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First the data:
Monitor: Flatron W2242T
Graphic card: Radeon HD 4870
OS: Windows 7 x64 bit
Here is the problem: Whenever I turn on the monitor, it transmits the picture normally, but only for a second before turning black again. If I press "source" or turn it off and on again, this repeats itself. It obviously does not turn off completely, since at least the "source" button works and it shows the standby mode light, but the other buttons only work in the second it also displays the screen.
The problem started yesterday. It was the same day I installed a Windows system update and updated the drivers of the graphic card. However, when I deinstalled said drivers in an attempt to solve the problem and they automatically reinstalled, no change was apparent. I tried the same with the drivers for the monitor to no avail. Also, it started hours after installing the update and the drivers.
A quick google search revealed that there have been tons of problems with the latest driver update, which had failed to install on my computer for months ("kdbsync.exe has failed" on startup, manual install would result in an error message)
When it finally did work, I supposed they fixed the problem. I seem to have been mistaken.
I tried using a system restore point, but the system gave me an error message that it failed. Next thing I am going to try is to attempt to use another one. An Avira scan revealed hidden data in the drivers, but couldn't give me any further info.
To make matters worse, I have no opportunity to test the monitor independently by connecting it to another computer. The only thing I have available here is the Apple laptop of my mother -.-
Help would be greatly appreciated. | Monitor keeps turning off for no apparent reason.
edit: cosmetics | [
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Today, everything about that house came to a tragic conclusion. Their eldest son, who was 19, was found by his little brother after he committed suicide. He shot himself. No one, not even his best friends, had any idea he was even depressed. This came out of the blue for the people who were around him most.
I met the kid, and he honestly was a polite kid. He helped rip the carpet out of this place when we moved in and disposed of it (by putting it in his attic bedroom, but still.) He just wasn't around that much since he turned 18.
His mother was devastated. While I don't necessarily think she's a great parent, she didn't deserve this. I don't think I'd wish what happened to her today on my worst enemy. The image of her, sitting on the sidewalk, crying and rocking with her youngest son in her arms, her face frozen in a silent scream that just comes out as a sad sob. I've thought about it all day. It hurt.
I'm also sad for the middle boy, the one who found him. I'm sadder for him than anyone else. His brother didn't seem to be a bad kid, just a busy one. He looked up to his brother, and was outshined by him and overshadowed by his demon spawn little brother.
How does this relate to being childfree? It relates because this is one of the reasons I don't want to have children. This family is messed up. You can tell they love each other, but none of them are really stable in any way, shape, or form. I don't want the responsibility of not fucking up the next generation.
I realize that I may not be the best mother, so I am helping the next generation by not adding my messed up progeny to the table. | My neighbor's kid killed himself. Reaffirms my childfree stance. | [
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To summarize as best as I can - I have 2 sisters and 1 brother (32f, 30f, 28m); they're all half-siblings of mine. We share an incredible mom who is seriously just an angel, but to a fault, as she has no backbone and lets my sister control her every move. I have a different dad than my siblings. My parents were married for about 15 years before they had to divorce because my sister drove them apart and they stopped communicating. She hated my dad, blamed him for a lot of things including her weird relationship with my mother (she blames her for her own weight gain, her depression, her inability to be on her own, basically anything and everything). So long story short, after thousands of screaming matches, nights of her blasting the TV to keep us awake, threatening my mother and pushing her to sleep in my room rather than with my dad, and a few police visits, they got divorced. I thought things would get better, they didn't.
My sister and mom tried to repair their relationship, but my sister has never stopped being awful to my mother. Emotionally and verbally abusive. She has pushed her once or twice but nothing more than that, though she does make a point to make comments like "well at least I'm never physical with you guys." She says horrible things, swears and screams and says she wishes she could punch my mother, etc. I was dragged into a lot of these fights over the years, but I was lucky to be able to get some distance when I went to college. She also got into screaming matches with my brother and eventually he was semi-forced to leave because of the fights he had with her. She has lived with my mom all this time, jobless. 10 years.
__
We've tried a lot of things, but she refuses therapy/meds. She wants to go to family therapy because she wants us all to get help together, but I know that would turn into a shit show because she has so many problems. It's so hard because she can be totally rational and nice and smart and fun, and then the next second she's screaming or pissed for some insane reason. I feel like I'm walking on eggshells constantly, whether it be with the things I say/do or with the expectations she puts on all of us.
My mom decided to sell her house because a) she is running out of money b) she just retired and can't handle it anymore c) she wants to push my sister to move out. But it's ridiculous because she moved out --- to my older sister's (32) house, who already has a husband (34) and 2 young children. It's literally like my mother just moved the situation into a different house. Nothing has changed. She hasn't looked for a job at all. She just stews in her own anger and tries sweepstakes all day long in the hopes that she'll win money. She also has a couponing addiction (seriously), hoards tons of crap and clothes that she can't wear, and in past years went through an online shopping kick where she racked up over $50,000 in debt that my mother and brother-in-law paid off. She has such addictive tendencies and will admit to it, but has done nothing to change. Anything. Whether it be her attitude, her inability to let the past go, or her addictions, she's done nothing to change.
Sorry, I know this is getting so long. It's so hard because it's just been going on for so long. Basically, I need help figuring out where we're at now. My older sister, who is housing my unstable sister, told me the other day that she feels she will be relying on one of us for the rest of her life and will never live on her own. I felt sick reading that. I can't deal with it anymore. I can't deal with the constant judgment, the need to be cautious, the screaming, the tension, the bitterness, the resentment, the irrational threats - I really just can't do it anymore. And it kills me that my niece and nephew might have to witness those things too now that their aunt is living with them. But the issue is, moving her to my sister's has changed nothing (as expected) and we do not know where to go from here.
My main question for all of you guys - Is there anything we can do? Can we take her to a mental facility for intensive in-patient therapy? That would be incredible, but the issue is I know she would refuse to go and put up an enormous, explosive fight. What else can we do, though? I know they can kick her out, but she literally has no one - no friends at all, nothing. What should we do here? Is there any place she can go/we can make her go? Is there a way to get a court-mandated order for her to go to intensive therapy and to go on meds? (She refuses this also, even though I think meds and therapy can work wonders if you put in the effort!)
I just hope there's something, anything we can do. Any way to force her to go to therapy. Because I really don't see a thing changing otherwise, and it scares me to think of what I would have to do if nothing changed. Cut contact? Both my father and my boyfriend have been suggesting this idea, but the thought of losing my mom in particular because of this mess that has built up over the years absolutely kills me. And not being able to see my nephew and niece grow up? I want to cry just thinking about it. I just can't deal with all the anxiety and all of this stress, and I don't know what to do. I just want her to be okay and healthy and stable, but it's not simple and she really does need help.
Any advice would be so, so appreciated. We're all desperate at this point. Thank you! | My (30 f) sister has too many issues to count and needs serious mental help. She is verbally abusive and has been relying on everyone in my family for 10 years, and she sinks deeper every month. I feel that we are at a breaking point and I could use some advice as to what the next best step would be (particularly any information on mental health facilities) | [
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The loft is by far the largest room in the house, literally covering the entire footprint of the building so I take that as my bedroom, the Bulgarian gets the other bedroom and the twins get the couches in the living room.
They did your run of the mill roommate BS, paying rent late, stealing food, leaving food out until our kitchen was overrun with cockroaches. I also have reason to believe that they staged a break in and stole laptops and cameras from the Bulgarian and I, but this goes far beyond that, they were really shitty people.
I routinely found myself preventing them from doing what could only be called date rape, or just plain rape. They would brag about getting girls drunk, fucking them then stealing money/phones/whatever out of the girls purses, real scumbag stuff
There was a lifeguard party at another house and one of the twins got caught in a back room with his hand up a passed out girl's skirt and would have gotten beat down for it if he hadn't ran out the back door. The other twin decided to fight one of my friends in my front yard. I stepped in to break up the fight and was pushing my friend in to my car when the twin saw an opportunity to punch me in the back of my head when I wasn't looking. I really regret driving my friend home instead of beating this kid down for the sucker punch but I honestly think he did more damage to his own knuckles than to me.
So I'm stuck with these two for the summer and that sucks balls, but I'm making the best of it. Specifically I'm charging the twins $300 each a month for rent for the two living room couches and the Bulgarian pays me $400 for a private room. The twins cover rent, the Bulgarian covers electric and the leftovers go in my pocket. The only downside is that I have to play landlord to all three. Before you judge me realize that they were still getting a pretty good deal living with me, this house is two blocks from the ocean and on average rooms are going for $450-650; also I was the only one with my name on the lease so I was assuming any liability.
Anyway, the summer drags on, all my friends go back to school and at this point it's a few random stragglers, the twins, and myself working the beach in the post-season.
There is a small community college just down the road from the beach, so at the end of the season there is an influx of freshman girls out on the beach tanning. The twins egos are at an all time high after getting heaps of phone numbers from naive children and they decide they want to throw a party.
Being the only one over 21, they ask me to get a keg. I agree but under the condition that they pay for the keg, deposit and tap. The night of the party comes and they are keen to tap the keg but I convince them to hold off until all the girls they invited start showing up. It turned out pretty much exactly as I expected, not one person showed up. Not even free beer could get people to hang out with these kids. We clear out the fridge and put the keg in it so it will be cold "tomorrow night when people come over". I wake up the next morning for my day off and the twins head off to work.
Halfway through my morning routine I start thinking about all the bullshit these kids have pulled over the course of the summer and I come up with a plan. I call up my supervisor at the lifeguard agency, we talk for while and agree that they don't have any real need for me until next summer. I walk across the street to my landlords house and tell him that I'll be leaving a week early and ask him if he could come inspect the house for my security deposit before I leave.
My landlord shows up just as I finish packing all my stuff into my car, he checks out the house and gives me my deposit back in cash. I tell him the twins are staying and that any future rent or damage will be their responsibility, he's a pretty laid back guy so he agrees. He's about to leave when I say "hey man, can you help me out with something". I tell him about the twin's failed party and suggest that a keg of beer is far more than they know what to do with. He has a good laugh and the two of us unload the keg from the fridge and load it into my trunk. There were a couple cases of beer as well, I give those to my landlord for his help.
I'm just about to leave for good when I notice an opportunity for a cherry on top. There is one lone Coronita (one of those miniature Coronas they put in margaritas) sitting unopened on the counter. I take it and carefully put it in the empty fridge, right where the keg used to be, can't leave the twins completely empty handed.
I lock my old house for the last time, give my key to the landlord and start calling my friends in my home town to tell them that we are having a kegger.
Two hours into my ride home I get a call from one of the twins. He went through all five stages of grief during our short conversation. Denial: "You didn't take the keg did you?" Anger: "You stole our keg motherfucker, I'll kick your ass!" Bargaining: "Bring back our keg or I'll call the cops (good luck dickhead, the deposit is in my name)". Depression: "We are having girls over tonight, how will we be able to fuck them without alcohol", and finally Acceptance: "Fuck you, keep it!"
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Background
We went NC with my husband's family about a month ago. His mother is BPD/HPD and has narc traits; his dad has NPD. There is a long history of drug abuse, infidelity, some physical abuse, manipulation, control, and lies. Despite this, my husband had always been close with his family (they are of hispanic origin and take family ties very seriously) but after we got married, we both slowly started to see just how unhinged his parents and his two older siblings (ages 19 and 18) are.
We distanced ourselves for the first few months of our marriage, and really would only contact his family so that we would be able to see "the kids" (his two younger siblings, ages 11 and 7). They would spend the night at our apartment and we would take them to do fun things (while his parents essentially ignore them the majority of the time). I became so attached to those kids. Nearly every time we would drop them off at home I would cry; we day dreamed about being able to adopt them.
Over the months, his parent's relationship has gotten worse, and the kids have been getting worse. They've lost tons of weight, were generally angry when we would pick them up, would "shut down" and become very reserved the closer we got to home when dropping them off (after begging to stay and not go home), and worst of all they would drop hints about his parents not wanting them to talk to us that much (the younger even asking the older for permission to say certain things, the older saying "Mami doesn't like it when we talk to you...," etc).
We went NC when, a week after having them spend the night, the youngest had asked us to come trick or treating. We were planning on going, but my husband's mother seemed to have other plans. She essentially caused a fight so that she could say to not bother coming over. When my husband voiced his worry over the kids losing weight and seeming unhappy, she kind of lost it. She accused us of being drug addicts, etc.
Long story short, we probably made some decisions we shouldn't have (saying things that we shouldn't have because it didn't get us anywhere, even though it was the truth..), bringing up our issues with my husband's parents and worsening the situation. His father suggested that they take a "break," to which my husband replied "A break indeed" and asked that they do not try to contact us again. This was an extremely difficult decision, as we felt guilty for "leaving the kids behind," and it would kill us to not be able to see them, when we knew so much about the family situation in which we had no choice but to leave them in.
We simply realized that there wasn't anything we could do. His mother had had countless battles over the kids with his father and she seemed to always win. I always thought if we could just put up with them, that us being there for the kids would make a difference. We realized, however, that with the little amount of time they were spending with us, they were getting worse, and they were becoming SO withdrawn from us. For me at least, I realized that we couldn't save them. Not against a force as strong as his mother, especially with the rest of his family behind her.
What we also came to realize was how much, by even being as LC as we were, we had to play along with his parents' mind games and manipulations, while they talked nastily about us behind our backs, constantly belittled us, never showed an interest in having a meaningful relationship, constantly showed us both signs of disrespect, kept many things from us.... We realized how much of a huge stress they had been on our relationship. We realized that for the sake of our future, we had to break away.
It was a nasty break, and there is no doubt in our minds that his mom has been telling the kids horrible lies about us. It killed me to not be able to speak to them. My husband and I had nightmares and cried for days. Every night before I fell asleep I would imagine a situation in which we could see the kids alone, and would spend my last few waking moments going through all the things I wanted to say to them if I could only get the chance.
Since asking that we not be contacted, my NFIL had tried to call my husband couple of times, and texted a couple of times as well, but we simply ignored it. We were waiting for him to try to use the kids to get to us and yesterday he did so, sending a text asking to come over to visit, just him and the kids. It seemed innocent (doesn't it always with an N?), but we knew this was his last resort, to use what he knew we most cared about to get what he wanted. Knowing we would never be able to have an honest conversation with the kids with him there, and that it would probably turn into a fight, we ignored the text, and changed my husband's number.
The Situation that happened today
We stayed up late last night and were still in bed in the early afternoon when we were awoken by a knock on our back patio door. At first I thought it might be maintenance, but when my husband opened our bedroom door to look, he saw his little brother standing outside, looking in through the blinds. His brother had not seen him, so he came back into the bedroom. My first instinct was to run to them, but .. we knew it was a well-planned trap. His father continued to run around the building from our back door to the front outer door of the building, knocking and trying to look inside.
We had talked about what we would do if his family showed up at our place, and he had said he would just call the cops. This didn't seem like a good option because we didn't want the kids to have to deal with that. We knew that his dad had brought them simply as a buffer to be able to give my husband a piece of his mind, and also most likely to make him look bad to the kids. (Think: "Why don't you apologize to your mother? Don't you want to come home for Thanksgiving?" being posed in front of the young children).
We stayed in our bedroom; I realized that none of our neighbors were home, so I called my parents to come over. Looking out the window, I saw that my FIL and one of the kids was in the car, trying to get the younger one to leave, but she was now pounding on the front door. (Our apartment building has locked outer doors, an important point in how this plays out).
I told my husband, "Your dad is in the car and (_) is at the door." and ran to the front to let her into the main hallway of our building, just as she was about to go with her dad. Before her brother and dad came in, she was acting all happy like nothing was wrong and saying, "Where were you?? Were you sleeping or taking a shower? We came to visit!" It broke my heart and I didn't know how to reply. The kids are very aware of how they are expected to act in certain situations (a common trait among children of Nparents I'm coming to learn), but I knew her well enough to know she knew something was wrong.
Her brother and dad came into the hallway and I texted my husband to lock our apartment door. The conversation between us consisted of the children trying to be fake happy, me stalling, and my NFIL saying over and over, "Where is (_)? Doesn't he want to come out and see the kids? Oh, well, I guess he doesn't want to come out kids, lets go.." Finally, as they were about the leave, my husband comes out of our apartment into the hallway.
The victory that doesn't feel like much of a victory
This is the moment where my NFIL made his mistake. He stepped away from the outer door onto the sidewalk and was on his cell phone. While my husband was hugging his siblings, I made sure the door had locked.
I let my husband have a moment, and then pulled the kids to me, squatting down to their level. I said, "Listen, I need to tell you guys something." The rest is a blur to me, but my husband claims it was perfect. I told them that (husband) and their mom and dad were fighting, that my husband didn't want to talk to mami and papi right now and because of that, we didn't know if we would get to see them anymore. I told them that it had nothing to do with them, my husband added that it was just grownup stuff, and they might not understand but that is ok. I told them that we love them, always, no matter what, and that we have wanted to see them everyday, that we miss them so much. I told them that I love them always and I really mean it.
As soon as I started speaking with them honestly, their walls of fake happiness collapsed. The older one was having trouble looking at me (my husband says he gets this way when he is processing sometimes, but he may also have been harboring anger over the situation, and his parents have told him to blame me) and the younger one was just staring, nodding, on the verge of crying the whole time. The look on her face is one that I recognized from when I was a child, it was a look that said her feelings were being validated, that she was overcome with relief that I was saying exactly what she needed to hear (her mother likes to demonize people and had probably been telling her that I was mean and we didn't want to see them), she seemed at peace and so sad at the same time.
At some point my FIL was jiggling the door handle trying to get in. My husband said out of his peripheral he saw him pacing and watching me. One thing FIL craves is control, and he lost control to me, the one person I don't think he believed had the balls to do what I did. When I took the kids to the door and opened it, my FIL would not even look at me, didn't say a word and left.
My husband and I have been going through a whole mix of emotions, mostly feeling nauseas and empty inside. He says that it must be some of our good karma coming back to us, to have had a situation like this line up so perfectly that I had been able to voice to them what we had been wanting to say for so long. Just to reassure them that no matter what their parents said, that we loved them and it wasn't their fault.
I know this should feel like a victory over his parents, but I feel nothing. I don't give a damn about his parents, or winning some battle or war that they seem to crave having and always have craved, this stupid drama at the expense of their family. I feel nothing because the kids have to go back to that house with those crazy people. All that matters is those kids, and it's always a lose-lose for them. This breaks my heart. We both feel relief that we had the opportunity to have closure with the kids, whereas we had been thinking we would never get to explain what happened because of the way we went no contact. It was honestly a miracle.
My words will probably get twisted, the story of how NFIL got locked out will also. Looking back, I wish we had recorded what I said, but I was so in shock at seeing them there that I think it was only because of my daily musings/practice that I was able to say exactly what needed to be said, I wasn't able to do much else. We know that the kids know what happened, and what I said, and that it was only for them, and that is all that matters.
Advice?
My husband tells me that he had never seen my NFIL have a reaction like he did today when he was so obviously furious; he says that his father and his mother are the type of people who must have the last word, always.
I am worried about what will happen next. My NMIL had told me to "stay away" from her family, and today her husband witnessed me specifically taking control of a situation and speaking to his children where he could not interfere. She is most likely going to be furious. I don't know how they will contact us again, or who will show up at our apartment next.
I would not be comfortable calling the police if they have the kids with them. I think I would, however, if his mother or his oldest brother (a wanna be rapper who owns guns and likes to tweet about it) showed up here, regardless of whether the kids were with them or not.
They have no way to contact us, except through email (which I don't think they thought of seeing as NFIL decided he NEEDED to come here physically) and some extended family on FB.
I looked up what we would need for a no-contact order here in our state and it seems like we may or may not qualify if something else happens. "Stalking" must be 2 or more instances where we felt terrorized or fearful.... We do have my parents and my neighbors who could vouch that my FIL was here today. Would that count? We definitely were both going off of an adrenaline rush while it was happening...
We have also been wondering if anyone has been able to successfully break a lease because of stalking. We are here for another 3.5 months, and I think if this happened today, most likely just because Thanksgiving is coming up, Christmas will probably be worse.
I am hoping that they will just start ignoring us, but ... I think we should start planning on that not happening.
Other than that - I am simply asking, what would you do?? If you were in our situation. Thanks. Congrats to making it to the end of this, it is very much appreciated. | After going NC with BPD and NPD in-laws and changing my husband's phone number, NFIL shows up at our apartment with my husband's young siblings (ages 11 and 7). Through a sequence of lucky coincidences, NFIL gets locked out of apartment building, and we are able to have an honest, respectful, and somewhat emotional talk with the kids (who we have fostered a close relationship with) about why we may not be able to see them anymore, assuring them that we love them and it isn't their fault.
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I certainly wouldn't be surprised to learn that they use that fee to make up some of the low margins they get on the Kindle hardware. I find it fairly hard to care though. It's not like a text message rate or data rate on your cell phone where the costs add up to money you owe. It's just a small decrease in the per-sale revenue given to the author.
A typical kindle book appears to be around 500K. It's not clear to me if that charge is factored into all sales or only those sales that go over Whispernet, but presumably most do anyway, so we can assume the worst case and that it's all of them. Suppose you set the price to $15. That means you get 0.7*15-0.07=$10.43 per book sold, versus $10.50 if they gave away the bandwidth completely. That amounts to roughly a 0.6% increase in Amazon's fees (i.e., instead of 35%, you actually take about 34.4%). If you sell 100,000 copies of your book, you give up an extra $7000 or so in revenue on a total take of a bit over a million dollars.
If they're consistently selling your book at a fraction of the selling price, the relative costs to you go up of course, as the distribution costs are constant. But even if they're selling it at 80% off, you're still only leaving $7000 on the table on $200,000 in revenue.
(It's also worth mentioning that Amazon pays for the bandwidth for repeat downloads, downloads to other devices, etc., and the costs of that bandwidth aren't charged to the author or the user and have to be factored into the overhead of running the system. I'm not suggesting that makes up for all the difference in their per-megabyte pricing, but it does make any sort of analysis more complicated that it might first appear.) | Yeah, they're charging inflated prices on the bandwidth, but in the grand scheme of things, it's not exactly a huge drain. | [
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It was definitely over whelming at first. The way I approached it was that I tackled each step one at a time until I was comfortable enough to add on the next step. As you keep on practicing, you start to get the feel of whether you're in the correct "slot", if you missed a step, and what went wrong.
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Friendly JOI's are incredible. I love loving/friendly JOI's, and have never been into the harsh, emasculating, stuff. Unfortunately, most of the providers to this fetish and most of the consumers seem to be into the humiliation variety.
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Hello,
As the title states, i have a question about re-downloading Lion. As you probably noticed, Apple pulled lion from the mac app store the day and time that Mountain Lion was released. I bought Mountain lion and Lion, and did not enjoy Mountain Lion as it was lagging my Macbook C2D out. So i downgraded to Snow Leopard using the original CD that comes with the MacBook.
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I agree with your first half of the argument - don't wanna argue about the continent making.
But about continent locking. First off, I didn't mean useless in the sence of "having no use outside of the game". That is a fact. Whatever you put into a game is basically wasted, because its virtually trapped.
But what I mean by useless is: When you capped a continent, you are not going to have a use for that locked continent. Its empty and of no use inside the game. Sure its awesome to have pushed the enemy forces out and accomplished something, no doubt...but it is a restriction in gameplay variety.
Current models of continent locking put each empire's home on either Indar, Esamir or Amerish and basically force them to fight over Hossin (the Battle Islands are too small to actually be a worthwile connection).
Each empire will probably never (except during large Night-Ops, when everyone else is sleeping) be able to fight on an enemies home continent, because it is already nearly impossible to push an enemy faction back to their warpgate (with equal pops, ofc).
So, continent locking is only restricting your choice on where to play the game...if people want to get that feeling of accomplishment, I say, make base captures a long process. Make it, so that actively capping a base takes constant pushing, constant fighting and most importantly a lot of time. I love those caps where you try and fail and try and fail and eventually after a few hours you manage to win.
Bases should be huge, complex and with different layers of defense. It should be more like, cap that, then break through this, then destroy that, then hold this location for that time, etc. and not just "cap A and wait 4 mins".. | make bases that "long term accomplishment", not only continents. | [
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Seeing as I've mentally never grown past the age of 11, I enjoy fantasizing the shit out of everything while I play, in ways only a child possibly could. I apologize in advance for this painfully lengthy post.
The characters I make have personalities, as well as some quirks. For example, I had a Breton female Wizard named Amélie who specialized in blunt weapons (maces to be precise), restoration and alteration. She's very kind and soft-spoken, but is really ticklish and cannot stand being sneaked up on; she'll keeping swinging whatever blunt object she can get her hands on at whatever startled her until it stops moving. There was an Orsimer in her hometown who made her swear to do something with her innate mace skills.
Joining the Fighters Guild did much to fulfull that promise, but little to cure her of her frail composure. She still found herself furiously apologizing and healing people who caught her off-guard. Eventually, desperation made her turn to the Arena; The cruel and unforgiving bloodshed might steel her nerves.
With Guisefolder, her trusty enchanted Glass mace, she faced the trials of the Arena. Her kind nature still bled through as she spoke with the Grey Prince; The look in his eyes during their fight in the Arena, deadened by the revelation of being half-Orsimer, half-vampire, never stopped haunting her dreams.
Unfortunately, a certain giddy and very Adoring Fan got just a little concerned seeing the Champion squirm in her sleep. He tried waking her up...Eyes open wide, then Guisefolder was instantaneously folding his face.
She could heal and properly restore his facial features, but the poor Bosmer never quite recovered mentally; In his eyes, she was still the glorious Champion he so Adored. The guilt that already haunted her dreams in the form of a bloody, beaten Grey Prince became even heavier with the addition of the Adoring Fan's innocent smile.
Then one night, as they were camping just outside the Imperial city after collecting some herbs for Amélie's potions, some bandits had managed to sneak up and kill the Adoring Fan; his scream woke her, Guisefolder already folding the guise of (and obviously killing) one bandit before she was fully awake.
However, this time there was not trace of the kindness the bandits had attributed to her once they recognized the wizard. The other two found themselves paralyzed, spellbound by the Breton. Instead of raising Guisefolder, she took the rusty mace of the fallen bandit and slowly walked toward one of the two.
She swung. And again. And again. And again. And again. The mace, her arm and her face had been covered in blood by the time the paralysis spell worn off on the last remaining bandit. But the Khajiit was still locked in place by fear. Not until Amélie half-heartedly threw the bloody, bent mace at his abdomen did he stir.
Amélie remembered one of her friends in the Arcane University saying that the Khajiiti tactical retreat is the single most prime example of visually projecting the concept of "haste". Indeed it was, she decided.
She had not flinched when an Imperial patrolman rode up from behind her and asked if she was alright.
Since then, there's a grave some ways off from the main road around the Imperial City. The mages of the Arcane University speculated wildly about the reasons their Arch-magister had for visiting said grave, but no rumors touched on the truth of what had occured that night.
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Hello
I read the sticky post about not being able to log into account had something to do with not paying or redeeming the code. And this is my case. I had early access (5 days) and my gf had early access (3 days) I could play to the 6th of april, but when she tried to log in she got that it was wrong information. Naturally this is because she only had 3 days vs my 5 days collector edition?
Well, here is what bothers me a bit. I can't get my box until tomorrow, and I thought, well since they know I bought it (got the early access) I should be able to buy a subscription. I can't. Then I would have to spend money on a Explorer Pack or Regular edition for the subscription plan to appear. Why not just have it available for those they know bought it?
I know this is their first Online game, and I feel it's a great game early on. But still, it is a bit annoying to wait to "activate" my account before buying a subscription plan. | Can't buy subscription plan, because my game has not arrived yet. | [
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So here's my problem. Over the past 2 months or so my voice has randomly become robotic on occassions (not from lag). this robotic voice would persist until I moved the usb cable into a different slot.
This would work for about 30 minutes before i was forced to swap the usb ports again. Now, the past 2 weeks, my voice is basically robotic 100% of the time. In order to try to figure out this problem I've tried an array of things such as switching the server location, reinstalling discord, getting an exteranlly powered usb hub (in case my PSU wasnt enough), updating drivers, and a few other things but nothing seemed to work.
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Stuff: My microphone is a blue yeti, using windows 8.1. | Blue yeti mic sounds robotic only on discord desktop app but nothing else. Done several things such as fresh install of discord and updating drivers / changing server region but nothing works.
If anyone has a similar problem I would love to hear about it or if anyone has any possible solutions they might think work (no matter how farfetched) let me know. I really love discord, especially its desktop version so it would be a shame to have to go back to skype. | [
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Hey r/travel! Next Monday, June 11, my friend and I will be driving from Cleveland, OH to Los Angeles, CA. We plan to get there on Saturday so it is a short week-long trip.
We are going to take the I-80 because I think that would be most efficient. So as far as I know we are at least stopping in Denver, SLC and Las Vegas. My friend wants to stop in Chicago the first night so that is possible too (but a bit too close to our departure for my taste).
I was wondering what you guys think good stops to make would be (cool places to visit or specific sights to see or awesome must-try foods ). | Tentative stops/schedule:
Monday - leave for Chicago and spend night there.
Tuesday - leave for Denver
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He also criticised how the Irish government wasn't doing enough to end poverty. This is in spite of him and the rest of U2 not actually paying any tax in Ireland because they are run by an offshore company. | The man's a fucking prick.
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I guess to just throw in my $0.02,
I don't think pipes are ever going to truly leave us, and I believe that piping at this point kind of has micro-communities compared to the full fledged communities we see for cigars, cigarettes, hookah, etc. I know a hookah might be an odd addition to the list, but I just feel like this might become a part of the conversation if we go over various smoking methods.
The biggest thing with getting people to start pipe smoking is to have somewhere to start. I live in the Bay Area and despite the hours I have spent searching for any sort of smoke shops that sell any quality pipes and tobaccos I still order everything I use online. This is because the pipe smoking community in the Bay Area is pretty bad, especially if you don't like going into San Francisco (I have a thing about tall buildings and crowds of people). For me the only shops that sell anything are the novelty shop in the mall (poor tin selection, decent selection of pipes but they're all really low quality, house blends taste rather unappetizing, etc) and one head shop that has Captain Black and Captain Black Cherry. For any aspiring pipe smoker in my area you have to buy online for everything. However this has not stopped myself or any of my fellow pipe smokers.
Now a little story about how I started smoking a pipe. My friend's stepfather had a pipe that we used to borrow for weekends and smoke, and we both really liked it so as soon as we turned 18 we decided to get our own pipes and let the poor man keep his own pipe. I immediately bought a pressed meerschaum Wolf pipe, and my buddy got a shitty little $10 Chinese Pipe off of Amazon (yes, laugh). My pipe broke pretty quickly just because of regular use, and although my buddy still has his he barely smokes it anymore. I went on a tiny spree of smoking when I bought myself another pipe (turned out to be a pretty expensive and fancy W.O. Larsen, which was nice because I got it for $100). However I managed to break this pipe and sort of went on a hiatus and started smoking cigars because they were a lot easier for me. Then I discovered Reddit, and decided to see if there was a sub for pipe smoking, and it turned out there was so I threw a bunch of money at pipesandcigars.com after learning they were good and started up my most recent bout of pipe smoking. Now I think the most important thing I need to mention is that whenever I was smoking a pipe, even if it was terrible tobacco, it was an incredibly rewarding experience for me. If I hadn't had this good experience the first few times I'd smoked I would have just said fuck it and never smoked again. However that good experience is what I wanted to try and recapture, which brings me to my next point.
When I began smoking there was nobody to teach me, nobody to provide me with what I'd need to smoke, everything I learned about pipe smoking is something I had to figure out myself. This is because like I said, there really was no community and I didn't really want to look to the internet for help on this. However I persevered and I would call myself a pretty fair piper in general, and now I'm starting to introduce people to the hobby. Another of my friends (who I got into pipe smoking) just recently brought around another guy and we taught him the basics of pipe smoking and then a couple of more advanced things. On top of this I have a couple of younger guys that are interested in learning how to smoke a pipe, and I'm starting to feel at the forefront of something. Not that I'm so available to anyone that I can pretty much professionally teach pipe smoking or anything (though I think we all dream of having a job like that) but bit by bit I'm introducing more people, and they in turn are going off and introducing more people to the pipe, and it's starting to grow exponentially at this point.
As for movies and media helping our hobby in terms of numbers, I'm not particularly sure about that but I can easily see the logic in it. But I think there's a danger there, with people getting into the same situation as I found myself in (or maybe just not wanting to reveal that they'd want to pick up a pipe after watching a movie) and so go find some shitty pipe labeled as a great one, then pick a bad tobacco because it's not labeled properly, then have a horrible experience and never try it again. However in the same vein places with actual tobacconists and good B&Ms would probably have a higher rate of success because there are more people who can teach you how to do it well. | I don't have a B&M near me and I'm bitter about it. | [
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He also chews baseboards and walls a whole lot. I live in an old building and there is a possibility of lead paint so this is a huge concern. For the time being I have made some (not aesthetically pleasing) blockades to keep him from being able to chew the baseboards and walls and have tried lemon juice but no success.
Lastly - he loves to dig at and pull up carpet. I have a few bald spots on the floor already which is going to not be great when it comes down to my security deposit. :( He loves to dig in his cage so I always put lots of bedding for him to play with. I also leave lots of boxes on the floor hoping he'll dig in/play with those instead.
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Hello there.
I'd like to start off that I am a 21 y/o female. I have been having many medical issues over the past year, and have been bounced from doctor to doctor without anyone finding anything. It's getting incredibly discouraging, and I'm looking for advice from someone who has maybe been through the same thing, or may know what I could have.
About a year ago, I had a weird pain in my chest. It was followed by my face feeling very hot to me, but it wasn't hot on the surface. I dealt with it for 2 days, then went in. The doctor told me I had signs of a very mild heart attack that would have happened at the beginning of the pain. I've had doctors look into it since, but nothing has been found of it.
After that, I started having a mixture of odd symptoms almost every day. Dizzy, headaches, nausea, diarrhea and EXTREME fatigue. I would be feeling fine one minute, and passed out the next. It's not uncommon for me to wake up somewhere not my bed because I fell asleep on my way to it.
After about 6 months of this (mind you, being tested fairly regularly, with nothing "appearing" to be wrong with me), I ended up back in the hospital with absolutely crippling pain in my right side. My roommate is a nurse, and she told me it might be my appendix, so to go in. Again, they did all kinds of tests. They did a pap, an ultra sound, a CT scan, and all kinds of blood work. Again, they found nothing. They figured I had torn an abdominal muscle, gave me some T3s, and sent me home. However, the next day, I was fine.
I started trying to see if foods were causing it, as I noticed some of these things happened more after I ate. But I found that no matter what I ate, I ended up the same. Some days after a certain food, I'd feel great. The next day I'd be puking, shitting, and falling asleep simultaneously.
As of last week, I went in for a UTI. I get UTI's quite regularly, but this time, I was peeing considerable amounts of blood. I went in, they gave me antibiotics, and I went home. However, they called me 3 days later to tell me I did NOT have a UTI. They tested my urine again, still no infection, and still traces of blood (even though this time I couldn't see it).
Now they're doing ultrasounds again, and I'm waiting on results. The ultrasound technician said there was some odd debris in my bladder, but nothing too concerning, and that my doctor would give me a call.
Also, for the past few weeks, my right hand has been completely numb. It's kind of on and off, but it's a really odd sensation when it happens. Kind of like it's asleep.
I'm just super concerned. What could all this possibly be? I'm starting to feel like a hypochondriac with all these constant symptoms, but no one ever finding anything. :( I am willing to answer any questions and clear up any misunderstandings. I'm not trying to use this as a substitute to doctors, just a supplement. | Nausea, diarrhea, headaches, fatigue, blood in urine, occasional chest and side pain, and nothing coming up on tests. | [
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Just going to throw this as a prelude: I am currently Silver 5 although I could probably be Gold if I had actually played ranked often. I gain about 30 LP per win and lose around 11 LP per loss so my MMR is higher than Silver 5 but I don't think its much higher than high silver/low gold. So I am unsure how this lane will work above or below my elo. This is by no means a thing that will change the meta, its just a fun lane to play on occasion that my friends and I have had nothing but success with in normal games.
The lane is Mordekaiser, Blizcrank, and Thresh
What you will need:
-Mordekaiser
-A Competent Mordekaiser Player
-Blitzcrank
-Thresh
-Inspiration (Mastery in the Utility tree)
-A Midlaner and a Toplaner that can hold their own without a jungler (not needed but recommended)
Whether you knew it before or not Mordekaiser gets full experience for minions he kills, this keeps him above the level of the enemy laners. Now this is where the inspiration mastery comes into play. It gives a person more experience for being around a higher leveled ally. And as naturally Blitzcrank and Thresh would be under-leveled brining inspiration keeps them at a high enough level relevant. Not only that but Blitzcrank and Thresh both have one point wonder hooks/pulls so even if they are under-leveled it doesn't quite matter as all they need is their pull.
In addition Blitzcrank and Thresh are kings of zoning so by just existing they can both zone an enemy away from the experience allowing your Mordekaiser to farm and gain an even greater level advantage.
Summoner spells can vary, me and my friends have found that since the lane is so dominant we usually don't usually need smite and instead run a ignite, heal, exhaust lane although it isn't a bad idea to substitute one of those for smite if you feel the enemy might contest the jungle objectives.
Essentially the roles are as follows: Blitzcrank is the main zone and catch, he should only burn his pull if he is certain he can grab an enemy as it is all of his zoning potential. Thresh's job is to be in a position that he could immediately hook someone out of Blitzcrank's pull and also peel for Mordekaiser if an enemy jungler jumps on him. Thresh can act as the main zone if Blitzcrank misses his pull and Thresh can also be the first to hook but in lane he should mainly be concerned with peeling for Mordekaiser in the event an enemy jumps on him. Mordekaiser's job is to farm and follow up on any pulls.
If both Thresh and Blitzcrank go pull level 1 you can almost guarantee a flash if a hook lands as once one pull hits another is not far behind.
During laning you will want to ensure you place wards in your jungle to catch out the enemy jungler if they attempt to counter-jungle.
After laning phase your strength is in groups and picking essential targets out of the fights to pull into a 1v5
Support items don't usually matter. My friends and I usually take relic shield on thresh and ancient coin on blitz but I don't think it makes a difference (at least one relic shield is recommended).
You essentially win every game due to the fact that you can make an enemy carry and support useless while the only disadvantage to your lane is that Thresh and Blitzcrank might be a little behind in experience but they only really exist for utility anyway.
Well, that's the cheese lane I had to share. I apologize for any formatting or grammatical issues, I am using a phone and don't know how to do any bolding and that sort as there aren't any buttons for it. However I am newer to Reddit all together so even if I used a computer I doubt I'd have known how to correctly format this. | Three man cheese botlane. Only reason it works is Mordekaiser gets full experience from minions he kills and out levels everyone in botlane. Blitzcrank and Thresh have the Inspiration mastery and passively gain experience from being near Mordekaiser. Blitzcrank and Thresh zone enemies out of experience and pull them when they try to get some farm. Makes enemy botlane useless for rest of the game.
Edits: Clarification and rephrasing. | [
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My new and very first salaried job (meaning I have very little in savings) pays $43,000 and my cost of living is very minimal. My only large reoccurring expense is $450 rent utilities included. I don't want to be paying for this thing for years and years but I'd like to establish some more credit (mine is good but I'm fresh out of college so I have no big purchases to have established me yet) by financing some of the cost to replace my vehicle. Is that a responsible plan?
I'm looking at an SUV that I don't love but that is okay with 40,000 miles on it. It has an okay safety rating but not a great resale value or mpg. I commute an hour (highway) to work every day. That one is $19,000. I'm looking at a different SUV with top of it's class safety ratings, good gas mileage, great visibility and excellent resale value. Honestly, I love it and can see myself with this vehicle well into marriage and raising a family. After the terrifying accident, I feel safe in it. But it's $27,000. I'd love to make it a part of my budget if it's possible and somewhat wise.
I will be getting $10,000 from my insurance for my totaled Vue. I have to decide within the next day or so in order to have a shot at getting these cars... and because the rental car getting me to and from work is only paid for by insurance for another three days. Please help a rookie! | They want 19,000 USD for one of the used SUVs I'm looking at. The other, safer overall better fit for me SUV is 27,000. I got $3588 gross this month, which is a pretty reliable figure. (That's a 43,000 salary with no state tax.) My rent with everything included is $450. I'm getting $10,000 for my totaled car. Can I sensibly purchase the more expensive one I want? | [
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For some people, putting their faith in the mystery of a God or Gods is very fulfilling. For others, trying to find God leaves them hollow and confused, because they don't receive any real answers. It wasn't until I began to "over-think things", as you say, that I began to draw my own conclusions and, eventually, find some peace with myself.
I spent the first fifteen years of my life visiting different churches, participating in different youth groups, and reading numerous different versions of the Bible, including various "youth translations". I went to rallies, events, camps, concerts... I was surrounded by energetic, fiercely happy, good Christians all the time, and yet I always felt a disconnect. Something different, like maybe a wall of glass, between myself and whatever they were feeling. I felt like a fraud joining in the prayers and devotionals. Whenever I stood up to tell everyone how God works in my life, I felt like I was reading off a teleprompter. I tried to have blind faith, but it literally left me feeling like a puppet.
I read, and read, and researched, and questioned. I asked my friends and youth pastors. I prayed. After awhile, I even started to research other religions, both Abrahamic and non, because I thought that maybe Christianity wasn't my path to God after all, and that I needed to find Him some other way. I genuinely wanted to find God. I was always scientifically-minded, but I was convinced I could find a way to make God and science fit together. I never did.
I don't know exactly when I became an atheist. I think I always was, I just didn't realize it. It happened sort of gradually. I don't remember having any sort of specific revelation, I just began living life... for myself. I am satisfied with what I know, regarding how the universe formed; how evolution shaped the living things in the world as we know it today; how cells and atoms work. I am satisfied with knowing that there is so much I don't know, because the thought of always having more to discover tomorrow excites me. I find the world- and indeed the universe- beautiful and mysterious, even if it can be explained. I don't mind the thought of there being nothing after death, because that just makes me appreciate the beauty of the "here and now" so much more.
I am incapable of living my life without reason. I cannot get through the day without questioning... everything. This type of personality does not lend itself well to religion, as religion is not supposed to be questioned. The whole idea is to have blind faith... I have a hard time substituting blind faith for the facts that science can prove, plain and simple. | Reason is what keeps me alive, and happy, and motivated. Blind faith keeps me stagnant and unfulfilled. | [
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For starters, I know not to mix work and romance. I started this job last September and have been drawn to this coworker. He's not my supervisor but we work close together. Now I find myself really liking him, alot. We are both clearly very shy so I don't see him ever making the first move. I can't even tell if it's mutual attraction, but he smiles at me with these half smiles and it makes me melt. Relationships don't come by for me often, never even had one actually. I just don't want to feel like I'm letting possible opportunities pass me by.
I am only in a temporary position at the job so I'll be done in September of this year, if I don't get continued. I would hopefully have the balls at that point to make a move since we technically won't be coworkers anymore. This is where my problem is. I can't imagine going another 7 months with these feelings. And I feel guilty saying it, but I actually don't want to get continued so I don't have to live with these feelings even longer. I see him 5 days a week and we work closely so he's always around. And I keep falling harder for him. I don't know how to deal with these feelings or make them subside somehow. I'm confused and I hate that I found somebody I finally want and could actually see myself with in such a forbidden setting. Anybody experiences similar situations or have any advice on how to pry myself away from these feelings? | Huge crush on a coworker and don't know how to deal with the feelings or make them go away. | [
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My ex and I were together for 4 years. I never felt appreciated, she would criticize me a lot and it always felt like she had this air of "I can do better" about her. Despite that I loved her unconditionally and I thought she felt the same. There were some hiccups but that can be said for every relationship.
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It bothers me to think that at any point he could have expressed interest in her and she would have left our relationship in a second to be with him. Despite ALL of this, I still miss her terribly and want to be with her. I'm slowly realizing that this isn't going to happen, she and I will not be together again, and I should be happy, | crappy girlfriend left me for another guy and by all accounts I should want nothing to do with her, but I can't stop.
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Edit: Looks like this idea of mine sucked. Sorry guys, I'll say no more. | [
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The church has long been the only voice on morals that we have had in our (western) society. Like all monopolies over the years this institution has been prone to some moral hypocrisy and corruption.
The sixties saw a self liberation of a generation from the strict purtitan morals of the church and a movement towards looser norms on sexuality (free love etc).
However this emancipation of religion, and new morals on sex and love have both caused the authority of the curch to deminish and the exposure of church officials who where abusing their moral position of power to abuse children.
Also, for one reason or another the 'free love' generation have grown up to adults who, for a reason I can't quite gather, but that I would like some input/discussion on, have decided that their children/grandchildren should be protected from sexual abuse.
I think this is where the internet comes in. This is blade that cuts into the issue on both sides. Firstly, the exposure of children to sexual imagery has seen a huge surge. And therefore children are introduced to sexual ideas on a younger age then the older genreations would have been. Secondly the older generations are unable to keep the sexual endevours of their children in check, because they have little experience with this new medium.
In my opinion the fear of the older generation of the internet is being used by puritan politicians and the clergy to regain the moral highground over this new medium in order to put into place legislation that controls this new medium and restrict the ability of people to use the internet anonimously, for a pletora of reasons (illgal downloading, anonymous protesting, wikileaking).
The most effective fear to push this legislation on is ofcourse the fear for the mental health of their children. It's funny to me that this agenda is being used agains internet freedom, while the church downplays every account of child abuse and gets away with it. | Child abuse is the spearhead issue on pressing agains anonymous internet, and was a catalyst in the secularisation. It's funny to notice that the church dodges the bullet because internet legislation is far more important then actually stopping the abuse of children. | [
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This is a very unique situation. I come from a very religious jewish household. No pork, don't mix milk and meat, sabbath etc. Im not allowed to date, be alone with a guy, kiss, all that good stuff. My boyfriend (lets call him bob) comes from the average christian household. Obviously they want abstinence and a religious person for him to date. We met a year ago through a school co-op (both homeschooled) and within a week were best friends. We had both just gotten out of pretty intense relationships. Bob had a girlfriend of a year with a bad break up. I had a boyfriend of a few months that my parents found out and broke that off.
Anyways we started hanging out a lot. We text pretty much every day. We play xbox almost every night, there is just always constant contact. After about half a year of me friendzoning him we got together and we have been together for over 5 months. A few mornings ago I was woken up to freaking out parents. I had left a lighter in my pocket, they found it, and because of that freaked out and found a bunch of other stuff including my relationship with bob. We did have sex (my first) so they flip out even more about that. Here comes the same situation again, or so Im assuming. I say Im moving out (I love bob with my whole heart, I may be young but that doesn't mean I don't know what I feel) and they threaten to call the cops for a run away. My mom calls bobs parents and tells them what happened. They show up and so does bob and we all talk. Parents calm down but dad says we should get married. Bob basically asks if he can marry me. Woah. Not the direction I was expecting. All parents want this situation and bob and I have discussed marriage and agreed that could be a FUTURE possibility.
Do I want to marry him? Yes. We are both in college and don't want to give up our careers. If I left home he would join me but that would be impossible for both of us to stay in school and our families wouldn't help. If we got married both of our parents agreed we can stay at one of the houses. My parents want to pay for the wedding, or at least most of it. Now I know most of the reactions are going to be "you are too young", but I've never felt this connection with anyone. I cant imagine my life without him and hes never done anything to hurt me, even when we were just friends. Sure we fight, but who doesn't? Our personalities match perfectly. Bob is completely up to doing this all which shows me that he is really invested in us.
The hard thing at this point is I cant see him because we are in a "break" period. After that I can see him but supervised until the possible wedding and until that point no touching at all. Im assuming it will be after my birthday in April when I am 18. I just need some outside opinions on this. What do I do? Am I crazy for contemplating this? It seems like the most logical outcome. No matter what I do I want Bob in my life. | Had a hidden relationship and fell in love. Strict parents found out and want us to get married. Don't know how to handle it. | [
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First of all, you have to realize that a site the size of NBA.com doesn't get redesigned overnight. It would take one person years to simply comb through all of the resources and build out a coherent site map for all of the content. From videos, to player profiles, to team specific information—there's a lot there. And even more importantly, since the site hasn't been updated in half a decade, you can't just move the CSS around to make it look more modern, you have to rewrite every single piece of layout framework within the site to new HTML5 specifications, new semantic standards, and your new design .
Sites like the NBA.com function by having a lot of content stored in databases, with some of the content periodically served to the user. Each page that "serves" content usually has what's called a layout, which specifies the bare framework for what exists on that site, with "holes" (so to speak) for content that updates dynamically. That's how the player profile for Paul Pierce looks basically the same as the player profile for John Wall, but with all of the important data switched around. Not all of the pages within NBA.com have the same layout file, clearly, since they look different. Someone redesigning this site would have to figure out how each piece of layout information works, and then throw that out the window to redesign it to a new standard.
Or, they could just trash the whole site and start over fresh. But this would still take a long time—you'd need to rebuild each and every component, rather than just reformat them.
My guess is that there's a dev team actively working on a new site. But since the old site still exists and is remotely functional , the team is probably pretty small and relatively underfunded.
One guy couldn't do this with 20k. It'd take a guy working around the clock for 2 years at that rate. A team of 30, with a couple million dollars budget could do it in a year or two with normal work hours.
And, as to why it sucks so much—it was cool for when it came out. The notions of lean and agile product management didn't exist so much when it came out, so we're stuck with the old model: spend all of your time building something, release it, and then in ten years totally rewrite it. The current mantra is much more about iteration and response to consumer need. In the mid-2000s, not so much. | Websites are complicated and can't be redesigned easily, especially when they're multifaceted like NBA.com There's probably a team working on a new site. | [
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Background :
My dad was physically abusive towards me and my younger brother and sister when we were younger (elementary school). He once tackled my brother out of the kitchen chair and spanked him while screaming, all for getting a spelling word wrong. When I was sixteen, I stood up for my mom when he was bullying her and he grabbed my throat and shoved me up against the wall. He grabs my sister's hair, pulls it, and calls her a bitch. Overall, he's an ass. The worst part is he never leaves bruises, welts, or blood so nobody will believe us. Also, we are financially dependent on him so if he did end up in jail, we would end up homeless.
I moved out when college started, but had to move back home because of financial aid decreased and rent increased. I really had no choice. He had gotten better, and hadn't physically attacked anyone for a while, so I thought he had been getting better. However, he just changed the kind of aggression. Now, if we show any kind of emotion, he will do everything to try and make it worse. If we are mad at him and somehow express an "attitude", he does everything he can to make us more angry. If we are sad (example I got dumped a few months ago), he will do everything he can to make us more sad.
Problem:
I'm trapped here, and have been looking for an apartment for months with no luck. I'm a college student with a job with irregular hours and therefore irregular pay. I can't afford to live on my own. Rent, utilities, tuition, books, food, etc. I don't even have a car. What am I supossed to do to get out of this situation? I'm completely dependent on my parents, but I can't stand to be home. Is it just a hopeless situation that I will have to live with, or am I missing something? | Financially dependent on parents. Father is abusive. No car, stuck at home college student. What do? Wait it out, or am I missing something?
EDIT: I'm a female. There seems to be some confusion about this. I don't think it really makes a difference, but I thought I should clarify. | [
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Are you talking about the "false positives" discussion? I'll address that, but please correct me if I'm wrong.
Here's the conclusion from that section, where it compares their 1.5million result to the 108,000 result from the NCVS:
> The key explanation for the difference between the 108,000 NCVS estimate for the annual number of DGUs and the several million from the surveys discussed earlier is that NCVS avoids the false-positive problem by limiting DGU questions to persons who first reported that they were crime victims. Most NCVS respondents never have a chance to answer the DGU question, falsely or otherwise.
Using only those who had reported being the victim of a crime for DGU surveys may weed out false positives, but in doing so examines the wrong population. Instead of sampling from the population at large (as Kleck, and DOJ, did), it samples only from the population of people who reported being a victim of a crime. Think, for a moment, about that implication - if you're trying to get a good handle on the number of times guns are used to prevent crimes, it's absolutely absurd to only sample from those who were actually victims of a crime, because in doing so, you eliminate every instance of a DGU where the crime was stopped or prevented. You also eliminate every instance of a DGU where the crime or DGU was not reported (say, for example, if private ownership of handguns in the home was illegal, such as in Washington DC until very recently, or where the defender does not possess a valid handgun ownership permit).
Surveys of criminals consistently report that they run away when confronted by an armed victim. (See: Wright and Rossi, Under the Gun. Though that was during the 70s, more current research that I'm having trouble re-locating at the moment supports that; I'll update if I can find links or cites that I've misplaced.) So simply by leaving out the population of un-completed (and therefore un-reported) crimes, the NCVS's methodology is severely flawed in that it does not sample the proper population, and the reliance on it by the DOJ study writers to determine what is "reasonable" fails even cursory examination. | the DOJ summary says the results are absurd because they don't align with the NCVS or the reported crime numbers. However, doing so fails to account for crimes prevented and/or not reported , which means those numbers are not valid comparisons for all DGUs. | [
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So I was with my girlfriend for almost 4 years till about August this year. Earlier this year she left to a different country to pursue her studies while I stayed back to complete mine. The time difference wasn't bad at all, only 2 hours.
After a few months there, she became distant and she told me she felt depressed and lonely over there. Text conversations became less frequent and skype calls became non-existent. However, no matter what I would always be there for her when she texted me or needed me. I encouraged her to go out and socialize and stuff.
On her birthday, I made her a video showing all our friends and her family back her wishing her a happy birthday and I send a ukelele over as a present. I just wanted to do anything to not make her depressed anymore. I don't like to brag, but I was a pretty good boyfriend in my opinion.
Fast forward a little and it was my birthday, and there was no present for me. Now I'm not the materialistic type and I don't even like presents but the the least she could do was actually call or skype me to wish me but all I got was an emotion-less text wish that she never replied after I replied her. On my birthday my results were also released and turns out I failed one of my core subjects and I had to be held back a semester. This news devastated me and when I told her about it, there was little to no support from her.
I was even doing some freelance jobs to save up enough money to surprise her but due to her negligence I got pissed and I straight up asked her what was wrong with our relationship instead of giving her space. She just told me she wasn't sure if she loved me anymore. She said we would talk about it when she came back which was about 1 month back. A few days later she just told me that it was over between us and when she did come back in that month she did not even contact me.
So I thought to myself, she's just not into me anymore and I should move on. I've been trying my best and sure at times I don't think about her anymore but during those lonely nights or when I'm rushing an assignment, she creeps into my mind and I just lose all will and motivation. I just find it bloody unfair she was the one that dumped me and yet I'm the one spending all my free time thinking about her, is her studies going well? is she eating right? is there another guy in her life? (maybe that's the reason) does she even think about me? (probably not)
Thinking about her just brings me down and in a negative mood that affects my relationship with my friends and my family as well as my studies. I try not to allow her to dictate so much of my life when we are not together anymore but I really can't help it. I have truly forgotten the last time I felt happy. Its like when she left me, I lost my source of happiness, my sunshine and basically my motivation to get better in life. I know I'm still young and maybe I'm just feeling this way because she is my first love and I naively thought I was gonna wife her.
I'm not sure what I'm trying to achieve writing this post. Initially I just wanted advice on how to get over her, but I've read almost every breakup advice out there and I just don't have the willpower to do it. Maybe just ranting here will help me as a medium of release. Maybe some of you kind souls can help or advise me in this predicament. Thank you for taking your time to read this, I appreciate it. | Girlfriend of nearly 4 years left me, I just feel lost and stagnant in my life. | [
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So me being a young and dumb kid thought it would be cool to kick the doors open as I walked through them. As a kid, it looked and felt badass; like I was some action hero or something. I was probably asked not to do it, and I guarantee I promptly ignored it and kept right on going. The doors had a window at adult head level to prevent people from hitting each other with the door when walking through at about the same time. As a kid, I reasoned that if there was anyone I might hit with the door upon kicking it through, I would be able to see them through the window (although just barely, because kids are short and windows on doors are high, but that is less relevant).
So I continue this door kicking for god only knows how long before the day it happens. I was walking to the cafeteria (I think we were having corndogs, which was pretty exciting at the time.) and decided that since I didn't see anyone coming, I would kick the door open on my way through. Maybe it was a higher powers way of teaching me a lesson, or maybe this kid's guardian angel was AWOL for a moment, but that day I decided I was going to Bruce Lee the shit out of this swinging door. I walked up to that door with the kind of strut that just screamed, "Hello world, watch this shit!" and proceeded to drop kick the living hell out of the door. Here is where my badass moment quickly unravelled.
99 out of 100 times, the door swung open all the way and I walked through without a care in the world. Not today. It made it about 1/3 of the way open and stopped with what I can only describe as the most violent, yet soft, thud I have ever heard. Imagine if someone took a cinderblock and dropped it 50 feet onto firm dirt. That sound. I quickly realized what had happened as child, who couldn't have been more than 4 years old, flew a few feet backwards and started crying louder than any child ever will for the rest of eternity. Naturally, being a preschool, there were plenty of teachers within 10 feet who came running into the hallway and saw me, looking horrified beyond belief, frozen in time while trying to process what had gone wrong and what was going to happen to me.
The kid had a bloody nose and I'm sure there was a big knot on the back of his head. I ended up going to "the office" (Which at like 13, is still pretty freaking terrifying, especially when you're having to try to explain to a bunch of adults why you just indirectly Bruce Lee'd a kid in the face with a door.) and having to wait for my mother to come and get me. I was kicked out for a week, and when I returned I had to sign a pledge saying I would never kick doors open again. I also gave the kid two of my beanie babies (Jesus, that probably gives away the year this happened) because they were something "valuable" at the time. | Me at 13; feeling like a badass kicking swinging doors open. One day I decided to give a kick that would have made the gods themselves smile, but an unfortunate 4 year old was all too close to the other side of the door and took the full force straight to the face. | [
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This looks like the RPi model B, so it uses about 700 milliamps. It requires 5 volts to run, and since amps x volts = watts, that means this will use 3.5 Watts. Since watts seem to be a confusing unit (watts already take time into account, so watts per hour doesn't make sense. When you pay for kilowatt hours from your power company, you can take the number of kilowatt-hours you used, the number of hours you used them in, and do kWh/hours to just get how many kW you use on average. This will be important later when i figure out what the RPi requires in kWh.)
Also, I'm ignoring Litecoin for now and assuming 900 hash/s for these for bitcoin mining. That is 0.9 khash/sec since a lot of people measure mining power in khash/sec.
Based on [blockchain.info stats]( we're at about 70 ghash/s for the entire network. That is 70 billion khash/s. The raspberry pi is adding 0.7 khash/s to the total. We also know the network is mining 25 BTC every 10 minutes on average, because thats just how it is set up.
So: You control one 100 billionth of the mining power on the network. On average, you can expect to get 2.5x10^-10 btc every 10 minutes. I was going to convert it to regular notation, but that is so tiny that scientific notation makes just as much sense. Every hour you can expect to make 6 times this, or 15x10^-10, or proper scientific notation, 1.5x10^-9. We're getting somewhere! In an hour you will make 1.5 billionths of a BTC every hour! Sadly, you're using 3.5 watts, and for this hour of mining, you are using 3.5 watt-hours (just multiply watts times hours). Since you are usually charged by the kilowatt-hour, with a kilowatt-hour being 1000 times more energy than a watt-hour, we'll convert to kWh. 1.5x10^-9 x 1000 = 1.5x10^-6. Yay! 1.5 millionths of a bitcoin every thousand hours, or 1.5 millionths of a bitcoin every kWh. The latest average price I've heard of is 12 cents per kWh. Using this, you will pay the power company 12 cents to get 1.5 millionths of a bitcoin.
So, in order to break even, 1.5 millionths of a bitcoin needs to earn you more than 12 cents. (0.12 USD/kWh) x (1 kWh/1.5 x 10^-9 btc), cancelling the kWh, tells us how many USD per BTC is the break-even point. 0.12USD/1.5e-9, which, multiplied by (666,666,666/666,666,666), or multiplying by 1 so we don't change the exchange rate we need but making sure we are getting USD/1 BTC (which is 132 USD/BTC right now), should give us the exchange rate to break even. exchange rate higher than this will give us a profit! Anything less will still theoretically get us BTC, but we'll pay more in electricity for it, even though it uses such a small amount of power.
So, the exchange rate to break even needs to be...
... drum roll please...
80 million USD per BTC. | I don't want to speculate on what the exchange rate of a bitcoin will eventually get to, but don't go buy a raspberry pi just for mining purposes. It is not very profitable.
If I messed up my math definitely correct me. I've been up too long and need some sleep, but to the best of my knowledge I did the math correctly. Regardless, if you do mine with your RPi, you'll be making more than me. Right now I have a server running which earns me nothing whatsoever.
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Also I might note, I live in an apartment so wall mounts are a no go. | I need a triple monitor stand that arcs.
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I never came up with a name for my MIL. So I'm just going to keep calling her She for now.
My youngest son has a peanut allergy. My inlaws KNOW this.
This was about 2 years ago and we were visiting family for a month since at the time we lived 5,000 miles away. We were at my BIL's graduation party. This party consisted of all DH's family but also the families of 3 of BIL's friends also. They combined it into a party for all 4 of them, totally fine. Everybody was expected to bring food to share like a pot luck.
It rained so only my inlaws and DH were able to go since the ceremony was now indoors and there weren't enough tickets for all of us. Totally cool with me, the school had the graduation playing on their own TV channel so me and the rest of the party watched from my inlaws house while getting the rest of the party set up. This also meant I didn't have to wrangle both my kids during the ceremony, win for me.
BIL graduates and they all come home. MIL is starting to put out food and desserts and such. She puts this bowl of mixed nuts out on an end table in perfect reach of a 3 year old. He goes for it. DH stops him and picks up the bowl and starts to ask his mother wtf she's doing.
DH: Mom. Seriously?! You know DS has a peanut and cashew allergy and you put out this bowl of mixed nuts right where he can reach it? The fact that you put it out at all is a concern.
She: Oh, people like nuts...well I guess I'll just put it up here on the counter.
DH: No. You'll put it AWAY. If someone drops a peanut and he grabs it from the floor and eats it what do you think will happen!?
She: Geeze Ok, ok!
So we're watching DS like a freakin' HAWK because now we're on high alert. We don't know what will happen if he has another exposure (his first had been a year prior and there was projectile vomiting and massive face rubbing and swelling but no anaphylaxis but who knows what another exposure would result in.)
Somehow (remember he's 3, fast and covert because...he's 3) he grabs a cookie from the cookie tray that was "brilliantly" placed on a low table where even children can easily access cookies. Apparently DH's grandma made and brought peanut butter cookies and we didn't know it (she's in her 80's and apparently MIL didn't bother to tell her not to make them and they're a staple of hers. In NO way do I blame her for any of this, we love her).
He took a bite and put the cookie back. He comes to me and is acting...off. So I ask him if he's feeling ok. He says "...no." Immediately my mom sense is tingling and I ask him what's wrong and the following exchange happens:
DS: My tongue feels itchy.
Me: Did you eat a cookie? It's ok if you did! We're not mad we just need to know what you ate ok?
DS: No, I didn't!
Me: I PROMISE we won't be mad kiddo but we're really worried about you since you said your tongue is itchy. This is important. Did you eat a cookie?
DH: We love you kiddo, we're not mad.
DS: ...yeah. I ate a cookie.
DH: Show me what you ate.
DS shows DH which cookie he ate and DH comes back to me.
DH: It was a peanut butter cookie. Where's the Benadryl?!
We get a half dose into DS because now he's upset (poor kid) and we up and leave the party, throw him in the car and drive to the ER where we spend the next 4 hours observing him after they give him a mega dose of Benadryl. Luckily DH's cousin is in college, loves kids, and wants to be a pediatrician. I text her from the car asking if she can stick around and watch DS1 because we left so suddenly and please let him know what's going on (he was 6). She's stellar and stuck around until after midnight when DH finally got home.
I took DS2 to my parents and stayed the night with him there because we were so freaked out and upset about what happened. DH went back to his parents because DS1 was there and my parents place is too small.
DH goes straight upstairs because it's late, his fuse is short, and he knows if he talks to his parents he might not be nice. But he forgot his phone charger downstairs so he goes down to get it. As he's going back up his dad drops this:
FIL: We know you're upset but we don't understand why or why you ran out of the party.
DH: completely loses his shit and starts screaming Are you SERIOUS!? Our son COULD HAVE DIED TONIGHT! Do you honestly not understand why we're upset!? Mom put out a bowl of peanuts where DS2 could get to them and then gave me attitude when I told her to put them away! Then when he DID get a hold and ate something with peanuts we ran him to the Emergency Room because THAT'S AN EMERGENCY! And NEITHER OF YOU CARED when we left! In fact you were so oblivious to us shouting through the house you didn't even notice we left! If you can't see how serious of a situation this was then we're not leaving the kids with you ever again!
He doesn't give FIL a chance to reply and goes up to bed. Never once did they bother to ask how DS2 was and if he was ok.
The only silver lining to this was the next morning DH comes down and finds MIL watching a documentary on food allergies. He asks what she's doing and she shushes him. She watched it intently and after it was over she says "I didn't know peanut allergies were in the top 5 food allergies!" ::headdesk:: It's like her head has been in the sand for years. | DS2 (who is allergic to peanuts) eats a bite of peanut butter cookie at party for BIL and after DH returns from the ER my FIL asks "We don't understand why you're so upset." | [
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Because we are in the same building everyday, I was constantly reminded of her. Then we would have occasional run-ins. We try to be cordial, but I know both of us feel awkward around each other. We would send random texts to each other occasionally, but these usually end up being kinda passive-aggressive.
Last week, we ran into each other at a random bar/lounge. Kinda crazy considering how big this city is. She was out with her brother, whom I met while we were briefly dating, her roommate, and a few friends of hers. She seemed surprised and didn't quite know what to do when she saw me there. We said hi, but we basically avoided each other the entire night. It didn't feel good at all.
Then I saw her yesterday during the day. She seemed pretty stressed, so I texted her, "Doing okay? Saw you earlier this morning. You seemed stressed." Then we texted a little bit talking about random stuff. A few hours later, she invited me to an event this weekend she's organizing. "It's going to be a blast, so you're welcome to join if you want" is what she said.
I ended up going to the event/party tonight. We did not really talk for the majority of the night. I was busy dancing and being the DJ (people loved my music selection, so they let me be the DJ basically the entire night). She flirted with other guys mostly, and I thought to myself, "Okay, whatever. Do what you gotta do. We are done anyway." Then I started talking to this cute girl she's sort of friends with, and she got so jealous. She said to me, "You think it's okay for you to be distracted by other girls?" So I said, "Hey, I can do whatever the hell I wanna do." She was visibly intoxicated. We sat down and started talking. She said, "Look, I know you want us to have a label blah blah blah," so I said, "I never said that. You're making shit up." All of a sudden we started making out and dancing and all that jazz. Then she kinda passed out on me for a bit. We decided to get a uber ride. She passed out on me again on our way home. Once we got off, she was like, "I really wanna go to bed right now, but you're more than welcome to stay over." But soon she realized she had lost her keys. I suggested to her that she crash on my couch, but she wouldn't listen. She called her roommate, who was going to spend the night at her boyfriend's place, and those two came over to let her into the apartment.
I plan on not contacting her for now. She and I can do stuff if she actively pursues me like she used to. Luckily, now I am not bothered by the possibility of her going cold again. What do I do from here on? Share your thoughts please. | I made out with a girl I used to date tonight. What do I do from here on? | [
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Seriously though, the statement that "nostalgia isn't what it used to be" is very true. Go back to some of the things you did as a kid. Watch some of those old cartoons, play some of those old games. Listen to some that of that music. It's not the same. When I was a kid, I LOVED Transformers. Watching the old cartoon now, it's laughable how terrible it is. Some of the video games I played as a kid don't have the same feeling now as they did.
There's also the zeitgeist. It's not only hard to replicate how awesome [x] was, it's impossible to recreate the time in which you enjoyed it. As someone who's 30 years old, it's impossible to recreate 1992. Things are simply not the same now. There are several generations of kids who have grown up since then with no knowledge of what life was like without computers or the web. Even if we tried to enjoy the same things that we liked then, the era is simply not the same.
And, to top it all off, you're an adult now. When you're a kid, in school, there's so much more meaning to things . Impressing "friends", trying to fit in, trying to seem relevant. Kids build their entire world around what their peers think of them. Sure, there are adults that do that too, but those people are generally thought of as pathetic and childish. Because they are. As an adult, paying bills, making a home and a family - those things take priority over whether your neighbor thinks your cool for liking the latest Katy Perry single. So the mental gymnastics that you use as a kid to convince yourself that you enjoy the latest fad are no longer needed, and you see fads for what they really are: garbage that panders to the lowest common denominator. | You see your own youthful fads through rose-colored glasses. They were always shit, you just see fads now for what they really are. But people aren't going to see it from your perspective. | [
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Why do we all reject an OBEY boxlogo and accept a Supreme boxlogo? I mean I know why but those newer to the scene may not understand but still may shun the practice. Why is the Streetwear community like that?
Then a lot of our stores and boutiques are riddled with this air of pretentiousness? Like we've all heard about how the Supreme store is. Allegedly. I can't attest to that cause I've never been. Why is this accepted though? They can do whatever they want but people still would buy into their product. This isn't an attack on Supreme but they are just really recognizable a low hanging fruit if you will..
Bigger brands like Nike do something similar and put out shoes that seriously sacrifice quality at a high price point. Why is this accepted among our communities?
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I'm [26 M] having trouble finding women to date and eventual to have a long term relationship with that are my type. I'm trying to figure what is going on. Are the women I'm looking for rare? Am I just not selling myself right so my "type" just isn't noticing me? Am I expecting too much of potential partners?
I've never been one to believe in soul mates, "the one", destiny, or any form of fate, so I know there has to be many amazing women out there that are just my type. However, the more I break down, even on an abstract level the type of women I would like to meet, the more I'm left with the realization that while "my type" surely exists, they will be so rare that I'm never likely to come across one.
To start off with the first and only black and white restriction is that I will never, ever, again date a religious person. This limits my select down to Agnostics and fellow Atheist. While this surely cuts out a large majority of people I could date, it isn't too devastating. This decision wasn't just for my own sanity, but for the future children that I would like to have because I refuse to have their heads filled with anything that isn't discovered by or can't be proven through a scientific method.
I know that most would understand this, but a sex life is near the top of my list of important topics. I like a partner with a little kink to them and I certainly wouldn't mind exploring more kink areas if they were interested. Now this also wouldn't be such a problem, but to those with a kink I'm sure will understand, if you happen upon a partner who just can't or won't satisfy your kink you always feel stressed out. You caught between both completely respecting your partner's choices and boundaries, but you also start to eventually feel very physically stressed all the time because you have this itch that you can never seem to scratch. For me, this kink happens to be anal sex. I've actually tried to cut it out of my life at one point to increase my potential pool of partners, but the cravings only ever seemed to get stronger and stronger. Different sexual partners could even see my stress without me ever saying anything, but I respected their choice not to help me with it and never pressured them to do so. I've resigned to accepting that anal sex, at least occasionally needs to be part of my life and there is no reason to feel ashamed for that. Of course this kink does drastically shrink down my dating pool.
I'm also somewhat of a generalist intellectual. I love carrying on debates and discussing topics of a political, scientific, social impacting, or philosophical nature. While I certainly don't always expect to talk about such things and for any future partner to be interested or know all the same things I know. I just want to be able to both teach and learn from my partner sometimes. I want to be able to bounce ideas off each other and to discuss, even on just a high level what is going on in the world. There are of course many intelligent women out there and if that was all I was looking for, there would be no problem. I like seeing someone I'm with get all overly excite about their passion for knowledge and show off their nerdy side. When we both come home from work at the end of the day, I want to be able to talk about what projects we are working, what we are learning about, or bounce around ideas about problems we are running into in our work or studies.
On a similar note, I've also got some geeky hobbies which do include my love of anime, cosplaying at conventions, and just about anything that falls into the geek category; I'm never obsessive about any one thing. While I certainly wouldn't expect a future partner to have the same geeky interests as I do, I would heavily prefer that they do have some of their own geeky interests and that on some level can possibly intersect with my own so that we can enjoy them together.
Now the icing on the cake, while this next detail surely has some flexibility to it, I tend to only be attracted to be people, like myself, who live a fairly healthy lifestyle. I am someone who goes to the gym 3 to 5 times a week, I have a personal trainer, and most of the time I watch what I eat to keep my weight down and stay healthy. There certainly are more athletic people out there than me because I don't care to be a gym-nut, but I can run a 5K multiple times a week and the last few months my personal trainer and I have started to switch focus into muscle training. Now, I've been shamed before for my preference of, at least mildly fit women, but I don't believe it is shallow to say that you have a high level of respect for people who care about their own health. We all have different body types and shapes, but no matter what your bone structure or life style is, we are all capable of living a healthier lifestyle to some extent.
If someone does manage to meet most of the above things, then this last detail is actually pretty easy to fulfil. I need a partner that will be a good role model for our future children. A lot of what I am is to make sure that I can be the kind of father that children can look up to and that when they grew up can legitimately say, "I had the greatest father in the word." I'm not the person who says, "I want to give my children everything I didn't have" because my kids may not want the things that I "never had." I just want to give my kids the opportunity to explore their passions and to show them all the amazing things this world has to offer. I want to be the father that guides my children to their own path, but to make sure that they do so in an ethical and safe manner. I would even like to think that I can learn my children's passions alongside them and that in a way, my children and I, can continue to grow together.
Over the last few years, I've dated a few different women, so it isn't like I haven't tried. Most women I have dated would have wanted to continue dating me, but I just couldn't return their feelings because they couldn't quite fulfill my needs for long term happiness in one way or another. I don't lie and manipulate women, if I'm not interested or I see unsolvable problems in the future, I tell them. As soon as I realize a problem we have a talk about it to make sure I'm not misunderstanding something in some way. Of course there were a few that decided not to call me back about a second or third date, but I don't hold that against them, if I'm not their type then I'm not their type and they don't have to explain themselves to me; I've never needed the "easy let down."
I've [at the time- M24] actually even been engaged before and I was together with that woman [at the time- F25] for just over 5 years, but the short version of that story ends with my former fiancee leaving me for a guy on the internet that she never even met before. Don't get me wrong, I wasn't perfect either and I can admit that. My former fiancee is the reason that I no longer date religious people, most of our problems stemmed from her being a very spiritual person and that I'm an Atheist. She ran off to seek enlightenment.
But I digress, I'm even dating someone now and she is many of the things I would want, but talking to her is like talking to a brick wall. I can tell she's interested in what I have to say, but she never contributes. She also refuses to talk about anything we might disagree on or is considered a controversial topic like politics. Much of my passion in a relationship comes from my discussions and debates with partners. We've originally agreed to only casually date each other for a max of 2 months and if one of us didn't want to take it to a more serious level, then we would just go our separate ways. The end of 2 months is at the end of May and I don't imagine that I'm going to stick around. She's an amazing person, but I think she is the kind of amazing that is made for someone else and not for me; I will miss the sex.
Am I expecting too much of potential partners? I do firmly believe in finding someone that can make me truly happy and I believe that I need most of these things in order to have a healthy relationship with someone. I do most of my dating online these days because I just don't have the time to go to locations where you would meet people. I have met a lot of amazing people online, but at least in one direction, it wasn't a good fit for someone. | I [M26] can't seem to find a woman who is non-religious, kink friendly, intellectual, geeky, and lives a healthy lifestyle. Am I expecting too much of potential partners? | [
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I first saw her as the seating groups were being called up. I was in group 5, she was in 3. As I watched the line pass slowly in front of me I noticed the early afternoon sunlight shine in her breathtaking green and yellow eyes. I was awestruck and she certainly saw it. After realizing quickly that I was staring I looked away embarrassed, looked back and gave a small wave and smiled. She smiled and waved back, then passed me and boarded the plane.
I was perfectly content from then on because the interaction was wonderful even if it was brief. Much to my delight she is sitting in the same row but across the aisle, while no one else sits in our row. Since I was one of the last people to board I knew no one else would sit in our row, so I decided to put myself out there and sit next to her.
The next 6 hours were not only the fastest 6 hours in transit i ever experienced, but they were also the most fun I've had talking with someone that I had the good fortune to meet in years. We shared fears, hopes, dreams (literally, those were exactly our conversation topics) and I learned that if she could have a superpower it would be invisibility to see how people really were by themselves which I thought was kinda creepy but whatever it was honest.
We exchanged numbers and talked for a few days after, unfortunately she stopped responding without explanation (it happens, no big deal) but I know I loved this young woman. From the moment I saw her dazzling bright eyes I knew I loved her. So it made me truly believe in love at first sight.
I learned that fate isn't what life has already planned for you, it's opportunity that life presents you. It's up to you to take action and make something of that opportunity. | Met the girl of my dreams on a plane ride, learned, loved, lived. Even though we parted ways, I lived my life. I highly recommend it. | [
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Also, if this sounds really one-sided, I'd like to stress how much I really do love her. The majority of the time I'm with her I'm very happy and the thought of ending the relationship makes me sick to my stomach. I just don't have much relationship experience to compare, so I don't know if it's "good enough" or if I would objectively be better off breaking up and messing around while I'm young.
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It's just fascinating how with the vast majority of discussion seems to drive towards relationships. I have been unfortunate enough to not meet that many women who keep up to date on these things, but they'll be completely in the know of town gossip. (Some people I know actually had no clue what the Holocaust was, and these were mid 20 year olds.)
Could it be because women are somehow not as interested by things like wars and their causes than men? (That already sounds outrageous in my head)
Do women somehow have an inclination to prefer knowledge related to things in "arm's reach" versus the "world around them"? (Again, sounds ridiculous.) | How often do you discuss the serious things that occur in the world around us? Do you actually care about things like that at all, or do you prefer to talk about people and things that you actually know/see in person?
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Hey Reddit. I'm in a bit of a pickle and I would really appreciate any advice you have to offer.
Bit of background: My Boyfriend (27M) and I (26M) have been together for nearly 2 years. He's an amazing and loving partner, definitely the best I've ever had, and I could easily see myself marrying him (something we've talked about). We grew up in different countries (this is relevant for cultural reasons). I'll be sharing this thread with him, as we try to work out a solution we're both comfortable with.
Last year he flew back to his HomeCountry to attend a friends wedding and bachelor party. He had mentioned causally in passing there would be strippers there. Having never been to a strip club, I assumed he would watch some nude girls dance and that was it. I was wrong. There was groping and touching, pulling down strippers underwear with teeth, and an extensive amount of strippers/topless waitresses throughout the bachelor weekend, more than I really imagined would happen. To keep it short, we fought. It was really upsetting to me to know he was touching other women without my blatant consent (even though they're strippers, I know, but it still bugged me). He was immediately apologetic, said he'd never had done it if he knew it would upset me, and apologized for not giving me all the details ahead of time. We agreed there was a serious miscommunication, and to be open and honest with each other in the future.
Fast forward to this past week: We are now both living in his HomeCountry. Another one of his friends is getting married next month. Cue another bachelor party -here's where it gets tricky. Reddit, I trust my boyfriend. I love his friends. I WANT him to go out and have fun with his friends, get wasted, party, etc., but I'm just not okay with strippers. Where I grew up, strippers weren't a "thing" that people did regularly. It was considered dirty, desperate, and sketchy, and not something faithful committed people did - TO BE CLEAR, I'm 100% cool with women (or men) being strippers. I'm definitely not hating on the profession, what you do with your body is up to you. However, I am uncomfortable with the notion of my boyfriend going to strippers. It's not some thing I want in my relationship. Where Boyfriend grew up, strippers are normal and not a big deal. I'm not saying this is an inherent difference between our two countries, but more of a cultural difference between me and Boyfriend/Boyfriends friends and family.
We've talked about the bachelor party and I expressed that while I want him to be able to go (I really do), I'm just not comfortable with him being around strippers. If there were no strippers (friends of ours in MY country have had bachelor parties without strippers), I'd be totally cool with it. It's not that I don't trust him, it's a strong emotional response within me that screams "I'm not okay with this". Rationally, I want to be "the cool" girlfriend who lets him go get lap dances and go to strip clubs, etc. but emotionally, I'm just not down. I wish I didn't feel this way, but I do. (It's the whole "boys club" mentality, a whole bunch of horny drunk men all staring at and touching naked women for entertainment - it feels demeaning to me, and I don't like thinking of my boyfriend mindlessly drooling over other women with his friends)
He understood that I wasn't comfortable with the strippers, and told me he'd be happy to never see another stripper again if it meant he could spend the rest of his life with me (aw). I thought the issue was settled.
His friends are not so understanding. By Boyfriends words, they are apart of a culture of "toxic masculinity", where men should never cave to what women want, they have no problem objectifying women, follow classic gender roles/patriarchy within relationships, they still use the word "gay" as an insult, and it's very much a pack mentality. Upon expressing that Boyfriend might not make it to the bachelor party, his friends have all jumped on him for being "whipped" "a pussy" and have actively encouraged him to LIE to me (tell me there will be no strippers there -there will 100% be strippers there-, and just go and have a good time). Many of his friends do lie to their partners about these things (getting private lap dances, drug use, etc.) To his credit, Boyfriend has told me all of this. He's been open about how hard it is for him, and how his friends will definitely lose respect for him (and likely me) if he doesn't go.
These are Boyfriends BEST lifelong friends since childhood. This is how they are. Aside from these comments, they've been incredibly lovely and welcoming to my face, but I know they'll be talking tons of shit behind my back if Boyfriend doesn't go, and although I shouldn't care what other people think, I really really want them to continue to like and approve of me as a partner. I also don't want Boyfriend to be in hot water with his friends because of me.
So. What to do? I'm feeling really torn by this situation. Do I stick to my guns and maintain that I'd prefer Boyfriend not participate in strippers? Or do I suck in my pride and potentially be upset/hurt to appease Boyfriends friends? I don't want to cause a rift between Boyfriend and his friends, and I feel like a shitty girlfriend for preventing him from going to this Bachelor party. On the other hand, I feel like I'm allowed to dictate what goes on in my relationship, and what I am/am not comfortable with.
I'm here because I need help navigating what seems (to me) like a stressful situation with no way out. Damned if we do, damned if we don't kind of thing. I'd appreciate any helpful advice. If you're here to hate on me for not feeling comfortable with strippers, please go elsewhere. If you have constructive words to share (on how to either contain my own emotions, or on how to stand strong against his friends), I'd absolutely love to hear it. | Im not comfortable with strippers within the context of my relationship. Boyfriend has bachelor party (with strippers) coming up. If he doesn't go, friends will "lose respect for him" (and me), if he does go, it's upsetting to me and it makes me feel insecure/uncomfortable. What do we do? | [
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Now about the idea.
I really like it in any game when I can put my gun away and I definitely would like to see it in DayZ. Not only for aesthetic reasons (I would put my gun away if I was sat at a camp fire in the middle of the woods) but as you said for practical reasons (interacting with objects/people and running faster).
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> I was looking into installing windows on my Mac however I was wondering If I could not buy a new Win7 Key for bootcamp and somehow use the current key found on my old computer. Im not very tech literate so I have no idea if this is possible or not. I just wanted to check before I purchase a new Key.
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Hi everyone,
I posted this in AlAnon, and I didn't really get much of a response, and I saw on the sidebar that it was okay to post here if you needed advice, and I am not really sure where to go from here. The good news is, my Dad has been sober for 14 days!
Some background first:
My father is a lifelong musician (bassist) and addict. At 13 he started his first band and simultaneously began drinking and experimenting with drugs. This behavior escalated until he was doing meth, living in his car, and arrested in his 30's for theft. He entered a treatment center shortly after being released from jail, and after completing treatment he chose to move to a different state to get his life back together. He returned home to CA one year later.
He has never relapsed on drugs, but his drinking has never stopped. His intake varies, and he will even occasionally stop completely, but then after a few months of being dry he thinks he can handle having one drink per day, to 'take the edge off', or because 'it is Christmas'. It inevitably becomes unmanageable. My mother does not keep any alcohol in the house, but this does not stop him from buying it and drinking it himself.
Three years ago his drinking became the worst it has ever been. He would get DT's so bad in the morning that he needed to stop by a liquor store on his way to work (he was a delivery driver) or "irish" up his coffee just to get himself right. A friend and bandmate of his staged an intervention and even paid for him to go to a detox center. After this, he was sober for about a year, he and my Mom started working out and eating better.
After that year had passed, he started drinking non-alcoholic beer because he said he felt awkward socially to not be drinking when he played shows. I understood this, but still felt skeptical and felt like he was still playing with fire, because of how long he had been addicted, but he seemed to maintain this behavior for a while. Sure enough, his drinking ramped up again until finally he was hospitalized with pancreatitis - a direct result of years of heavy drinking. He was in ICU for 2 weeks, where his Doctor told him that he needed to not drink anymore because only one more drink could inflame his pancreas again, or worse - cause necrosis which can lead to hemorrhagic pancreatitis, and kill him. This lead to almost another year of sobriety, and that brings us to now.
Present:
He recently received a promotion and has been under a lot of pressure professionally and (of course) began drinking "occasionally" again. The most recent excuse being his birthday coming up, which was just on November 3rd. Previously when he has slipped, the one positive thing was that he was very forthcoming about it, even when he felt ashamed. This time around, he stopped to get himself a bottle of wine on his way home and drank it all in one sitting inside his car. When he came inside the house, my Mom smelled it on him and when she asked if he had been drinking, he lied. After several questions (and changing his story several times) he finally admitted to everything, crying for forgiveness. I mentioned his pancreatitis? Later in the evening, he began experiencing the intense pain he had the first time around. My Mom has had it after so many years of relapse. She is also very ill herself with an auto-immune disease, and suffering from a rare chronic pain disorder. She fights every day to just exist and has finally grown tired of the back and forth. She has given him an ultimatum of sorts and has asked him to choose sobriety (and maintain it) or she will find another place to live, and will leave him. She adores him, but his illness has affected her greatly, and after his near death experience she cannot bear it anymore.
Advice:
I have attended Nar-Anon and Al-Anon meetings in the past - and I hope this is not offensive to anyone here, but I did not find them helpful. I am not religious, and while it is nice everyone offers to pray for my Dad (and encouraged me to pray), I am more interested in things I can use in practical application rather than platitudes.
I know that my Father's sobriety is his domain and his decision, but is there anything else I can do to support him? I have offered to go to meetings with him, but he feels the same way I do about attending. We are very close, and I tell him how proud I am of him when he hits every milestone, and I definitely do not judge him when expresses a desire to still drink. I have also encouraged talk therapy, since his untreated anxiety helps propel and fuel his desire to drink. Beyond all this - I dont know if there is anything else I can do.
I love my Dad more than words can say, and it kills me inside to think of him not being around all the time (impending divorce or death). My husband and I are starting a family and about to undergo a very stressful period in our lives when we begin In Vitro in March. It pains me greatly to think of my Dad not being around to become a Papa.
I could write more, but I believe this is long enough. To close I'll ask this - What sorts of things did people in your life do that you felt supported your recovery? | Dad is a lifelong addict. His life and marriage are hanging in the balance. What sorts of things can I do/say to best support him in the early stages of his sobriety? | [
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i'm getting to this pretty old so has the day come yet where you felt like you were in the spotlight?
I agree with bitoku, it is easy to overlook one's own strengths, you are so accustomed to what you are good at and enjoy doing that it doesn't stand out in self reflection, i've always been the in the background and kind of like it that way. last time i stepped out into the spotlight I had a good time but it is not for me.
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Now, multiplayer is just like ($10-$30) DLC; after you pay for the console, the game, and your internet connection, why don't we slap some more charges onto it?
No amount of free games is worth this, even with the full Sony console library of the PS3, PS4, and Vita. It was one of the main talking points of the PS3.
This PS4 is nice and all, but the PS3 rollout just felt worth it, because of the backwards compatability, and the free online multiplayer. Warhawk by itself kept me busy enough until Socom Confrontation or MGS, whichever one took my mind off of it.
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The answer is simple, consequences.
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Well what i didn't know, was that while he was sitting in class earlier that day, he had that weed on him. So the teachers were really suspicious already because it smelled the whole room and they were asking him questions. He then got called to the office and suspended for the rest of the year (about a month). All while I'm freaking out acting like I'm doing work, higher than shit. By the time lunch time came, I was coming down enough and I immediately left.
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Me and a few buddies were chillin in this parking lot smoking down. We just got done smoking when a cop pulled up right behind us and started walking towards my car. (this place was about a mile out of town and way back in a neighborhood.)
I thought "Oh fuck, oh fuck, oh fuck... I'm fucked" The cop tells me to roll down the window and I do.
He then says "were you the one that called about the door left open?"
I was thoroughly confused and really scared for a second, and then I responded "Ummm... No, but they may have been talking about the bathroom door over there."
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Patent: Protects useful inventions. E.g. a particular mechanism (a car motor), or a way of arriving at a particular thing (the formula to create a specific drug). The reason we grant patents is because it takes a lot of time and money to create a patent. By granting a limited monopoly, we give inventors the chance to recoup their losses and make a profit. If we didn't protect these inventions, as soon as one was released someone else could copy it and sell it for less since they don't have to bear the costs of R&D. BUT because we recognize the usefulness of the invention, we only allow the monopoly for a limited time (usually 20yrs). After that, people are allowed to create the invention and good old market forces help drive the prices down.
Basically, if you patent something you get 20yrs to make back your money and get a profit and then it's opened up to the public.
Copyright: Protects the expression of ideas and original creative works. Copyright is incredibly broad. All it requires is that the thing be creative and fixed (i.e. has some level of permanence). Copyright also lasts for quite a while, usually life of creator + 70 (75?) years. The justification is somewhat akin to that of patent; we want to reward creativity. If you put a lot of work and effort in to creating something unique and interesting, we want you to be rewarded for it and we don't want other people capitalizing on your creativity. Copyright grants a nice bundle of rights, the most important of which is the right to distribution (this is what most people get up in arms about). Essentially, you've created a work (e.g. a song), you're granted the exclusive right to distribute it (e.g. sell it). Again, we grant these rights to encourage innovation and creativity. Like patent, if you know your work will just be copied and distributed for free or cheaper than what you can do, you're less likely to take the risks to create something new and unique. This is really obvious in the movie industry; the reason we're not getting as many new and original movies is because of copyright piracy. Those movies don't do as well as blockbusters anyway, and piracy can cripple sales, so studios stick to sequels and reboots because they know they can take the hits from piracy. Of course, on the flip side, the incredibly long duration of copyright can stifle creativity as well. For example, how awesome would it be if we could get movies set in the Star Wars universe not created and controlled by Lucas?
Copyright is pretty tricky. On one hand we want people to profit from their creativity and be assured that their works are respected, but on the other, by granting a monopoly on these ideas we prevent other people from expanding and improving them.
Trademark: Trademark is unique in that it doesn't protect the idea as much as it does the consumer. TM law is really all about protecting the consumer from shoddy goods. A TM can be almost anything, as long as it's tied to a product or a brand (e.g. Swiffer or the McD's golden arches). Hell, even a color can be a TM if it's tied to a specific brand in the consumer's mind. Essentially, we grant TM protection because we want consumers to know what it is they're purchasing. For example, every time you buy an iPhone you know you're getting a well made piece of equipment. If we allowed anyone to stick the iPhone label on some shoddy piece of merchandise, we'd have consumer confusion, no one would know if they're getting the original or some crap knock off, people wouldn't buy stuff, and society would devolve to the point where we're all flinging shit at each other (I may be exaggerating).
Basically, we have TM protection so that consumers know what they're getting. It lasts as long as you ensure your TM is being used to refer to your specific product or brand. A TM is basically your company's reputation. | So there you have it. That's IP law in a nutshell. Essentially, we treat ideas as property to encourage innovation and creativity. Creating stuff can take a lot of time and effort. If we don't grant adequate protecting to allow people to at least recoup those losses, there is less incentive to be creative. | [
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infants don't fuck, so they couldn't care less about HIV. They can make an informed decision as adults when it's actually relevant
playing russian roulette with 1 fewer bullet, but still N > 1 is still a russian roulette. Rubber > all and false sense of security only induces more risky behavior
this seemingly harmless procedure causes non-negligible number of deaths even in top notch hospitals, just ask 100 boys dying every year in the United States of America alone, not to mention cases of severe, though nonlethal damage. Once you lower the standards to the ones found in Africa, things go south even faster.
iirc there was one study that claimed that cutting some girly stuff reduces risks for similar reasons (i assume more 'useless skin' = shit staying longer on the body in folds and having more attack surface) but i have a question. Assuming it's true, would you even listen to doctors who say that cutting labia is good for you and you should allow the procedure to be performed on your daughter? Somehow i don't think any feminist would listen and bodily integrity would be thrown around a lot.
Either way so called health benefits are pretty much immaterial. The meaning of bodily integrity and autonomy is crystal clear and no matter how you slice it performing irreversible procedures on healthy tissue is a gross violation of that. Either you have a right to have your body intact as the nature created it, or you don't and that's all there is to it.
Please explain what's so special about circumcisions that it's the only 'preventative' procedure applied en masse to infants that that removes 100% healthy tissue? We don't do appendectomy, tonsillectomy or any other whatsitsnamectomy just because decades down the road someone can have an inflammation. What about mastectomy? Breast cancer is serious business that probably kills more women than HIV worldwide, isn't it? Why aren't we removing breast tissue at birth? | circumcision is indefensible. | [
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