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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [Original](\n\n[Update](\n\n-\n\nFirst of all thank you everyone for your support and your advice. Doing this would have been a lot harder without you. \n\nAfter reading some of your posts I decided that going dark was a stupid idea. We have been texting back and forth over the last couple days (I am responding slowly as there are still a lot of emotions in place and I don't want to say the wrong thing). We decided that we should get together and talk in person. I can tell you she is devastated, which is partly my fault for not being as clear as I should have been. I really want to do what ever I can to reduce her pain, but I don't know what to do. On top of the cross dressing issue was a number of other serious relationship issues (living location, children, careers). \n\nShe has taken this very hard and has gone as far as trying to find me. She showed up at my parents house on D-Day looking for me. I am couch crashing at the moment at a friends house until things calm down. This is the first time I have ever broken up with someone and it is proving to be harder than anything I have ever done. I still care for her, but we don't want the same things in life. \n\nNow onto the bigger question. She says she wants to talk, but she only wants to meet at our old apartment. She is afraid of showing her emotions in public. If I go there obviously she will be more comfortable than I would be. She also is accusing me of not actually loving her. I am not sure how aggressive I should be here. Also should I just bite the bullet and meet her at the apartment or should I refuse to meet her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Mine went into default and I've been told they are one of the worst lenders to deal with. I just found out they are private loans - I thought they were federal. When I applied for that loan, my impression was that it's some kind of tuition assistance/loan provided by the state of NJ. =(\n\nI have around 15K debt and will have no income in August 2014 ( will try my hardest to get baby-sitting jobs or anything I can fit in my class schedule. I will be a full-time nursing student with expected graduation date of May 2017 (the program is ladderized. One has to be CNA first, then LVN, then RN, then BSN. The program is cheap though, I will never put myself further in debt).\n\nOh, and the defaulted debt is being handled by a lawyer named Craig? and so far my tax refunds were offset two years in a row ($1700~). Should I contact him now or when I am back in school fulltime?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Mine went into default and I've been told they are one of the worst lenders to deal with. I just found out they are private loans - I thought they were federal. When I applied for that loan, my impression was that it's some kind of tuition assistance/loan provided by the state of NJ. =(\n\nI have around 15K debt and will have no income in August 2014 ( will try my hardest to get baby-sitting jobs or anything I can fit in my class schedule. I will be a full-time nursing student with expected graduation date of May 2017 (the program is ladderized. One has to be CNA first, then LVN, then RN, then BSN. The program is cheap though, I will never put myself further in debt).\n\nOh, and the defaulted debt is being handled by a lawyer named Craig? and so far my tax refunds were offset two years in a row ($1700~). Should I contact him now or when I am back in school fulltime?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I [24/m] met up for drinks with a girl I met online tonight [24/f]. She's from Ireland, but working here until November. The conversation over the drink went fine, so I invited her back to my place to \"watch a movie\".\n\nWe started making out lightly and she wasn't comfortable with second base. After about 20 minutes, she said she needed to get home and declined a ride home (public transit is fine in my city). \n\nEverything seemed to go fine until the end of the make out, and I got the vibe that she was done with me after that. Did I progress things too fast or is that a thing that just sometimes happens with girls?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I [24/m] met up for drinks with a girl I met online tonight [24/f]. She's from Ireland, but working here until November. The conversation over the drink went fine, so I invited her back to my place to \"watch a movie\".\n\nWe started making out lightly and she wasn't comfortable with second base. After about 20 minutes, she said she needed to get home and declined a ride home (public transit is fine in my city). \n\nEverything seemed to go fine until the end of the make out, and I got the vibe that she was done with me after that. Did I progress things too fast or is that a thing that just sometimes happens with girls?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I [24/m] met up for drinks with a girl I met online tonight [24/f]. She's from Ireland, but working here until November. The conversation over the drink went fine, so I invited her back to my place to \"watch a movie\".\n\nWe started making out lightly and she wasn't comfortable with second base. After about 20 minutes, she said she needed to get home and declined a ride home (public transit is fine in my city). \n\nEverything seemed to go fine until the end of the make out, and I got the vibe that she was done with me after that. Did I progress things too fast or is that a thing that just sometimes happens with girls?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I [24/m] met up for drinks with a girl I met online tonight [24/f]. She's from Ireland, but working here until November. The conversation over the drink went fine, so I invited her back to my place to \"watch a movie\".\n\nWe started making out lightly and she wasn't comfortable with second base. After about 20 minutes, she said she needed to get home and declined a ride home (public transit is fine in my city). \n\nEverything seemed to go fine until the end of the make out, and I got the vibe that she was done with me after that. Did I progress things too fast or is that a thing that just sometimes happens with girls?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Brief summary: My sibling has been addicted to methamphetamines for about five years now. A beautiful, kind, smart and talented girl with her whole life in front of her and surrounded by a family who loves her, she doesn't seem to care about any consequences, believe that anyone actually cares about her safety and is convinced that she is right and everyone else is wrong. Our family has always been close knit, without any history of abuse, neglect or emotional trauma. After years of manipulation, lies, putting our family in harms way and destroying her life and surroundings, she was finally kicked out of the house. The last year has been a terrible downward spiral and she refuses to take the help that has been offered to her. Our family goes days without hearing from her and without any contact, and as time goes on, what we see and hear only seems to be getting more dangerous. \n\nSo, former drug users and addicts, and current, what did it finally take, or what will it take for you to finally stop? The help, support and financial assistance is there, but she doesn't believe she needs it. And I worry that if she takes it, she'll just go right back to the same group of people afterwards.\n\nAny advice you can provide would be greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Brief summary: My sibling has been addicted to methamphetamines for about five years now. A beautiful, kind, smart and talented girl with her whole life in front of her and surrounded by a family who loves her, she doesn't seem to care about any consequences, believe that anyone actually cares about her safety and is convinced that she is right and everyone else is wrong. Our family has always been close knit, without any history of abuse, neglect or emotional trauma. After years of manipulation, lies, putting our family in harms way and destroying her life and surroundings, she was finally kicked out of the house. The last year has been a terrible downward spiral and she refuses to take the help that has been offered to her. Our family goes days without hearing from her and without any contact, and as time goes on, what we see and hear only seems to be getting more dangerous. \n\nSo, former drug users and addicts, and current, what did it finally take, or what will it take for you to finally stop? The help, support and financial assistance is there, but she doesn't believe she needs it. And I worry that if she takes it, she'll just go right back to the same group of people afterwards.\n\nAny advice you can provide would be greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Brief summary: My sibling has been addicted to methamphetamines for about five years now. A beautiful, kind, smart and talented girl with her whole life in front of her and surrounded by a family who loves her, she doesn't seem to care about any consequences, believe that anyone actually cares about her safety and is convinced that she is right and everyone else is wrong. Our family has always been close knit, without any history of abuse, neglect or emotional trauma. After years of manipulation, lies, putting our family in harms way and destroying her life and surroundings, she was finally kicked out of the house. The last year has been a terrible downward spiral and she refuses to take the help that has been offered to her. Our family goes days without hearing from her and without any contact, and as time goes on, what we see and hear only seems to be getting more dangerous. \n\nSo, former drug users and addicts, and current, what did it finally take, or what will it take for you to finally stop? The help, support and financial assistance is there, but she doesn't believe she needs it. And I worry that if she takes it, she'll just go right back to the same group of people afterwards.\n\nAny advice you can provide would be greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Brief summary: My sibling has been addicted to methamphetamines for about five years now. A beautiful, kind, smart and talented girl with her whole life in front of her and surrounded by a family who loves her, she doesn't seem to care about any consequences, believe that anyone actually cares about her safety and is convinced that she is right and everyone else is wrong. Our family has always been close knit, without any history of abuse, neglect or emotional trauma. After years of manipulation, lies, putting our family in harms way and destroying her life and surroundings, she was finally kicked out of the house. The last year has been a terrible downward spiral and she refuses to take the help that has been offered to her. Our family goes days without hearing from her and without any contact, and as time goes on, what we see and hear only seems to be getting more dangerous. \n\nSo, former drug users and addicts, and current, what did it finally take, or what will it take for you to finally stop? The help, support and financial assistance is there, but she doesn't believe she needs it. And I worry that if she takes it, she'll just go right back to the same group of people afterwards.\n\nAny advice you can provide would be greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: UDPATE: \n\nFirst off, I want to make something very apparent: She's the most amazing person I've ever met. She's the only person who can make me happy by simply being with me in a room. I love her more than anything.\n\nRecently, my girlfriend has been hinting really heavily about marriage. I know she wants kids but I still don't see the appeal of having children I know she's dreamt about being a mother since she was young and I really don't want her to resent me for not being able to give her the family she wants. In all honesty, if I were to have kids with anyone, I'd want to have kids with her. The thing that I fear the most is that if we get married I'll feel obligated to give her kids and I'll end up raising children that I don't truly love.\n\nWe've discussed our conflicting views on family previously but she's mostly disregarded it. Regardless of what I say, she still believes she'll be able to change my views. \n\nI care deeply for her. If breaking up with her is truly the best option for her then I will force myself to do it. She's very beautiful and smart so I'm sure there are plenty of other men who would be more than willing to give her the life she deserves. More than anything I want her to have a happy life. I just hope that it includes me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: UDPATE: \n\nFirst off, I want to make something very apparent: She's the most amazing person I've ever met. She's the only person who can make me happy by simply being with me in a room. I love her more than anything.\n\nRecently, my girlfriend has been hinting really heavily about marriage. I know she wants kids but I still don't see the appeal of having children I know she's dreamt about being a mother since she was young and I really don't want her to resent me for not being able to give her the family she wants. In all honesty, if I were to have kids with anyone, I'd want to have kids with her. The thing that I fear the most is that if we get married I'll feel obligated to give her kids and I'll end up raising children that I don't truly love.\n\nWe've discussed our conflicting views on family previously but she's mostly disregarded it. Regardless of what I say, she still believes she'll be able to change my views. \n\nI care deeply for her. If breaking up with her is truly the best option for her then I will force myself to do it. She's very beautiful and smart so I'm sure there are plenty of other men who would be more than willing to give her the life she deserves. More than anything I want her to have a happy life. I just hope that it includes me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: UDPATE: \n\nFirst off, I want to make something very apparent: She's the most amazing person I've ever met. She's the only person who can make me happy by simply being with me in a room. I love her more than anything.\n\nRecently, my girlfriend has been hinting really heavily about marriage. I know she wants kids but I still don't see the appeal of having children I know she's dreamt about being a mother since she was young and I really don't want her to resent me for not being able to give her the family she wants. In all honesty, if I were to have kids with anyone, I'd want to have kids with her. The thing that I fear the most is that if we get married I'll feel obligated to give her kids and I'll end up raising children that I don't truly love.\n\nWe've discussed our conflicting views on family previously but she's mostly disregarded it. Regardless of what I say, she still believes she'll be able to change my views. \n\nI care deeply for her. If breaking up with her is truly the best option for her then I will force myself to do it. She's very beautiful and smart so I'm sure there are plenty of other men who would be more than willing to give her the life she deserves. More than anything I want her to have a happy life. I just hope that it includes me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: UDPATE: \n\nFirst off, I want to make something very apparent: She's the most amazing person I've ever met. She's the only person who can make me happy by simply being with me in a room. I love her more than anything.\n\nRecently, my girlfriend has been hinting really heavily about marriage. I know she wants kids but I still don't see the appeal of having children I know she's dreamt about being a mother since she was young and I really don't want her to resent me for not being able to give her the family she wants. In all honesty, if I were to have kids with anyone, I'd want to have kids with her. The thing that I fear the most is that if we get married I'll feel obligated to give her kids and I'll end up raising children that I don't truly love.\n\nWe've discussed our conflicting views on family previously but she's mostly disregarded it. Regardless of what I say, she still believes she'll be able to change my views. \n\nI care deeply for her. If breaking up with her is truly the best option for her then I will force myself to do it. She's very beautiful and smart so I'm sure there are plenty of other men who would be more than willing to give her the life she deserves. More than anything I want her to have a happy life. I just hope that it includes me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating in 2012. Dated for nearly 3 years and then she broke up with me, with someone else in mind. We were broken up for 6 months exactly and while she never hit it off with the guy she left me for, she did end up dating another guy casually for a couple of months. Anyway, we've been back together for a year now and things are pretty great. We had a lot to work through at first (feelings of betrayal etc.) but we're in a good place now.\n\nToday I was planning on meeting my girlfriend after work, because we both get off at a decent time on Thursdays. She said she couldn't today because she was going to dinner with a friend, and that she told me that a couple of days ago. I don't remember her mentioning it, so I asked who she was catching up with. She told me the name of the friend and my heart sank.\n\nThe girl she's having dinner with right now played a large role in our breakup. Her boyfriend had a buddy who had been single a while and wanted to set him up with my girlfriend because he thought they would be a good fit (which I think is a pretty dick move, personally). Anyway, the friend she's with right now introduced my girlfriend to this other guy and made sure they had time alone to hit it off. While I know my girlfriend is an adult and is fully responsible for her choices, I can't help but feel conspired against. Who the hell tries to set up their friend a girl who's in a LTR? \n\nAnyway, I feel insulted by the fact my girlfriend had zero reservations about hanging out with this girl. We've been talking about getting married soon, and she really feels this comfortable hanging out with someone who was integral to our relationship's demise only a year ago?\n\nPlease let me know if I'm overreacting here. I can overthink things and get stuck in my head sometimes."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating in 2012. Dated for nearly 3 years and then she broke up with me, with someone else in mind. We were broken up for 6 months exactly and while she never hit it off with the guy she left me for, she did end up dating another guy casually for a couple of months. Anyway, we've been back together for a year now and things are pretty great. We had a lot to work through at first (feelings of betrayal etc.) but we're in a good place now.\n\nToday I was planning on meeting my girlfriend after work, because we both get off at a decent time on Thursdays. She said she couldn't today because she was going to dinner with a friend, and that she told me that a couple of days ago. I don't remember her mentioning it, so I asked who she was catching up with. She told me the name of the friend and my heart sank.\n\nThe girl she's having dinner with right now played a large role in our breakup. Her boyfriend had a buddy who had been single a while and wanted to set him up with my girlfriend because he thought they would be a good fit (which I think is a pretty dick move, personally). Anyway, the friend she's with right now introduced my girlfriend to this other guy and made sure they had time alone to hit it off. While I know my girlfriend is an adult and is fully responsible for her choices, I can't help but feel conspired against. Who the hell tries to set up their friend a girl who's in a LTR? \n\nAnyway, I feel insulted by the fact my girlfriend had zero reservations about hanging out with this girl. We've been talking about getting married soon, and she really feels this comfortable hanging out with someone who was integral to our relationship's demise only a year ago?\n\nPlease let me know if I'm overreacting here. I can overthink things and get stuck in my head sometimes."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating in 2012. Dated for nearly 3 years and then she broke up with me, with someone else in mind. We were broken up for 6 months exactly and while she never hit it off with the guy she left me for, she did end up dating another guy casually for a couple of months. Anyway, we've been back together for a year now and things are pretty great. We had a lot to work through at first (feelings of betrayal etc.) but we're in a good place now.\n\nToday I was planning on meeting my girlfriend after work, because we both get off at a decent time on Thursdays. She said she couldn't today because she was going to dinner with a friend, and that she told me that a couple of days ago. I don't remember her mentioning it, so I asked who she was catching up with. She told me the name of the friend and my heart sank.\n\nThe girl she's having dinner with right now played a large role in our breakup. Her boyfriend had a buddy who had been single a while and wanted to set him up with my girlfriend because he thought they would be a good fit (which I think is a pretty dick move, personally). Anyway, the friend she's with right now introduced my girlfriend to this other guy and made sure they had time alone to hit it off. While I know my girlfriend is an adult and is fully responsible for her choices, I can't help but feel conspired against. Who the hell tries to set up their friend a girl who's in a LTR? \n\nAnyway, I feel insulted by the fact my girlfriend had zero reservations about hanging out with this girl. We've been talking about getting married soon, and she really feels this comfortable hanging out with someone who was integral to our relationship's demise only a year ago?\n\nPlease let me know if I'm overreacting here. I can overthink things and get stuck in my head sometimes."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating in 2012. Dated for nearly 3 years and then she broke up with me, with someone else in mind. We were broken up for 6 months exactly and while she never hit it off with the guy she left me for, she did end up dating another guy casually for a couple of months. Anyway, we've been back together for a year now and things are pretty great. We had a lot to work through at first (feelings of betrayal etc.) but we're in a good place now.\n\nToday I was planning on meeting my girlfriend after work, because we both get off at a decent time on Thursdays. She said she couldn't today because she was going to dinner with a friend, and that she told me that a couple of days ago. I don't remember her mentioning it, so I asked who she was catching up with. She told me the name of the friend and my heart sank.\n\nThe girl she's having dinner with right now played a large role in our breakup. Her boyfriend had a buddy who had been single a while and wanted to set him up with my girlfriend because he thought they would be a good fit (which I think is a pretty dick move, personally). Anyway, the friend she's with right now introduced my girlfriend to this other guy and made sure they had time alone to hit it off. While I know my girlfriend is an adult and is fully responsible for her choices, I can't help but feel conspired against. Who the hell tries to set up their friend a girl who's in a LTR? \n\nAnyway, I feel insulted by the fact my girlfriend had zero reservations about hanging out with this girl. We've been talking about getting married soon, and she really feels this comfortable hanging out with someone who was integral to our relationship's demise only a year ago?\n\nPlease let me know if I'm overreacting here. I can overthink things and get stuck in my head sometimes."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been friends with this girl since about 15 years old, we were never really close but we started dating about a year ago. We have an awesome relationship in almost every aspect, I absolutely love her and she loves me back.\n\nIn the beginning sex was great, we would do it everyday we were together, sometimes twice or even three times a day, although really rare. But now, almost after a year, we don't do it very often, mostly because she is not in the mood as she used to do.\n\nI love having sex with this girl, it's how I feel the most connected with her. Thing is, she won't understand this. I asked why we don't do it often as we did, asked if she started to think I'm not that attractive anymore, she just said that still finds me attractive but is just not in the mood as she used to and also said that relationships are like that, frequency drops over time. \n\nI feel rejected and disappointed when I'm turned down, I feel like she's not into me that much anymore. \n\nWe just had a conversation about this and she said that Men are all like that, that we are all sex addicts and stuff. I said about going after medication to decrease my libido and she just said that is sick. \n\nI don't wanna break up with her and find another girlfriend, I love our relationship but this is killing me, it's frustrating and deceptive every time. What do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been friends with this girl since about 15 years old, we were never really close but we started dating about a year ago. We have an awesome relationship in almost every aspect, I absolutely love her and she loves me back.\n\nIn the beginning sex was great, we would do it everyday we were together, sometimes twice or even three times a day, although really rare. But now, almost after a year, we don't do it very often, mostly because she is not in the mood as she used to do.\n\nI love having sex with this girl, it's how I feel the most connected with her. Thing is, she won't understand this. I asked why we don't do it often as we did, asked if she started to think I'm not that attractive anymore, she just said that still finds me attractive but is just not in the mood as she used to and also said that relationships are like that, frequency drops over time. \n\nI feel rejected and disappointed when I'm turned down, I feel like she's not into me that much anymore. \n\nWe just had a conversation about this and she said that Men are all like that, that we are all sex addicts and stuff. I said about going after medication to decrease my libido and she just said that is sick. \n\nI don't wanna break up with her and find another girlfriend, I love our relationship but this is killing me, it's frustrating and deceptive every time. What do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been friends with this girl since about 15 years old, we were never really close but we started dating about a year ago. We have an awesome relationship in almost every aspect, I absolutely love her and she loves me back.\n\nIn the beginning sex was great, we would do it everyday we were together, sometimes twice or even three times a day, although really rare. But now, almost after a year, we don't do it very often, mostly because she is not in the mood as she used to do.\n\nI love having sex with this girl, it's how I feel the most connected with her. Thing is, she won't understand this. I asked why we don't do it often as we did, asked if she started to think I'm not that attractive anymore, she just said that still finds me attractive but is just not in the mood as she used to and also said that relationships are like that, frequency drops over time. \n\nI feel rejected and disappointed when I'm turned down, I feel like she's not into me that much anymore. \n\nWe just had a conversation about this and she said that Men are all like that, that we are all sex addicts and stuff. I said about going after medication to decrease my libido and she just said that is sick. \n\nI don't wanna break up with her and find another girlfriend, I love our relationship but this is killing me, it's frustrating and deceptive every time. What do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been friends with this girl since about 15 years old, we were never really close but we started dating about a year ago. We have an awesome relationship in almost every aspect, I absolutely love her and she loves me back.\n\nIn the beginning sex was great, we would do it everyday we were together, sometimes twice or even three times a day, although really rare. But now, almost after a year, we don't do it very often, mostly because she is not in the mood as she used to do.\n\nI love having sex with this girl, it's how I feel the most connected with her. Thing is, she won't understand this. I asked why we don't do it often as we did, asked if she started to think I'm not that attractive anymore, she just said that still finds me attractive but is just not in the mood as she used to and also said that relationships are like that, frequency drops over time. \n\nI feel rejected and disappointed when I'm turned down, I feel like she's not into me that much anymore. \n\nWe just had a conversation about this and she said that Men are all like that, that we are all sex addicts and stuff. I said about going after medication to decrease my libido and she just said that is sick. \n\nI don't wanna break up with her and find another girlfriend, I love our relationship but this is killing me, it's frustrating and deceptive every time. What do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Backstory: \n\nMy girlfriends sister is a psycho *, from the start of my girlfriend and I's relationship she has been horrible to both of us. She constantly insults me and my girlfriend and calls my girlfriend fat, a sweaty pig, etc. and tells her to burn in hell and that shes a * and a slut. Whenever they fight she gets so crazy that she sometimes grabs knives or scissors and tries to cut or stab my girlfriend with them (she cut my girlfriend for leaving bread out). She also says I'm a narcissistic bastard and a man whore and that I have a shitload of STD's (because i'm not a virgin) and told me once that I should die of cancer because I was misdiagnosed with it once. \n\n-\n\nOkay, so eventually after this kept happening I finally convinced my girlfriend she NEEDS to stop wasting anymore time with her sister because of how toxic their relationship is. Naturally, her sister is now trying to be nice and my girlfriend is starting to fall for it and doing stuff for her sister and spending time with her again.\n\n-\n\nEverytime I think about this my heart drops, It gives me a feeling like no matter what I do my girlfriend will end up getting * over by her sister extremely badly. So I was straightforward with my girlfriend last night and told her I can't be happy if she spends time with her sister, and this isn't to get her to stop but it's the honest truth. \n\n-\n\nAm I right to be upset? Do I have a real reason to not want my girlfriend to spend anymore time with her sister?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Backstory: \n\nMy girlfriends sister is a psycho *, from the start of my girlfriend and I's relationship she has been horrible to both of us. She constantly insults me and my girlfriend and calls my girlfriend fat, a sweaty pig, etc. and tells her to burn in hell and that shes a * and a slut. Whenever they fight she gets so crazy that she sometimes grabs knives or scissors and tries to cut or stab my girlfriend with them (she cut my girlfriend for leaving bread out). She also says I'm a narcissistic bastard and a man whore and that I have a shitload of STD's (because i'm not a virgin) and told me once that I should die of cancer because I was misdiagnosed with it once. \n\n-\n\nOkay, so eventually after this kept happening I finally convinced my girlfriend she NEEDS to stop wasting anymore time with her sister because of how toxic their relationship is. Naturally, her sister is now trying to be nice and my girlfriend is starting to fall for it and doing stuff for her sister and spending time with her again.\n\n-\n\nEverytime I think about this my heart drops, It gives me a feeling like no matter what I do my girlfriend will end up getting * over by her sister extremely badly. So I was straightforward with my girlfriend last night and told her I can't be happy if she spends time with her sister, and this isn't to get her to stop but it's the honest truth. \n\n-\n\nAm I right to be upset? Do I have a real reason to not want my girlfriend to spend anymore time with her sister?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Backstory: \n\nMy girlfriends sister is a psycho *, from the start of my girlfriend and I's relationship she has been horrible to both of us. She constantly insults me and my girlfriend and calls my girlfriend fat, a sweaty pig, etc. and tells her to burn in hell and that shes a * and a slut. Whenever they fight she gets so crazy that she sometimes grabs knives or scissors and tries to cut or stab my girlfriend with them (she cut my girlfriend for leaving bread out). She also says I'm a narcissistic bastard and a man whore and that I have a shitload of STD's (because i'm not a virgin) and told me once that I should die of cancer because I was misdiagnosed with it once. \n\n-\n\nOkay, so eventually after this kept happening I finally convinced my girlfriend she NEEDS to stop wasting anymore time with her sister because of how toxic their relationship is. Naturally, her sister is now trying to be nice and my girlfriend is starting to fall for it and doing stuff for her sister and spending time with her again.\n\n-\n\nEverytime I think about this my heart drops, It gives me a feeling like no matter what I do my girlfriend will end up getting * over by her sister extremely badly. So I was straightforward with my girlfriend last night and told her I can't be happy if she spends time with her sister, and this isn't to get her to stop but it's the honest truth. \n\n-\n\nAm I right to be upset? Do I have a real reason to not want my girlfriend to spend anymore time with her sister?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Backstory: \n\nMy girlfriends sister is a psycho *, from the start of my girlfriend and I's relationship she has been horrible to both of us. She constantly insults me and my girlfriend and calls my girlfriend fat, a sweaty pig, etc. and tells her to burn in hell and that shes a * and a slut. Whenever they fight she gets so crazy that she sometimes grabs knives or scissors and tries to cut or stab my girlfriend with them (she cut my girlfriend for leaving bread out). She also says I'm a narcissistic bastard and a man whore and that I have a shitload of STD's (because i'm not a virgin) and told me once that I should die of cancer because I was misdiagnosed with it once. \n\n-\n\nOkay, so eventually after this kept happening I finally convinced my girlfriend she NEEDS to stop wasting anymore time with her sister because of how toxic their relationship is. Naturally, her sister is now trying to be nice and my girlfriend is starting to fall for it and doing stuff for her sister and spending time with her again.\n\n-\n\nEverytime I think about this my heart drops, It gives me a feeling like no matter what I do my girlfriend will end up getting * over by her sister extremely badly. So I was straightforward with my girlfriend last night and told her I can't be happy if she spends time with her sister, and this isn't to get her to stop but it's the honest truth. \n\n-\n\nAm I right to be upset? Do I have a real reason to not want my girlfriend to spend anymore time with her sister?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's like I have to be near someone at all times. If no one is texting, snapchatting, or talking to me, I start feeling so lonely. It doesn't matter who. A friend, my mom, my best friend, etc. If I have a boyfriend, I am more okay alone because I know he will be there for me. If I like someone and they say they don't want a relationship but act like we are in one, I go with it because I crave that. Then when someone quit texting me, I assume the worst, even when I know that everyone is busy. I do a good job of not letting this show on the outside, but it tears me up inside and makes me want to cry. Ask me anything about my past, or just advice would be nice. Thank you, Redditors."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's like I have to be near someone at all times. If no one is texting, snapchatting, or talking to me, I start feeling so lonely. It doesn't matter who. A friend, my mom, my best friend, etc. If I have a boyfriend, I am more okay alone because I know he will be there for me. If I like someone and they say they don't want a relationship but act like we are in one, I go with it because I crave that. Then when someone quit texting me, I assume the worst, even when I know that everyone is busy. I do a good job of not letting this show on the outside, but it tears me up inside and makes me want to cry. Ask me anything about my past, or just advice would be nice. Thank you, Redditors."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's like I have to be near someone at all times. If no one is texting, snapchatting, or talking to me, I start feeling so lonely. It doesn't matter who. A friend, my mom, my best friend, etc. If I have a boyfriend, I am more okay alone because I know he will be there for me. If I like someone and they say they don't want a relationship but act like we are in one, I go with it because I crave that. Then when someone quit texting me, I assume the worst, even when I know that everyone is busy. I do a good job of not letting this show on the outside, but it tears me up inside and makes me want to cry. Ask me anything about my past, or just advice would be nice. Thank you, Redditors."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's like I have to be near someone at all times. If no one is texting, snapchatting, or talking to me, I start feeling so lonely. It doesn't matter who. A friend, my mom, my best friend, etc. If I have a boyfriend, I am more okay alone because I know he will be there for me. If I like someone and they say they don't want a relationship but act like we are in one, I go with it because I crave that. Then when someone quit texting me, I assume the worst, even when I know that everyone is busy. I do a good job of not letting this show on the outside, but it tears me up inside and makes me want to cry. Ask me anything about my past, or just advice would be nice. Thank you, Redditors."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so my girlfriend and I have been dating since late last year. We became really close in our last year of high school together and started dating right after graduation. Our friends got into either highly reputable universities or the least reputable ones (they're easy). Gf happened to get into the middle so she had no one she knew going with her. Before long I could see she was making friends as she became Facebook friends with a bunch of new people and I could see her tagged in a couple of photos of class projects and such. I saw the poster was one of her new guy friends so I thought well good on her for making friends already. However this one guy in particular seemed to take a ridiculous amount of photos with him and my girlfriend in it later in the week. I stalked him on facebook and found out that he uploads photos of everyone and everything he seems to be with all the time so I shrugged it off. It did make me feel a little uncomfortable nonetheless. This was only the beginning though for the last month nearly everyday that they are together he is uploading photos of them in class, doing boxing (he has become her boxing trainer), hanging out together at cafes. It has made me feel uncomfortable as I am in general a jealous person. I probably am more jealous than usual as they are hanging out more than I am with her as she has uni 4-5 times a week and I have a part time job. Also that neither of us have our licence since we are 17 and live quite far away from each other. I don't know how to take this so if someone could talk some sense into me or explain what I should do would be greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so my girlfriend and I have been dating since late last year. We became really close in our last year of high school together and started dating right after graduation. Our friends got into either highly reputable universities or the least reputable ones (they're easy). Gf happened to get into the middle so she had no one she knew going with her. Before long I could see she was making friends as she became Facebook friends with a bunch of new people and I could see her tagged in a couple of photos of class projects and such. I saw the poster was one of her new guy friends so I thought well good on her for making friends already. However this one guy in particular seemed to take a ridiculous amount of photos with him and my girlfriend in it later in the week. I stalked him on facebook and found out that he uploads photos of everyone and everything he seems to be with all the time so I shrugged it off. It did make me feel a little uncomfortable nonetheless. This was only the beginning though for the last month nearly everyday that they are together he is uploading photos of them in class, doing boxing (he has become her boxing trainer), hanging out together at cafes. It has made me feel uncomfortable as I am in general a jealous person. I probably am more jealous than usual as they are hanging out more than I am with her as she has uni 4-5 times a week and I have a part time job. Also that neither of us have our licence since we are 17 and live quite far away from each other. I don't know how to take this so if someone could talk some sense into me or explain what I should do would be greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so my girlfriend and I have been dating since late last year. We became really close in our last year of high school together and started dating right after graduation. Our friends got into either highly reputable universities or the least reputable ones (they're easy). Gf happened to get into the middle so she had no one she knew going with her. Before long I could see she was making friends as she became Facebook friends with a bunch of new people and I could see her tagged in a couple of photos of class projects and such. I saw the poster was one of her new guy friends so I thought well good on her for making friends already. However this one guy in particular seemed to take a ridiculous amount of photos with him and my girlfriend in it later in the week. I stalked him on facebook and found out that he uploads photos of everyone and everything he seems to be with all the time so I shrugged it off. It did make me feel a little uncomfortable nonetheless. This was only the beginning though for the last month nearly everyday that they are together he is uploading photos of them in class, doing boxing (he has become her boxing trainer), hanging out together at cafes. It has made me feel uncomfortable as I am in general a jealous person. I probably am more jealous than usual as they are hanging out more than I am with her as she has uni 4-5 times a week and I have a part time job. Also that neither of us have our licence since we are 17 and live quite far away from each other. I don't know how to take this so if someone could talk some sense into me or explain what I should do would be greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so my girlfriend and I have been dating since late last year. We became really close in our last year of high school together and started dating right after graduation. Our friends got into either highly reputable universities or the least reputable ones (they're easy). Gf happened to get into the middle so she had no one she knew going with her. Before long I could see she was making friends as she became Facebook friends with a bunch of new people and I could see her tagged in a couple of photos of class projects and such. I saw the poster was one of her new guy friends so I thought well good on her for making friends already. However this one guy in particular seemed to take a ridiculous amount of photos with him and my girlfriend in it later in the week. I stalked him on facebook and found out that he uploads photos of everyone and everything he seems to be with all the time so I shrugged it off. It did make me feel a little uncomfortable nonetheless. This was only the beginning though for the last month nearly everyday that they are together he is uploading photos of them in class, doing boxing (he has become her boxing trainer), hanging out together at cafes. It has made me feel uncomfortable as I am in general a jealous person. I probably am more jealous than usual as they are hanging out more than I am with her as she has uni 4-5 times a week and I have a part time job. Also that neither of us have our licence since we are 17 and live quite far away from each other. I don't know how to take this so if someone could talk some sense into me or explain what I should do would be greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I want to start off by saying I love my SO and I'm looking for suggestions before I make a rash decision. We've been together for a while and I understand that there are ups and downs in every relationship, but I'm just getting bored. It's the same routine every day and this monotony is making me second guess my relationship. The conversation is the same, the sex is the same, everything is the same. I would like to believe that I keep it interesting by suggesting new things to do try or do but it always ends up the same. \n\nShe also has a lot of insecurities and it constantly leads to arguments.I do as much as I can to reassure her but nothing changes. It leads to more fights and has ended a few times with a breakup.\n\nI'm looking for any suggestions on how I cam bring this up to her in the nicest way or anything I can do to try to spice it up. I don't want to lose her but I can't be in this"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I want to start off by saying I love my SO and I'm looking for suggestions before I make a rash decision. We've been together for a while and I understand that there are ups and downs in every relationship, but I'm just getting bored. It's the same routine every day and this monotony is making me second guess my relationship. The conversation is the same, the sex is the same, everything is the same. I would like to believe that I keep it interesting by suggesting new things to do try or do but it always ends up the same. \n\nShe also has a lot of insecurities and it constantly leads to arguments.I do as much as I can to reassure her but nothing changes. It leads to more fights and has ended a few times with a breakup.\n\nI'm looking for any suggestions on how I cam bring this up to her in the nicest way or anything I can do to try to spice it up. I don't want to lose her but I can't be in this"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I want to start off by saying I love my SO and I'm looking for suggestions before I make a rash decision. We've been together for a while and I understand that there are ups and downs in every relationship, but I'm just getting bored. It's the same routine every day and this monotony is making me second guess my relationship. The conversation is the same, the sex is the same, everything is the same. I would like to believe that I keep it interesting by suggesting new things to do try or do but it always ends up the same. \n\nShe also has a lot of insecurities and it constantly leads to arguments.I do as much as I can to reassure her but nothing changes. It leads to more fights and has ended a few times with a breakup.\n\nI'm looking for any suggestions on how I cam bring this up to her in the nicest way or anything I can do to try to spice it up. I don't want to lose her but I can't be in this"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I want to start off by saying I love my SO and I'm looking for suggestions before I make a rash decision. We've been together for a while and I understand that there are ups and downs in every relationship, but I'm just getting bored. It's the same routine every day and this monotony is making me second guess my relationship. The conversation is the same, the sex is the same, everything is the same. I would like to believe that I keep it interesting by suggesting new things to do try or do but it always ends up the same. \n\nShe also has a lot of insecurities and it constantly leads to arguments.I do as much as I can to reassure her but nothing changes. It leads to more fights and has ended a few times with a breakup.\n\nI'm looking for any suggestions on how I cam bring this up to her in the nicest way or anything I can do to try to spice it up. I don't want to lose her but I can't be in this"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I have a friend who I am not very close to. We see each other at events that friends hold and do talk, but we don't go out of our ways to talk to each other by texting or anything.\n\nI have known him since senior year of high school & had a crush on him for the entire duration of that year. After graduation, the crush faded as I got into other relationships. However, he was always in the back of my mind and when it came around to seeing him occasionally, small gut-wrenching feelings came up. But I would sort of make the feelings go away, even though it's been reoccurring this whole time.\n\nHe currently lives out of state because of a job, but is guaranteeing my friends and I that he will be coming back after another year since he loves California. He is currently single & has been single.\n\nI have been out of a relationship for about 6-7 months now, and haven't dated seriously at all since then. The feelings for him came out of nowhere a couple of days ago, but now this time, it's been consistent since I'm not making it go away.\n\nI'm not sure if I should try to initiate anything. We have never texted/FaceBook chatted to each other conversationally ever, so wouldn't it be a bit awkward to come out of the blue & talk? However, I don't know what will happen from now until the time he comes back, and I'm eager to show him interest of some sort. I for sure want to ask him on a date when he's back in town, but I don't know if he will be back to visit temporarily any time soon."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I have a friend who I am not very close to. We see each other at events that friends hold and do talk, but we don't go out of our ways to talk to each other by texting or anything.\n\nI have known him since senior year of high school & had a crush on him for the entire duration of that year. After graduation, the crush faded as I got into other relationships. However, he was always in the back of my mind and when it came around to seeing him occasionally, small gut-wrenching feelings came up. But I would sort of make the feelings go away, even though it's been reoccurring this whole time.\n\nHe currently lives out of state because of a job, but is guaranteeing my friends and I that he will be coming back after another year since he loves California. He is currently single & has been single.\n\nI have been out of a relationship for about 6-7 months now, and haven't dated seriously at all since then. The feelings for him came out of nowhere a couple of days ago, but now this time, it's been consistent since I'm not making it go away.\n\nI'm not sure if I should try to initiate anything. We have never texted/FaceBook chatted to each other conversationally ever, so wouldn't it be a bit awkward to come out of the blue & talk? However, I don't know what will happen from now until the time he comes back, and I'm eager to show him interest of some sort. I for sure want to ask him on a date when he's back in town, but I don't know if he will be back to visit temporarily any time soon."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I have a friend who I am not very close to. We see each other at events that friends hold and do talk, but we don't go out of our ways to talk to each other by texting or anything.\n\nI have known him since senior year of high school & had a crush on him for the entire duration of that year. After graduation, the crush faded as I got into other relationships. However, he was always in the back of my mind and when it came around to seeing him occasionally, small gut-wrenching feelings came up. But I would sort of make the feelings go away, even though it's been reoccurring this whole time.\n\nHe currently lives out of state because of a job, but is guaranteeing my friends and I that he will be coming back after another year since he loves California. He is currently single & has been single.\n\nI have been out of a relationship for about 6-7 months now, and haven't dated seriously at all since then. The feelings for him came out of nowhere a couple of days ago, but now this time, it's been consistent since I'm not making it go away.\n\nI'm not sure if I should try to initiate anything. We have never texted/FaceBook chatted to each other conversationally ever, so wouldn't it be a bit awkward to come out of the blue & talk? However, I don't know what will happen from now until the time he comes back, and I'm eager to show him interest of some sort. I for sure want to ask him on a date when he's back in town, but I don't know if he will be back to visit temporarily any time soon."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I have a friend who I am not very close to. We see each other at events that friends hold and do talk, but we don't go out of our ways to talk to each other by texting or anything.\n\nI have known him since senior year of high school & had a crush on him for the entire duration of that year. After graduation, the crush faded as I got into other relationships. However, he was always in the back of my mind and when it came around to seeing him occasionally, small gut-wrenching feelings came up. But I would sort of make the feelings go away, even though it's been reoccurring this whole time.\n\nHe currently lives out of state because of a job, but is guaranteeing my friends and I that he will be coming back after another year since he loves California. He is currently single & has been single.\n\nI have been out of a relationship for about 6-7 months now, and haven't dated seriously at all since then. The feelings for him came out of nowhere a couple of days ago, but now this time, it's been consistent since I'm not making it go away.\n\nI'm not sure if I should try to initiate anything. We have never texted/FaceBook chatted to each other conversationally ever, so wouldn't it be a bit awkward to come out of the blue & talk? However, I don't know what will happen from now until the time he comes back, and I'm eager to show him interest of some sort. I for sure want to ask him on a date when he's back in town, but I don't know if he will be back to visit temporarily any time soon."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for three (3) years.\n\nI'm not sure how the question came up, but I asked her what she and some guy friends had chatted about on facebook. They're old friends on mine as well, but hadn't responded to me at all and I was surprised to hear she had lengthy conversations with each.\n\nThat's fine so far, only a little flag raised but eh. We've had problems in the past with her believing I'm not OK with her having guy friends. I try my best to keep my mouth shut when issues like this come up. I believe I have a tendency to overreact.\n\nNext I asked again at a later day, jokingly, what they'd talked about. She looked like a deer in headlights and got a bit flustered. A few days later I decided to snoop and read the conversations. One was completely normal but the other was \"troublesome\" and I want to know if I am overreacting.\n\nShe was constantly giggling \"tehe\" and \"hehe\". There were winking faces everywhere. When she asked about a skiing trip he recently went on, she said \"well invite me next time kk? ;)\".\n\nI cannot get past the feeling that she is flirting viciously with this guy. Go ahead and tell me I'm being ridiculous. We've had arguments in the past about similar issues, but she says she doesn't believe it's flirting when I sincerely see it that way. I know if I bring this up she'll be pissed I snooped, then she'll say she didn't flirt and it was completely innocent."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for three (3) years.\n\nI'm not sure how the question came up, but I asked her what she and some guy friends had chatted about on facebook. They're old friends on mine as well, but hadn't responded to me at all and I was surprised to hear she had lengthy conversations with each.\n\nThat's fine so far, only a little flag raised but eh. We've had problems in the past with her believing I'm not OK with her having guy friends. I try my best to keep my mouth shut when issues like this come up. I believe I have a tendency to overreact.\n\nNext I asked again at a later day, jokingly, what they'd talked about. She looked like a deer in headlights and got a bit flustered. A few days later I decided to snoop and read the conversations. One was completely normal but the other was \"troublesome\" and I want to know if I am overreacting.\n\nShe was constantly giggling \"tehe\" and \"hehe\". There were winking faces everywhere. When she asked about a skiing trip he recently went on, she said \"well invite me next time kk? ;)\".\n\nI cannot get past the feeling that she is flirting viciously with this guy. Go ahead and tell me I'm being ridiculous. We've had arguments in the past about similar issues, but she says she doesn't believe it's flirting when I sincerely see it that way. I know if I bring this up she'll be pissed I snooped, then she'll say she didn't flirt and it was completely innocent."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for three (3) years.\n\nI'm not sure how the question came up, but I asked her what she and some guy friends had chatted about on facebook. They're old friends on mine as well, but hadn't responded to me at all and I was surprised to hear she had lengthy conversations with each.\n\nThat's fine so far, only a little flag raised but eh. We've had problems in the past with her believing I'm not OK with her having guy friends. I try my best to keep my mouth shut when issues like this come up. I believe I have a tendency to overreact.\n\nNext I asked again at a later day, jokingly, what they'd talked about. She looked like a deer in headlights and got a bit flustered. A few days later I decided to snoop and read the conversations. One was completely normal but the other was \"troublesome\" and I want to know if I am overreacting.\n\nShe was constantly giggling \"tehe\" and \"hehe\". There were winking faces everywhere. When she asked about a skiing trip he recently went on, she said \"well invite me next time kk? ;)\".\n\nI cannot get past the feeling that she is flirting viciously with this guy. Go ahead and tell me I'm being ridiculous. We've had arguments in the past about similar issues, but she says she doesn't believe it's flirting when I sincerely see it that way. I know if I bring this up she'll be pissed I snooped, then she'll say she didn't flirt and it was completely innocent."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating for three (3) years.\n\nI'm not sure how the question came up, but I asked her what she and some guy friends had chatted about on facebook. They're old friends on mine as well, but hadn't responded to me at all and I was surprised to hear she had lengthy conversations with each.\n\nThat's fine so far, only a little flag raised but eh. We've had problems in the past with her believing I'm not OK with her having guy friends. I try my best to keep my mouth shut when issues like this come up. I believe I have a tendency to overreact.\n\nNext I asked again at a later day, jokingly, what they'd talked about. She looked like a deer in headlights and got a bit flustered. A few days later I decided to snoop and read the conversations. One was completely normal but the other was \"troublesome\" and I want to know if I am overreacting.\n\nShe was constantly giggling \"tehe\" and \"hehe\". There were winking faces everywhere. When she asked about a skiing trip he recently went on, she said \"well invite me next time kk? ;)\".\n\nI cannot get past the feeling that she is flirting viciously with this guy. Go ahead and tell me I'm being ridiculous. We've had arguments in the past about similar issues, but she says she doesn't believe it's flirting when I sincerely see it that way. I know if I bring this up she'll be pissed I snooped, then she'll say she didn't flirt and it was completely innocent."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: About two years ago we dated but we never considered ourselves as couples. We dated from September to January but as months passed by our relationship slowly faded.\nThere were time where she wouldn't talk to me for days for reasons that my dumb brain has already repressed. When the relationship was about to end in January, she was very close with her guy friend and she wouldn't talk/text me until I finally got tired and completely shut her off. I didn't even have to shut her of because she never even tried to contact me ever since January. After I decided to get our of her life, I suffered from a short term depression. It's also worth mentioning that she wouldn't go with me if we didn't have other friends with us. \n\nDuring our dates we always had this guy (different guy from the guy she was always hanging out with) that would accompany us and be the \"bridge.\" I also have a hunch that he's gay that's why he's helping me and always treating me nice and stuff and because of that I've completely burned that bridge.\nNow, whenever we see each other in college we would just simply pass by each other. \n\nFast forward two years later, 2014, I messaged her on facebook asking her how she's been and we actually talked for a while, I jokingly told her that I want to start over again.\nThe reason that I messaged her on fb is because I've had dreams of her where I would always wake up to feeling all sad and lonely\n\nDid I do the right thing? Should I rekindle my relationship with her? \nHow do I rekindle the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: About two years ago we dated but we never considered ourselves as couples. We dated from September to January but as months passed by our relationship slowly faded.\nThere were time where she wouldn't talk to me for days for reasons that my dumb brain has already repressed. When the relationship was about to end in January, she was very close with her guy friend and she wouldn't talk/text me until I finally got tired and completely shut her off. I didn't even have to shut her of because she never even tried to contact me ever since January. After I decided to get our of her life, I suffered from a short term depression. It's also worth mentioning that she wouldn't go with me if we didn't have other friends with us. \n\nDuring our dates we always had this guy (different guy from the guy she was always hanging out with) that would accompany us and be the \"bridge.\" I also have a hunch that he's gay that's why he's helping me and always treating me nice and stuff and because of that I've completely burned that bridge.\nNow, whenever we see each other in college we would just simply pass by each other. \n\nFast forward two years later, 2014, I messaged her on facebook asking her how she's been and we actually talked for a while, I jokingly told her that I want to start over again.\nThe reason that I messaged her on fb is because I've had dreams of her where I would always wake up to feeling all sad and lonely\n\nDid I do the right thing? Should I rekindle my relationship with her? \nHow do I rekindle the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: About two years ago we dated but we never considered ourselves as couples. We dated from September to January but as months passed by our relationship slowly faded.\nThere were time where she wouldn't talk to me for days for reasons that my dumb brain has already repressed. When the relationship was about to end in January, she was very close with her guy friend and she wouldn't talk/text me until I finally got tired and completely shut her off. I didn't even have to shut her of because she never even tried to contact me ever since January. After I decided to get our of her life, I suffered from a short term depression. It's also worth mentioning that she wouldn't go with me if we didn't have other friends with us. \n\nDuring our dates we always had this guy (different guy from the guy she was always hanging out with) that would accompany us and be the \"bridge.\" I also have a hunch that he's gay that's why he's helping me and always treating me nice and stuff and because of that I've completely burned that bridge.\nNow, whenever we see each other in college we would just simply pass by each other. \n\nFast forward two years later, 2014, I messaged her on facebook asking her how she's been and we actually talked for a while, I jokingly told her that I want to start over again.\nThe reason that I messaged her on fb is because I've had dreams of her where I would always wake up to feeling all sad and lonely\n\nDid I do the right thing? Should I rekindle my relationship with her? \nHow do I rekindle the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: About two years ago we dated but we never considered ourselves as couples. We dated from September to January but as months passed by our relationship slowly faded.\nThere were time where she wouldn't talk to me for days for reasons that my dumb brain has already repressed. When the relationship was about to end in January, she was very close with her guy friend and she wouldn't talk/text me until I finally got tired and completely shut her off. I didn't even have to shut her of because she never even tried to contact me ever since January. After I decided to get our of her life, I suffered from a short term depression. It's also worth mentioning that she wouldn't go with me if we didn't have other friends with us. \n\nDuring our dates we always had this guy (different guy from the guy she was always hanging out with) that would accompany us and be the \"bridge.\" I also have a hunch that he's gay that's why he's helping me and always treating me nice and stuff and because of that I've completely burned that bridge.\nNow, whenever we see each other in college we would just simply pass by each other. \n\nFast forward two years later, 2014, I messaged her on facebook asking her how she's been and we actually talked for a while, I jokingly told her that I want to start over again.\nThe reason that I messaged her on fb is because I've had dreams of her where I would always wake up to feeling all sad and lonely\n\nDid I do the right thing? Should I rekindle my relationship with her? \nHow do I rekindle the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway account because boyfriend is also redditor.\n\nI am f/22 and boyfriend is same age. We have been together for 2 years now. I am in a co-ed fraternity and I'm worried my boyfriend is uneasy about some of the stuff we do. My fraternity is probably 2/3 male and 1/3 female, and we are all engineers. For example, we like to throw kickbacks at each other places so I enjoy doing some brotherly bonding that includes drinking. I think my SO may be jealous even though he tells me that he is not the jealous type. I was in the fraternity before we met so I figured he would understand that we do have parties. We go to school in different cities so we don't see each other as much as we like, maybe 2 weekends in a month if we are lucky. He was also angry at me for not telling him that I went clubbing with them during our annual retreat until I got back from it which was the day after. I went with 10 girls including me and only 3 guys. My previous boyfriend broke up with me, partially because I was in the fraternity which is why I tried to make it clear to him that I was in one when we started out.\n\nIn the beginning when he was able to hang out for longer periods, I invited him to some of our parties and dinner thing and he enjoyed hanging out with everyone. Now that he's been concentrating on school, he's not around to partake in a lot of the events.\n\nSo reddit, how do I make my boyfriend more comfortable about it? I've told him that they are just my brothers and I have no intentions of dating any other guys. Also, how can I get him to feel less angry when I want to go out and do stuff with them? This is my last year at college so I want to make the most of it in case I move far away for work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway account because boyfriend is also redditor.\n\nI am f/22 and boyfriend is same age. We have been together for 2 years now. I am in a co-ed fraternity and I'm worried my boyfriend is uneasy about some of the stuff we do. My fraternity is probably 2/3 male and 1/3 female, and we are all engineers. For example, we like to throw kickbacks at each other places so I enjoy doing some brotherly bonding that includes drinking. I think my SO may be jealous even though he tells me that he is not the jealous type. I was in the fraternity before we met so I figured he would understand that we do have parties. We go to school in different cities so we don't see each other as much as we like, maybe 2 weekends in a month if we are lucky. He was also angry at me for not telling him that I went clubbing with them during our annual retreat until I got back from it which was the day after. I went with 10 girls including me and only 3 guys. My previous boyfriend broke up with me, partially because I was in the fraternity which is why I tried to make it clear to him that I was in one when we started out.\n\nIn the beginning when he was able to hang out for longer periods, I invited him to some of our parties and dinner thing and he enjoyed hanging out with everyone. Now that he's been concentrating on school, he's not around to partake in a lot of the events.\n\nSo reddit, how do I make my boyfriend more comfortable about it? I've told him that they are just my brothers and I have no intentions of dating any other guys. Also, how can I get him to feel less angry when I want to go out and do stuff with them? This is my last year at college so I want to make the most of it in case I move far away for work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway account because boyfriend is also redditor.\n\nI am f/22 and boyfriend is same age. We have been together for 2 years now. I am in a co-ed fraternity and I'm worried my boyfriend is uneasy about some of the stuff we do. My fraternity is probably 2/3 male and 1/3 female, and we are all engineers. For example, we like to throw kickbacks at each other places so I enjoy doing some brotherly bonding that includes drinking. I think my SO may be jealous even though he tells me that he is not the jealous type. I was in the fraternity before we met so I figured he would understand that we do have parties. We go to school in different cities so we don't see each other as much as we like, maybe 2 weekends in a month if we are lucky. He was also angry at me for not telling him that I went clubbing with them during our annual retreat until I got back from it which was the day after. I went with 10 girls including me and only 3 guys. My previous boyfriend broke up with me, partially because I was in the fraternity which is why I tried to make it clear to him that I was in one when we started out.\n\nIn the beginning when he was able to hang out for longer periods, I invited him to some of our parties and dinner thing and he enjoyed hanging out with everyone. Now that he's been concentrating on school, he's not around to partake in a lot of the events.\n\nSo reddit, how do I make my boyfriend more comfortable about it? I've told him that they are just my brothers and I have no intentions of dating any other guys. Also, how can I get him to feel less angry when I want to go out and do stuff with them? This is my last year at college so I want to make the most of it in case I move far away for work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway account because boyfriend is also redditor.\n\nI am f/22 and boyfriend is same age. We have been together for 2 years now. I am in a co-ed fraternity and I'm worried my boyfriend is uneasy about some of the stuff we do. My fraternity is probably 2/3 male and 1/3 female, and we are all engineers. For example, we like to throw kickbacks at each other places so I enjoy doing some brotherly bonding that includes drinking. I think my SO may be jealous even though he tells me that he is not the jealous type. I was in the fraternity before we met so I figured he would understand that we do have parties. We go to school in different cities so we don't see each other as much as we like, maybe 2 weekends in a month if we are lucky. He was also angry at me for not telling him that I went clubbing with them during our annual retreat until I got back from it which was the day after. I went with 10 girls including me and only 3 guys. My previous boyfriend broke up with me, partially because I was in the fraternity which is why I tried to make it clear to him that I was in one when we started out.\n\nIn the beginning when he was able to hang out for longer periods, I invited him to some of our parties and dinner thing and he enjoyed hanging out with everyone. Now that he's been concentrating on school, he's not around to partake in a lot of the events.\n\nSo reddit, how do I make my boyfriend more comfortable about it? I've told him that they are just my brothers and I have no intentions of dating any other guys. Also, how can I get him to feel less angry when I want to go out and do stuff with them? This is my last year at college so I want to make the most of it in case I move far away for work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a 19 year old guy starting college on the west coast after a gap year. I've always been a shy person but usually when I get used to people I'm the funny guy of a group of friends.\n\nAnd that's what happened these past couple of months. I was very homesick when first starting college but I eventually got around to making a lot of really cool friends. One of these friends is just absolutely perfect. She has a smile that could melt hearts and she can sing phenomenally. Safe to say I developed feelings for her.\n\nThe problem is that I'm not sure what she thinks of me. She's told me before that her and her friends have had a \"fangirl\" session about me and she thinks I'm a gem and that I'm cute and funny and whenever we're together we make each other laugh a lot. However when I sent her a Happy New Years text the other day she sent back \"Happy New Years! I love you!\" I have no idea how to even respond to this because I feel that it means that she thinks of me as a friend and loves me in a friendly way. I would be fine with staying friends too it's just hard to hold back these feelings and not tell her. And if I do tell her I'm afraid that ill jeopardize my friendships and have no friends again. \n\nPS my only New Years resolution is to ask her on a date"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a 19 year old guy starting college on the west coast after a gap year. I've always been a shy person but usually when I get used to people I'm the funny guy of a group of friends.\n\nAnd that's what happened these past couple of months. I was very homesick when first starting college but I eventually got around to making a lot of really cool friends. One of these friends is just absolutely perfect. She has a smile that could melt hearts and she can sing phenomenally. Safe to say I developed feelings for her.\n\nThe problem is that I'm not sure what she thinks of me. She's told me before that her and her friends have had a \"fangirl\" session about me and she thinks I'm a gem and that I'm cute and funny and whenever we're together we make each other laugh a lot. However when I sent her a Happy New Years text the other day she sent back \"Happy New Years! I love you!\" I have no idea how to even respond to this because I feel that it means that she thinks of me as a friend and loves me in a friendly way. I would be fine with staying friends too it's just hard to hold back these feelings and not tell her. And if I do tell her I'm afraid that ill jeopardize my friendships and have no friends again. \n\nPS my only New Years resolution is to ask her on a date"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a 19 year old guy starting college on the west coast after a gap year. I've always been a shy person but usually when I get used to people I'm the funny guy of a group of friends.\n\nAnd that's what happened these past couple of months. I was very homesick when first starting college but I eventually got around to making a lot of really cool friends. One of these friends is just absolutely perfect. She has a smile that could melt hearts and she can sing phenomenally. Safe to say I developed feelings for her.\n\nThe problem is that I'm not sure what she thinks of me. She's told me before that her and her friends have had a \"fangirl\" session about me and she thinks I'm a gem and that I'm cute and funny and whenever we're together we make each other laugh a lot. However when I sent her a Happy New Years text the other day she sent back \"Happy New Years! I love you!\" I have no idea how to even respond to this because I feel that it means that she thinks of me as a friend and loves me in a friendly way. I would be fine with staying friends too it's just hard to hold back these feelings and not tell her. And if I do tell her I'm afraid that ill jeopardize my friendships and have no friends again. \n\nPS my only New Years resolution is to ask her on a date"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a 19 year old guy starting college on the west coast after a gap year. I've always been a shy person but usually when I get used to people I'm the funny guy of a group of friends.\n\nAnd that's what happened these past couple of months. I was very homesick when first starting college but I eventually got around to making a lot of really cool friends. One of these friends is just absolutely perfect. She has a smile that could melt hearts and she can sing phenomenally. Safe to say I developed feelings for her.\n\nThe problem is that I'm not sure what she thinks of me. She's told me before that her and her friends have had a \"fangirl\" session about me and she thinks I'm a gem and that I'm cute and funny and whenever we're together we make each other laugh a lot. However when I sent her a Happy New Years text the other day she sent back \"Happy New Years! I love you!\" I have no idea how to even respond to this because I feel that it means that she thinks of me as a friend and loves me in a friendly way. I would be fine with staying friends too it's just hard to hold back these feelings and not tell her. And if I do tell her I'm afraid that ill jeopardize my friendships and have no friends again. \n\nPS my only New Years resolution is to ask her on a date"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's the most heartbreaking thing I've ever been through. We both love each other still. I do not want it to end and she is the one who initiated the breakup. At first she said she only wanted a break, and I didn't want that because I felt like it was just delaying. What do I do? I love her so much and I can't move on. We talked for 2 hours about it and she is still very much in love with me and I with her. We've had some problems and she says she's unhappy. We're best friends and she said she couldn't handle it if we didn't keep talking. It's a long distance relationship so we talked all the time to ease the pain. \n\nI feel so hopeless. I need to get her back and I don't know what to do. Please, I need solid advice. I love her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's the most heartbreaking thing I've ever been through. We both love each other still. I do not want it to end and she is the one who initiated the breakup. At first she said she only wanted a break, and I didn't want that because I felt like it was just delaying. What do I do? I love her so much and I can't move on. We talked for 2 hours about it and she is still very much in love with me and I with her. We've had some problems and she says she's unhappy. We're best friends and she said she couldn't handle it if we didn't keep talking. It's a long distance relationship so we talked all the time to ease the pain. \n\nI feel so hopeless. I need to get her back and I don't know what to do. Please, I need solid advice. I love her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's the most heartbreaking thing I've ever been through. We both love each other still. I do not want it to end and she is the one who initiated the breakup. At first she said she only wanted a break, and I didn't want that because I felt like it was just delaying. What do I do? I love her so much and I can't move on. We talked for 2 hours about it and she is still very much in love with me and I with her. We've had some problems and she says she's unhappy. We're best friends and she said she couldn't handle it if we didn't keep talking. It's a long distance relationship so we talked all the time to ease the pain. \n\nI feel so hopeless. I need to get her back and I don't know what to do. Please, I need solid advice. I love her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's the most heartbreaking thing I've ever been through. We both love each other still. I do not want it to end and she is the one who initiated the breakup. At first she said she only wanted a break, and I didn't want that because I felt like it was just delaying. What do I do? I love her so much and I can't move on. We talked for 2 hours about it and she is still very much in love with me and I with her. We've had some problems and she says she's unhappy. We're best friends and she said she couldn't handle it if we didn't keep talking. It's a long distance relationship so we talked all the time to ease the pain. \n\nI feel so hopeless. I need to get her back and I don't know what to do. Please, I need solid advice. I love her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend got sent to jail three months ago for something I don't think he did and he is awaiting trial. He bought a car a few months before he got arrested and when they took him to jail I promised him I'd keep up the payments because I know he loves it.\n\nWell, I have done everything I possibly can and it seems like the universe is determined to kick us while we're down. I am trying so hard to be a good girlfriend. I pay to talk to him on the phone, send him commissary, and do so many other things. I have spent so much money on this.\n\nBut the car. it's so expensive. I don't have an emergency fund for myself because of this, and I'm not even driving it. His dad is. And they don't have insurance on it and won't even help me make the payments.\n\nI don't know what to do. I don't want to lose my boyfriend over a car.\n\nHe was always so proud of his credit and now it's ruined over a bogus charge. I guess my question is. how do I break this news to him. I don't want him to think I'm just being cheap (I have a decent job and he thinks I can afford it). Just. what do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend got sent to jail three months ago for something I don't think he did and he is awaiting trial. He bought a car a few months before he got arrested and when they took him to jail I promised him I'd keep up the payments because I know he loves it.\n\nWell, I have done everything I possibly can and it seems like the universe is determined to kick us while we're down. I am trying so hard to be a good girlfriend. I pay to talk to him on the phone, send him commissary, and do so many other things. I have spent so much money on this.\n\nBut the car. it's so expensive. I don't have an emergency fund for myself because of this, and I'm not even driving it. His dad is. And they don't have insurance on it and won't even help me make the payments.\n\nI don't know what to do. I don't want to lose my boyfriend over a car.\n\nHe was always so proud of his credit and now it's ruined over a bogus charge. I guess my question is. how do I break this news to him. I don't want him to think I'm just being cheap (I have a decent job and he thinks I can afford it). Just. what do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend got sent to jail three months ago for something I don't think he did and he is awaiting trial. He bought a car a few months before he got arrested and when they took him to jail I promised him I'd keep up the payments because I know he loves it.\n\nWell, I have done everything I possibly can and it seems like the universe is determined to kick us while we're down. I am trying so hard to be a good girlfriend. I pay to talk to him on the phone, send him commissary, and do so many other things. I have spent so much money on this.\n\nBut the car. it's so expensive. I don't have an emergency fund for myself because of this, and I'm not even driving it. His dad is. And they don't have insurance on it and won't even help me make the payments.\n\nI don't know what to do. I don't want to lose my boyfriend over a car.\n\nHe was always so proud of his credit and now it's ruined over a bogus charge. I guess my question is. how do I break this news to him. I don't want him to think I'm just being cheap (I have a decent job and he thinks I can afford it). Just. what do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend got sent to jail three months ago for something I don't think he did and he is awaiting trial. He bought a car a few months before he got arrested and when they took him to jail I promised him I'd keep up the payments because I know he loves it.\n\nWell, I have done everything I possibly can and it seems like the universe is determined to kick us while we're down. I am trying so hard to be a good girlfriend. I pay to talk to him on the phone, send him commissary, and do so many other things. I have spent so much money on this.\n\nBut the car. it's so expensive. I don't have an emergency fund for myself because of this, and I'm not even driving it. His dad is. And they don't have insurance on it and won't even help me make the payments.\n\nI don't know what to do. I don't want to lose my boyfriend over a car.\n\nHe was always so proud of his credit and now it's ruined over a bogus charge. I guess my question is. how do I break this news to him. I don't want him to think I'm just being cheap (I have a decent job and he thinks I can afford it). Just. what do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I was watching the Q&A with Laina (a.k.a overly attached girlfriend) at like 2 in the morning [video] ( \nIt was rather amusing, but at roughly 12:28 into the video she said something rather shocking. \n(*watch that part of the video at this point if you'd like*)\n\nThis is what OAG roughly says, 12 and a half minutes into the video.\n \"This person. It's not really a question but it says 'please please please please please please say, I love you Micah'.\"\n\nIt wouldn't be shocking to probably 99% of the people who watched the video. but my name happens to be Micah. Needless to say it was early in the morning as I nearly shat my pants watching Overly Attached Girlfriend say that she loves me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I was watching the Q&A with Laina (a.k.a overly attached girlfriend) at like 2 in the morning [video] ( \nIt was rather amusing, but at roughly 12:28 into the video she said something rather shocking. \n(*watch that part of the video at this point if you'd like*)\n\nThis is what OAG roughly says, 12 and a half minutes into the video.\n \"This person. It's not really a question but it says 'please please please please please please say, I love you Micah'.\"\n\nIt wouldn't be shocking to probably 99% of the people who watched the video. but my name happens to be Micah. Needless to say it was early in the morning as I nearly shat my pants watching Overly Attached Girlfriend say that she loves me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I was watching the Q&A with Laina (a.k.a overly attached girlfriend) at like 2 in the morning [video] ( \nIt was rather amusing, but at roughly 12:28 into the video she said something rather shocking. \n(*watch that part of the video at this point if you'd like*)\n\nThis is what OAG roughly says, 12 and a half minutes into the video.\n \"This person. It's not really a question but it says 'please please please please please please say, I love you Micah'.\"\n\nIt wouldn't be shocking to probably 99% of the people who watched the video. but my name happens to be Micah. Needless to say it was early in the morning as I nearly shat my pants watching Overly Attached Girlfriend say that she loves me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I was watching the Q&A with Laina (a.k.a overly attached girlfriend) at like 2 in the morning [video] ( \nIt was rather amusing, but at roughly 12:28 into the video she said something rather shocking. \n(*watch that part of the video at this point if you'd like*)\n\nThis is what OAG roughly says, 12 and a half minutes into the video.\n \"This person. It's not really a question but it says 'please please please please please please say, I love you Micah'.\"\n\nIt wouldn't be shocking to probably 99% of the people who watched the video. but my name happens to be Micah. Needless to say it was early in the morning as I nearly shat my pants watching Overly Attached Girlfriend say that she loves me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and my female friend of like 3 years (lets call her Sheila), and our families, went on a vacation this past week. I ended up rooming with her in a separate room.\n\nSheila and I hung out a lot more than usual and I couldn't tell if she was trying to put out signals.\n\nOn like the third night Sheila and I ended up watching a movie together in our room, and we were on the same bed. I ended up with my arm around her, with her snuggling me pretty hard (I realize this may mean nothing) about 20 mins into the movie. We stayed like that the entire time before we went to bed (in separate beds btw)\n\nNothing else happened, but when I asked Sheila about it the next day she wouldn't tell me how she felt or what she wanted to do going forward. I'm not sure where to take it from here and I don't want to hurt her feelings or our friendship. \n\nCan anyone here try and give me advice on how to move forward?\n\nP.S I'm aware how dumb this is, but hey man I'm pretty braindead when it comes to feelings"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and my female friend of like 3 years (lets call her Sheila), and our families, went on a vacation this past week. I ended up rooming with her in a separate room.\n\nSheila and I hung out a lot more than usual and I couldn't tell if she was trying to put out signals.\n\nOn like the third night Sheila and I ended up watching a movie together in our room, and we were on the same bed. I ended up with my arm around her, with her snuggling me pretty hard (I realize this may mean nothing) about 20 mins into the movie. We stayed like that the entire time before we went to bed (in separate beds btw)\n\nNothing else happened, but when I asked Sheila about it the next day she wouldn't tell me how she felt or what she wanted to do going forward. I'm not sure where to take it from here and I don't want to hurt her feelings or our friendship. \n\nCan anyone here try and give me advice on how to move forward?\n\nP.S I'm aware how dumb this is, but hey man I'm pretty braindead when it comes to feelings"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and my female friend of like 3 years (lets call her Sheila), and our families, went on a vacation this past week. I ended up rooming with her in a separate room.\n\nSheila and I hung out a lot more than usual and I couldn't tell if she was trying to put out signals.\n\nOn like the third night Sheila and I ended up watching a movie together in our room, and we were on the same bed. I ended up with my arm around her, with her snuggling me pretty hard (I realize this may mean nothing) about 20 mins into the movie. We stayed like that the entire time before we went to bed (in separate beds btw)\n\nNothing else happened, but when I asked Sheila about it the next day she wouldn't tell me how she felt or what she wanted to do going forward. I'm not sure where to take it from here and I don't want to hurt her feelings or our friendship. \n\nCan anyone here try and give me advice on how to move forward?\n\nP.S I'm aware how dumb this is, but hey man I'm pretty braindead when it comes to feelings"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and my female friend of like 3 years (lets call her Sheila), and our families, went on a vacation this past week. I ended up rooming with her in a separate room.\n\nSheila and I hung out a lot more than usual and I couldn't tell if she was trying to put out signals.\n\nOn like the third night Sheila and I ended up watching a movie together in our room, and we were on the same bed. I ended up with my arm around her, with her snuggling me pretty hard (I realize this may mean nothing) about 20 mins into the movie. We stayed like that the entire time before we went to bed (in separate beds btw)\n\nNothing else happened, but when I asked Sheila about it the next day she wouldn't tell me how she felt or what she wanted to do going forward. I'm not sure where to take it from here and I don't want to hurt her feelings or our friendship. \n\nCan anyone here try and give me advice on how to move forward?\n\nP.S I'm aware how dumb this is, but hey man I'm pretty braindead when it comes to feelings"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here is a little background of the situation. I am Asian and my boyfriend is American. My family sent me to study in the States when I was young and I moved back to Asia about two years ago. My boyfriend was married about ten years ago. His kid lives with the ex-wife, and is a junior in high school in the States. Him and I both live in the same country (I don't want to point out the country. The community here is kind of small.)\n\nWe've known each other for a good while, but when we first met, we were both in relationships with other people. It wasn't until May this year we finally got a chance to really get to know each other. We have been inseparable since then. I was a bit worried that his son might not like the idea of his dad dating someone much younger than he is, but after spending a month with him this summer, he has no problem with me at all and we get along very well. He even asked for my advice for girl problems. My boyfriend is a great guy. He is very caring and supportive. We are very compatible in so many ways, it kind of scared us both at first. This relationship is serious, and we have been talking about building a future together.\n\nBut, my family is some what conservative. They weren't too happy about me dating a white guy. I still live with my parents because I don't make enough money to get a place on my own. My dad freaks out at the idea of me staying over at my boyfriend's place once a while, which makes it difficult for me to say that I want to move in with him. We are planing on going back to the States to visit his and my families. Here is a problem: I will have to explain to my parents when they see photos of him and his son. I'd like to tell them before the trip this winter. How should I break it to them?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here is a little background of the situation. I am Asian and my boyfriend is American. My family sent me to study in the States when I was young and I moved back to Asia about two years ago. My boyfriend was married about ten years ago. His kid lives with the ex-wife, and is a junior in high school in the States. Him and I both live in the same country (I don't want to point out the country. The community here is kind of small.)\n\nWe've known each other for a good while, but when we first met, we were both in relationships with other people. It wasn't until May this year we finally got a chance to really get to know each other. We have been inseparable since then. I was a bit worried that his son might not like the idea of his dad dating someone much younger than he is, but after spending a month with him this summer, he has no problem with me at all and we get along very well. He even asked for my advice for girl problems. My boyfriend is a great guy. He is very caring and supportive. We are very compatible in so many ways, it kind of scared us both at first. This relationship is serious, and we have been talking about building a future together.\n\nBut, my family is some what conservative. They weren't too happy about me dating a white guy. I still live with my parents because I don't make enough money to get a place on my own. My dad freaks out at the idea of me staying over at my boyfriend's place once a while, which makes it difficult for me to say that I want to move in with him. We are planing on going back to the States to visit his and my families. Here is a problem: I will have to explain to my parents when they see photos of him and his son. I'd like to tell them before the trip this winter. How should I break it to them?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here is a little background of the situation. I am Asian and my boyfriend is American. My family sent me to study in the States when I was young and I moved back to Asia about two years ago. My boyfriend was married about ten years ago. His kid lives with the ex-wife, and is a junior in high school in the States. Him and I both live in the same country (I don't want to point out the country. The community here is kind of small.)\n\nWe've known each other for a good while, but when we first met, we were both in relationships with other people. It wasn't until May this year we finally got a chance to really get to know each other. We have been inseparable since then. I was a bit worried that his son might not like the idea of his dad dating someone much younger than he is, but after spending a month with him this summer, he has no problem with me at all and we get along very well. He even asked for my advice for girl problems. My boyfriend is a great guy. He is very caring and supportive. We are very compatible in so many ways, it kind of scared us both at first. This relationship is serious, and we have been talking about building a future together.\n\nBut, my family is some what conservative. They weren't too happy about me dating a white guy. I still live with my parents because I don't make enough money to get a place on my own. My dad freaks out at the idea of me staying over at my boyfriend's place once a while, which makes it difficult for me to say that I want to move in with him. We are planing on going back to the States to visit his and my families. Here is a problem: I will have to explain to my parents when they see photos of him and his son. I'd like to tell them before the trip this winter. How should I break it to them?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here is a little background of the situation. I am Asian and my boyfriend is American. My family sent me to study in the States when I was young and I moved back to Asia about two years ago. My boyfriend was married about ten years ago. His kid lives with the ex-wife, and is a junior in high school in the States. Him and I both live in the same country (I don't want to point out the country. The community here is kind of small.)\n\nWe've known each other for a good while, but when we first met, we were both in relationships with other people. It wasn't until May this year we finally got a chance to really get to know each other. We have been inseparable since then. I was a bit worried that his son might not like the idea of his dad dating someone much younger than he is, but after spending a month with him this summer, he has no problem with me at all and we get along very well. He even asked for my advice for girl problems. My boyfriend is a great guy. He is very caring and supportive. We are very compatible in so many ways, it kind of scared us both at first. This relationship is serious, and we have been talking about building a future together.\n\nBut, my family is some what conservative. They weren't too happy about me dating a white guy. I still live with my parents because I don't make enough money to get a place on my own. My dad freaks out at the idea of me staying over at my boyfriend's place once a while, which makes it difficult for me to say that I want to move in with him. We are planing on going back to the States to visit his and my families. Here is a problem: I will have to explain to my parents when they see photos of him and his son. I'd like to tell them before the trip this winter. How should I break it to them?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I recently broke up with my GF of 18 months and i feel awful. I've not been attracted to her for about 6 weeks and the way i feel about her has become more like a friend for no real reason.\n\nI tried to play along because i do still love her in a way, i didn't want to lose her and i didn't want to hurt her, but in dragging it out i've hurt her more. \n\nWe were about to move out together, planning the next stage of our lives and my lack of honesty about how i felt had her thinking everything was much better than it was, despite the lack of sex. \n\nIt came to a head when she asked me why i didn't look at her the same way anymore, why i'm never in the mood for sex. I explained what i had been doing, how i felt. It was painful for both of us. I hate myself for causing her that pain.\n\nShe's holding out hope we can see a councillor or someone to resolve the problem but i worry it would just be giving her false hope.\n\nAs a bonus, due to a rare genetic illness she has her fertility only has about 3 more years so i think she feels the last 18 months on me has been a waste of valuable time.\n \nShould i try and revive this, I feel like i owe her that much but i don't know how i can change my feelings towards her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I recently broke up with my GF of 18 months and i feel awful. I've not been attracted to her for about 6 weeks and the way i feel about her has become more like a friend for no real reason.\n\nI tried to play along because i do still love her in a way, i didn't want to lose her and i didn't want to hurt her, but in dragging it out i've hurt her more. \n\nWe were about to move out together, planning the next stage of our lives and my lack of honesty about how i felt had her thinking everything was much better than it was, despite the lack of sex. \n\nIt came to a head when she asked me why i didn't look at her the same way anymore, why i'm never in the mood for sex. I explained what i had been doing, how i felt. It was painful for both of us. I hate myself for causing her that pain.\n\nShe's holding out hope we can see a councillor or someone to resolve the problem but i worry it would just be giving her false hope.\n\nAs a bonus, due to a rare genetic illness she has her fertility only has about 3 more years so i think she feels the last 18 months on me has been a waste of valuable time.\n \nShould i try and revive this, I feel like i owe her that much but i don't know how i can change my feelings towards her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I recently broke up with my GF of 18 months and i feel awful. I've not been attracted to her for about 6 weeks and the way i feel about her has become more like a friend for no real reason.\n\nI tried to play along because i do still love her in a way, i didn't want to lose her and i didn't want to hurt her, but in dragging it out i've hurt her more. \n\nWe were about to move out together, planning the next stage of our lives and my lack of honesty about how i felt had her thinking everything was much better than it was, despite the lack of sex. \n\nIt came to a head when she asked me why i didn't look at her the same way anymore, why i'm never in the mood for sex. I explained what i had been doing, how i felt. It was painful for both of us. I hate myself for causing her that pain.\n\nShe's holding out hope we can see a councillor or someone to resolve the problem but i worry it would just be giving her false hope.\n\nAs a bonus, due to a rare genetic illness she has her fertility only has about 3 more years so i think she feels the last 18 months on me has been a waste of valuable time.\n \nShould i try and revive this, I feel like i owe her that much but i don't know how i can change my feelings towards her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I recently broke up with my GF of 18 months and i feel awful. I've not been attracted to her for about 6 weeks and the way i feel about her has become more like a friend for no real reason.\n\nI tried to play along because i do still love her in a way, i didn't want to lose her and i didn't want to hurt her, but in dragging it out i've hurt her more. \n\nWe were about to move out together, planning the next stage of our lives and my lack of honesty about how i felt had her thinking everything was much better than it was, despite the lack of sex. \n\nIt came to a head when she asked me why i didn't look at her the same way anymore, why i'm never in the mood for sex. I explained what i had been doing, how i felt. It was painful for both of us. I hate myself for causing her that pain.\n\nShe's holding out hope we can see a councillor or someone to resolve the problem but i worry it would just be giving her false hope.\n\nAs a bonus, due to a rare genetic illness she has her fertility only has about 3 more years so i think she feels the last 18 months on me has been a waste of valuable time.\n \nShould i try and revive this, I feel like i owe her that much but i don't know how i can change my feelings towards her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: throwaway but actually my first account. I suffer(dramatic right?) from premature ejaculation, its not easy to talk about it with people, and its pretty much ruining my life if you can believe it. Even simple things like talking to girls who I might not even be interested in sleeping with or even guy friends (not gay lol but whatever floats your boat) is uncomfortable cause over time it becomes painfully obvious that I'm not getting action, and avoid the subject in general. I know there are overly religious people who won't talk about sex with friends for example, and thats fine if thats their personality, but it isn't mine so it just doesn't feel right. Whoever has dealt with this issue probably knows what I'm talking about. How have any of you gotten over this problem or made progress? Not talking about techniques to last longer its almost a lost cause, I mean more handling the social aspect of living in a sex-driven society where you can't perform? How do you meet girls and how do you slip in this embarrassing detail? I fear that even if i meet a girl a like, even if she's ok with it at first, i feel like eventually she might cheat (and cant REALLY blame her, right?). I recently graduated college and find I have no desire to succeed in life, partly because I do not look forward to advertising myself and hate meeting new people in general, since the ones I do eventually realize I outcast myself. I didn't always suffer from this, it happened after a surgery that I dont want to talk about after my sophomore year in college, so prior to that I was a pretty normal kid, so my friends haven't always known me as this depressed version of myself. The past 2 years have been awful though. Advice? Maybe your own personal battle? Any stories?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: throwaway but actually my first account. I suffer(dramatic right?) from premature ejaculation, its not easy to talk about it with people, and its pretty much ruining my life if you can believe it. Even simple things like talking to girls who I might not even be interested in sleeping with or even guy friends (not gay lol but whatever floats your boat) is uncomfortable cause over time it becomes painfully obvious that I'm not getting action, and avoid the subject in general. I know there are overly religious people who won't talk about sex with friends for example, and thats fine if thats their personality, but it isn't mine so it just doesn't feel right. Whoever has dealt with this issue probably knows what I'm talking about. How have any of you gotten over this problem or made progress? Not talking about techniques to last longer its almost a lost cause, I mean more handling the social aspect of living in a sex-driven society where you can't perform? How do you meet girls and how do you slip in this embarrassing detail? I fear that even if i meet a girl a like, even if she's ok with it at first, i feel like eventually she might cheat (and cant REALLY blame her, right?). I recently graduated college and find I have no desire to succeed in life, partly because I do not look forward to advertising myself and hate meeting new people in general, since the ones I do eventually realize I outcast myself. I didn't always suffer from this, it happened after a surgery that I dont want to talk about after my sophomore year in college, so prior to that I was a pretty normal kid, so my friends haven't always known me as this depressed version of myself. The past 2 years have been awful though. Advice? Maybe your own personal battle? Any stories?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: throwaway but actually my first account. I suffer(dramatic right?) from premature ejaculation, its not easy to talk about it with people, and its pretty much ruining my life if you can believe it. Even simple things like talking to girls who I might not even be interested in sleeping with or even guy friends (not gay lol but whatever floats your boat) is uncomfortable cause over time it becomes painfully obvious that I'm not getting action, and avoid the subject in general. I know there are overly religious people who won't talk about sex with friends for example, and thats fine if thats their personality, but it isn't mine so it just doesn't feel right. Whoever has dealt with this issue probably knows what I'm talking about. How have any of you gotten over this problem or made progress? Not talking about techniques to last longer its almost a lost cause, I mean more handling the social aspect of living in a sex-driven society where you can't perform? How do you meet girls and how do you slip in this embarrassing detail? I fear that even if i meet a girl a like, even if she's ok with it at first, i feel like eventually she might cheat (and cant REALLY blame her, right?). I recently graduated college and find I have no desire to succeed in life, partly because I do not look forward to advertising myself and hate meeting new people in general, since the ones I do eventually realize I outcast myself. I didn't always suffer from this, it happened after a surgery that I dont want to talk about after my sophomore year in college, so prior to that I was a pretty normal kid, so my friends haven't always known me as this depressed version of myself. The past 2 years have been awful though. Advice? Maybe your own personal battle? Any stories?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: throwaway but actually my first account. I suffer(dramatic right?) from premature ejaculation, its not easy to talk about it with people, and its pretty much ruining my life if you can believe it. Even simple things like talking to girls who I might not even be interested in sleeping with or even guy friends (not gay lol but whatever floats your boat) is uncomfortable cause over time it becomes painfully obvious that I'm not getting action, and avoid the subject in general. I know there are overly religious people who won't talk about sex with friends for example, and thats fine if thats their personality, but it isn't mine so it just doesn't feel right. Whoever has dealt with this issue probably knows what I'm talking about. How have any of you gotten over this problem or made progress? Not talking about techniques to last longer its almost a lost cause, I mean more handling the social aspect of living in a sex-driven society where you can't perform? How do you meet girls and how do you slip in this embarrassing detail? I fear that even if i meet a girl a like, even if she's ok with it at first, i feel like eventually she might cheat (and cant REALLY blame her, right?). I recently graduated college and find I have no desire to succeed in life, partly because I do not look forward to advertising myself and hate meeting new people in general, since the ones I do eventually realize I outcast myself. I didn't always suffer from this, it happened after a surgery that I dont want to talk about after my sophomore year in college, so prior to that I was a pretty normal kid, so my friends haven't always known me as this depressed version of myself. The past 2 years have been awful though. Advice? Maybe your own personal battle? Any stories?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's been a little over a week since our breakup and almost a week since I heard she'd sort of cheated on me towards the end and was already in a serious relationship with the guy. It all hit me kind of hard. The anxiety is by far the worst when I first wake up. I've woken up every single day without fail shaking and sweaty, my nerves a complete mess. It tends to peter out as the day goes on and I get time to talk to people and relax, but in the morning it's almost unbearable.\n\nThis is a problem because I have school and work early and can't concentrate on anything. I physically shake.\n\nI guess I'm just wondering if this will get better soon and how I can fix this. I don't want to start taking xanax or anything like that if it can be avoided. The worst part about this is that it makes me want to talk to her so badly just for some relief from this feeling."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's been a little over a week since our breakup and almost a week since I heard she'd sort of cheated on me towards the end and was already in a serious relationship with the guy. It all hit me kind of hard. The anxiety is by far the worst when I first wake up. I've woken up every single day without fail shaking and sweaty, my nerves a complete mess. It tends to peter out as the day goes on and I get time to talk to people and relax, but in the morning it's almost unbearable.\n\nThis is a problem because I have school and work early and can't concentrate on anything. I physically shake.\n\nI guess I'm just wondering if this will get better soon and how I can fix this. I don't want to start taking xanax or anything like that if it can be avoided. The worst part about this is that it makes me want to talk to her so badly just for some relief from this feeling."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's been a little over a week since our breakup and almost a week since I heard she'd sort of cheated on me towards the end and was already in a serious relationship with the guy. It all hit me kind of hard. The anxiety is by far the worst when I first wake up. I've woken up every single day without fail shaking and sweaty, my nerves a complete mess. It tends to peter out as the day goes on and I get time to talk to people and relax, but in the morning it's almost unbearable.\n\nThis is a problem because I have school and work early and can't concentrate on anything. I physically shake.\n\nI guess I'm just wondering if this will get better soon and how I can fix this. I don't want to start taking xanax or anything like that if it can be avoided. The worst part about this is that it makes me want to talk to her so badly just for some relief from this feeling."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's been a little over a week since our breakup and almost a week since I heard she'd sort of cheated on me towards the end and was already in a serious relationship with the guy. It all hit me kind of hard. The anxiety is by far the worst when I first wake up. I've woken up every single day without fail shaking and sweaty, my nerves a complete mess. It tends to peter out as the day goes on and I get time to talk to people and relax, but in the morning it's almost unbearable.\n\nThis is a problem because I have school and work early and can't concentrate on anything. I physically shake.\n\nI guess I'm just wondering if this will get better soon and how I can fix this. I don't want to start taking xanax or anything like that if it can be avoided. The worst part about this is that it makes me want to talk to her so badly just for some relief from this feeling."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Alright, so fake account (have friends on real account) and would like to give reedit full disclosure. \n\n4 years ago I bought a house when I was totally single. Awesome place, about $215,000. It is a great place, nice in Aurora IL (near chicago). At this time I had no kids, or even girlfriend and made about $60,000. Fast forward 2 years and I am married to a wonderful woman with a 2 year old. He now just turned 4 and we spawned another that just turned one. We have two cars paid off and no debt other than the house debt. I make $105,000 now (wife doesn't work) and have great credit (never missed a bill ever. score about 750) \n\nWe love our house, but the school district is really bad. I mean really bad. We also looked into private schools, but my wife and I were mormon and had a large falling out so we would like to not send our children to a catholic school.\n\nNearby the school districts are great, and if we didn't have this house we could afford in those districts easily (I think I could cover $400k now making $100k) \n\nOur house currently has $200k left on a 27 year loan at 5% (reified from 6 to 5 3 years ago) and as a point of reference a house down the street just went on the market for $175k. We also completely upgraded the kitchen from 1970 (hardwood floors, custom cabinets, new appliances etc)\n\nHeres our bank info (lol)\nSavings: 15k\nChecking: 2k\n401k: 20k\n\nI know we should have more saved, but my wife came aboard with some student loan debt. \n\nHelp reddit, we really want to move and can afford to, but don't know what to do about our current house."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Alright, so fake account (have friends on real account) and would like to give reedit full disclosure. \n\n4 years ago I bought a house when I was totally single. Awesome place, about $215,000. It is a great place, nice in Aurora IL (near chicago). At this time I had no kids, or even girlfriend and made about $60,000. Fast forward 2 years and I am married to a wonderful woman with a 2 year old. He now just turned 4 and we spawned another that just turned one. We have two cars paid off and no debt other than the house debt. I make $105,000 now (wife doesn't work) and have great credit (never missed a bill ever. score about 750) \n\nWe love our house, but the school district is really bad. I mean really bad. We also looked into private schools, but my wife and I were mormon and had a large falling out so we would like to not send our children to a catholic school.\n\nNearby the school districts are great, and if we didn't have this house we could afford in those districts easily (I think I could cover $400k now making $100k) \n\nOur house currently has $200k left on a 27 year loan at 5% (reified from 6 to 5 3 years ago) and as a point of reference a house down the street just went on the market for $175k. We also completely upgraded the kitchen from 1970 (hardwood floors, custom cabinets, new appliances etc)\n\nHeres our bank info (lol)\nSavings: 15k\nChecking: 2k\n401k: 20k\n\nI know we should have more saved, but my wife came aboard with some student loan debt. \n\nHelp reddit, we really want to move and can afford to, but don't know what to do about our current house."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We are living together. In the past two weeks I noticed she changed, mainly she became colder towards me. \n\nWe talked about it Saturday and she started by saying that she is not feeling that passionate in our relationship as before. I replied that there are normal ups and downs in any relationship; I told her that I also felt less passionate at some points of our relationship, but a small event always reignites the sparkle again. Then she tells me that the night before when she said she was going out with her girlfriends she was in fact in a date with another man. Even though she didn’t sleep with him (She came back around 11PM and spent the rest of the night with me) I feel betrayed and hurt. For the rest of the weekend I left home and went to stay with a friend. After I left she sent me a text saying that she was sorry.\n\nWe are supposed to meet to talk today (she asked to), I’ll understand if she wants to end it. I can’t force her to have feelings for me; but what if she wants to get back? I don’t know how to handle this, should I go back to her? I don’t think I can trust her anymore. I had a similar experience in a previous relationship, and from the moment the trust is lost it went downhill and in an ugly manner."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We are living together. In the past two weeks I noticed she changed, mainly she became colder towards me. \n\nWe talked about it Saturday and she started by saying that she is not feeling that passionate in our relationship as before. I replied that there are normal ups and downs in any relationship; I told her that I also felt less passionate at some points of our relationship, but a small event always reignites the sparkle again. Then she tells me that the night before when she said she was going out with her girlfriends she was in fact in a date with another man. Even though she didn’t sleep with him (She came back around 11PM and spent the rest of the night with me) I feel betrayed and hurt. For the rest of the weekend I left home and went to stay with a friend. After I left she sent me a text saying that she was sorry.\n\nWe are supposed to meet to talk today (she asked to), I’ll understand if she wants to end it. I can’t force her to have feelings for me; but what if she wants to get back? I don’t know how to handle this, should I go back to her? I don’t think I can trust her anymore. I had a similar experience in a previous relationship, and from the moment the trust is lost it went downhill and in an ugly manner."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We are living together. In the past two weeks I noticed she changed, mainly she became colder towards me. \n\nWe talked about it Saturday and she started by saying that she is not feeling that passionate in our relationship as before. I replied that there are normal ups and downs in any relationship; I told her that I also felt less passionate at some points of our relationship, but a small event always reignites the sparkle again. Then she tells me that the night before when she said she was going out with her girlfriends she was in fact in a date with another man. Even though she didn’t sleep with him (She came back around 11PM and spent the rest of the night with me) I feel betrayed and hurt. For the rest of the weekend I left home and went to stay with a friend. After I left she sent me a text saying that she was sorry.\n\nWe are supposed to meet to talk today (she asked to), I’ll understand if she wants to end it. I can’t force her to have feelings for me; but what if she wants to get back? I don’t know how to handle this, should I go back to her? I don’t think I can trust her anymore. I had a similar experience in a previous relationship, and from the moment the trust is lost it went downhill and in an ugly manner."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We are living together. In the past two weeks I noticed she changed, mainly she became colder towards me. \n\nWe talked about it Saturday and she started by saying that she is not feeling that passionate in our relationship as before. I replied that there are normal ups and downs in any relationship; I told her that I also felt less passionate at some points of our relationship, but a small event always reignites the sparkle again. Then she tells me that the night before when she said she was going out with her girlfriends she was in fact in a date with another man. Even though she didn’t sleep with him (She came back around 11PM and spent the rest of the night with me) I feel betrayed and hurt. For the rest of the weekend I left home and went to stay with a friend. After I left she sent me a text saying that she was sorry.\n\nWe are supposed to meet to talk today (she asked to), I’ll understand if she wants to end it. I can’t force her to have feelings for me; but what if she wants to get back? I don’t know how to handle this, should I go back to her? I don’t think I can trust her anymore. I had a similar experience in a previous relationship, and from the moment the trust is lost it went downhill and in an ugly manner."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: To start this off, this relationship has been amazing. We live maybe an 45 minutes away from each other with future plans of moving in together. There has been a few fights here and there but overall we agree don't let the bickering get to us. \nJust recently her aunt died and she has not been the same at all. She's been so depressed and I've been trying to be there for her and she just seems to be pushing me away. It's driving me insane. I've tried to ask if she still has feelings but usually it's just a simple \"yeah\" and it'll be the end of it, and she's been napping a lot lately. \nTonight we were talking and she brought up how depressed it's been and how she doesn't want to fight anymore, and brought up my own past faults and then proceeded to tell me like why couldn't I love her or care about the fighting, and she brought up being alone. I asked if she could give me a chance and she was unsure. She told me shortly afterwards she wanted to stop talking and did just that, finishing it off with I'm not sure if I'll text you tomorrow, you'll know if I do. \nSuper paranoid and lost in overthinking and sadness, please help, what do I do? Sorry if it was kind of confusing too, I'm just stuck upon words."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: To start this off, this relationship has been amazing. We live maybe an 45 minutes away from each other with future plans of moving in together. There has been a few fights here and there but overall we agree don't let the bickering get to us. \nJust recently her aunt died and she has not been the same at all. She's been so depressed and I've been trying to be there for her and she just seems to be pushing me away. It's driving me insane. I've tried to ask if she still has feelings but usually it's just a simple \"yeah\" and it'll be the end of it, and she's been napping a lot lately. \nTonight we were talking and she brought up how depressed it's been and how she doesn't want to fight anymore, and brought up my own past faults and then proceeded to tell me like why couldn't I love her or care about the fighting, and she brought up being alone. I asked if she could give me a chance and she was unsure. She told me shortly afterwards she wanted to stop talking and did just that, finishing it off with I'm not sure if I'll text you tomorrow, you'll know if I do. \nSuper paranoid and lost in overthinking and sadness, please help, what do I do? Sorry if it was kind of confusing too, I'm just stuck upon words."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: To start this off, this relationship has been amazing. We live maybe an 45 minutes away from each other with future plans of moving in together. There has been a few fights here and there but overall we agree don't let the bickering get to us. \nJust recently her aunt died and she has not been the same at all. She's been so depressed and I've been trying to be there for her and she just seems to be pushing me away. It's driving me insane. I've tried to ask if she still has feelings but usually it's just a simple \"yeah\" and it'll be the end of it, and she's been napping a lot lately. \nTonight we were talking and she brought up how depressed it's been and how she doesn't want to fight anymore, and brought up my own past faults and then proceeded to tell me like why couldn't I love her or care about the fighting, and she brought up being alone. I asked if she could give me a chance and she was unsure. She told me shortly afterwards she wanted to stop talking and did just that, finishing it off with I'm not sure if I'll text you tomorrow, you'll know if I do. \nSuper paranoid and lost in overthinking and sadness, please help, what do I do? Sorry if it was kind of confusing too, I'm just stuck upon words."
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