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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I just broke up with my controlling GF of 7 months! Yay, except. she wants me to message her my feelings and explanations for why we broke up. I don't really want to? I'm happier with us broken up. What do I say? You cried when the sink was full of dishes? You hit me once when you got frustrated over video games? You scream at the dog and he hides under the couch out of fear? And she's bffs with my roommate all of a sudden. AND just got facebook even though she said she hated it before we broke up.\n\nI don't feel comfortable with my roommate anymore and I don't feel comfortable viewing things on facebook with her there lurking in the comments of my friends' posts. \n\nWhat do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I just broke up with my controlling GF of 7 months! Yay, except. she wants me to message her my feelings and explanations for why we broke up. I don't really want to? I'm happier with us broken up. What do I say? You cried when the sink was full of dishes? You hit me once when you got frustrated over video games? You scream at the dog and he hides under the couch out of fear? And she's bffs with my roommate all of a sudden. AND just got facebook even though she said she hated it before we broke up.\n\nI don't feel comfortable with my roommate anymore and I don't feel comfortable viewing things on facebook with her there lurking in the comments of my friends' posts. \n\nWhat do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I just broke up with my controlling GF of 7 months! Yay, except. she wants me to message her my feelings and explanations for why we broke up. I don't really want to? I'm happier with us broken up. What do I say? You cried when the sink was full of dishes? You hit me once when you got frustrated over video games? You scream at the dog and he hides under the couch out of fear? And she's bffs with my roommate all of a sudden. AND just got facebook even though she said she hated it before we broke up.\n\nI don't feel comfortable with my roommate anymore and I don't feel comfortable viewing things on facebook with her there lurking in the comments of my friends' posts. \n\nWhat do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I just broke up with my controlling GF of 7 months! Yay, except. she wants me to message her my feelings and explanations for why we broke up. I don't really want to? I'm happier with us broken up. What do I say? You cried when the sink was full of dishes? You hit me once when you got frustrated over video games? You scream at the dog and he hides under the couch out of fear? And she's bffs with my roommate all of a sudden. AND just got facebook even though she said she hated it before we broke up.\n\nI don't feel comfortable with my roommate anymore and I don't feel comfortable viewing things on facebook with her there lurking in the comments of my friends' posts. \n\nWhat do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I just broke up with my controlling GF of 7 months! Yay, except. she wants me to message her my feelings and explanations for why we broke up. I don't really want to? I'm happier with us broken up. What do I say? You cried when the sink was full of dishes? You hit me once when you got frustrated over video games? You scream at the dog and he hides under the couch out of fear? And she's bffs with my roommate all of a sudden. AND just got facebook even though she said she hated it before we broke up.\n\nI don't feel comfortable with my roommate anymore and I don't feel comfortable viewing things on facebook with her there lurking in the comments of my friends' posts. \n\nWhat do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I just broke up with my controlling GF of 7 months! Yay, except. she wants me to message her my feelings and explanations for why we broke up. I don't really want to? I'm happier with us broken up. What do I say? You cried when the sink was full of dishes? You hit me once when you got frustrated over video games? You scream at the dog and he hides under the couch out of fear? And she's bffs with my roommate all of a sudden. AND just got facebook even though she said she hated it before we broke up.\n\nI don't feel comfortable with my roommate anymore and I don't feel comfortable viewing things on facebook with her there lurking in the comments of my friends' posts. \n\nWhat do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: He had been severely abusive to her in a relationship for a long time, and last weekend in a fit of rage at her he broke up with her. This was a very good thing, as she had wanted to for a long time but wasn't able to herself. \n\nUnfortunately, now he is sending her insulting, belittling messages along with \"I actually love you\" messages and messages talking about killing himself to get her attention.\n\nShe doesn't want to block him because she is afraid that if she isn't able to see how insane he is she will be tempted to go back to him in a few months (which is what happened the last time they'd broken up). \n\nI've suggested responding to suicide threats with hotline information and other websites where he can get help, and then not responding with anything else, and she says she already sent the information but kept talking to him.\n\nSo then I told her moving forward she should ignore messages that are abusive or suicidal, as she's already done way more than could reasonably be expected of her to do for a person, and that he is either trying to trap her in his abuse again or needs professional help. \n\nI've also recommended sending information to the police in his area if she believes that the suicide threats are credible.\n\nShe responded that she believes I am right, but then moved the topic on to other things which makes me think she will continue to appease him, which I am afraid will lead her back into this abusive cycle.\n\nIs there anything more I can be doing to support her or help her here? Is there any other options that she has that we aren't aware of?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: He had been severely abusive to her in a relationship for a long time, and last weekend in a fit of rage at her he broke up with her. This was a very good thing, as she had wanted to for a long time but wasn't able to herself. \n\nUnfortunately, now he is sending her insulting, belittling messages along with \"I actually love you\" messages and messages talking about killing himself to get her attention.\n\nShe doesn't want to block him because she is afraid that if she isn't able to see how insane he is she will be tempted to go back to him in a few months (which is what happened the last time they'd broken up). \n\nI've suggested responding to suicide threats with hotline information and other websites where he can get help, and then not responding with anything else, and she says she already sent the information but kept talking to him.\n\nSo then I told her moving forward she should ignore messages that are abusive or suicidal, as she's already done way more than could reasonably be expected of her to do for a person, and that he is either trying to trap her in his abuse again or needs professional help. \n\nI've also recommended sending information to the police in his area if she believes that the suicide threats are credible.\n\nShe responded that she believes I am right, but then moved the topic on to other things which makes me think she will continue to appease him, which I am afraid will lead her back into this abusive cycle.\n\nIs there anything more I can be doing to support her or help her here? Is there any other options that she has that we aren't aware of?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: He had been severely abusive to her in a relationship for a long time, and last weekend in a fit of rage at her he broke up with her. This was a very good thing, as she had wanted to for a long time but wasn't able to herself. \n\nUnfortunately, now he is sending her insulting, belittling messages along with \"I actually love you\" messages and messages talking about killing himself to get her attention.\n\nShe doesn't want to block him because she is afraid that if she isn't able to see how insane he is she will be tempted to go back to him in a few months (which is what happened the last time they'd broken up). \n\nI've suggested responding to suicide threats with hotline information and other websites where he can get help, and then not responding with anything else, and she says she already sent the information but kept talking to him.\n\nSo then I told her moving forward she should ignore messages that are abusive or suicidal, as she's already done way more than could reasonably be expected of her to do for a person, and that he is either trying to trap her in his abuse again or needs professional help. \n\nI've also recommended sending information to the police in his area if she believes that the suicide threats are credible.\n\nShe responded that she believes I am right, but then moved the topic on to other things which makes me think she will continue to appease him, which I am afraid will lead her back into this abusive cycle.\n\nIs there anything more I can be doing to support her or help her here? Is there any other options that she has that we aren't aware of?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: He had been severely abusive to her in a relationship for a long time, and last weekend in a fit of rage at her he broke up with her. This was a very good thing, as she had wanted to for a long time but wasn't able to herself. \n\nUnfortunately, now he is sending her insulting, belittling messages along with \"I actually love you\" messages and messages talking about killing himself to get her attention.\n\nShe doesn't want to block him because she is afraid that if she isn't able to see how insane he is she will be tempted to go back to him in a few months (which is what happened the last time they'd broken up). \n\nI've suggested responding to suicide threats with hotline information and other websites where he can get help, and then not responding with anything else, and she says she already sent the information but kept talking to him.\n\nSo then I told her moving forward she should ignore messages that are abusive or suicidal, as she's already done way more than could reasonably be expected of her to do for a person, and that he is either trying to trap her in his abuse again or needs professional help. \n\nI've also recommended sending information to the police in his area if she believes that the suicide threats are credible.\n\nShe responded that she believes I am right, but then moved the topic on to other things which makes me think she will continue to appease him, which I am afraid will lead her back into this abusive cycle.\n\nIs there anything more I can be doing to support her or help her here? Is there any other options that she has that we aren't aware of?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: He had been severely abusive to her in a relationship for a long time, and last weekend in a fit of rage at her he broke up with her. This was a very good thing, as she had wanted to for a long time but wasn't able to herself. \n\nUnfortunately, now he is sending her insulting, belittling messages along with \"I actually love you\" messages and messages talking about killing himself to get her attention.\n\nShe doesn't want to block him because she is afraid that if she isn't able to see how insane he is she will be tempted to go back to him in a few months (which is what happened the last time they'd broken up). \n\nI've suggested responding to suicide threats with hotline information and other websites where he can get help, and then not responding with anything else, and she says she already sent the information but kept talking to him.\n\nSo then I told her moving forward she should ignore messages that are abusive or suicidal, as she's already done way more than could reasonably be expected of her to do for a person, and that he is either trying to trap her in his abuse again or needs professional help. \n\nI've also recommended sending information to the police in his area if she believes that the suicide threats are credible.\n\nShe responded that she believes I am right, but then moved the topic on to other things which makes me think she will continue to appease him, which I am afraid will lead her back into this abusive cycle.\n\nIs there anything more I can be doing to support her or help her here? Is there any other options that she has that we aren't aware of?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: He had been severely abusive to her in a relationship for a long time, and last weekend in a fit of rage at her he broke up with her. This was a very good thing, as she had wanted to for a long time but wasn't able to herself. \n\nUnfortunately, now he is sending her insulting, belittling messages along with \"I actually love you\" messages and messages talking about killing himself to get her attention.\n\nShe doesn't want to block him because she is afraid that if she isn't able to see how insane he is she will be tempted to go back to him in a few months (which is what happened the last time they'd broken up). \n\nI've suggested responding to suicide threats with hotline information and other websites where he can get help, and then not responding with anything else, and she says she already sent the information but kept talking to him.\n\nSo then I told her moving forward she should ignore messages that are abusive or suicidal, as she's already done way more than could reasonably be expected of her to do for a person, and that he is either trying to trap her in his abuse again or needs professional help. \n\nI've also recommended sending information to the police in his area if she believes that the suicide threats are credible.\n\nShe responded that she believes I am right, but then moved the topic on to other things which makes me think she will continue to appease him, which I am afraid will lead her back into this abusive cycle.\n\nIs there anything more I can be doing to support her or help her here? Is there any other options that she has that we aren't aware of?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here's the gist: I'm an embarrassed 25 year old male virgin. A female friend and I have recently began hooking up a bit. We're getting into the \"friends with benefits\" zone and it's been getting spicy. Last time we hooked up, she was ready to have sex but I didn't have a condom. She gave me lots of shit for that.\n\nThing is, I've hooked up with girls before, I'm mildly attractive and I have a good amount of confidence in myself. I don't *seem* like a virgin. but I am. due to some complicated circumstances (not physical). I have had some girlfriends and flings, so my friends assume that i'm not a virgin. and I even lied and said I wasn't because I don't want them to know (not like its any of their business anyway. but I do feel ashamed for lying and would rather no one discover that *personal* detail) \n\nSo I need your help! I know that sex is going to happen *soon*. I don't want to get inside of my good friend and make a mistake that's going to give me away. I just want it to go smoothly and enjoy myself. I'm embarrassed to post this, and I'm sure this seems funny to a lot of you. But please bear with me here.\n\nSo please, sexperts of reddit, explain to me as if I'm a young teenager what to. do. when I'm in there. Also, some cunnilingus tips would be greatly appreciated. \n\nSeriously: I am very sexually uneducated. So even tell me stuff that you would imagine that EVERYONE knows."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here's the gist: I'm an embarrassed 25 year old male virgin. A female friend and I have recently began hooking up a bit. We're getting into the \"friends with benefits\" zone and it's been getting spicy. Last time we hooked up, she was ready to have sex but I didn't have a condom. She gave me lots of shit for that.\n\nThing is, I've hooked up with girls before, I'm mildly attractive and I have a good amount of confidence in myself. I don't *seem* like a virgin. but I am. due to some complicated circumstances (not physical). I have had some girlfriends and flings, so my friends assume that i'm not a virgin. and I even lied and said I wasn't because I don't want them to know (not like its any of their business anyway. but I do feel ashamed for lying and would rather no one discover that *personal* detail) \n\nSo I need your help! I know that sex is going to happen *soon*. I don't want to get inside of my good friend and make a mistake that's going to give me away. I just want it to go smoothly and enjoy myself. I'm embarrassed to post this, and I'm sure this seems funny to a lot of you. But please bear with me here.\n\nSo please, sexperts of reddit, explain to me as if I'm a young teenager what to. do. when I'm in there. Also, some cunnilingus tips would be greatly appreciated. \n\nSeriously: I am very sexually uneducated. So even tell me stuff that you would imagine that EVERYONE knows."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here's the gist: I'm an embarrassed 25 year old male virgin. A female friend and I have recently began hooking up a bit. We're getting into the \"friends with benefits\" zone and it's been getting spicy. Last time we hooked up, she was ready to have sex but I didn't have a condom. She gave me lots of shit for that.\n\nThing is, I've hooked up with girls before, I'm mildly attractive and I have a good amount of confidence in myself. I don't *seem* like a virgin. but I am. due to some complicated circumstances (not physical). I have had some girlfriends and flings, so my friends assume that i'm not a virgin. and I even lied and said I wasn't because I don't want them to know (not like its any of their business anyway. but I do feel ashamed for lying and would rather no one discover that *personal* detail) \n\nSo I need your help! I know that sex is going to happen *soon*. I don't want to get inside of my good friend and make a mistake that's going to give me away. I just want it to go smoothly and enjoy myself. I'm embarrassed to post this, and I'm sure this seems funny to a lot of you. But please bear with me here.\n\nSo please, sexperts of reddit, explain to me as if I'm a young teenager what to. do. when I'm in there. Also, some cunnilingus tips would be greatly appreciated. \n\nSeriously: I am very sexually uneducated. So even tell me stuff that you would imagine that EVERYONE knows."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here's the gist: I'm an embarrassed 25 year old male virgin. A female friend and I have recently began hooking up a bit. We're getting into the \"friends with benefits\" zone and it's been getting spicy. Last time we hooked up, she was ready to have sex but I didn't have a condom. She gave me lots of shit for that.\n\nThing is, I've hooked up with girls before, I'm mildly attractive and I have a good amount of confidence in myself. I don't *seem* like a virgin. but I am. due to some complicated circumstances (not physical). I have had some girlfriends and flings, so my friends assume that i'm not a virgin. and I even lied and said I wasn't because I don't want them to know (not like its any of their business anyway. but I do feel ashamed for lying and would rather no one discover that *personal* detail) \n\nSo I need your help! I know that sex is going to happen *soon*. I don't want to get inside of my good friend and make a mistake that's going to give me away. I just want it to go smoothly and enjoy myself. I'm embarrassed to post this, and I'm sure this seems funny to a lot of you. But please bear with me here.\n\nSo please, sexperts of reddit, explain to me as if I'm a young teenager what to. do. when I'm in there. Also, some cunnilingus tips would be greatly appreciated. \n\nSeriously: I am very sexually uneducated. So even tell me stuff that you would imagine that EVERYONE knows."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here's the gist: I'm an embarrassed 25 year old male virgin. A female friend and I have recently began hooking up a bit. We're getting into the \"friends with benefits\" zone and it's been getting spicy. Last time we hooked up, she was ready to have sex but I didn't have a condom. She gave me lots of shit for that.\n\nThing is, I've hooked up with girls before, I'm mildly attractive and I have a good amount of confidence in myself. I don't *seem* like a virgin. but I am. due to some complicated circumstances (not physical). I have had some girlfriends and flings, so my friends assume that i'm not a virgin. and I even lied and said I wasn't because I don't want them to know (not like its any of their business anyway. but I do feel ashamed for lying and would rather no one discover that *personal* detail) \n\nSo I need your help! I know that sex is going to happen *soon*. I don't want to get inside of my good friend and make a mistake that's going to give me away. I just want it to go smoothly and enjoy myself. I'm embarrassed to post this, and I'm sure this seems funny to a lot of you. But please bear with me here.\n\nSo please, sexperts of reddit, explain to me as if I'm a young teenager what to. do. when I'm in there. Also, some cunnilingus tips would be greatly appreciated. \n\nSeriously: I am very sexually uneducated. So even tell me stuff that you would imagine that EVERYONE knows."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here's the gist: I'm an embarrassed 25 year old male virgin. A female friend and I have recently began hooking up a bit. We're getting into the \"friends with benefits\" zone and it's been getting spicy. Last time we hooked up, she was ready to have sex but I didn't have a condom. She gave me lots of shit for that.\n\nThing is, I've hooked up with girls before, I'm mildly attractive and I have a good amount of confidence in myself. I don't *seem* like a virgin. but I am. due to some complicated circumstances (not physical). I have had some girlfriends and flings, so my friends assume that i'm not a virgin. and I even lied and said I wasn't because I don't want them to know (not like its any of their business anyway. but I do feel ashamed for lying and would rather no one discover that *personal* detail) \n\nSo I need your help! I know that sex is going to happen *soon*. I don't want to get inside of my good friend and make a mistake that's going to give me away. I just want it to go smoothly and enjoy myself. I'm embarrassed to post this, and I'm sure this seems funny to a lot of you. But please bear with me here.\n\nSo please, sexperts of reddit, explain to me as if I'm a young teenager what to. do. when I'm in there. Also, some cunnilingus tips would be greatly appreciated. \n\nSeriously: I am very sexually uneducated. So even tell me stuff that you would imagine that EVERYONE knows."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I started dating about a year ago, soon after I started taking classes at his local college. Through him, I've met so many awesome people. Lately I've been hanging out with some of these people a lot on my own, independently of my boyfriend. So I definitely consider them our friends, and not just his. Also, some of these people we have met after we were already a couple. \n\nAlthough out relationship is great at the moment, I'm not naive and know the possibility of us breaking up at some point could happen. When I think about the future I wonder what is suppose to happen to our friend group? I really don't want to lose the people I've become such good friends with. \n\nThinking about it really upsets me and puts me in a depressed mood some days. I feel like this is something I should discuss with my boyfriend, but how? How can I ask him without sounding like a controlling or needy person what happens with our friends if we do not workout in the future?\n\n*EDIT:* Assuming we encounter an amicable breakup."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I started dating about a year ago, soon after I started taking classes at his local college. Through him, I've met so many awesome people. Lately I've been hanging out with some of these people a lot on my own, independently of my boyfriend. So I definitely consider them our friends, and not just his. Also, some of these people we have met after we were already a couple. \n\nAlthough out relationship is great at the moment, I'm not naive and know the possibility of us breaking up at some point could happen. When I think about the future I wonder what is suppose to happen to our friend group? I really don't want to lose the people I've become such good friends with. \n\nThinking about it really upsets me and puts me in a depressed mood some days. I feel like this is something I should discuss with my boyfriend, but how? How can I ask him without sounding like a controlling or needy person what happens with our friends if we do not workout in the future?\n\n*EDIT:* Assuming we encounter an amicable breakup."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I started dating about a year ago, soon after I started taking classes at his local college. Through him, I've met so many awesome people. Lately I've been hanging out with some of these people a lot on my own, independently of my boyfriend. So I definitely consider them our friends, and not just his. Also, some of these people we have met after we were already a couple. \n\nAlthough out relationship is great at the moment, I'm not naive and know the possibility of us breaking up at some point could happen. When I think about the future I wonder what is suppose to happen to our friend group? I really don't want to lose the people I've become such good friends with. \n\nThinking about it really upsets me and puts me in a depressed mood some days. I feel like this is something I should discuss with my boyfriend, but how? How can I ask him without sounding like a controlling or needy person what happens with our friends if we do not workout in the future?\n\n*EDIT:* Assuming we encounter an amicable breakup."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I started dating about a year ago, soon after I started taking classes at his local college. Through him, I've met so many awesome people. Lately I've been hanging out with some of these people a lot on my own, independently of my boyfriend. So I definitely consider them our friends, and not just his. Also, some of these people we have met after we were already a couple. \n\nAlthough out relationship is great at the moment, I'm not naive and know the possibility of us breaking up at some point could happen. When I think about the future I wonder what is suppose to happen to our friend group? I really don't want to lose the people I've become such good friends with. \n\nThinking about it really upsets me and puts me in a depressed mood some days. I feel like this is something I should discuss with my boyfriend, but how? How can I ask him without sounding like a controlling or needy person what happens with our friends if we do not workout in the future?\n\n*EDIT:* Assuming we encounter an amicable breakup."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I started dating about a year ago, soon after I started taking classes at his local college. Through him, I've met so many awesome people. Lately I've been hanging out with some of these people a lot on my own, independently of my boyfriend. So I definitely consider them our friends, and not just his. Also, some of these people we have met after we were already a couple. \n\nAlthough out relationship is great at the moment, I'm not naive and know the possibility of us breaking up at some point could happen. When I think about the future I wonder what is suppose to happen to our friend group? I really don't want to lose the people I've become such good friends with. \n\nThinking about it really upsets me and puts me in a depressed mood some days. I feel like this is something I should discuss with my boyfriend, but how? How can I ask him without sounding like a controlling or needy person what happens with our friends if we do not workout in the future?\n\n*EDIT:* Assuming we encounter an amicable breakup."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I started dating about a year ago, soon after I started taking classes at his local college. Through him, I've met so many awesome people. Lately I've been hanging out with some of these people a lot on my own, independently of my boyfriend. So I definitely consider them our friends, and not just his. Also, some of these people we have met after we were already a couple. \n\nAlthough out relationship is great at the moment, I'm not naive and know the possibility of us breaking up at some point could happen. When I think about the future I wonder what is suppose to happen to our friend group? I really don't want to lose the people I've become such good friends with. \n\nThinking about it really upsets me and puts me in a depressed mood some days. I feel like this is something I should discuss with my boyfriend, but how? How can I ask him without sounding like a controlling or needy person what happens with our friends if we do not workout in the future?\n\n*EDIT:* Assuming we encounter an amicable breakup."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I wanted to come here today to get help for myself and for my love. \n\nI know he feels bad because i was immature during my last relationship and had told him things about the other person and about it in general. (it makes him feel like he really isn't good; he's very insecure and has a low self esteem) I really hate myself for being in that relationship and telling him things about it. I don't think he can get over this seeing as how i act whenever he brings it up or feels bad about it. I just don't know what he wants when he talks about it anymore. He's holding on to this and can't seem to forgive me for it, and i really just want to move past it. It hurts him more than it hurts me. \n\nI haven't been a caring and loving person to him. I've lied and I've gotten mad. I've been inconsiderate, And i really don't know what to do about it. I can't seem to think of anything that would make him feel better about this, or whenever he feels bad at least. I've never had to make any one feel better. I guess I sound selfish saying that, but i really don't how to do anything like this. \n\nI feel like a loser having to go on reddit for help, but i have no other way of communicating with anyone. I don't know what to think about this and i just need advice. I want to fix myself, but i don't know how to approach it. I want to learn from my mistakes and change, and i don't want to be this terrible, uncaring person anymore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I wanted to come here today to get help for myself and for my love. \n\nI know he feels bad because i was immature during my last relationship and had told him things about the other person and about it in general. (it makes him feel like he really isn't good; he's very insecure and has a low self esteem) I really hate myself for being in that relationship and telling him things about it. I don't think he can get over this seeing as how i act whenever he brings it up or feels bad about it. I just don't know what he wants when he talks about it anymore. He's holding on to this and can't seem to forgive me for it, and i really just want to move past it. It hurts him more than it hurts me. \n\nI haven't been a caring and loving person to him. I've lied and I've gotten mad. I've been inconsiderate, And i really don't know what to do about it. I can't seem to think of anything that would make him feel better about this, or whenever he feels bad at least. I've never had to make any one feel better. I guess I sound selfish saying that, but i really don't how to do anything like this. \n\nI feel like a loser having to go on reddit for help, but i have no other way of communicating with anyone. I don't know what to think about this and i just need advice. I want to fix myself, but i don't know how to approach it. I want to learn from my mistakes and change, and i don't want to be this terrible, uncaring person anymore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I wanted to come here today to get help for myself and for my love. \n\nI know he feels bad because i was immature during my last relationship and had told him things about the other person and about it in general. (it makes him feel like he really isn't good; he's very insecure and has a low self esteem) I really hate myself for being in that relationship and telling him things about it. I don't think he can get over this seeing as how i act whenever he brings it up or feels bad about it. I just don't know what he wants when he talks about it anymore. He's holding on to this and can't seem to forgive me for it, and i really just want to move past it. It hurts him more than it hurts me. \n\nI haven't been a caring and loving person to him. I've lied and I've gotten mad. I've been inconsiderate, And i really don't know what to do about it. I can't seem to think of anything that would make him feel better about this, or whenever he feels bad at least. I've never had to make any one feel better. I guess I sound selfish saying that, but i really don't how to do anything like this. \n\nI feel like a loser having to go on reddit for help, but i have no other way of communicating with anyone. I don't know what to think about this and i just need advice. I want to fix myself, but i don't know how to approach it. I want to learn from my mistakes and change, and i don't want to be this terrible, uncaring person anymore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I wanted to come here today to get help for myself and for my love. \n\nI know he feels bad because i was immature during my last relationship and had told him things about the other person and about it in general. (it makes him feel like he really isn't good; he's very insecure and has a low self esteem) I really hate myself for being in that relationship and telling him things about it. I don't think he can get over this seeing as how i act whenever he brings it up or feels bad about it. I just don't know what he wants when he talks about it anymore. He's holding on to this and can't seem to forgive me for it, and i really just want to move past it. It hurts him more than it hurts me. \n\nI haven't been a caring and loving person to him. I've lied and I've gotten mad. I've been inconsiderate, And i really don't know what to do about it. I can't seem to think of anything that would make him feel better about this, or whenever he feels bad at least. I've never had to make any one feel better. I guess I sound selfish saying that, but i really don't how to do anything like this. \n\nI feel like a loser having to go on reddit for help, but i have no other way of communicating with anyone. I don't know what to think about this and i just need advice. I want to fix myself, but i don't know how to approach it. I want to learn from my mistakes and change, and i don't want to be this terrible, uncaring person anymore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I wanted to come here today to get help for myself and for my love. \n\nI know he feels bad because i was immature during my last relationship and had told him things about the other person and about it in general. (it makes him feel like he really isn't good; he's very insecure and has a low self esteem) I really hate myself for being in that relationship and telling him things about it. I don't think he can get over this seeing as how i act whenever he brings it up or feels bad about it. I just don't know what he wants when he talks about it anymore. He's holding on to this and can't seem to forgive me for it, and i really just want to move past it. It hurts him more than it hurts me. \n\nI haven't been a caring and loving person to him. I've lied and I've gotten mad. I've been inconsiderate, And i really don't know what to do about it. I can't seem to think of anything that would make him feel better about this, or whenever he feels bad at least. I've never had to make any one feel better. I guess I sound selfish saying that, but i really don't how to do anything like this. \n\nI feel like a loser having to go on reddit for help, but i have no other way of communicating with anyone. I don't know what to think about this and i just need advice. I want to fix myself, but i don't know how to approach it. I want to learn from my mistakes and change, and i don't want to be this terrible, uncaring person anymore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I wanted to come here today to get help for myself and for my love. \n\nI know he feels bad because i was immature during my last relationship and had told him things about the other person and about it in general. (it makes him feel like he really isn't good; he's very insecure and has a low self esteem) I really hate myself for being in that relationship and telling him things about it. I don't think he can get over this seeing as how i act whenever he brings it up or feels bad about it. I just don't know what he wants when he talks about it anymore. He's holding on to this and can't seem to forgive me for it, and i really just want to move past it. It hurts him more than it hurts me. \n\nI haven't been a caring and loving person to him. I've lied and I've gotten mad. I've been inconsiderate, And i really don't know what to do about it. I can't seem to think of anything that would make him feel better about this, or whenever he feels bad at least. I've never had to make any one feel better. I guess I sound selfish saying that, but i really don't how to do anything like this. \n\nI feel like a loser having to go on reddit for help, but i have no other way of communicating with anyone. I don't know what to think about this and i just need advice. I want to fix myself, but i don't know how to approach it. I want to learn from my mistakes and change, and i don't want to be this terrible, uncaring person anymore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This girl (17) and I (17) have been talking for a decent amount of time, about 3 months now, and we've been friends for like 3 years. Things were getting more than friends for a little, nothing intimate, no sexual contact or anything. It seemed that we both had mutual feelings for each other. But the past two weeks have been noticeably different. The way she would act around me, the way she would text me, she would give me 2 word answers, just not the same. I figured it was just a bad week and she was not in the best of moods. So, the next week goes by and things are still weird. 2 word answers, 6 texts back and forth each day, barely get to talk to her. I figure that she isnt into me anymore, or doesnt share the same feelings anymore. And yesterday I hooked up with another girl and the girl ive been talking to finds out and freaks out on me. I figured that she wasnt into me anymore, so that was my time to move on. I still kind of like this girl, I feel like an asshole, and later tonight I'm explaining myself to her. I still like this girl and I dont really know what to think of the situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This girl (17) and I (17) have been talking for a decent amount of time, about 3 months now, and we've been friends for like 3 years. Things were getting more than friends for a little, nothing intimate, no sexual contact or anything. It seemed that we both had mutual feelings for each other. But the past two weeks have been noticeably different. The way she would act around me, the way she would text me, she would give me 2 word answers, just not the same. I figured it was just a bad week and she was not in the best of moods. So, the next week goes by and things are still weird. 2 word answers, 6 texts back and forth each day, barely get to talk to her. I figure that she isnt into me anymore, or doesnt share the same feelings anymore. And yesterday I hooked up with another girl and the girl ive been talking to finds out and freaks out on me. I figured that she wasnt into me anymore, so that was my time to move on. I still kind of like this girl, I feel like an asshole, and later tonight I'm explaining myself to her. I still like this girl and I dont really know what to think of the situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This girl (17) and I (17) have been talking for a decent amount of time, about 3 months now, and we've been friends for like 3 years. Things were getting more than friends for a little, nothing intimate, no sexual contact or anything. It seemed that we both had mutual feelings for each other. But the past two weeks have been noticeably different. The way she would act around me, the way she would text me, she would give me 2 word answers, just not the same. I figured it was just a bad week and she was not in the best of moods. So, the next week goes by and things are still weird. 2 word answers, 6 texts back and forth each day, barely get to talk to her. I figure that she isnt into me anymore, or doesnt share the same feelings anymore. And yesterday I hooked up with another girl and the girl ive been talking to finds out and freaks out on me. I figured that she wasnt into me anymore, so that was my time to move on. I still kind of like this girl, I feel like an asshole, and later tonight I'm explaining myself to her. I still like this girl and I dont really know what to think of the situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This girl (17) and I (17) have been talking for a decent amount of time, about 3 months now, and we've been friends for like 3 years. Things were getting more than friends for a little, nothing intimate, no sexual contact or anything. It seemed that we both had mutual feelings for each other. But the past two weeks have been noticeably different. The way she would act around me, the way she would text me, she would give me 2 word answers, just not the same. I figured it was just a bad week and she was not in the best of moods. So, the next week goes by and things are still weird. 2 word answers, 6 texts back and forth each day, barely get to talk to her. I figure that she isnt into me anymore, or doesnt share the same feelings anymore. And yesterday I hooked up with another girl and the girl ive been talking to finds out and freaks out on me. I figured that she wasnt into me anymore, so that was my time to move on. I still kind of like this girl, I feel like an asshole, and later tonight I'm explaining myself to her. I still like this girl and I dont really know what to think of the situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This girl (17) and I (17) have been talking for a decent amount of time, about 3 months now, and we've been friends for like 3 years. Things were getting more than friends for a little, nothing intimate, no sexual contact or anything. It seemed that we both had mutual feelings for each other. But the past two weeks have been noticeably different. The way she would act around me, the way she would text me, she would give me 2 word answers, just not the same. I figured it was just a bad week and she was not in the best of moods. So, the next week goes by and things are still weird. 2 word answers, 6 texts back and forth each day, barely get to talk to her. I figure that she isnt into me anymore, or doesnt share the same feelings anymore. And yesterday I hooked up with another girl and the girl ive been talking to finds out and freaks out on me. I figured that she wasnt into me anymore, so that was my time to move on. I still kind of like this girl, I feel like an asshole, and later tonight I'm explaining myself to her. I still like this girl and I dont really know what to think of the situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This girl (17) and I (17) have been talking for a decent amount of time, about 3 months now, and we've been friends for like 3 years. Things were getting more than friends for a little, nothing intimate, no sexual contact or anything. It seemed that we both had mutual feelings for each other. But the past two weeks have been noticeably different. The way she would act around me, the way she would text me, she would give me 2 word answers, just not the same. I figured it was just a bad week and she was not in the best of moods. So, the next week goes by and things are still weird. 2 word answers, 6 texts back and forth each day, barely get to talk to her. I figure that she isnt into me anymore, or doesnt share the same feelings anymore. And yesterday I hooked up with another girl and the girl ive been talking to finds out and freaks out on me. I figured that she wasnt into me anymore, so that was my time to move on. I still kind of like this girl, I feel like an asshole, and later tonight I'm explaining myself to her. I still like this girl and I dont really know what to think of the situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Now my girlfriend and I are both going to be seniors in High School this Fall and have been dating for 6 months come July 4. She's been on a trip out of state for the past week so her and I have been talking on the phone almost every night since she's been gone.\n\nWhile having our nightly phone call she mentions how cute cats. Since I'm allergic to the beasts I nonchalantly say that cats are terrible. This is when she brings says: \n\n*Wow, how can I marry you if you hate cats?* or something along those lines, I can't completely remember.\n\nWe have not discussed our future after HS at all since dating, let alone marriage. Is it possible I'm just over thinking this? I mean, this is my first relationship and all. Or is she actually serious about getting marriage?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Now my girlfriend and I are both going to be seniors in High School this Fall and have been dating for 6 months come July 4. She's been on a trip out of state for the past week so her and I have been talking on the phone almost every night since she's been gone.\n\nWhile having our nightly phone call she mentions how cute cats. Since I'm allergic to the beasts I nonchalantly say that cats are terrible. This is when she brings says: \n\n*Wow, how can I marry you if you hate cats?* or something along those lines, I can't completely remember.\n\nWe have not discussed our future after HS at all since dating, let alone marriage. Is it possible I'm just over thinking this? I mean, this is my first relationship and all. Or is she actually serious about getting marriage?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Now my girlfriend and I are both going to be seniors in High School this Fall and have been dating for 6 months come July 4. She's been on a trip out of state for the past week so her and I have been talking on the phone almost every night since she's been gone.\n\nWhile having our nightly phone call she mentions how cute cats. Since I'm allergic to the beasts I nonchalantly say that cats are terrible. This is when she brings says: \n\n*Wow, how can I marry you if you hate cats?* or something along those lines, I can't completely remember.\n\nWe have not discussed our future after HS at all since dating, let alone marriage. Is it possible I'm just over thinking this? I mean, this is my first relationship and all. Or is she actually serious about getting marriage?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Now my girlfriend and I are both going to be seniors in High School this Fall and have been dating for 6 months come July 4. She's been on a trip out of state for the past week so her and I have been talking on the phone almost every night since she's been gone.\n\nWhile having our nightly phone call she mentions how cute cats. Since I'm allergic to the beasts I nonchalantly say that cats are terrible. This is when she brings says: \n\n*Wow, how can I marry you if you hate cats?* or something along those lines, I can't completely remember.\n\nWe have not discussed our future after HS at all since dating, let alone marriage. Is it possible I'm just over thinking this? I mean, this is my first relationship and all. Or is she actually serious about getting marriage?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Now my girlfriend and I are both going to be seniors in High School this Fall and have been dating for 6 months come July 4. She's been on a trip out of state for the past week so her and I have been talking on the phone almost every night since she's been gone.\n\nWhile having our nightly phone call she mentions how cute cats. Since I'm allergic to the beasts I nonchalantly say that cats are terrible. This is when she brings says: \n\n*Wow, how can I marry you if you hate cats?* or something along those lines, I can't completely remember.\n\nWe have not discussed our future after HS at all since dating, let alone marriage. Is it possible I'm just over thinking this? I mean, this is my first relationship and all. Or is she actually serious about getting marriage?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Now my girlfriend and I are both going to be seniors in High School this Fall and have been dating for 6 months come July 4. She's been on a trip out of state for the past week so her and I have been talking on the phone almost every night since she's been gone.\n\nWhile having our nightly phone call she mentions how cute cats. Since I'm allergic to the beasts I nonchalantly say that cats are terrible. This is when she brings says: \n\n*Wow, how can I marry you if you hate cats?* or something along those lines, I can't completely remember.\n\nWe have not discussed our future after HS at all since dating, let alone marriage. Is it possible I'm just over thinking this? I mean, this is my first relationship and all. Or is she actually serious about getting marriage?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I could use some advice from Redditors cleverer than I:\n\nLast July, a handful of independent authors and I released a book based on [our website]( The book is a blend of some of our more popular articles along with some new, exclusive stuff. \n\nI spent a considerable chunk of time preparing the book, causing a massive rift in my time-money continuum (I work as a freelance coder, and I put my normal income-generating activities on hold for a few months to fulfill my dream of becoming a real wood-pulp author). The writing/editing/organizing was a whimsical and bittersweet adventure, ultimately leading me to *The Restaurant at the End of My Finances*. Couple this with the sharp decline in available freelance work, and you can imagine the parched landscape where my bank account once stood.\n\nSince its release, the book has seemingly been well received-for instance, it has a [5/5 average rating on Amazon]( sales are lukewarm. Despite my lack of marketing skills, I have made a few fruitless attempts to increase the book's exposure, with little to show for it. And apparently publishers don't put much of their own resouces into marketing unless you're already famous or have a sure-fire hit.\n\nIt now appears that the book's sales have passed their peak, and unless I can find an effective way to market the book there is little hope that it will earn out the advance, let alone royalties. I had hoped the book would furnish me with a little income padding so I could spend more time and energy writing; but instead it has robbed me of the time and ambition to do *any* writing as I labor to escape this financial tar pit.\n\nSo, Reddit, has anyone got any marketing insights they could lend me? Superthanks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I could use some advice from Redditors cleverer than I:\n\nLast July, a handful of independent authors and I released a book based on [our website]( The book is a blend of some of our more popular articles along with some new, exclusive stuff. \n\nI spent a considerable chunk of time preparing the book, causing a massive rift in my time-money continuum (I work as a freelance coder, and I put my normal income-generating activities on hold for a few months to fulfill my dream of becoming a real wood-pulp author). The writing/editing/organizing was a whimsical and bittersweet adventure, ultimately leading me to *The Restaurant at the End of My Finances*. Couple this with the sharp decline in available freelance work, and you can imagine the parched landscape where my bank account once stood.\n\nSince its release, the book has seemingly been well received-for instance, it has a [5/5 average rating on Amazon]( sales are lukewarm. Despite my lack of marketing skills, I have made a few fruitless attempts to increase the book's exposure, with little to show for it. And apparently publishers don't put much of their own resouces into marketing unless you're already famous or have a sure-fire hit.\n\nIt now appears that the book's sales have passed their peak, and unless I can find an effective way to market the book there is little hope that it will earn out the advance, let alone royalties. I had hoped the book would furnish me with a little income padding so I could spend more time and energy writing; but instead it has robbed me of the time and ambition to do *any* writing as I labor to escape this financial tar pit.\n\nSo, Reddit, has anyone got any marketing insights they could lend me? Superthanks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I could use some advice from Redditors cleverer than I:\n\nLast July, a handful of independent authors and I released a book based on [our website]( The book is a blend of some of our more popular articles along with some new, exclusive stuff. \n\nI spent a considerable chunk of time preparing the book, causing a massive rift in my time-money continuum (I work as a freelance coder, and I put my normal income-generating activities on hold for a few months to fulfill my dream of becoming a real wood-pulp author). The writing/editing/organizing was a whimsical and bittersweet adventure, ultimately leading me to *The Restaurant at the End of My Finances*. Couple this with the sharp decline in available freelance work, and you can imagine the parched landscape where my bank account once stood.\n\nSince its release, the book has seemingly been well received-for instance, it has a [5/5 average rating on Amazon]( sales are lukewarm. Despite my lack of marketing skills, I have made a few fruitless attempts to increase the book's exposure, with little to show for it. And apparently publishers don't put much of their own resouces into marketing unless you're already famous or have a sure-fire hit.\n\nIt now appears that the book's sales have passed their peak, and unless I can find an effective way to market the book there is little hope that it will earn out the advance, let alone royalties. I had hoped the book would furnish me with a little income padding so I could spend more time and energy writing; but instead it has robbed me of the time and ambition to do *any* writing as I labor to escape this financial tar pit.\n\nSo, Reddit, has anyone got any marketing insights they could lend me? Superthanks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I could use some advice from Redditors cleverer than I:\n\nLast July, a handful of independent authors and I released a book based on [our website]( The book is a blend of some of our more popular articles along with some new, exclusive stuff. \n\nI spent a considerable chunk of time preparing the book, causing a massive rift in my time-money continuum (I work as a freelance coder, and I put my normal income-generating activities on hold for a few months to fulfill my dream of becoming a real wood-pulp author). The writing/editing/organizing was a whimsical and bittersweet adventure, ultimately leading me to *The Restaurant at the End of My Finances*. Couple this with the sharp decline in available freelance work, and you can imagine the parched landscape where my bank account once stood.\n\nSince its release, the book has seemingly been well received-for instance, it has a [5/5 average rating on Amazon]( sales are lukewarm. Despite my lack of marketing skills, I have made a few fruitless attempts to increase the book's exposure, with little to show for it. And apparently publishers don't put much of their own resouces into marketing unless you're already famous or have a sure-fire hit.\n\nIt now appears that the book's sales have passed their peak, and unless I can find an effective way to market the book there is little hope that it will earn out the advance, let alone royalties. I had hoped the book would furnish me with a little income padding so I could spend more time and energy writing; but instead it has robbed me of the time and ambition to do *any* writing as I labor to escape this financial tar pit.\n\nSo, Reddit, has anyone got any marketing insights they could lend me? Superthanks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I could use some advice from Redditors cleverer than I:\n\nLast July, a handful of independent authors and I released a book based on [our website]( The book is a blend of some of our more popular articles along with some new, exclusive stuff. \n\nI spent a considerable chunk of time preparing the book, causing a massive rift in my time-money continuum (I work as a freelance coder, and I put my normal income-generating activities on hold for a few months to fulfill my dream of becoming a real wood-pulp author). The writing/editing/organizing was a whimsical and bittersweet adventure, ultimately leading me to *The Restaurant at the End of My Finances*. Couple this with the sharp decline in available freelance work, and you can imagine the parched landscape where my bank account once stood.\n\nSince its release, the book has seemingly been well received-for instance, it has a [5/5 average rating on Amazon]( sales are lukewarm. Despite my lack of marketing skills, I have made a few fruitless attempts to increase the book's exposure, with little to show for it. And apparently publishers don't put much of their own resouces into marketing unless you're already famous or have a sure-fire hit.\n\nIt now appears that the book's sales have passed their peak, and unless I can find an effective way to market the book there is little hope that it will earn out the advance, let alone royalties. I had hoped the book would furnish me with a little income padding so I could spend more time and energy writing; but instead it has robbed me of the time and ambition to do *any* writing as I labor to escape this financial tar pit.\n\nSo, Reddit, has anyone got any marketing insights they could lend me? Superthanks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I could use some advice from Redditors cleverer than I:\n\nLast July, a handful of independent authors and I released a book based on [our website]( The book is a blend of some of our more popular articles along with some new, exclusive stuff. \n\nI spent a considerable chunk of time preparing the book, causing a massive rift in my time-money continuum (I work as a freelance coder, and I put my normal income-generating activities on hold for a few months to fulfill my dream of becoming a real wood-pulp author). The writing/editing/organizing was a whimsical and bittersweet adventure, ultimately leading me to *The Restaurant at the End of My Finances*. Couple this with the sharp decline in available freelance work, and you can imagine the parched landscape where my bank account once stood.\n\nSince its release, the book has seemingly been well received-for instance, it has a [5/5 average rating on Amazon]( sales are lukewarm. Despite my lack of marketing skills, I have made a few fruitless attempts to increase the book's exposure, with little to show for it. And apparently publishers don't put much of their own resouces into marketing unless you're already famous or have a sure-fire hit.\n\nIt now appears that the book's sales have passed their peak, and unless I can find an effective way to market the book there is little hope that it will earn out the advance, let alone royalties. I had hoped the book would furnish me with a little income padding so I could spend more time and energy writing; but instead it has robbed me of the time and ambition to do *any* writing as I labor to escape this financial tar pit.\n\nSo, Reddit, has anyone got any marketing insights they could lend me? Superthanks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I moved out of an apartment about a year ago and left my bike there. It was in really bad shape (needs new tires and a major major cleaning). Recently I was driving through the town that I had left it in and went looking for it.\n\nTurns out, the brand new combination lock I had originally used was gone and replaced by a shoddy looking cord-lock that was secured with a Master lock. I was pretty annoyed, but not surprised. The strange thing is that whoever \"reappropriated\" the bike hasn't touched it. Same flat tires with holes in them, rust everywhere, etc.\n\nI called the apartment complex on the off chance that they needed to move the bike at some point and asked if there was any way they could have put the new lock on. They said that they've never moved any of the bikes.\n\nSo tomorrow I'm driving 2 hours to go back to my old apartment building in an attempt to get my bike back. I know I'll need some bolt cutters to get through cord. Is there anything else that I can do to speed up the process? The bike isn't registered anywhere, as far as I know, so I wouldn't be able to 'prove' that it was my bike if somebody calls the cops.\n\nEdit: I realize this looks like somebody asking for advice on how to steal a bike, but I think I've already got that part covered. I'm more interested in how I can make this process as legitimate as necessary. I'd prefer not to report the bike stolen and wait however long it may take to clear that up, plus I have no proof of ever buying it in the first place so I'm skeptical that the cops would even file a report if I claimed it was mine."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I moved out of an apartment about a year ago and left my bike there. It was in really bad shape (needs new tires and a major major cleaning). Recently I was driving through the town that I had left it in and went looking for it.\n\nTurns out, the brand new combination lock I had originally used was gone and replaced by a shoddy looking cord-lock that was secured with a Master lock. I was pretty annoyed, but not surprised. The strange thing is that whoever \"reappropriated\" the bike hasn't touched it. Same flat tires with holes in them, rust everywhere, etc.\n\nI called the apartment complex on the off chance that they needed to move the bike at some point and asked if there was any way they could have put the new lock on. They said that they've never moved any of the bikes.\n\nSo tomorrow I'm driving 2 hours to go back to my old apartment building in an attempt to get my bike back. I know I'll need some bolt cutters to get through cord. Is there anything else that I can do to speed up the process? The bike isn't registered anywhere, as far as I know, so I wouldn't be able to 'prove' that it was my bike if somebody calls the cops.\n\nEdit: I realize this looks like somebody asking for advice on how to steal a bike, but I think I've already got that part covered. I'm more interested in how I can make this process as legitimate as necessary. I'd prefer not to report the bike stolen and wait however long it may take to clear that up, plus I have no proof of ever buying it in the first place so I'm skeptical that the cops would even file a report if I claimed it was mine."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I moved out of an apartment about a year ago and left my bike there. It was in really bad shape (needs new tires and a major major cleaning). Recently I was driving through the town that I had left it in and went looking for it.\n\nTurns out, the brand new combination lock I had originally used was gone and replaced by a shoddy looking cord-lock that was secured with a Master lock. I was pretty annoyed, but not surprised. The strange thing is that whoever \"reappropriated\" the bike hasn't touched it. Same flat tires with holes in them, rust everywhere, etc.\n\nI called the apartment complex on the off chance that they needed to move the bike at some point and asked if there was any way they could have put the new lock on. They said that they've never moved any of the bikes.\n\nSo tomorrow I'm driving 2 hours to go back to my old apartment building in an attempt to get my bike back. I know I'll need some bolt cutters to get through cord. Is there anything else that I can do to speed up the process? The bike isn't registered anywhere, as far as I know, so I wouldn't be able to 'prove' that it was my bike if somebody calls the cops.\n\nEdit: I realize this looks like somebody asking for advice on how to steal a bike, but I think I've already got that part covered. I'm more interested in how I can make this process as legitimate as necessary. I'd prefer not to report the bike stolen and wait however long it may take to clear that up, plus I have no proof of ever buying it in the first place so I'm skeptical that the cops would even file a report if I claimed it was mine."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I moved out of an apartment about a year ago and left my bike there. It was in really bad shape (needs new tires and a major major cleaning). Recently I was driving through the town that I had left it in and went looking for it.\n\nTurns out, the brand new combination lock I had originally used was gone and replaced by a shoddy looking cord-lock that was secured with a Master lock. I was pretty annoyed, but not surprised. The strange thing is that whoever \"reappropriated\" the bike hasn't touched it. Same flat tires with holes in them, rust everywhere, etc.\n\nI called the apartment complex on the off chance that they needed to move the bike at some point and asked if there was any way they could have put the new lock on. They said that they've never moved any of the bikes.\n\nSo tomorrow I'm driving 2 hours to go back to my old apartment building in an attempt to get my bike back. I know I'll need some bolt cutters to get through cord. Is there anything else that I can do to speed up the process? The bike isn't registered anywhere, as far as I know, so I wouldn't be able to 'prove' that it was my bike if somebody calls the cops.\n\nEdit: I realize this looks like somebody asking for advice on how to steal a bike, but I think I've already got that part covered. I'm more interested in how I can make this process as legitimate as necessary. I'd prefer not to report the bike stolen and wait however long it may take to clear that up, plus I have no proof of ever buying it in the first place so I'm skeptical that the cops would even file a report if I claimed it was mine."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I moved out of an apartment about a year ago and left my bike there. It was in really bad shape (needs new tires and a major major cleaning). Recently I was driving through the town that I had left it in and went looking for it.\n\nTurns out, the brand new combination lock I had originally used was gone and replaced by a shoddy looking cord-lock that was secured with a Master lock. I was pretty annoyed, but not surprised. The strange thing is that whoever \"reappropriated\" the bike hasn't touched it. Same flat tires with holes in them, rust everywhere, etc.\n\nI called the apartment complex on the off chance that they needed to move the bike at some point and asked if there was any way they could have put the new lock on. They said that they've never moved any of the bikes.\n\nSo tomorrow I'm driving 2 hours to go back to my old apartment building in an attempt to get my bike back. I know I'll need some bolt cutters to get through cord. Is there anything else that I can do to speed up the process? The bike isn't registered anywhere, as far as I know, so I wouldn't be able to 'prove' that it was my bike if somebody calls the cops.\n\nEdit: I realize this looks like somebody asking for advice on how to steal a bike, but I think I've already got that part covered. I'm more interested in how I can make this process as legitimate as necessary. I'd prefer not to report the bike stolen and wait however long it may take to clear that up, plus I have no proof of ever buying it in the first place so I'm skeptical that the cops would even file a report if I claimed it was mine."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I moved out of an apartment about a year ago and left my bike there. It was in really bad shape (needs new tires and a major major cleaning). Recently I was driving through the town that I had left it in and went looking for it.\n\nTurns out, the brand new combination lock I had originally used was gone and replaced by a shoddy looking cord-lock that was secured with a Master lock. I was pretty annoyed, but not surprised. The strange thing is that whoever \"reappropriated\" the bike hasn't touched it. Same flat tires with holes in them, rust everywhere, etc.\n\nI called the apartment complex on the off chance that they needed to move the bike at some point and asked if there was any way they could have put the new lock on. They said that they've never moved any of the bikes.\n\nSo tomorrow I'm driving 2 hours to go back to my old apartment building in an attempt to get my bike back. I know I'll need some bolt cutters to get through cord. Is there anything else that I can do to speed up the process? The bike isn't registered anywhere, as far as I know, so I wouldn't be able to 'prove' that it was my bike if somebody calls the cops.\n\nEdit: I realize this looks like somebody asking for advice on how to steal a bike, but I think I've already got that part covered. I'm more interested in how I can make this process as legitimate as necessary. I'd prefer not to report the bike stolen and wait however long it may take to clear that up, plus I have no proof of ever buying it in the first place so I'm skeptical that the cops would even file a report if I claimed it was mine."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I will try to keep this short, but I am still in shock. I met John at a music festival and then when I had knee surgery about a week later he offered to come down (we live about 7 hours apart) and take care of me for the weekend. I felt a strong connection to him so I agreed. I felt our relationship moved a little fast but he was always the one who took it to the next level so I thought it was ok. I have never felt so in love with someone, or found someone I have so much in common with. \n\nFast forward to a couple weeks ago, he got super drunk and hooked up with an old fuckbuddy at a party. He called me right away explained what happened and begged to have me back. He told me to give him a chance to be a better man. I was obviously upset but agreed to try to make it work because I loved him and thought he was truly sorry and had just made a mistake. He told me I was the girl he could see marrying and the one he wanted to be with for the rest of his life. \n\nThen a couple days ago he broke up with me to 'figure out stuff on his own because he was afraid he wasn't the man i needed and he didn't want to hurt me again'. I tried to tell him I knew he wasn't perfect and was willing to work through stuff with him and he said he just got \"overwhelmed and was sorry he had to end what we had together\". \n\nNow the problem is I have never felt as connected to another human being in my life. I feel like I just lost the love of my life and I don't know if I should fight for him or let him go. I know I don't deserve to be treated this way, but my heart breaks when I think I'll never see him again. So I guess my question is do I give up on the love of my life (because honestly he's being an ass), or what do I do to fight for this relationship? \n\nSorry if this isn't clear/ for any grammar errors. Im just so heartbroken :( I appreciate your honestly but please be gentle"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I will try to keep this short, but I am still in shock. I met John at a music festival and then when I had knee surgery about a week later he offered to come down (we live about 7 hours apart) and take care of me for the weekend. I felt a strong connection to him so I agreed. I felt our relationship moved a little fast but he was always the one who took it to the next level so I thought it was ok. I have never felt so in love with someone, or found someone I have so much in common with. \n\nFast forward to a couple weeks ago, he got super drunk and hooked up with an old fuckbuddy at a party. He called me right away explained what happened and begged to have me back. He told me to give him a chance to be a better man. I was obviously upset but agreed to try to make it work because I loved him and thought he was truly sorry and had just made a mistake. He told me I was the girl he could see marrying and the one he wanted to be with for the rest of his life. \n\nThen a couple days ago he broke up with me to 'figure out stuff on his own because he was afraid he wasn't the man i needed and he didn't want to hurt me again'. I tried to tell him I knew he wasn't perfect and was willing to work through stuff with him and he said he just got \"overwhelmed and was sorry he had to end what we had together\". \n\nNow the problem is I have never felt as connected to another human being in my life. I feel like I just lost the love of my life and I don't know if I should fight for him or let him go. I know I don't deserve to be treated this way, but my heart breaks when I think I'll never see him again. So I guess my question is do I give up on the love of my life (because honestly he's being an ass), or what do I do to fight for this relationship? \n\nSorry if this isn't clear/ for any grammar errors. Im just so heartbroken :( I appreciate your honestly but please be gentle"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I will try to keep this short, but I am still in shock. I met John at a music festival and then when I had knee surgery about a week later he offered to come down (we live about 7 hours apart) and take care of me for the weekend. I felt a strong connection to him so I agreed. I felt our relationship moved a little fast but he was always the one who took it to the next level so I thought it was ok. I have never felt so in love with someone, or found someone I have so much in common with. \n\nFast forward to a couple weeks ago, he got super drunk and hooked up with an old fuckbuddy at a party. He called me right away explained what happened and begged to have me back. He told me to give him a chance to be a better man. I was obviously upset but agreed to try to make it work because I loved him and thought he was truly sorry and had just made a mistake. He told me I was the girl he could see marrying and the one he wanted to be with for the rest of his life. \n\nThen a couple days ago he broke up with me to 'figure out stuff on his own because he was afraid he wasn't the man i needed and he didn't want to hurt me again'. I tried to tell him I knew he wasn't perfect and was willing to work through stuff with him and he said he just got \"overwhelmed and was sorry he had to end what we had together\". \n\nNow the problem is I have never felt as connected to another human being in my life. I feel like I just lost the love of my life and I don't know if I should fight for him or let him go. I know I don't deserve to be treated this way, but my heart breaks when I think I'll never see him again. So I guess my question is do I give up on the love of my life (because honestly he's being an ass), or what do I do to fight for this relationship? \n\nSorry if this isn't clear/ for any grammar errors. Im just so heartbroken :( I appreciate your honestly but please be gentle"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I will try to keep this short, but I am still in shock. I met John at a music festival and then when I had knee surgery about a week later he offered to come down (we live about 7 hours apart) and take care of me for the weekend. I felt a strong connection to him so I agreed. I felt our relationship moved a little fast but he was always the one who took it to the next level so I thought it was ok. I have never felt so in love with someone, or found someone I have so much in common with. \n\nFast forward to a couple weeks ago, he got super drunk and hooked up with an old fuckbuddy at a party. He called me right away explained what happened and begged to have me back. He told me to give him a chance to be a better man. I was obviously upset but agreed to try to make it work because I loved him and thought he was truly sorry and had just made a mistake. He told me I was the girl he could see marrying and the one he wanted to be with for the rest of his life. \n\nThen a couple days ago he broke up with me to 'figure out stuff on his own because he was afraid he wasn't the man i needed and he didn't want to hurt me again'. I tried to tell him I knew he wasn't perfect and was willing to work through stuff with him and he said he just got \"overwhelmed and was sorry he had to end what we had together\". \n\nNow the problem is I have never felt as connected to another human being in my life. I feel like I just lost the love of my life and I don't know if I should fight for him or let him go. I know I don't deserve to be treated this way, but my heart breaks when I think I'll never see him again. So I guess my question is do I give up on the love of my life (because honestly he's being an ass), or what do I do to fight for this relationship? \n\nSorry if this isn't clear/ for any grammar errors. Im just so heartbroken :( I appreciate your honestly but please be gentle"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I will try to keep this short, but I am still in shock. I met John at a music festival and then when I had knee surgery about a week later he offered to come down (we live about 7 hours apart) and take care of me for the weekend. I felt a strong connection to him so I agreed. I felt our relationship moved a little fast but he was always the one who took it to the next level so I thought it was ok. I have never felt so in love with someone, or found someone I have so much in common with. \n\nFast forward to a couple weeks ago, he got super drunk and hooked up with an old fuckbuddy at a party. He called me right away explained what happened and begged to have me back. He told me to give him a chance to be a better man. I was obviously upset but agreed to try to make it work because I loved him and thought he was truly sorry and had just made a mistake. He told me I was the girl he could see marrying and the one he wanted to be with for the rest of his life. \n\nThen a couple days ago he broke up with me to 'figure out stuff on his own because he was afraid he wasn't the man i needed and he didn't want to hurt me again'. I tried to tell him I knew he wasn't perfect and was willing to work through stuff with him and he said he just got \"overwhelmed and was sorry he had to end what we had together\". \n\nNow the problem is I have never felt as connected to another human being in my life. I feel like I just lost the love of my life and I don't know if I should fight for him or let him go. I know I don't deserve to be treated this way, but my heart breaks when I think I'll never see him again. So I guess my question is do I give up on the love of my life (because honestly he's being an ass), or what do I do to fight for this relationship? \n\nSorry if this isn't clear/ for any grammar errors. Im just so heartbroken :( I appreciate your honestly but please be gentle"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I will try to keep this short, but I am still in shock. I met John at a music festival and then when I had knee surgery about a week later he offered to come down (we live about 7 hours apart) and take care of me for the weekend. I felt a strong connection to him so I agreed. I felt our relationship moved a little fast but he was always the one who took it to the next level so I thought it was ok. I have never felt so in love with someone, or found someone I have so much in common with. \n\nFast forward to a couple weeks ago, he got super drunk and hooked up with an old fuckbuddy at a party. He called me right away explained what happened and begged to have me back. He told me to give him a chance to be a better man. I was obviously upset but agreed to try to make it work because I loved him and thought he was truly sorry and had just made a mistake. He told me I was the girl he could see marrying and the one he wanted to be with for the rest of his life. \n\nThen a couple days ago he broke up with me to 'figure out stuff on his own because he was afraid he wasn't the man i needed and he didn't want to hurt me again'. I tried to tell him I knew he wasn't perfect and was willing to work through stuff with him and he said he just got \"overwhelmed and was sorry he had to end what we had together\". \n\nNow the problem is I have never felt as connected to another human being in my life. I feel like I just lost the love of my life and I don't know if I should fight for him or let him go. I know I don't deserve to be treated this way, but my heart breaks when I think I'll never see him again. So I guess my question is do I give up on the love of my life (because honestly he's being an ass), or what do I do to fight for this relationship? \n\nSorry if this isn't clear/ for any grammar errors. Im just so heartbroken :( I appreciate your honestly but please be gentle"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This girl I have been talking to and I have a gone a few dates over the past month and we have had a great time together. We gone to a couple of different restaurants and had a nice walk in the park. We always talk in school and she seems like she likes to be around me. I am also taking her to senior prom.\n\nI am not socially awkward. Its I am not good at relationships and really do not know how go to the next step. I've had very few relationships and most of them haven't lasted that long. I want this one to work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This girl I have been talking to and I have a gone a few dates over the past month and we have had a great time together. We gone to a couple of different restaurants and had a nice walk in the park. We always talk in school and she seems like she likes to be around me. I am also taking her to senior prom.\n\nI am not socially awkward. Its I am not good at relationships and really do not know how go to the next step. I've had very few relationships and most of them haven't lasted that long. I want this one to work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This girl I have been talking to and I have a gone a few dates over the past month and we have had a great time together. We gone to a couple of different restaurants and had a nice walk in the park. We always talk in school and she seems like she likes to be around me. I am also taking her to senior prom.\n\nI am not socially awkward. Its I am not good at relationships and really do not know how go to the next step. I've had very few relationships and most of them haven't lasted that long. I want this one to work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This girl I have been talking to and I have a gone a few dates over the past month and we have had a great time together. We gone to a couple of different restaurants and had a nice walk in the park. We always talk in school and she seems like she likes to be around me. I am also taking her to senior prom.\n\nI am not socially awkward. Its I am not good at relationships and really do not know how go to the next step. I've had very few relationships and most of them haven't lasted that long. I want this one to work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This girl I have been talking to and I have a gone a few dates over the past month and we have had a great time together. We gone to a couple of different restaurants and had a nice walk in the park. We always talk in school and she seems like she likes to be around me. I am also taking her to senior prom.\n\nI am not socially awkward. Its I am not good at relationships and really do not know how go to the next step. I've had very few relationships and most of them haven't lasted that long. I want this one to work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This girl I have been talking to and I have a gone a few dates over the past month and we have had a great time together. We gone to a couple of different restaurants and had a nice walk in the park. We always talk in school and she seems like she likes to be around me. I am also taking her to senior prom.\n\nI am not socially awkward. Its I am not good at relationships and really do not know how go to the next step. I've had very few relationships and most of them haven't lasted that long. I want this one to work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for just under a year and living together for 2 months. \n\nPrevioisly, I was living alone and paying about $900 a month in rent/utilities/Internet ect combined. Now that we've moved in together, I'm paying about $1500 just for my half. He insisted on such a nice place. \n\nThe thing is, he makes twice as much as I do (4k per month versus 8k), so this is a lot bigger burden on me. I accepted that, even though most people I know do it 60/40 in that situation.\n\n Here's the two kickers- he's going away for work for 2 months (during which they will pay his travel) and he doesn't think he should have to pay rent those two months since he won't be here. That means I will have to pay $3,000 a month.\n\nThe other kicker- He is moving across the country in about 6 months and really wants me to come with. He will be buying a house there. This was in his plans before he even met me. He expects me to help with the down payment and pay half the mortgage in rent to him, but my name will not be on the house. He will be getting all the equity. Ive mentioned that I probably won't be able to find a job for a few months and that I probably couldn't afford that right off the bat until I'm settled in there. He said I should manage my money better and be able to afford that. I MANAGED MY MONEY FINE UNTIL I MET HIM, AND IM ONLY 22 I SHOULDNT BE MAKING DOWN PAYMENTS. \n\nI don't mind paying some rent, but I think half the mortgage on a really nice house and helping with the down payment is unfair, especially since I would be giving up my job and my life here for him. If I wasn't around he'd be buying the house anyway. \n\nAm I being unreasonable? Or is he?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for just under a year and living together for 2 months. \n\nPrevioisly, I was living alone and paying about $900 a month in rent/utilities/Internet ect combined. Now that we've moved in together, I'm paying about $1500 just for my half. He insisted on such a nice place. \n\nThe thing is, he makes twice as much as I do (4k per month versus 8k), so this is a lot bigger burden on me. I accepted that, even though most people I know do it 60/40 in that situation.\n\n Here's the two kickers- he's going away for work for 2 months (during which they will pay his travel) and he doesn't think he should have to pay rent those two months since he won't be here. That means I will have to pay $3,000 a month.\n\nThe other kicker- He is moving across the country in about 6 months and really wants me to come with. He will be buying a house there. This was in his plans before he even met me. He expects me to help with the down payment and pay half the mortgage in rent to him, but my name will not be on the house. He will be getting all the equity. Ive mentioned that I probably won't be able to find a job for a few months and that I probably couldn't afford that right off the bat until I'm settled in there. He said I should manage my money better and be able to afford that. I MANAGED MY MONEY FINE UNTIL I MET HIM, AND IM ONLY 22 I SHOULDNT BE MAKING DOWN PAYMENTS. \n\nI don't mind paying some rent, but I think half the mortgage on a really nice house and helping with the down payment is unfair, especially since I would be giving up my job and my life here for him. If I wasn't around he'd be buying the house anyway. \n\nAm I being unreasonable? Or is he?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for just under a year and living together for 2 months. \n\nPrevioisly, I was living alone and paying about $900 a month in rent/utilities/Internet ect combined. Now that we've moved in together, I'm paying about $1500 just for my half. He insisted on such a nice place. \n\nThe thing is, he makes twice as much as I do (4k per month versus 8k), so this is a lot bigger burden on me. I accepted that, even though most people I know do it 60/40 in that situation.\n\n Here's the two kickers- he's going away for work for 2 months (during which they will pay his travel) and he doesn't think he should have to pay rent those two months since he won't be here. That means I will have to pay $3,000 a month.\n\nThe other kicker- He is moving across the country in about 6 months and really wants me to come with. He will be buying a house there. This was in his plans before he even met me. He expects me to help with the down payment and pay half the mortgage in rent to him, but my name will not be on the house. He will be getting all the equity. Ive mentioned that I probably won't be able to find a job for a few months and that I probably couldn't afford that right off the bat until I'm settled in there. He said I should manage my money better and be able to afford that. I MANAGED MY MONEY FINE UNTIL I MET HIM, AND IM ONLY 22 I SHOULDNT BE MAKING DOWN PAYMENTS. \n\nI don't mind paying some rent, but I think half the mortgage on a really nice house and helping with the down payment is unfair, especially since I would be giving up my job and my life here for him. If I wasn't around he'd be buying the house anyway. \n\nAm I being unreasonable? Or is he?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for just under a year and living together for 2 months. \n\nPrevioisly, I was living alone and paying about $900 a month in rent/utilities/Internet ect combined. Now that we've moved in together, I'm paying about $1500 just for my half. He insisted on such a nice place. \n\nThe thing is, he makes twice as much as I do (4k per month versus 8k), so this is a lot bigger burden on me. I accepted that, even though most people I know do it 60/40 in that situation.\n\n Here's the two kickers- he's going away for work for 2 months (during which they will pay his travel) and he doesn't think he should have to pay rent those two months since he won't be here. That means I will have to pay $3,000 a month.\n\nThe other kicker- He is moving across the country in about 6 months and really wants me to come with. He will be buying a house there. This was in his plans before he even met me. He expects me to help with the down payment and pay half the mortgage in rent to him, but my name will not be on the house. He will be getting all the equity. Ive mentioned that I probably won't be able to find a job for a few months and that I probably couldn't afford that right off the bat until I'm settled in there. He said I should manage my money better and be able to afford that. I MANAGED MY MONEY FINE UNTIL I MET HIM, AND IM ONLY 22 I SHOULDNT BE MAKING DOWN PAYMENTS. \n\nI don't mind paying some rent, but I think half the mortgage on a really nice house and helping with the down payment is unfair, especially since I would be giving up my job and my life here for him. If I wasn't around he'd be buying the house anyway. \n\nAm I being unreasonable? Or is he?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for just under a year and living together for 2 months. \n\nPrevioisly, I was living alone and paying about $900 a month in rent/utilities/Internet ect combined. Now that we've moved in together, I'm paying about $1500 just for my half. He insisted on such a nice place. \n\nThe thing is, he makes twice as much as I do (4k per month versus 8k), so this is a lot bigger burden on me. I accepted that, even though most people I know do it 60/40 in that situation.\n\n Here's the two kickers- he's going away for work for 2 months (during which they will pay his travel) and he doesn't think he should have to pay rent those two months since he won't be here. That means I will have to pay $3,000 a month.\n\nThe other kicker- He is moving across the country in about 6 months and really wants me to come with. He will be buying a house there. This was in his plans before he even met me. He expects me to help with the down payment and pay half the mortgage in rent to him, but my name will not be on the house. He will be getting all the equity. Ive mentioned that I probably won't be able to find a job for a few months and that I probably couldn't afford that right off the bat until I'm settled in there. He said I should manage my money better and be able to afford that. I MANAGED MY MONEY FINE UNTIL I MET HIM, AND IM ONLY 22 I SHOULDNT BE MAKING DOWN PAYMENTS. \n\nI don't mind paying some rent, but I think half the mortgage on a really nice house and helping with the down payment is unfair, especially since I would be giving up my job and my life here for him. If I wasn't around he'd be buying the house anyway. \n\nAm I being unreasonable? Or is he?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for just under a year and living together for 2 months. \n\nPrevioisly, I was living alone and paying about $900 a month in rent/utilities/Internet ect combined. Now that we've moved in together, I'm paying about $1500 just for my half. He insisted on such a nice place. \n\nThe thing is, he makes twice as much as I do (4k per month versus 8k), so this is a lot bigger burden on me. I accepted that, even though most people I know do it 60/40 in that situation.\n\n Here's the two kickers- he's going away for work for 2 months (during which they will pay his travel) and he doesn't think he should have to pay rent those two months since he won't be here. That means I will have to pay $3,000 a month.\n\nThe other kicker- He is moving across the country in about 6 months and really wants me to come with. He will be buying a house there. This was in his plans before he even met me. He expects me to help with the down payment and pay half the mortgage in rent to him, but my name will not be on the house. He will be getting all the equity. Ive mentioned that I probably won't be able to find a job for a few months and that I probably couldn't afford that right off the bat until I'm settled in there. He said I should manage my money better and be able to afford that. I MANAGED MY MONEY FINE UNTIL I MET HIM, AND IM ONLY 22 I SHOULDNT BE MAKING DOWN PAYMENTS. \n\nI don't mind paying some rent, but I think half the mortgage on a really nice house and helping with the down payment is unfair, especially since I would be giving up my job and my life here for him. If I wasn't around he'd be buying the house anyway. \n\nAm I being unreasonable? Or is he?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: After a year of him never giving up on us, no matter what, one day he started hinting that it was OK to take a break. That way he could focus on his school, goals, and dreams. Yet when I stared to agree, he would say \"so that's it then?\" and when I didn't write to him, he would write to me asking if I was OK and that he missed me. Or asking me why I hated him. \nAnother thing that I think was influincing him were his three roommates, they were telling him to go on a break with me so he could get his space, what should I do? Should I move on, and will he just forget about me? Or should I continue to give him space and let time tell?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: After a year of him never giving up on us, no matter what, one day he started hinting that it was OK to take a break. That way he could focus on his school, goals, and dreams. Yet when I stared to agree, he would say \"so that's it then?\" and when I didn't write to him, he would write to me asking if I was OK and that he missed me. Or asking me why I hated him. \nAnother thing that I think was influincing him were his three roommates, they were telling him to go on a break with me so he could get his space, what should I do? Should I move on, and will he just forget about me? Or should I continue to give him space and let time tell?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: After a year of him never giving up on us, no matter what, one day he started hinting that it was OK to take a break. That way he could focus on his school, goals, and dreams. Yet when I stared to agree, he would say \"so that's it then?\" and when I didn't write to him, he would write to me asking if I was OK and that he missed me. Or asking me why I hated him. \nAnother thing that I think was influincing him were his three roommates, they were telling him to go on a break with me so he could get his space, what should I do? Should I move on, and will he just forget about me? Or should I continue to give him space and let time tell?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: After a year of him never giving up on us, no matter what, one day he started hinting that it was OK to take a break. That way he could focus on his school, goals, and dreams. Yet when I stared to agree, he would say \"so that's it then?\" and when I didn't write to him, he would write to me asking if I was OK and that he missed me. Or asking me why I hated him. \nAnother thing that I think was influincing him were his three roommates, they were telling him to go on a break with me so he could get his space, what should I do? Should I move on, and will he just forget about me? Or should I continue to give him space and let time tell?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: After a year of him never giving up on us, no matter what, one day he started hinting that it was OK to take a break. That way he could focus on his school, goals, and dreams. Yet when I stared to agree, he would say \"so that's it then?\" and when I didn't write to him, he would write to me asking if I was OK and that he missed me. Or asking me why I hated him. \nAnother thing that I think was influincing him were his three roommates, they were telling him to go on a break with me so he could get his space, what should I do? Should I move on, and will he just forget about me? Or should I continue to give him space and let time tell?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: After a year of him never giving up on us, no matter what, one day he started hinting that it was OK to take a break. That way he could focus on his school, goals, and dreams. Yet when I stared to agree, he would say \"so that's it then?\" and when I didn't write to him, he would write to me asking if I was OK and that he missed me. Or asking me why I hated him. \nAnother thing that I think was influincing him were his three roommates, they were telling him to go on a break with me so he could get his space, what should I do? Should I move on, and will he just forget about me? Or should I continue to give him space and let time tell?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: New to this sub, thanks in advance for any help.\n\nNora is a medium sized mixed breed rescue, she's roughly 8 years old and I've had her for about 7 years. She was abandoned and had terrible separation anxiety, which she no longer has issues with. She has been a great dog. She is well behaved in the house, gentle, and very responsive.\n\nHowever, she still suffers from general anxiety and neurotic behavior. She will often exhibit obsessive behavior such as licking, \"nibbling\" on her blanket or bed, and barking. Sometimes she can work herself up to the point where she seems out of control; her heart rate gets high and she barks obsessively.\n\nI've learned to live with it and mitigate it as much as possible. I can rub her belly and speak softly to her and that helps. It also seems to help if I make her do some easy tricks like \"sit\" and \"lay down,\" it seems as if it helps her gain a little control over herself. I know this is generally frowned upon, but I experimented with a shock collar for barking. It actually seemed very helpful, she didn't seem frightened and it seemed to prevent her from working herself up into a frenzy. I was living in an apartment at that time and the barking was a major issue. I recently moved into the country so I haven't been using the collar. Exercise helps, but doesn't completely solve the problem. Her anxiety is at its worst at the dog park; she is much more comfortable around people than other dogs. About a year ago I rescued a second dog (a young pitbull), and that has helped her social anxiety a bit. The first few months were a little rough, but now they cuddle and groom each other regularly.\n\nOverall, she seems like a very happy dog, but I know the anxious episodes can't be fun for her. Now that she is getting older I worry about her heart, and to top it off she has a genetic heart murmur. Any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: New to this sub, thanks in advance for any help.\n\nNora is a medium sized mixed breed rescue, she's roughly 8 years old and I've had her for about 7 years. She was abandoned and had terrible separation anxiety, which she no longer has issues with. She has been a great dog. She is well behaved in the house, gentle, and very responsive.\n\nHowever, she still suffers from general anxiety and neurotic behavior. She will often exhibit obsessive behavior such as licking, \"nibbling\" on her blanket or bed, and barking. Sometimes she can work herself up to the point where she seems out of control; her heart rate gets high and she barks obsessively.\n\nI've learned to live with it and mitigate it as much as possible. I can rub her belly and speak softly to her and that helps. It also seems to help if I make her do some easy tricks like \"sit\" and \"lay down,\" it seems as if it helps her gain a little control over herself. I know this is generally frowned upon, but I experimented with a shock collar for barking. It actually seemed very helpful, she didn't seem frightened and it seemed to prevent her from working herself up into a frenzy. I was living in an apartment at that time and the barking was a major issue. I recently moved into the country so I haven't been using the collar. Exercise helps, but doesn't completely solve the problem. Her anxiety is at its worst at the dog park; she is much more comfortable around people than other dogs. About a year ago I rescued a second dog (a young pitbull), and that has helped her social anxiety a bit. The first few months were a little rough, but now they cuddle and groom each other regularly.\n\nOverall, she seems like a very happy dog, but I know the anxious episodes can't be fun for her. Now that she is getting older I worry about her heart, and to top it off she has a genetic heart murmur. Any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: New to this sub, thanks in advance for any help.\n\nNora is a medium sized mixed breed rescue, she's roughly 8 years old and I've had her for about 7 years. She was abandoned and had terrible separation anxiety, which she no longer has issues with. She has been a great dog. She is well behaved in the house, gentle, and very responsive.\n\nHowever, she still suffers from general anxiety and neurotic behavior. She will often exhibit obsessive behavior such as licking, \"nibbling\" on her blanket or bed, and barking. Sometimes she can work herself up to the point where she seems out of control; her heart rate gets high and she barks obsessively.\n\nI've learned to live with it and mitigate it as much as possible. I can rub her belly and speak softly to her and that helps. It also seems to help if I make her do some easy tricks like \"sit\" and \"lay down,\" it seems as if it helps her gain a little control over herself. I know this is generally frowned upon, but I experimented with a shock collar for barking. It actually seemed very helpful, she didn't seem frightened and it seemed to prevent her from working herself up into a frenzy. I was living in an apartment at that time and the barking was a major issue. I recently moved into the country so I haven't been using the collar. Exercise helps, but doesn't completely solve the problem. Her anxiety is at its worst at the dog park; she is much more comfortable around people than other dogs. About a year ago I rescued a second dog (a young pitbull), and that has helped her social anxiety a bit. The first few months were a little rough, but now they cuddle and groom each other regularly.\n\nOverall, she seems like a very happy dog, but I know the anxious episodes can't be fun for her. Now that she is getting older I worry about her heart, and to top it off she has a genetic heart murmur. Any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: New to this sub, thanks in advance for any help.\n\nNora is a medium sized mixed breed rescue, she's roughly 8 years old and I've had her for about 7 years. She was abandoned and had terrible separation anxiety, which she no longer has issues with. She has been a great dog. She is well behaved in the house, gentle, and very responsive.\n\nHowever, she still suffers from general anxiety and neurotic behavior. She will often exhibit obsessive behavior such as licking, \"nibbling\" on her blanket or bed, and barking. Sometimes she can work herself up to the point where she seems out of control; her heart rate gets high and she barks obsessively.\n\nI've learned to live with it and mitigate it as much as possible. I can rub her belly and speak softly to her and that helps. It also seems to help if I make her do some easy tricks like \"sit\" and \"lay down,\" it seems as if it helps her gain a little control over herself. I know this is generally frowned upon, but I experimented with a shock collar for barking. It actually seemed very helpful, she didn't seem frightened and it seemed to prevent her from working herself up into a frenzy. I was living in an apartment at that time and the barking was a major issue. I recently moved into the country so I haven't been using the collar. Exercise helps, but doesn't completely solve the problem. Her anxiety is at its worst at the dog park; she is much more comfortable around people than other dogs. About a year ago I rescued a second dog (a young pitbull), and that has helped her social anxiety a bit. The first few months were a little rough, but now they cuddle and groom each other regularly.\n\nOverall, she seems like a very happy dog, but I know the anxious episodes can't be fun for her. Now that she is getting older I worry about her heart, and to top it off she has a genetic heart murmur. Any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: New to this sub, thanks in advance for any help.\n\nNora is a medium sized mixed breed rescue, she's roughly 8 years old and I've had her for about 7 years. She was abandoned and had terrible separation anxiety, which she no longer has issues with. She has been a great dog. She is well behaved in the house, gentle, and very responsive.\n\nHowever, she still suffers from general anxiety and neurotic behavior. She will often exhibit obsessive behavior such as licking, \"nibbling\" on her blanket or bed, and barking. Sometimes she can work herself up to the point where she seems out of control; her heart rate gets high and she barks obsessively.\n\nI've learned to live with it and mitigate it as much as possible. I can rub her belly and speak softly to her and that helps. It also seems to help if I make her do some easy tricks like \"sit\" and \"lay down,\" it seems as if it helps her gain a little control over herself. I know this is generally frowned upon, but I experimented with a shock collar for barking. It actually seemed very helpful, she didn't seem frightened and it seemed to prevent her from working herself up into a frenzy. I was living in an apartment at that time and the barking was a major issue. I recently moved into the country so I haven't been using the collar. Exercise helps, but doesn't completely solve the problem. Her anxiety is at its worst at the dog park; she is much more comfortable around people than other dogs. About a year ago I rescued a second dog (a young pitbull), and that has helped her social anxiety a bit. The first few months were a little rough, but now they cuddle and groom each other regularly.\n\nOverall, she seems like a very happy dog, but I know the anxious episodes can't be fun for her. Now that she is getting older I worry about her heart, and to top it off she has a genetic heart murmur. Any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: New to this sub, thanks in advance for any help.\n\nNora is a medium sized mixed breed rescue, she's roughly 8 years old and I've had her for about 7 years. She was abandoned and had terrible separation anxiety, which she no longer has issues with. She has been a great dog. She is well behaved in the house, gentle, and very responsive.\n\nHowever, she still suffers from general anxiety and neurotic behavior. She will often exhibit obsessive behavior such as licking, \"nibbling\" on her blanket or bed, and barking. Sometimes she can work herself up to the point where she seems out of control; her heart rate gets high and she barks obsessively.\n\nI've learned to live with it and mitigate it as much as possible. I can rub her belly and speak softly to her and that helps. It also seems to help if I make her do some easy tricks like \"sit\" and \"lay down,\" it seems as if it helps her gain a little control over herself. I know this is generally frowned upon, but I experimented with a shock collar for barking. It actually seemed very helpful, she didn't seem frightened and it seemed to prevent her from working herself up into a frenzy. I was living in an apartment at that time and the barking was a major issue. I recently moved into the country so I haven't been using the collar. Exercise helps, but doesn't completely solve the problem. Her anxiety is at its worst at the dog park; she is much more comfortable around people than other dogs. About a year ago I rescued a second dog (a young pitbull), and that has helped her social anxiety a bit. The first few months were a little rough, but now they cuddle and groom each other regularly.\n\nOverall, she seems like a very happy dog, but I know the anxious episodes can't be fun for her. Now that she is getting older I worry about her heart, and to top it off she has a genetic heart murmur. Any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi long time redditor first time poster.\n\nI have a group of friends who hang out together regularly (18 -21yo) we are all pretty close and have know each other since primary school. generally smoke a lot of weed and occasional harder drugs which i feel is the only thing keeping this group hanging out together (getting off topic) For the past year or so one of our friends has been dating a girl lets call her \"Player 1\" and him \"Player 2\" for the purpose of the story (privacy) i wouldn't say that i speak with Player 1 all that often but over the past month or so have had small polite conversations and general small talk. \n\nBut whenever Player 2 isn't around or looking i find her looking over at me with more than just a simple gaze, generally i wouldn't say i am great at understanding peoples body language but i'm definitely not stupid I think she likes me.\n\nOver the past few months Player 1 & 2 have been fighting more and more and was starting to get pretty bad leaving her in tears (as they fight a with us in the house) Until yesterday when they broke up. \n\nToday i glance at my newsfeed on facebook and see her post \"Anyone free tomorrow?\nNeed to get out of my house\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi long time redditor first time poster.\n\nI have a group of friends who hang out together regularly (18 -21yo) we are all pretty close and have know each other since primary school. generally smoke a lot of weed and occasional harder drugs which i feel is the only thing keeping this group hanging out together (getting off topic) For the past year or so one of our friends has been dating a girl lets call her \"Player 1\" and him \"Player 2\" for the purpose of the story (privacy) i wouldn't say that i speak with Player 1 all that often but over the past month or so have had small polite conversations and general small talk. \n\nBut whenever Player 2 isn't around or looking i find her looking over at me with more than just a simple gaze, generally i wouldn't say i am great at understanding peoples body language but i'm definitely not stupid I think she likes me.\n\nOver the past few months Player 1 & 2 have been fighting more and more and was starting to get pretty bad leaving her in tears (as they fight a with us in the house) Until yesterday when they broke up. \n\nToday i glance at my newsfeed on facebook and see her post \"Anyone free tomorrow?\nNeed to get out of my house\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi long time redditor first time poster.\n\nI have a group of friends who hang out together regularly (18 -21yo) we are all pretty close and have know each other since primary school. generally smoke a lot of weed and occasional harder drugs which i feel is the only thing keeping this group hanging out together (getting off topic) For the past year or so one of our friends has been dating a girl lets call her \"Player 1\" and him \"Player 2\" for the purpose of the story (privacy) i wouldn't say that i speak with Player 1 all that often but over the past month or so have had small polite conversations and general small talk. \n\nBut whenever Player 2 isn't around or looking i find her looking over at me with more than just a simple gaze, generally i wouldn't say i am great at understanding peoples body language but i'm definitely not stupid I think she likes me.\n\nOver the past few months Player 1 & 2 have been fighting more and more and was starting to get pretty bad leaving her in tears (as they fight a with us in the house) Until yesterday when they broke up. \n\nToday i glance at my newsfeed on facebook and see her post \"Anyone free tomorrow?\nNeed to get out of my house\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi long time redditor first time poster.\n\nI have a group of friends who hang out together regularly (18 -21yo) we are all pretty close and have know each other since primary school. generally smoke a lot of weed and occasional harder drugs which i feel is the only thing keeping this group hanging out together (getting off topic) For the past year or so one of our friends has been dating a girl lets call her \"Player 1\" and him \"Player 2\" for the purpose of the story (privacy) i wouldn't say that i speak with Player 1 all that often but over the past month or so have had small polite conversations and general small talk. \n\nBut whenever Player 2 isn't around or looking i find her looking over at me with more than just a simple gaze, generally i wouldn't say i am great at understanding peoples body language but i'm definitely not stupid I think she likes me.\n\nOver the past few months Player 1 & 2 have been fighting more and more and was starting to get pretty bad leaving her in tears (as they fight a with us in the house) Until yesterday when they broke up. \n\nToday i glance at my newsfeed on facebook and see her post \"Anyone free tomorrow?\nNeed to get out of my house\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi long time redditor first time poster.\n\nI have a group of friends who hang out together regularly (18 -21yo) we are all pretty close and have know each other since primary school. generally smoke a lot of weed and occasional harder drugs which i feel is the only thing keeping this group hanging out together (getting off topic) For the past year or so one of our friends has been dating a girl lets call her \"Player 1\" and him \"Player 2\" for the purpose of the story (privacy) i wouldn't say that i speak with Player 1 all that often but over the past month or so have had small polite conversations and general small talk. \n\nBut whenever Player 2 isn't around or looking i find her looking over at me with more than just a simple gaze, generally i wouldn't say i am great at understanding peoples body language but i'm definitely not stupid I think she likes me.\n\nOver the past few months Player 1 & 2 have been fighting more and more and was starting to get pretty bad leaving her in tears (as they fight a with us in the house) Until yesterday when they broke up. \n\nToday i glance at my newsfeed on facebook and see her post \"Anyone free tomorrow?\nNeed to get out of my house\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi long time redditor first time poster.\n\nI have a group of friends who hang out together regularly (18 -21yo) we are all pretty close and have know each other since primary school. generally smoke a lot of weed and occasional harder drugs which i feel is the only thing keeping this group hanging out together (getting off topic) For the past year or so one of our friends has been dating a girl lets call her \"Player 1\" and him \"Player 2\" for the purpose of the story (privacy) i wouldn't say that i speak with Player 1 all that often but over the past month or so have had small polite conversations and general small talk. \n\nBut whenever Player 2 isn't around or looking i find her looking over at me with more than just a simple gaze, generally i wouldn't say i am great at understanding peoples body language but i'm definitely not stupid I think she likes me.\n\nOver the past few months Player 1 & 2 have been fighting more and more and was starting to get pretty bad leaving her in tears (as they fight a with us in the house) Until yesterday when they broke up. \n\nToday i glance at my newsfeed on facebook and see her post \"Anyone free tomorrow?\nNeed to get out of my house\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: (23 F and 99 Relative) I'll try and keep this short; I don't even think I'm looking for advice so much as anyone who can relate.\n\nMy great-grandfather is dying. I haven't seen him in years . anyone on my mother's side of the family actually, with the exclusion of my grandfather. My mother wants me to go visit and say goodbyes. I don't. It's finals time, and my grades are all on that tentative A/B line. I work during the day and have classes at night. He is in a hospital at least an hour away. I honestly don't want to try and find the time.\n\nAdd to that that I have no idea what I would say! To anyone! It's been years and years. He goes in and out of lucid states so sometimes he remembers who I am and sometimes does not. He is surrounded by family who he is actually close with . it's not as if he's dying alone, waiting for me.\n\nMy mom however, is laying on the guilt. She and I have a very strained relationship anyway, and I ended up blowing up at her the other day. Now I'm all stressed and depressed (which is really helping the studying). My SO seems to think my decision is reasonable, but I'm curious if anyone has a view or story to share."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: (23 F and 99 Relative) I'll try and keep this short; I don't even think I'm looking for advice so much as anyone who can relate.\n\nMy great-grandfather is dying. I haven't seen him in years . anyone on my mother's side of the family actually, with the exclusion of my grandfather. My mother wants me to go visit and say goodbyes. I don't. It's finals time, and my grades are all on that tentative A/B line. I work during the day and have classes at night. He is in a hospital at least an hour away. I honestly don't want to try and find the time.\n\nAdd to that that I have no idea what I would say! To anyone! It's been years and years. He goes in and out of lucid states so sometimes he remembers who I am and sometimes does not. He is surrounded by family who he is actually close with . it's not as if he's dying alone, waiting for me.\n\nMy mom however, is laying on the guilt. She and I have a very strained relationship anyway, and I ended up blowing up at her the other day. Now I'm all stressed and depressed (which is really helping the studying). My SO seems to think my decision is reasonable, but I'm curious if anyone has a view or story to share."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: (23 F and 99 Relative) I'll try and keep this short; I don't even think I'm looking for advice so much as anyone who can relate.\n\nMy great-grandfather is dying. I haven't seen him in years . anyone on my mother's side of the family actually, with the exclusion of my grandfather. My mother wants me to go visit and say goodbyes. I don't. It's finals time, and my grades are all on that tentative A/B line. I work during the day and have classes at night. He is in a hospital at least an hour away. I honestly don't want to try and find the time.\n\nAdd to that that I have no idea what I would say! To anyone! It's been years and years. He goes in and out of lucid states so sometimes he remembers who I am and sometimes does not. He is surrounded by family who he is actually close with . it's not as if he's dying alone, waiting for me.\n\nMy mom however, is laying on the guilt. She and I have a very strained relationship anyway, and I ended up blowing up at her the other day. Now I'm all stressed and depressed (which is really helping the studying). My SO seems to think my decision is reasonable, but I'm curious if anyone has a view or story to share."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: (23 F and 99 Relative) I'll try and keep this short; I don't even think I'm looking for advice so much as anyone who can relate.\n\nMy great-grandfather is dying. I haven't seen him in years . anyone on my mother's side of the family actually, with the exclusion of my grandfather. My mother wants me to go visit and say goodbyes. I don't. It's finals time, and my grades are all on that tentative A/B line. I work during the day and have classes at night. He is in a hospital at least an hour away. I honestly don't want to try and find the time.\n\nAdd to that that I have no idea what I would say! To anyone! It's been years and years. He goes in and out of lucid states so sometimes he remembers who I am and sometimes does not. He is surrounded by family who he is actually close with . it's not as if he's dying alone, waiting for me.\n\nMy mom however, is laying on the guilt. She and I have a very strained relationship anyway, and I ended up blowing up at her the other day. Now I'm all stressed and depressed (which is really helping the studying). My SO seems to think my decision is reasonable, but I'm curious if anyone has a view or story to share."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: (23 F and 99 Relative) I'll try and keep this short; I don't even think I'm looking for advice so much as anyone who can relate.\n\nMy great-grandfather is dying. I haven't seen him in years . anyone on my mother's side of the family actually, with the exclusion of my grandfather. My mother wants me to go visit and say goodbyes. I don't. It's finals time, and my grades are all on that tentative A/B line. I work during the day and have classes at night. He is in a hospital at least an hour away. I honestly don't want to try and find the time.\n\nAdd to that that I have no idea what I would say! To anyone! It's been years and years. He goes in and out of lucid states so sometimes he remembers who I am and sometimes does not. He is surrounded by family who he is actually close with . it's not as if he's dying alone, waiting for me.\n\nMy mom however, is laying on the guilt. She and I have a very strained relationship anyway, and I ended up blowing up at her the other day. Now I'm all stressed and depressed (which is really helping the studying). My SO seems to think my decision is reasonable, but I'm curious if anyone has a view or story to share."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: (23 F and 99 Relative) I'll try and keep this short; I don't even think I'm looking for advice so much as anyone who can relate.\n\nMy great-grandfather is dying. I haven't seen him in years . anyone on my mother's side of the family actually, with the exclusion of my grandfather. My mother wants me to go visit and say goodbyes. I don't. It's finals time, and my grades are all on that tentative A/B line. I work during the day and have classes at night. He is in a hospital at least an hour away. I honestly don't want to try and find the time.\n\nAdd to that that I have no idea what I would say! To anyone! It's been years and years. He goes in and out of lucid states so sometimes he remembers who I am and sometimes does not. He is surrounded by family who he is actually close with . it's not as if he's dying alone, waiting for me.\n\nMy mom however, is laying on the guilt. She and I have a very strained relationship anyway, and I ended up blowing up at her the other day. Now I'm all stressed and depressed (which is really helping the studying). My SO seems to think my decision is reasonable, but I'm curious if anyone has a view or story to share."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I stupidly decided to go through my girlfriend's messages because she has been going through tough times and has become more and more distant. But she has been on her phone almost constantly. So my damn curiosity got the best of me and boom I'm in her messages.\n\nI find an alternative recount of a night with friends a few weekends ago when I went out of town. She had told me that she hung out with an group of her older friends from earlier times that included an ex-boyfriend. She had said a fun night of board games and drinking went too far and before she knew it, she was on a bed with guys trying to get with her (verbally, I guess) but that a good mutual friend of hers who was not as drunk, protected her. I trust her, so that was all I needed to hear. \n\nThat apparently didn't happen, I read in a conversation with a friend that she had actually had sex with her ex and was drunk but was kissing back etc and she ending up sleeping with him for the night. \n\nNow I just feel so hurt. I have set up my entire life around her and have put her first over my friends, family and career. I have totally committed myself to her so fully I really don't have any non-mutual with my gf, close enough friends that I can even talk to about this. \n\nNow I just feel so betrayed. I want to get back at her by sleeping with someone else because a major issue in our relationship is that my girlfriend was concerned that I choose her instead of having a normal bachelor period. I always responded that I only wanted her amd have been faithful through a decent amount of opportunities to stray.\n\nAnd the worst part is, over the past few months I've been becoming convinced that she was the one woman I would ever want, and that no one would be better for me than her. I had even picked out a ring but financial instability of my career change made me feel unworthy of even proposing to her. Now I just don't know what I think."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I stupidly decided to go through my girlfriend's messages because she has been going through tough times and has become more and more distant. But she has been on her phone almost constantly. So my damn curiosity got the best of me and boom I'm in her messages.\n\nI find an alternative recount of a night with friends a few weekends ago when I went out of town. She had told me that she hung out with an group of her older friends from earlier times that included an ex-boyfriend. She had said a fun night of board games and drinking went too far and before she knew it, she was on a bed with guys trying to get with her (verbally, I guess) but that a good mutual friend of hers who was not as drunk, protected her. I trust her, so that was all I needed to hear. \n\nThat apparently didn't happen, I read in a conversation with a friend that she had actually had sex with her ex and was drunk but was kissing back etc and she ending up sleeping with him for the night. \n\nNow I just feel so hurt. I have set up my entire life around her and have put her first over my friends, family and career. I have totally committed myself to her so fully I really don't have any non-mutual with my gf, close enough friends that I can even talk to about this. \n\nNow I just feel so betrayed. I want to get back at her by sleeping with someone else because a major issue in our relationship is that my girlfriend was concerned that I choose her instead of having a normal bachelor period. I always responded that I only wanted her amd have been faithful through a decent amount of opportunities to stray.\n\nAnd the worst part is, over the past few months I've been becoming convinced that she was the one woman I would ever want, and that no one would be better for me than her. I had even picked out a ring but financial instability of my career change made me feel unworthy of even proposing to her. Now I just don't know what I think."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I stupidly decided to go through my girlfriend's messages because she has been going through tough times and has become more and more distant. But she has been on her phone almost constantly. So my damn curiosity got the best of me and boom I'm in her messages.\n\nI find an alternative recount of a night with friends a few weekends ago when I went out of town. She had told me that she hung out with an group of her older friends from earlier times that included an ex-boyfriend. She had said a fun night of board games and drinking went too far and before she knew it, she was on a bed with guys trying to get with her (verbally, I guess) but that a good mutual friend of hers who was not as drunk, protected her. I trust her, so that was all I needed to hear. \n\nThat apparently didn't happen, I read in a conversation with a friend that she had actually had sex with her ex and was drunk but was kissing back etc and she ending up sleeping with him for the night. \n\nNow I just feel so hurt. I have set up my entire life around her and have put her first over my friends, family and career. I have totally committed myself to her so fully I really don't have any non-mutual with my gf, close enough friends that I can even talk to about this. \n\nNow I just feel so betrayed. I want to get back at her by sleeping with someone else because a major issue in our relationship is that my girlfriend was concerned that I choose her instead of having a normal bachelor period. I always responded that I only wanted her amd have been faithful through a decent amount of opportunities to stray.\n\nAnd the worst part is, over the past few months I've been becoming convinced that she was the one woman I would ever want, and that no one would be better for me than her. I had even picked out a ring but financial instability of my career change made me feel unworthy of even proposing to her. Now I just don't know what I think."
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{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I stupidly decided to go through my girlfriend's messages because she has been going through tough times and has become more and more distant. But she has been on her phone almost constantly. So my damn curiosity got the best of me and boom I'm in her messages.\n\nI find an alternative recount of a night with friends a few weekends ago when I went out of town. She had told me that she hung out with an group of her older friends from earlier times that included an ex-boyfriend. She had said a fun night of board games and drinking went too far and before she knew it, she was on a bed with guys trying to get with her (verbally, I guess) but that a good mutual friend of hers who was not as drunk, protected her. I trust her, so that was all I needed to hear. \n\nThat apparently didn't happen, I read in a conversation with a friend that she had actually had sex with her ex and was drunk but was kissing back etc and she ending up sleeping with him for the night. \n\nNow I just feel so hurt. I have set up my entire life around her and have put her first over my friends, family and career. I have totally committed myself to her so fully I really don't have any non-mutual with my gf, close enough friends that I can even talk to about this. \n\nNow I just feel so betrayed. I want to get back at her by sleeping with someone else because a major issue in our relationship is that my girlfriend was concerned that I choose her instead of having a normal bachelor period. I always responded that I only wanted her amd have been faithful through a decent amount of opportunities to stray.\n\nAnd the worst part is, over the past few months I've been becoming convinced that she was the one woman I would ever want, and that no one would be better for me than her. I had even picked out a ring but financial instability of my career change made me feel unworthy of even proposing to her. Now I just don't know what I think."
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