan to make myself better. I always say I'm gonna get in better shape and exercise more. But I don't have that fire under my ass that gets me out of bed to actually go and do shit about it. That's my fault and need to be better disciplined.
But I hate that society values attraction over personality. Looks fade but personality is forever.
But on the other hand, when it comes to love and dating, who cares what the other person looks like. I'm tired of looks being the only thing my best friend cares about. She knows how awesome of a guy I am who does so much for her. But just because she can't be attracted to how I look, I have to suffer heartbreak and pain. Seriously bro? I'm the perfect guy who looks like a 5, are you seriously holding out for the 10? Because she's had guys before who she's attracted to but they don't work because they don't treat her right. You'd think she get the hint and drop the fucking shallowness but no. Of course not. Why would she? Why would she ever want to date anyone that's not good looking. It's not like the perfect guy who loves her and has been more than willing to put up with her problems and bullshit is right there next to her. | tired of bullshit that my love interests put me through. Tired of shallow best friend not realizing the good in me and not giving me a chance. | [
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You know what, I don't generally condone the pirating of apps but in this instance I'd recommend just downloading an .apk of it (since you've already previously purchased it I'm assuming) and install like that. I'll admit that when the game first came out for Android I pirated it because my phone was "incompatible" as well and I couldn't download it in the market. I downloaded the .apk, installed and everything ran absolutely flawlessly. I did end up uninstalling it though because it was taking a huge chunk of space on my sd card. | Pirate it, you already bought it and are getting screwed. Unscrew yourself. | [
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Using a guard, for me, was necessary. The hydroton I'm using, otherwise, tended to end up under the bell, or wedge into one side (size dependent). This would cause jamming and water flowproblems which affected the siphon (and risked overflow).
I used some extra sterelite (brand) plastic boxes I had, drilled a ton of tiny holes in them, and put them around my outfeeds, using silicone to attach them to the walls of my growbeds; I have right-angle siphons leaving the growbeds on the side. So far, no isses with the siphons with these in place.
I also have my water entering my growbeds under the surface of the hydroton to reduce noise in my apartment. I put gutter-mesh (plastic) on the end of each pipe entering a growbed as well as the outfeed of every pipe back into my fishtank/sump etc; they are attached with hose-clamp sized to the pipe.
I did this after realizing that when my pump turned off at night, a back-siphon was created which would/could pull hydroton back up into the water pipe and managed to get a couple pieces stuck in my pump which jammed the impeller right away (which I caught immediately since I was standing there testing things out). I also added a (?) no return attachment that has a flap in the middle of it which only opens in the direction water should go; when water is trying to flow the wrong way (down the pipe toward the pump that's now off), it is stopped by the closed flap and only a bare trickle gets through). I'd call these all necessities. I also found that the guards help filter any larger plant matter (seedlings that end up in the fish tank after a siphone etc) and provide me with an easy way to clean them out of the system before they hit the sump tank and water pump again. They'll also keep your fish from swimming into places they shouldn't. | I do. Yes. Plus, use some sort of guard/filter/screen on every water input/ouput. | [
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On the official paypal preorder page the release date is stated as 04.09.2015 (9/4/2015 US) Do NA players get the game code when the game comes out tonight at 12 or are we actually waiting until what im guessing is the Eu release date for the code. I say this because the prices on that page are listed in pounds, and i assumed that date was for eu. | When does the mad max code get emailed to me.
Before you ask about contacting help desk support, i asked the same question over live chat and i got someone who barely understood english and just gave me that release date that was already listed (I asked what time the game would unlock on the 1st). | [
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Play with friends: I've sort of accepted the fact that you cannot always be on your friends team. What doesn't make sense is not having a lobby where you join together, then be placed in the queue at the same time. This needs address ASAP I think
The dumb alerts: After you've seen the same 2 girls pop showing you 2 levels, it gets old. Please, please let me skip this. There's only 2 levels in the multiplayer at a time right now. I can figure out what those are from the pictures
Chat options: I get it that you don't want those CoD types spouting their hate all the time and wanting your younger aged person exposed to this, but if someone is on my friend's list and I'm allowing it, I should be given the option.
Ability to leave: I should be able to leave a join queue when I deem it necessary. Now you're locked into it. I'm alright with not being able to leave while in the match as that limits the whole rage-quit thing
The ability to change your load-out: some weapons work better in certain maps. The ability to change on the fly would be amazing. Sometimes your team is missing a specific role you think needs filled. This should really be implemented | some changes that would make this game a lot better | [
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Hello again everyone, I beleive that i have found a bug in the PTR/ROS beta server that could also be affecting live servers without our knowledge.
[Link]( to D3 Bug forum post
copy/paste for people at work
Crafted multiple Exalted Grand Orbit Stones (6 affix rare source) and noticed something strange when it came to the affix ranges.
as you can see it seems like there is a issue with the affix rolling ranges on sources (haven't checked anything else). It seems that the ranges for Int, Vit, APoC and Max AP are not set properly to a single constant range. Unfortunately I do not have access to RoS content so I am unaware if the mystic rerolling stats changes the way the stat ranges roll, if someone with access could check that for me (also check to see if this happens w/ higher level sources) and reply with your results i would appreciate it.
I also found out that the same thing happens with Demon Hunter Quivers as well.
As you can see in the link above the same thing happens with Quivers and Sources. The dex and max discipline both rolled in seperate ranges.
Being able to see this makes me wonder if this happens on live without our knowledge. Also i am wondering if there are multiple ranges when it come to crafting.
If this is intended and items do have a chance to roll from multiple ranges this makes crafting to min max your characters even harder. Not only do i have to worry about getting max rolls on stats, but i also have to worry about if i got the right stat range.
If i could get a blue post to tell me if this is intended or if this is only a problem on live servers as well i would appreciate it :)
-Crohnsy
UPDATE : this is also happening on other crafted slots, it seems like this might be a bigger bug that i think (unless its just a range display bug).
[Proof]( | It seems that, when crafted, rares can have their stats roll in multiple ranges.
Dem edits: Like i said in the original post, if there is anyone out there with RoS beta access and is interested in seeing if this happens on 61+ items i would be very interested to find out. Please post them Screen Shots! | [
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The same thing happened to me! although fortunately, my ring was a big ol man ring with a square onyx center stone, and the band around it snapped, so I got off with a filleted finger (took off my knuckle and a good portion of my upper finger), and all i had to do was get the skin sewn back on. (most liberal use of "all I had to do") and now I have an awesome scar shaped like a dragon. | I feel your bro's pain, bro, to an extent. | [
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Hi out there to all those who proudly wave the flag of the Gaming Master Race!
And to the musty console peasants as well!
But don't raise the poisoned pitchforks just yet, for I am just kidding , my good console fellows! I really love all the platforms, since we are all gamers in the end, aren't we?
Actually I am only trying to grab some attention from all the PC Gamers in this Maelstrom of submissions that is /r/gaming. But not for personal gain my friends, but for a thing that I wanted to get off my chest for quite some time now.
I am an avid fan of the Max Payne series and his third adventure will be out on 15th for consoles and 1st of June for PC. It comes from Rockstar, one of my favorite developers, so I have all reason to be hyped. If you aren't, you should check out the [launch trailer]( that was released only a few hours ago, it will change your mind.
But if any of you read this far, I probably shouldn't waste your precious procrastination time rambling about one of my favorite series, but tell you my true intention:
Please, in the name of all PC Gamers: If you are planning to buy Max Payne 3 for the consoles, wait a few days and get it for the PC instead. And don't pirate it, if you can.
First of all you get the technically superior version, but a much more important point is this: Rockstar is a developer that has a mixed relation with PC Gaming. Though they originally come from PC developing with Lemmings or GTA 1 + 2, PC gamers now have to wait months for most of their titles, others like Red Dead Redemption didn't even release on PC. And as someone who played and loved Red Dead, let me tell you this: PC Gaming definitely missed out on a great game there.
To prevent this from happening in the future, we must send a strong signal to Rockstar and the stakeholders at Take 2 that PC Gaming is not dead!
Max Payne 3 will be the first Rockstar game that gets released (relatively) simultaneously for PC and consoles since 2003, so I guess it's some kind of testing scenario for them: Will the PC version of Max Payne 3, a franchise that originally comes from the PC, sell good enough compared to the console versions? Good enough for Rockstar to consider investing into dedicated PC versions in the future? Good enough to bring all their AAA titles like Red Dead Redemption to the PC?
I say: Let's show them! Support the PC version of Max Payne 3!
Thanks for reading and for your time! | with obligatory cat picture: Do you see this [sad cat]( She is sad since she has to play many Rockstar titles with a gamepad instead of playing with a mouse. And since cats love playing with mouses: If you buy Max Payne 3, buy it for PC.
Heh.
That rhymes.
* Please note that this self post will give me no karma, I just wanted to reach as many Rockstar fans and PC gamers as possible. Thanks! | [
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Throw away for obvious reasons.
Quick little background so you can better understand where i'm coming from. I'm a 5"4 girl and about 54 kilos (120 ish?), small short haird and I look quite young, i'm 26...
For years I have battled gaining confidence and not caring at all, but my problem is, is that i care way too much. I care so much about what others think that most of the time it consumes me. I can function in life/I pretend to be outgoing but my self defeatest thoughts crush me. I have tried meditating, moving across the world (went to thailand for three months doing Muay Thai for months) and now am in New Zealand. Although I have done interesting things in my life, i seem to still be obsessed with what others think which in turn, destroys my confidence.
Particularly, I have quite a few people in my life that tell me what they think constantly even when not asked, or I am treated as if I am very young and nieve even before opening my mouth. EX: "you cut your hair, why would you do that you look like a boy now." I can take one or two, but it's literally daily where people in my life correct most of the things that i do, which makes me feel incompitent.
I apologise for this rant here, i'm just losing it. It's gotten to the point where I can't even fight MT anymore because of my lack of confidence in my abilities. I want to be able to tell them off but I am torn with knowing that they say these things not to be mean, but to be helpful in their own way. So the moment I say something, i create a conflict which makes the situation uncomfortable.
I just want to not give a fuck and be able to not think of the consiquences of speaking my mind, like they all seem to be able to do. | I am too afraid of speaking up to people who constantly correct me. HELP!
EDIT:
Thank you all so much! your advice rocks and I appreciate you taking time and answering! | [
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Throwaway account, girlfriend is a redditor. So yeah, I know this question gets asked all the time, but I've read those threads, and I've tried the common strategies, and nothing works, and this problem is eating me alive.
I'm 28, my girlfriend is 25, and she's over 200lbs. We've been together for over 3 years, and have lived together for the last year and half, or maybe even 2 years. When we first started dating she was thick, but that was ok, I actually kind of like thick. But she's not thick anymore. She's fat. And I'm not attracted to her anymore. And I hate myself for it.
The thing is, we live together in a very expensive city, and I know that breaking up with her means we both have to leave, neither of us can afford to go out on our own. I don't even want to break up with her, on every level we've always been two peas in a pod. I love this girl. But I just feel like no matter what I do, no matter what I say, this issue will never go away. She's always talked about trying to lose weight, but that's all it is, just talk. Every now and then she tries something like buying a blender to make healthy smoothies, or downloading some fitness app she'll never use, and that lasts for a week or two maybe before it's back to business as usual. And I've tried doing everything they say to do, suggesting we join a gym together, or find an active hobby we both enjoy, or cooking healthy foods at home. But she doesn't want any of that. She won't do it with me. She won't do it with her girlfriends. She just won't do it. And I'm starting to realize she never will. I've tried chaining my personal habits, being healthier in my life to try to inspire her, but it's no use. She gets bigger, and I get more and more depressed. I know I need to talk to her about this, but telling her I'm not attracted to her anymore isn't going to motivate her, it's going to break her heart.
But by avoiding breaking her heart, my own heart slowly crumbles. It's affecting every part of my life. I feel trapped in this relationship, I feel trapped in my job, I feel trapped in this city. And my eyes have begun to wander. I'm an attractive enough guy, and I get my small amount of attention from the ladies. Until now I've never cared, but lately I can't help but wonder, what does a thin girl's waist even feel like? What would it be like to be able to toss around a girl in bed, rather than just the same tired sex positions? I see attractive girls on the street and I get angry and sad.
Add to this the fact that we've been fighting a lot lately, about the stupidest shit, and suddenly I start to wonder why I'm still in it, is it because I love her, or is it because I'm trapped? Am I only fighting with her because I'm so depressed? I'd never want to hurt her feelings, I care too much about her, she is a sweet and caring partner who really does so much for me to show she loves me, except for this one thing that I need her to do, that I can't even tell her about without breaking her. Wat do, reddit? Wat do, indeed.
If anyone needs clarification on any part of this I will do my best to answer any questions that might help you help me. Please don't tell me what a shallow shitbag I am, because I already know. | My girlfriend has gained so much weight since the start of our relationship she is now over 200lbs and it's taking it's toll on me. I've tried respectful methods of motivation, but nothing works, and I know that straight up telling her will break her heart. I'm at a loss, I feel trapped, I have no idea what to do. | [
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To start off, we're long distance. Our communication is terrible and it has lead to many problems. For some reason she takes pride in her terrible communication, but I don't doubt that she loves me, but at this point in time it just isn't good enough. I need to know exactly what the situation is if not it just isn't going to work.
Secondly, she has been unsupportive in literally every aspect of my life, and somehow she feels its justified. I mean I get that she must have reasons to be upset, if she's so upset beyond repair why is she still in this relationship? And to be honest its just such a drag that shes acts like a counter force for every minor and major thing. And she feels that its justified because of the way she feels, but it really it isn't and she needs to get over it. And its not like once and a while she gets upset and he expects me to apologize which would be totally fair, but she's in this permanent state of being upset without any practical solution. Like she's literally mad at me for being me and then doesn't want to end it and guilt trips me for trying to end it.
And you're probably thinking why we'd ever be together in the first place. And the explanation is that we've had a long history, and its not so easy to just end it, because we'd be throwing off a major component of our lives, and so it is a decision that needs to be taken seriously. Whatever the conclusion that is made I just want it to be at a state of certainty. I'm tired of being forced to have one foot in one side and another foot on the other. Any suggestions on what to do? I've spent years hoping that this relationship would pan out, compromising a lot of my life just to get bullshit in return and it no longer seems worth it anymore. | I really want to make a final decision on whether to move on or not from this relationship. Do you think that I should? | [
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