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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a coworker who I was close friends with before I started working there and I grew up with this girl. She has a fiance, a kid, her own house, we never were romantically involved never will be. \n\nHere's the deal, she has been causing conflicts at work saying that I have made snide or mean comments to her. This isn't in text or any real hard evidence beyond hearsay but I assure you it's untrue. The problem is she doesn't come to me (her supposed best friend) and tell me. She goes to my supervisor who we are both very close friends with and he tries to play referree to a fight that shouldn't even be taking place.\n\nI'm up for a promotion in a couple weeks, she has been starting a conflict and I haven't spoken to her in person, texted her, facebooked, send her any communication whatsoever in over a month since I got with my new girlfriend. The supervisor keeps covering for her saying that \"She didn't say anything. this is what i observed\" when there was nothing to observe and when she finally came to me about the issue she said verbatim what he said to me the night before after work.\n\nHow do I deal with this and get my ex-friend/coworker to shut up and stop trying to cause drama for no reason and get me in trouble with my boss?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a coworker who I was close friends with before I started working there and I grew up with this girl. She has a fiance, a kid, her own house, we never were romantically involved never will be. \n\nHere's the deal, she has been causing conflicts at work saying that I have made snide or mean comments to her. This isn't in text or any real hard evidence beyond hearsay but I assure you it's untrue. The problem is she doesn't come to me (her supposed best friend) and tell me. She goes to my supervisor who we are both very close friends with and he tries to play referree to a fight that shouldn't even be taking place.\n\nI'm up for a promotion in a couple weeks, she has been starting a conflict and I haven't spoken to her in person, texted her, facebooked, send her any communication whatsoever in over a month since I got with my new girlfriend. The supervisor keeps covering for her saying that \"She didn't say anything. this is what i observed\" when there was nothing to observe and when she finally came to me about the issue she said verbatim what he said to me the night before after work.\n\nHow do I deal with this and get my ex-friend/coworker to shut up and stop trying to cause drama for no reason and get me in trouble with my boss?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a coworker who I was close friends with before I started working there and I grew up with this girl. She has a fiance, a kid, her own house, we never were romantically involved never will be. \n\nHere's the deal, she has been causing conflicts at work saying that I have made snide or mean comments to her. This isn't in text or any real hard evidence beyond hearsay but I assure you it's untrue. The problem is she doesn't come to me (her supposed best friend) and tell me. She goes to my supervisor who we are both very close friends with and he tries to play referree to a fight that shouldn't even be taking place.\n\nI'm up for a promotion in a couple weeks, she has been starting a conflict and I haven't spoken to her in person, texted her, facebooked, send her any communication whatsoever in over a month since I got with my new girlfriend. The supervisor keeps covering for her saying that \"She didn't say anything. this is what i observed\" when there was nothing to observe and when she finally came to me about the issue she said verbatim what he said to me the night before after work.\n\nHow do I deal with this and get my ex-friend/coworker to shut up and stop trying to cause drama for no reason and get me in trouble with my boss?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a coworker who I was close friends with before I started working there and I grew up with this girl. She has a fiance, a kid, her own house, we never were romantically involved never will be. \n\nHere's the deal, she has been causing conflicts at work saying that I have made snide or mean comments to her. This isn't in text or any real hard evidence beyond hearsay but I assure you it's untrue. The problem is she doesn't come to me (her supposed best friend) and tell me. She goes to my supervisor who we are both very close friends with and he tries to play referree to a fight that shouldn't even be taking place.\n\nI'm up for a promotion in a couple weeks, she has been starting a conflict and I haven't spoken to her in person, texted her, facebooked, send her any communication whatsoever in over a month since I got with my new girlfriend. The supervisor keeps covering for her saying that \"She didn't say anything. this is what i observed\" when there was nothing to observe and when she finally came to me about the issue she said verbatim what he said to me the night before after work.\n\nHow do I deal with this and get my ex-friend/coworker to shut up and stop trying to cause drama for no reason and get me in trouble with my boss?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a coworker who I was close friends with before I started working there and I grew up with this girl. She has a fiance, a kid, her own house, we never were romantically involved never will be. \n\nHere's the deal, she has been causing conflicts at work saying that I have made snide or mean comments to her. This isn't in text or any real hard evidence beyond hearsay but I assure you it's untrue. The problem is she doesn't come to me (her supposed best friend) and tell me. She goes to my supervisor who we are both very close friends with and he tries to play referree to a fight that shouldn't even be taking place.\n\nI'm up for a promotion in a couple weeks, she has been starting a conflict and I haven't spoken to her in person, texted her, facebooked, send her any communication whatsoever in over a month since I got with my new girlfriend. The supervisor keeps covering for her saying that \"She didn't say anything. this is what i observed\" when there was nothing to observe and when she finally came to me about the issue she said verbatim what he said to me the night before after work.\n\nHow do I deal with this and get my ex-friend/coworker to shut up and stop trying to cause drama for no reason and get me in trouble with my boss?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a coworker who I was close friends with before I started working there and I grew up with this girl. She has a fiance, a kid, her own house, we never were romantically involved never will be. \n\nHere's the deal, she has been causing conflicts at work saying that I have made snide or mean comments to her. This isn't in text or any real hard evidence beyond hearsay but I assure you it's untrue. The problem is she doesn't come to me (her supposed best friend) and tell me. She goes to my supervisor who we are both very close friends with and he tries to play referree to a fight that shouldn't even be taking place.\n\nI'm up for a promotion in a couple weeks, she has been starting a conflict and I haven't spoken to her in person, texted her, facebooked, send her any communication whatsoever in over a month since I got with my new girlfriend. The supervisor keeps covering for her saying that \"She didn't say anything. this is what i observed\" when there was nothing to observe and when she finally came to me about the issue she said verbatim what he said to me the night before after work.\n\nHow do I deal with this and get my ex-friend/coworker to shut up and stop trying to cause drama for no reason and get me in trouble with my boss?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a coworker who I was close friends with before I started working there and I grew up with this girl. She has a fiance, a kid, her own house, we never were romantically involved never will be. \n\nHere's the deal, she has been causing conflicts at work saying that I have made snide or mean comments to her. This isn't in text or any real hard evidence beyond hearsay but I assure you it's untrue. The problem is she doesn't come to me (her supposed best friend) and tell me. She goes to my supervisor who we are both very close friends with and he tries to play referree to a fight that shouldn't even be taking place.\n\nI'm up for a promotion in a couple weeks, she has been starting a conflict and I haven't spoken to her in person, texted her, facebooked, send her any communication whatsoever in over a month since I got with my new girlfriend. The supervisor keeps covering for her saying that \"She didn't say anything. this is what i observed\" when there was nothing to observe and when she finally came to me about the issue she said verbatim what he said to me the night before after work.\n\nHow do I deal with this and get my ex-friend/coworker to shut up and stop trying to cause drama for no reason and get me in trouble with my boss?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a coworker who I was close friends with before I started working there and I grew up with this girl. She has a fiance, a kid, her own house, we never were romantically involved never will be. \n\nHere's the deal, she has been causing conflicts at work saying that I have made snide or mean comments to her. This isn't in text or any real hard evidence beyond hearsay but I assure you it's untrue. The problem is she doesn't come to me (her supposed best friend) and tell me. She goes to my supervisor who we are both very close friends with and he tries to play referree to a fight that shouldn't even be taking place.\n\nI'm up for a promotion in a couple weeks, she has been starting a conflict and I haven't spoken to her in person, texted her, facebooked, send her any communication whatsoever in over a month since I got with my new girlfriend. The supervisor keeps covering for her saying that \"She didn't say anything. this is what i observed\" when there was nothing to observe and when she finally came to me about the issue she said verbatim what he said to me the night before after work.\n\nHow do I deal with this and get my ex-friend/coworker to shut up and stop trying to cause drama for no reason and get me in trouble with my boss?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a coworker who I was close friends with before I started working there and I grew up with this girl. She has a fiance, a kid, her own house, we never were romantically involved never will be. \n\nHere's the deal, she has been causing conflicts at work saying that I have made snide or mean comments to her. This isn't in text or any real hard evidence beyond hearsay but I assure you it's untrue. The problem is she doesn't come to me (her supposed best friend) and tell me. She goes to my supervisor who we are both very close friends with and he tries to play referree to a fight that shouldn't even be taking place.\n\nI'm up for a promotion in a couple weeks, she has been starting a conflict and I haven't spoken to her in person, texted her, facebooked, send her any communication whatsoever in over a month since I got with my new girlfriend. The supervisor keeps covering for her saying that \"She didn't say anything. this is what i observed\" when there was nothing to observe and when she finally came to me about the issue she said verbatim what he said to me the night before after work.\n\nHow do I deal with this and get my ex-friend/coworker to shut up and stop trying to cause drama for no reason and get me in trouble with my boss?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a coworker who I was close friends with before I started working there and I grew up with this girl. She has a fiance, a kid, her own house, we never were romantically involved never will be. \n\nHere's the deal, she has been causing conflicts at work saying that I have made snide or mean comments to her. This isn't in text or any real hard evidence beyond hearsay but I assure you it's untrue. The problem is she doesn't come to me (her supposed best friend) and tell me. She goes to my supervisor who we are both very close friends with and he tries to play referree to a fight that shouldn't even be taking place.\n\nI'm up for a promotion in a couple weeks, she has been starting a conflict and I haven't spoken to her in person, texted her, facebooked, send her any communication whatsoever in over a month since I got with my new girlfriend. The supervisor keeps covering for her saying that \"She didn't say anything. this is what i observed\" when there was nothing to observe and when she finally came to me about the issue she said verbatim what he said to me the night before after work.\n\nHow do I deal with this and get my ex-friend/coworker to shut up and stop trying to cause drama for no reason and get me in trouble with my boss?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a coworker who I was close friends with before I started working there and I grew up with this girl. She has a fiance, a kid, her own house, we never were romantically involved never will be. \n\nHere's the deal, she has been causing conflicts at work saying that I have made snide or mean comments to her. This isn't in text or any real hard evidence beyond hearsay but I assure you it's untrue. The problem is she doesn't come to me (her supposed best friend) and tell me. She goes to my supervisor who we are both very close friends with and he tries to play referree to a fight that shouldn't even be taking place.\n\nI'm up for a promotion in a couple weeks, she has been starting a conflict and I haven't spoken to her in person, texted her, facebooked, send her any communication whatsoever in over a month since I got with my new girlfriend. The supervisor keeps covering for her saying that \"She didn't say anything. this is what i observed\" when there was nothing to observe and when she finally came to me about the issue she said verbatim what he said to me the night before after work.\n\nHow do I deal with this and get my ex-friend/coworker to shut up and stop trying to cause drama for no reason and get me in trouble with my boss?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a coworker who I was close friends with before I started working there and I grew up with this girl. She has a fiance, a kid, her own house, we never were romantically involved never will be. \n\nHere's the deal, she has been causing conflicts at work saying that I have made snide or mean comments to her. This isn't in text or any real hard evidence beyond hearsay but I assure you it's untrue. The problem is she doesn't come to me (her supposed best friend) and tell me. She goes to my supervisor who we are both very close friends with and he tries to play referree to a fight that shouldn't even be taking place.\n\nI'm up for a promotion in a couple weeks, she has been starting a conflict and I haven't spoken to her in person, texted her, facebooked, send her any communication whatsoever in over a month since I got with my new girlfriend. The supervisor keeps covering for her saying that \"She didn't say anything. this is what i observed\" when there was nothing to observe and when she finally came to me about the issue she said verbatim what he said to me the night before after work.\n\nHow do I deal with this and get my ex-friend/coworker to shut up and stop trying to cause drama for no reason and get me in trouble with my boss?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a coworker who I was close friends with before I started working there and I grew up with this girl. She has a fiance, a kid, her own house, we never were romantically involved never will be. \n\nHere's the deal, she has been causing conflicts at work saying that I have made snide or mean comments to her. This isn't in text or any real hard evidence beyond hearsay but I assure you it's untrue. The problem is she doesn't come to me (her supposed best friend) and tell me. She goes to my supervisor who we are both very close friends with and he tries to play referree to a fight that shouldn't even be taking place.\n\nI'm up for a promotion in a couple weeks, she has been starting a conflict and I haven't spoken to her in person, texted her, facebooked, send her any communication whatsoever in over a month since I got with my new girlfriend. The supervisor keeps covering for her saying that \"She didn't say anything. this is what i observed\" when there was nothing to observe and when she finally came to me about the issue she said verbatim what he said to me the night before after work.\n\nHow do I deal with this and get my ex-friend/coworker to shut up and stop trying to cause drama for no reason and get me in trouble with my boss?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a coworker who I was close friends with before I started working there and I grew up with this girl. She has a fiance, a kid, her own house, we never were romantically involved never will be. \n\nHere's the deal, she has been causing conflicts at work saying that I have made snide or mean comments to her. This isn't in text or any real hard evidence beyond hearsay but I assure you it's untrue. The problem is she doesn't come to me (her supposed best friend) and tell me. She goes to my supervisor who we are both very close friends with and he tries to play referree to a fight that shouldn't even be taking place.\n\nI'm up for a promotion in a couple weeks, she has been starting a conflict and I haven't spoken to her in person, texted her, facebooked, send her any communication whatsoever in over a month since I got with my new girlfriend. The supervisor keeps covering for her saying that \"She didn't say anything. this is what i observed\" when there was nothing to observe and when she finally came to me about the issue she said verbatim what he said to me the night before after work.\n\nHow do I deal with this and get my ex-friend/coworker to shut up and stop trying to cause drama for no reason and get me in trouble with my boss?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a coworker who I was close friends with before I started working there and I grew up with this girl. She has a fiance, a kid, her own house, we never were romantically involved never will be. \n\nHere's the deal, she has been causing conflicts at work saying that I have made snide or mean comments to her. This isn't in text or any real hard evidence beyond hearsay but I assure you it's untrue. The problem is she doesn't come to me (her supposed best friend) and tell me. She goes to my supervisor who we are both very close friends with and he tries to play referree to a fight that shouldn't even be taking place.\n\nI'm up for a promotion in a couple weeks, she has been starting a conflict and I haven't spoken to her in person, texted her, facebooked, send her any communication whatsoever in over a month since I got with my new girlfriend. The supervisor keeps covering for her saying that \"She didn't say anything. this is what i observed\" when there was nothing to observe and when she finally came to me about the issue she said verbatim what he said to me the night before after work.\n\nHow do I deal with this and get my ex-friend/coworker to shut up and stop trying to cause drama for no reason and get me in trouble with my boss?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a coworker who I was close friends with before I started working there and I grew up with this girl. She has a fiance, a kid, her own house, we never were romantically involved never will be. \n\nHere's the deal, she has been causing conflicts at work saying that I have made snide or mean comments to her. This isn't in text or any real hard evidence beyond hearsay but I assure you it's untrue. The problem is she doesn't come to me (her supposed best friend) and tell me. She goes to my supervisor who we are both very close friends with and he tries to play referree to a fight that shouldn't even be taking place.\n\nI'm up for a promotion in a couple weeks, she has been starting a conflict and I haven't spoken to her in person, texted her, facebooked, send her any communication whatsoever in over a month since I got with my new girlfriend. The supervisor keeps covering for her saying that \"She didn't say anything. this is what i observed\" when there was nothing to observe and when she finally came to me about the issue she said verbatim what he said to me the night before after work.\n\nHow do I deal with this and get my ex-friend/coworker to shut up and stop trying to cause drama for no reason and get me in trouble with my boss?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a coworker who I was close friends with before I started working there and I grew up with this girl. She has a fiance, a kid, her own house, we never were romantically involved never will be. \n\nHere's the deal, she has been causing conflicts at work saying that I have made snide or mean comments to her. This isn't in text or any real hard evidence beyond hearsay but I assure you it's untrue. The problem is she doesn't come to me (her supposed best friend) and tell me. She goes to my supervisor who we are both very close friends with and he tries to play referree to a fight that shouldn't even be taking place.\n\nI'm up for a promotion in a couple weeks, she has been starting a conflict and I haven't spoken to her in person, texted her, facebooked, send her any communication whatsoever in over a month since I got with my new girlfriend. The supervisor keeps covering for her saying that \"She didn't say anything. this is what i observed\" when there was nothing to observe and when she finally came to me about the issue she said verbatim what he said to me the night before after work.\n\nHow do I deal with this and get my ex-friend/coworker to shut up and stop trying to cause drama for no reason and get me in trouble with my boss?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a coworker who I was close friends with before I started working there and I grew up with this girl. She has a fiance, a kid, her own house, we never were romantically involved never will be. \n\nHere's the deal, she has been causing conflicts at work saying that I have made snide or mean comments to her. This isn't in text or any real hard evidence beyond hearsay but I assure you it's untrue. The problem is she doesn't come to me (her supposed best friend) and tell me. She goes to my supervisor who we are both very close friends with and he tries to play referree to a fight that shouldn't even be taking place.\n\nI'm up for a promotion in a couple weeks, she has been starting a conflict and I haven't spoken to her in person, texted her, facebooked, send her any communication whatsoever in over a month since I got with my new girlfriend. The supervisor keeps covering for her saying that \"She didn't say anything. this is what i observed\" when there was nothing to observe and when she finally came to me about the issue she said verbatim what he said to me the night before after work.\n\nHow do I deal with this and get my ex-friend/coworker to shut up and stop trying to cause drama for no reason and get me in trouble with my boss?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a coworker who I was close friends with before I started working there and I grew up with this girl. She has a fiance, a kid, her own house, we never were romantically involved never will be. \n\nHere's the deal, she has been causing conflicts at work saying that I have made snide or mean comments to her. This isn't in text or any real hard evidence beyond hearsay but I assure you it's untrue. The problem is she doesn't come to me (her supposed best friend) and tell me. She goes to my supervisor who we are both very close friends with and he tries to play referree to a fight that shouldn't even be taking place.\n\nI'm up for a promotion in a couple weeks, she has been starting a conflict and I haven't spoken to her in person, texted her, facebooked, send her any communication whatsoever in over a month since I got with my new girlfriend. The supervisor keeps covering for her saying that \"She didn't say anything. this is what i observed\" when there was nothing to observe and when she finally came to me about the issue she said verbatim what he said to me the night before after work.\n\nHow do I deal with this and get my ex-friend/coworker to shut up and stop trying to cause drama for no reason and get me in trouble with my boss?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a coworker who I was close friends with before I started working there and I grew up with this girl. She has a fiance, a kid, her own house, we never were romantically involved never will be. \n\nHere's the deal, she has been causing conflicts at work saying that I have made snide or mean comments to her. This isn't in text or any real hard evidence beyond hearsay but I assure you it's untrue. The problem is she doesn't come to me (her supposed best friend) and tell me. She goes to my supervisor who we are both very close friends with and he tries to play referree to a fight that shouldn't even be taking place.\n\nI'm up for a promotion in a couple weeks, she has been starting a conflict and I haven't spoken to her in person, texted her, facebooked, send her any communication whatsoever in over a month since I got with my new girlfriend. The supervisor keeps covering for her saying that \"She didn't say anything. this is what i observed\" when there was nothing to observe and when she finally came to me about the issue she said verbatim what he said to me the night before after work.\n\nHow do I deal with this and get my ex-friend/coworker to shut up and stop trying to cause drama for no reason and get me in trouble with my boss?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a coworker who I was close friends with before I started working there and I grew up with this girl. She has a fiance, a kid, her own house, we never were romantically involved never will be. \n\nHere's the deal, she has been causing conflicts at work saying that I have made snide or mean comments to her. This isn't in text or any real hard evidence beyond hearsay but I assure you it's untrue. The problem is she doesn't come to me (her supposed best friend) and tell me. She goes to my supervisor who we are both very close friends with and he tries to play referree to a fight that shouldn't even be taking place.\n\nI'm up for a promotion in a couple weeks, she has been starting a conflict and I haven't spoken to her in person, texted her, facebooked, send her any communication whatsoever in over a month since I got with my new girlfriend. The supervisor keeps covering for her saying that \"She didn't say anything. this is what i observed\" when there was nothing to observe and when she finally came to me about the issue she said verbatim what he said to me the night before after work.\n\nHow do I deal with this and get my ex-friend/coworker to shut up and stop trying to cause drama for no reason and get me in trouble with my boss?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says, my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We have talked marriage for a while and are both sure we want to marry each other, but there hasn't been any reason to rush.\n\nNow, there kind of is. He has a very good shot of getting selected as a military officer. His training would likely start next summer and last for 1-1.5 years. During this time, I will be finishing my second bachelor's in nursing. Should he get in, we have decided that we logically should get married before he leaves for training, for many reasons.\n\nMy question is, this is coming a lot sooner than we anticipated, and while we have talked a lot about our future together, I need to know what the most important topics we must discuss. Since we have lived together for 1.5 years, a lot of things (like entertaining, cleaning, house rules, etc) have already been worked out. However, I am wondering what other things we should talk about.\n\nShould we combine finances? Pros/cons to this?\n\nPrenup? (He is a lawyer so of course he thinks everyone should have a prenup, but neither of us have any investments/significant savings/inheritances to protect)\n\nOther things to discuss? I would love to go to pre-marital counseling, but I am not sure we can afford it, and it is very hard to find non-religious counselors (we are both atheists). So, any insight/help would be appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says, my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We have talked marriage for a while and are both sure we want to marry each other, but there hasn't been any reason to rush.\n\nNow, there kind of is. He has a very good shot of getting selected as a military officer. His training would likely start next summer and last for 1-1.5 years. During this time, I will be finishing my second bachelor's in nursing. Should he get in, we have decided that we logically should get married before he leaves for training, for many reasons.\n\nMy question is, this is coming a lot sooner than we anticipated, and while we have talked a lot about our future together, I need to know what the most important topics we must discuss. Since we have lived together for 1.5 years, a lot of things (like entertaining, cleaning, house rules, etc) have already been worked out. However, I am wondering what other things we should talk about.\n\nShould we combine finances? Pros/cons to this?\n\nPrenup? (He is a lawyer so of course he thinks everyone should have a prenup, but neither of us have any investments/significant savings/inheritances to protect)\n\nOther things to discuss? I would love to go to pre-marital counseling, but I am not sure we can afford it, and it is very hard to find non-religious counselors (we are both atheists). So, any insight/help would be appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says, my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We have talked marriage for a while and are both sure we want to marry each other, but there hasn't been any reason to rush.\n\nNow, there kind of is. He has a very good shot of getting selected as a military officer. His training would likely start next summer and last for 1-1.5 years. During this time, I will be finishing my second bachelor's in nursing. Should he get in, we have decided that we logically should get married before he leaves for training, for many reasons.\n\nMy question is, this is coming a lot sooner than we anticipated, and while we have talked a lot about our future together, I need to know what the most important topics we must discuss. Since we have lived together for 1.5 years, a lot of things (like entertaining, cleaning, house rules, etc) have already been worked out. However, I am wondering what other things we should talk about.\n\nShould we combine finances? Pros/cons to this?\n\nPrenup? (He is a lawyer so of course he thinks everyone should have a prenup, but neither of us have any investments/significant savings/inheritances to protect)\n\nOther things to discuss? I would love to go to pre-marital counseling, but I am not sure we can afford it, and it is very hard to find non-religious counselors (we are both atheists). So, any insight/help would be appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says, my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We have talked marriage for a while and are both sure we want to marry each other, but there hasn't been any reason to rush.\n\nNow, there kind of is. He has a very good shot of getting selected as a military officer. His training would likely start next summer and last for 1-1.5 years. During this time, I will be finishing my second bachelor's in nursing. Should he get in, we have decided that we logically should get married before he leaves for training, for many reasons.\n\nMy question is, this is coming a lot sooner than we anticipated, and while we have talked a lot about our future together, I need to know what the most important topics we must discuss. Since we have lived together for 1.5 years, a lot of things (like entertaining, cleaning, house rules, etc) have already been worked out. However, I am wondering what other things we should talk about.\n\nShould we combine finances? Pros/cons to this?\n\nPrenup? (He is a lawyer so of course he thinks everyone should have a prenup, but neither of us have any investments/significant savings/inheritances to protect)\n\nOther things to discuss? I would love to go to pre-marital counseling, but I am not sure we can afford it, and it is very hard to find non-religious counselors (we are both atheists). So, any insight/help would be appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says, my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We have talked marriage for a while and are both sure we want to marry each other, but there hasn't been any reason to rush.\n\nNow, there kind of is. He has a very good shot of getting selected as a military officer. His training would likely start next summer and last for 1-1.5 years. During this time, I will be finishing my second bachelor's in nursing. Should he get in, we have decided that we logically should get married before he leaves for training, for many reasons.\n\nMy question is, this is coming a lot sooner than we anticipated, and while we have talked a lot about our future together, I need to know what the most important topics we must discuss. Since we have lived together for 1.5 years, a lot of things (like entertaining, cleaning, house rules, etc) have already been worked out. However, I am wondering what other things we should talk about.\n\nShould we combine finances? Pros/cons to this?\n\nPrenup? (He is a lawyer so of course he thinks everyone should have a prenup, but neither of us have any investments/significant savings/inheritances to protect)\n\nOther things to discuss? I would love to go to pre-marital counseling, but I am not sure we can afford it, and it is very hard to find non-religious counselors (we are both atheists). So, any insight/help would be appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says, my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We have talked marriage for a while and are both sure we want to marry each other, but there hasn't been any reason to rush.\n\nNow, there kind of is. He has a very good shot of getting selected as a military officer. His training would likely start next summer and last for 1-1.5 years. During this time, I will be finishing my second bachelor's in nursing. Should he get in, we have decided that we logically should get married before he leaves for training, for many reasons.\n\nMy question is, this is coming a lot sooner than we anticipated, and while we have talked a lot about our future together, I need to know what the most important topics we must discuss. Since we have lived together for 1.5 years, a lot of things (like entertaining, cleaning, house rules, etc) have already been worked out. However, I am wondering what other things we should talk about.\n\nShould we combine finances? Pros/cons to this?\n\nPrenup? (He is a lawyer so of course he thinks everyone should have a prenup, but neither of us have any investments/significant savings/inheritances to protect)\n\nOther things to discuss? I would love to go to pre-marital counseling, but I am not sure we can afford it, and it is very hard to find non-religious counselors (we are both atheists). So, any insight/help would be appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've cheated numerous times over the course of our relationship. First was a friend that I was close with. Second was a one nighter and this most recent has been more like a relationship. I'm more worried about this last one and the potential impact on my wife. Myself and the other woman are both married with a kid and understand each other's situation. But yet we don't stop. We have tried I call it off numerous times but it hasn't worked out. \n\nAside from going to therapy, idk where to go from here. I want the cheating to end but I find myself falling back in the similar routine, making crappy excuses and focusing on things that I shouldn't."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've cheated numerous times over the course of our relationship. First was a friend that I was close with. Second was a one nighter and this most recent has been more like a relationship. I'm more worried about this last one and the potential impact on my wife. Myself and the other woman are both married with a kid and understand each other's situation. But yet we don't stop. We have tried I call it off numerous times but it hasn't worked out. \n\nAside from going to therapy, idk where to go from here. I want the cheating to end but I find myself falling back in the similar routine, making crappy excuses and focusing on things that I shouldn't."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've cheated numerous times over the course of our relationship. First was a friend that I was close with. Second was a one nighter and this most recent has been more like a relationship. I'm more worried about this last one and the potential impact on my wife. Myself and the other woman are both married with a kid and understand each other's situation. But yet we don't stop. We have tried I call it off numerous times but it hasn't worked out. \n\nAside from going to therapy, idk where to go from here. I want the cheating to end but I find myself falling back in the similar routine, making crappy excuses and focusing on things that I shouldn't."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've cheated numerous times over the course of our relationship. First was a friend that I was close with. Second was a one nighter and this most recent has been more like a relationship. I'm more worried about this last one and the potential impact on my wife. Myself and the other woman are both married with a kid and understand each other's situation. But yet we don't stop. We have tried I call it off numerous times but it hasn't worked out. \n\nAside from going to therapy, idk where to go from here. I want the cheating to end but I find myself falling back in the similar routine, making crappy excuses and focusing on things that I shouldn't."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've cheated numerous times over the course of our relationship. First was a friend that I was close with. Second was a one nighter and this most recent has been more like a relationship. I'm more worried about this last one and the potential impact on my wife. Myself and the other woman are both married with a kid and understand each other's situation. But yet we don't stop. We have tried I call it off numerous times but it hasn't worked out. \n\nAside from going to therapy, idk where to go from here. I want the cheating to end but I find myself falling back in the similar routine, making crappy excuses and focusing on things that I shouldn't."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've cheated numerous times over the course of our relationship. First was a friend that I was close with. Second was a one nighter and this most recent has been more like a relationship. I'm more worried about this last one and the potential impact on my wife. Myself and the other woman are both married with a kid and understand each other's situation. But yet we don't stop. We have tried I call it off numerous times but it hasn't worked out. \n\nAside from going to therapy, idk where to go from here. I want the cheating to end but I find myself falling back in the similar routine, making crappy excuses and focusing on things that I shouldn't."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey runnit!\n\nI'm relatively new to racing (I've run two 10K races and a few 5Ks in the past.5 years), and I'm signed up for a 5K in about a month.\n\nI've got what I think is a pretty solid training plan for the next month, putting me at around 15 miles/week (I have been slowly increasing that for fear of aggravating my bum knee).\n\nOriginally, my goal was a sub-28 min 5K. My best previous in-race time was 34 min, but I was out of shape and slow. Most of my training runs (including longer runs) have been between 9:45-10:15 min miles, so I know 34 minutes isn't a stretch for me.\n\nToday, I pushed myself on my 3 mile run and ran it in 27:43. It was hard, but I didn't almost throw up or anything.\n\nShould I adjust my goal? What is a realistic improvement I could make in one month on my 5K time?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey runnit!\n\nI'm relatively new to racing (I've run two 10K races and a few 5Ks in the past.5 years), and I'm signed up for a 5K in about a month.\n\nI've got what I think is a pretty solid training plan for the next month, putting me at around 15 miles/week (I have been slowly increasing that for fear of aggravating my bum knee).\n\nOriginally, my goal was a sub-28 min 5K. My best previous in-race time was 34 min, but I was out of shape and slow. Most of my training runs (including longer runs) have been between 9:45-10:15 min miles, so I know 34 minutes isn't a stretch for me.\n\nToday, I pushed myself on my 3 mile run and ran it in 27:43. It was hard, but I didn't almost throw up or anything.\n\nShould I adjust my goal? What is a realistic improvement I could make in one month on my 5K time?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey runnit!\n\nI'm relatively new to racing (I've run two 10K races and a few 5Ks in the past.5 years), and I'm signed up for a 5K in about a month.\n\nI've got what I think is a pretty solid training plan for the next month, putting me at around 15 miles/week (I have been slowly increasing that for fear of aggravating my bum knee).\n\nOriginally, my goal was a sub-28 min 5K. My best previous in-race time was 34 min, but I was out of shape and slow. Most of my training runs (including longer runs) have been between 9:45-10:15 min miles, so I know 34 minutes isn't a stretch for me.\n\nToday, I pushed myself on my 3 mile run and ran it in 27:43. It was hard, but I didn't almost throw up or anything.\n\nShould I adjust my goal? What is a realistic improvement I could make in one month on my 5K time?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey runnit!\n\nI'm relatively new to racing (I've run two 10K races and a few 5Ks in the past.5 years), and I'm signed up for a 5K in about a month.\n\nI've got what I think is a pretty solid training plan for the next month, putting me at around 15 miles/week (I have been slowly increasing that for fear of aggravating my bum knee).\n\nOriginally, my goal was a sub-28 min 5K. My best previous in-race time was 34 min, but I was out of shape and slow. Most of my training runs (including longer runs) have been between 9:45-10:15 min miles, so I know 34 minutes isn't a stretch for me.\n\nToday, I pushed myself on my 3 mile run and ran it in 27:43. It was hard, but I didn't almost throw up or anything.\n\nShould I adjust my goal? What is a realistic improvement I could make in one month on my 5K time?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey runnit!\n\nI'm relatively new to racing (I've run two 10K races and a few 5Ks in the past.5 years), and I'm signed up for a 5K in about a month.\n\nI've got what I think is a pretty solid training plan for the next month, putting me at around 15 miles/week (I have been slowly increasing that for fear of aggravating my bum knee).\n\nOriginally, my goal was a sub-28 min 5K. My best previous in-race time was 34 min, but I was out of shape and slow. Most of my training runs (including longer runs) have been between 9:45-10:15 min miles, so I know 34 minutes isn't a stretch for me.\n\nToday, I pushed myself on my 3 mile run and ran it in 27:43. It was hard, but I didn't almost throw up or anything.\n\nShould I adjust my goal? What is a realistic improvement I could make in one month on my 5K time?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not quite sure what to do about it. I go to school with them (Older one and myself are both in our senior year, my crush is in his sophomore year). The school is small enough that I know I'll run into my crush, even when trying to avoid him, but big enough that we have no mutual friends.\n\nI kind of want to ask my crush to hang out with me sometime - but I don't know what to do about his brother. I kind of feel like I should tell the brother and ask for his permission but that situation will be awkward and I don't want him getting all weird about it (especially if my crush isn't interested). \n\nNormally when I go on a first date I don't tell too many people about it (of course my parents know, but I don't tell many of my peers. People get too worked up about \"crushthrowaway1234 is getting a boyfriend!\"). \n\nI don't want the situation of me being the one to decide I don't want a second date with my crush and his older brother getting peeved either.\n\nAnd if I don't tell older bro and he finds out that I asked out or went on a date with his brother (my crush) it could be awkward.\n\nI guess I could just do nothing about the whole situation and just move on.\n\nAlso, what do you guys think about the age gap? Me being a senior and him being a sophomore?\n\nI don't know. I want to do something about my feelings, but I don't want to lost my friendship with older bro."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not quite sure what to do about it. I go to school with them (Older one and myself are both in our senior year, my crush is in his sophomore year). The school is small enough that I know I'll run into my crush, even when trying to avoid him, but big enough that we have no mutual friends.\n\nI kind of want to ask my crush to hang out with me sometime - but I don't know what to do about his brother. I kind of feel like I should tell the brother and ask for his permission but that situation will be awkward and I don't want him getting all weird about it (especially if my crush isn't interested). \n\nNormally when I go on a first date I don't tell too many people about it (of course my parents know, but I don't tell many of my peers. People get too worked up about \"crushthrowaway1234 is getting a boyfriend!\"). \n\nI don't want the situation of me being the one to decide I don't want a second date with my crush and his older brother getting peeved either.\n\nAnd if I don't tell older bro and he finds out that I asked out or went on a date with his brother (my crush) it could be awkward.\n\nI guess I could just do nothing about the whole situation and just move on.\n\nAlso, what do you guys think about the age gap? Me being a senior and him being a sophomore?\n\nI don't know. I want to do something about my feelings, but I don't want to lost my friendship with older bro."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not quite sure what to do about it. I go to school with them (Older one and myself are both in our senior year, my crush is in his sophomore year). The school is small enough that I know I'll run into my crush, even when trying to avoid him, but big enough that we have no mutual friends.\n\nI kind of want to ask my crush to hang out with me sometime - but I don't know what to do about his brother. I kind of feel like I should tell the brother and ask for his permission but that situation will be awkward and I don't want him getting all weird about it (especially if my crush isn't interested). \n\nNormally when I go on a first date I don't tell too many people about it (of course my parents know, but I don't tell many of my peers. People get too worked up about \"crushthrowaway1234 is getting a boyfriend!\"). \n\nI don't want the situation of me being the one to decide I don't want a second date with my crush and his older brother getting peeved either.\n\nAnd if I don't tell older bro and he finds out that I asked out or went on a date with his brother (my crush) it could be awkward.\n\nI guess I could just do nothing about the whole situation and just move on.\n\nAlso, what do you guys think about the age gap? Me being a senior and him being a sophomore?\n\nI don't know. I want to do something about my feelings, but I don't want to lost my friendship with older bro."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not quite sure what to do about it. I go to school with them (Older one and myself are both in our senior year, my crush is in his sophomore year). The school is small enough that I know I'll run into my crush, even when trying to avoid him, but big enough that we have no mutual friends.\n\nI kind of want to ask my crush to hang out with me sometime - but I don't know what to do about his brother. I kind of feel like I should tell the brother and ask for his permission but that situation will be awkward and I don't want him getting all weird about it (especially if my crush isn't interested). \n\nNormally when I go on a first date I don't tell too many people about it (of course my parents know, but I don't tell many of my peers. People get too worked up about \"crushthrowaway1234 is getting a boyfriend!\"). \n\nI don't want the situation of me being the one to decide I don't want a second date with my crush and his older brother getting peeved either.\n\nAnd if I don't tell older bro and he finds out that I asked out or went on a date with his brother (my crush) it could be awkward.\n\nI guess I could just do nothing about the whole situation and just move on.\n\nAlso, what do you guys think about the age gap? Me being a senior and him being a sophomore?\n\nI don't know. I want to do something about my feelings, but I don't want to lost my friendship with older bro."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not quite sure what to do about it. I go to school with them (Older one and myself are both in our senior year, my crush is in his sophomore year). The school is small enough that I know I'll run into my crush, even when trying to avoid him, but big enough that we have no mutual friends.\n\nI kind of want to ask my crush to hang out with me sometime - but I don't know what to do about his brother. I kind of feel like I should tell the brother and ask for his permission but that situation will be awkward and I don't want him getting all weird about it (especially if my crush isn't interested). \n\nNormally when I go on a first date I don't tell too many people about it (of course my parents know, but I don't tell many of my peers. People get too worked up about \"crushthrowaway1234 is getting a boyfriend!\"). \n\nI don't want the situation of me being the one to decide I don't want a second date with my crush and his older brother getting peeved either.\n\nAnd if I don't tell older bro and he finds out that I asked out or went on a date with his brother (my crush) it could be awkward.\n\nI guess I could just do nothing about the whole situation and just move on.\n\nAlso, what do you guys think about the age gap? Me being a senior and him being a sophomore?\n\nI don't know. I want to do something about my feelings, but I don't want to lost my friendship with older bro."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not quite sure what to do about it. I go to school with them (Older one and myself are both in our senior year, my crush is in his sophomore year). The school is small enough that I know I'll run into my crush, even when trying to avoid him, but big enough that we have no mutual friends.\n\nI kind of want to ask my crush to hang out with me sometime - but I don't know what to do about his brother. I kind of feel like I should tell the brother and ask for his permission but that situation will be awkward and I don't want him getting all weird about it (especially if my crush isn't interested). \n\nNormally when I go on a first date I don't tell too many people about it (of course my parents know, but I don't tell many of my peers. People get too worked up about \"crushthrowaway1234 is getting a boyfriend!\"). \n\nI don't want the situation of me being the one to decide I don't want a second date with my crush and his older brother getting peeved either.\n\nAnd if I don't tell older bro and he finds out that I asked out or went on a date with his brother (my crush) it could be awkward.\n\nI guess I could just do nothing about the whole situation and just move on.\n\nAlso, what do you guys think about the age gap? Me being a senior and him being a sophomore?\n\nI don't know. I want to do something about my feelings, but I don't want to lost my friendship with older bro."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been officially dating my boyfriend for 13 months now, we've been having sex for 10 months. Both of us are kind of \"emotionally shut off\" and don't move as fast as a lot of other people we know do in their relationships. \n\nAs far as I know he has only been in love once when he dated a girl from ages 16-20, and she really fucked him over. I personally have only really dated two other people and didn't say \"I love you\" when they said it to me I would just say \"I know.\" My boyfriend has told me thats what he tells girls when they say it to him as well.\n\nOur relationship is very satisfying and healthy. We have almost identical senses of humor, lot's of common interests, the sex is the best of my life, and have only been in 4 fights none of which ever turned into anything serious. \n\nI have known for along time now that I love him, but I now know that I am actually \"IN\" love with him. A couple of my close friends that know think I need to tell him. There have been a couple times where it's almost slipped out, but it never has. I think he has a right to know and it would probably make him happy, I also think that he does love me some what or probably wouldn't have wasted this much time at his age. Overall though I am terrified of getting his usual reply of \"I know\" or making our almost perfect relationship awkward. \n\nSo what do you think my fellow redditors?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been officially dating my boyfriend for 13 months now, we've been having sex for 10 months. Both of us are kind of \"emotionally shut off\" and don't move as fast as a lot of other people we know do in their relationships. \n\nAs far as I know he has only been in love once when he dated a girl from ages 16-20, and she really fucked him over. I personally have only really dated two other people and didn't say \"I love you\" when they said it to me I would just say \"I know.\" My boyfriend has told me thats what he tells girls when they say it to him as well.\n\nOur relationship is very satisfying and healthy. We have almost identical senses of humor, lot's of common interests, the sex is the best of my life, and have only been in 4 fights none of which ever turned into anything serious. \n\nI have known for along time now that I love him, but I now know that I am actually \"IN\" love with him. A couple of my close friends that know think I need to tell him. There have been a couple times where it's almost slipped out, but it never has. I think he has a right to know and it would probably make him happy, I also think that he does love me some what or probably wouldn't have wasted this much time at his age. Overall though I am terrified of getting his usual reply of \"I know\" or making our almost perfect relationship awkward. \n\nSo what do you think my fellow redditors?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been officially dating my boyfriend for 13 months now, we've been having sex for 10 months. Both of us are kind of \"emotionally shut off\" and don't move as fast as a lot of other people we know do in their relationships. \n\nAs far as I know he has only been in love once when he dated a girl from ages 16-20, and she really fucked him over. I personally have only really dated two other people and didn't say \"I love you\" when they said it to me I would just say \"I know.\" My boyfriend has told me thats what he tells girls when they say it to him as well.\n\nOur relationship is very satisfying and healthy. We have almost identical senses of humor, lot's of common interests, the sex is the best of my life, and have only been in 4 fights none of which ever turned into anything serious. \n\nI have known for along time now that I love him, but I now know that I am actually \"IN\" love with him. A couple of my close friends that know think I need to tell him. There have been a couple times where it's almost slipped out, but it never has. I think he has a right to know and it would probably make him happy, I also think that he does love me some what or probably wouldn't have wasted this much time at his age. Overall though I am terrified of getting his usual reply of \"I know\" or making our almost perfect relationship awkward. \n\nSo what do you think my fellow redditors?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been officially dating my boyfriend for 13 months now, we've been having sex for 10 months. Both of us are kind of \"emotionally shut off\" and don't move as fast as a lot of other people we know do in their relationships. \n\nAs far as I know he has only been in love once when he dated a girl from ages 16-20, and she really fucked him over. I personally have only really dated two other people and didn't say \"I love you\" when they said it to me I would just say \"I know.\" My boyfriend has told me thats what he tells girls when they say it to him as well.\n\nOur relationship is very satisfying and healthy. We have almost identical senses of humor, lot's of common interests, the sex is the best of my life, and have only been in 4 fights none of which ever turned into anything serious. \n\nI have known for along time now that I love him, but I now know that I am actually \"IN\" love with him. A couple of my close friends that know think I need to tell him. There have been a couple times where it's almost slipped out, but it never has. I think he has a right to know and it would probably make him happy, I also think that he does love me some what or probably wouldn't have wasted this much time at his age. Overall though I am terrified of getting his usual reply of \"I know\" or making our almost perfect relationship awkward. \n\nSo what do you think my fellow redditors?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been officially dating my boyfriend for 13 months now, we've been having sex for 10 months. Both of us are kind of \"emotionally shut off\" and don't move as fast as a lot of other people we know do in their relationships. \n\nAs far as I know he has only been in love once when he dated a girl from ages 16-20, and she really fucked him over. I personally have only really dated two other people and didn't say \"I love you\" when they said it to me I would just say \"I know.\" My boyfriend has told me thats what he tells girls when they say it to him as well.\n\nOur relationship is very satisfying and healthy. We have almost identical senses of humor, lot's of common interests, the sex is the best of my life, and have only been in 4 fights none of which ever turned into anything serious. \n\nI have known for along time now that I love him, but I now know that I am actually \"IN\" love with him. A couple of my close friends that know think I need to tell him. There have been a couple times where it's almost slipped out, but it never has. I think he has a right to know and it would probably make him happy, I also think that he does love me some what or probably wouldn't have wasted this much time at his age. Overall though I am terrified of getting his usual reply of \"I know\" or making our almost perfect relationship awkward. \n\nSo what do you think my fellow redditors?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been officially dating my boyfriend for 13 months now, we've been having sex for 10 months. Both of us are kind of \"emotionally shut off\" and don't move as fast as a lot of other people we know do in their relationships. \n\nAs far as I know he has only been in love once when he dated a girl from ages 16-20, and she really fucked him over. I personally have only really dated two other people and didn't say \"I love you\" when they said it to me I would just say \"I know.\" My boyfriend has told me thats what he tells girls when they say it to him as well.\n\nOur relationship is very satisfying and healthy. We have almost identical senses of humor, lot's of common interests, the sex is the best of my life, and have only been in 4 fights none of which ever turned into anything serious. \n\nI have known for along time now that I love him, but I now know that I am actually \"IN\" love with him. A couple of my close friends that know think I need to tell him. There have been a couple times where it's almost slipped out, but it never has. I think he has a right to know and it would probably make him happy, I also think that he does love me some what or probably wouldn't have wasted this much time at his age. Overall though I am terrified of getting his usual reply of \"I know\" or making our almost perfect relationship awkward. \n\nSo what do you think my fellow redditors?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok Reddit picture this; I work at Boston Market and although today wasn't a necessarily busy night we were still pretty busy for a Saturday night (Saturday night being one of our slower days), being as it was the end of a small rush we didn't have a ton of food left over that was ready to be thrown onto our line (the thing we serve the food from for those that don't know), but a guy comes through the drive-thru and orders for large sides of creamed spinach (16 oz each so 4lbs) well the way we receive our creamed spinach it comes in 2lb bags that we heat and put in a pot, normally taking about 20 minutes to heat up in our steam bath (really friggen hot water) but since we did it a little faster (*cough* microwave *cough*) it was only a 4 minute wait. That wasn't good enough. The guy pulls forward, waits about 30 seconds then comes storming in, yells at me asking how long it takes to cook spinach (Ok mabey not YELLING but none the less he was rude) So I went to the kitchen to get the rest of his spinach since he was only waiting on about 8 ounces of spinach at that point. Leaving the boring parts out, he got luke warm, not hot spinach, no buy one get one half off coupon and I would have been damned (did I get the usage of that right?) if he had gotten a thank you as he yes or even a smile. Felt so damned good."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok Reddit picture this; I work at Boston Market and although today wasn't a necessarily busy night we were still pretty busy for a Saturday night (Saturday night being one of our slower days), being as it was the end of a small rush we didn't have a ton of food left over that was ready to be thrown onto our line (the thing we serve the food from for those that don't know), but a guy comes through the drive-thru and orders for large sides of creamed spinach (16 oz each so 4lbs) well the way we receive our creamed spinach it comes in 2lb bags that we heat and put in a pot, normally taking about 20 minutes to heat up in our steam bath (really friggen hot water) but since we did it a little faster (*cough* microwave *cough*) it was only a 4 minute wait. That wasn't good enough. The guy pulls forward, waits about 30 seconds then comes storming in, yells at me asking how long it takes to cook spinach (Ok mabey not YELLING but none the less he was rude) So I went to the kitchen to get the rest of his spinach since he was only waiting on about 8 ounces of spinach at that point. Leaving the boring parts out, he got luke warm, not hot spinach, no buy one get one half off coupon and I would have been damned (did I get the usage of that right?) if he had gotten a thank you as he yes or even a smile. Felt so damned good."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok Reddit picture this; I work at Boston Market and although today wasn't a necessarily busy night we were still pretty busy for a Saturday night (Saturday night being one of our slower days), being as it was the end of a small rush we didn't have a ton of food left over that was ready to be thrown onto our line (the thing we serve the food from for those that don't know), but a guy comes through the drive-thru and orders for large sides of creamed spinach (16 oz each so 4lbs) well the way we receive our creamed spinach it comes in 2lb bags that we heat and put in a pot, normally taking about 20 minutes to heat up in our steam bath (really friggen hot water) but since we did it a little faster (*cough* microwave *cough*) it was only a 4 minute wait. That wasn't good enough. The guy pulls forward, waits about 30 seconds then comes storming in, yells at me asking how long it takes to cook spinach (Ok mabey not YELLING but none the less he was rude) So I went to the kitchen to get the rest of his spinach since he was only waiting on about 8 ounces of spinach at that point. Leaving the boring parts out, he got luke warm, not hot spinach, no buy one get one half off coupon and I would have been damned (did I get the usage of that right?) if he had gotten a thank you as he yes or even a smile. Felt so damned good."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok Reddit picture this; I work at Boston Market and although today wasn't a necessarily busy night we were still pretty busy for a Saturday night (Saturday night being one of our slower days), being as it was the end of a small rush we didn't have a ton of food left over that was ready to be thrown onto our line (the thing we serve the food from for those that don't know), but a guy comes through the drive-thru and orders for large sides of creamed spinach (16 oz each so 4lbs) well the way we receive our creamed spinach it comes in 2lb bags that we heat and put in a pot, normally taking about 20 minutes to heat up in our steam bath (really friggen hot water) but since we did it a little faster (*cough* microwave *cough*) it was only a 4 minute wait. That wasn't good enough. The guy pulls forward, waits about 30 seconds then comes storming in, yells at me asking how long it takes to cook spinach (Ok mabey not YELLING but none the less he was rude) So I went to the kitchen to get the rest of his spinach since he was only waiting on about 8 ounces of spinach at that point. Leaving the boring parts out, he got luke warm, not hot spinach, no buy one get one half off coupon and I would have been damned (did I get the usage of that right?) if he had gotten a thank you as he yes or even a smile. Felt so damned good."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok Reddit picture this; I work at Boston Market and although today wasn't a necessarily busy night we were still pretty busy for a Saturday night (Saturday night being one of our slower days), being as it was the end of a small rush we didn't have a ton of food left over that was ready to be thrown onto our line (the thing we serve the food from for those that don't know), but a guy comes through the drive-thru and orders for large sides of creamed spinach (16 oz each so 4lbs) well the way we receive our creamed spinach it comes in 2lb bags that we heat and put in a pot, normally taking about 20 minutes to heat up in our steam bath (really friggen hot water) but since we did it a little faster (*cough* microwave *cough*) it was only a 4 minute wait. That wasn't good enough. The guy pulls forward, waits about 30 seconds then comes storming in, yells at me asking how long it takes to cook spinach (Ok mabey not YELLING but none the less he was rude) So I went to the kitchen to get the rest of his spinach since he was only waiting on about 8 ounces of spinach at that point. Leaving the boring parts out, he got luke warm, not hot spinach, no buy one get one half off coupon and I would have been damned (did I get the usage of that right?) if he had gotten a thank you as he yes or even a smile. Felt so damned good."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok Reddit picture this; I work at Boston Market and although today wasn't a necessarily busy night we were still pretty busy for a Saturday night (Saturday night being one of our slower days), being as it was the end of a small rush we didn't have a ton of food left over that was ready to be thrown onto our line (the thing we serve the food from for those that don't know), but a guy comes through the drive-thru and orders for large sides of creamed spinach (16 oz each so 4lbs) well the way we receive our creamed spinach it comes in 2lb bags that we heat and put in a pot, normally taking about 20 minutes to heat up in our steam bath (really friggen hot water) but since we did it a little faster (*cough* microwave *cough*) it was only a 4 minute wait. That wasn't good enough. The guy pulls forward, waits about 30 seconds then comes storming in, yells at me asking how long it takes to cook spinach (Ok mabey not YELLING but none the less he was rude) So I went to the kitchen to get the rest of his spinach since he was only waiting on about 8 ounces of spinach at that point. Leaving the boring parts out, he got luke warm, not hot spinach, no buy one get one half off coupon and I would have been damned (did I get the usage of that right?) if he had gotten a thank you as he yes or even a smile. Felt so damned good."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There's no easy solution. You can't censor people because where does it stop? I'm so fed up with people on the internet that get to be so ignorant and hateful because they hide behind their computer screens. This all stems from using an app a few months back called \"iFunny\". The app, if you haven't used it, is an app where people can post funny pictures or gifs (mostly reposted from reddit) with the hopes of getting \"featured\". About 95% of the community are hateful immature teenagers who either don't fully understand the things they say or really don't care. Basically you get points for commenting and people vote on your comments, similar to up and down votes here on reddit. The top comment is almost ALWAYS someone putting down the OP, calling them gay, fag, retard, ect. \n\nFinally getting to the main point because i realize this is all over the place. The community on the app HATES all things Justin Bieber and One Direction. So I thought I'd find out why. So i uploaded a picture of Bieber (who I'm not a fan of but don't hate) and asked \"Why do you hate Justin Bieber?\" 57 COMMENTS IN A ROW SAID \"becuz he's a faggot.\" \"Because he's gay.\" \"He's a fag like you\"\n\nFOR FUCKSAKE. You just said, you hated someone for being gay. What the fuck? Why must all of these people be so hateful? I'm not a fan of JB, or 1D, nor am I gay but these people really get to me. I don't understand how in 2013 its still a thing we taunt, homosexuality. i cant even keep my thoughts straight on this because i'm so enraged.\n\nThanks for providing me a place to post. its night to have a semi-anon outlet to vent. I don't like to post rants on facebook/twitter"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There's no easy solution. You can't censor people because where does it stop? I'm so fed up with people on the internet that get to be so ignorant and hateful because they hide behind their computer screens. This all stems from using an app a few months back called \"iFunny\". The app, if you haven't used it, is an app where people can post funny pictures or gifs (mostly reposted from reddit) with the hopes of getting \"featured\". About 95% of the community are hateful immature teenagers who either don't fully understand the things they say or really don't care. Basically you get points for commenting and people vote on your comments, similar to up and down votes here on reddit. The top comment is almost ALWAYS someone putting down the OP, calling them gay, fag, retard, ect. \n\nFinally getting to the main point because i realize this is all over the place. The community on the app HATES all things Justin Bieber and One Direction. So I thought I'd find out why. So i uploaded a picture of Bieber (who I'm not a fan of but don't hate) and asked \"Why do you hate Justin Bieber?\" 57 COMMENTS IN A ROW SAID \"becuz he's a faggot.\" \"Because he's gay.\" \"He's a fag like you\"\n\nFOR FUCKSAKE. You just said, you hated someone for being gay. What the fuck? Why must all of these people be so hateful? I'm not a fan of JB, or 1D, nor am I gay but these people really get to me. I don't understand how in 2013 its still a thing we taunt, homosexuality. i cant even keep my thoughts straight on this because i'm so enraged.\n\nThanks for providing me a place to post. its night to have a semi-anon outlet to vent. I don't like to post rants on facebook/twitter"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There's no easy solution. You can't censor people because where does it stop? I'm so fed up with people on the internet that get to be so ignorant and hateful because they hide behind their computer screens. This all stems from using an app a few months back called \"iFunny\". The app, if you haven't used it, is an app where people can post funny pictures or gifs (mostly reposted from reddit) with the hopes of getting \"featured\". About 95% of the community are hateful immature teenagers who either don't fully understand the things they say or really don't care. Basically you get points for commenting and people vote on your comments, similar to up and down votes here on reddit. The top comment is almost ALWAYS someone putting down the OP, calling them gay, fag, retard, ect. \n\nFinally getting to the main point because i realize this is all over the place. The community on the app HATES all things Justin Bieber and One Direction. So I thought I'd find out why. So i uploaded a picture of Bieber (who I'm not a fan of but don't hate) and asked \"Why do you hate Justin Bieber?\" 57 COMMENTS IN A ROW SAID \"becuz he's a faggot.\" \"Because he's gay.\" \"He's a fag like you\"\n\nFOR FUCKSAKE. You just said, you hated someone for being gay. What the fuck? Why must all of these people be so hateful? I'm not a fan of JB, or 1D, nor am I gay but these people really get to me. I don't understand how in 2013 its still a thing we taunt, homosexuality. i cant even keep my thoughts straight on this because i'm so enraged.\n\nThanks for providing me a place to post. its night to have a semi-anon outlet to vent. I don't like to post rants on facebook/twitter"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There's no easy solution. You can't censor people because where does it stop? I'm so fed up with people on the internet that get to be so ignorant and hateful because they hide behind their computer screens. This all stems from using an app a few months back called \"iFunny\". The app, if you haven't used it, is an app where people can post funny pictures or gifs (mostly reposted from reddit) with the hopes of getting \"featured\". About 95% of the community are hateful immature teenagers who either don't fully understand the things they say or really don't care. Basically you get points for commenting and people vote on your comments, similar to up and down votes here on reddit. The top comment is almost ALWAYS someone putting down the OP, calling them gay, fag, retard, ect. \n\nFinally getting to the main point because i realize this is all over the place. The community on the app HATES all things Justin Bieber and One Direction. So I thought I'd find out why. So i uploaded a picture of Bieber (who I'm not a fan of but don't hate) and asked \"Why do you hate Justin Bieber?\" 57 COMMENTS IN A ROW SAID \"becuz he's a faggot.\" \"Because he's gay.\" \"He's a fag like you\"\n\nFOR FUCKSAKE. You just said, you hated someone for being gay. What the fuck? Why must all of these people be so hateful? I'm not a fan of JB, or 1D, nor am I gay but these people really get to me. I don't understand how in 2013 its still a thing we taunt, homosexuality. i cant even keep my thoughts straight on this because i'm so enraged.\n\nThanks for providing me a place to post. its night to have a semi-anon outlet to vent. I don't like to post rants on facebook/twitter"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There's no easy solution. You can't censor people because where does it stop? I'm so fed up with people on the internet that get to be so ignorant and hateful because they hide behind their computer screens. This all stems from using an app a few months back called \"iFunny\". The app, if you haven't used it, is an app where people can post funny pictures or gifs (mostly reposted from reddit) with the hopes of getting \"featured\". About 95% of the community are hateful immature teenagers who either don't fully understand the things they say or really don't care. Basically you get points for commenting and people vote on your comments, similar to up and down votes here on reddit. The top comment is almost ALWAYS someone putting down the OP, calling them gay, fag, retard, ect. \n\nFinally getting to the main point because i realize this is all over the place. The community on the app HATES all things Justin Bieber and One Direction. So I thought I'd find out why. So i uploaded a picture of Bieber (who I'm not a fan of but don't hate) and asked \"Why do you hate Justin Bieber?\" 57 COMMENTS IN A ROW SAID \"becuz he's a faggot.\" \"Because he's gay.\" \"He's a fag like you\"\n\nFOR FUCKSAKE. You just said, you hated someone for being gay. What the fuck? Why must all of these people be so hateful? I'm not a fan of JB, or 1D, nor am I gay but these people really get to me. I don't understand how in 2013 its still a thing we taunt, homosexuality. i cant even keep my thoughts straight on this because i'm so enraged.\n\nThanks for providing me a place to post. its night to have a semi-anon outlet to vent. I don't like to post rants on facebook/twitter"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There's no easy solution. You can't censor people because where does it stop? I'm so fed up with people on the internet that get to be so ignorant and hateful because they hide behind their computer screens. This all stems from using an app a few months back called \"iFunny\". The app, if you haven't used it, is an app where people can post funny pictures or gifs (mostly reposted from reddit) with the hopes of getting \"featured\". About 95% of the community are hateful immature teenagers who either don't fully understand the things they say or really don't care. Basically you get points for commenting and people vote on your comments, similar to up and down votes here on reddit. The top comment is almost ALWAYS someone putting down the OP, calling them gay, fag, retard, ect. \n\nFinally getting to the main point because i realize this is all over the place. The community on the app HATES all things Justin Bieber and One Direction. So I thought I'd find out why. So i uploaded a picture of Bieber (who I'm not a fan of but don't hate) and asked \"Why do you hate Justin Bieber?\" 57 COMMENTS IN A ROW SAID \"becuz he's a faggot.\" \"Because he's gay.\" \"He's a fag like you\"\n\nFOR FUCKSAKE. You just said, you hated someone for being gay. What the fuck? Why must all of these people be so hateful? I'm not a fan of JB, or 1D, nor am I gay but these people really get to me. I don't understand how in 2013 its still a thing we taunt, homosexuality. i cant even keep my thoughts straight on this because i'm so enraged.\n\nThanks for providing me a place to post. its night to have a semi-anon outlet to vent. I don't like to post rants on facebook/twitter"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been hurt every time. Every girlfriend i have ever had has found some way to scare me. I always feel worse afterwards even after ive \"moved on\". But im a very relational person. Ive been single for over 3 years mostly because i am horrified of getting crushed again but i am so incredibly lonely. I just want someone in my life but idk what to do. I found a girl i like a lot but i have no idea if the feelings are the same and of course my luck would have it that if anything did develop it would be long distance. Im to the point of being desperate. I dont want to just shoot at everything that pops up on my radar. But i dont know what else there is. Any suggestion or criticism is welcome"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been hurt every time. Every girlfriend i have ever had has found some way to scare me. I always feel worse afterwards even after ive \"moved on\". But im a very relational person. Ive been single for over 3 years mostly because i am horrified of getting crushed again but i am so incredibly lonely. I just want someone in my life but idk what to do. I found a girl i like a lot but i have no idea if the feelings are the same and of course my luck would have it that if anything did develop it would be long distance. Im to the point of being desperate. I dont want to just shoot at everything that pops up on my radar. But i dont know what else there is. Any suggestion or criticism is welcome"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been hurt every time. Every girlfriend i have ever had has found some way to scare me. I always feel worse afterwards even after ive \"moved on\". But im a very relational person. Ive been single for over 3 years mostly because i am horrified of getting crushed again but i am so incredibly lonely. I just want someone in my life but idk what to do. I found a girl i like a lot but i have no idea if the feelings are the same and of course my luck would have it that if anything did develop it would be long distance. Im to the point of being desperate. I dont want to just shoot at everything that pops up on my radar. But i dont know what else there is. Any suggestion or criticism is welcome"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been hurt every time. Every girlfriend i have ever had has found some way to scare me. I always feel worse afterwards even after ive \"moved on\". But im a very relational person. Ive been single for over 3 years mostly because i am horrified of getting crushed again but i am so incredibly lonely. I just want someone in my life but idk what to do. I found a girl i like a lot but i have no idea if the feelings are the same and of course my luck would have it that if anything did develop it would be long distance. Im to the point of being desperate. I dont want to just shoot at everything that pops up on my radar. But i dont know what else there is. Any suggestion or criticism is welcome"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been hurt every time. Every girlfriend i have ever had has found some way to scare me. I always feel worse afterwards even after ive \"moved on\". But im a very relational person. Ive been single for over 3 years mostly because i am horrified of getting crushed again but i am so incredibly lonely. I just want someone in my life but idk what to do. I found a girl i like a lot but i have no idea if the feelings are the same and of course my luck would have it that if anything did develop it would be long distance. Im to the point of being desperate. I dont want to just shoot at everything that pops up on my radar. But i dont know what else there is. Any suggestion or criticism is welcome"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been hurt every time. Every girlfriend i have ever had has found some way to scare me. I always feel worse afterwards even after ive \"moved on\". But im a very relational person. Ive been single for over 3 years mostly because i am horrified of getting crushed again but i am so incredibly lonely. I just want someone in my life but idk what to do. I found a girl i like a lot but i have no idea if the feelings are the same and of course my luck would have it that if anything did develop it would be long distance. Im to the point of being desperate. I dont want to just shoot at everything that pops up on my radar. But i dont know what else there is. Any suggestion or criticism is welcome"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend got upset with me today, saying I start a lot of arguments and he feels like I'm just picking fights. He seemed really fed up with it and he's a very patient person usually, so it scares me when he gets like that. He got upset about this before, a year or two ago, and I thought I got better at it. I had been truly convinced at that time that he was going to leave me if we kept fighting, so every time he did something that upset me, I tried to look at him and think about my love for him and ask myself if it was worth jeopardizing our entire relationship over. It was pretty effective for the most part, even if I constantly feared losing him, but eventually I started to realize that he had never planned to leave me and maybe I got too comfortable again. I don't know. It's just so unnerving to be told I pick fights when I hate fighting as much as he does. I'm afraid something's wrong with me. I've heard people talk about their exes, saying the girls were just in it to cause drama and be manipulative. What if he ends up feeling that way about me? We've been together for 7 years, and he's the most patient and understanding person I've ever met. We've told each other we'll be together for the rest of our lives, but I'm so scared I'll ruin it and chase away the best thing that ever happened to me. What do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend got upset with me today, saying I start a lot of arguments and he feels like I'm just picking fights. He seemed really fed up with it and he's a very patient person usually, so it scares me when he gets like that. He got upset about this before, a year or two ago, and I thought I got better at it. I had been truly convinced at that time that he was going to leave me if we kept fighting, so every time he did something that upset me, I tried to look at him and think about my love for him and ask myself if it was worth jeopardizing our entire relationship over. It was pretty effective for the most part, even if I constantly feared losing him, but eventually I started to realize that he had never planned to leave me and maybe I got too comfortable again. I don't know. It's just so unnerving to be told I pick fights when I hate fighting as much as he does. I'm afraid something's wrong with me. I've heard people talk about their exes, saying the girls were just in it to cause drama and be manipulative. What if he ends up feeling that way about me? We've been together for 7 years, and he's the most patient and understanding person I've ever met. We've told each other we'll be together for the rest of our lives, but I'm so scared I'll ruin it and chase away the best thing that ever happened to me. What do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend got upset with me today, saying I start a lot of arguments and he feels like I'm just picking fights. He seemed really fed up with it and he's a very patient person usually, so it scares me when he gets like that. He got upset about this before, a year or two ago, and I thought I got better at it. I had been truly convinced at that time that he was going to leave me if we kept fighting, so every time he did something that upset me, I tried to look at him and think about my love for him and ask myself if it was worth jeopardizing our entire relationship over. It was pretty effective for the most part, even if I constantly feared losing him, but eventually I started to realize that he had never planned to leave me and maybe I got too comfortable again. I don't know. It's just so unnerving to be told I pick fights when I hate fighting as much as he does. I'm afraid something's wrong with me. I've heard people talk about their exes, saying the girls were just in it to cause drama and be manipulative. What if he ends up feeling that way about me? We've been together for 7 years, and he's the most patient and understanding person I've ever met. We've told each other we'll be together for the rest of our lives, but I'm so scared I'll ruin it and chase away the best thing that ever happened to me. What do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend got upset with me today, saying I start a lot of arguments and he feels like I'm just picking fights. He seemed really fed up with it and he's a very patient person usually, so it scares me when he gets like that. He got upset about this before, a year or two ago, and I thought I got better at it. I had been truly convinced at that time that he was going to leave me if we kept fighting, so every time he did something that upset me, I tried to look at him and think about my love for him and ask myself if it was worth jeopardizing our entire relationship over. It was pretty effective for the most part, even if I constantly feared losing him, but eventually I started to realize that he had never planned to leave me and maybe I got too comfortable again. I don't know. It's just so unnerving to be told I pick fights when I hate fighting as much as he does. I'm afraid something's wrong with me. I've heard people talk about their exes, saying the girls were just in it to cause drama and be manipulative. What if he ends up feeling that way about me? We've been together for 7 years, and he's the most patient and understanding person I've ever met. We've told each other we'll be together for the rest of our lives, but I'm so scared I'll ruin it and chase away the best thing that ever happened to me. What do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend got upset with me today, saying I start a lot of arguments and he feels like I'm just picking fights. He seemed really fed up with it and he's a very patient person usually, so it scares me when he gets like that. He got upset about this before, a year or two ago, and I thought I got better at it. I had been truly convinced at that time that he was going to leave me if we kept fighting, so every time he did something that upset me, I tried to look at him and think about my love for him and ask myself if it was worth jeopardizing our entire relationship over. It was pretty effective for the most part, even if I constantly feared losing him, but eventually I started to realize that he had never planned to leave me and maybe I got too comfortable again. I don't know. It's just so unnerving to be told I pick fights when I hate fighting as much as he does. I'm afraid something's wrong with me. I've heard people talk about their exes, saying the girls were just in it to cause drama and be manipulative. What if he ends up feeling that way about me? We've been together for 7 years, and he's the most patient and understanding person I've ever met. We've told each other we'll be together for the rest of our lives, but I'm so scared I'll ruin it and chase away the best thing that ever happened to me. What do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend got upset with me today, saying I start a lot of arguments and he feels like I'm just picking fights. He seemed really fed up with it and he's a very patient person usually, so it scares me when he gets like that. He got upset about this before, a year or two ago, and I thought I got better at it. I had been truly convinced at that time that he was going to leave me if we kept fighting, so every time he did something that upset me, I tried to look at him and think about my love for him and ask myself if it was worth jeopardizing our entire relationship over. It was pretty effective for the most part, even if I constantly feared losing him, but eventually I started to realize that he had never planned to leave me and maybe I got too comfortable again. I don't know. It's just so unnerving to be told I pick fights when I hate fighting as much as he does. I'm afraid something's wrong with me. I've heard people talk about their exes, saying the girls were just in it to cause drama and be manipulative. What if he ends up feeling that way about me? We've been together for 7 years, and he's the most patient and understanding person I've ever met. We've told each other we'll be together for the rest of our lives, but I'm so scared I'll ruin it and chase away the best thing that ever happened to me. What do I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Exgirlfriend left 1 week after my daughter was born. Moved about 30 minutes away out of the city and living on the first floor of an apartment that her male coworker's grandmother owns and happens to live on the third floor. After saying that they were just friends and saying that there is no title, but always hanging out in his room, bringing him around. Finally made it facebook official and completely blocked me on everything and have no way of contacting her, as her phone got shut off because she barely works after the birth. \n\nWe've only been apart for a month today and I really don't know how to feel because she always said she misses me but then the next day she hates me and tells me to fuck off. She hides everything on her facebook from everyone because what I assume is that everyone is going to judge her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Exgirlfriend left 1 week after my daughter was born. Moved about 30 minutes away out of the city and living on the first floor of an apartment that her male coworker's grandmother owns and happens to live on the third floor. After saying that they were just friends and saying that there is no title, but always hanging out in his room, bringing him around. Finally made it facebook official and completely blocked me on everything and have no way of contacting her, as her phone got shut off because she barely works after the birth. \n\nWe've only been apart for a month today and I really don't know how to feel because she always said she misses me but then the next day she hates me and tells me to fuck off. She hides everything on her facebook from everyone because what I assume is that everyone is going to judge her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Exgirlfriend left 1 week after my daughter was born. Moved about 30 minutes away out of the city and living on the first floor of an apartment that her male coworker's grandmother owns and happens to live on the third floor. After saying that they were just friends and saying that there is no title, but always hanging out in his room, bringing him around. Finally made it facebook official and completely blocked me on everything and have no way of contacting her, as her phone got shut off because she barely works after the birth. \n\nWe've only been apart for a month today and I really don't know how to feel because she always said she misses me but then the next day she hates me and tells me to fuck off. She hides everything on her facebook from everyone because what I assume is that everyone is going to judge her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Exgirlfriend left 1 week after my daughter was born. Moved about 30 minutes away out of the city and living on the first floor of an apartment that her male coworker's grandmother owns and happens to live on the third floor. After saying that they were just friends and saying that there is no title, but always hanging out in his room, bringing him around. Finally made it facebook official and completely blocked me on everything and have no way of contacting her, as her phone got shut off because she barely works after the birth. \n\nWe've only been apart for a month today and I really don't know how to feel because she always said she misses me but then the next day she hates me and tells me to fuck off. She hides everything on her facebook from everyone because what I assume is that everyone is going to judge her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Exgirlfriend left 1 week after my daughter was born. Moved about 30 minutes away out of the city and living on the first floor of an apartment that her male coworker's grandmother owns and happens to live on the third floor. After saying that they were just friends and saying that there is no title, but always hanging out in his room, bringing him around. Finally made it facebook official and completely blocked me on everything and have no way of contacting her, as her phone got shut off because she barely works after the birth. \n\nWe've only been apart for a month today and I really don't know how to feel because she always said she misses me but then the next day she hates me and tells me to fuck off. She hides everything on her facebook from everyone because what I assume is that everyone is going to judge her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Exgirlfriend left 1 week after my daughter was born. Moved about 30 minutes away out of the city and living on the first floor of an apartment that her male coworker's grandmother owns and happens to live on the third floor. After saying that they were just friends and saying that there is no title, but always hanging out in his room, bringing him around. Finally made it facebook official and completely blocked me on everything and have no way of contacting her, as her phone got shut off because she barely works after the birth. \n\nWe've only been apart for a month today and I really don't know how to feel because she always said she misses me but then the next day she hates me and tells me to fuck off. She hides everything on her facebook from everyone because what I assume is that everyone is going to judge her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I will be changing some specifics for anonymity sake. My wife, Hannah, and I have a relatively happy marriage. There are definitely ups and downs, different sex drives and interests, but overall we complement each other well and genuinely love each other. But, there is always a \"but\", recently I can't keep my mind off my old flame from highschool/college, I'll call her \"X\". \n\nX and I were extremely compatible in all the ways my wife and I are not, but the relationship did not work out, mostly due to me. I didn't cheat or anything, I just thought I was hot shit and didn't put in the effort or the care necessary to maintain the relationship. Shortly after I started dating my wife, about two years after X and I had parted, X tells me she never stopped loving me. At this point I had grown up a bit, but I still handled her confession dismissively. I didn't love her anymore, and I told her I had moved on. What I said wasn't wrong or cruel, but it was cold, and I broke her heart. I have tremendous guilt for that to this day.\n\nNow she is just constantly in my thoughts, and I don't know if I am projecting my frustrations in my marriage onto her, romanticizing what was. Maybe the guilt is just surfacing in this way. I Love my wife tremendously, she will someday be the mother to my children. I not only love her I admire her, she drives me to be a better man and I would die for her. But there is a part of me that is unfulfilled, and I fear that it is planting the seeds of infidelity. I need to know how to combat this and get over these thoughts and emotions."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I will be changing some specifics for anonymity sake. My wife, Hannah, and I have a relatively happy marriage. There are definitely ups and downs, different sex drives and interests, but overall we complement each other well and genuinely love each other. But, there is always a \"but\", recently I can't keep my mind off my old flame from highschool/college, I'll call her \"X\". \n\nX and I were extremely compatible in all the ways my wife and I are not, but the relationship did not work out, mostly due to me. I didn't cheat or anything, I just thought I was hot shit and didn't put in the effort or the care necessary to maintain the relationship. Shortly after I started dating my wife, about two years after X and I had parted, X tells me she never stopped loving me. At this point I had grown up a bit, but I still handled her confession dismissively. I didn't love her anymore, and I told her I had moved on. What I said wasn't wrong or cruel, but it was cold, and I broke her heart. I have tremendous guilt for that to this day.\n\nNow she is just constantly in my thoughts, and I don't know if I am projecting my frustrations in my marriage onto her, romanticizing what was. Maybe the guilt is just surfacing in this way. I Love my wife tremendously, she will someday be the mother to my children. I not only love her I admire her, she drives me to be a better man and I would die for her. But there is a part of me that is unfulfilled, and I fear that it is planting the seeds of infidelity. I need to know how to combat this and get over these thoughts and emotions."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I will be changing some specifics for anonymity sake. My wife, Hannah, and I have a relatively happy marriage. There are definitely ups and downs, different sex drives and interests, but overall we complement each other well and genuinely love each other. But, there is always a \"but\", recently I can't keep my mind off my old flame from highschool/college, I'll call her \"X\". \n\nX and I were extremely compatible in all the ways my wife and I are not, but the relationship did not work out, mostly due to me. I didn't cheat or anything, I just thought I was hot shit and didn't put in the effort or the care necessary to maintain the relationship. Shortly after I started dating my wife, about two years after X and I had parted, X tells me she never stopped loving me. At this point I had grown up a bit, but I still handled her confession dismissively. I didn't love her anymore, and I told her I had moved on. What I said wasn't wrong or cruel, but it was cold, and I broke her heart. I have tremendous guilt for that to this day.\n\nNow she is just constantly in my thoughts, and I don't know if I am projecting my frustrations in my marriage onto her, romanticizing what was. Maybe the guilt is just surfacing in this way. I Love my wife tremendously, she will someday be the mother to my children. I not only love her I admire her, she drives me to be a better man and I would die for her. But there is a part of me that is unfulfilled, and I fear that it is planting the seeds of infidelity. I need to know how to combat this and get over these thoughts and emotions."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I will be changing some specifics for anonymity sake. My wife, Hannah, and I have a relatively happy marriage. There are definitely ups and downs, different sex drives and interests, but overall we complement each other well and genuinely love each other. But, there is always a \"but\", recently I can't keep my mind off my old flame from highschool/college, I'll call her \"X\". \n\nX and I were extremely compatible in all the ways my wife and I are not, but the relationship did not work out, mostly due to me. I didn't cheat or anything, I just thought I was hot shit and didn't put in the effort or the care necessary to maintain the relationship. Shortly after I started dating my wife, about two years after X and I had parted, X tells me she never stopped loving me. At this point I had grown up a bit, but I still handled her confession dismissively. I didn't love her anymore, and I told her I had moved on. What I said wasn't wrong or cruel, but it was cold, and I broke her heart. I have tremendous guilt for that to this day.\n\nNow she is just constantly in my thoughts, and I don't know if I am projecting my frustrations in my marriage onto her, romanticizing what was. Maybe the guilt is just surfacing in this way. I Love my wife tremendously, she will someday be the mother to my children. I not only love her I admire her, she drives me to be a better man and I would die for her. But there is a part of me that is unfulfilled, and I fear that it is planting the seeds of infidelity. I need to know how to combat this and get over these thoughts and emotions."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I will be changing some specifics for anonymity sake. My wife, Hannah, and I have a relatively happy marriage. There are definitely ups and downs, different sex drives and interests, but overall we complement each other well and genuinely love each other. But, there is always a \"but\", recently I can't keep my mind off my old flame from highschool/college, I'll call her \"X\". \n\nX and I were extremely compatible in all the ways my wife and I are not, but the relationship did not work out, mostly due to me. I didn't cheat or anything, I just thought I was hot shit and didn't put in the effort or the care necessary to maintain the relationship. Shortly after I started dating my wife, about two years after X and I had parted, X tells me she never stopped loving me. At this point I had grown up a bit, but I still handled her confession dismissively. I didn't love her anymore, and I told her I had moved on. What I said wasn't wrong or cruel, but it was cold, and I broke her heart. I have tremendous guilt for that to this day.\n\nNow she is just constantly in my thoughts, and I don't know if I am projecting my frustrations in my marriage onto her, romanticizing what was. Maybe the guilt is just surfacing in this way. I Love my wife tremendously, she will someday be the mother to my children. I not only love her I admire her, she drives me to be a better man and I would die for her. But there is a part of me that is unfulfilled, and I fear that it is planting the seeds of infidelity. I need to know how to combat this and get over these thoughts and emotions."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I will be changing some specifics for anonymity sake. My wife, Hannah, and I have a relatively happy marriage. There are definitely ups and downs, different sex drives and interests, but overall we complement each other well and genuinely love each other. But, there is always a \"but\", recently I can't keep my mind off my old flame from highschool/college, I'll call her \"X\". \n\nX and I were extremely compatible in all the ways my wife and I are not, but the relationship did not work out, mostly due to me. I didn't cheat or anything, I just thought I was hot shit and didn't put in the effort or the care necessary to maintain the relationship. Shortly after I started dating my wife, about two years after X and I had parted, X tells me she never stopped loving me. At this point I had grown up a bit, but I still handled her confession dismissively. I didn't love her anymore, and I told her I had moved on. What I said wasn't wrong or cruel, but it was cold, and I broke her heart. I have tremendous guilt for that to this day.\n\nNow she is just constantly in my thoughts, and I don't know if I am projecting my frustrations in my marriage onto her, romanticizing what was. Maybe the guilt is just surfacing in this way. I Love my wife tremendously, she will someday be the mother to my children. I not only love her I admire her, she drives me to be a better man and I would die for her. But there is a part of me that is unfulfilled, and I fear that it is planting the seeds of infidelity. I need to know how to combat this and get over these thoughts and emotions."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So last February I had sex with a girl. I'm 16 and she is 17. The whole process was surprisingly much more smooth and mature than I thought it would be. We had met online so we really don't have any basis for anything more than just sex which is the essence of my problem. After we finished, I decided to text because I felt like the whole thing was too mechanical and she said that it was cool. For the past week I've been thinking about asking her to go to the movies with me but I don't know how she'll respond and I don't know if the desire to ask her out is stemmed from me wanting more from her. I don't think I necessarily want her to be my girlfriend but I think I might like her in that way (sorry if that's confusing). So should I ask her or just keep things like they are?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So last February I had sex with a girl. I'm 16 and she is 17. The whole process was surprisingly much more smooth and mature than I thought it would be. We had met online so we really don't have any basis for anything more than just sex which is the essence of my problem. After we finished, I decided to text because I felt like the whole thing was too mechanical and she said that it was cool. For the past week I've been thinking about asking her to go to the movies with me but I don't know how she'll respond and I don't know if the desire to ask her out is stemmed from me wanting more from her. I don't think I necessarily want her to be my girlfriend but I think I might like her in that way (sorry if that's confusing). So should I ask her or just keep things like they are?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So last February I had sex with a girl. I'm 16 and she is 17. The whole process was surprisingly much more smooth and mature than I thought it would be. We had met online so we really don't have any basis for anything more than just sex which is the essence of my problem. After we finished, I decided to text because I felt like the whole thing was too mechanical and she said that it was cool. For the past week I've been thinking about asking her to go to the movies with me but I don't know how she'll respond and I don't know if the desire to ask her out is stemmed from me wanting more from her. I don't think I necessarily want her to be my girlfriend but I think I might like her in that way (sorry if that's confusing). So should I ask her or just keep things like they are?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So last February I had sex with a girl. I'm 16 and she is 17. The whole process was surprisingly much more smooth and mature than I thought it would be. We had met online so we really don't have any basis for anything more than just sex which is the essence of my problem. After we finished, I decided to text because I felt like the whole thing was too mechanical and she said that it was cool. For the past week I've been thinking about asking her to go to the movies with me but I don't know how she'll respond and I don't know if the desire to ask her out is stemmed from me wanting more from her. I don't think I necessarily want her to be my girlfriend but I think I might like her in that way (sorry if that's confusing). So should I ask her or just keep things like they are?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So last February I had sex with a girl. I'm 16 and she is 17. The whole process was surprisingly much more smooth and mature than I thought it would be. We had met online so we really don't have any basis for anything more than just sex which is the essence of my problem. After we finished, I decided to text because I felt like the whole thing was too mechanical and she said that it was cool. For the past week I've been thinking about asking her to go to the movies with me but I don't know how she'll respond and I don't know if the desire to ask her out is stemmed from me wanting more from her. I don't think I necessarily want her to be my girlfriend but I think I might like her in that way (sorry if that's confusing). So should I ask her or just keep things like they are?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So last February I had sex with a girl. I'm 16 and she is 17. The whole process was surprisingly much more smooth and mature than I thought it would be. We had met online so we really don't have any basis for anything more than just sex which is the essence of my problem. After we finished, I decided to text because I felt like the whole thing was too mechanical and she said that it was cool. For the past week I've been thinking about asking her to go to the movies with me but I don't know how she'll respond and I don't know if the desire to ask her out is stemmed from me wanting more from her. I don't think I necessarily want her to be my girlfriend but I think I might like her in that way (sorry if that's confusing). So should I ask her or just keep things like they are?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 19, in a relationship with a girl, 18, for 6 months now. We've had ups and downs as any relationship but we've always come through so strong, been so loved-up and been so damn close for those 6 months.\n\nOn Monday, we started the day together bickering a bit and when we got to our friend's party we were arguing a lot and it reached a boiling point. Some guy kept hitting on her the whole night and had tried it on earlier but she pushed him away, and when we were arguing he came up and tried to kiss her, but she didnt notice. I gently shoved him off, and she flipped and left the party early, and told me to leave her alone.\n\nI left it until Wednesday night, and texted her asking how she was and that I'm prepared to give her as much space as she needs. She said she has exams for the next 2 weeks and doesn't want to deal with it now, and I said that was fine.\n\nToday, she texts me saying \"Hey, sorry but im gunna take us off facebook, im not doing this to hurt you I just wanna be by myself for a bit and think about myself\". When I asked to speak about it, she said \"But there's so much more to it than having a quick chat and sorting it!\"\n\nIn 2 weeks her exams end, and I guess I can hold on until then. However, the day after her exams end she's busy for 2 days, then the day after it's her birthday, then her best friend's birthday, then 2 days she's busy, then my prom and then she's on a girl's holiday to a greek island and if we're not sorted by then, then I'm scared she'll cheat on me.\n\nI don't know where I stand, I don't know if we're broken up (though she's not listed as single), I don't know what to do. We were so close, she wanted a future (and to stay together through uni).\n\nAny advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 19, in a relationship with a girl, 18, for 6 months now. We've had ups and downs as any relationship but we've always come through so strong, been so loved-up and been so damn close for those 6 months.\n\nOn Monday, we started the day together bickering a bit and when we got to our friend's party we were arguing a lot and it reached a boiling point. Some guy kept hitting on her the whole night and had tried it on earlier but she pushed him away, and when we were arguing he came up and tried to kiss her, but she didnt notice. I gently shoved him off, and she flipped and left the party early, and told me to leave her alone.\n\nI left it until Wednesday night, and texted her asking how she was and that I'm prepared to give her as much space as she needs. She said she has exams for the next 2 weeks and doesn't want to deal with it now, and I said that was fine.\n\nToday, she texts me saying \"Hey, sorry but im gunna take us off facebook, im not doing this to hurt you I just wanna be by myself for a bit and think about myself\". When I asked to speak about it, she said \"But there's so much more to it than having a quick chat and sorting it!\"\n\nIn 2 weeks her exams end, and I guess I can hold on until then. However, the day after her exams end she's busy for 2 days, then the day after it's her birthday, then her best friend's birthday, then 2 days she's busy, then my prom and then she's on a girl's holiday to a greek island and if we're not sorted by then, then I'm scared she'll cheat on me.\n\nI don't know where I stand, I don't know if we're broken up (though she's not listed as single), I don't know what to do. We were so close, she wanted a future (and to stay together through uni).\n\nAny advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 19, in a relationship with a girl, 18, for 6 months now. We've had ups and downs as any relationship but we've always come through so strong, been so loved-up and been so damn close for those 6 months.\n\nOn Monday, we started the day together bickering a bit and when we got to our friend's party we were arguing a lot and it reached a boiling point. Some guy kept hitting on her the whole night and had tried it on earlier but she pushed him away, and when we were arguing he came up and tried to kiss her, but she didnt notice. I gently shoved him off, and she flipped and left the party early, and told me to leave her alone.\n\nI left it until Wednesday night, and texted her asking how she was and that I'm prepared to give her as much space as she needs. She said she has exams for the next 2 weeks and doesn't want to deal with it now, and I said that was fine.\n\nToday, she texts me saying \"Hey, sorry but im gunna take us off facebook, im not doing this to hurt you I just wanna be by myself for a bit and think about myself\". When I asked to speak about it, she said \"But there's so much more to it than having a quick chat and sorting it!\"\n\nIn 2 weeks her exams end, and I guess I can hold on until then. However, the day after her exams end she's busy for 2 days, then the day after it's her birthday, then her best friend's birthday, then 2 days she's busy, then my prom and then she's on a girl's holiday to a greek island and if we're not sorted by then, then I'm scared she'll cheat on me.\n\nI don't know where I stand, I don't know if we're broken up (though she's not listed as single), I don't know what to do. We were so close, she wanted a future (and to stay together through uni).\n\nAny advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 19, in a relationship with a girl, 18, for 6 months now. We've had ups and downs as any relationship but we've always come through so strong, been so loved-up and been so damn close for those 6 months.\n\nOn Monday, we started the day together bickering a bit and when we got to our friend's party we were arguing a lot and it reached a boiling point. Some guy kept hitting on her the whole night and had tried it on earlier but she pushed him away, and when we were arguing he came up and tried to kiss her, but she didnt notice. I gently shoved him off, and she flipped and left the party early, and told me to leave her alone.\n\nI left it until Wednesday night, and texted her asking how she was and that I'm prepared to give her as much space as she needs. She said she has exams for the next 2 weeks and doesn't want to deal with it now, and I said that was fine.\n\nToday, she texts me saying \"Hey, sorry but im gunna take us off facebook, im not doing this to hurt you I just wanna be by myself for a bit and think about myself\". When I asked to speak about it, she said \"But there's so much more to it than having a quick chat and sorting it!\"\n\nIn 2 weeks her exams end, and I guess I can hold on until then. However, the day after her exams end she's busy for 2 days, then the day after it's her birthday, then her best friend's birthday, then 2 days she's busy, then my prom and then she's on a girl's holiday to a greek island and if we're not sorted by then, then I'm scared she'll cheat on me.\n\nI don't know where I stand, I don't know if we're broken up (though she's not listed as single), I don't know what to do. We were so close, she wanted a future (and to stay together through uni).\n\nAny advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 19, in a relationship with a girl, 18, for 6 months now. We've had ups and downs as any relationship but we've always come through so strong, been so loved-up and been so damn close for those 6 months.\n\nOn Monday, we started the day together bickering a bit and when we got to our friend's party we were arguing a lot and it reached a boiling point. Some guy kept hitting on her the whole night and had tried it on earlier but she pushed him away, and when we were arguing he came up and tried to kiss her, but she didnt notice. I gently shoved him off, and she flipped and left the party early, and told me to leave her alone.\n\nI left it until Wednesday night, and texted her asking how she was and that I'm prepared to give her as much space as she needs. She said she has exams for the next 2 weeks and doesn't want to deal with it now, and I said that was fine.\n\nToday, she texts me saying \"Hey, sorry but im gunna take us off facebook, im not doing this to hurt you I just wanna be by myself for a bit and think about myself\". When I asked to speak about it, she said \"But there's so much more to it than having a quick chat and sorting it!\"\n\nIn 2 weeks her exams end, and I guess I can hold on until then. However, the day after her exams end she's busy for 2 days, then the day after it's her birthday, then her best friend's birthday, then 2 days she's busy, then my prom and then she's on a girl's holiday to a greek island and if we're not sorted by then, then I'm scared she'll cheat on me.\n\nI don't know where I stand, I don't know if we're broken up (though she's not listed as single), I don't know what to do. We were so close, she wanted a future (and to stay together through uni).\n\nAny advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 19, in a relationship with a girl, 18, for 6 months now. We've had ups and downs as any relationship but we've always come through so strong, been so loved-up and been so damn close for those 6 months.\n\nOn Monday, we started the day together bickering a bit and when we got to our friend's party we were arguing a lot and it reached a boiling point. Some guy kept hitting on her the whole night and had tried it on earlier but she pushed him away, and when we were arguing he came up and tried to kiss her, but she didnt notice. I gently shoved him off, and she flipped and left the party early, and told me to leave her alone.\n\nI left it until Wednesday night, and texted her asking how she was and that I'm prepared to give her as much space as she needs. She said she has exams for the next 2 weeks and doesn't want to deal with it now, and I said that was fine.\n\nToday, she texts me saying \"Hey, sorry but im gunna take us off facebook, im not doing this to hurt you I just wanna be by myself for a bit and think about myself\". When I asked to speak about it, she said \"But there's so much more to it than having a quick chat and sorting it!\"\n\nIn 2 weeks her exams end, and I guess I can hold on until then. However, the day after her exams end she's busy for 2 days, then the day after it's her birthday, then her best friend's birthday, then 2 days she's busy, then my prom and then she's on a girl's holiday to a greek island and if we're not sorted by then, then I'm scared she'll cheat on me.\n\nI don't know where I stand, I don't know if we're broken up (though she's not listed as single), I don't know what to do. We were so close, she wanted a future (and to stay together through uni).\n\nAny advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been seeing/talking to this girl for roughly a year; we knew each other well a year prior to that. I've casually brought up the idea of sex a handful of times, and each time, he's rebutted that she's simply not ready yet. How much longer do I have to wait? Is it wrong to not want to continue the relationship if after a year, she's still not comfortable enough to have sex with me?\n\nPersonally, I feel that if you're not comfortable with the idea of engaging in intercourse, you're not really ready for a full blown, exclusive relationship. Sex isn't the deciding factor; don't get me wrong. But it's undoubtfully part of the relationship, no?\n\nHelp please.\n\nM/22, F/21"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been seeing/talking to this girl for roughly a year; we knew each other well a year prior to that. I've casually brought up the idea of sex a handful of times, and each time, he's rebutted that she's simply not ready yet. How much longer do I have to wait? Is it wrong to not want to continue the relationship if after a year, she's still not comfortable enough to have sex with me?\n\nPersonally, I feel that if you're not comfortable with the idea of engaging in intercourse, you're not really ready for a full blown, exclusive relationship. Sex isn't the deciding factor; don't get me wrong. But it's undoubtfully part of the relationship, no?\n\nHelp please.\n\nM/22, F/21"
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