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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Been together 2 years and live together. I know he is stressed from work but CONSTANTLY, EVERYDAY I get the feeling he is irritated with me because he nitpicks so much stupid shit!\n\nAnytime I say anything he does those pissy \" sighs\" and \"pfft\" noises. The other day we went out on a double date and had a nice evening, when we came home he said \"you seemed irritated all night\", I asked why and he couldn't tell me any valid reasons I seemed so \"pissy\" & we argued about it, he finally said it was because I wasn't as flirty as he would like me to be. I dont get it because we laughed and had a nice time. \n\nIm so irritated right now I cant really think of other examples, these are two lame instances, they ALL are dumb little reasons when these happen. Its everyday, over and over, I will say anything and I get snickers and sound effects of cynicism. I've told him that when he snickers and does that it makes me feel like he is annoyed of me, like Im doing something wrong, I know I am not but I cant fucking win. \n\nHe acts like he has no idea what Im talking about, and its like he doesnt even realize he does it! Right after he makes the \" pfft\" noise I will ask \" ok what did I do NOW?\" and he'll say nothings wrong. He thinks it isnt big deal and I should get over it right away but if I did that to him constantly how would he feel? Its starting to make me feel like shit and have a walking on eggshell mentality and I just dont want to live like this. He just does not understand when I tell him this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Been together 2 years and live together. I know he is stressed from work but CONSTANTLY, EVERYDAY I get the feeling he is irritated with me because he nitpicks so much stupid shit!\n\nAnytime I say anything he does those pissy \" sighs\" and \"pfft\" noises. The other day we went out on a double date and had a nice evening, when we came home he said \"you seemed irritated all night\", I asked why and he couldn't tell me any valid reasons I seemed so \"pissy\" & we argued about it, he finally said it was because I wasn't as flirty as he would like me to be. I dont get it because we laughed and had a nice time. \n\nIm so irritated right now I cant really think of other examples, these are two lame instances, they ALL are dumb little reasons when these happen. Its everyday, over and over, I will say anything and I get snickers and sound effects of cynicism. I've told him that when he snickers and does that it makes me feel like he is annoyed of me, like Im doing something wrong, I know I am not but I cant fucking win. \n\nHe acts like he has no idea what Im talking about, and its like he doesnt even realize he does it! Right after he makes the \" pfft\" noise I will ask \" ok what did I do NOW?\" and he'll say nothings wrong. He thinks it isnt big deal and I should get over it right away but if I did that to him constantly how would he feel? Its starting to make me feel like shit and have a walking on eggshell mentality and I just dont want to live like this. He just does not understand when I tell him this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend hits me whenever she wants. Last night she slapped and scratched me for 5-10min. She was upset and just started going at me with full force. \n\nIts not the physical damage that hurts, its her knowing that she can do this without repercussions. If I try to restrain her she screams at the top of her lungs. Making it seem like im hitting her. \n\nI called 911 once (we're in Ontario) when she wouldnt stop spitting at me and the operator was not only unsympathetic but rude, I was made to feel like an idiot for calling.\n\nPeople have gotten involved in the past when she screamed, and they are quick to ask if shes ok even when there are visible bruises on me and none on her. There were multiple holes in our living room from her throwing objects, the landlord immediately accused me.\n\nShes a very sweet and attractive girl to outsiders. At home if I do something that upsets her, she can (not always) put me down, kick me out, or (rarely) hit me. \n\nIve tried talking with her about this many many times. Im afraid to go to the police because I feel like they will believe her and I may get arrested. \n\nI try recording our voices so I have some evidence if her behavior but its hard to get her when she starts hitting me because its spontaneous and unexpected.\n\nBut even with evidence, I still feel as though the best result would be both of us getting in trouble with the law and I cant afford a lawyer either.\n\nIm afraid to leave because shes threatened to tell things about me to my family and friends and im also afraid that she will claim abuse to the cops. She has fear of abandonment issues and she always goes a bit off the deep end whenever I attempt to end our relationship.\n\nI dont know what to do. There seems to be no support for men on this issue, I feel like id get laughed at if I went to the police, not that id want to because id probably get a record myself due to whatever they choose to believe"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend hits me whenever she wants. Last night she slapped and scratched me for 5-10min. She was upset and just started going at me with full force. \n\nIts not the physical damage that hurts, its her knowing that she can do this without repercussions. If I try to restrain her she screams at the top of her lungs. Making it seem like im hitting her. \n\nI called 911 once (we're in Ontario) when she wouldnt stop spitting at me and the operator was not only unsympathetic but rude, I was made to feel like an idiot for calling.\n\nPeople have gotten involved in the past when she screamed, and they are quick to ask if shes ok even when there are visible bruises on me and none on her. There were multiple holes in our living room from her throwing objects, the landlord immediately accused me.\n\nShes a very sweet and attractive girl to outsiders. At home if I do something that upsets her, she can (not always) put me down, kick me out, or (rarely) hit me. \n\nIve tried talking with her about this many many times. Im afraid to go to the police because I feel like they will believe her and I may get arrested. \n\nI try recording our voices so I have some evidence if her behavior but its hard to get her when she starts hitting me because its spontaneous and unexpected.\n\nBut even with evidence, I still feel as though the best result would be both of us getting in trouble with the law and I cant afford a lawyer either.\n\nIm afraid to leave because shes threatened to tell things about me to my family and friends and im also afraid that she will claim abuse to the cops. She has fear of abandonment issues and she always goes a bit off the deep end whenever I attempt to end our relationship.\n\nI dont know what to do. There seems to be no support for men on this issue, I feel like id get laughed at if I went to the police, not that id want to because id probably get a record myself due to whatever they choose to believe"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend hits me whenever she wants. Last night she slapped and scratched me for 5-10min. She was upset and just started going at me with full force. \n\nIts not the physical damage that hurts, its her knowing that she can do this without repercussions. If I try to restrain her she screams at the top of her lungs. Making it seem like im hitting her. \n\nI called 911 once (we're in Ontario) when she wouldnt stop spitting at me and the operator was not only unsympathetic but rude, I was made to feel like an idiot for calling.\n\nPeople have gotten involved in the past when she screamed, and they are quick to ask if shes ok even when there are visible bruises on me and none on her. There were multiple holes in our living room from her throwing objects, the landlord immediately accused me.\n\nShes a very sweet and attractive girl to outsiders. At home if I do something that upsets her, she can (not always) put me down, kick me out, or (rarely) hit me. \n\nIve tried talking with her about this many many times. Im afraid to go to the police because I feel like they will believe her and I may get arrested. \n\nI try recording our voices so I have some evidence if her behavior but its hard to get her when she starts hitting me because its spontaneous and unexpected.\n\nBut even with evidence, I still feel as though the best result would be both of us getting in trouble with the law and I cant afford a lawyer either.\n\nIm afraid to leave because shes threatened to tell things about me to my family and friends and im also afraid that she will claim abuse to the cops. She has fear of abandonment issues and she always goes a bit off the deep end whenever I attempt to end our relationship.\n\nI dont know what to do. There seems to be no support for men on this issue, I feel like id get laughed at if I went to the police, not that id want to because id probably get a record myself due to whatever they choose to believe"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend hits me whenever she wants. Last night she slapped and scratched me for 5-10min. She was upset and just started going at me with full force. \n\nIts not the physical damage that hurts, its her knowing that she can do this without repercussions. If I try to restrain her she screams at the top of her lungs. Making it seem like im hitting her. \n\nI called 911 once (we're in Ontario) when she wouldnt stop spitting at me and the operator was not only unsympathetic but rude, I was made to feel like an idiot for calling.\n\nPeople have gotten involved in the past when she screamed, and they are quick to ask if shes ok even when there are visible bruises on me and none on her. There were multiple holes in our living room from her throwing objects, the landlord immediately accused me.\n\nShes a very sweet and attractive girl to outsiders. At home if I do something that upsets her, she can (not always) put me down, kick me out, or (rarely) hit me. \n\nIve tried talking with her about this many many times. Im afraid to go to the police because I feel like they will believe her and I may get arrested. \n\nI try recording our voices so I have some evidence if her behavior but its hard to get her when she starts hitting me because its spontaneous and unexpected.\n\nBut even with evidence, I still feel as though the best result would be both of us getting in trouble with the law and I cant afford a lawyer either.\n\nIm afraid to leave because shes threatened to tell things about me to my family and friends and im also afraid that she will claim abuse to the cops. She has fear of abandonment issues and she always goes a bit off the deep end whenever I attempt to end our relationship.\n\nI dont know what to do. There seems to be no support for men on this issue, I feel like id get laughed at if I went to the police, not that id want to because id probably get a record myself due to whatever they choose to believe"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: One died on impact, the other is sitting in county jail on manslaughter charges. \n\nA few nights ago, 6 of her friends from High School (now late 20s) were out having a good time in a bar way out in the county. Rather than call a cab or set up a designated driver, they thought, \"What the hell, there's no one on the roads out here, we can make it.\" They crammed 6 people into a 5 seat car (leaving one person on the lap of someone else in the front seat.)\n\nWell, it turns out they couldn't. They missed a turn and went flying out into a field, rolling the car. 3 people escaped with only minor bruises. 1 severed his arm, another fractured his spine, and the third lost her life when she flew through the windshield.\n\nMy wife has known the driver since they were children, and is struggling with the fact that her close friend has made such stupid choices."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: One died on impact, the other is sitting in county jail on manslaughter charges. \n\nA few nights ago, 6 of her friends from High School (now late 20s) were out having a good time in a bar way out in the county. Rather than call a cab or set up a designated driver, they thought, \"What the hell, there's no one on the roads out here, we can make it.\" They crammed 6 people into a 5 seat car (leaving one person on the lap of someone else in the front seat.)\n\nWell, it turns out they couldn't. They missed a turn and went flying out into a field, rolling the car. 3 people escaped with only minor bruises. 1 severed his arm, another fractured his spine, and the third lost her life when she flew through the windshield.\n\nMy wife has known the driver since they were children, and is struggling with the fact that her close friend has made such stupid choices."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: One died on impact, the other is sitting in county jail on manslaughter charges. \n\nA few nights ago, 6 of her friends from High School (now late 20s) were out having a good time in a bar way out in the county. Rather than call a cab or set up a designated driver, they thought, \"What the hell, there's no one on the roads out here, we can make it.\" They crammed 6 people into a 5 seat car (leaving one person on the lap of someone else in the front seat.)\n\nWell, it turns out they couldn't. They missed a turn and went flying out into a field, rolling the car. 3 people escaped with only minor bruises. 1 severed his arm, another fractured his spine, and the third lost her life when she flew through the windshield.\n\nMy wife has known the driver since they were children, and is struggling with the fact that her close friend has made such stupid choices."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: One died on impact, the other is sitting in county jail on manslaughter charges. \n\nA few nights ago, 6 of her friends from High School (now late 20s) were out having a good time in a bar way out in the county. Rather than call a cab or set up a designated driver, they thought, \"What the hell, there's no one on the roads out here, we can make it.\" They crammed 6 people into a 5 seat car (leaving one person on the lap of someone else in the front seat.)\n\nWell, it turns out they couldn't. They missed a turn and went flying out into a field, rolling the car. 3 people escaped with only minor bruises. 1 severed his arm, another fractured his spine, and the third lost her life when she flew through the windshield.\n\nMy wife has known the driver since they were children, and is struggling with the fact that her close friend has made such stupid choices."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: About 2 weeks ago I (18 M) started talking to someone (20 F) on OkCupid (dating site). We have a lot in common. We are both 'damaged goods' and understand each other well because of it. She likes my mannerisms/quirks/etc and I like her. Had first date with her today. she was very different in person. Was kind of pushy in conversation (her talking was more important than mine) talked a lot about her friends, which was kinda awkward for me. She started to open up later on, but no were near like she is online. Her hugs are *ok* her kissing is *ok* (hugs are important to me). When she got home she sent a mean-ish text \"thanks for checking to see if I got home safely\" (I hadn't so i assume it was sarcastic) or something to that effect. We are talking online again, and she is back to being amazing.\n\nDo I bring this stuff up to her? Do I break it off (she made it very clear she really likes me)? Do I ignore it and hope it gets better? Help!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: About 2 weeks ago I (18 M) started talking to someone (20 F) on OkCupid (dating site). We have a lot in common. We are both 'damaged goods' and understand each other well because of it. She likes my mannerisms/quirks/etc and I like her. Had first date with her today. she was very different in person. Was kind of pushy in conversation (her talking was more important than mine) talked a lot about her friends, which was kinda awkward for me. She started to open up later on, but no were near like she is online. Her hugs are *ok* her kissing is *ok* (hugs are important to me). When she got home she sent a mean-ish text \"thanks for checking to see if I got home safely\" (I hadn't so i assume it was sarcastic) or something to that effect. We are talking online again, and she is back to being amazing.\n\nDo I bring this stuff up to her? Do I break it off (she made it very clear she really likes me)? Do I ignore it and hope it gets better? Help!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: About 2 weeks ago I (18 M) started talking to someone (20 F) on OkCupid (dating site). We have a lot in common. We are both 'damaged goods' and understand each other well because of it. She likes my mannerisms/quirks/etc and I like her. Had first date with her today. she was very different in person. Was kind of pushy in conversation (her talking was more important than mine) talked a lot about her friends, which was kinda awkward for me. She started to open up later on, but no were near like she is online. Her hugs are *ok* her kissing is *ok* (hugs are important to me). When she got home she sent a mean-ish text \"thanks for checking to see if I got home safely\" (I hadn't so i assume it was sarcastic) or something to that effect. We are talking online again, and she is back to being amazing.\n\nDo I bring this stuff up to her? Do I break it off (she made it very clear she really likes me)? Do I ignore it and hope it gets better? Help!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: About 2 weeks ago I (18 M) started talking to someone (20 F) on OkCupid (dating site). We have a lot in common. We are both 'damaged goods' and understand each other well because of it. She likes my mannerisms/quirks/etc and I like her. Had first date with her today. she was very different in person. Was kind of pushy in conversation (her talking was more important than mine) talked a lot about her friends, which was kinda awkward for me. She started to open up later on, but no were near like she is online. Her hugs are *ok* her kissing is *ok* (hugs are important to me). When she got home she sent a mean-ish text \"thanks for checking to see if I got home safely\" (I hadn't so i assume it was sarcastic) or something to that effect. We are talking online again, and she is back to being amazing.\n\nDo I bring this stuff up to her? Do I break it off (she made it very clear she really likes me)? Do I ignore it and hope it gets better? Help!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm just not sure what to do anymore. \n\nMy boyfriend is away at basic training/AIT right now. \n\n*Things blew up with me and his mom a few months ago. She started saying \"I'm sorry but he's MY SON\" \"Why are you trying to take him away from me?\"* \n\n I have never done anything wrong to this woman. I've paid her bills a few times. I've done everything she's asked of me. I have never said no to anything she's asked me and honestly it's just weird. I lived with him and his family for about a year before he left for basic and I moved out after the big argument happened. \n Ever since I left she sleeps in his(our) bed. \n\nShe always asks me if her husband has said anything to me. She says he \"looks\" at me. He has never said anything to me but she asks just about every other day. \n\nMy fiancé had two colognes on the dresser. I took one of them with me because I like the smell of it. It reminds me of him. \nWell, I'm at their house right now (I do makeup and his sister wanted me to do hers for a school thing) She kept making sure it was known she was going up stairs to our room. The other cologne that was there yesterday. Is now \"hidden\" in a pile of clothes in the room. (I was looking through clothes thinking they were his.) I just don't understand why she does the things she does. I'm worried I might end the relationship over his mom. It's too much! What do I do? How do I fix it?\n\nsorry it's all over the place I've been keeping it in for a long time. I can't handle it anymore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm just not sure what to do anymore. \n\nMy boyfriend is away at basic training/AIT right now. \n\n*Things blew up with me and his mom a few months ago. She started saying \"I'm sorry but he's MY SON\" \"Why are you trying to take him away from me?\"* \n\n I have never done anything wrong to this woman. I've paid her bills a few times. I've done everything she's asked of me. I have never said no to anything she's asked me and honestly it's just weird. I lived with him and his family for about a year before he left for basic and I moved out after the big argument happened. \n Ever since I left she sleeps in his(our) bed. \n\nShe always asks me if her husband has said anything to me. She says he \"looks\" at me. He has never said anything to me but she asks just about every other day. \n\nMy fiancé had two colognes on the dresser. I took one of them with me because I like the smell of it. It reminds me of him. \nWell, I'm at their house right now (I do makeup and his sister wanted me to do hers for a school thing) She kept making sure it was known she was going up stairs to our room. The other cologne that was there yesterday. Is now \"hidden\" in a pile of clothes in the room. (I was looking through clothes thinking they were his.) I just don't understand why she does the things she does. I'm worried I might end the relationship over his mom. It's too much! What do I do? How do I fix it?\n\nsorry it's all over the place I've been keeping it in for a long time. I can't handle it anymore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm just not sure what to do anymore. \n\nMy boyfriend is away at basic training/AIT right now. \n\n*Things blew up with me and his mom a few months ago. She started saying \"I'm sorry but he's MY SON\" \"Why are you trying to take him away from me?\"* \n\n I have never done anything wrong to this woman. I've paid her bills a few times. I've done everything she's asked of me. I have never said no to anything she's asked me and honestly it's just weird. I lived with him and his family for about a year before he left for basic and I moved out after the big argument happened. \n Ever since I left she sleeps in his(our) bed. \n\nShe always asks me if her husband has said anything to me. She says he \"looks\" at me. He has never said anything to me but she asks just about every other day. \n\nMy fiancé had two colognes on the dresser. I took one of them with me because I like the smell of it. It reminds me of him. \nWell, I'm at their house right now (I do makeup and his sister wanted me to do hers for a school thing) She kept making sure it was known she was going up stairs to our room. The other cologne that was there yesterday. Is now \"hidden\" in a pile of clothes in the room. (I was looking through clothes thinking they were his.) I just don't understand why she does the things she does. I'm worried I might end the relationship over his mom. It's too much! What do I do? How do I fix it?\n\nsorry it's all over the place I've been keeping it in for a long time. I can't handle it anymore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm just not sure what to do anymore. \n\nMy boyfriend is away at basic training/AIT right now. \n\n*Things blew up with me and his mom a few months ago. She started saying \"I'm sorry but he's MY SON\" \"Why are you trying to take him away from me?\"* \n\n I have never done anything wrong to this woman. I've paid her bills a few times. I've done everything she's asked of me. I have never said no to anything she's asked me and honestly it's just weird. I lived with him and his family for about a year before he left for basic and I moved out after the big argument happened. \n Ever since I left she sleeps in his(our) bed. \n\nShe always asks me if her husband has said anything to me. She says he \"looks\" at me. He has never said anything to me but she asks just about every other day. \n\nMy fiancé had two colognes on the dresser. I took one of them with me because I like the smell of it. It reminds me of him. \nWell, I'm at their house right now (I do makeup and his sister wanted me to do hers for a school thing) She kept making sure it was known she was going up stairs to our room. The other cologne that was there yesterday. Is now \"hidden\" in a pile of clothes in the room. (I was looking through clothes thinking they were his.) I just don't understand why she does the things she does. I'm worried I might end the relationship over his mom. It's too much! What do I do? How do I fix it?\n\nsorry it's all over the place I've been keeping it in for a long time. I can't handle it anymore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I find myself every day getting more and more depressed. A little bit about what causes it. I joined the navy after being dumped by my girlfriend a while back, i considered her the one that got away. I went into a very depressed state until i joined the navy. Once i had joined though i became very happy, i thought i had found what i was meant to do. I lost about 1/3 of my body weight in fat, and was training for a special warfare position, right after i passed the PFT for the job, i was medically discharged for a concussion and severe migraines. This was when it got really bad, my dream was crushed in front of me.\n\nI moved back to my hometown, and am currently living with my parents until the end of this month. I find myself getting more and more lonely and i think this is the main cause of my depression. I have friends, but nobody really talks to me. I hookup with a lot of random girls but i find that every time i do this the aftermath ends in me being more depressed than before. In the last 2 months I have slept with 7 different people but i find that im only happy during the time leading up to the hookup, the hookup itself and afterwards are just depressing. I feel like nobody cares about me more than to just have sex with me, and i find myself wishing someone would care about me just a little bit, just enough to want to talk to me because they want to. However this doesn't happen, and i find myself getting more and more depressed because of this.\n\nWhat can i do to stop this, I just want someone to care about me for once. does anyone have any advice on what i can do to turn around this depression?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I find myself every day getting more and more depressed. A little bit about what causes it. I joined the navy after being dumped by my girlfriend a while back, i considered her the one that got away. I went into a very depressed state until i joined the navy. Once i had joined though i became very happy, i thought i had found what i was meant to do. I lost about 1/3 of my body weight in fat, and was training for a special warfare position, right after i passed the PFT for the job, i was medically discharged for a concussion and severe migraines. This was when it got really bad, my dream was crushed in front of me.\n\nI moved back to my hometown, and am currently living with my parents until the end of this month. I find myself getting more and more lonely and i think this is the main cause of my depression. I have friends, but nobody really talks to me. I hookup with a lot of random girls but i find that every time i do this the aftermath ends in me being more depressed than before. In the last 2 months I have slept with 7 different people but i find that im only happy during the time leading up to the hookup, the hookup itself and afterwards are just depressing. I feel like nobody cares about me more than to just have sex with me, and i find myself wishing someone would care about me just a little bit, just enough to want to talk to me because they want to. However this doesn't happen, and i find myself getting more and more depressed because of this.\n\nWhat can i do to stop this, I just want someone to care about me for once. does anyone have any advice on what i can do to turn around this depression?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I find myself every day getting more and more depressed. A little bit about what causes it. I joined the navy after being dumped by my girlfriend a while back, i considered her the one that got away. I went into a very depressed state until i joined the navy. Once i had joined though i became very happy, i thought i had found what i was meant to do. I lost about 1/3 of my body weight in fat, and was training for a special warfare position, right after i passed the PFT for the job, i was medically discharged for a concussion and severe migraines. This was when it got really bad, my dream was crushed in front of me.\n\nI moved back to my hometown, and am currently living with my parents until the end of this month. I find myself getting more and more lonely and i think this is the main cause of my depression. I have friends, but nobody really talks to me. I hookup with a lot of random girls but i find that every time i do this the aftermath ends in me being more depressed than before. In the last 2 months I have slept with 7 different people but i find that im only happy during the time leading up to the hookup, the hookup itself and afterwards are just depressing. I feel like nobody cares about me more than to just have sex with me, and i find myself wishing someone would care about me just a little bit, just enough to want to talk to me because they want to. However this doesn't happen, and i find myself getting more and more depressed because of this.\n\nWhat can i do to stop this, I just want someone to care about me for once. does anyone have any advice on what i can do to turn around this depression?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I find myself every day getting more and more depressed. A little bit about what causes it. I joined the navy after being dumped by my girlfriend a while back, i considered her the one that got away. I went into a very depressed state until i joined the navy. Once i had joined though i became very happy, i thought i had found what i was meant to do. I lost about 1/3 of my body weight in fat, and was training for a special warfare position, right after i passed the PFT for the job, i was medically discharged for a concussion and severe migraines. This was when it got really bad, my dream was crushed in front of me.\n\nI moved back to my hometown, and am currently living with my parents until the end of this month. I find myself getting more and more lonely and i think this is the main cause of my depression. I have friends, but nobody really talks to me. I hookup with a lot of random girls but i find that every time i do this the aftermath ends in me being more depressed than before. In the last 2 months I have slept with 7 different people but i find that im only happy during the time leading up to the hookup, the hookup itself and afterwards are just depressing. I feel like nobody cares about me more than to just have sex with me, and i find myself wishing someone would care about me just a little bit, just enough to want to talk to me because they want to. However this doesn't happen, and i find myself getting more and more depressed because of this.\n\nWhat can i do to stop this, I just want someone to care about me for once. does anyone have any advice on what i can do to turn around this depression?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My partner and I have been together for two years and we have lived together for one year. We have a really wonderful relationship and I consider myself very lucky.\n\nWe both have discussed marriage a thousand times and we talk about it often. A few months ago, I told him I read an article about women proposing to men and I really liked it because I'm a total \"grand gesture\" romantic. I do crazy things for his birthday, Christmas, when he left his last job etc. and he was like \"totally cool! I like the idea of being proposed to\".\n\nBut the last couple times I've brought it up situationally, he said \"well you can't propose to me if I beat you to it!\" and I was like okay.well he's likely joking. But then it came up as a joke again and he told me \"But, I want to propose\" and I said what about that time we talked about it and you said you like the idea of me proposing and he was like \"Hmm, I don't really remember that?\"\n\nTo be fair, the man as incredible as he is sometimes does have a funny time remembering things like that. But now I'm really second guessing myself, should I not be proposing? Should I wait for him to propose? I was so into the idea but now it seems as though he wants to do it. It's all so dumb! I told him we could just talk about it and not do a proposal and he said he likes proposals. Dear lord, help me!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My partner and I have been together for two years and we have lived together for one year. We have a really wonderful relationship and I consider myself very lucky.\n\nWe both have discussed marriage a thousand times and we talk about it often. A few months ago, I told him I read an article about women proposing to men and I really liked it because I'm a total \"grand gesture\" romantic. I do crazy things for his birthday, Christmas, when he left his last job etc. and he was like \"totally cool! I like the idea of being proposed to\".\n\nBut the last couple times I've brought it up situationally, he said \"well you can't propose to me if I beat you to it!\" and I was like okay.well he's likely joking. But then it came up as a joke again and he told me \"But, I want to propose\" and I said what about that time we talked about it and you said you like the idea of me proposing and he was like \"Hmm, I don't really remember that?\"\n\nTo be fair, the man as incredible as he is sometimes does have a funny time remembering things like that. But now I'm really second guessing myself, should I not be proposing? Should I wait for him to propose? I was so into the idea but now it seems as though he wants to do it. It's all so dumb! I told him we could just talk about it and not do a proposal and he said he likes proposals. Dear lord, help me!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My partner and I have been together for two years and we have lived together for one year. We have a really wonderful relationship and I consider myself very lucky.\n\nWe both have discussed marriage a thousand times and we talk about it often. A few months ago, I told him I read an article about women proposing to men and I really liked it because I'm a total \"grand gesture\" romantic. I do crazy things for his birthday, Christmas, when he left his last job etc. and he was like \"totally cool! I like the idea of being proposed to\".\n\nBut the last couple times I've brought it up situationally, he said \"well you can't propose to me if I beat you to it!\" and I was like okay.well he's likely joking. But then it came up as a joke again and he told me \"But, I want to propose\" and I said what about that time we talked about it and you said you like the idea of me proposing and he was like \"Hmm, I don't really remember that?\"\n\nTo be fair, the man as incredible as he is sometimes does have a funny time remembering things like that. But now I'm really second guessing myself, should I not be proposing? Should I wait for him to propose? I was so into the idea but now it seems as though he wants to do it. It's all so dumb! I told him we could just talk about it and not do a proposal and he said he likes proposals. Dear lord, help me!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My partner and I have been together for two years and we have lived together for one year. We have a really wonderful relationship and I consider myself very lucky.\n\nWe both have discussed marriage a thousand times and we talk about it often. A few months ago, I told him I read an article about women proposing to men and I really liked it because I'm a total \"grand gesture\" romantic. I do crazy things for his birthday, Christmas, when he left his last job etc. and he was like \"totally cool! I like the idea of being proposed to\".\n\nBut the last couple times I've brought it up situationally, he said \"well you can't propose to me if I beat you to it!\" and I was like okay.well he's likely joking. But then it came up as a joke again and he told me \"But, I want to propose\" and I said what about that time we talked about it and you said you like the idea of me proposing and he was like \"Hmm, I don't really remember that?\"\n\nTo be fair, the man as incredible as he is sometimes does have a funny time remembering things like that. But now I'm really second guessing myself, should I not be proposing? Should I wait for him to propose? I was so into the idea but now it seems as though he wants to do it. It's all so dumb! I told him we could just talk about it and not do a proposal and he said he likes proposals. Dear lord, help me!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I moved in with a guy I worked with for a year, then remained friends with across the country for another year. \n\nThen, we moved in to a flat for our new jobs.\n\nThis guy is batshit crazy! He drinks and smokes weed from the time he wakes up 'til he sleeps. In itself, not a problem for me, but he drinks either half a bottle of navy rum and 2 bottles of red wine or 3 bottles of wine.\n\nBig problem being that he can't handle this amount of intake of alcohol. He sits in a stooper, swearing constantly and taking digs at me if I'm in the room. If I leave the room to go listen to music (avec headphones) I can still hear him shouting unintelligible nonsense from 3 rooms away. \n\nAlso, he's taking anything of mine as his own. This includes a full bottle of J Walker Black, around £70 of food and pretty much anything I leave in the TV room. \n\nThe last straw for me was last night he ATE MY FRIED CHICKEN! This was no ordinary amount of chicken either. It was intended to be for 6 people, I fancied buying it cheaper in bulk and eating it portion at a time. First world problem sure, but he took £20 worth of food, cooked a few pieces then just dumped the rest in the bin. \n\nSo ladies and gents, what do you think I should do to deal with this monstrous chicken-stealer?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I moved in with a guy I worked with for a year, then remained friends with across the country for another year. \n\nThen, we moved in to a flat for our new jobs.\n\nThis guy is batshit crazy! He drinks and smokes weed from the time he wakes up 'til he sleeps. In itself, not a problem for me, but he drinks either half a bottle of navy rum and 2 bottles of red wine or 3 bottles of wine.\n\nBig problem being that he can't handle this amount of intake of alcohol. He sits in a stooper, swearing constantly and taking digs at me if I'm in the room. If I leave the room to go listen to music (avec headphones) I can still hear him shouting unintelligible nonsense from 3 rooms away. \n\nAlso, he's taking anything of mine as his own. This includes a full bottle of J Walker Black, around £70 of food and pretty much anything I leave in the TV room. \n\nThe last straw for me was last night he ATE MY FRIED CHICKEN! This was no ordinary amount of chicken either. It was intended to be for 6 people, I fancied buying it cheaper in bulk and eating it portion at a time. First world problem sure, but he took £20 worth of food, cooked a few pieces then just dumped the rest in the bin. \n\nSo ladies and gents, what do you think I should do to deal with this monstrous chicken-stealer?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I moved in with a guy I worked with for a year, then remained friends with across the country for another year. \n\nThen, we moved in to a flat for our new jobs.\n\nThis guy is batshit crazy! He drinks and smokes weed from the time he wakes up 'til he sleeps. In itself, not a problem for me, but he drinks either half a bottle of navy rum and 2 bottles of red wine or 3 bottles of wine.\n\nBig problem being that he can't handle this amount of intake of alcohol. He sits in a stooper, swearing constantly and taking digs at me if I'm in the room. If I leave the room to go listen to music (avec headphones) I can still hear him shouting unintelligible nonsense from 3 rooms away. \n\nAlso, he's taking anything of mine as his own. This includes a full bottle of J Walker Black, around £70 of food and pretty much anything I leave in the TV room. \n\nThe last straw for me was last night he ATE MY FRIED CHICKEN! This was no ordinary amount of chicken either. It was intended to be for 6 people, I fancied buying it cheaper in bulk and eating it portion at a time. First world problem sure, but he took £20 worth of food, cooked a few pieces then just dumped the rest in the bin. \n\nSo ladies and gents, what do you think I should do to deal with this monstrous chicken-stealer?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I moved in with a guy I worked with for a year, then remained friends with across the country for another year. \n\nThen, we moved in to a flat for our new jobs.\n\nThis guy is batshit crazy! He drinks and smokes weed from the time he wakes up 'til he sleeps. In itself, not a problem for me, but he drinks either half a bottle of navy rum and 2 bottles of red wine or 3 bottles of wine.\n\nBig problem being that he can't handle this amount of intake of alcohol. He sits in a stooper, swearing constantly and taking digs at me if I'm in the room. If I leave the room to go listen to music (avec headphones) I can still hear him shouting unintelligible nonsense from 3 rooms away. \n\nAlso, he's taking anything of mine as his own. This includes a full bottle of J Walker Black, around £70 of food and pretty much anything I leave in the TV room. \n\nThe last straw for me was last night he ATE MY FRIED CHICKEN! This was no ordinary amount of chicken either. It was intended to be for 6 people, I fancied buying it cheaper in bulk and eating it portion at a time. First world problem sure, but he took £20 worth of food, cooked a few pieces then just dumped the rest in the bin. \n\nSo ladies and gents, what do you think I should do to deal with this monstrous chicken-stealer?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my fiance are getting married in about a week, she currently works more than full time (has been doing as much OT as she can at the hospital where she works and regularly works weekend), and will soon be going back to school (2 classes a day), and has to deal with all of that on top of making sure we get everything together for our wedding day and honeymoon.\n\nI work from home, 40h a week and have a LOT of free time, i try to clean the house every night before she gets home, and always have dinner waiting for her on the days she works, as well i try to do whatever else i can to help with the day to day stuff (finances as far as my mathematically challenged brain will allow, massages whenever her back and such start acting up, and just being as loving and understanding as i can), i still feel like im not doing enough though. As it stands shes almost completely paying for our honeymoon with all of the extra money shes getting from work, and insists on doing a large portion of house cleaning among other things she prefers to take care of herself.\n\nI know that when school starts again she is going to be under a hell of a lot of pressure and its going to stress her out, and im trying to figure out what else i can do to help make her days a bit easier, any suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my fiance are getting married in about a week, she currently works more than full time (has been doing as much OT as she can at the hospital where she works and regularly works weekend), and will soon be going back to school (2 classes a day), and has to deal with all of that on top of making sure we get everything together for our wedding day and honeymoon.\n\nI work from home, 40h a week and have a LOT of free time, i try to clean the house every night before she gets home, and always have dinner waiting for her on the days she works, as well i try to do whatever else i can to help with the day to day stuff (finances as far as my mathematically challenged brain will allow, massages whenever her back and such start acting up, and just being as loving and understanding as i can), i still feel like im not doing enough though. As it stands shes almost completely paying for our honeymoon with all of the extra money shes getting from work, and insists on doing a large portion of house cleaning among other things she prefers to take care of herself.\n\nI know that when school starts again she is going to be under a hell of a lot of pressure and its going to stress her out, and im trying to figure out what else i can do to help make her days a bit easier, any suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my fiance are getting married in about a week, she currently works more than full time (has been doing as much OT as she can at the hospital where she works and regularly works weekend), and will soon be going back to school (2 classes a day), and has to deal with all of that on top of making sure we get everything together for our wedding day and honeymoon.\n\nI work from home, 40h a week and have a LOT of free time, i try to clean the house every night before she gets home, and always have dinner waiting for her on the days she works, as well i try to do whatever else i can to help with the day to day stuff (finances as far as my mathematically challenged brain will allow, massages whenever her back and such start acting up, and just being as loving and understanding as i can), i still feel like im not doing enough though. As it stands shes almost completely paying for our honeymoon with all of the extra money shes getting from work, and insists on doing a large portion of house cleaning among other things she prefers to take care of herself.\n\nI know that when school starts again she is going to be under a hell of a lot of pressure and its going to stress her out, and im trying to figure out what else i can do to help make her days a bit easier, any suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my fiance are getting married in about a week, she currently works more than full time (has been doing as much OT as she can at the hospital where she works and regularly works weekend), and will soon be going back to school (2 classes a day), and has to deal with all of that on top of making sure we get everything together for our wedding day and honeymoon.\n\nI work from home, 40h a week and have a LOT of free time, i try to clean the house every night before she gets home, and always have dinner waiting for her on the days she works, as well i try to do whatever else i can to help with the day to day stuff (finances as far as my mathematically challenged brain will allow, massages whenever her back and such start acting up, and just being as loving and understanding as i can), i still feel like im not doing enough though. As it stands shes almost completely paying for our honeymoon with all of the extra money shes getting from work, and insists on doing a large portion of house cleaning among other things she prefers to take care of herself.\n\nI know that when school starts again she is going to be under a hell of a lot of pressure and its going to stress her out, and im trying to figure out what else i can do to help make her days a bit easier, any suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last week i filled out a raffle ticket with no expectations on winning. It was at a store called Green Cactus (think Chipotle or Moe's). Today i got a call from Trip Vista saying that i've won and to call the manager and listen to the voicemail. He kept going on and on about these upgrades on hotels, nights, cruises, and kept mentioning that this trip has nothing to do with a timeshares. The voicemail was 10 minutes long and didn't hear everything he said, but i didn't want to hear the bullshit again. Anyways i call to speak to a real representative and she essentially laid out the hotel options, cruise options, etc. I told them i wasn't interested because i get sea sick and other bullshit, and said i just wanted the 4 day, 3 night bahamas vacation that i've won. She puts me on hold after nervously laughing and then tells me only the hotel will be covered and that i'd have to cover flight and other expenses. She said she would mail the hotel vouchers in this week, but i'm guessing it will be some shitty motel, miles from the beach. Although i have technically claimed my prize, should i call again on Monday to speak to another representative or is it just not worth it at all? \n\nAnyone have experience in a similar situation? Need advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last week i filled out a raffle ticket with no expectations on winning. It was at a store called Green Cactus (think Chipotle or Moe's). Today i got a call from Trip Vista saying that i've won and to call the manager and listen to the voicemail. He kept going on and on about these upgrades on hotels, nights, cruises, and kept mentioning that this trip has nothing to do with a timeshares. The voicemail was 10 minutes long and didn't hear everything he said, but i didn't want to hear the bullshit again. Anyways i call to speak to a real representative and she essentially laid out the hotel options, cruise options, etc. I told them i wasn't interested because i get sea sick and other bullshit, and said i just wanted the 4 day, 3 night bahamas vacation that i've won. She puts me on hold after nervously laughing and then tells me only the hotel will be covered and that i'd have to cover flight and other expenses. She said she would mail the hotel vouchers in this week, but i'm guessing it will be some shitty motel, miles from the beach. Although i have technically claimed my prize, should i call again on Monday to speak to another representative or is it just not worth it at all? \n\nAnyone have experience in a similar situation? Need advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last week i filled out a raffle ticket with no expectations on winning. It was at a store called Green Cactus (think Chipotle or Moe's). Today i got a call from Trip Vista saying that i've won and to call the manager and listen to the voicemail. He kept going on and on about these upgrades on hotels, nights, cruises, and kept mentioning that this trip has nothing to do with a timeshares. The voicemail was 10 minutes long and didn't hear everything he said, but i didn't want to hear the bullshit again. Anyways i call to speak to a real representative and she essentially laid out the hotel options, cruise options, etc. I told them i wasn't interested because i get sea sick and other bullshit, and said i just wanted the 4 day, 3 night bahamas vacation that i've won. She puts me on hold after nervously laughing and then tells me only the hotel will be covered and that i'd have to cover flight and other expenses. She said she would mail the hotel vouchers in this week, but i'm guessing it will be some shitty motel, miles from the beach. Although i have technically claimed my prize, should i call again on Monday to speak to another representative or is it just not worth it at all? \n\nAnyone have experience in a similar situation? Need advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last week i filled out a raffle ticket with no expectations on winning. It was at a store called Green Cactus (think Chipotle or Moe's). Today i got a call from Trip Vista saying that i've won and to call the manager and listen to the voicemail. He kept going on and on about these upgrades on hotels, nights, cruises, and kept mentioning that this trip has nothing to do with a timeshares. The voicemail was 10 minutes long and didn't hear everything he said, but i didn't want to hear the bullshit again. Anyways i call to speak to a real representative and she essentially laid out the hotel options, cruise options, etc. I told them i wasn't interested because i get sea sick and other bullshit, and said i just wanted the 4 day, 3 night bahamas vacation that i've won. She puts me on hold after nervously laughing and then tells me only the hotel will be covered and that i'd have to cover flight and other expenses. She said she would mail the hotel vouchers in this week, but i'm guessing it will be some shitty motel, miles from the beach. Although i have technically claimed my prize, should i call again on Monday to speak to another representative or is it just not worth it at all? \n\nAnyone have experience in a similar situation? Need advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last month, I met this girl on the Plenty Of Fish dating website. We have a lot in common and we clicked instantly, and I sense some real potential here. We video chat every night. She constantly makes me laugh. She's caring, such a sweetheart, and everything would be perfect if only she weren't so clingy.\n\nWe haven't met in person yet due to her living a little ways away and me being on vacation for the past two weeks, but now that I'm back we were planning on hanging out next weekend. I'm just unsure on what to do. She has crippling social anxiety and major insecurity issues and has made it clear to me an abundance of times, and while I understand that, her behavior is coming out sideways. When we're video chatting, everything's perfect. When we're not (which is the majority of the time), it's like she's a whole different person. She's constantly messaging me (and if I don't answer RIGHT away, she'll message me back 3-4 more times), giving me stifling amounts of compliments or asking if I'm mad at her or being pissed if I tell her I'm too busy to talk. It's obvious her anxiety issues are severe, and while I felt bad for her at first, now she's just coming off as whiny and paranoid and it's too much to handle. I tried talking to her about it multiple times, and she said she'll work on it but nothing is changing. I can't tell if it's just because she's young/naive - she hasn't had any real relationships before, and she just might not know how to control her feelings yet, or if she'll just always be a clinger.\n\nIs it worth me driving over an hour to see this girl who I do have great chemistry with, even if she's *very* overwhelming at times, or should I not even waste my time?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last month, I met this girl on the Plenty Of Fish dating website. We have a lot in common and we clicked instantly, and I sense some real potential here. We video chat every night. She constantly makes me laugh. She's caring, such a sweetheart, and everything would be perfect if only she weren't so clingy.\n\nWe haven't met in person yet due to her living a little ways away and me being on vacation for the past two weeks, but now that I'm back we were planning on hanging out next weekend. I'm just unsure on what to do. She has crippling social anxiety and major insecurity issues and has made it clear to me an abundance of times, and while I understand that, her behavior is coming out sideways. When we're video chatting, everything's perfect. When we're not (which is the majority of the time), it's like she's a whole different person. She's constantly messaging me (and if I don't answer RIGHT away, she'll message me back 3-4 more times), giving me stifling amounts of compliments or asking if I'm mad at her or being pissed if I tell her I'm too busy to talk. It's obvious her anxiety issues are severe, and while I felt bad for her at first, now she's just coming off as whiny and paranoid and it's too much to handle. I tried talking to her about it multiple times, and she said she'll work on it but nothing is changing. I can't tell if it's just because she's young/naive - she hasn't had any real relationships before, and she just might not know how to control her feelings yet, or if she'll just always be a clinger.\n\nIs it worth me driving over an hour to see this girl who I do have great chemistry with, even if she's *very* overwhelming at times, or should I not even waste my time?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last month, I met this girl on the Plenty Of Fish dating website. We have a lot in common and we clicked instantly, and I sense some real potential here. We video chat every night. She constantly makes me laugh. She's caring, such a sweetheart, and everything would be perfect if only she weren't so clingy.\n\nWe haven't met in person yet due to her living a little ways away and me being on vacation for the past two weeks, but now that I'm back we were planning on hanging out next weekend. I'm just unsure on what to do. She has crippling social anxiety and major insecurity issues and has made it clear to me an abundance of times, and while I understand that, her behavior is coming out sideways. When we're video chatting, everything's perfect. When we're not (which is the majority of the time), it's like she's a whole different person. She's constantly messaging me (and if I don't answer RIGHT away, she'll message me back 3-4 more times), giving me stifling amounts of compliments or asking if I'm mad at her or being pissed if I tell her I'm too busy to talk. It's obvious her anxiety issues are severe, and while I felt bad for her at first, now she's just coming off as whiny and paranoid and it's too much to handle. I tried talking to her about it multiple times, and she said she'll work on it but nothing is changing. I can't tell if it's just because she's young/naive - she hasn't had any real relationships before, and she just might not know how to control her feelings yet, or if she'll just always be a clinger.\n\nIs it worth me driving over an hour to see this girl who I do have great chemistry with, even if she's *very* overwhelming at times, or should I not even waste my time?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last month, I met this girl on the Plenty Of Fish dating website. We have a lot in common and we clicked instantly, and I sense some real potential here. We video chat every night. She constantly makes me laugh. She's caring, such a sweetheart, and everything would be perfect if only she weren't so clingy.\n\nWe haven't met in person yet due to her living a little ways away and me being on vacation for the past two weeks, but now that I'm back we were planning on hanging out next weekend. I'm just unsure on what to do. She has crippling social anxiety and major insecurity issues and has made it clear to me an abundance of times, and while I understand that, her behavior is coming out sideways. When we're video chatting, everything's perfect. When we're not (which is the majority of the time), it's like she's a whole different person. She's constantly messaging me (and if I don't answer RIGHT away, she'll message me back 3-4 more times), giving me stifling amounts of compliments or asking if I'm mad at her or being pissed if I tell her I'm too busy to talk. It's obvious her anxiety issues are severe, and while I felt bad for her at first, now she's just coming off as whiny and paranoid and it's too much to handle. I tried talking to her about it multiple times, and she said she'll work on it but nothing is changing. I can't tell if it's just because she's young/naive - she hasn't had any real relationships before, and she just might not know how to control her feelings yet, or if she'll just always be a clinger.\n\nIs it worth me driving over an hour to see this girl who I do have great chemistry with, even if she's *very* overwhelming at times, or should I not even waste my time?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My partner likes her smartphone. She jokes that she's attached at the hip to it, but she doesn't see how true that is.\n\nShe gets on her phone the second she wakes up, and uses it all day, even falling asleep to it at night.\n\nAll day long she's on that thing! She takes it to the kitchen when she's cooking, and uses it while she eats. She takes it outside when she smokes. When we watch a movie or a TV show together, she tunes that out to play on her phone. At night, she sleeps the wrong direction in bed in order to be near the wall outlet so she can charge/use her phone overnight. Of course, she's playing on it while she falls asleep. (I have to sleep the wrong direction in bed, too, because we're sharing a single-person bed with one pillow.) She even takes it with her on every trip to the bathroom!\n\nLiterally, the only time I can think of that she DOESN'T use it is when we are grocery shopping a few times a week. There's a 50/50 chance that she'll be on it while I drive us to the grocery store, too. \n\nThis morning I wanted to spend time with her, but the laptop she was using to charge her phone was loud. I asked her to unplug it for a little while. She said, \"There's no point in being in here if I can't use my phone,\" and promptly left the bedroom. \n\nI'm tired of being ignored. I've talked to her about it multiple times, but it goes in one ear and out the other. On the rare occasion that it DOES register, she starts blaming ME for ignoring HER, and then we get into a conversation about my faults! I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong; I initiate conversation and activities all the time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My partner likes her smartphone. She jokes that she's attached at the hip to it, but she doesn't see how true that is.\n\nShe gets on her phone the second she wakes up, and uses it all day, even falling asleep to it at night.\n\nAll day long she's on that thing! She takes it to the kitchen when she's cooking, and uses it while she eats. She takes it outside when she smokes. When we watch a movie or a TV show together, she tunes that out to play on her phone. At night, she sleeps the wrong direction in bed in order to be near the wall outlet so she can charge/use her phone overnight. Of course, she's playing on it while she falls asleep. (I have to sleep the wrong direction in bed, too, because we're sharing a single-person bed with one pillow.) She even takes it with her on every trip to the bathroom!\n\nLiterally, the only time I can think of that she DOESN'T use it is when we are grocery shopping a few times a week. There's a 50/50 chance that she'll be on it while I drive us to the grocery store, too. \n\nThis morning I wanted to spend time with her, but the laptop she was using to charge her phone was loud. I asked her to unplug it for a little while. She said, \"There's no point in being in here if I can't use my phone,\" and promptly left the bedroom. \n\nI'm tired of being ignored. I've talked to her about it multiple times, but it goes in one ear and out the other. On the rare occasion that it DOES register, she starts blaming ME for ignoring HER, and then we get into a conversation about my faults! I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong; I initiate conversation and activities all the time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My partner likes her smartphone. She jokes that she's attached at the hip to it, but she doesn't see how true that is.\n\nShe gets on her phone the second she wakes up, and uses it all day, even falling asleep to it at night.\n\nAll day long she's on that thing! She takes it to the kitchen when she's cooking, and uses it while she eats. She takes it outside when she smokes. When we watch a movie or a TV show together, she tunes that out to play on her phone. At night, she sleeps the wrong direction in bed in order to be near the wall outlet so she can charge/use her phone overnight. Of course, she's playing on it while she falls asleep. (I have to sleep the wrong direction in bed, too, because we're sharing a single-person bed with one pillow.) She even takes it with her on every trip to the bathroom!\n\nLiterally, the only time I can think of that she DOESN'T use it is when we are grocery shopping a few times a week. There's a 50/50 chance that she'll be on it while I drive us to the grocery store, too. \n\nThis morning I wanted to spend time with her, but the laptop she was using to charge her phone was loud. I asked her to unplug it for a little while. She said, \"There's no point in being in here if I can't use my phone,\" and promptly left the bedroom. \n\nI'm tired of being ignored. I've talked to her about it multiple times, but it goes in one ear and out the other. On the rare occasion that it DOES register, she starts blaming ME for ignoring HER, and then we get into a conversation about my faults! I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong; I initiate conversation and activities all the time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My partner likes her smartphone. She jokes that she's attached at the hip to it, but she doesn't see how true that is.\n\nShe gets on her phone the second she wakes up, and uses it all day, even falling asleep to it at night.\n\nAll day long she's on that thing! She takes it to the kitchen when she's cooking, and uses it while she eats. She takes it outside when she smokes. When we watch a movie or a TV show together, she tunes that out to play on her phone. At night, she sleeps the wrong direction in bed in order to be near the wall outlet so she can charge/use her phone overnight. Of course, she's playing on it while she falls asleep. (I have to sleep the wrong direction in bed, too, because we're sharing a single-person bed with one pillow.) She even takes it with her on every trip to the bathroom!\n\nLiterally, the only time I can think of that she DOESN'T use it is when we are grocery shopping a few times a week. There's a 50/50 chance that she'll be on it while I drive us to the grocery store, too. \n\nThis morning I wanted to spend time with her, but the laptop she was using to charge her phone was loud. I asked her to unplug it for a little while. She said, \"There's no point in being in here if I can't use my phone,\" and promptly left the bedroom. \n\nI'm tired of being ignored. I've talked to her about it multiple times, but it goes in one ear and out the other. On the rare occasion that it DOES register, she starts blaming ME for ignoring HER, and then we get into a conversation about my faults! I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong; I initiate conversation and activities all the time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Reddit I know we aren't the best at doing productive things but I need ideas. I started a second job 5 months ago I work 11pm-7am full time that's 40 hours a week I literally have nothing to do but sit here on my laptop. There are no supervisors just my partner. I just feel like it's so much time wasted I could be doing something. If I worked day shift I would do some day trading and make some money but can't do that. I should really get Rosetta stone and learn a language but that's kinda boring. Anyone have ideas? Teach my self to program maybe get apples app software learn and make an app? And I already have hundreds of hours logged on steam already and keep an xbox here. I can do almost anything that doesn't involve going outside by law two people must stay in this room at all times."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Reddit I know we aren't the best at doing productive things but I need ideas. I started a second job 5 months ago I work 11pm-7am full time that's 40 hours a week I literally have nothing to do but sit here on my laptop. There are no supervisors just my partner. I just feel like it's so much time wasted I could be doing something. If I worked day shift I would do some day trading and make some money but can't do that. I should really get Rosetta stone and learn a language but that's kinda boring. Anyone have ideas? Teach my self to program maybe get apples app software learn and make an app? And I already have hundreds of hours logged on steam already and keep an xbox here. I can do almost anything that doesn't involve going outside by law two people must stay in this room at all times."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Reddit I know we aren't the best at doing productive things but I need ideas. I started a second job 5 months ago I work 11pm-7am full time that's 40 hours a week I literally have nothing to do but sit here on my laptop. There are no supervisors just my partner. I just feel like it's so much time wasted I could be doing something. If I worked day shift I would do some day trading and make some money but can't do that. I should really get Rosetta stone and learn a language but that's kinda boring. Anyone have ideas? Teach my self to program maybe get apples app software learn and make an app? And I already have hundreds of hours logged on steam already and keep an xbox here. I can do almost anything that doesn't involve going outside by law two people must stay in this room at all times."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Reddit I know we aren't the best at doing productive things but I need ideas. I started a second job 5 months ago I work 11pm-7am full time that's 40 hours a week I literally have nothing to do but sit here on my laptop. There are no supervisors just my partner. I just feel like it's so much time wasted I could be doing something. If I worked day shift I would do some day trading and make some money but can't do that. I should really get Rosetta stone and learn a language but that's kinda boring. Anyone have ideas? Teach my self to program maybe get apples app software learn and make an app? And I already have hundreds of hours logged on steam already and keep an xbox here. I can do almost anything that doesn't involve going outside by law two people must stay in this room at all times."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been struggling feeling like my girlfriend is more experienced than me, which makes me feel insecure and inadequate. I realize this is irrational, but I feel that may be exaggerating the difference in sexual experience between us in my head.\n\nThe nature of our past sex lives is essentially this. I had one long term relationship with a girl who I had sex with roughly 150-200 times over the course of our relationship. I then had a one night stand with a girl I didn't like much, and then spent a 2-3 nights with 2 different girls from tinder. Then I met my gf.\n\nShe had sex with a long term relationship with a guy but only had sex with him one time. Afterwards, she had drunken sex with 9 different people, usually 1-2 times each, except with one guy whom she was with 4 times.\n\nI realize I shouldn't even be comparing this part of our lives because its pointless, but I just feel so innocent and inexperienced in comparison to her when I'm not even sure if this is actually the case."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been struggling feeling like my girlfriend is more experienced than me, which makes me feel insecure and inadequate. I realize this is irrational, but I feel that may be exaggerating the difference in sexual experience between us in my head.\n\nThe nature of our past sex lives is essentially this. I had one long term relationship with a girl who I had sex with roughly 150-200 times over the course of our relationship. I then had a one night stand with a girl I didn't like much, and then spent a 2-3 nights with 2 different girls from tinder. Then I met my gf.\n\nShe had sex with a long term relationship with a guy but only had sex with him one time. Afterwards, she had drunken sex with 9 different people, usually 1-2 times each, except with one guy whom she was with 4 times.\n\nI realize I shouldn't even be comparing this part of our lives because its pointless, but I just feel so innocent and inexperienced in comparison to her when I'm not even sure if this is actually the case."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been struggling feeling like my girlfriend is more experienced than me, which makes me feel insecure and inadequate. I realize this is irrational, but I feel that may be exaggerating the difference in sexual experience between us in my head.\n\nThe nature of our past sex lives is essentially this. I had one long term relationship with a girl who I had sex with roughly 150-200 times over the course of our relationship. I then had a one night stand with a girl I didn't like much, and then spent a 2-3 nights with 2 different girls from tinder. Then I met my gf.\n\nShe had sex with a long term relationship with a guy but only had sex with him one time. Afterwards, she had drunken sex with 9 different people, usually 1-2 times each, except with one guy whom she was with 4 times.\n\nI realize I shouldn't even be comparing this part of our lives because its pointless, but I just feel so innocent and inexperienced in comparison to her when I'm not even sure if this is actually the case."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been struggling feeling like my girlfriend is more experienced than me, which makes me feel insecure and inadequate. I realize this is irrational, but I feel that may be exaggerating the difference in sexual experience between us in my head.\n\nThe nature of our past sex lives is essentially this. I had one long term relationship with a girl who I had sex with roughly 150-200 times over the course of our relationship. I then had a one night stand with a girl I didn't like much, and then spent a 2-3 nights with 2 different girls from tinder. Then I met my gf.\n\nShe had sex with a long term relationship with a guy but only had sex with him one time. Afterwards, she had drunken sex with 9 different people, usually 1-2 times each, except with one guy whom she was with 4 times.\n\nI realize I shouldn't even be comparing this part of our lives because its pointless, but I just feel so innocent and inexperienced in comparison to her when I'm not even sure if this is actually the case."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In High School, I had a lady friend over late at my house on a school night. We were up chatting and having sexytimes, until about 6 in da monin. I didn't realize it was so late, until I heard my parents door open down the hall. Freaking the fuck out, I told her to get in the closet, and hide for a bit until they left for work. I laid back down to act like I was sleeping, knowing my dad came in my room to check his email every morning. This is where it all went horribly wrong. 3 hours later, I was awoken by an utterly horrified girl, crying an screaming at me. When I laid down, apparently, I had immediately passed out. Once she calmed down, she told me that my dad came in, and she stopped breathing for about 10 mins. My closet was also pretty damn dirty, so if she moved, it would have knocked something over. \n\nLater that night, my mom came home and asked me what my girlfriends shoes were doing at the front door when they left. Like a boss, I replied, she accidentally left them here. She has inside and outside shoes. My mom bought it, never underestimate the power of denial. \n\nI have more, that was the best one though. Tell me yours."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In High School, I had a lady friend over late at my house on a school night. We were up chatting and having sexytimes, until about 6 in da monin. I didn't realize it was so late, until I heard my parents door open down the hall. Freaking the fuck out, I told her to get in the closet, and hide for a bit until they left for work. I laid back down to act like I was sleeping, knowing my dad came in my room to check his email every morning. This is where it all went horribly wrong. 3 hours later, I was awoken by an utterly horrified girl, crying an screaming at me. When I laid down, apparently, I had immediately passed out. Once she calmed down, she told me that my dad came in, and she stopped breathing for about 10 mins. My closet was also pretty damn dirty, so if she moved, it would have knocked something over. \n\nLater that night, my mom came home and asked me what my girlfriends shoes were doing at the front door when they left. Like a boss, I replied, she accidentally left them here. She has inside and outside shoes. My mom bought it, never underestimate the power of denial. \n\nI have more, that was the best one though. Tell me yours."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In High School, I had a lady friend over late at my house on a school night. We were up chatting and having sexytimes, until about 6 in da monin. I didn't realize it was so late, until I heard my parents door open down the hall. Freaking the fuck out, I told her to get in the closet, and hide for a bit until they left for work. I laid back down to act like I was sleeping, knowing my dad came in my room to check his email every morning. This is where it all went horribly wrong. 3 hours later, I was awoken by an utterly horrified girl, crying an screaming at me. When I laid down, apparently, I had immediately passed out. Once she calmed down, she told me that my dad came in, and she stopped breathing for about 10 mins. My closet was also pretty damn dirty, so if she moved, it would have knocked something over. \n\nLater that night, my mom came home and asked me what my girlfriends shoes were doing at the front door when they left. Like a boss, I replied, she accidentally left them here. She has inside and outside shoes. My mom bought it, never underestimate the power of denial. \n\nI have more, that was the best one though. Tell me yours."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So as the title says my friend has been in a rocky and toxic relationship for several years and recently got engaged. He has talked about breaking off the relationship several times and has asked if he can move in with me (they live together). I have told him my house is open to him any time. \n\nHe has never followed through. The farthest he has gotten is borrowing my SUV to move then returning it empty and apologizing.\n\nI have talked with him before when they broke up after about a year into the relationship saying that they weren't good for each other, ect. \n\nWhen he came to me about calling off the engagement I tried to stay unbiased and let him work through his thoughts (mostly because the talk several years earlier put a strain on our friendship) and not offer to much of my own opinion. \n\nHe knows that they are both \"just going through the motions\" at this point. Partially due to the age difference this is going to end 2 ways: 1) they break up or 2) they stay together and have a kid(s). \n\nI am looking for advice as to what to say to him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So as the title says my friend has been in a rocky and toxic relationship for several years and recently got engaged. He has talked about breaking off the relationship several times and has asked if he can move in with me (they live together). I have told him my house is open to him any time. \n\nHe has never followed through. The farthest he has gotten is borrowing my SUV to move then returning it empty and apologizing.\n\nI have talked with him before when they broke up after about a year into the relationship saying that they weren't good for each other, ect. \n\nWhen he came to me about calling off the engagement I tried to stay unbiased and let him work through his thoughts (mostly because the talk several years earlier put a strain on our friendship) and not offer to much of my own opinion. \n\nHe knows that they are both \"just going through the motions\" at this point. Partially due to the age difference this is going to end 2 ways: 1) they break up or 2) they stay together and have a kid(s). \n\nI am looking for advice as to what to say to him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So as the title says my friend has been in a rocky and toxic relationship for several years and recently got engaged. He has talked about breaking off the relationship several times and has asked if he can move in with me (they live together). I have told him my house is open to him any time. \n\nHe has never followed through. The farthest he has gotten is borrowing my SUV to move then returning it empty and apologizing.\n\nI have talked with him before when they broke up after about a year into the relationship saying that they weren't good for each other, ect. \n\nWhen he came to me about calling off the engagement I tried to stay unbiased and let him work through his thoughts (mostly because the talk several years earlier put a strain on our friendship) and not offer to much of my own opinion. \n\nHe knows that they are both \"just going through the motions\" at this point. Partially due to the age difference this is going to end 2 ways: 1) they break up or 2) they stay together and have a kid(s). \n\nI am looking for advice as to what to say to him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So as the title says my friend has been in a rocky and toxic relationship for several years and recently got engaged. He has talked about breaking off the relationship several times and has asked if he can move in with me (they live together). I have told him my house is open to him any time. \n\nHe has never followed through. The farthest he has gotten is borrowing my SUV to move then returning it empty and apologizing.\n\nI have talked with him before when they broke up after about a year into the relationship saying that they weren't good for each other, ect. \n\nWhen he came to me about calling off the engagement I tried to stay unbiased and let him work through his thoughts (mostly because the talk several years earlier put a strain on our friendship) and not offer to much of my own opinion. \n\nHe knows that they are both \"just going through the motions\" at this point. Partially due to the age difference this is going to end 2 ways: 1) they break up or 2) they stay together and have a kid(s). \n\nI am looking for advice as to what to say to him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive been seeing this girl for around 6 months, she wants us to go 'facebook official', we are already very official and all my friends and her friends know we are dating and have been for a while. Thing is, I am a very private person and rather not put anything up on my facebook, it doesen't even say that im single, it says nothing at all. She wants me to put up her name under relationship status but I told her I am private, she understood but still feels a bit bad about it. Is there anything I can do instead that would make her feel better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive been seeing this girl for around 6 months, she wants us to go 'facebook official', we are already very official and all my friends and her friends know we are dating and have been for a while. Thing is, I am a very private person and rather not put anything up on my facebook, it doesen't even say that im single, it says nothing at all. She wants me to put up her name under relationship status but I told her I am private, she understood but still feels a bit bad about it. Is there anything I can do instead that would make her feel better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive been seeing this girl for around 6 months, she wants us to go 'facebook official', we are already very official and all my friends and her friends know we are dating and have been for a while. Thing is, I am a very private person and rather not put anything up on my facebook, it doesen't even say that im single, it says nothing at all. She wants me to put up her name under relationship status but I told her I am private, she understood but still feels a bit bad about it. Is there anything I can do instead that would make her feel better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive been seeing this girl for around 6 months, she wants us to go 'facebook official', we are already very official and all my friends and her friends know we are dating and have been for a while. Thing is, I am a very private person and rather not put anything up on my facebook, it doesen't even say that im single, it says nothing at all. She wants me to put up her name under relationship status but I told her I am private, she understood but still feels a bit bad about it. Is there anything I can do instead that would make her feel better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive been seeing this girl for around 6 months, she wants us to go 'facebook official', we are already very official and all my friends and her friends know we are dating and have been for a while. Thing is, I am a very private person and rather not put anything up on my facebook, it doesen't even say that im single, it says nothing at all. She wants me to put up her name under relationship status but I told her I am private, she understood but still feels a bit bad about it. Is there anything I can do instead that would make her feel better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive been seeing this girl for around 6 months, she wants us to go 'facebook official', we are already very official and all my friends and her friends know we are dating and have been for a while. Thing is, I am a very private person and rather not put anything up on my facebook, it doesen't even say that im single, it says nothing at all. She wants me to put up her name under relationship status but I told her I am private, she understood but still feels a bit bad about it. Is there anything I can do instead that would make her feel better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive been seeing this girl for around 6 months, she wants us to go 'facebook official', we are already very official and all my friends and her friends know we are dating and have been for a while. Thing is, I am a very private person and rather not put anything up on my facebook, it doesen't even say that im single, it says nothing at all. She wants me to put up her name under relationship status but I told her I am private, she understood but still feels a bit bad about it. Is there anything I can do instead that would make her feel better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive been seeing this girl for around 6 months, she wants us to go 'facebook official', we are already very official and all my friends and her friends know we are dating and have been for a while. Thing is, I am a very private person and rather not put anything up on my facebook, it doesen't even say that im single, it says nothing at all. She wants me to put up her name under relationship status but I told her I am private, she understood but still feels a bit bad about it. Is there anything I can do instead that would make her feel better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive been seeing this girl for around 6 months, she wants us to go 'facebook official', we are already very official and all my friends and her friends know we are dating and have been for a while. Thing is, I am a very private person and rather not put anything up on my facebook, it doesen't even say that im single, it says nothing at all. She wants me to put up her name under relationship status but I told her I am private, she understood but still feels a bit bad about it. Is there anything I can do instead that would make her feel better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive been seeing this girl for around 6 months, she wants us to go 'facebook official', we are already very official and all my friends and her friends know we are dating and have been for a while. Thing is, I am a very private person and rather not put anything up on my facebook, it doesen't even say that im single, it says nothing at all. She wants me to put up her name under relationship status but I told her I am private, she understood but still feels a bit bad about it. Is there anything I can do instead that would make her feel better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive been seeing this girl for around 6 months, she wants us to go 'facebook official', we are already very official and all my friends and her friends know we are dating and have been for a while. Thing is, I am a very private person and rather not put anything up on my facebook, it doesen't even say that im single, it says nothing at all. She wants me to put up her name under relationship status but I told her I am private, she understood but still feels a bit bad about it. Is there anything I can do instead that would make her feel better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive been seeing this girl for around 6 months, she wants us to go 'facebook official', we are already very official and all my friends and her friends know we are dating and have been for a while. Thing is, I am a very private person and rather not put anything up on my facebook, it doesen't even say that im single, it says nothing at all. She wants me to put up her name under relationship status but I told her I am private, she understood but still feels a bit bad about it. Is there anything I can do instead that would make her feel better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive been seeing this girl for around 6 months, she wants us to go 'facebook official', we are already very official and all my friends and her friends know we are dating and have been for a while. Thing is, I am a very private person and rather not put anything up on my facebook, it doesen't even say that im single, it says nothing at all. She wants me to put up her name under relationship status but I told her I am private, she understood but still feels a bit bad about it. Is there anything I can do instead that would make her feel better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive been seeing this girl for around 6 months, she wants us to go 'facebook official', we are already very official and all my friends and her friends know we are dating and have been for a while. Thing is, I am a very private person and rather not put anything up on my facebook, it doesen't even say that im single, it says nothing at all. She wants me to put up her name under relationship status but I told her I am private, she understood but still feels a bit bad about it. Is there anything I can do instead that would make her feel better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive been seeing this girl for around 6 months, she wants us to go 'facebook official', we are already very official and all my friends and her friends know we are dating and have been for a while. Thing is, I am a very private person and rather not put anything up on my facebook, it doesen't even say that im single, it says nothing at all. She wants me to put up her name under relationship status but I told her I am private, she understood but still feels a bit bad about it. Is there anything I can do instead that would make her feel better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive been seeing this girl for around 6 months, she wants us to go 'facebook official', we are already very official and all my friends and her friends know we are dating and have been for a while. Thing is, I am a very private person and rather not put anything up on my facebook, it doesen't even say that im single, it says nothing at all. She wants me to put up her name under relationship status but I told her I am private, she understood but still feels a bit bad about it. Is there anything I can do instead that would make her feel better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive been seeing this girl for around 6 months, she wants us to go 'facebook official', we are already very official and all my friends and her friends know we are dating and have been for a while. Thing is, I am a very private person and rather not put anything up on my facebook, it doesen't even say that im single, it says nothing at all. She wants me to put up her name under relationship status but I told her I am private, she understood but still feels a bit bad about it. Is there anything I can do instead that would make her feel better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive been seeing this girl for around 6 months, she wants us to go 'facebook official', we are already very official and all my friends and her friends know we are dating and have been for a while. Thing is, I am a very private person and rather not put anything up on my facebook, it doesen't even say that im single, it says nothing at all. She wants me to put up her name under relationship status but I told her I am private, she understood but still feels a bit bad about it. Is there anything I can do instead that would make her feel better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive been seeing this girl for around 6 months, she wants us to go 'facebook official', we are already very official and all my friends and her friends know we are dating and have been for a while. Thing is, I am a very private person and rather not put anything up on my facebook, it doesen't even say that im single, it says nothing at all. She wants me to put up her name under relationship status but I told her I am private, she understood but still feels a bit bad about it. Is there anything I can do instead that would make her feel better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive been seeing this girl for around 6 months, she wants us to go 'facebook official', we are already very official and all my friends and her friends know we are dating and have been for a while. Thing is, I am a very private person and rather not put anything up on my facebook, it doesen't even say that im single, it says nothing at all. She wants me to put up her name under relationship status but I told her I am private, she understood but still feels a bit bad about it. Is there anything I can do instead that would make her feel better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive been seeing this girl for around 6 months, she wants us to go 'facebook official', we are already very official and all my friends and her friends know we are dating and have been for a while. Thing is, I am a very private person and rather not put anything up on my facebook, it doesen't even say that im single, it says nothing at all. She wants me to put up her name under relationship status but I told her I am private, she understood but still feels a bit bad about it. Is there anything I can do instead that would make her feel better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive been seeing this girl for around 6 months, she wants us to go 'facebook official', we are already very official and all my friends and her friends know we are dating and have been for a while. Thing is, I am a very private person and rather not put anything up on my facebook, it doesen't even say that im single, it says nothing at all. She wants me to put up her name under relationship status but I told her I am private, she understood but still feels a bit bad about it. Is there anything I can do instead that would make her feel better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive been seeing this girl for around 6 months, she wants us to go 'facebook official', we are already very official and all my friends and her friends know we are dating and have been for a while. Thing is, I am a very private person and rather not put anything up on my facebook, it doesen't even say that im single, it says nothing at all. She wants me to put up her name under relationship status but I told her I am private, she understood but still feels a bit bad about it. Is there anything I can do instead that would make her feel better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ive been seeing this girl for around 6 months, she wants us to go 'facebook official', we are already very official and all my friends and her friends know we are dating and have been for a while. Thing is, I am a very private person and rather not put anything up on my facebook, it doesen't even say that im single, it says nothing at all. She wants me to put up her name under relationship status but I told her I am private, she understood but still feels a bit bad about it. Is there anything I can do instead that would make her feel better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't have a car at the moment. I don't mind getting public transport but my friend, we'll call her Casey, offered to give me a lift to and from uni since we have the exact same time table. She lives literally a minute away from me but she asked for gas money. I was like uh okay I guess that's fair since she's taking me to and from there even though it's like 60 seconds between our houses.\n\nI found out a couple days ago that she's suuper stingy with money. Our mothers are friends and they went out to lunch. Casey's mum told my mum that she never pays the bills (she still lives at hom), never pays for groceries, makes her mum pay for her makeup, and when she drives her mum to her doctor appointments Casey even asks her mum to give money for the petrol. Also the way she asked me for the money was kinda in a rude tone, it put me off talking to her for a bit.\n\nI have no problem paying for gas money but now it's like. Is my contribution even going towards the gas? She gets paid her student allowance from the gov every fortnight which is like $300 which isn't a lot but still I'm just suspicious she's just gonna pocket my money. She also has to go like 1 minute out of her way to pick up so I'm kinda meh about the whole thing. My dad passed away in June, I thought she would be a bit more compassionate and help me save all the money I can for bills since we're struggling.\n\nAm I being just as stingy? I'm not sure what to do :/"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't have a car at the moment. I don't mind getting public transport but my friend, we'll call her Casey, offered to give me a lift to and from uni since we have the exact same time table. She lives literally a minute away from me but she asked for gas money. I was like uh okay I guess that's fair since she's taking me to and from there even though it's like 60 seconds between our houses.\n\nI found out a couple days ago that she's suuper stingy with money. Our mothers are friends and they went out to lunch. Casey's mum told my mum that she never pays the bills (she still lives at hom), never pays for groceries, makes her mum pay for her makeup, and when she drives her mum to her doctor appointments Casey even asks her mum to give money for the petrol. Also the way she asked me for the money was kinda in a rude tone, it put me off talking to her for a bit.\n\nI have no problem paying for gas money but now it's like. Is my contribution even going towards the gas? She gets paid her student allowance from the gov every fortnight which is like $300 which isn't a lot but still I'm just suspicious she's just gonna pocket my money. She also has to go like 1 minute out of her way to pick up so I'm kinda meh about the whole thing. My dad passed away in June, I thought she would be a bit more compassionate and help me save all the money I can for bills since we're struggling.\n\nAm I being just as stingy? I'm not sure what to do :/"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't have a car at the moment. I don't mind getting public transport but my friend, we'll call her Casey, offered to give me a lift to and from uni since we have the exact same time table. She lives literally a minute away from me but she asked for gas money. I was like uh okay I guess that's fair since she's taking me to and from there even though it's like 60 seconds between our houses.\n\nI found out a couple days ago that she's suuper stingy with money. Our mothers are friends and they went out to lunch. Casey's mum told my mum that she never pays the bills (she still lives at hom), never pays for groceries, makes her mum pay for her makeup, and when she drives her mum to her doctor appointments Casey even asks her mum to give money for the petrol. Also the way she asked me for the money was kinda in a rude tone, it put me off talking to her for a bit.\n\nI have no problem paying for gas money but now it's like. Is my contribution even going towards the gas? She gets paid her student allowance from the gov every fortnight which is like $300 which isn't a lot but still I'm just suspicious she's just gonna pocket my money. She also has to go like 1 minute out of her way to pick up so I'm kinda meh about the whole thing. My dad passed away in June, I thought she would be a bit more compassionate and help me save all the money I can for bills since we're struggling.\n\nAm I being just as stingy? I'm not sure what to do :/"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't have a car at the moment. I don't mind getting public transport but my friend, we'll call her Casey, offered to give me a lift to and from uni since we have the exact same time table. She lives literally a minute away from me but she asked for gas money. I was like uh okay I guess that's fair since she's taking me to and from there even though it's like 60 seconds between our houses.\n\nI found out a couple days ago that she's suuper stingy with money. Our mothers are friends and they went out to lunch. Casey's mum told my mum that she never pays the bills (she still lives at hom), never pays for groceries, makes her mum pay for her makeup, and when she drives her mum to her doctor appointments Casey even asks her mum to give money for the petrol. Also the way she asked me for the money was kinda in a rude tone, it put me off talking to her for a bit.\n\nI have no problem paying for gas money but now it's like. Is my contribution even going towards the gas? She gets paid her student allowance from the gov every fortnight which is like $300 which isn't a lot but still I'm just suspicious she's just gonna pocket my money. She also has to go like 1 minute out of her way to pick up so I'm kinda meh about the whole thing. My dad passed away in June, I thought she would be a bit more compassionate and help me save all the money I can for bills since we're struggling.\n\nAm I being just as stingy? I'm not sure what to do :/"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So our wedding is on a Sunday evening (#jewish). We're hosting the rehearsal dinner at our house and my aunt is cooking. We bought a new house and family is all anxious to see it and we figured if we just hosted the dinner at our house it would minimize the number of tours of the house we'd have to give. \n\nI was originally planning to have the dinner on Friday night leaving us Saturday to have our laser tag joint bachelor/bachelorette party and to not have to deal with family the night before. However, now I'm thinking that people may prefer to fly in on Friday night (after work) and having the rehearsal that night may bug people.\n\n90% of the rehearsal dinner guest list is out of town. My family I know is already planning on being in town early so they won't care about the day. But FH's family is all on the east coast and traveling to our wedding (we live on the west coast) is already extending their budgets. Our out of town friends are coming from a variety of places and budgets.\n\nWe're designing the invites now which is why i'm having all the dilemmas"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So our wedding is on a Sunday evening (#jewish). We're hosting the rehearsal dinner at our house and my aunt is cooking. We bought a new house and family is all anxious to see it and we figured if we just hosted the dinner at our house it would minimize the number of tours of the house we'd have to give. \n\nI was originally planning to have the dinner on Friday night leaving us Saturday to have our laser tag joint bachelor/bachelorette party and to not have to deal with family the night before. However, now I'm thinking that people may prefer to fly in on Friday night (after work) and having the rehearsal that night may bug people.\n\n90% of the rehearsal dinner guest list is out of town. My family I know is already planning on being in town early so they won't care about the day. But FH's family is all on the east coast and traveling to our wedding (we live on the west coast) is already extending their budgets. Our out of town friends are coming from a variety of places and budgets.\n\nWe're designing the invites now which is why i'm having all the dilemmas"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So our wedding is on a Sunday evening (#jewish). We're hosting the rehearsal dinner at our house and my aunt is cooking. We bought a new house and family is all anxious to see it and we figured if we just hosted the dinner at our house it would minimize the number of tours of the house we'd have to give. \n\nI was originally planning to have the dinner on Friday night leaving us Saturday to have our laser tag joint bachelor/bachelorette party and to not have to deal with family the night before. However, now I'm thinking that people may prefer to fly in on Friday night (after work) and having the rehearsal that night may bug people.\n\n90% of the rehearsal dinner guest list is out of town. My family I know is already planning on being in town early so they won't care about the day. But FH's family is all on the east coast and traveling to our wedding (we live on the west coast) is already extending their budgets. Our out of town friends are coming from a variety of places and budgets.\n\nWe're designing the invites now which is why i'm having all the dilemmas"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So our wedding is on a Sunday evening (#jewish). We're hosting the rehearsal dinner at our house and my aunt is cooking. We bought a new house and family is all anxious to see it and we figured if we just hosted the dinner at our house it would minimize the number of tours of the house we'd have to give. \n\nI was originally planning to have the dinner on Friday night leaving us Saturday to have our laser tag joint bachelor/bachelorette party and to not have to deal with family the night before. However, now I'm thinking that people may prefer to fly in on Friday night (after work) and having the rehearsal that night may bug people.\n\n90% of the rehearsal dinner guest list is out of town. My family I know is already planning on being in town early so they won't care about the day. But FH's family is all on the east coast and traveling to our wedding (we live on the west coast) is already extending their budgets. Our out of town friends are coming from a variety of places and budgets.\n\nWe're designing the invites now which is why i'm having all the dilemmas"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been having a relationship with a woman who is also married. We both have children, teens. We were both looking only to fill unfilled sexual needs but it has turned into a real relationship and we really like each other and care about each other.\n\nWe both have very high sex drives. She is pretty much insatiable. We are very wild and kinky. I have had many sexual fantasies that I assumed would remain that way. But we are busy acting our many of them. We have done some very wild things and there is pretty much nowhere and nothing we wouldn't at least consider. \n\nOur spouses would never do the kind of things that we do. I feel bad sometimes about being unfaithful, but this is so addictive and intoxicating, I don't have any intention of stopping soon. Seems like a dream come true. I don't know what the end game is but doubt it will go on like this forever.\n\nMy wife is uninterested in sex, affection, etc. I have tried for years to ask her for a more physical relationship. I have asked her for many of the wild things that I am now doing. Was always trying to kiss/hug/hod, etc. Nothing in return.\n\nI don't feel as guilty as I should. Please don't tell me to divorce her. I may leave in a few years but not practical now. Also, she is not leaving her family situation for a while either, so even if I did leave, I couldn't be with her full time.\n\nWeird situation, but having the best sex of my life. And I love her too. I love being with someone who wants me and wants to be with me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been having a relationship with a woman who is also married. We both have children, teens. We were both looking only to fill unfilled sexual needs but it has turned into a real relationship and we really like each other and care about each other.\n\nWe both have very high sex drives. She is pretty much insatiable. We are very wild and kinky. I have had many sexual fantasies that I assumed would remain that way. But we are busy acting our many of them. We have done some very wild things and there is pretty much nowhere and nothing we wouldn't at least consider. \n\nOur spouses would never do the kind of things that we do. I feel bad sometimes about being unfaithful, but this is so addictive and intoxicating, I don't have any intention of stopping soon. Seems like a dream come true. I don't know what the end game is but doubt it will go on like this forever.\n\nMy wife is uninterested in sex, affection, etc. I have tried for years to ask her for a more physical relationship. I have asked her for many of the wild things that I am now doing. Was always trying to kiss/hug/hod, etc. Nothing in return.\n\nI don't feel as guilty as I should. Please don't tell me to divorce her. I may leave in a few years but not practical now. Also, she is not leaving her family situation for a while either, so even if I did leave, I couldn't be with her full time.\n\nWeird situation, but having the best sex of my life. And I love her too. I love being with someone who wants me and wants to be with me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been having a relationship with a woman who is also married. We both have children, teens. We were both looking only to fill unfilled sexual needs but it has turned into a real relationship and we really like each other and care about each other.\n\nWe both have very high sex drives. She is pretty much insatiable. We are very wild and kinky. I have had many sexual fantasies that I assumed would remain that way. But we are busy acting our many of them. We have done some very wild things and there is pretty much nowhere and nothing we wouldn't at least consider. \n\nOur spouses would never do the kind of things that we do. I feel bad sometimes about being unfaithful, but this is so addictive and intoxicating, I don't have any intention of stopping soon. Seems like a dream come true. I don't know what the end game is but doubt it will go on like this forever.\n\nMy wife is uninterested in sex, affection, etc. I have tried for years to ask her for a more physical relationship. I have asked her for many of the wild things that I am now doing. Was always trying to kiss/hug/hod, etc. Nothing in return.\n\nI don't feel as guilty as I should. Please don't tell me to divorce her. I may leave in a few years but not practical now. Also, she is not leaving her family situation for a while either, so even if I did leave, I couldn't be with her full time.\n\nWeird situation, but having the best sex of my life. And I love her too. I love being with someone who wants me and wants to be with me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been having a relationship with a woman who is also married. We both have children, teens. We were both looking only to fill unfilled sexual needs but it has turned into a real relationship and we really like each other and care about each other.\n\nWe both have very high sex drives. She is pretty much insatiable. We are very wild and kinky. I have had many sexual fantasies that I assumed would remain that way. But we are busy acting our many of them. We have done some very wild things and there is pretty much nowhere and nothing we wouldn't at least consider. \n\nOur spouses would never do the kind of things that we do. I feel bad sometimes about being unfaithful, but this is so addictive and intoxicating, I don't have any intention of stopping soon. Seems like a dream come true. I don't know what the end game is but doubt it will go on like this forever.\n\nMy wife is uninterested in sex, affection, etc. I have tried for years to ask her for a more physical relationship. I have asked her for many of the wild things that I am now doing. Was always trying to kiss/hug/hod, etc. Nothing in return.\n\nI don't feel as guilty as I should. Please don't tell me to divorce her. I may leave in a few years but not practical now. Also, she is not leaving her family situation for a while either, so even if I did leave, I couldn't be with her full time.\n\nWeird situation, but having the best sex of my life. And I love her too. I love being with someone who wants me and wants to be with me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [Original](\n\n[Update](\n\n-\n\nFirst of all thank you everyone for your support and your advice. Doing this would have been a lot harder without you. \n\nAfter reading some of your posts I decided that going dark was a stupid idea. We have been texting back and forth over the last couple days (I am responding slowly as there are still a lot of emotions in place and I don't want to say the wrong thing). We decided that we should get together and talk in person. I can tell you she is devastated, which is partly my fault for not being as clear as I should have been. I really want to do what ever I can to reduce her pain, but I don't know what to do. On top of the cross dressing issue was a number of other serious relationship issues (living location, children, careers). \n\nShe has taken this very hard and has gone as far as trying to find me. She showed up at my parents house on D-Day looking for me. I am couch crashing at the moment at a friends house until things calm down. This is the first time I have ever broken up with someone and it is proving to be harder than anything I have ever done. I still care for her, but we don't want the same things in life. \n\nNow onto the bigger question. She says she wants to talk, but she only wants to meet at our old apartment. She is afraid of showing her emotions in public. If I go there obviously she will be more comfortable than I would be. She also is accusing me of not actually loving her. I am not sure how aggressive I should be here. Also should I just bite the bullet and meet her at the apartment or should I refuse to meet her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [Original](\n\n[Update](\n\n-\n\nFirst of all thank you everyone for your support and your advice. Doing this would have been a lot harder without you. \n\nAfter reading some of your posts I decided that going dark was a stupid idea. We have been texting back and forth over the last couple days (I am responding slowly as there are still a lot of emotions in place and I don't want to say the wrong thing). We decided that we should get together and talk in person. I can tell you she is devastated, which is partly my fault for not being as clear as I should have been. I really want to do what ever I can to reduce her pain, but I don't know what to do. On top of the cross dressing issue was a number of other serious relationship issues (living location, children, careers). \n\nShe has taken this very hard and has gone as far as trying to find me. She showed up at my parents house on D-Day looking for me. I am couch crashing at the moment at a friends house until things calm down. This is the first time I have ever broken up with someone and it is proving to be harder than anything I have ever done. I still care for her, but we don't want the same things in life. \n\nNow onto the bigger question. She says she wants to talk, but she only wants to meet at our old apartment. She is afraid of showing her emotions in public. If I go there obviously she will be more comfortable than I would be. She also is accusing me of not actually loving her. I am not sure how aggressive I should be here. Also should I just bite the bullet and meet her at the apartment or should I refuse to meet her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [Original](\n\n[Update](\n\n-\n\nFirst of all thank you everyone for your support and your advice. Doing this would have been a lot harder without you. \n\nAfter reading some of your posts I decided that going dark was a stupid idea. We have been texting back and forth over the last couple days (I am responding slowly as there are still a lot of emotions in place and I don't want to say the wrong thing). We decided that we should get together and talk in person. I can tell you she is devastated, which is partly my fault for not being as clear as I should have been. I really want to do what ever I can to reduce her pain, but I don't know what to do. On top of the cross dressing issue was a number of other serious relationship issues (living location, children, careers). \n\nShe has taken this very hard and has gone as far as trying to find me. She showed up at my parents house on D-Day looking for me. I am couch crashing at the moment at a friends house until things calm down. This is the first time I have ever broken up with someone and it is proving to be harder than anything I have ever done. I still care for her, but we don't want the same things in life. \n\nNow onto the bigger question. She says she wants to talk, but she only wants to meet at our old apartment. She is afraid of showing her emotions in public. If I go there obviously she will be more comfortable than I would be. She also is accusing me of not actually loving her. I am not sure how aggressive I should be here. Also should I just bite the bullet and meet her at the apartment or should I refuse to meet her?"
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