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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 20 million - new STDs occur each year, that's 20 million more people that didn't have it the year before. How sick of a reality do we have that you fear being infected because of sex?\n\nThe only reason these sexually transmitted diseases continue to grow is because people are not stopping long enough to see if their actions will have a detrimental effect. There's no blame to be made, its horrible enough to have an STD. I just feel at some point, we all have to look at humanity and say. this needs to stop.\n\nLets all join in to eradicate STD's. Be the group of generations that eliminated all STD's from the history of humanity. There are new infections every single day. This is preventable. Preventative measures is all that's needed. \n\nIf one or two or even three generations took as much precautions into STD's elimination, we'd have no more. We can't continue to ignore, we are the sole reason it spreads."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm just not sure how much of a future we will have together, as well as the more or less constant unhappiness that we're experiencing now. She's been accepted to go to grad school in Europe, and we currently live(not together) in Florida. There isn't a doubt in my mind that she will go, and I wouldn't begin to think about asking her to stay. We just got done being long-distance, with me at the other end of the state for the last year and half way across the country for training all fall. I don't think I can go back to long-distance while she pursues her masters, especially when she has no intention to return to Florida afterwards.\n\nEmotionally, this relationship has been a roller coaster. Before we started officially dating, we twice tried to go through the \"talking\" phase, and I found out that she was still hooking up with other people while I was away. I know that that's not a horrible thing, since we weren't really together, but I've still never felt good about it. \n\nAnd now that I've been back in town and we've been able to see each other on a very regular basis for the last few months, it's been slowly going downhill. It seems that the only times we ever have fun together is when we're alone. Even then, half the time we're arguing about something that shouldn't be a big deal. We can't function as a couple in a public setting, not even around close friends. \n\nAs icing on the cake, this relationship has become increasingly one-sided. Every time I talk to her she makes me feel like I'm obligated to buy her things and do more for her, but I'm damned if I have the nerve to ask for anything in return. Add that to my already guit-ridden nature, and I feel trapped in a relationship that I'm not sure about with with no recourse. Most of our local friends are mutual friends, and the one or two friends I could talk to about this are all bleeding hearts that constantly bring up how devastating it would be if we broke up every time I'm noticeably down about something. So you're all I've got, Reddit. I'm just looking for a little advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm just not sure how much of a future we will have together, as well as the more or less constant unhappiness that we're experiencing now. She's been accepted to go to grad school in Europe, and we currently live(not together) in Florida. There isn't a doubt in my mind that she will go, and I wouldn't begin to think about asking her to stay. We just got done being long-distance, with me at the other end of the state for the last year and half way across the country for training all fall. I don't think I can go back to long-distance while she pursues her masters, especially when she has no intention to return to Florida afterwards.\n\nEmotionally, this relationship has been a roller coaster. Before we started officially dating, we twice tried to go through the \"talking\" phase, and I found out that she was still hooking up with other people while I was away. I know that that's not a horrible thing, since we weren't really together, but I've still never felt good about it. \n\nAnd now that I've been back in town and we've been able to see each other on a very regular basis for the last few months, it's been slowly going downhill. It seems that the only times we ever have fun together is when we're alone. Even then, half the time we're arguing about something that shouldn't be a big deal. We can't function as a couple in a public setting, not even around close friends. \n\nAs icing on the cake, this relationship has become increasingly one-sided. Every time I talk to her she makes me feel like I'm obligated to buy her things and do more for her, but I'm damned if I have the nerve to ask for anything in return. Add that to my already guit-ridden nature, and I feel trapped in a relationship that I'm not sure about with with no recourse. Most of our local friends are mutual friends, and the one or two friends I could talk to about this are all bleeding hearts that constantly bring up how devastating it would be if we broke up every time I'm noticeably down about something. So you're all I've got, Reddit. I'm just looking for a little advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm just not sure how much of a future we will have together, as well as the more or less constant unhappiness that we're experiencing now. She's been accepted to go to grad school in Europe, and we currently live(not together) in Florida. There isn't a doubt in my mind that she will go, and I wouldn't begin to think about asking her to stay. We just got done being long-distance, with me at the other end of the state for the last year and half way across the country for training all fall. I don't think I can go back to long-distance while she pursues her masters, especially when she has no intention to return to Florida afterwards.\n\nEmotionally, this relationship has been a roller coaster. Before we started officially dating, we twice tried to go through the \"talking\" phase, and I found out that she was still hooking up with other people while I was away. I know that that's not a horrible thing, since we weren't really together, but I've still never felt good about it. \n\nAnd now that I've been back in town and we've been able to see each other on a very regular basis for the last few months, it's been slowly going downhill. It seems that the only times we ever have fun together is when we're alone. Even then, half the time we're arguing about something that shouldn't be a big deal. We can't function as a couple in a public setting, not even around close friends. \n\nAs icing on the cake, this relationship has become increasingly one-sided. Every time I talk to her she makes me feel like I'm obligated to buy her things and do more for her, but I'm damned if I have the nerve to ask for anything in return. Add that to my already guit-ridden nature, and I feel trapped in a relationship that I'm not sure about with with no recourse. Most of our local friends are mutual friends, and the one or two friends I could talk to about this are all bleeding hearts that constantly bring up how devastating it would be if we broke up every time I'm noticeably down about something. So you're all I've got, Reddit. I'm just looking for a little advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm just not sure how much of a future we will have together, as well as the more or less constant unhappiness that we're experiencing now. She's been accepted to go to grad school in Europe, and we currently live(not together) in Florida. There isn't a doubt in my mind that she will go, and I wouldn't begin to think about asking her to stay. We just got done being long-distance, with me at the other end of the state for the last year and half way across the country for training all fall. I don't think I can go back to long-distance while she pursues her masters, especially when she has no intention to return to Florida afterwards.\n\nEmotionally, this relationship has been a roller coaster. Before we started officially dating, we twice tried to go through the \"talking\" phase, and I found out that she was still hooking up with other people while I was away. I know that that's not a horrible thing, since we weren't really together, but I've still never felt good about it. \n\nAnd now that I've been back in town and we've been able to see each other on a very regular basis for the last few months, it's been slowly going downhill. It seems that the only times we ever have fun together is when we're alone. Even then, half the time we're arguing about something that shouldn't be a big deal. We can't function as a couple in a public setting, not even around close friends. \n\nAs icing on the cake, this relationship has become increasingly one-sided. Every time I talk to her she makes me feel like I'm obligated to buy her things and do more for her, but I'm damned if I have the nerve to ask for anything in return. Add that to my already guit-ridden nature, and I feel trapped in a relationship that I'm not sure about with with no recourse. Most of our local friends are mutual friends, and the one or two friends I could talk to about this are all bleeding hearts that constantly bring up how devastating it would be if we broke up every time I'm noticeably down about something. So you're all I've got, Reddit. I'm just looking for a little advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello!\n\nWhile talking to my girlfriend tonight about masturbating and such, the topic of people fantasizing about others came up. She strongly believes that thinking about someone, other than your SO, while masturbating is cheating.\n I told her that that happens to me sometimes when I masturbate and she broke down in tears. It absolutely broke my heart as she's the only girl I've ever wanted. She doesn't seem to understand that she's the only girl I want to have sex with. I have never been tempted to do anything with anyone else. I don't want anyone else; I want her. I have never thought about cheating on her or doing anything to betray her trust! I could never do that to her. She's literally the only girl on my mind. \nIs there any way I can make her see that? I feel like things have been ruined now and I'm afraid that she sees me as someone I'm not. I'm crazy about her and what happens when I masturbate means nothing in my opinion. I really don't think I'm a cheater.\n\nWe've been together for a little over a year and a half.\n\nDoes anyone have any ideas as to how I can fix things? Thanks a lot!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello!\n\nWhile talking to my girlfriend tonight about masturbating and such, the topic of people fantasizing about others came up. She strongly believes that thinking about someone, other than your SO, while masturbating is cheating.\n I told her that that happens to me sometimes when I masturbate and she broke down in tears. It absolutely broke my heart as she's the only girl I've ever wanted. She doesn't seem to understand that she's the only girl I want to have sex with. I have never been tempted to do anything with anyone else. I don't want anyone else; I want her. I have never thought about cheating on her or doing anything to betray her trust! I could never do that to her. She's literally the only girl on my mind. \nIs there any way I can make her see that? I feel like things have been ruined now and I'm afraid that she sees me as someone I'm not. I'm crazy about her and what happens when I masturbate means nothing in my opinion. I really don't think I'm a cheater.\n\nWe've been together for a little over a year and a half.\n\nDoes anyone have any ideas as to how I can fix things? Thanks a lot!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello!\n\nWhile talking to my girlfriend tonight about masturbating and such, the topic of people fantasizing about others came up. She strongly believes that thinking about someone, other than your SO, while masturbating is cheating.\n I told her that that happens to me sometimes when I masturbate and she broke down in tears. It absolutely broke my heart as she's the only girl I've ever wanted. She doesn't seem to understand that she's the only girl I want to have sex with. I have never been tempted to do anything with anyone else. I don't want anyone else; I want her. I have never thought about cheating on her or doing anything to betray her trust! I could never do that to her. She's literally the only girl on my mind. \nIs there any way I can make her see that? I feel like things have been ruined now and I'm afraid that she sees me as someone I'm not. I'm crazy about her and what happens when I masturbate means nothing in my opinion. I really don't think I'm a cheater.\n\nWe've been together for a little over a year and a half.\n\nDoes anyone have any ideas as to how I can fix things? Thanks a lot!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello!\n\nWhile talking to my girlfriend tonight about masturbating and such, the topic of people fantasizing about others came up. She strongly believes that thinking about someone, other than your SO, while masturbating is cheating.\n I told her that that happens to me sometimes when I masturbate and she broke down in tears. It absolutely broke my heart as she's the only girl I've ever wanted. She doesn't seem to understand that she's the only girl I want to have sex with. I have never been tempted to do anything with anyone else. I don't want anyone else; I want her. I have never thought about cheating on her or doing anything to betray her trust! I could never do that to her. She's literally the only girl on my mind. \nIs there any way I can make her see that? I feel like things have been ruined now and I'm afraid that she sees me as someone I'm not. I'm crazy about her and what happens when I masturbate means nothing in my opinion. I really don't think I'm a cheater.\n\nWe've been together for a little over a year and a half.\n\nDoes anyone have any ideas as to how I can fix things? Thanks a lot!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Quick story: meet girl with bf at time became friends about a year and a half ago, she came on to me, great sex and fun for like two months then dissolved that away, she lost her bf, got involved with another friend of mine I was offended and dropped out of our relationship. She came back made dues. She is way less promiscuous after the last fuck up she made. But I still find her attractive and she still comes over you know and stays a night here and there. Can anyone relate to a female friend coming over and around when she is on her period and in a down state of mind? I really enjoyed how she came on to me and we were very compatible sexually with the exception of my more frequent sex drive.\nI'm confused, I don't need any more best friends and she wants me to be hers. Any thoughts are appreciated. How do I go about telling her I don't want to be just friends?\n[M/23] [F/21]"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Quick story: meet girl with bf at time became friends about a year and a half ago, she came on to me, great sex and fun for like two months then dissolved that away, she lost her bf, got involved with another friend of mine I was offended and dropped out of our relationship. She came back made dues. She is way less promiscuous after the last fuck up she made. But I still find her attractive and she still comes over you know and stays a night here and there. Can anyone relate to a female friend coming over and around when she is on her period and in a down state of mind? I really enjoyed how she came on to me and we were very compatible sexually with the exception of my more frequent sex drive.\nI'm confused, I don't need any more best friends and she wants me to be hers. Any thoughts are appreciated. How do I go about telling her I don't want to be just friends?\n[M/23] [F/21]"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Quick story: meet girl with bf at time became friends about a year and a half ago, she came on to me, great sex and fun for like two months then dissolved that away, she lost her bf, got involved with another friend of mine I was offended and dropped out of our relationship. She came back made dues. She is way less promiscuous after the last fuck up she made. But I still find her attractive and she still comes over you know and stays a night here and there. Can anyone relate to a female friend coming over and around when she is on her period and in a down state of mind? I really enjoyed how she came on to me and we were very compatible sexually with the exception of my more frequent sex drive.\nI'm confused, I don't need any more best friends and she wants me to be hers. Any thoughts are appreciated. How do I go about telling her I don't want to be just friends?\n[M/23] [F/21]"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Quick story: meet girl with bf at time became friends about a year and a half ago, she came on to me, great sex and fun for like two months then dissolved that away, she lost her bf, got involved with another friend of mine I was offended and dropped out of our relationship. She came back made dues. She is way less promiscuous after the last fuck up she made. But I still find her attractive and she still comes over you know and stays a night here and there. Can anyone relate to a female friend coming over and around when she is on her period and in a down state of mind? I really enjoyed how she came on to me and we were very compatible sexually with the exception of my more frequent sex drive.\nI'm confused, I don't need any more best friends and she wants me to be hers. Any thoughts are appreciated. How do I go about telling her I don't want to be just friends?\n[M/23] [F/21]"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: When I was young I lived in Taiwan, where traditional (eastern) medicine plays a big part in society, and I've experienced some traditional healing that make me question the sanity of my parents.\n\nI had a stuffy nose all the time as a kid, and I was taken to a acupuncturist. He took a metal rod the size of my index finger, wrapped it in cloth drenched in a pungent smelling medicine, and shoved it up my nostrils. It burned like a mother fucker, I sat in the chair with a giant metal rod sticking out of my nose, sweating, tearing, and squirming for about 5 minutes before he pulled it out and stuck it up my other nostril. It was suppose to \"melt\" away a meaty growth that was blocking my airway, but I think a little bit of me died that day. I later found out that he had his license revoked, and his clinic closed down.\n\nAnother occasion was going to a quack hospital to cure near sightedness. I went to a professional looking clinic that had rows of seats lined up like inside a salon, the nurse would put a giant sock put on my head that covered everything but my nose and mouse, and then a giant [sphygmomanometer]( was strapped onto my face. Over the course of an hour, I would be sitting in the chair along side several other vision (and judgement) impaired patients, unable to hear, see, or barely breath, have the giant sphygmomanometer inflate and deflate every 10 seconds. It felt like being sat on by a sumo wrestler repeatedly. The process was suppose to provide a massaging effect, and natural healing would make me see again, but it didn't do anything for me. After a couple of months and I stopped going."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: When I was young I lived in Taiwan, where traditional (eastern) medicine plays a big part in society, and I've experienced some traditional healing that make me question the sanity of my parents.\n\nI had a stuffy nose all the time as a kid, and I was taken to a acupuncturist. He took a metal rod the size of my index finger, wrapped it in cloth drenched in a pungent smelling medicine, and shoved it up my nostrils. It burned like a mother fucker, I sat in the chair with a giant metal rod sticking out of my nose, sweating, tearing, and squirming for about 5 minutes before he pulled it out and stuck it up my other nostril. It was suppose to \"melt\" away a meaty growth that was blocking my airway, but I think a little bit of me died that day. I later found out that he had his license revoked, and his clinic closed down.\n\nAnother occasion was going to a quack hospital to cure near sightedness. I went to a professional looking clinic that had rows of seats lined up like inside a salon, the nurse would put a giant sock put on my head that covered everything but my nose and mouse, and then a giant [sphygmomanometer]( was strapped onto my face. Over the course of an hour, I would be sitting in the chair along side several other vision (and judgement) impaired patients, unable to hear, see, or barely breath, have the giant sphygmomanometer inflate and deflate every 10 seconds. It felt like being sat on by a sumo wrestler repeatedly. The process was suppose to provide a massaging effect, and natural healing would make me see again, but it didn't do anything for me. After a couple of months and I stopped going."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: When I was young I lived in Taiwan, where traditional (eastern) medicine plays a big part in society, and I've experienced some traditional healing that make me question the sanity of my parents.\n\nI had a stuffy nose all the time as a kid, and I was taken to a acupuncturist. He took a metal rod the size of my index finger, wrapped it in cloth drenched in a pungent smelling medicine, and shoved it up my nostrils. It burned like a mother fucker, I sat in the chair with a giant metal rod sticking out of my nose, sweating, tearing, and squirming for about 5 minutes before he pulled it out and stuck it up my other nostril. It was suppose to \"melt\" away a meaty growth that was blocking my airway, but I think a little bit of me died that day. I later found out that he had his license revoked, and his clinic closed down.\n\nAnother occasion was going to a quack hospital to cure near sightedness. I went to a professional looking clinic that had rows of seats lined up like inside a salon, the nurse would put a giant sock put on my head that covered everything but my nose and mouse, and then a giant [sphygmomanometer]( was strapped onto my face. Over the course of an hour, I would be sitting in the chair along side several other vision (and judgement) impaired patients, unable to hear, see, or barely breath, have the giant sphygmomanometer inflate and deflate every 10 seconds. It felt like being sat on by a sumo wrestler repeatedly. The process was suppose to provide a massaging effect, and natural healing would make me see again, but it didn't do anything for me. After a couple of months and I stopped going."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: When I was young I lived in Taiwan, where traditional (eastern) medicine plays a big part in society, and I've experienced some traditional healing that make me question the sanity of my parents.\n\nI had a stuffy nose all the time as a kid, and I was taken to a acupuncturist. He took a metal rod the size of my index finger, wrapped it in cloth drenched in a pungent smelling medicine, and shoved it up my nostrils. It burned like a mother fucker, I sat in the chair with a giant metal rod sticking out of my nose, sweating, tearing, and squirming for about 5 minutes before he pulled it out and stuck it up my other nostril. It was suppose to \"melt\" away a meaty growth that was blocking my airway, but I think a little bit of me died that day. I later found out that he had his license revoked, and his clinic closed down.\n\nAnother occasion was going to a quack hospital to cure near sightedness. I went to a professional looking clinic that had rows of seats lined up like inside a salon, the nurse would put a giant sock put on my head that covered everything but my nose and mouse, and then a giant [sphygmomanometer]( was strapped onto my face. Over the course of an hour, I would be sitting in the chair along side several other vision (and judgement) impaired patients, unable to hear, see, or barely breath, have the giant sphygmomanometer inflate and deflate every 10 seconds. It felt like being sat on by a sumo wrestler repeatedly. The process was suppose to provide a massaging effect, and natural healing would make me see again, but it didn't do anything for me. After a couple of months and I stopped going."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello Reddit, I seem to have an issue with how my body reacts to seemingly any miniscule amount of anxiety. My best example is a specific issue I deal with every day, I am in the middle of my fitness journey and it's been just over a year and 70lbs lost. More recently I started working out at a gym to reach my goals and I try to go every other day if I can, but every single time I will get dressed and ready to leave my house when suddenly a bowel movement happens and I have to go to the bathroom. I don't think I really have conscious anxiety about going to the gym so I really don't know how to get past this or manage it in a way that doesn't get on my nerves so much. Does anyone else have similar things happen?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello Reddit, I seem to have an issue with how my body reacts to seemingly any miniscule amount of anxiety. My best example is a specific issue I deal with every day, I am in the middle of my fitness journey and it's been just over a year and 70lbs lost. More recently I started working out at a gym to reach my goals and I try to go every other day if I can, but every single time I will get dressed and ready to leave my house when suddenly a bowel movement happens and I have to go to the bathroom. I don't think I really have conscious anxiety about going to the gym so I really don't know how to get past this or manage it in a way that doesn't get on my nerves so much. Does anyone else have similar things happen?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello Reddit, I seem to have an issue with how my body reacts to seemingly any miniscule amount of anxiety. My best example is a specific issue I deal with every day, I am in the middle of my fitness journey and it's been just over a year and 70lbs lost. More recently I started working out at a gym to reach my goals and I try to go every other day if I can, but every single time I will get dressed and ready to leave my house when suddenly a bowel movement happens and I have to go to the bathroom. I don't think I really have conscious anxiety about going to the gym so I really don't know how to get past this or manage it in a way that doesn't get on my nerves so much. Does anyone else have similar things happen?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello Reddit, I seem to have an issue with how my body reacts to seemingly any miniscule amount of anxiety. My best example is a specific issue I deal with every day, I am in the middle of my fitness journey and it's been just over a year and 70lbs lost. More recently I started working out at a gym to reach my goals and I try to go every other day if I can, but every single time I will get dressed and ready to leave my house when suddenly a bowel movement happens and I have to go to the bathroom. I don't think I really have conscious anxiety about going to the gym so I really don't know how to get past this or manage it in a way that doesn't get on my nerves so much. Does anyone else have similar things happen?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is my first real post, so i figured it might as well have some character. Here's the story of how I almost lost my virginity my 1st year at a university (kinda long, bear with me):\n\nOne night, I found myself at an unfortunately ratio'd party (read: sausagefest). As anyone would do in this situation, my drinking buddy and I decided to drink ourselves into oblivion. When we returned to the dorm, I received a text inviting me back to a girl's room around 3 am. Classic booty call. It was business time. I gathered my inebriated self and managed to stumble my way to her room. Once inside, I found her unfortunately sober. Like any good guy greg, I feigned enough sobriety to make her feel like a lady. This required some effort as the room was spinning like a marry-go-round. After some light conversation and an unfortunately mood-killing episode of Big Love, we started sucking face. I'll leave out the next half hour and skip to the relevant part.\n\nI was 18 years old and none of my good friends were virgins. I wanted it bad. I didn't look down, but it felt like it was in, so I started doing my thing. Some amount of time later (probably shorter than I recall), I finished and looked up. No response from her for about 10 seconds. Then she looks me dead in the eye and says: \"You do realize you were never *in*.\"\n\nWHAT DO YOU MEAN I WAS NEVER IN?!?! Did I have sex with the space between her butt and the sheets? The world may never know! What kind of scumbag sober girl doesn't say anything? Looking back, I can't believe I'm not in therapy for this.\n\nI had no choice but to cloth myself immediately and never speak to this woman again. \"Happens to the best of us.\" I said as I fled the scene. \n\nPlease share your most embarrassing stories so I don't feel like I'm the only person who does shit like this\n\n*Edit:"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is my first real post, so i figured it might as well have some character. Here's the story of how I almost lost my virginity my 1st year at a university (kinda long, bear with me):\n\nOne night, I found myself at an unfortunately ratio'd party (read: sausagefest). As anyone would do in this situation, my drinking buddy and I decided to drink ourselves into oblivion. When we returned to the dorm, I received a text inviting me back to a girl's room around 3 am. Classic booty call. It was business time. I gathered my inebriated self and managed to stumble my way to her room. Once inside, I found her unfortunately sober. Like any good guy greg, I feigned enough sobriety to make her feel like a lady. This required some effort as the room was spinning like a marry-go-round. After some light conversation and an unfortunately mood-killing episode of Big Love, we started sucking face. I'll leave out the next half hour and skip to the relevant part.\n\nI was 18 years old and none of my good friends were virgins. I wanted it bad. I didn't look down, but it felt like it was in, so I started doing my thing. Some amount of time later (probably shorter than I recall), I finished and looked up. No response from her for about 10 seconds. Then she looks me dead in the eye and says: \"You do realize you were never *in*.\"\n\nWHAT DO YOU MEAN I WAS NEVER IN?!?! Did I have sex with the space between her butt and the sheets? The world may never know! What kind of scumbag sober girl doesn't say anything? Looking back, I can't believe I'm not in therapy for this.\n\nI had no choice but to cloth myself immediately and never speak to this woman again. \"Happens to the best of us.\" I said as I fled the scene. \n\nPlease share your most embarrassing stories so I don't feel like I'm the only person who does shit like this\n\n*Edit:"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is my first real post, so i figured it might as well have some character. Here's the story of how I almost lost my virginity my 1st year at a university (kinda long, bear with me):\n\nOne night, I found myself at an unfortunately ratio'd party (read: sausagefest). As anyone would do in this situation, my drinking buddy and I decided to drink ourselves into oblivion. When we returned to the dorm, I received a text inviting me back to a girl's room around 3 am. Classic booty call. It was business time. I gathered my inebriated self and managed to stumble my way to her room. Once inside, I found her unfortunately sober. Like any good guy greg, I feigned enough sobriety to make her feel like a lady. This required some effort as the room was spinning like a marry-go-round. After some light conversation and an unfortunately mood-killing episode of Big Love, we started sucking face. I'll leave out the next half hour and skip to the relevant part.\n\nI was 18 years old and none of my good friends were virgins. I wanted it bad. I didn't look down, but it felt like it was in, so I started doing my thing. Some amount of time later (probably shorter than I recall), I finished and looked up. No response from her for about 10 seconds. Then she looks me dead in the eye and says: \"You do realize you were never *in*.\"\n\nWHAT DO YOU MEAN I WAS NEVER IN?!?! Did I have sex with the space between her butt and the sheets? The world may never know! What kind of scumbag sober girl doesn't say anything? Looking back, I can't believe I'm not in therapy for this.\n\nI had no choice but to cloth myself immediately and never speak to this woman again. \"Happens to the best of us.\" I said as I fled the scene. \n\nPlease share your most embarrassing stories so I don't feel like I'm the only person who does shit like this\n\n*Edit:"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is my first real post, so i figured it might as well have some character. Here's the story of how I almost lost my virginity my 1st year at a university (kinda long, bear with me):\n\nOne night, I found myself at an unfortunately ratio'd party (read: sausagefest). As anyone would do in this situation, my drinking buddy and I decided to drink ourselves into oblivion. When we returned to the dorm, I received a text inviting me back to a girl's room around 3 am. Classic booty call. It was business time. I gathered my inebriated self and managed to stumble my way to her room. Once inside, I found her unfortunately sober. Like any good guy greg, I feigned enough sobriety to make her feel like a lady. This required some effort as the room was spinning like a marry-go-round. After some light conversation and an unfortunately mood-killing episode of Big Love, we started sucking face. I'll leave out the next half hour and skip to the relevant part.\n\nI was 18 years old and none of my good friends were virgins. I wanted it bad. I didn't look down, but it felt like it was in, so I started doing my thing. Some amount of time later (probably shorter than I recall), I finished and looked up. No response from her for about 10 seconds. Then she looks me dead in the eye and says: \"You do realize you were never *in*.\"\n\nWHAT DO YOU MEAN I WAS NEVER IN?!?! Did I have sex with the space between her butt and the sheets? The world may never know! What kind of scumbag sober girl doesn't say anything? Looking back, I can't believe I'm not in therapy for this.\n\nI had no choice but to cloth myself immediately and never speak to this woman again. \"Happens to the best of us.\" I said as I fled the scene. \n\nPlease share your most embarrassing stories so I don't feel like I'm the only person who does shit like this\n\n*Edit:"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: two months and a year ago, I started something with a very attractive woman- 9/10. All I cared about was continuing a relationship, so she really took control. Naturally, this kind of sucked. She's not a control freak in any other way, so I assume that it was error on my part that provoked her.\n\nThe relationship went average-well for a short time, and kind of faded in january. She went away to live in the bahamas for some time (extended vacation, [the island school]( whatever you want to call it.)\n\nNow she's back. She's been IM'ing me almost daily trying to get us back together. I haven't had the chance to see her in person, but it's coming (/r/seduction has me craving for some physical contact so I can start kino.). \n\nHow can I \"wear the pants\" in the relationship, this time around? (Or at least eradicate the dominatrix in her.)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: two months and a year ago, I started something with a very attractive woman- 9/10. All I cared about was continuing a relationship, so she really took control. Naturally, this kind of sucked. She's not a control freak in any other way, so I assume that it was error on my part that provoked her.\n\nThe relationship went average-well for a short time, and kind of faded in january. She went away to live in the bahamas for some time (extended vacation, [the island school]( whatever you want to call it.)\n\nNow she's back. She's been IM'ing me almost daily trying to get us back together. I haven't had the chance to see her in person, but it's coming (/r/seduction has me craving for some physical contact so I can start kino.). \n\nHow can I \"wear the pants\" in the relationship, this time around? (Or at least eradicate the dominatrix in her.)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: two months and a year ago, I started something with a very attractive woman- 9/10. All I cared about was continuing a relationship, so she really took control. Naturally, this kind of sucked. She's not a control freak in any other way, so I assume that it was error on my part that provoked her.\n\nThe relationship went average-well for a short time, and kind of faded in january. She went away to live in the bahamas for some time (extended vacation, [the island school]( whatever you want to call it.)\n\nNow she's back. She's been IM'ing me almost daily trying to get us back together. I haven't had the chance to see her in person, but it's coming (/r/seduction has me craving for some physical contact so I can start kino.). \n\nHow can I \"wear the pants\" in the relationship, this time around? (Or at least eradicate the dominatrix in her.)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: two months and a year ago, I started something with a very attractive woman- 9/10. All I cared about was continuing a relationship, so she really took control. Naturally, this kind of sucked. She's not a control freak in any other way, so I assume that it was error on my part that provoked her.\n\nThe relationship went average-well for a short time, and kind of faded in january. She went away to live in the bahamas for some time (extended vacation, [the island school]( whatever you want to call it.)\n\nNow she's back. She's been IM'ing me almost daily trying to get us back together. I haven't had the chance to see her in person, but it's coming (/r/seduction has me craving for some physical contact so I can start kino.). \n\nHow can I \"wear the pants\" in the relationship, this time around? (Or at least eradicate the dominatrix in her.)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last night I got drunk at the pool with some friends. Some other girls struck up a conversation and began asking up for beer and to get beer. I bought a bunch of beer and they each grab a bunch and run off with their boyfriends, putting me in a bad mood. \n\nOn the ride home with my girlfriend, we begin arguing and she calls me a dumbass and asshole so I respond with a \"fuck you.\" I've never said this to my girlfriend, or anyone at all. I don't even know how I said it. She told me to go home and I apologized profusely, albeit saying how I'm not sure if she really loves me if she can't accept my apology. \n\nThis morning I woke up, regretful and in a daze. My girlfriend is super pissed and told me she \"doesn't see us dating much longer\" and not to get my \"hopes up\" but that we could discuss it after work. I've apologized more and but she doesn't believe that I was just blabbering and really believes I meant what I said. \n\nAnyways, I plan on buying her some flowers when I get home, even if she breaks up with me. I just want to let her know I'm sorry and that I understand. Nonetheless I still want to be with her.\n\nWhat should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last night I got drunk at the pool with some friends. Some other girls struck up a conversation and began asking up for beer and to get beer. I bought a bunch of beer and they each grab a bunch and run off with their boyfriends, putting me in a bad mood. \n\nOn the ride home with my girlfriend, we begin arguing and she calls me a dumbass and asshole so I respond with a \"fuck you.\" I've never said this to my girlfriend, or anyone at all. I don't even know how I said it. She told me to go home and I apologized profusely, albeit saying how I'm not sure if she really loves me if she can't accept my apology. \n\nThis morning I woke up, regretful and in a daze. My girlfriend is super pissed and told me she \"doesn't see us dating much longer\" and not to get my \"hopes up\" but that we could discuss it after work. I've apologized more and but she doesn't believe that I was just blabbering and really believes I meant what I said. \n\nAnyways, I plan on buying her some flowers when I get home, even if she breaks up with me. I just want to let her know I'm sorry and that I understand. Nonetheless I still want to be with her.\n\nWhat should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last night I got drunk at the pool with some friends. Some other girls struck up a conversation and began asking up for beer and to get beer. I bought a bunch of beer and they each grab a bunch and run off with their boyfriends, putting me in a bad mood. \n\nOn the ride home with my girlfriend, we begin arguing and she calls me a dumbass and asshole so I respond with a \"fuck you.\" I've never said this to my girlfriend, or anyone at all. I don't even know how I said it. She told me to go home and I apologized profusely, albeit saying how I'm not sure if she really loves me if she can't accept my apology. \n\nThis morning I woke up, regretful and in a daze. My girlfriend is super pissed and told me she \"doesn't see us dating much longer\" and not to get my \"hopes up\" but that we could discuss it after work. I've apologized more and but she doesn't believe that I was just blabbering and really believes I meant what I said. \n\nAnyways, I plan on buying her some flowers when I get home, even if she breaks up with me. I just want to let her know I'm sorry and that I understand. Nonetheless I still want to be with her.\n\nWhat should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last night I got drunk at the pool with some friends. Some other girls struck up a conversation and began asking up for beer and to get beer. I bought a bunch of beer and they each grab a bunch and run off with their boyfriends, putting me in a bad mood. \n\nOn the ride home with my girlfriend, we begin arguing and she calls me a dumbass and asshole so I respond with a \"fuck you.\" I've never said this to my girlfriend, or anyone at all. I don't even know how I said it. She told me to go home and I apologized profusely, albeit saying how I'm not sure if she really loves me if she can't accept my apology. \n\nThis morning I woke up, regretful and in a daze. My girlfriend is super pissed and told me she \"doesn't see us dating much longer\" and not to get my \"hopes up\" but that we could discuss it after work. I've apologized more and but she doesn't believe that I was just blabbering and really believes I meant what I said. \n\nAnyways, I plan on buying her some flowers when I get home, even if she breaks up with me. I just want to let her know I'm sorry and that I understand. Nonetheless I still want to be with her.\n\nWhat should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a 24 year old male currently seeing a 23 year old female. We have had sex about 6 times.\n\nOn our most recent encounter, about a week ago, we had sex using a condom. Today she told me she is a little concerned because ever since that day her discharge has come with odor. I do not know if it is a weak or strong scent.\n\nEdit/side note: Two weeks ago we had sex without a condom. The first and only time we have had unprotected sex. I did not however ejaculate at all. It was late and we had to leave. I'm throwing this in here in case it is useful information for you gals to help me with my investigation.\n\nShe says she is STD free and as far as my knowledge goes, I am too. With previous partners, I have noticed that some females do have some odor present before and during intercourse, therefore I assume it is normal. Should we have any concerns such as infections or any other STD?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a 24 year old male currently seeing a 23 year old female. We have had sex about 6 times.\n\nOn our most recent encounter, about a week ago, we had sex using a condom. Today she told me she is a little concerned because ever since that day her discharge has come with odor. I do not know if it is a weak or strong scent.\n\nEdit/side note: Two weeks ago we had sex without a condom. The first and only time we have had unprotected sex. I did not however ejaculate at all. It was late and we had to leave. I'm throwing this in here in case it is useful information for you gals to help me with my investigation.\n\nShe says she is STD free and as far as my knowledge goes, I am too. With previous partners, I have noticed that some females do have some odor present before and during intercourse, therefore I assume it is normal. Should we have any concerns such as infections or any other STD?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a 24 year old male currently seeing a 23 year old female. We have had sex about 6 times.\n\nOn our most recent encounter, about a week ago, we had sex using a condom. Today she told me she is a little concerned because ever since that day her discharge has come with odor. I do not know if it is a weak or strong scent.\n\nEdit/side note: Two weeks ago we had sex without a condom. The first and only time we have had unprotected sex. I did not however ejaculate at all. It was late and we had to leave. I'm throwing this in here in case it is useful information for you gals to help me with my investigation.\n\nShe says she is STD free and as far as my knowledge goes, I am too. With previous partners, I have noticed that some females do have some odor present before and during intercourse, therefore I assume it is normal. Should we have any concerns such as infections or any other STD?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a 24 year old male currently seeing a 23 year old female. We have had sex about 6 times.\n\nOn our most recent encounter, about a week ago, we had sex using a condom. Today she told me she is a little concerned because ever since that day her discharge has come with odor. I do not know if it is a weak or strong scent.\n\nEdit/side note: Two weeks ago we had sex without a condom. The first and only time we have had unprotected sex. I did not however ejaculate at all. It was late and we had to leave. I'm throwing this in here in case it is useful information for you gals to help me with my investigation.\n\nShe says she is STD free and as far as my knowledge goes, I am too. With previous partners, I have noticed that some females do have some odor present before and during intercourse, therefore I assume it is normal. Should we have any concerns such as infections or any other STD?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Today I went out with my guy friends to a strip joint. Had a few pints and my buddies talked me into getting a lap dance from one of the girls.\n\nAfter I came home I felt really guilty and awful about it. I told my girlfriend immediately and still feel incredibly guilty about it. I'm with the love of my life, an amazing supportive woman who I think the world of.\n\nI have no idea how I can make this up to her. To make her feel like she's my number one again, and most importantly help her to trust me again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Today I went out with my guy friends to a strip joint. Had a few pints and my buddies talked me into getting a lap dance from one of the girls.\n\nAfter I came home I felt really guilty and awful about it. I told my girlfriend immediately and still feel incredibly guilty about it. I'm with the love of my life, an amazing supportive woman who I think the world of.\n\nI have no idea how I can make this up to her. To make her feel like she's my number one again, and most importantly help her to trust me again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Today I went out with my guy friends to a strip joint. Had a few pints and my buddies talked me into getting a lap dance from one of the girls.\n\nAfter I came home I felt really guilty and awful about it. I told my girlfriend immediately and still feel incredibly guilty about it. I'm with the love of my life, an amazing supportive woman who I think the world of.\n\nI have no idea how I can make this up to her. To make her feel like she's my number one again, and most importantly help her to trust me again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Today I went out with my guy friends to a strip joint. Had a few pints and my buddies talked me into getting a lap dance from one of the girls.\n\nAfter I came home I felt really guilty and awful about it. I told my girlfriend immediately and still feel incredibly guilty about it. I'm with the love of my life, an amazing supportive woman who I think the world of.\n\nI have no idea how I can make this up to her. To make her feel like she's my number one again, and most importantly help her to trust me again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have recently just moved to a new town in a new country for a new job about six months ago. \n\nI was glad to leave all my emotional baggage from very serious long term relationship and finally get a fresh start. I haven't made myself emotionally available since the breakup, roughly 2 years ago, so I have not been on the dating scene in at least 6 years or so. \n\nAfter getting into a routine, feeling comfortable in a new setting, and getting to know lots of new people I finally thought I would start actively dating. I used dating apps to meet new people and finally started chatting with someone who really clicked with me. We started texting each other quite a bit and eventually met up for a couple dates. One night she invited me back to her house, and I ended up staying the night (things went really well too). The next couple of days we continued to text back and forth and were making plans to meet again. Literally her last text to me was, \"I am excited to meet up again\". Then I never heard anything back. \n\nFast forward a couple more weeks and this played out almost identically with another woman. Things are going well, go on a couple dates and then, boom, over. Complete and utter radio silence. \n\nIt is actually upsetting me quite a bit and really crushing my self-esteem. I just want some advice on how others have dealt with \"Ghosting\" and if I should expect this as a normal thing with dating."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have recently just moved to a new town in a new country for a new job about six months ago. \n\nI was glad to leave all my emotional baggage from very serious long term relationship and finally get a fresh start. I haven't made myself emotionally available since the breakup, roughly 2 years ago, so I have not been on the dating scene in at least 6 years or so. \n\nAfter getting into a routine, feeling comfortable in a new setting, and getting to know lots of new people I finally thought I would start actively dating. I used dating apps to meet new people and finally started chatting with someone who really clicked with me. We started texting each other quite a bit and eventually met up for a couple dates. One night she invited me back to her house, and I ended up staying the night (things went really well too). The next couple of days we continued to text back and forth and were making plans to meet again. Literally her last text to me was, \"I am excited to meet up again\". Then I never heard anything back. \n\nFast forward a couple more weeks and this played out almost identically with another woman. Things are going well, go on a couple dates and then, boom, over. Complete and utter radio silence. \n\nIt is actually upsetting me quite a bit and really crushing my self-esteem. I just want some advice on how others have dealt with \"Ghosting\" and if I should expect this as a normal thing with dating."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have recently just moved to a new town in a new country for a new job about six months ago. \n\nI was glad to leave all my emotional baggage from very serious long term relationship and finally get a fresh start. I haven't made myself emotionally available since the breakup, roughly 2 years ago, so I have not been on the dating scene in at least 6 years or so. \n\nAfter getting into a routine, feeling comfortable in a new setting, and getting to know lots of new people I finally thought I would start actively dating. I used dating apps to meet new people and finally started chatting with someone who really clicked with me. We started texting each other quite a bit and eventually met up for a couple dates. One night she invited me back to her house, and I ended up staying the night (things went really well too). The next couple of days we continued to text back and forth and were making plans to meet again. Literally her last text to me was, \"I am excited to meet up again\". Then I never heard anything back. \n\nFast forward a couple more weeks and this played out almost identically with another woman. Things are going well, go on a couple dates and then, boom, over. Complete and utter radio silence. \n\nIt is actually upsetting me quite a bit and really crushing my self-esteem. I just want some advice on how others have dealt with \"Ghosting\" and if I should expect this as a normal thing with dating."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have recently just moved to a new town in a new country for a new job about six months ago. \n\nI was glad to leave all my emotional baggage from very serious long term relationship and finally get a fresh start. I haven't made myself emotionally available since the breakup, roughly 2 years ago, so I have not been on the dating scene in at least 6 years or so. \n\nAfter getting into a routine, feeling comfortable in a new setting, and getting to know lots of new people I finally thought I would start actively dating. I used dating apps to meet new people and finally started chatting with someone who really clicked with me. We started texting each other quite a bit and eventually met up for a couple dates. One night she invited me back to her house, and I ended up staying the night (things went really well too). The next couple of days we continued to text back and forth and were making plans to meet again. Literally her last text to me was, \"I am excited to meet up again\". Then I never heard anything back. \n\nFast forward a couple more weeks and this played out almost identically with another woman. Things are going well, go on a couple dates and then, boom, over. Complete and utter radio silence. \n\nIt is actually upsetting me quite a bit and really crushing my self-esteem. I just want some advice on how others have dealt with \"Ghosting\" and if I should expect this as a normal thing with dating."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Never posted on reddit before but could use some insights on this mess. Basically Neil and Angela have been dating for a few years, with some bumps along the way. She broke up with him before and it completely destroyed him, he was a mess for almost a year until she changed her mind back. We have a pretty close group of friends -about 10 guys- and none of us liked them getting back together, but Neil was so in love with this chick there was no reasoning with him. This was about a year ago.\n\nLast weekend I found out Angela has been sleeping with one of the other guys in our group, Eric, for months, probably starting since the breakup with Neil (even before maybe) and most recently a few weeks ago during a weekend trip 'among friends', where their roommate caught them fucking while he (roommate) was 'asleep'.\n\nWe know for sure she's screwing around, but can't really prove it other than the roommate's story and Neil can be a hard guy to reason with so we're not sure that's enough. Neil and Eric have been close friends since high school and this is going to tear our little club apart, but our main concern is how Neil is going to take this news, he has no clue and we have no idea what he might do.\n\nBut we have to tell him, so do we sit him down with a couple of us (or just one person?) and break it to him? Do we call Angela and pressure her into confessing to him? Do we confront Eric first with what we know so we have confirmation, then go sit down with Neil? Call Neil's sister, who helped him a lot during the last breakup, to warn her it's happening again? What would you do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Never posted on reddit before but could use some insights on this mess. Basically Neil and Angela have been dating for a few years, with some bumps along the way. She broke up with him before and it completely destroyed him, he was a mess for almost a year until she changed her mind back. We have a pretty close group of friends -about 10 guys- and none of us liked them getting back together, but Neil was so in love with this chick there was no reasoning with him. This was about a year ago.\n\nLast weekend I found out Angela has been sleeping with one of the other guys in our group, Eric, for months, probably starting since the breakup with Neil (even before maybe) and most recently a few weeks ago during a weekend trip 'among friends', where their roommate caught them fucking while he (roommate) was 'asleep'.\n\nWe know for sure she's screwing around, but can't really prove it other than the roommate's story and Neil can be a hard guy to reason with so we're not sure that's enough. Neil and Eric have been close friends since high school and this is going to tear our little club apart, but our main concern is how Neil is going to take this news, he has no clue and we have no idea what he might do.\n\nBut we have to tell him, so do we sit him down with a couple of us (or just one person?) and break it to him? Do we call Angela and pressure her into confessing to him? Do we confront Eric first with what we know so we have confirmation, then go sit down with Neil? Call Neil's sister, who helped him a lot during the last breakup, to warn her it's happening again? What would you do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Never posted on reddit before but could use some insights on this mess. Basically Neil and Angela have been dating for a few years, with some bumps along the way. She broke up with him before and it completely destroyed him, he was a mess for almost a year until she changed her mind back. We have a pretty close group of friends -about 10 guys- and none of us liked them getting back together, but Neil was so in love with this chick there was no reasoning with him. This was about a year ago.\n\nLast weekend I found out Angela has been sleeping with one of the other guys in our group, Eric, for months, probably starting since the breakup with Neil (even before maybe) and most recently a few weeks ago during a weekend trip 'among friends', where their roommate caught them fucking while he (roommate) was 'asleep'.\n\nWe know for sure she's screwing around, but can't really prove it other than the roommate's story and Neil can be a hard guy to reason with so we're not sure that's enough. Neil and Eric have been close friends since high school and this is going to tear our little club apart, but our main concern is how Neil is going to take this news, he has no clue and we have no idea what he might do.\n\nBut we have to tell him, so do we sit him down with a couple of us (or just one person?) and break it to him? Do we call Angela and pressure her into confessing to him? Do we confront Eric first with what we know so we have confirmation, then go sit down with Neil? Call Neil's sister, who helped him a lot during the last breakup, to warn her it's happening again? What would you do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Never posted on reddit before but could use some insights on this mess. Basically Neil and Angela have been dating for a few years, with some bumps along the way. She broke up with him before and it completely destroyed him, he was a mess for almost a year until she changed her mind back. We have a pretty close group of friends -about 10 guys- and none of us liked them getting back together, but Neil was so in love with this chick there was no reasoning with him. This was about a year ago.\n\nLast weekend I found out Angela has been sleeping with one of the other guys in our group, Eric, for months, probably starting since the breakup with Neil (even before maybe) and most recently a few weeks ago during a weekend trip 'among friends', where their roommate caught them fucking while he (roommate) was 'asleep'.\n\nWe know for sure she's screwing around, but can't really prove it other than the roommate's story and Neil can be a hard guy to reason with so we're not sure that's enough. Neil and Eric have been close friends since high school and this is going to tear our little club apart, but our main concern is how Neil is going to take this news, he has no clue and we have no idea what he might do.\n\nBut we have to tell him, so do we sit him down with a couple of us (or just one person?) and break it to him? Do we call Angela and pressure her into confessing to him? Do we confront Eric first with what we know so we have confirmation, then go sit down with Neil? Call Neil's sister, who helped him a lot during the last breakup, to warn her it's happening again? What would you do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The Backstory: When I arrived at Bonnaroo after a long trip I realized I had forgotten to pack underwear. My buddy was still on the way to the festival so I asked for his help. I told him to grab a pack of large boxer briefs and I would pay him back when he arrived. A few hours later he shows up but not with the requested underwear. He had bought me 'string bikinis'. I thought that he bought them to be funny and had the other pack of undies hidden. Turns out, he is an ass an I was stuck wearing the bikinis after i soaked through my first pair in the hot Tennessee heat. I vowed at that point to get him back.\n\nFast forward to today and he is coming to visit me in 2 weeks. I am sure he has long since forgotten my vow. I need a great 'revenge' plan that he will not soon forget but I can't come up with anything fitting. Please help me come up with a plan that will leave him in misery (but not COMPLETELY ruin the 2 days we have to hang out).\n\nThank you in advance and feel free to ask for more information!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The Backstory: When I arrived at Bonnaroo after a long trip I realized I had forgotten to pack underwear. My buddy was still on the way to the festival so I asked for his help. I told him to grab a pack of large boxer briefs and I would pay him back when he arrived. A few hours later he shows up but not with the requested underwear. He had bought me 'string bikinis'. I thought that he bought them to be funny and had the other pack of undies hidden. Turns out, he is an ass an I was stuck wearing the bikinis after i soaked through my first pair in the hot Tennessee heat. I vowed at that point to get him back.\n\nFast forward to today and he is coming to visit me in 2 weeks. I am sure he has long since forgotten my vow. I need a great 'revenge' plan that he will not soon forget but I can't come up with anything fitting. Please help me come up with a plan that will leave him in misery (but not COMPLETELY ruin the 2 days we have to hang out).\n\nThank you in advance and feel free to ask for more information!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The Backstory: When I arrived at Bonnaroo after a long trip I realized I had forgotten to pack underwear. My buddy was still on the way to the festival so I asked for his help. I told him to grab a pack of large boxer briefs and I would pay him back when he arrived. A few hours later he shows up but not with the requested underwear. He had bought me 'string bikinis'. I thought that he bought them to be funny and had the other pack of undies hidden. Turns out, he is an ass an I was stuck wearing the bikinis after i soaked through my first pair in the hot Tennessee heat. I vowed at that point to get him back.\n\nFast forward to today and he is coming to visit me in 2 weeks. I am sure he has long since forgotten my vow. I need a great 'revenge' plan that he will not soon forget but I can't come up with anything fitting. Please help me come up with a plan that will leave him in misery (but not COMPLETELY ruin the 2 days we have to hang out).\n\nThank you in advance and feel free to ask for more information!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The Backstory: When I arrived at Bonnaroo after a long trip I realized I had forgotten to pack underwear. My buddy was still on the way to the festival so I asked for his help. I told him to grab a pack of large boxer briefs and I would pay him back when he arrived. A few hours later he shows up but not with the requested underwear. He had bought me 'string bikinis'. I thought that he bought them to be funny and had the other pack of undies hidden. Turns out, he is an ass an I was stuck wearing the bikinis after i soaked through my first pair in the hot Tennessee heat. I vowed at that point to get him back.\n\nFast forward to today and he is coming to visit me in 2 weeks. I am sure he has long since forgotten my vow. I need a great 'revenge' plan that he will not soon forget but I can't come up with anything fitting. Please help me come up with a plan that will leave him in misery (but not COMPLETELY ruin the 2 days we have to hang out).\n\nThank you in advance and feel free to ask for more information!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I went clubbing yesterday with my best friend, henk, he sort of has a new gf but nothing steady yet. So henk's moving on into a new relationship. \n\n(Henk cheated with some one else, that's why they broke up)\n\nWhile clubbing henk's ex (rose) was there and we french kissed. i think she kissed me and im not sure what to think now.\n\nAfter we kissed she walked away without saying anything.\n\nHenk texted me this morning \"nice job kissing my ex\" I've been to his house to talk about it but he wasn't home.\n\nI'm not sure if rose kissed me because of the alcohol or to get some kind of revanche on henk or if she is interested in me?\n\nRose and I have talked a few times before (always when we bumped into each other while clubbing) and we've had some kind of click. \n\nI don't have her phone number, and I'm going over to his house tomorrow to talk to him, face to face. To see what he thinks about that I've done. And to ask for forgiveness."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I went clubbing yesterday with my best friend, henk, he sort of has a new gf but nothing steady yet. So henk's moving on into a new relationship. \n\n(Henk cheated with some one else, that's why they broke up)\n\nWhile clubbing henk's ex (rose) was there and we french kissed. i think she kissed me and im not sure what to think now.\n\nAfter we kissed she walked away without saying anything.\n\nHenk texted me this morning \"nice job kissing my ex\" I've been to his house to talk about it but he wasn't home.\n\nI'm not sure if rose kissed me because of the alcohol or to get some kind of revanche on henk or if she is interested in me?\n\nRose and I have talked a few times before (always when we bumped into each other while clubbing) and we've had some kind of click. \n\nI don't have her phone number, and I'm going over to his house tomorrow to talk to him, face to face. To see what he thinks about that I've done. And to ask for forgiveness."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I went clubbing yesterday with my best friend, henk, he sort of has a new gf but nothing steady yet. So henk's moving on into a new relationship. \n\n(Henk cheated with some one else, that's why they broke up)\n\nWhile clubbing henk's ex (rose) was there and we french kissed. i think she kissed me and im not sure what to think now.\n\nAfter we kissed she walked away without saying anything.\n\nHenk texted me this morning \"nice job kissing my ex\" I've been to his house to talk about it but he wasn't home.\n\nI'm not sure if rose kissed me because of the alcohol or to get some kind of revanche on henk or if she is interested in me?\n\nRose and I have talked a few times before (always when we bumped into each other while clubbing) and we've had some kind of click. \n\nI don't have her phone number, and I'm going over to his house tomorrow to talk to him, face to face. To see what he thinks about that I've done. And to ask for forgiveness."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I went clubbing yesterday with my best friend, henk, he sort of has a new gf but nothing steady yet. So henk's moving on into a new relationship. \n\n(Henk cheated with some one else, that's why they broke up)\n\nWhile clubbing henk's ex (rose) was there and we french kissed. i think she kissed me and im not sure what to think now.\n\nAfter we kissed she walked away without saying anything.\n\nHenk texted me this morning \"nice job kissing my ex\" I've been to his house to talk about it but he wasn't home.\n\nI'm not sure if rose kissed me because of the alcohol or to get some kind of revanche on henk or if she is interested in me?\n\nRose and I have talked a few times before (always when we bumped into each other while clubbing) and we've had some kind of click. \n\nI don't have her phone number, and I'm going over to his house tomorrow to talk to him, face to face. To see what he thinks about that I've done. And to ask for forgiveness."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm renting a house with 2 other guys in a slummy college town. I got pulled in last minute in July/August because one of the original renters dropped out of school and decided to stay in his hometown. \n\nRent for the house is a bit over $500/month including the utilities we pay for. The bills are pretty much all in my name. The lease is over at the end of July. but I'll be out of state June - August for an internship. and since the rent is way too high a subletter is out of the question. \n \nOne of the guys, Joe, moved here and got a job, but just dumps his paycheck into rent. He also owes me about $300 from covering his rent for a month. The other guy, Paul, has his parents pay his share of the rent.\n\nRecently, I haven't been living in my house (only been there maybe 5 times in the last month), I've been living at my girlfriend's house. Joe got a dog and the house smells terrible. My stuff goes missing or ends up broken. I'm out of a TV, it broke or something and they only told me when I showed up to the house for a few minutes to get some clothes.\n\nSo, then my girlfriend told me that I could just move the remaining bit of my stuff into her basement, break my lease, and just pay for a share of the utilities. \n\nI talked to my parents about it, and they want me to move out. my dad being rather angry about me lending money to Joe to pay his rent and him not fully paying it back. \n\nI can't bring myself to break the lease. I'll feel bad about Joe having to pay more, since he can barely afford it now. I know I have to get out of there, I can't afford to drop any more money into a house that I'm not living in. I'm not worried about a security deposit, I never paid one because the guy who dropped out never tried to get his deposit back. \n\nWhat should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm renting a house with 2 other guys in a slummy college town. I got pulled in last minute in July/August because one of the original renters dropped out of school and decided to stay in his hometown. \n\nRent for the house is a bit over $500/month including the utilities we pay for. The bills are pretty much all in my name. The lease is over at the end of July. but I'll be out of state June - August for an internship. and since the rent is way too high a subletter is out of the question. \n \nOne of the guys, Joe, moved here and got a job, but just dumps his paycheck into rent. He also owes me about $300 from covering his rent for a month. The other guy, Paul, has his parents pay his share of the rent.\n\nRecently, I haven't been living in my house (only been there maybe 5 times in the last month), I've been living at my girlfriend's house. Joe got a dog and the house smells terrible. My stuff goes missing or ends up broken. I'm out of a TV, it broke or something and they only told me when I showed up to the house for a few minutes to get some clothes.\n\nSo, then my girlfriend told me that I could just move the remaining bit of my stuff into her basement, break my lease, and just pay for a share of the utilities. \n\nI talked to my parents about it, and they want me to move out. my dad being rather angry about me lending money to Joe to pay his rent and him not fully paying it back. \n\nI can't bring myself to break the lease. I'll feel bad about Joe having to pay more, since he can barely afford it now. I know I have to get out of there, I can't afford to drop any more money into a house that I'm not living in. I'm not worried about a security deposit, I never paid one because the guy who dropped out never tried to get his deposit back. \n\nWhat should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm renting a house with 2 other guys in a slummy college town. I got pulled in last minute in July/August because one of the original renters dropped out of school and decided to stay in his hometown. \n\nRent for the house is a bit over $500/month including the utilities we pay for. The bills are pretty much all in my name. The lease is over at the end of July. but I'll be out of state June - August for an internship. and since the rent is way too high a subletter is out of the question. \n \nOne of the guys, Joe, moved here and got a job, but just dumps his paycheck into rent. He also owes me about $300 from covering his rent for a month. The other guy, Paul, has his parents pay his share of the rent.\n\nRecently, I haven't been living in my house (only been there maybe 5 times in the last month), I've been living at my girlfriend's house. Joe got a dog and the house smells terrible. My stuff goes missing or ends up broken. I'm out of a TV, it broke or something and they only told me when I showed up to the house for a few minutes to get some clothes.\n\nSo, then my girlfriend told me that I could just move the remaining bit of my stuff into her basement, break my lease, and just pay for a share of the utilities. \n\nI talked to my parents about it, and they want me to move out. my dad being rather angry about me lending money to Joe to pay his rent and him not fully paying it back. \n\nI can't bring myself to break the lease. I'll feel bad about Joe having to pay more, since he can barely afford it now. I know I have to get out of there, I can't afford to drop any more money into a house that I'm not living in. I'm not worried about a security deposit, I never paid one because the guy who dropped out never tried to get his deposit back. \n\nWhat should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm renting a house with 2 other guys in a slummy college town. I got pulled in last minute in July/August because one of the original renters dropped out of school and decided to stay in his hometown. \n\nRent for the house is a bit over $500/month including the utilities we pay for. The bills are pretty much all in my name. The lease is over at the end of July. but I'll be out of state June - August for an internship. and since the rent is way too high a subletter is out of the question. \n \nOne of the guys, Joe, moved here and got a job, but just dumps his paycheck into rent. He also owes me about $300 from covering his rent for a month. The other guy, Paul, has his parents pay his share of the rent.\n\nRecently, I haven't been living in my house (only been there maybe 5 times in the last month), I've been living at my girlfriend's house. Joe got a dog and the house smells terrible. My stuff goes missing or ends up broken. I'm out of a TV, it broke or something and they only told me when I showed up to the house for a few minutes to get some clothes.\n\nSo, then my girlfriend told me that I could just move the remaining bit of my stuff into her basement, break my lease, and just pay for a share of the utilities. \n\nI talked to my parents about it, and they want me to move out. my dad being rather angry about me lending money to Joe to pay his rent and him not fully paying it back. \n\nI can't bring myself to break the lease. I'll feel bad about Joe having to pay more, since he can barely afford it now. I know I have to get out of there, I can't afford to drop any more money into a house that I'm not living in. I'm not worried about a security deposit, I never paid one because the guy who dropped out never tried to get his deposit back. \n\nWhat should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this guy through Tinder and he said that he was looking to make friends and he doesn't really hook up. He has but he was a relationship guy. (I can tell he was honest about it. I've met too many guys who aren't.) I can respect that. I spent some time with him and his friends and I had a blast. We talked a bunch and it was great. \n\nIt was clear we got along and we ended up hooking up. The signs were there. Initiating physical contact, asking about my schedule, telling me that he'd like to do it again/agreeing when I say so. But we didn't make definite plans. He did initially say he was looking for friends and if there happens to be something more it happens. \n\nI really like him. I don't remember being attracted to someone like this in so long where it was actually feasible for me to maybe date him and someone who actually seems to be a good guy. Do I initiate? Would I seem eager if I did? If I do, do I make it seem under the pretense that it's because I'm interested. Or should I just be his friend? (Ignoring my feelings are totally an option, people have valid reasons for not wanting a relationship.)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this guy through Tinder and he said that he was looking to make friends and he doesn't really hook up. He has but he was a relationship guy. (I can tell he was honest about it. I've met too many guys who aren't.) I can respect that. I spent some time with him and his friends and I had a blast. We talked a bunch and it was great. \n\nIt was clear we got along and we ended up hooking up. The signs were there. Initiating physical contact, asking about my schedule, telling me that he'd like to do it again/agreeing when I say so. But we didn't make definite plans. He did initially say he was looking for friends and if there happens to be something more it happens. \n\nI really like him. I don't remember being attracted to someone like this in so long where it was actually feasible for me to maybe date him and someone who actually seems to be a good guy. Do I initiate? Would I seem eager if I did? If I do, do I make it seem under the pretense that it's because I'm interested. Or should I just be his friend? (Ignoring my feelings are totally an option, people have valid reasons for not wanting a relationship.)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this guy through Tinder and he said that he was looking to make friends and he doesn't really hook up. He has but he was a relationship guy. (I can tell he was honest about it. I've met too many guys who aren't.) I can respect that. I spent some time with him and his friends and I had a blast. We talked a bunch and it was great. \n\nIt was clear we got along and we ended up hooking up. The signs were there. Initiating physical contact, asking about my schedule, telling me that he'd like to do it again/agreeing when I say so. But we didn't make definite plans. He did initially say he was looking for friends and if there happens to be something more it happens. \n\nI really like him. I don't remember being attracted to someone like this in so long where it was actually feasible for me to maybe date him and someone who actually seems to be a good guy. Do I initiate? Would I seem eager if I did? If I do, do I make it seem under the pretense that it's because I'm interested. Or should I just be his friend? (Ignoring my feelings are totally an option, people have valid reasons for not wanting a relationship.)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this guy through Tinder and he said that he was looking to make friends and he doesn't really hook up. He has but he was a relationship guy. (I can tell he was honest about it. I've met too many guys who aren't.) I can respect that. I spent some time with him and his friends and I had a blast. We talked a bunch and it was great. \n\nIt was clear we got along and we ended up hooking up. The signs were there. Initiating physical contact, asking about my schedule, telling me that he'd like to do it again/agreeing when I say so. But we didn't make definite plans. He did initially say he was looking for friends and if there happens to be something more it happens. \n\nI really like him. I don't remember being attracted to someone like this in so long where it was actually feasible for me to maybe date him and someone who actually seems to be a good guy. Do I initiate? Would I seem eager if I did? If I do, do I make it seem under the pretense that it's because I'm interested. Or should I just be his friend? (Ignoring my feelings are totally an option, people have valid reasons for not wanting a relationship.)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My cousin, we'll call him John, was diagnosed last year with manic depression bipolar disorder. He was admitted to a mental health clinic and chose to stay and even kept up with his meds. for only a month. \nSince then he got a job, was doing quite well, the fall came and went without a hiccup in his behavior, which usually was around the time he would start to become manic. A couple weeks ago everyone started noticing a change in his behavior. His family had learned to to recognize the signs. Two weeks ago he attacked his brother, got the cops called on him, was sent to a hospital for an evaluation, and much to our chagrin was let out. He had to go to court and is now facing a restraining order on his brother rendering him homeless for the time being. \n\nLast night he reached out to another one of his brothers, (he has 2) and insisted he come talk to him. Although he had been staying at various friends and families houses and getting kicked out repeatedly and was obviously not in the right state of mind, his brother decided to go down and see him in the next town over at a bar. Cut to about 3 hours later we're chasing him down the street as he flees off into the night once again with no money, no place to stay, and no forseeable plans whatsoever. All the while he's cursing us out, screaming at us all while walking in a residential neighborhood. He doesn't want to hear about treatment, he thinks we're the ones with mental issues, and he won't take meds. We eventually had him arrested around 5am and brought to another hospital. He made it the same day at 11am. \nHis manic states include violent lashing out, yelling, staying up for days at a time, and pretty much fleeing the scene everytime somebody brings up treatment. We have a big family that is very close, so my mother and most of my extended family is very involved and worried. He's sleeping at our house tonight. \n\nBasically what I want to know is, how do we get somebody who's manic to accept treatment, take medication, and get back on the road to recovery?\n\nwill answer any/all questions that will help you better understand the situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My cousin, we'll call him John, was diagnosed last year with manic depression bipolar disorder. He was admitted to a mental health clinic and chose to stay and even kept up with his meds. for only a month. \nSince then he got a job, was doing quite well, the fall came and went without a hiccup in his behavior, which usually was around the time he would start to become manic. A couple weeks ago everyone started noticing a change in his behavior. His family had learned to to recognize the signs. Two weeks ago he attacked his brother, got the cops called on him, was sent to a hospital for an evaluation, and much to our chagrin was let out. He had to go to court and is now facing a restraining order on his brother rendering him homeless for the time being. \n\nLast night he reached out to another one of his brothers, (he has 2) and insisted he come talk to him. Although he had been staying at various friends and families houses and getting kicked out repeatedly and was obviously not in the right state of mind, his brother decided to go down and see him in the next town over at a bar. Cut to about 3 hours later we're chasing him down the street as he flees off into the night once again with no money, no place to stay, and no forseeable plans whatsoever. All the while he's cursing us out, screaming at us all while walking in a residential neighborhood. He doesn't want to hear about treatment, he thinks we're the ones with mental issues, and he won't take meds. We eventually had him arrested around 5am and brought to another hospital. He made it the same day at 11am. \nHis manic states include violent lashing out, yelling, staying up for days at a time, and pretty much fleeing the scene everytime somebody brings up treatment. We have a big family that is very close, so my mother and most of my extended family is very involved and worried. He's sleeping at our house tonight. \n\nBasically what I want to know is, how do we get somebody who's manic to accept treatment, take medication, and get back on the road to recovery?\n\nwill answer any/all questions that will help you better understand the situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My cousin, we'll call him John, was diagnosed last year with manic depression bipolar disorder. He was admitted to a mental health clinic and chose to stay and even kept up with his meds. for only a month. \nSince then he got a job, was doing quite well, the fall came and went without a hiccup in his behavior, which usually was around the time he would start to become manic. A couple weeks ago everyone started noticing a change in his behavior. His family had learned to to recognize the signs. Two weeks ago he attacked his brother, got the cops called on him, was sent to a hospital for an evaluation, and much to our chagrin was let out. He had to go to court and is now facing a restraining order on his brother rendering him homeless for the time being. \n\nLast night he reached out to another one of his brothers, (he has 2) and insisted he come talk to him. Although he had been staying at various friends and families houses and getting kicked out repeatedly and was obviously not in the right state of mind, his brother decided to go down and see him in the next town over at a bar. Cut to about 3 hours later we're chasing him down the street as he flees off into the night once again with no money, no place to stay, and no forseeable plans whatsoever. All the while he's cursing us out, screaming at us all while walking in a residential neighborhood. He doesn't want to hear about treatment, he thinks we're the ones with mental issues, and he won't take meds. We eventually had him arrested around 5am and brought to another hospital. He made it the same day at 11am. \nHis manic states include violent lashing out, yelling, staying up for days at a time, and pretty much fleeing the scene everytime somebody brings up treatment. We have a big family that is very close, so my mother and most of my extended family is very involved and worried. He's sleeping at our house tonight. \n\nBasically what I want to know is, how do we get somebody who's manic to accept treatment, take medication, and get back on the road to recovery?\n\nwill answer any/all questions that will help you better understand the situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My cousin, we'll call him John, was diagnosed last year with manic depression bipolar disorder. He was admitted to a mental health clinic and chose to stay and even kept up with his meds. for only a month. \nSince then he got a job, was doing quite well, the fall came and went without a hiccup in his behavior, which usually was around the time he would start to become manic. A couple weeks ago everyone started noticing a change in his behavior. His family had learned to to recognize the signs. Two weeks ago he attacked his brother, got the cops called on him, was sent to a hospital for an evaluation, and much to our chagrin was let out. He had to go to court and is now facing a restraining order on his brother rendering him homeless for the time being. \n\nLast night he reached out to another one of his brothers, (he has 2) and insisted he come talk to him. Although he had been staying at various friends and families houses and getting kicked out repeatedly and was obviously not in the right state of mind, his brother decided to go down and see him in the next town over at a bar. Cut to about 3 hours later we're chasing him down the street as he flees off into the night once again with no money, no place to stay, and no forseeable plans whatsoever. All the while he's cursing us out, screaming at us all while walking in a residential neighborhood. He doesn't want to hear about treatment, he thinks we're the ones with mental issues, and he won't take meds. We eventually had him arrested around 5am and brought to another hospital. He made it the same day at 11am. \nHis manic states include violent lashing out, yelling, staying up for days at a time, and pretty much fleeing the scene everytime somebody brings up treatment. We have a big family that is very close, so my mother and most of my extended family is very involved and worried. He's sleeping at our house tonight. \n\nBasically what I want to know is, how do we get somebody who's manic to accept treatment, take medication, and get back on the road to recovery?\n\nwill answer any/all questions that will help you better understand the situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I will try to keep this short. Basically, my friend recently has his grandma pass away. He has no other family, and has lived with her a vast majority of his life. She was the closest relationship he had. He got the house taken away, and very briefly was staying in a car with his girlfriend, who then cheated on him. Since then, he has been crashing wherever he can. This has all happened over the last 2 months.\n\nSo my boyfriend and I have a small one bedroom apartment. We have a hard time buying food/paying rent each month, but we manage. I had offered for the friend to crash on our couch sometime if he needed to.\n\nThe friend has now been here close to a week. We originally assumed it was a one-night thing, and then he seemed to assume it was a \"however-long-you-need\" thing. He has been very nice and non-intrusive, but it's starting to be too much for my boyfriend. On top of that, our landlord lives across from us, and our lease specifies that a guest can only stay 1-2 weeks before they need to sign a rental agreement.\n\nThe friend has nowhere to go. He just got a part time job, but otherwise has nothing saved. He has no family, and very few friends. My boyfriend had to couch surf for about a year in/after high school, so he knows what that is like. He thinks that the friend needs to just figure out how to manage and not rely on other people, because that's what he had to do. He felt lazy and like he took advantage of people letting him crash at their houses, and doesn't want to see the friend make the same mistakes. I do want our space back, but I don't feel comfortable kicking someone out to sleep on the streets just because we are uncomfortable. He does not have a car. I don't know how to handle this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I will try to keep this short. Basically, my friend recently has his grandma pass away. He has no other family, and has lived with her a vast majority of his life. She was the closest relationship he had. He got the house taken away, and very briefly was staying in a car with his girlfriend, who then cheated on him. Since then, he has been crashing wherever he can. This has all happened over the last 2 months.\n\nSo my boyfriend and I have a small one bedroom apartment. We have a hard time buying food/paying rent each month, but we manage. I had offered for the friend to crash on our couch sometime if he needed to.\n\nThe friend has now been here close to a week. We originally assumed it was a one-night thing, and then he seemed to assume it was a \"however-long-you-need\" thing. He has been very nice and non-intrusive, but it's starting to be too much for my boyfriend. On top of that, our landlord lives across from us, and our lease specifies that a guest can only stay 1-2 weeks before they need to sign a rental agreement.\n\nThe friend has nowhere to go. He just got a part time job, but otherwise has nothing saved. He has no family, and very few friends. My boyfriend had to couch surf for about a year in/after high school, so he knows what that is like. He thinks that the friend needs to just figure out how to manage and not rely on other people, because that's what he had to do. He felt lazy and like he took advantage of people letting him crash at their houses, and doesn't want to see the friend make the same mistakes. I do want our space back, but I don't feel comfortable kicking someone out to sleep on the streets just because we are uncomfortable. He does not have a car. I don't know how to handle this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I will try to keep this short. Basically, my friend recently has his grandma pass away. He has no other family, and has lived with her a vast majority of his life. She was the closest relationship he had. He got the house taken away, and very briefly was staying in a car with his girlfriend, who then cheated on him. Since then, he has been crashing wherever he can. This has all happened over the last 2 months.\n\nSo my boyfriend and I have a small one bedroom apartment. We have a hard time buying food/paying rent each month, but we manage. I had offered for the friend to crash on our couch sometime if he needed to.\n\nThe friend has now been here close to a week. We originally assumed it was a one-night thing, and then he seemed to assume it was a \"however-long-you-need\" thing. He has been very nice and non-intrusive, but it's starting to be too much for my boyfriend. On top of that, our landlord lives across from us, and our lease specifies that a guest can only stay 1-2 weeks before they need to sign a rental agreement.\n\nThe friend has nowhere to go. He just got a part time job, but otherwise has nothing saved. He has no family, and very few friends. My boyfriend had to couch surf for about a year in/after high school, so he knows what that is like. He thinks that the friend needs to just figure out how to manage and not rely on other people, because that's what he had to do. He felt lazy and like he took advantage of people letting him crash at their houses, and doesn't want to see the friend make the same mistakes. I do want our space back, but I don't feel comfortable kicking someone out to sleep on the streets just because we are uncomfortable. He does not have a car. I don't know how to handle this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I will try to keep this short. Basically, my friend recently has his grandma pass away. He has no other family, and has lived with her a vast majority of his life. She was the closest relationship he had. He got the house taken away, and very briefly was staying in a car with his girlfriend, who then cheated on him. Since then, he has been crashing wherever he can. This has all happened over the last 2 months.\n\nSo my boyfriend and I have a small one bedroom apartment. We have a hard time buying food/paying rent each month, but we manage. I had offered for the friend to crash on our couch sometime if he needed to.\n\nThe friend has now been here close to a week. We originally assumed it was a one-night thing, and then he seemed to assume it was a \"however-long-you-need\" thing. He has been very nice and non-intrusive, but it's starting to be too much for my boyfriend. On top of that, our landlord lives across from us, and our lease specifies that a guest can only stay 1-2 weeks before they need to sign a rental agreement.\n\nThe friend has nowhere to go. He just got a part time job, but otherwise has nothing saved. He has no family, and very few friends. My boyfriend had to couch surf for about a year in/after high school, so he knows what that is like. He thinks that the friend needs to just figure out how to manage and not rely on other people, because that's what he had to do. He felt lazy and like he took advantage of people letting him crash at their houses, and doesn't want to see the friend make the same mistakes. I do want our space back, but I don't feel comfortable kicking someone out to sleep on the streets just because we are uncomfortable. He does not have a car. I don't know how to handle this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, we've been dating for about 3 months, and I really care about her, but I don't feel the same connection to her that I did when we got together. I don't know what to do. I don't want to break up with her, but I don't know if I want to spend my life with her.\n\nIt's all the more complicated for me when she got into a fight with her parents where they made her choose between me or them, and she chose me. \n\nIf I break up with her, I've effectively screwed her out of a place to live, and broke her heart. But at the same time, the whole relationship just feels empty to me. The sentiment is there, but the emotion is one-sided."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, we've been dating for about 3 months, and I really care about her, but I don't feel the same connection to her that I did when we got together. I don't know what to do. I don't want to break up with her, but I don't know if I want to spend my life with her.\n\nIt's all the more complicated for me when she got into a fight with her parents where they made her choose between me or them, and she chose me. \n\nIf I break up with her, I've effectively screwed her out of a place to live, and broke her heart. But at the same time, the whole relationship just feels empty to me. The sentiment is there, but the emotion is one-sided."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, we've been dating for about 3 months, and I really care about her, but I don't feel the same connection to her that I did when we got together. I don't know what to do. I don't want to break up with her, but I don't know if I want to spend my life with her.\n\nIt's all the more complicated for me when she got into a fight with her parents where they made her choose between me or them, and she chose me. \n\nIf I break up with her, I've effectively screwed her out of a place to live, and broke her heart. But at the same time, the whole relationship just feels empty to me. The sentiment is there, but the emotion is one-sided."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, we've been dating for about 3 months, and I really care about her, but I don't feel the same connection to her that I did when we got together. I don't know what to do. I don't want to break up with her, but I don't know if I want to spend my life with her.\n\nIt's all the more complicated for me when she got into a fight with her parents where they made her choose between me or them, and she chose me. \n\nIf I break up with her, I've effectively screwed her out of a place to live, and broke her heart. But at the same time, the whole relationship just feels empty to me. The sentiment is there, but the emotion is one-sided."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's my second post on this sub in a week. The last one went unnoticed, so I hope this one will more answers and ideas for me to make up my mind about wether to leave my wife or to endure my life for the moment and wait for my daughter to grow up. \n\nTo resume : Me and my wife were drug addicts. I decided to quit. She didn't want to. She left me for a friend who was still using. Fast forward 9 months: She and the friend didn't work out and my then ex rented a place next to mine for school accessibility. A \n\nA couple months later we were so close from each other that we decided to get back together. That was 3 years ago. We were clean for a year then and we still had a relationship that was cordial. \n\nA couple of years before this big split we had already cheated on each other. \n\nI'm unhappy, she seams to accommodate with the status quo. \n\nI'm getting more and more anxious. \n\nI don't hate her at all. On the contrary, we get along just fine. \n\nWe are like the best roommates couples but there is nothing passionate left in the relationship. \n\nThe sex feels awkward for both of us so it kind of disappeared. \n\nThe only thing stopping me from leaving is my daughter.\n\nI'm a divorced kid and it went bad for me so I'm scared for her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's my second post on this sub in a week. The last one went unnoticed, so I hope this one will more answers and ideas for me to make up my mind about wether to leave my wife or to endure my life for the moment and wait for my daughter to grow up. \n\nTo resume : Me and my wife were drug addicts. I decided to quit. She didn't want to. She left me for a friend who was still using. Fast forward 9 months: She and the friend didn't work out and my then ex rented a place next to mine for school accessibility. A \n\nA couple months later we were so close from each other that we decided to get back together. That was 3 years ago. We were clean for a year then and we still had a relationship that was cordial. \n\nA couple of years before this big split we had already cheated on each other. \n\nI'm unhappy, she seams to accommodate with the status quo. \n\nI'm getting more and more anxious. \n\nI don't hate her at all. On the contrary, we get along just fine. \n\nWe are like the best roommates couples but there is nothing passionate left in the relationship. \n\nThe sex feels awkward for both of us so it kind of disappeared. \n\nThe only thing stopping me from leaving is my daughter.\n\nI'm a divorced kid and it went bad for me so I'm scared for her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's my second post on this sub in a week. The last one went unnoticed, so I hope this one will more answers and ideas for me to make up my mind about wether to leave my wife or to endure my life for the moment and wait for my daughter to grow up. \n\nTo resume : Me and my wife were drug addicts. I decided to quit. She didn't want to. She left me for a friend who was still using. Fast forward 9 months: She and the friend didn't work out and my then ex rented a place next to mine for school accessibility. A \n\nA couple months later we were so close from each other that we decided to get back together. That was 3 years ago. We were clean for a year then and we still had a relationship that was cordial. \n\nA couple of years before this big split we had already cheated on each other. \n\nI'm unhappy, she seams to accommodate with the status quo. \n\nI'm getting more and more anxious. \n\nI don't hate her at all. On the contrary, we get along just fine. \n\nWe are like the best roommates couples but there is nothing passionate left in the relationship. \n\nThe sex feels awkward for both of us so it kind of disappeared. \n\nThe only thing stopping me from leaving is my daughter.\n\nI'm a divorced kid and it went bad for me so I'm scared for her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's my second post on this sub in a week. The last one went unnoticed, so I hope this one will more answers and ideas for me to make up my mind about wether to leave my wife or to endure my life for the moment and wait for my daughter to grow up. \n\nTo resume : Me and my wife were drug addicts. I decided to quit. She didn't want to. She left me for a friend who was still using. Fast forward 9 months: She and the friend didn't work out and my then ex rented a place next to mine for school accessibility. A \n\nA couple months later we were so close from each other that we decided to get back together. That was 3 years ago. We were clean for a year then and we still had a relationship that was cordial. \n\nA couple of years before this big split we had already cheated on each other. \n\nI'm unhappy, she seams to accommodate with the status quo. \n\nI'm getting more and more anxious. \n\nI don't hate her at all. On the contrary, we get along just fine. \n\nWe are like the best roommates couples but there is nothing passionate left in the relationship. \n\nThe sex feels awkward for both of us so it kind of disappeared. \n\nThe only thing stopping me from leaving is my daughter.\n\nI'm a divorced kid and it went bad for me so I'm scared for her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Together for two and a half years, lived together for one year.\n\nWe were arguing a lot, and I admit to being quick to lose my temper over small things although we both played our parts in making these petty fights worse.\n\nAnyway, tonight she calls me in tears saying she's miserable, misses me, just wants things to go back to the way they were, needs a hug, will I come over, can we get back together etc.\n\nI feel a weird mix of emotions right now.\n\nAfter we first broke up I was crushed, but over the last couple of weeks have come to realise that I was not content in the relationship and would be much happier moving on and being single again. \n\nI was just starting to get excited about the future again, I was feeling better, but now I just feel sick.\n\nWe agreed to be friends, but is that even possible right now when she's clearly so devastated?\n\nI feel awful for her, but also guilty as I am not nearly as shaken by our break up at this point. I feel like I was just starting to come to terms with my new life. Eugghh, I have no idea what to feel right now, but I know I can't get back together with her. Any advice/perspective would be hugely appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Together for two and a half years, lived together for one year.\n\nWe were arguing a lot, and I admit to being quick to lose my temper over small things although we both played our parts in making these petty fights worse.\n\nAnyway, tonight she calls me in tears saying she's miserable, misses me, just wants things to go back to the way they were, needs a hug, will I come over, can we get back together etc.\n\nI feel a weird mix of emotions right now.\n\nAfter we first broke up I was crushed, but over the last couple of weeks have come to realise that I was not content in the relationship and would be much happier moving on and being single again. \n\nI was just starting to get excited about the future again, I was feeling better, but now I just feel sick.\n\nWe agreed to be friends, but is that even possible right now when she's clearly so devastated?\n\nI feel awful for her, but also guilty as I am not nearly as shaken by our break up at this point. I feel like I was just starting to come to terms with my new life. Eugghh, I have no idea what to feel right now, but I know I can't get back together with her. Any advice/perspective would be hugely appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Together for two and a half years, lived together for one year.\n\nWe were arguing a lot, and I admit to being quick to lose my temper over small things although we both played our parts in making these petty fights worse.\n\nAnyway, tonight she calls me in tears saying she's miserable, misses me, just wants things to go back to the way they were, needs a hug, will I come over, can we get back together etc.\n\nI feel a weird mix of emotions right now.\n\nAfter we first broke up I was crushed, but over the last couple of weeks have come to realise that I was not content in the relationship and would be much happier moving on and being single again. \n\nI was just starting to get excited about the future again, I was feeling better, but now I just feel sick.\n\nWe agreed to be friends, but is that even possible right now when she's clearly so devastated?\n\nI feel awful for her, but also guilty as I am not nearly as shaken by our break up at this point. I feel like I was just starting to come to terms with my new life. Eugghh, I have no idea what to feel right now, but I know I can't get back together with her. Any advice/perspective would be hugely appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Together for two and a half years, lived together for one year.\n\nWe were arguing a lot, and I admit to being quick to lose my temper over small things although we both played our parts in making these petty fights worse.\n\nAnyway, tonight she calls me in tears saying she's miserable, misses me, just wants things to go back to the way they were, needs a hug, will I come over, can we get back together etc.\n\nI feel a weird mix of emotions right now.\n\nAfter we first broke up I was crushed, but over the last couple of weeks have come to realise that I was not content in the relationship and would be much happier moving on and being single again. \n\nI was just starting to get excited about the future again, I was feeling better, but now I just feel sick.\n\nWe agreed to be friends, but is that even possible right now when she's clearly so devastated?\n\nI feel awful for her, but also guilty as I am not nearly as shaken by our break up at this point. I feel like I was just starting to come to terms with my new life. Eugghh, I have no idea what to feel right now, but I know I can't get back together with her. Any advice/perspective would be hugely appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend now was my best friend in high school, so we have known each other for about 5 years. We reconnected over this last winter break. We have only been dating for about 3 months and its about half long distance because he goes to school 7 hours away. \n\nAnyway, when he was a virgin until he was 18/19 so he claims he is far more \"inexperienced\" than I am. He didnt have his first kiss until he went away to college. He is a little shy and awkward about sex, and he claims it is because of the fact he hasnt had many sexual partners. It is hard to have conversations about our sex life which is especially important in my eyes when we will not see each other half of the year.\n\nI personally think it is because he has seen some really messed up treatment of girls when he was in high school. Some of his friends were less than nice to very inebriated girls at parties etc in high school I dont want to go into detail but he had to witness some of that first hand. \n\nI have tried expressing to him that I want him to feel comfortable talking about sex with me and its okay for him to be shy about it. Overall I just dont know what I can do as our relationship progresses to make him feel comfortable about being a sexual being! I just want him to feel like he can express himself to me comfortably."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend now was my best friend in high school, so we have known each other for about 5 years. We reconnected over this last winter break. We have only been dating for about 3 months and its about half long distance because he goes to school 7 hours away. \n\nAnyway, when he was a virgin until he was 18/19 so he claims he is far more \"inexperienced\" than I am. He didnt have his first kiss until he went away to college. He is a little shy and awkward about sex, and he claims it is because of the fact he hasnt had many sexual partners. It is hard to have conversations about our sex life which is especially important in my eyes when we will not see each other half of the year.\n\nI personally think it is because he has seen some really messed up treatment of girls when he was in high school. Some of his friends were less than nice to very inebriated girls at parties etc in high school I dont want to go into detail but he had to witness some of that first hand. \n\nI have tried expressing to him that I want him to feel comfortable talking about sex with me and its okay for him to be shy about it. Overall I just dont know what I can do as our relationship progresses to make him feel comfortable about being a sexual being! I just want him to feel like he can express himself to me comfortably."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend now was my best friend in high school, so we have known each other for about 5 years. We reconnected over this last winter break. We have only been dating for about 3 months and its about half long distance because he goes to school 7 hours away. \n\nAnyway, when he was a virgin until he was 18/19 so he claims he is far more \"inexperienced\" than I am. He didnt have his first kiss until he went away to college. He is a little shy and awkward about sex, and he claims it is because of the fact he hasnt had many sexual partners. It is hard to have conversations about our sex life which is especially important in my eyes when we will not see each other half of the year.\n\nI personally think it is because he has seen some really messed up treatment of girls when he was in high school. Some of his friends were less than nice to very inebriated girls at parties etc in high school I dont want to go into detail but he had to witness some of that first hand. \n\nI have tried expressing to him that I want him to feel comfortable talking about sex with me and its okay for him to be shy about it. Overall I just dont know what I can do as our relationship progresses to make him feel comfortable about being a sexual being! I just want him to feel like he can express himself to me comfortably."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend now was my best friend in high school, so we have known each other for about 5 years. We reconnected over this last winter break. We have only been dating for about 3 months and its about half long distance because he goes to school 7 hours away. \n\nAnyway, when he was a virgin until he was 18/19 so he claims he is far more \"inexperienced\" than I am. He didnt have his first kiss until he went away to college. He is a little shy and awkward about sex, and he claims it is because of the fact he hasnt had many sexual partners. It is hard to have conversations about our sex life which is especially important in my eyes when we will not see each other half of the year.\n\nI personally think it is because he has seen some really messed up treatment of girls when he was in high school. Some of his friends were less than nice to very inebriated girls at parties etc in high school I dont want to go into detail but he had to witness some of that first hand. \n\nI have tried expressing to him that I want him to feel comfortable talking about sex with me and its okay for him to be shy about it. Overall I just dont know what I can do as our relationship progresses to make him feel comfortable about being a sexual being! I just want him to feel like he can express himself to me comfortably."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend of 2 years blindsided me with a break up one night. It's as if over one night the \"I love you\" meant nothing. \n\nThroughout the summer we had been bickering and butting heads somewhat frequently but nothing ever major. I work an odd work schedule but when I was at my house she was there nearly everytime. For a few months we had been looking at rings and talking about marriage. \n\nI was buying the ring next week and had the whole proposal planned out. \n\nShes going through a stressful time in nursing school and I will admit that I didn't help that stress level. We began to have communication issues but nothing we couldn't have worked out. \n\nShe said that I have been smothering her and that she needs her space. \n\nWe've been mostly NC except that her grandpa fell and had surgery at which time I contacted her to find out what room he was in at the hospital and went to visit them when she wasn't there. (I got permission from her to see them.) I thought Id be marrying her and already considered them family. \n\nShe gave me the whole \"I'll always love you no matter what happens.\"\n\nSo what do I do? She said she needed her space so like I've said, I've kept contact to a minimum. It's just killing me not seeing her and not talking to her when I felt we were so close, but she seems to act like it was an easy decision. At some point do I contact her or just wait and see what happens?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend of 2 years blindsided me with a break up one night. It's as if over one night the \"I love you\" meant nothing. \n\nThroughout the summer we had been bickering and butting heads somewhat frequently but nothing ever major. I work an odd work schedule but when I was at my house she was there nearly everytime. For a few months we had been looking at rings and talking about marriage. \n\nI was buying the ring next week and had the whole proposal planned out. \n\nShes going through a stressful time in nursing school and I will admit that I didn't help that stress level. We began to have communication issues but nothing we couldn't have worked out. \n\nShe said that I have been smothering her and that she needs her space. \n\nWe've been mostly NC except that her grandpa fell and had surgery at which time I contacted her to find out what room he was in at the hospital and went to visit them when she wasn't there. (I got permission from her to see them.) I thought Id be marrying her and already considered them family. \n\nShe gave me the whole \"I'll always love you no matter what happens.\"\n\nSo what do I do? She said she needed her space so like I've said, I've kept contact to a minimum. It's just killing me not seeing her and not talking to her when I felt we were so close, but she seems to act like it was an easy decision. At some point do I contact her or just wait and see what happens?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend of 2 years blindsided me with a break up one night. It's as if over one night the \"I love you\" meant nothing. \n\nThroughout the summer we had been bickering and butting heads somewhat frequently but nothing ever major. I work an odd work schedule but when I was at my house she was there nearly everytime. For a few months we had been looking at rings and talking about marriage. \n\nI was buying the ring next week and had the whole proposal planned out. \n\nShes going through a stressful time in nursing school and I will admit that I didn't help that stress level. We began to have communication issues but nothing we couldn't have worked out. \n\nShe said that I have been smothering her and that she needs her space. \n\nWe've been mostly NC except that her grandpa fell and had surgery at which time I contacted her to find out what room he was in at the hospital and went to visit them when she wasn't there. (I got permission from her to see them.) I thought Id be marrying her and already considered them family. \n\nShe gave me the whole \"I'll always love you no matter what happens.\"\n\nSo what do I do? She said she needed her space so like I've said, I've kept contact to a minimum. It's just killing me not seeing her and not talking to her when I felt we were so close, but she seems to act like it was an easy decision. At some point do I contact her or just wait and see what happens?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend of 2 years blindsided me with a break up one night. It's as if over one night the \"I love you\" meant nothing. \n\nThroughout the summer we had been bickering and butting heads somewhat frequently but nothing ever major. I work an odd work schedule but when I was at my house she was there nearly everytime. For a few months we had been looking at rings and talking about marriage. \n\nI was buying the ring next week and had the whole proposal planned out. \n\nShes going through a stressful time in nursing school and I will admit that I didn't help that stress level. We began to have communication issues but nothing we couldn't have worked out. \n\nShe said that I have been smothering her and that she needs her space. \n\nWe've been mostly NC except that her grandpa fell and had surgery at which time I contacted her to find out what room he was in at the hospital and went to visit them when she wasn't there. (I got permission from her to see them.) I thought Id be marrying her and already considered them family. \n\nShe gave me the whole \"I'll always love you no matter what happens.\"\n\nSo what do I do? She said she needed her space so like I've said, I've kept contact to a minimum. It's just killing me not seeing her and not talking to her when I felt we were so close, but she seems to act like it was an easy decision. At some point do I contact her or just wait and see what happens?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I’m not sure if this is the right place but I wasn’t really sure where else. I have been having periods since I was 13 but over the past year as they got more regular they have become really bad. They only last about about five days but the first three days are extremely painful. I think its worse then normal cramps, the pain is so bad I sometimes throw up, its similar to the pain I felt when I had to have my appendix removed. The first two or three days I can’t really get out of bed and just have to curl up in a ball for hours. I have had to miss days of school and shifts at work because it. I have tried taking different pain killers but they don’t do very much.\n\nI have told my mum about it but she thinks I’m making it up. She thinks I’m just trying to get days off school and the thing is I have lied about being sick to get days off in the past and its kind of like the boy who cried wolf now. I have also told my dad and he just said I was being a drama queen and need to get over myself. I have asked them to take me to a doctor (we live about an hours drive away and public transport is almost nonexistent) in case something really is wrong but they say that they aren’t going to feed into it.\n\n The more I bring it up the more mum refuses to talk to me about it and now she has started ignoring me completely. The other day I tried to ask talk to my dad about it and he made some pretty gross jokes in front of the whole family. It has kind of become a household joke now and its really embarrassing. \n\nAny advice on what to do is very welcome."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I’m not sure if this is the right place but I wasn’t really sure where else. I have been having periods since I was 13 but over the past year as they got more regular they have become really bad. They only last about about five days but the first three days are extremely painful. I think its worse then normal cramps, the pain is so bad I sometimes throw up, its similar to the pain I felt when I had to have my appendix removed. The first two or three days I can’t really get out of bed and just have to curl up in a ball for hours. I have had to miss days of school and shifts at work because it. I have tried taking different pain killers but they don’t do very much.\n\nI have told my mum about it but she thinks I’m making it up. She thinks I’m just trying to get days off school and the thing is I have lied about being sick to get days off in the past and its kind of like the boy who cried wolf now. I have also told my dad and he just said I was being a drama queen and need to get over myself. I have asked them to take me to a doctor (we live about an hours drive away and public transport is almost nonexistent) in case something really is wrong but they say that they aren’t going to feed into it.\n\n The more I bring it up the more mum refuses to talk to me about it and now she has started ignoring me completely. The other day I tried to ask talk to my dad about it and he made some pretty gross jokes in front of the whole family. It has kind of become a household joke now and its really embarrassing. \n\nAny advice on what to do is very welcome."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I’m not sure if this is the right place but I wasn’t really sure where else. I have been having periods since I was 13 but over the past year as they got more regular they have become really bad. They only last about about five days but the first three days are extremely painful. I think its worse then normal cramps, the pain is so bad I sometimes throw up, its similar to the pain I felt when I had to have my appendix removed. The first two or three days I can’t really get out of bed and just have to curl up in a ball for hours. I have had to miss days of school and shifts at work because it. I have tried taking different pain killers but they don’t do very much.\n\nI have told my mum about it but she thinks I’m making it up. She thinks I’m just trying to get days off school and the thing is I have lied about being sick to get days off in the past and its kind of like the boy who cried wolf now. I have also told my dad and he just said I was being a drama queen and need to get over myself. I have asked them to take me to a doctor (we live about an hours drive away and public transport is almost nonexistent) in case something really is wrong but they say that they aren’t going to feed into it.\n\n The more I bring it up the more mum refuses to talk to me about it and now she has started ignoring me completely. The other day I tried to ask talk to my dad about it and he made some pretty gross jokes in front of the whole family. It has kind of become a household joke now and its really embarrassing. \n\nAny advice on what to do is very welcome."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I’m not sure if this is the right place but I wasn’t really sure where else. I have been having periods since I was 13 but over the past year as they got more regular they have become really bad. They only last about about five days but the first three days are extremely painful. I think its worse then normal cramps, the pain is so bad I sometimes throw up, its similar to the pain I felt when I had to have my appendix removed. The first two or three days I can’t really get out of bed and just have to curl up in a ball for hours. I have had to miss days of school and shifts at work because it. I have tried taking different pain killers but they don’t do very much.\n\nI have told my mum about it but she thinks I’m making it up. She thinks I’m just trying to get days off school and the thing is I have lied about being sick to get days off in the past and its kind of like the boy who cried wolf now. I have also told my dad and he just said I was being a drama queen and need to get over myself. I have asked them to take me to a doctor (we live about an hours drive away and public transport is almost nonexistent) in case something really is wrong but they say that they aren’t going to feed into it.\n\n The more I bring it up the more mum refuses to talk to me about it and now she has started ignoring me completely. The other day I tried to ask talk to my dad about it and he made some pretty gross jokes in front of the whole family. It has kind of become a household joke now and its really embarrassing. \n\nAny advice on what to do is very welcome."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There are a couple(4) months left on our contract, and she can't stand being in my company. I moved out after we argued to a friends house, been here almost 3 weeks now. She dislikes me so much so that she has threatened to make my life hell and reminds me that she wants to hit me every time lays her eyes on me.\n\nWithout being too detailed, the argument involved her breaking up with me (It was pretty mutual) and then finding me on Tinder couple days after(I'm a free man! Besides I found HER profile on it. Took a screenshot. Her 'friends' created her profile. Apparently). \n\nAnyway my issue is we have the flat contracted together (I think i might be the lead tenant since she had to have her mum as a guarantor.). What i want to know is can I legally kick out her guests/new bf if i move back in? If i don't want people around can i enforce this? This may sound petty and I feel immature asking this, but after we broke up she had her 'colleague' (who she's now seeing, and possibly was seeing while we were still together) over and I was perfectly fine about this. Do what you want, and I'll go ahead and join tinder. \n\nI'm a little pissed that after we met the other day to talk bills, she asked if i was still on tinder. 'Of course!' and she rolled her eyes and mouthed 'wow'. Then not 5 minutes later announced she was seeing someone. I declared i might have to move back in because i can't afford to pay 2 rents + bills. She replied by going on a rant saying she would make life difficult for me, she wouldn't hold back from having a go at a girl(if i found someone new) if they came over, wants to hit me etc etc.\n\nIs it a wise move for me to move back in? I would appreciate any input/experience from you :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There are a couple(4) months left on our contract, and she can't stand being in my company. I moved out after we argued to a friends house, been here almost 3 weeks now. She dislikes me so much so that she has threatened to make my life hell and reminds me that she wants to hit me every time lays her eyes on me.\n\nWithout being too detailed, the argument involved her breaking up with me (It was pretty mutual) and then finding me on Tinder couple days after(I'm a free man! Besides I found HER profile on it. Took a screenshot. Her 'friends' created her profile. Apparently). \n\nAnyway my issue is we have the flat contracted together (I think i might be the lead tenant since she had to have her mum as a guarantor.). What i want to know is can I legally kick out her guests/new bf if i move back in? If i don't want people around can i enforce this? This may sound petty and I feel immature asking this, but after we broke up she had her 'colleague' (who she's now seeing, and possibly was seeing while we were still together) over and I was perfectly fine about this. Do what you want, and I'll go ahead and join tinder. \n\nI'm a little pissed that after we met the other day to talk bills, she asked if i was still on tinder. 'Of course!' and she rolled her eyes and mouthed 'wow'. Then not 5 minutes later announced she was seeing someone. I declared i might have to move back in because i can't afford to pay 2 rents + bills. She replied by going on a rant saying she would make life difficult for me, she wouldn't hold back from having a go at a girl(if i found someone new) if they came over, wants to hit me etc etc.\n\nIs it a wise move for me to move back in? I would appreciate any input/experience from you :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There are a couple(4) months left on our contract, and she can't stand being in my company. I moved out after we argued to a friends house, been here almost 3 weeks now. She dislikes me so much so that she has threatened to make my life hell and reminds me that she wants to hit me every time lays her eyes on me.\n\nWithout being too detailed, the argument involved her breaking up with me (It was pretty mutual) and then finding me on Tinder couple days after(I'm a free man! Besides I found HER profile on it. Took a screenshot. Her 'friends' created her profile. Apparently). \n\nAnyway my issue is we have the flat contracted together (I think i might be the lead tenant since she had to have her mum as a guarantor.). What i want to know is can I legally kick out her guests/new bf if i move back in? If i don't want people around can i enforce this? This may sound petty and I feel immature asking this, but after we broke up she had her 'colleague' (who she's now seeing, and possibly was seeing while we were still together) over and I was perfectly fine about this. Do what you want, and I'll go ahead and join tinder. \n\nI'm a little pissed that after we met the other day to talk bills, she asked if i was still on tinder. 'Of course!' and she rolled her eyes and mouthed 'wow'. Then not 5 minutes later announced she was seeing someone. I declared i might have to move back in because i can't afford to pay 2 rents + bills. She replied by going on a rant saying she would make life difficult for me, she wouldn't hold back from having a go at a girl(if i found someone new) if they came over, wants to hit me etc etc.\n\nIs it a wise move for me to move back in? I would appreciate any input/experience from you :)"
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