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Hi guys, built a PC recently(original post here .
I have formatted my SSD and installed Win 7 again thinking maybe it was an SSD issue. Updated mobo firmware and restored the default settings for CPU and GPU but still it happens.
Now I am completely stumped. Usually Motherboard and RAM gives some indication doesn't it. Noticed that it does it on transitions, i.e., when its on idle too long and then I start the game or game and then idle.
Now setup is without any overclocks and the temps are well within range (35-40C max when idling and 60-65C max on load). I've double checked all the connections and they are fine.
Please help me debug this. Where should I start ? Which part could be faulty. | PC ran fine on OC'd settings for 3 weeks. Suddenly restarting without any BSOD/error. Please help me to debug and find the fault. | [
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I don't think this is entirely true, and it depends where you look.
There's instances in which DRMs do work. Steam is mentioned regularly in these parts, but frankly, for games to be put into a single interface that is regularly updated and can be uploaded from anywhere, it's very nice and convenient.
So the real question is whether you can (and do) trust a company that does this.
With Microsoft and Sony, companies with... questionable?... reputations, it's much more difficult to accept. Microsoft is particularly bad: their knowledge of RRoDs during the development of the system, the charging of gold membership to XBLA, the inconvenience of their service, etc. Sony is a bit better, but they've had their snafus also: faulty PS2s, extravagant pricing of the PS3 and their attempt to make consumers feel bad about the expectations on price, and other issues outside of Sony's gaming division (the Rootkit fiasco, for instance).
On top of that, we're talking about a publicly traded companies that, as of late, have been struggling to some degree and will try whatever it can to make a profit, even at the cost of consumers. To that degree, I can't imagine this sort of thing going well.
Contrast that to Valve. Yes, I've heard the support horror stories, but most people haven't had many problems with Steam in the past several years (it's a vastly different beast than what we had in 2002/2003). It's also a company doing relatively well, and it's privately held meaning there's no pressure from shareholders to make rash decisions that have plagued some of these other systems. | It's about trust. You can't trust many companies, but sometimes you can trust a few. | [
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The fact that it is affecting you this much is why he hid it.
I get the whole trust thing, but what he was looking for is a "oh, okay cool, this doesn't change a thing" reaction
>I think it's only because he wants me to sign a prenup.
This is the intelligent thing to do, regardless, as it keeps money OUT of the equation. I am not sure if you are saying you are offended by this, but i do not think you should be.
>Because he didn't trust me? Does he really think that I'd be a gold digger?
If he didnt trust you he never would have told and just kept it hidden.
Ask yourself, why is it such a big deal to you that he didnt tell you?
I understand you think that it means up until now he didnt trust you enough, and i believe that you believe money isnt an issue. If money truly isnt an option this should be like him never telling you he has a pet goldfish. You had an expectation that he would tell you all big things, he violated your expectations by not, but he only violated them because you valued, and continue to value, this money as big.
Now this is not saying that having money influence you is negative, that being materialistic is negative (certainly there is a point of obsession where it is, but to each there own), i mean who doesnt like nice things? who doesnt like a financial cushion? who doesnt like to eat out? It is part of our society, but your reaction is telling me that money really IS an issue. So my advice would be to really look inwards and evaluate why this is so important to you, ask yourself that and dont accept a cop out answer -- ask yourself in front of a mirror while looking yourself in the eye. This is a core value that will cause problem again in the future if you cant address it, this is about communication, honest communication with yourself.
To make you feel better I'm sure he has had cognitive dissonance over not telling you: i.e. he hadn't told you already so he knew that if he told you now than u would have this kind of reaction so he pushed it off to avoid this kind of animosity, but pushing it off farther makes the potential reaction worse so he pushes it off again and this was the critical point where he couldnt push it back anymore.
>He knows I'm not that type of person. Hell, I never let him buy me anything expensive and I always force him to use coupons at the store! Would a gold digger do that? No!
This is giving him evidence to the contrary. You dont mind the relatively little things, but this is apparently a game changer for you. Now granted on the spectrum you have a much higher threshold than a traditional "gold digger" and i dont think you are one in the slightest; it is normal to have one, but money is an issue for you, as it is for many people. | Money is more of an issue for you (which is normal) than you think, if you truly don't care about the money this would be a miniscule revelation. Reflect on what your values are, how much you value him, and ask yourself why this is such a big deal for you if money isn't and issue. Either you will let it go, or figure out money IS an issue and be able to move forward in your relationship with a better understanding of yourself | [
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It is so hard losing your best friend, someone who cared about you so much and cared so much about your happiness. I've done everything I can to let go but I can't.
How are you dealing with your break up? what are you doing to occupy your mind?
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I've been focusing a lot on my dog, my job, all of my friends, going to therapy, hiking, helping my grandma, helping my dad. I feel like I need to run away from this area for awhile. Go some where that doesn't remind me of him. | I miss my ex and im not sure what else i can do to get my mind off of him. | [
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Today, they were giving out free samples of hot sauces. I'm not sure why, but I decided to sample all 15 of them. They were arranged from least spicy to most spicy, so I started with the least, and were ranked 1-10. I put a few drops of the first one onto my spoon and taste it. Barely any heat. I repeated the same for the first 12 of them and they surprisingly weren't bad at all. 13 and 14 were spicier, but actually bearable. I thought 15 can't be too bad since 1-14 weren't, so I eat a WHOLE SPOONFUL of it. I looked at the label. "Carolina Reaper Hot Sauce". Apparently I just downed a whole spoonful of hot sauce made from the world's hottest pepper. My mouth burned for an hour and a half, even after eating a bunch of sugar. | rip op | [
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I'm going to tell you a story about my first time to an eight . Yunno I took bong rips and pipe hits . I was getting dizzy so decided to lay down . I closed my eyes and felt as of I were in space - here's the funny part.
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OK, I've posted this before and no one has really offered any criticism. I'm no expert, I just did a lot of research on it a while back for a friend with an XB1, this is my take on the 4k video issue. The first thing to say is that we all know the ps4/xb1 can't do 4k gaming, so let's forget about that and consider only whether they can do 4k movies. With HDMI 1.4 it could output 4k, sub 30FPS technically - hence the comment by MS at launch about 'no hardware limitation' - but the key word here is 'technically'; practically, it's impossible, when you look at the entire console. Using 1.4 also means yeah, no 3D 4k even in theory. However, it doesn't just hinge on one bit of hardware (e.g. the APU), but on the combination. One key thing here is the codec they use, if it's the old standard h.264 or the new efficient one designed for 4k, h.265. So most modern GPUs have h.264 hardware decoders, fair enough. They don't have h.265 decoders commonly, as far as I know - and the XB1 and PS4 certainly do not. Ok, couldn't they software decode? Well, to software decode h.265 requires a very high end PC - check out the system requirements; they're server grade i7 and gtx 770 minimum. It is impossible for the xb1 and ps4 to do this. So, they could output h.264 4k right? Again, theoretically, sure. However, given that h.264 is considerably less efficient than h.265, the file sizes would be huge i.e. well into the multiple 100's of GB's for a single standard length movie. So, in terms of blu rays they'd need a new standard for blu ray disks (which hasn't happened yet) or at the very least BDXL drives which, incidentally, neither console has (though even if they did the huge file sizes would make them useless anyway). OK, how about streaming? Well, the massive file size again makes this effectively impossible from either the producer or the consumer's side since customers would have to have monster internet, and Sony/MS would need prohibitively extreme servers, and even if it weren't effectively ruled out by that, the tiny 500gb hard drive on both consoles seals the coffin. You'd have to wipe your HDD to download a movie and even then it might/might not fit depending on the length; then you'd need to spend at the very least hours (with crazy 1gb/s/125MB/s industry leading level internet), but more likely days (if you had higher end fibre) or weeks (for most with decent internet - better broadband or lower end fibre e.g. FTTC), even months for some people (running e.g. 2mb/s), downloading it (i.e. you'd have to buy not stream it), or enjoy leaving it to buffer for days so you could stream it. There's a reason that streaming services haven't really added the option to stream true 4k - FYI, Netflix 4k is running on h.265, and only works with devices that can decode this as a result, and you still need a minimum of a dedicated 15mb/s for it to work, so 100mb/s connection is really the effective minimum; and much of the time you're not really getting 4k. Basically, the conclusion is that they might be able to handle h.264 decoding but they couldn't store or read the file in the first place, and while they could probably store and read the h.265 files (though with limited practicality) they can't decode them. Personally, I'm pretty certain Sony and MS will just roll out upscaled 4k for whatever 4k content people want, and if Sony or MS do decide they want actual 4k the only (most likely) way this is going to happen is an extra bit of hardware: some sort of HW decoder for h.265, possibly a new blu ray standard drive (when the industry decides on one), but this is most likely to be rolled out in a new iteration of the consoles rather than an add on for the existing consoles. | The bottom line is that the consoles can't do 4k at all - games or movies - and in their current iteration it is effectively impossible. What they are very likely to do is upscale, as always.
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A girl I know has a crash on me that's last years and I really want her to get over it.
Relevant background information:
I've known her for a good 6-7 years. She's a neighbor of mine. We both went to the same college. Around 5 years ago, being young, single, and stupid...we hooked up a few times. I was her first, she was very into me for a while already, but for me it was just, well, a friend with benefits. We never had a bf/gf relationship. Not that I was directly a jerk to her, but on several occasions I made it clear I liked being friends with her (benefits or not), but I wasn't interested in a relationship.
It was a bad on my part to even inadvertently lead her on, but I was confident I made it clear wasn't interested in a relationship.
I've been dating another girl for the past couple years and I'm very happy in that relationship. The problem is the crush girl still has the hots for me. She's made advances on me that my girlfriend has noticed and despite her telling me how "over" me she is, she's relentless. She's stressing out my girlfriend and while I didn't mind being purely platonic friends with crush girl, it's clear she can't handle that. I feel she needs to move on with life and find a guy who's right for her. You'd think that'd have happened already, but this has been going on for years. She's stepped up the crazy a bit lately and is talking to my guy best friend about me behind my back, e-stalking my girlfriend, and just now asked to meet so she could have a talk with me. It's getting a little scary actually how she just won't let up.
I want this to stop. I'm inclined to just go tell her directly "I don't want to see or talk to you again", but thought I may be missing a more effective approach to let this girl down and make it clear I don't want her advances or unrequited attention any more.
I hope I made this complicated situation succinctly clear, but will make edits as necessary in case any confusion comes up in addressing this. | A girl has a relentless crush on me and I want her to get over it and move on.
EDIT
Our ages? I'm 28, she's 24. | [
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Yup, 1st TDI and 1st VW. Off hand I would say despite having no tangible point of reference, after 6 weeks driving it and only having to refuel once, it's definitely much better in terms of fuel consumption (boy does diesel fuel RANK though!). I got about 750 km out of the 1st tank, a bit short of the advertized 1000 km but I guess I spent a bit more time in Sport mode than on Drive, haha. The low fuel consumption is obviously nice, however it's the nervousness and responsiveness of the TDI engine I like best. When I test drove the base 2.5 Passat, in comparison it felt like the car was driving me (you know, like any automatic transmission car, reacting too slowly to the gas pedal) but not with this. This car has power right where you need it to, without guzzling high octane premium like a VR6 would. Truly the best bang for the buck!
Unfortunately I wasn't able to convince the wife that she should learn to drive stick, but I am not missing the stick as much as I thought I would, thanks to the DSG. Obviously it's a bit more sluggish than a manual version would but the torque delivered by the TDI engine more than makes up for it and the DSG gear ratio is very well balanced. The car doesn't really run out of breath right before switching gears like most base automatics do, and that's not even on Sport mode. My only rant, if a rant at all, would be that when in Sport mode, the gearbox waits a little too long before switching gears, especially between gears 1-2 and 2-3, which gives that impression of running out of breath for a split second, but this only happens if you don't actually floor it. If you do floor it you understand why it's called Sport mode and it's no shortage of fun (except for those left in your dust at the light).
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The hesitation: after awhile he let me know that he's currently taking Zoloft. On a separate occasion he shared with me that he was abused as a kid, and has had a really rough relationship with his family over the years (both the issues as kid as well as them not speaking to him over past SO choices), though they've worked at it and are a bit better now. Just in general from talking to him, he feels things pretty strongly a lot of the time.
Realizing that I have been #blessed, I have had a pretty smooth go of it. I'm a generally happy, positive outlook person (I'm sarcastic and skeptical, but go about my daily life in a upbeat way). I love my parents, we have a close, really great relationships. I get along with a lot of people and had one friend describe me as an "emotional person whisperer."
What my issue boils down to is, I like this guy a lot so far. I enjoy spending time with him, like his friends, have great physical chemistry, and I want to keep seeing him. I don't know what to expect from his depression and his past. It makes me nervous about how to act around him when he's upset, worry about what might set him off (not that anything has while I'm around him), and, b/c I'm a girl and project things to the future, what it would mean to really commit to a relationship with someone who has such serious baggage that I'm not used to handling. | What should I know about getting into a relationship with someone with depression? As someone with little experience with personal relationships where the SO has a lot of heavy emotional baggage, what am I getting myself into? | [
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So I decided to stay with Evan.
After we went our separate ways the day of all the drama, all that I wanted was for him to make me feel better. I missed him already. I felt like if I didn't give him a chance to fix it, I would regret it.
I don't have any expectations going into this, but he wants to try and I want to let him. I've told him that if things don't feel any different in a month, and I don't feel any less hurt, any more loved, and any more trusting, we are gonna stop trying. I don't expect him to fix everything in a month, but I want to see an effort.
He has been making an effort. I am still hurting, but he's trying, and I appreciate that. I still don't really trust him. He knows and understands. He wants to be trustworthy again, but doesn't know how he can prove it.
We talked about it some more, and he revealed that he had started talking to her/flirting with her because she was pretty and looked like she was a lot of fun (i.e. she is extremely socially active, something I am not). This hurt a lot. It took me a while to not blame myself. Initially, I kept thinking that if I were more fun, more social, it never would have happened, but now I know this is totally on him. He never told me that so many movie nights bothered him, and he never went out of his way to plan anything for us to do. Not my problem if I never knew he wanted to do more.
I have realized, though, that having him as my only friend wasn't very sustainable. I don't know how it happened, but I guess I just got so caught up in the relationship that I sorta closed myself off from the rest of the world. I'm working to fix that and start a life apart from him, have my own social circle. I think it's a lot healthier this way, and it will help the both of us. This past Tuesday I had a girls night with a friend I hadn't seen since graduation, and it felt great! I'm also thinking about rushing next semester, but I'm not sure how Greek life will feel to an introvert.
So yeah. I'm giving him a chance, but I'm working hard to be happy on my own, too. I still worry that he's going to keep flirting with girls, but I'm hoping that will pass in time. He suggested we go to couples counseling, and I'm thinking about it. I guess I want to try to see where this goes on its own first, before we see a counselor. | I stayed with my boyfriend and he is doing his damnedest to apologize. I gave him a month to try to make a difference in our relationship. I learned a lot about myself and I'm taking steps to be a healthier, more independent person. | [
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we will have the 810 on the 18th of december
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In high school I got through with good grades with hardly any work, & once I got to college that changed hardcore. I found myself failing & dropping classes, after some hard work and easy classes I finally got off academic probation. Procrastination is a HUUUUGE issue for me (reddit!). In general I am a smart person, but I learn some things at a slightly slower pace than others. There's also the recurring cycle where I won't go to class because I'm behind, then won't study and will get more behind, etc until I haven't been in a week. It just stresses me out so much that I avoid it.
So, has anyone struggled with something like this before? In any of these categories? If yes, how did you overcome it? ANY help is greatly appreciated. Thank you in advance.
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Background: my (F35) boyfriend Russ (M43) is the father to three awesome kiddos. Nicole is five, Gavin is seven, and Peyton nine. He and their mother have been separated for four years, the divorce became final about a year ago. Russ has never introduced the kids to any of his dates, save for a gal they already knew (mother of friends) and she was introduced as "just a friend."
I've known Russ for a year and a half now, we started seeing each other exclusively in October, and I met the kids as a friend in January. Nicole was friendly immediately, partly I suppose because I'm one of the few girls she has to interact with. She's in my lap all the time, wants to have sleepovers at my house, and has told both Russ and me we ought to kiss more, hold hands more, and fall in love so we can get married.
Gavin doesn't hang all over me the way Nicole does, but he's still excited when I come over and we have a lot of funny little interests in common (bugs, dinosaurs, Legos to name a few). He asks if I can be included in family events and wants me to take him places like his favorite book/toy shop and the museum.
Peyton, on the other hand, is a mix of every emotion on the spectrum. He's the only one who really remembers Mom and Dad being together, and now that they're not has become his dad's right hand - he's a tiny little adult, over the top in herding around the "kids" as he refers to his sister and brother and making sure teeth are brushed and everyone is out the door to school and so on. He fusses over them to do their homework and is absolutely the rules follower of the bunch. He's polite to a tee, but then his emotions overwhelm him and he, well, freaks out a little.
The first night I met the kids he was nice, although quiet the whole evening. I was introduced as just a friend. When Russ tucked the kids in and I was sitting in the living room chatting with his mom, Peyton flipped and demanded I leave immediately because girls who aren't family shouldn't be staying for more than a half hour or so. Okay.
We worked up my visits to dinner and a few hours here and there, and now he's at the point where he engages me in conversation and jokes but he still has meltdowns around Russ pointing out that friends shouldn't be around during family time and so on. This is further amped up by the fact he confided in Russ that his mom keeps asking him endless questions about me and it's freaking him out.
How do I go about making this easier on the kid? Russ and I are serious about this relationship, we've talked about marriage and are agreed that's where this is headed but neither of us want to have that at the expense of his children. | my boyfriend's younger kids have a great time with me, but I upset the apple cart of his oldest boy. How do make it as easy on him as possible? | [
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As a side note I believe someone posted a picture a while back on a triathlon runner who was really big does anyone know who Im talking about? | Is it possible to be swole AND a functioning soldier? | [
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I've been playing CoD for years, Domination is my preferred game. I'm exceedingly, painfully average at this game. I accept that and try to play my best anyhow. Since I've started this game fairly recently maybe some of you vets can help me get up to speed.
Better to just play Squad matches until I can level up and unlock more stuff or do I realistically have a fighting chance at lvl 9 here?
Just what the hell kind of good is the SAT-COM? Is it supposed to be like UAV but more localized? I don't see its usefulness. It's gotten to the point where I just drop it any old place and move along. Does it work anywhere or does it have to be in an open space? I'm missing something here.
Do perks (and anything else, for that matter) unlock and just become available or do I still need to buy them even after the level unlock? Better to buy perks/killstreaks instead of gun attachments, right? Probably an obvious question but you never know...
I have been killed by exactly one grenade. Pointless to carry them? Do you have to hit someone in the head for it to be lethal? Will semtex kill riot shielders when you stick them?
Guns: I prefer semi autos like the FAL and the EBR or burst guns like the M16 and FAMAS in past CoDs. Now that there's this "Marksman" category there seems to be four semi-auto guns to choose. If I were to spend the points on one of these will I be stuck with a zoom scope until I level it up a bit or can I ditch the scope right off? Speaking of that, which marksman rifle is the most similar in performance to the FAL: low recoil, high damage, good for a quick trigger finger? Any recommendations?
I know this is a whole lot of questions and a long post, thanks in advance and sorry if some of the questions seem to be obvious. | Looking to get up to speed, need a bit of advice from you guys who've played for a bit.
*e: Thanks to you guys for the help. I understand SAT-COM a bit more and, seeing as I play with randoms, will not expect much in the way of results. Gonna try bagel's loadout and see what happens.
To clarify, I am under no illusion that there are any magic fixes for getting better besides a lag switch, getting used to a new game always takes some time. It's just a few of the finer points have been lost on me so far and I wanted to consult you guys.
BTW: I love the new maps, so many open spaces, no locked doors. Good stuff. | [
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And this is with someone I haven't even met in person yet, but I have know them for a few years. It would be his first time seeing me at all in person. I don't know how to break it to him that I look pretty disappointing naked if it gets that far.
I look pretty deceiving with clothes on even though I don't try to be too much. I just feel it will be too much of a shock if the clothes come off and want to prepare him ahead oft time.
And if it does happen what are the ways I can tell if he is actually ok with how I look or if he's just being nice and putting up with it?
Thanks!
Edit. it's all the same replies I thought I would get, but thank you anyways. | How do you break it to a guy you like you don't look too good naked? | [
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Basically I'm gunna do a campaign for some friends but due to the number of who wants to play and how hard it is to get set groups with them I'm doing a campaign as if they are town guards. This allows people to drop in or out whenever possible, I'm also using the Epic6 rules because it means no one will get miles ahead of everyone else hopefully.
Anyways as a town guard I've came up with a few ideas like goblins invade, gather some resources and etc. I'm also going to have these quest affect the town they are in so if they get iron for the blacksmith he drops the prices for the guard a bit and etc.
I made two crudely done maps which show the area and the town
Any help would be great. I just wanna make this a nice campaign with a town that feels kinda real you know.
Props to /u/NecronPariah whos thread ages ago made me want to try something like this.
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I got my first birdie yesterday while playing Disney Magnolia! It was on hole 18 and I piped a drive to about 147 out, 8 iron on to the green to about 20 feet from the pin and sunk the putt! Only got to play 9, florida weather it's sunny one minute and and storming the next, but I put up my lowest score 48 for 9 holes.
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"The seats on these scooters are too small. Fix it." The voice demands in a thick Glaswegian accent. I feel myself getting type II with the echo of each syllable.
"I'm sorry...?" I sputter, unsure of how to respond, or whether this entity is even male or female. "I'm sorry," I begin again, swallowing confusion. "The scooters only come in one size, they don't get used very often. I can get a manager for you if you would like to make a complaint." I feel this bit of customer service should smooth over any customer dissatisfaction. Pass the buck. I'm not a manager, I don't get paid for that. "Is there anything I can get you from the deli counter?" I add, hoping to change the conversation.
"No. I want you to fix this seat. It's too small. You should have anticipated that I wouldn't fit in it."
"I do apologise, but there's no way to change the seat size. Again, I can get you a manager if you'd like to make a customer service complaint."
"YOU DON'T GET IT. THIS IS YOUR FAULT. I WANT YOUR NAME. YOU SHOULD HAVE ANTICIPATED THIS AND FIXED IT BEFORE IT HAPPENED."
I have no patience for this. I could be snacking on the day old samosas we can't sell anymore. I could be cutting samples of cheese. I could have been having that cheeky cigarette outside.
I take a deep breath and commit customer service suicide. I don't have time for people like this.
"Again, I apologise, but asking Tescos, let alone me, to anticipate that you wouldn't fit in the mobility scooters we keep for the extremely elderly, would be like asking Tescos to open up a store on Mars in anticipation of a Martian Colony."
That wasn't the best of plans, the Whale is now angry. I try to take another deep breath to steel myself for the indignant onslaught that is about to hit me. Just my luck, a manager rounds the corner, with a rather weary looking man. Oh crumbs. I bet the manager heard everything. The weary looking man speaks out first. He addresses me.
"I'm sorry for the trouble, someone's a little bit tetchy as they have just started a new diet."
Turns out Weary Man is Whale's support worker. Whale has mobility problems and needs care support. I feel bad for mentally referring to this person as Whale. But then Whale starts slagging me off and that guilt diminishes.
He turns to the whale in the scooter. "What did we talk about? You can't ride the store scooters. You have to ride yours, and I was getting it out of the van for you."
Whale jiggles with rage. "I don't want to ride mine. It's big and makes me look fat."
The man rolls his eyes. The manager luckily, knows me, and is trying very hard to neither laugh nor make eye contact. He's adamantly staring at the ceiling. I keep my face blank. The weary man apologises again and leads Whale off towards the customer service desk. Whale is positively jiggling with rage because Whale doesn't want to ride the custom Rascal. Whale is loudly shouting that it's still my fault, why can't weary man just see that. The manager finally gets to laugh. "You can go on your break now." He manages between wheezes. I go for my break. I text the story to some friends, laugh about it, prepare myself to return to the shop floor. As I walk back in, I notice the queue of scooters by the customer service desk has a new sign over it. An A4 sheet of paper with a message in comic sans. It says "Size Limit On Scooters. Please speak to Customer Service Desk for details". Sometimes my job isn't so bad. | Extremely large person too big for store's mobility scooters blamed me for them being to small. I commit Customer Service suicide by saying it's not our fault. Turns out this person took a mobility scooter from the customer service desk without asking and nearly destroyed it. Their Support Carer isn't paid nearly enough to put up with them. | [
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I'm not sure if it was just the new factor going into X and Y, but I was floored at how 'new' it felt. It also helps that I got it upon release and no one knew what was going on yet so I couldn't look up a guide. They really made the Pokemon battles come to life so to speak. The visuals in this game felt like a big step up. Pokemon Amie though it feels a little gimmicky is fun to mess around with.
In terms of subtle mechanics, this generation introduces some new things to make things easier for players. Hidden abilities are now able to be passed down by males. IV breeding is easier with Destiny Knot. EV training and checking is easier with hordes and Super Training.
We get the a whole field for berries where you can make plant berries and sometimes they mutate into new berries if you plant two of the correct berries next to each other. You can also use to berries to make Pokemon shakes for your Pokemon to drink.
Trainer customization is new though not something I am really into. I'm sure it might be fun for girls though and the females get more options anyways.
Mega evolutions, which I thought were ridiculous at first turned out actually to be quite fun and they introduce a new element of strategy into the game since only 1 Pokemon can mega-evolve in a battle but they bring new stats and abilities.
Did I mention that Flareon learns Flare Blitz now? I've waited so long for Flareon to finally have a good fire type physical move to use with its ridiculously high attack stat.
You get both a Gen VI and Gen I starter! How amazing is that? Totally brings back the nostalgia factor and you can mega-evolve your Gen I starter.
They really expanded upon the wireless connectivity in this game. I can trade with anyone anywhere. GTS and Wonder Trade are actually fantastic for trading. Friend Safari is nice too. I can even trade when I am not at home as long as there is a Nintendo Zone around.
I'll end with this, there is no way I am going back to an older generation game now that I've played X/Y. | Each new generation of Pokemon definitely improves upon the old ones. There may be a few things the new generation introduces that you don't like...but hey, if you don't like it, don't use it. | [
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Ok, before I begin this rant on my best friend. Understand that I love her to death and I would do ANYTHING for this girl but she can be a fucking bitch sometimes. Don't get me wrong, I can be a bitch too - but not NEARLY as mean as she is to me. She tells it to me straight like no other person can, brutally. But I have thick skin, I grew up around a family that teased me relentlessly and I work in the always insensitive modeling industry. She's opposite in every way you can think of; physically, mentally, and if I did half the shit she did to me I'd be scared of potentially breaking spirit. But I bear it, because I can and I love her unconditionally.
So here's the deal, I booked a modeling contract in NY! Yay. She was so happy for me and couldn't wait for me to move. I got everything settled and went back to TX. I was supposed to move into model housing in June but because of "issues" and a lot of horrible planning, I was never reserved a spot. Sooooo I'm still in Texas. Decided to look for my own housing and man, that is a fucking chore. No furniture, shady roommates, creepy locations, expensive rent. For months, the works. I get really down on myself because I feel like I'll never make it to NY.
Come 6 hours ago when a friend she introduced me to tells me that he has a room he's willing to sublet for the month of August because it just became available. Amazing area, roommates are close friends to my best friend, beautiful apartment for the really affordable rent, furnished with a private bathroom. For a month, just enough time to get everything settled and straightened out with the agency. I could go to NY and look for housing while I start working. Talk about serving up exactly what I needed on a silver platter.
Call to tell her the good news. She doesn't take it that way. Let me explain her situation. There are two roommates. One of the roommates was an old fling, never got too serious or even did the dirty - at the time I visited she was on good terms. The other is a closer friend of hers and I'm convinced he's in love with her. Anywhoo, turns out they're not on good terms anymore. I remember her mentioning it to me but she's had fights with them before and I had feeling it would blow over like it usually does. Apparently, this one is different. She questions her friendship with them now. I explain to her how perfect it is and how I truly believe this opportunity was just the luck I needed to further my modeling career. She doesn't care. Tells me that it makes her feel uncomfortable and that I'm forbidden from moving into their apartment. Tells me that I'm not looking at how it makes her feel to do something like that, since they’re in such a huge fight and on bad terms. They don’t even talk anymore. Makes me feel like I'm betraying our friendship. Says it bothers her because I will become friends with them and just the very thought of me "lounging around the apartment in my bath towel" puts her off. (WTF?) I retaliate with, "I'm not gonna lie, but this isn't high school. Just because you're in a fight with them doesn't mean, I have to stop talking to them." Her response, you're not even friends with them!! They’re MY friends, not yours. Like I’m taking over her territory or something. You can't do that, it’s wrong and makes me upset. I told you how I feel and you’re jeopardizing our friendship if you move in. Find somewhere else. Brings up that if I were to move into their place that it would ruin our friendship. She wouldn't even talk to me anymore. Doesn't try to compromise. Tell her it’s not like I’m becoming best friends with them. I just need a place to stay. I can’t stay with her because she lives in a dorm and I can’t find anywhere willing to rent for less then 6 months. We scream and go in circles explaining our POVs until we finally call it quits on each other and hang up. I cry. We've never gotten in this big of a fight and in all honestly I think she’s being really selfish. And this is stupid.
Why does it even matter? I think what makes this so difficult is that I can’t even fathom her way of thinking. If the roles were reversed I would of 100% let her do that. No doubt! I’m just that kind of person. I don’t have to right to tell you what you can and can’t do. I've bended to her will multiple times in the past, I usually shrug it off and think nothing about it because hey, we’re best friends and I can handle her selfish tendencies. I joke about it sometimes, but never tell her that. (She’s the baby of the family. Gets ANYTHING she wants. Remember, we’re opposite in every way .) I just don’t understand how someone can be that selfish. What does it matter? It’s not like I’m asking her to visit me, why do I even need her permission? Who cares if I talk to them. She’s so stuck on her way, there’s no changing her opinion. Trying to make her see reason, won’t work. I know it from previous experiences.
BUT on the flipside, am I the selfish one? To want to move into an apartment that could potentially ruin our friendship. I think, I just don’t understand her POV. Because overall, I'm a very chill person, I get over things quickly, and never hold grudges. And I really wouldn't give a fuck if my best friend was on good terms with my mortal enemy. I just can’t see things from her POV. I don’t think I could ever see it, just because she’s so different from me.
Alright, give it to me straight r/Advice. What can I possibly do in this situation? For the first time, I don’t want to fold to her will. Should I pass up this opportunity to save our friendship? And although I’m contradicting myself with previous statements about my personality, I’m scared that if I do pass it up I might hold some sort of resentment towards her for not letting me take up the offer. | Live in TX. Got a modeling contract in NY where best friend resides. Visited and met friends multiple times. Find out a friend is subletting his room. Which is ABSOLUTELY PERFECT considering my circumstances. Call, excited to tell her it's finally happening. Instead, she forbids me from moving in because she got in a huge fight with his roommates and it makes her feel uncomfortable. Tells me it will ruin our friendship. | [
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I'm a third year in college working on the last writing assignment for my humanities class. In this assignment we need to be asking a scholarly question, pertaining to something not only in the US, that can be debated through various academic and peer reviewed works. My topic is going to be on metal obviously, and most likely the rise of heavy metal in the 70's to how it influenced and secured its spot in one of the most loved genres around the world.
I have a ton of resources at the ready and I've made numerous observations, but my thesis isn't fully developed yet. Before I cross post this to r/homeworkhelp I wanted to ask my fellow metal fans, is there a topic or possibly a controversial idea you'd like to see be turned into a scholarly paper? The best idea I have for the paper so far is researching and reporting the dominant factors that lead to the extreme popularity of New Wave of Heavy British Metal in the 70's and 80's and how it spawned numerous subgeneres around the globe.
Like I said, it's not perfect and my TA told me I wasn't quite specific enough so I'd appreciate any comments, criticisms, possible ideas or any questions you'd like me to look at. It just can't be confined to the US in terms of subject matter.
Thanks for the help in advance!
and for the lazy: | Need help on paper pertaining to metal's influence, what subjects, controversies or questions would you want me to look at or possibly answer? | [
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I don't get why people are down voting you. This point is perfectly valid and will remain so for as long as people are trying to sell Linux as a Windows alternative. I'll try and answer you as best I can.
The first problem with your point is your expectation of "out of the box" Linux. The reality is such a thing doesn't really exist. "Linux" is simply a collection of software components that can be put together to form an full operating system. When you talk about the "out of the box experience" what you are really referring to is Linux distributions and the way in which they present Linux.
Now getting on to your point "Why are you guys writing scripts, shouldn't this be in the OS?" (paraphrasing) - Many Linux distributions that aim themselves at the general consumer, like Ubuntu, do come pre-installed (if it's not pre-installed it'll be in the software centre) with easy to use, point and click, parental controls. However, all these tools really do is provide an automated way to write the scripts/configuration files that are posted above.
As it happens many Linux users are attracted to this operating system because (unlike windows) it doesn't try to hide the way it works. For this reason many Linux users (particularly the ones who frequent this subreddit) prefer to skip the GUI tools for a more DIY approach and write those configuration themselves. | Many linux users prefer the DIY approach but GUI tools are provided with many distros "out of the box" | [
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So, we know each other for about 7 years now but started talking more for about 1 year when we've met again at some class reunion.
Since we started talking so much I developed a crush on her, but I was never quite sure because she looks extremely good and she's really smart and I never thought she would like me because of how my body looks.
About 2 weeks ago we've met for a coffee in some pub and I realized she is giving me little signs of interest, like exposing her neck and a few others (I'm interested in body language so I'd say those were signs of interest). I didn't say anything at the moment, I just let it pass.
This weekend she came to my place to watch some movies. Also, she said she really wanted me to play her some guitar since she haven't ever heard me play. So after a while, we were just playing some video games and I put my hands around her and play like that for a period of time. After switching to movies, she grabs my hands and puts her head on my shoulder (she was staying in front of me, spooning, so to say) and she made eye contact for a few seconds, switching back and forth between my eyes and lips. Realising what she's doing, in my head there were voices telling me that this is not possible and I'm just imagining things so I didn't kiss her, but the moment did not get weird or anything. I just missed it.
After the movie was finished, I walked her to the bus station, giving her my jacket since she was saying she's cold. When we've arrived at the bus station, she saw her bus coming and she kissed both of my cheeks and ran for it.
I'm planning on meeting her as soon as possible but I don't know what to do. Should I just go ahead and kiss her on sight or what?
P.S.: I'm sorry if there are any spelling mistakes, it's just that I'm not a native English speaker.
P.S. 2: Any questions are welcomed, I'll answer anything you want to know.
EDIT: I'm asking you guys because somehow I get really paranoid of being rejected and I really don't want to lose her. | I have a crush on a girl for 1 year or so and she started giving me signs of interest. I don't know what to do next. | [
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You clearly are looking for a male's perspective on the need to have sex regularly, a point which comes to mind prominently because it's usually the most glaring issue. This, unfortunately, is incredibly unique to each person. For me, after a certain amount of time I go into a kind of sexual hibernation. Since my LDR began there have been two instances where it was more than 6 months between seeing one girlfriend. Sexually speaking, there wasn't much of a difference between 2 months and 6, after a certain point I can be just fine without it (like a vegetarian giving up meat I guess, excuse the innuendo).
I think the larger issue in my mind is that your question seems to bucket sex and physical intimacy together, but I would personally hesitate to do so. Honestly, I miss holding her hand far more than I do sex. The emotional value of physical closeness is very much tied to a couple's ability to communicate. Think of a time when you had an emotional conversation with your SO; perhaps he revealed a difficult moment in his life and you were there to support him. Now imagine you couldn't give him a hug, or even put your hand on his shoulder after. This, for me, is a far bigger issue than lack of sexual fulfillment. Physical intimacy is inextricably linked with how humans communicate, and taking that away is hard to compensate for.
Your significant other (I'm sorry we're missing gender specificity but maybe it's fair to assume he's a man since, you know, we're here on /r/AskMen) will have very unique needs both emotionally and physically. We can't hold him to any standards, especially not on a random polling of internet strangers. But for me, maintaining emotional closeness has been far more important. My personal philosophy is that sex (the relationship kind, what some might call "making love") is a physical sort of conversation, one that is inherently truthful and therein lies its intimacy. And as humans we need that closeness. My girlfriend and I have found a pretty good rhythm to keep that going, and you can PM me if you'd like to have a more personal conversation regarding our long distance experience.
Whatever you do, I would advise that physicality in the relationship context is usually expressing emotional truth, so to solve for that absence you must find the best way to express that truth over a distance -- that's a good way to treat the root cause of the issue you're anticipating (instead of the symptom). | Relationships are complicated, read the whole thing damnit. | [
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3rd year med student here. I don't think you understand what's going on here. If it was a positive feedback, the addition of synthetic testosterone would cause an increase in production of testosterone. Negative feedback regulation works to keep hormone levels within an appropriate physiological level. Positive feedback brings it further from the set point.
So if you have a patient with low testosterone, the equilibrium is imbalanced to the left. There is something wrong with that patient whether it is at the level of hypothalamus, anterior pituitary or gonads. So we have to bring back the level towards the midline by giving exogenous testosterone. In a patient with a dysfunctional hypothalamic-pituitary axis, there probably won't even be a decrease in testosterone. Let's say there is something wrong at the pituitary level. Adding testosterone will inhibit GnRH release. But it doesn't matter because the pituitary is either not receiving that signal, or not secreting its own signal.
You are saying it is positive feedback because the process of adding exogenous testosterone is amplified. Adding more testosterone does not mean we have to add more the next time. The "amplification" (the process of adding testosterone) you are talking about exists only because there is something wrong with the system in the first place (low levels of testosterone which could be primary, secondary or tertiary in nature).
In a normal patient, if we added enough exogenous testosterone to inhibit further synthesis and secretion of releasing and stimulating hormones (and thus the synthesis and secretion of testosterone), then that is a basic negative feedback. We intervene in one direction, and the system reacts in the opposite direction. You are arguing that it is positive feedback because we require more synthetic hormone, but we only need to add more when there is already something wrong with the patient and the feedback system will not work, and not because it is a positive feedback loop. | the system uses negative feedback. The only positive feedback part exists outside the system. | [
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The title of king is a European concept and came from the Germanic tribal (word: Koenig) system in the wake of the so-called Barbarian Invasions at the end of the Roman period.
With the ascendancy of Charlemagne, the title of King became intertwined with Papal power. The Pope conferred divinity to the kings; their position as ruler was now part of the conceptualization of Christendom. So the various rulers around Europe who had the title of King were essentially ratified by the Pope after this point. This includes France, Germany, and England.
Spain is the most interesting example. Charlemagne invaded Iberia in the late 700's, conquering a borderland called the "Spanish March". Within that area he conferred several "Kingdoms" and "Counties," appointing Kings and Counts, respectively.
Fast forward a few centuries. The various titles in Spain more or less stayed static, with the exception of the Kingdom of Asturias, which fell apart and was re-shuffled into the kingdoms of Castile, Leon, and Navarre.
Aragon is a more interesting example: in the mid 1100's, the Kingdom of Aragon married into the house of Barcelona, adding the "County of Barcelona" to the King of Aragon's lands. He didn't incorporate Barcelona/Catalonia into the Kingdom of Aragon, because the Count of Barcelona was a more powerful figure AND because the historical significance of both positions, King and Count, held a lot of political and social sway.. Thus he remained "King of Aragon, Count of Barcelona."
Later, in the late 1200's, the Pope convinced James II of Aragon to renounce his claim to the Kingdom of Sicily (a norman kingdom founded in the 1000's) by giving him "The Kingdom of Sardinia and Corsica." This new kingdom was essentially created by the Pope at that time. It wasn't even ruled by Aragon, either--James had to to and try to Conquer it. But not ruling it "de facto" didn't stop him from claiming it "de jure". | Kingship was a title with heavy historical significance; in order to be a legit king, you had to have both political right to rule as well as the blessing of the church.
EDIT: As per peteroh9's correction, it was Pepin III, not Charlemagne, who became King of the Franks with the Pope's help. | [
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I imagine it's just because you're American, so you notice the annoying, stupid anti America comments more than the annoying stupid comments about Europe or whatever. I often feel that if you say anything bad about America you're guaranteed to get someone jumping down your throat and some downvotes, but again, I suspect that's my own bias.
On the plus side, at least America and European countries get a more nuanced treatment than demographics less well represented, eg Australia, whose treatment on reddit tends to boil down to a few tired jokes. To use the Australia example again, there was a stage where even Australians would write their posts or make their submissions upside down for sweet sweet karma, essentially viewing, or at least representing their country to us, through the same distorting lens that we were already looking through.
On the other hand there's much less Australia is rubbish because blah blah than America is shit because blah blah, but again I think that comes down to exposure. A lot of the reddit submissions are by Americans, for Americans, and can often seem to assume the inferiority of other countries. People from those countries want to lash out in a petty way against the dominant group. These insult may all come from many subdivided groups but to the Americans it all just seems to fit under 'concerted and unprovoked (after all, what have they been doing but making posts they and the people they know would enjoy?) America hate.' Unfortunately, the Americans naturally return in kind, and thus a self perpetuating cycle is started, each side feeling aggrieved.
Or, I dunno, maybe you're right and everyone just hates America, I'd still guess it was a jealousy thing though. | Stop eating so many burgers fatty. | [
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I'm glad I wasn't the only one thinking this. Salce is so good and was a big reason why they did so well with their old lineup in EG. Of course, before they also had Dyrus helping out with Westrice on something he is better at. Now EG has dead weight in 3 roles(Westrice top, Clakey Jungle and Mashme AD carry) and it's hard to watch. I have no power or control over what happens, but I am expressing my opinion that Salce deserves to be on a better team.
Aphromoo is in the same boat. I remember hearing that Doublelift considers Aphromoo to be the best AD carry on the NA server and it's easy to see this when v8 plays because he is almost their only hope of ever winning games. Unstoppablex is probably one of the worst junglers in competitive LoL and when you pair that with mediocre play AT BEST from the other 3, you make it hard for Aphromoo to have success.
Would love to see Salce and Aphromoo make a new team because that already has potential to be something better than EG and v8. | OP is speaking the truth. | [
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So, my wife works in retail, and the other day she was complaining to her conservative Christian father about how Black Friday has been encroaching on Thanksgiving. Since he is, if nothing else, a real family man, I was surprised at the man's total lack of sympathy on the matter in his response to his daughter: he basically told her that it's a shame that businesses have to extend Black "Friday" sales into Thursday, because "what most people don't realize" is that the increase in government spending is resulting in inflation and forcing everyone to have to work harder for the money they need. This he contrasted with the 70s when he says people's jobs didn't totalize their lives quite so much--they were able to work less and make money enough to live satisfactory lives.
Anyway, if any of you have to time to offer me a perspective on this issue, i'd greatly appreciate it. I've been lurking for a while & I think this is my first time posting on /r/socialism, but I've been really impressed at how thoughtful & informed y'all's dialogue's have been.
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This isn't about me (really though) but about a friend of mine. We hadn't hung out in years and were having a "reunion" night of sorts. It was a group of 4 girls all taking multiple shots and getting white girl wasted. One of the girls didn't usually drink, but kept up with us shot for shot.
Eventually she left and went to her room and was in the bathroom for a long time. We went to check on her and she was sitting on the toilet with her pants on and the lid down, sort of hovering back and forth with her head in her hands. We helped her up and tried to get her to the bed and pieces of shit started rolling out of her sweatpants. Like big, hard pieces of real shit. She had no idea.
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My boyfriend suggested I look to Reddit for some additional advice, so here's my story (sorry it's a bit long):
I met this longtime friend, let's call him Man, in sixth grade when I was a loner and he saved me from being completely friendless. We hung out with each other non-stop and always talked on the phone. I had an extreme crush on him (because he was the only guy that talked to me) but nothing came out of it; he thought of me as a sister. My sophomore year in high school I got a boyfriend and our friendship got rocky. He proclaimed to love me but when I offered to leave the guy, he turned me down. So I dated the other guy and Man eventually became really good friends with him too. My relationship took a turn for the worse in that the guy was verbally, emotionally and sexually abusive. Whenever we broke it off, Man and the guy continued being friends. Man didn’t really talk to me towards the end of the relationship and especially afterwards. He was rude, called me names, told me to fuck off once and didn’t believe me about the abuse. He was disgusted by the fact that I had sex at all. So my ex and Man were best friends, talking and hanging out all the time. I learned how to get along on my own and turned to different, healthier, friends.
Second semester senior year of high school, Man was “fed up” with my ex because they never hung out anymore and my ex never responded to him. He started talking to me a little more, it was always about my ex, how cool college was going to be or how many more friends he would have. I was terrified of going to college. I am very much a homebody. Since college was 4 hours away, it was like going into space. While he was dreaming up different friends, cool activites, alcohol and parties, I was scared of everything and praying that I could at least make one new friend. We ended up going to the same college but never really hung out. He never reached out to me as he claimed he was wanting to make new friends and also due to our different majors, we were always in different areas.
The first two years of college turned out to be a dream come true for me. I made new friends, went out to places, went to a few parties, and even found a great relationship. Man, however, found college to be against everything he dreamed. He never went out and was too picky about people in his classes, making “finding new friends” impossible. He was unhappy with his major as well so sophomore year, he changed it. Last year, our junior year of college, he started talking to me again. We reconnected and reminisced about high school and everything was fine. But then, he started talking to me everyday like we had in middle school. He wanted to hang out, call and text which was starting to get annoying. Around the middle of the Fall semester he told me that his family had a history of depression, he went to the doctor to get diagnosed, he was going onto antidepressants, and that he had thoughts of committing suicide. It all came in one giant blow. I felt bad about being aggravated about his communication. I was the only one who understood him and made time for him. I swallowed my aggravation and kept hanging out.
In the spring, he was still contacting me everyday. He kept pushing for homework time together and I even took him with me to hang out with my friends. The only time I got reprieve was if I used my boyfriend as an excuse or I needed alone time. When I used the alone time excuse, he would do anything in his power to get me to hang out with him. I got several guilt trips, compliments, insults, reverse psychology tricks, and him literally not leaving my side. I was always “bitchy,” “rude,” “not the same as I used to be.” He sometimes pulls out the exhausted card of “I saved you in middle school from being friendless, where would you be without me?” I usually gave in to these tactics and spent hours with him. There were a couple instances when he’s spent the night and I didn’t want him to. I remember spending a terrible 24 hours with him. It started with homework in the middle of a Saturday and spiraled into him begging to spend the night after drinking at a bar. He stayed that morning and into the afternoon. The entire time we talked about the same things we always do: high school and how he doesn’t like it there. He kept wanting me to take pictures of him and tweet to him. I understand that he likes attention and nobody does that for him, but I was going crazy.
Whenever I succeeded in not hanging out with him, he hung out with another girl. She was nice, fun, and a little eccentric. Man started to hate her. He claimed that she was too clingy. Despite the fact that he found her annoying, he had one desire that was a lot stronger. Sex. He had the stereotypical mindset of a guy. The “I’m not a man until I’ve had lots of sex with a girl.” He constantly was talking about how he needed to have sex and it was making me uncomfortable. He told me about his masturbation habits and used vulgar language to express his want of sex. He once went so far as to scream “I fucking want to stick my dick in a pussy!” in my car. It was disgusting but I offered advice as best as I could. He wanted to have sex with the girl but I was deadset against it. I kept telling him that he should wait for the right person, that if she was clingy to him then she’d be even more so, and finally, don’t do it because she likes you and you hate her. I didn’t want him to hurt the girl because she had told me she liked Man. However, he went ahead and slept with her. He satisfied his physical needs and told her he didn’t want a relationship. At the end of the school year, he told her that they needed to stop and he didn’t want to talk with her. She was heartbroken but went along with it because she liked him.
Now it’s the summer before our senior year. He decided to stay in our college town for a summer class and a job. He is constantly complaining about being there. In high school he always complained about our town and the people in it. Now, he wishes he could be home, he doesn’t like his roommate, the few friends he did make don’t talk to him and he hates everybody in our college town. I was there for a few weeks since I was working at a summer camp. My phone was stolen so I didn’t get texts from him, but he resorted to tons of Facebook messages a day instead. Whenever I left to go back home he said that he felt lonelier. Apparently my presence in town helped him feel more connected to home. That might sound nice, however he had the choice to stay home. He didn’t have to stay close to college. He decided he was too good for our hometown and now he regrets it. He’s not good at adapting to new situations and I’ve tried so hard to help him out.
I cannot handle being his only friend anymore. He texts and snapchats me everyday; sometimes the content is inappropriate. He wants to call often as well. He does this weird thing where he will tell me he’s happy with being friends with me one day, then the next he texts me, “I just made myself angry with you, do you ever do that? Think so hard about something you make yourself angry?” He sometimes texts me self deprecating things like “I know I’m annoying,” “I would be aggravated with me if I were you.” When he texts like that I silently agree but don’t affirm it. I used to deny it and say he was fine, but now I let it go unanswered. I don’t want to lie to him anymore. He is absolutely suffocating me. I don’t know how to tell a depressed, anxious friend of nine years that he’s annoying me and needs to find more friends so that I am not the only one. He does see a counselor but he doesn’t think it’s helping. He is going to me for everything.
I’m terrified that I am going to end up a reason that he takes his own life. He’s contemplated a few times, and what if I’m what sends him overboard? He’s also concerning me when it comes to alcohol consumption. A frequent text he sends is “I need alcohol,” or “I’m craving alcohol.” He wants to drink all the time. When he’s in our hometown he reaches out to one of our high school friends for alcohol and weed. As far as I know, he doesn’t smoke in our college town but back home it’s frequent. I don’t like this behavior and I am struggling to find reasons to stay friends. We aren’t the same people as we were in high school. I’ve changed a lot and I don’t think he understands that. He wants me to be honest with him and tell him all my secrets, but I can’t do that anymore. My secrets are mine to share with whom I wish. More often than not, I share everything with my boyfriend. Man isn’t in that intimate place where I feel comfortable sharing everything and he can’t accept that. As for honest, like I said before, I’m afraid I’ll break him. But I am at MY breaking point. He sends several messages in a row that go unanswered and he still doesn’t get the hint. The biggest streak so far has been over 20 messages in a row. I feel like I am one phone call away from an explosion that will ruin everything. I don't know who to talk to and some of my friends have even taken his side, saying that I need to be patient and happy that he trusts me so much. I'm just tired of being the one he always turns to in order to dump on. | My friend of 9 years is acting worse than a clingy boyfriend and I don't know how to get him help and to stop dumping everything on me. I'm worried about telling him 'no' because he has expressed thoughts of suicide. | [
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Worst part is I basically turned socially awkward. Never had a a girl that wouldnt friendzone me because im either too intimidating or geeky. And I thought having a stable job here in the US would send all the pretty girls running my way. I was wrong. | Was in it for the competition.
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With my first crushes (and even now to be honest) I was far too shy to do anything about it. I would hardly be able to talk to them unless they initiated the conversation. I still have huge problems worrying about being rejected for the smallest things.
Her name was Ellie. Although we'd been in a show choir together for most of the year, it wasn't until we toured in California that I really started to notice her. She and a couple of other girls hung out with our choir's small group of guys throughout the tour. I'd hardly made any friends that year so I was grateful for any sort of companionship.
After the tour I thought that would be the last of my friendship with any of the girls but a few days later, I received a message from Ellie and I ended up talking with her and her friend, Allison for an hour or so through Skype. Ellie told me that Allison thought I was cute and wanted my phone number and I got quite excited because that was the first time I actually thought a girl liked me. Long story short: it didn't work out at all and she rejected me when I asked her out.
Still I stayed in contact with Ellie and we ended up forming a group of friends of sorts made up of several of the guys and girls I'd hung out with. I was very excited once again because I wasn't used to having these good of friends. Although we didn't see each other very often, the few times we did made me more happy then I'd felt in a long time.
There were quite a few people (friends and family) that suggested we should date but Ellie backed away saying I was like a brother to her and it would be weird. I mostly agreed with her although I was starting to fall her too.
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When I turned 18, I did a cycle at 500mg/week, but after that ended, I tried restarting my HTPA to no success, so I hopped back on Test Cyp @ 250mg/weekly, where I have been for the past 2 years.
Have never gotten blood work, because I live in a state where you cannot get private lab work.
Anyways, went to the Doc today for my annual, all my general #s were in range, good BP, thyroid, cholesterol, ect. But I did mention that I think I may have low test/sex drive (due to estrogen, but I left that part out)
I fee good now at my current dose, however I would like a prescription, to allow me to monitor my bloods closely. Doc says I may have low T because of shrunken testicles, so he agreed to get my Total & Free testosterone checked.
I do biweekly injections, .4ml 2x weekly of 300mg/ml.
Basically, I want to know when I should go in to get bloods drawn for my TRT test, so that I have a low enough number to qualify. Doc seems pretty open to TRT, as long as #s justify it.
I'm hoping to get 300-400TT, my last injection was yesterday, when should I go in? (Roughly)
I'm aware of the potential risks now, after doing constant research the past 4-5 years, and I lead an otherwise very healthy lifestyle.
Mainly, I want TRT so I have access to a high quality testosterone, and quarterly blood work, and a high-normal testosterone level, given my age. I plan on using TRT responsibly.
Lastly, I did tell my Doc I have used pro-hormones at a younger age, but I prefer not to tell him about my steroid use, for fear of him reporting it to insurance and having that haunt me for the rest of my life (I am fine with weekly injections, as I would have probably applied for TRT around 25-30 years old, if I had remained "natural").
Please no hate, I accept responsibility for my past mistakes. I do want to live my life at the best quality possible. | How can I bring my TT levels to <400 if I am on 250mg of Test Cyp, last injection of ~125mg done yesterday? | [
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Let's just clear this up for people who have been deceived by bullshit "Chicago style" and "new York" pizza claims, but have not had the real thing(s).
(Note: I grew up in the North suburbs of Chicago, so if I get any of the NY shit wrong, you knife-wielding maniacs are welcome to correct me).
True "Chicago-Style" pizza refers to deep dish. This is a special type of crust, with the cheese next and the sauce on top. And it's hard to find it done right outside of Chicago. The crust has to be right, the sauce needs to be done right and then the toppings need to be the right kind and layered correctly, etc. Some toppings go in the sauce, some in the cheese. It's thick and served too hot to eat. Most people I know use a knife and fork, although once it cools a bit, I suppose you can eat it with your hands.
In Chicago, we are partial to sausage more than any other meat on our pizzas. Sausage on a deep dish pizza usually covers the entire pie, as if it were it's own layer (and we are talking about real, case-less sausage, not that cat-poop shit you get on Domino's). On the North side, I think Lou Malnati's is still the favorite, the South siders like Gino's East. Downtown there is Uno's (and their second shop, Due's). My favorite is to go downtown to Uno/Due's, but Lou's is what I get when I am home with the family. There are a few other individual places that some like best, but those are the main three.
(Also note: The "Uno's" chain in the rest of the US is garbage and not representative of what you get back home.)
It is very difficult to get good deep dish outside Chicago. I moved to the SF Bay Area in 1992, and quickly discovered Zachary's Pizza in Berkeley/Oakland. It's great, but while the crust is almost perfect, the sauce is just so-so, it's not hot enough and there is NEVER enough sausage on it. Never.
A few years ago "Little Star Pizza" opened in SF, and they have excellent deep dish, where everything is as good as I could ask for except the sausage levels. I highly recommend it.
As far as NY Pizza goes, it's thin. And usually filled with pepperoni. It's meant to be quick and folded. The crust is not crunchy (although the edge might be) because then you would not be able to fold it. It's damn good when done right. Sadly, I am not enough of a connoisseur to tell you what makes it right, and I won't even try to name places that have good product.
Then there is just standard "pizza" that runs the gamut from Tombstone in the freezer to Pizza Hut to Your Local Delivery Place. In Chicago, when we ordered delivery, we got what I would consider to be a decent thin crust pizza, cut into squares, and loaded with toppings. I imagine you get decent thin NY style delivery on the East Coast. Sadly, I have not found very decent delivery here in SF. I am sure it's here, but I have found peoples' willingness to eat shitty pizza here pretty appalling. | Comparing Chicago Style to NY Style to the rest is like asking what type of Citrus is the best. You cannot compare them. | [
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Well, I come from a long line of Honda. We have had a few Hondas now, and rented several more over the years.
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You can probably get a basic Honda Civic for let's say $20,000 (In example, calm down people). Now let's compare that to a basic Mazda 3 that starts at like $14,000.
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Honda Civic Base - $19,000
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Yes my acne is older than most of you (okay, all of you.) And I know complaining about acne is nothing new, but after 25 years of battling it I feel like there's gotta be an underlying cause that I just can't put my finger on (and squeeze the hell out of!) Here I am, female, 38 years old, and still being plagued by the exact same skin problems that made me avoid social interaction and contributed greatly to my low self-esteem all throughout my teenage years, my twenties, and now most of my thirties. The dermatologists always told me it'd go away with age... ok so by when, my 80s?? It just seems that at my age it should be a non-issue. Having to fight acne and wrinkles at the same, WTF! Yeah I know, it totally sounds like a doozie of a first world problem, "I got pimples, wahhhhh!"
In all honesty, my acne isn't severe, just really persistent and ever present (see links to pics above). I can't ever recall not having a pimple face (aside from the time I was on Accutane mentioned below), nor has the level of acne diminished since its onset as a teen. It's extremely embarrassing at my age, and I have turned down social invitations and avoided people because of it. Being recently divorced and single again, the idea of being "out there" with a pizza face is absolutely horrifying, and I'd probably just prefer staying home redditing my Friday nights away like tonight (not that there's anything wrong with that!) But still, there's that part of me that yearns to go out and have fun for once without wondering if people are staring at my pimple villages.
Some background info:
Tried a multitude of topical medications throughout the last 25 years, both over the counter and prescription (benzoyl peroxide, salicylic acid, Retin-A, Differin, cleansers, astringents, lotions, etc.) Nothing really helped significantly. A lot of this stuff just burned my acne and made it look a thousand times worse. No long-term improvements.
Used Proactiv on and off over the last 10 years. Seems to always help in the beginning, but my skin would always overrule it after a couple of months and pimple-up again. Also tried some Proactiv knock-offs like AcneFree. Also tried Nature's Cure which is a homeopathic approach that you take orally (you can buy it at Wal-Mart in the acne aisle). Still zitty, still shitty.
2 years ago I was at my wit's end and finally went to see my derm to ask about Accutane. Man, you would not believe how highly regulated this stuff is, you need to go on birth control pills, take monthly blood tests, and take an online test every month that's intended to remind you how Accutane damages babies. This was serious stuff, so I was convinced this was the cure-all of my malady and I was so excited when my dermatologist agreed to start me on the program (yes, there's actually a program). I think I was on accutane for about 4 months, just a single dose per day. During that time I could not believe the transformation of my skin: soft, oil-free, 100% blemish-free, and like porcelain. I had never been so happy in my life! I felt like it was a new dawn, and I was ready to (literally) face the world with a new found confidence. Sadly.... after I was done with the Accutane program the acne just came back within a month or two. I was crushed. I know I could try it again, and maybe take it for longer or a larger dose, but Accutane is a dangerous medication and I'm not sure if I'm willing to risk my health any further for my vanity.
I cannot do oral antibiotics (e.g., Tetracycline) because I'm allergic to many antibiotics out there. I know of only one or two that I can take safely, and of those I need to limit my intake so as not to develop an immunity to them.
Yes I've tried the pillowcase trick I learned here on reddit (using a clean pillow case every night.) Of course it didn't work for me or else this post would not exist!
Overall I am very healthy, of normal weight, I never eat fast food, meat only 2-3 times a week, and my diet is rich in fruits and veggies. I love dairy, but when I stopped dairy for awhile I noticed no change in my skin. I'm not aware of any food allergies, but could acne be a sole symptom of being allergic to something I eat regularly? When I do exercise (once in awhile) my acne just gets a lot worse because of all the sweat (great excuse for not exercising! It causes zits!)
And lastly, my acne is not cystic (not the huge underground painful lumps) but more comedogenic (whiteheads and blackheads that evolve into hideous red bumps that eventually become poppable- if I'm lucky). I have oily skin, and I get acne on my face, my neck, my hairline, my back, and my chest. In other words, everywhere. It's gross.
I am open to anyone's suggestions or comments or recommendations to try new things. | I'm a 38 year old female that has been battling acne for 25 years. Tried everything I know of. Help? | [
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Hi. I am a bit nervous posting here, but my boyfriend suggested I come here to get advice. Before I get into what I am curious about, I just wanted to preface it by stating that I was raised in a Christian "bubble" my entire life. I went to Christian elementary school, high school, summer camps/church camps, college and ofc church my whole life. (I was never even taught about evolution, let alone presented facts that show how God might not exist). But being indoctrinated into something is not the specific topic of my post.
I like to think that I am an intelligent person, but I am more of an artist type/free spirit (I didnt want to stop to analyze). I was always happy living my life knowing that I had the safe feelings of a God to protect and care about me, even in the hardest times of life. Sadly I would rather be happy in my ignorance than face facts that seem frightening to me. But, if someone takes my hands out from over my eyes and I see truths, I can't live in denial anymore. Which is what my boyfriend (of nearly 2 years now) has done. He is a physics major and an athiest (which was quite the clash in the start, but that is a whole different story). He has helped me in a very slow process of trying to at least be open to learning. Now I am glad, but also very sad/afraid.
ANYWAY, I apologize for being verbose, it is my unfortunate nature. Basically he has been showing me information, and teaching me about science and breaking down a lot of the walls I have had built up over so many years. A lot of that was very painful for me.
I am now at a point where I feel as though I am on the fence, very confused what I think. I want to still believe in God, and part of me holds onto it becuse I want to feel safe and happy and not be afraid of dying. But I know that the truth is important to find, even if it scares me. I had a major breakdown last night crying about the thought that I was alone and that I was going to die and that there could be no God and no peace in that.
What I am asking for help though is with questions that I could ask a very devout, but educated Christian about the idea of "does God exist?" My parents are very very Christian. They are kind people, not judgemental or cruel, but they would be VERY shocked and sad to hear that I might not believe in God anymore. My dad has a PHD and went through seminary, used to be a pastor at one point. Is rather smart person in my opinion, but obviously does not agree with what I would be bringing up. I am scared out of my mind to disappoint and upset them, but I want to try to see if we could discuss reason on the topic. Is there any advice in general even as to how I could approach this? :/ I am nervous...
Just to give an idea of what they are like--they pray about everything, they give God the credit often in their speech, they go to church every week, they say things about how God is working in their lives and how they see him in everyday things etc, watch christian movies/read christian books. All that. I feel like I am going to them where I would be seen as the lost rebellious child. I think they would understand me having "doubt" but they would just look at it as though I need to be brought back to God. | I was raised a Christian, but I'm having doubts and trying to learn about facts and science. I want to talk to my conservative religious parents about my findings. What can I say to them or ask them?
EDIT: People have been asking why I am trying to have this convo so early with them. The reason I am pushing into the idea of bringing things up to them is because we are a close family and since they ask about God/bring up God all the time I feel like I am being dishonest/holding things back. Even though I am an adult, it has become draining.
EDIT 2: On a side note, if anyone has any questions about being indoctrinated into a very Christian home/being surrounded in that Christian bubble for 26+ years (and how it has affected me), AMA. | [
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You didn't ask for my two cents, but I've wondered the same thing about myself for many years, and I do have one experience that clarified this for me.
When I lived in Bangladesh for most of a year, I'd notice that straight men would often walk hand-in-hand down the street. It wasn't sexual or romantic in any way, in fact, it was kind of a "bro" thing to do. As I made male friends of my own, I found I just couldn't feel comfy walking hand-in-hand with a man. It just seemed "off" . . . until I sort of got used to it. Near the end of my stretch in the country, it wasn't a big deal and I'd do it occasionally when I'd be walking with a Bangladeshi bro. To me, that made it clear that my previous level of discomfort was a conditioning thing that could be undone.
Now, when I feel grossed out by the thought of gay sex, I don't really sweat it. I see myself as engaged in a slow process of undoing my conditioning, and as long as I'm not lording my conditioning over someone else, it's not like I'm somehow evil because of it. I don't let on to my gay friends that it seems icky to me; I work at an easy pace to make it not seem icky. In fact, I think it's often much healthier to deal with the little biases we have than to pretend they're not there. | I think you're on the right track. | [
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I leave to start my new job in another country in the beginning of August and this past weekend, completely unexpectedly, I met a guy at a party. We've hung out every day since we met and he's fucking awesome. Great sense of humor, really sweet, easy to get along with. Neither of us live in the area we met in and I am leaving to head back to my home today but he's already made plans to come see me before he heads back to his home.
When we originally made these plans (yesterday) I was ecstatic. It's been a long time since I've actually been excited because of someone you know? But I woke up this morning with this sick feeling in the pit of my stomach. I don't really know how to explain it other than by saying that I don't want him to come to visit me. I don't want to talk to him anymore. I just want to be left alone.
It sounds insane, I know. I don't know how I could flip so quickly. I was so excited yesterday, calling my close girlfriends to tell them. And now all of a sudden, I just feel sick about the whole situation.
I want to say that it's because I know that we're always going to be far away and I don't see the point in even getting involved. But I feel like this happens to me all the time. Every time I get close to someone, or feel like maybe there's a chance for it to be something, I completely push it away & am disgusted by it. I feel like that's such a juvenile train of thought. Like, "ew a boy likes me, I can't like him now". You know?
I don't want to be like this. I want to be able to enjoy the situation for what it is and I feel like I'm thinking wayyyy too far ahead (which I ALWAYS do) and it's making me miserable. I honestly don't even know why I'm feeling this way. All I know is it's making me sick to think about. I just want to stop talking to him and forget about the whole thing. It scares me to think that I could be like this for the rest of my life. How am I ever supposed to get close to anyone if all I want to do is push them away? | I am struggling with the fact that I met a really awesome guy and all of a sudden, I want nothing to do with him. He's done nothing wrong, I just want to push him away and feel awful about it.
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I have a budget for "starting" helpdesk positions and it normally runs around 30-60k. That doesn't mean I'm going to give 60k to the one person we hire because we are looking at how that person fits in the team we already have. When I say "team" I don't mean "take shitty pay because we have a foosball table and team building exercises", I mean there's a set amount of work to get done and someone here is going to have to do it.
The guy I'm paying $120k/year is capable of doing any of the tasks but limits on his time means we want him doing only what other people can't. If he's working on things other people can do it means I've created a team with the wrong skills or he's not doing more important things that won't get done which will piss off clients.
When I'm hiring a person I'm trying to balance who will do the tasks we need to do if that person is added to the team. If I find a guy for my full budget he needs to take over tasks from my mid tier members pretty quickly. Also remember that everyone on the team recognizes that the money we are paying the new guy is money that will not be used for raises or bonuses this year so it's my responsibility to not overpay for what they are willing and able to take over.
My team may be happy to forgo part of their raises this year if it means the new guy is really good and teaches them new ways to save time. If all he can do is manage the SPAM filter and clean viruses while they are still troubleshooting harder issues it may save them some trouble but it's not worth as much in terms of money out of their pocket.
I'll also pay more for people I think are going to grow into new roles quickly, especially candidates that will identify tasks that aren't getting done well and focus on being an expert there. The overall work gets done better and the rest of my team gets better because they can focus on what they do well (which is probably what they are interested in).
Why do I ask how much you're making? Three reasons:
1) If this is a huge pay raise for you it means someone made a mistake in judgement. If that means you're really good and your current employer made the mistake in not paying you enough to stay that's a win for me. More likely, it means I'm overestimating what you are capable of and you are being paid below market rate for a reason.
2) I don't want you taking a pay cut, even if you're willing to. I have a lot of candidates that hate their job and are willing to take a pay cut to leave. That sounds great until 4 months in they start feeling the pain of making less money and start looking to leave again leaving me back at the start because I was trying to save money. Not worth it.
3) The best feedback comes in the form of cash. I always like to give new hires some raise from their current salary when they start. But even if I have an extra $15k/year in my budget I'd rather give another raise at six months and again at a year to show them they are doing better than I expected. I can always give more money but "you're not as good as I expected so I need to cut your salary" is not really an option. At that point my flexibility is gone and I need to decide if I fire the employee (not in their best interest usually) or just deal with my mistake. If I just let it go the other employees pay the price by doing more work and getting less pay than if I had hired that guy at a lower rate. | Hiring isn't done in a vacuum and not everyone deserves to be paid the same for the same title. | [
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I was being a tourist and decided to visit Leipzig on a detour. I climbed to the top of the Völkerschaftsdenkmal which is one of the tallest buildings outside downtown Leipzig. I had a bunch of shrooms and was scoping a place to take them from atop this viewpoint. I saw next door a beautiful autumn park and monastery with a belltower. I decided that's where I'm shroomin' and proceeded to devour the batch. I took my time down the monument continuing to be a tourist and made it to the park perfectly on time.
It was so beautiful. The sun was shining and the weather was so clear and warm. I'm putting my shroom face on and I'm starting to stroll and gaze when all of a sudden I see a tombstone and another and another. ' Oh my god ' I thought ' This is a cemetery! What a beautiful place to rest in peace. It's so full of...life... ' I continued to make my way to the monastery and when I got there I could feel the shrooms kicking in.
It was such a beautiful building, so richly decorated with many gorgeous carvings. I'm taking photographs of every possible inch. After a few minutes I'm getting curious as to what the hell is this place. ' Can I see more of it? I want to see the view form the belltower. ' So I start acting like an American and pushing on random doors like I own the place and can walk anywhere I want as I please, but the doors are locked. The shrooms are kicking in, I'm finding it a bit weird to walk straight, and my vision is starting to warp. It was at this time some Kraut walks up to me with the biggest smile on his face and says to me,
" Bist du tot ?" (Don't translate just yet)
'The FUck?' I thought to myself " Bitte wiederholen ?" (Please repeat)
Again he comes at me with, " Bist du tot? "
Is there something wrong with my German? He cannot be asking me this... " Auf Englisch bitte? " (In English please).
He then points me to the office and everything made sense. The logo on the door said Krematorium. " Bist du tot? " means " Are you dead? " I had walked into an active Crematorium...in Germany.
There were people dressed in black and mourning their loved. While here I am, an American on vacation, taking photographs, big smile on my face, and fryin' balls on mushies. | Did mushrooms in Germany in what turned out to be a Cemetery and active Crematorium.
I have other stories. I reached enlightenment once but I don't feel like typing out that one tonight. | [
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About 6 months into our 2-year relationship, I caught my boyfriend (age 24, I'm 23) flirting with some girls online. They were girls out of state. He had never met them and they did not seem to be professionals, but the text of the conversations was very suggestive (ex. referencing his boner or sending kissy faces). I confronted him, and he became hysterically apologetic...crying, whispering to himself about how fucked up he was, telling me he'd never loved anyone as much as me, etc.
He couldn't give me any sort of reason as to why he did this, except some weird backstory about his first girlfriend who broke up with him. All their mutual friends phased him out, and his loneliness drove him to talk to these girls online. Seeing the girl online while dating me, he fell into those "old patterns."
He swore nothing like that would ever happen again, and, thinking the transgression was not too severe, I forgave him. Now, about a year and a half later I find another message between him and a girl from his past (I wasn't trying to snoop. He leaves his fb logged on my computer often, and I sometimes mistakenly check his messages thinking they are mine). He never dated this girl and as far as I know always made it clear that he wasn't interested in dating her EXCEPT for the fact that he took her virginity when he was drunk one night. This girl is obsessed with him- never got over him although its been years later and they are constantly de-friending and re-friending each other on fb.
In the message she invites him to go out with her. He says he's down and that he'll call her tomorrow. Obviously I have a huge problem with this. I first confronted him by asking why their friend status on fb is constantly changing (he claims that she keeps de-activating her fb). I then asked if he still talked to her. He immediately said no and then corrected himself to say that she had tried to talk to him on fb and that he didn't answer. When I came clean about reading the message, he told me he only lied because he didn't want me to be upset. He became dramatic in the same way he did last time I confronted him and couldn't give me a straight answer about why he told her he'd call her, only that he does that with all his friends whether he plans on hanging or not. He acts like his reply was a reflex. I think it's a strange move when he has not seen this girl in 4 years and was never really friends with her in the first place. He says he's not interested in hanging out with her and that he didn't call or meet up with her. I did not receive any texts from him in the 3 hours she suggested they hang out, in spite of the fact that he texts me pretty steadily throughout the day.
What do you think? He seems like a pretty straightforward honest guy in all other aspects, but these two events trouble me. His excuses sound like bullshit, and I have put so much trust in him these past 2 or so years that I am having a hard time reading his motives. Part of me thinks that maybe he's just being dumb and oblivious instead of malicious...but in that case, can I really depend on his judgment where other girls are concerned? | Caught and forgave my bf for flirting with strangers online...1.5 years later, catch him confirming to hang out with a past flame on fb | [
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Hold the phone. Yes, 2010 was a wave election for Republicans. Your comment makes sense for 2010. No, 2012 was not equivalent to 2010. In fact, I'd argue 2012 was a huge flop for Republicans. They lost the presidential race. They lost seats in the Senate despite a favorable electoral map. They lost seats in the House. They lost the popular vote in the House elections 48.3% (D) to 46.9% (R). 2012 was not a year that the American people tossed out Democrats in favor of Republicans, even though Republicans maintained their majority in the House.
> Look at what the projections are for the Senate races in 2014
From what I've seen/read, it's still very much a toss up as far as which party comes out on top. [FiveThirtyEight]( just put out an article last week looking at polling data for the 2014 races. The article basically states that the Democrats are in a precarious position, but also a manageable one. Democrats haven't gone belly-up in key states like AK, AR, LA, and NC. The article says that the Republicans could theoretically net a gain of anywhere from 2-10 seats. So there could be a Republican wave, or a small splash.
Center for Politics flagged as the deciding toss-up states. If Democrats held 2 of these, they would retain control of the Senate (assuming no surprises from outside of the toss-up states). A quick glance at RealClearPolitics poll averages shows Democrats ahead in NC (+3) , Republicans ahead in AR and LA (+2.8, +1.0), and AK deadlocked.
Speaking of [RealClearPolitics]( they have 8 seats flagged as toss-ups. The previously aforementioned 4, plus KY, GA, IA, and CO. Again, if Democrats win half of these seats, they retain control of the Senate. Based on all the RCP polling averages, all of these races are competitive, with polls showing margins of less than 3%. | 2010 was a Republican victory. 2012 was a Republican flop. 2014 is still very much a toss-up. | [
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Okay. Since you're xposting from ELI5, we'll go real slow here.
First of all, you know a lot of big words for a five year old.
What you want is a file server. That's the kind of server you want. But that's only half the battle. You want the files to be served in various ways--like I want chocolate served in various ways. I mean, you can serve those files over an HTTP connection (run a web server with folder navigation enabled.) You can serve those files over an SFTP connection (SSH-wrapped FTP). You can serve those files over a SAMBA connection (Windows-native sharing system.) You can choose some other random service method: Hamachi, DropBox, Google Drive, SkyDrive, etc...
But ultimately, you're talking about running a FILE server. Which helps us to narrow things down.
And you already said you want to run a LINUX file server. Which helps us to narrow things down further.
I would start with Fedora or CentOS, because I like yum (and I run Arch Linux, but we won't go down that rabbit hole.) Others will recommend Ubuntu or Mint or whatever. It doesn't matter WHAT distro of Linux you run, because they all CAN run the same software, but some distros PREFER certain software.
Once you install Linux, you can install various services on top of it. So you can install an SSH service (most come with this installed, you just have to turn it on.) You can install a web service. You can install whatever service you want.
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SSH/SFTP
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Good luck. Any questions: fire away. | Install Linux. Start the SSH server. Use SFTP to transfer files. Port forwarding may be required for off-site magic. | [
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I knew that he's been having a lot of family issues and such and has always struggled with depression. All of a sudden, today, he told me that he needs to cut of our plans. He needs to focus on fixing his life and he's trying to turn it all around. At first I was okay with this. I've been having some second thoughts about sex, so I thought maybe this was a sign. He said he wants to be friends. He's not much for opening up about his emotions, but I told him that I'm always here for him if he needs anyone to talk to. I really do care about him a lot, and it breaks my heart to see him going through whatever it is.
The more I think about it, though, I realize that it's not sex that I really want anyway. I just want someone to care about me. I want someone to hug. I do want a relationship with him, not necessarily boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, but I want something. I wish I could just hold him in my arms and make everything better.
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I don't know how this will go as many have suggested me that I am not realistic or rational enough to do a business but I am betting on my partner to handle that. Have some savings to help me sail through next 6 months, under all ideal conditions (What do you expect from an INFP ;))?
I am also worried about security and how will i fund things, etc, but I have decided to pursue any kind of romantic relationships and all AFTER I get done with this startup idea. If I fail, I can go to some different field with a job like mine. But I don't want to die without having worked for this dream. Hope I will get my lazy ass to work
created this account to tell my story! I couldn't have hit upon this thread any better time. | I think we INFPs tend towards more creative jobs or jobs which let us work like we want when we want. My ideal job is that of Richard Feynmann! :) | [
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