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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 32 and male, she's 35, we've been married for a year and together for 5.\n\nI've been reading, on this sub and elsewhere, about jilted lovers discovering their SOs sleeping with other people. All of them fly into this possessive rage, and honestly, that's not something I can identify with.\n\nI'm 100% certain my wife loves me, and we're building a marriage with each other that will last the rest of our lives. Finding out that she's been intimate with another person won't change that at all.\n\nThere's good reason to think that she might like to sleep with other people: She's bisexual, and hasn't been with a woman since college. She and I have learned a lot about what turns her on, and it's only natural that she'd want to experiment some more-to take those kinks for a walk, so to speak.\n\nTo be clear: It's not that her being with someone else is a fetish of mine, or that I want license to sleep with other people myself. I'm all right with her sleeping with other men or women, and I know the default assumption is that I'm not. I just want her to be happy. We only get one life, you know what I mean?\n\nPlus, if she starts sleeping with girls, maybe I get threesomes someday.\n\nBut I have no idea how to tell her this without her thinking that a) I want to sleep other people, b) I'm asking her to sleep with other people, or c) I think I'm not satisfying her. Plus, I'm pretty sure she's not thinking about sex with others at the moment. I just want her to know it's an option.\n\nHow would you approach this? Should I tell her at all? How do I make it clear that it's an option, not a command or request?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 32 and male, she's 35, we've been married for a year and together for 5.\n\nI've been reading, on this sub and elsewhere, about jilted lovers discovering their SOs sleeping with other people. All of them fly into this possessive rage, and honestly, that's not something I can identify with.\n\nI'm 100% certain my wife loves me, and we're building a marriage with each other that will last the rest of our lives. Finding out that she's been intimate with another person won't change that at all.\n\nThere's good reason to think that she might like to sleep with other people: She's bisexual, and hasn't been with a woman since college. She and I have learned a lot about what turns her on, and it's only natural that she'd want to experiment some more-to take those kinks for a walk, so to speak.\n\nTo be clear: It's not that her being with someone else is a fetish of mine, or that I want license to sleep with other people myself. I'm all right with her sleeping with other men or women, and I know the default assumption is that I'm not. I just want her to be happy. We only get one life, you know what I mean?\n\nPlus, if she starts sleeping with girls, maybe I get threesomes someday.\n\nBut I have no idea how to tell her this without her thinking that a) I want to sleep other people, b) I'm asking her to sleep with other people, or c) I think I'm not satisfying her. Plus, I'm pretty sure she's not thinking about sex with others at the moment. I just want her to know it's an option.\n\nHow would you approach this? Should I tell her at all? How do I make it clear that it's an option, not a command or request?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 32 and male, she's 35, we've been married for a year and together for 5.\n\nI've been reading, on this sub and elsewhere, about jilted lovers discovering their SOs sleeping with other people. All of them fly into this possessive rage, and honestly, that's not something I can identify with.\n\nI'm 100% certain my wife loves me, and we're building a marriage with each other that will last the rest of our lives. Finding out that she's been intimate with another person won't change that at all.\n\nThere's good reason to think that she might like to sleep with other people: She's bisexual, and hasn't been with a woman since college. She and I have learned a lot about what turns her on, and it's only natural that she'd want to experiment some more-to take those kinks for a walk, so to speak.\n\nTo be clear: It's not that her being with someone else is a fetish of mine, or that I want license to sleep with other people myself. I'm all right with her sleeping with other men or women, and I know the default assumption is that I'm not. I just want her to be happy. We only get one life, you know what I mean?\n\nPlus, if she starts sleeping with girls, maybe I get threesomes someday.\n\nBut I have no idea how to tell her this without her thinking that a) I want to sleep other people, b) I'm asking her to sleep with other people, or c) I think I'm not satisfying her. Plus, I'm pretty sure she's not thinking about sex with others at the moment. I just want her to know it's an option.\n\nHow would you approach this? Should I tell her at all? How do I make it clear that it's an option, not a command or request?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I just got out of the military a couple of months ago, and am living with my dad at the moment. He is moving out of state, leaving me to fend for myself on my 30hr a week pizza delivery job. I have this girlfriend of 15 months that i plan on moving in with, the problem is I don't love her/care for her like i used to (or at all really anymore) she is a great person, fun to be with, totally awesome, but i decided I'm not going to spend the rest of my life with her. The other thing that influenced this decision is she cheated on me when i was gone for 2 months for training (this isnt about her cheating I got over that, and I'm gonna get my own later).\n\nSo It's me, her, and a friend of mine that are planning to move into a place. I'm trying to avoid going on the lease as much as possible for obvious reasons that this may not work out and would hate to be financially stuck somewhere. I have told her that I don't love her anymore because of what she did, but gave her false pretenses that this love might rekindle itself (it wont). She also doesnt have anywhere to go (living with me at my dads house) as her family moved out of state as well. If I break it off with her, i'm worried she wont have a place to go, and I'm kind of in the same boat because I don't have my dad to fall back on if something goes really bad.\n\nShould I suck it up and move in with her for the next 6-12 months or just end it completely leaving her to fend for herself?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I just got out of the military a couple of months ago, and am living with my dad at the moment. He is moving out of state, leaving me to fend for myself on my 30hr a week pizza delivery job. I have this girlfriend of 15 months that i plan on moving in with, the problem is I don't love her/care for her like i used to (or at all really anymore) she is a great person, fun to be with, totally awesome, but i decided I'm not going to spend the rest of my life with her. The other thing that influenced this decision is she cheated on me when i was gone for 2 months for training (this isnt about her cheating I got over that, and I'm gonna get my own later).\n\nSo It's me, her, and a friend of mine that are planning to move into a place. I'm trying to avoid going on the lease as much as possible for obvious reasons that this may not work out and would hate to be financially stuck somewhere. I have told her that I don't love her anymore because of what she did, but gave her false pretenses that this love might rekindle itself (it wont). She also doesnt have anywhere to go (living with me at my dads house) as her family moved out of state as well. If I break it off with her, i'm worried she wont have a place to go, and I'm kind of in the same boat because I don't have my dad to fall back on if something goes really bad.\n\nShould I suck it up and move in with her for the next 6-12 months or just end it completely leaving her to fend for herself?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I just got out of the military a couple of months ago, and am living with my dad at the moment. He is moving out of state, leaving me to fend for myself on my 30hr a week pizza delivery job. I have this girlfriend of 15 months that i plan on moving in with, the problem is I don't love her/care for her like i used to (or at all really anymore) she is a great person, fun to be with, totally awesome, but i decided I'm not going to spend the rest of my life with her. The other thing that influenced this decision is she cheated on me when i was gone for 2 months for training (this isnt about her cheating I got over that, and I'm gonna get my own later).\n\nSo It's me, her, and a friend of mine that are planning to move into a place. I'm trying to avoid going on the lease as much as possible for obvious reasons that this may not work out and would hate to be financially stuck somewhere. I have told her that I don't love her anymore because of what she did, but gave her false pretenses that this love might rekindle itself (it wont). She also doesnt have anywhere to go (living with me at my dads house) as her family moved out of state as well. If I break it off with her, i'm worried she wont have a place to go, and I'm kind of in the same boat because I don't have my dad to fall back on if something goes really bad.\n\nShould I suck it up and move in with her for the next 6-12 months or just end it completely leaving her to fend for herself?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I just got out of the military a couple of months ago, and am living with my dad at the moment. He is moving out of state, leaving me to fend for myself on my 30hr a week pizza delivery job. I have this girlfriend of 15 months that i plan on moving in with, the problem is I don't love her/care for her like i used to (or at all really anymore) she is a great person, fun to be with, totally awesome, but i decided I'm not going to spend the rest of my life with her. The other thing that influenced this decision is she cheated on me when i was gone for 2 months for training (this isnt about her cheating I got over that, and I'm gonna get my own later).\n\nSo It's me, her, and a friend of mine that are planning to move into a place. I'm trying to avoid going on the lease as much as possible for obvious reasons that this may not work out and would hate to be financially stuck somewhere. I have told her that I don't love her anymore because of what she did, but gave her false pretenses that this love might rekindle itself (it wont). She also doesnt have anywhere to go (living with me at my dads house) as her family moved out of state as well. If I break it off with her, i'm worried she wont have a place to go, and I'm kind of in the same boat because I don't have my dad to fall back on if something goes really bad.\n\nShould I suck it up and move in with her for the next 6-12 months or just end it completely leaving her to fend for herself?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am in halfway across the globe on an internship that i have been attending for over 8 weeks. We have a great relationship and talk everyday. In addition we are very serious commitment wise. However, I have a friend from college that also happens to be in the city I am in. I do not know her particularly well and I have been avoiding her. However, I have avoided her too many times and I finally gave into lunch (since i believed that dinner and drinks would not be appropriate). My girlfriend is noticeably worried. However, she told me she will get mad if I cancel because she \"doesn't want to control my life\". But if i don't cancel, she will worry all day. What should i do? It seems like a lose lose situation for something i didn't even want to do. Also i want to add that i am madly in love with this girl and there is absolutely no way i would do anything to jeopardize this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am in halfway across the globe on an internship that i have been attending for over 8 weeks. We have a great relationship and talk everyday. In addition we are very serious commitment wise. However, I have a friend from college that also happens to be in the city I am in. I do not know her particularly well and I have been avoiding her. However, I have avoided her too many times and I finally gave into lunch (since i believed that dinner and drinks would not be appropriate). My girlfriend is noticeably worried. However, she told me she will get mad if I cancel because she \"doesn't want to control my life\". But if i don't cancel, she will worry all day. What should i do? It seems like a lose lose situation for something i didn't even want to do. Also i want to add that i am madly in love with this girl and there is absolutely no way i would do anything to jeopardize this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am in halfway across the globe on an internship that i have been attending for over 8 weeks. We have a great relationship and talk everyday. In addition we are very serious commitment wise. However, I have a friend from college that also happens to be in the city I am in. I do not know her particularly well and I have been avoiding her. However, I have avoided her too many times and I finally gave into lunch (since i believed that dinner and drinks would not be appropriate). My girlfriend is noticeably worried. However, she told me she will get mad if I cancel because she \"doesn't want to control my life\". But if i don't cancel, she will worry all day. What should i do? It seems like a lose lose situation for something i didn't even want to do. Also i want to add that i am madly in love with this girl and there is absolutely no way i would do anything to jeopardize this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am in halfway across the globe on an internship that i have been attending for over 8 weeks. We have a great relationship and talk everyday. In addition we are very serious commitment wise. However, I have a friend from college that also happens to be in the city I am in. I do not know her particularly well and I have been avoiding her. However, I have avoided her too many times and I finally gave into lunch (since i believed that dinner and drinks would not be appropriate). My girlfriend is noticeably worried. However, she told me she will get mad if I cancel because she \"doesn't want to control my life\". But if i don't cancel, she will worry all day. What should i do? It seems like a lose lose situation for something i didn't even want to do. Also i want to add that i am madly in love with this girl and there is absolutely no way i would do anything to jeopardize this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so my parents got divorced about four years back. My brother and I are now 25 and 20, respectively. He had already been at college for a year or so by the time the of the divorce, so he wasn't as affected by it, I think. As time went on, I began to see my parents more clearly, and decided that I didn't necessarily agree with my moms incentive to divorce. I know you're not supposed to pick sides, but when your parents are bitterly divided, you're kinda forced to choose. So I've become closer with my dad over the years. Meanwhile, my brother is closer with my mom and seems to align with her views on the divorce. I don't resent my mom or my dad and I may not agree with my mom but I'm still friendly with her. A few months ago, my brother drops this bombshell on me, \"it has always seemed like you and dad have been closer.\" He admits that he hasn't had much of a relationship with our dad, and I can tell it takes him effort to say it. I feel guilty now whenever it's just me and my dad. Whenever I'm with them both, I can tell there's some strain. I try to mend their relationship by talking to both of them (not at once), but my brother has said that he's okay with not strengthening the relationship, and my dad doesn't seem to care. I hate that everyone's so divided but what can you do. I realize that it's probably unlikely that my mom and dad will be getting along any time soon, but am I wrong for trying to keep a family together as best as possible? Should I just leave things alone? Is it my fault for choosing sides in the first place? My brother gives me the guilt trip about my dad, but then turns around and says he's fine the way things are. I'm confused. I need an outsiders perspective. You guys seem to be a pretty knowledgable so I need some advice on this reddit."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so my parents got divorced about four years back. My brother and I are now 25 and 20, respectively. He had already been at college for a year or so by the time the of the divorce, so he wasn't as affected by it, I think. As time went on, I began to see my parents more clearly, and decided that I didn't necessarily agree with my moms incentive to divorce. I know you're not supposed to pick sides, but when your parents are bitterly divided, you're kinda forced to choose. So I've become closer with my dad over the years. Meanwhile, my brother is closer with my mom and seems to align with her views on the divorce. I don't resent my mom or my dad and I may not agree with my mom but I'm still friendly with her. A few months ago, my brother drops this bombshell on me, \"it has always seemed like you and dad have been closer.\" He admits that he hasn't had much of a relationship with our dad, and I can tell it takes him effort to say it. I feel guilty now whenever it's just me and my dad. Whenever I'm with them both, I can tell there's some strain. I try to mend their relationship by talking to both of them (not at once), but my brother has said that he's okay with not strengthening the relationship, and my dad doesn't seem to care. I hate that everyone's so divided but what can you do. I realize that it's probably unlikely that my mom and dad will be getting along any time soon, but am I wrong for trying to keep a family together as best as possible? Should I just leave things alone? Is it my fault for choosing sides in the first place? My brother gives me the guilt trip about my dad, but then turns around and says he's fine the way things are. I'm confused. I need an outsiders perspective. You guys seem to be a pretty knowledgable so I need some advice on this reddit."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so my parents got divorced about four years back. My brother and I are now 25 and 20, respectively. He had already been at college for a year or so by the time the of the divorce, so he wasn't as affected by it, I think. As time went on, I began to see my parents more clearly, and decided that I didn't necessarily agree with my moms incentive to divorce. I know you're not supposed to pick sides, but when your parents are bitterly divided, you're kinda forced to choose. So I've become closer with my dad over the years. Meanwhile, my brother is closer with my mom and seems to align with her views on the divorce. I don't resent my mom or my dad and I may not agree with my mom but I'm still friendly with her. A few months ago, my brother drops this bombshell on me, \"it has always seemed like you and dad have been closer.\" He admits that he hasn't had much of a relationship with our dad, and I can tell it takes him effort to say it. I feel guilty now whenever it's just me and my dad. Whenever I'm with them both, I can tell there's some strain. I try to mend their relationship by talking to both of them (not at once), but my brother has said that he's okay with not strengthening the relationship, and my dad doesn't seem to care. I hate that everyone's so divided but what can you do. I realize that it's probably unlikely that my mom and dad will be getting along any time soon, but am I wrong for trying to keep a family together as best as possible? Should I just leave things alone? Is it my fault for choosing sides in the first place? My brother gives me the guilt trip about my dad, but then turns around and says he's fine the way things are. I'm confused. I need an outsiders perspective. You guys seem to be a pretty knowledgable so I need some advice on this reddit."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so my parents got divorced about four years back. My brother and I are now 25 and 20, respectively. He had already been at college for a year or so by the time the of the divorce, so he wasn't as affected by it, I think. As time went on, I began to see my parents more clearly, and decided that I didn't necessarily agree with my moms incentive to divorce. I know you're not supposed to pick sides, but when your parents are bitterly divided, you're kinda forced to choose. So I've become closer with my dad over the years. Meanwhile, my brother is closer with my mom and seems to align with her views on the divorce. I don't resent my mom or my dad and I may not agree with my mom but I'm still friendly with her. A few months ago, my brother drops this bombshell on me, \"it has always seemed like you and dad have been closer.\" He admits that he hasn't had much of a relationship with our dad, and I can tell it takes him effort to say it. I feel guilty now whenever it's just me and my dad. Whenever I'm with them both, I can tell there's some strain. I try to mend their relationship by talking to both of them (not at once), but my brother has said that he's okay with not strengthening the relationship, and my dad doesn't seem to care. I hate that everyone's so divided but what can you do. I realize that it's probably unlikely that my mom and dad will be getting along any time soon, but am I wrong for trying to keep a family together as best as possible? Should I just leave things alone? Is it my fault for choosing sides in the first place? My brother gives me the guilt trip about my dad, but then turns around and says he's fine the way things are. I'm confused. I need an outsiders perspective. You guys seem to be a pretty knowledgable so I need some advice on this reddit."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am interested in this girl, which happens to be my friends ex.\n\nI am closer to her than to him though. When me and her first met, it was sometime during spring or summer of last year. Me and her instantly connected as friends though.\n\nShe understands me, unlike everybody else where I live. I have helped her and my friend with relationship problems before. Of course, I would rather her be happy with him than me happy with her. \n\nFrom my point of view, their relationship wasn't the best. All he is interested in doing is smoking weed and she has told me that she feels he always needs to be high and is always high when they hang out.\n\nNot too long ago, she ended up cheating on him. Her and I were talking about that, and she owned up to her mistake, and I'm not judging her on it, because we all make mistakes, and I could tell it was killing her inside, and she also lost a lot of friends because of it.\n\nHer and her ex are trying to work stuff out, and they are kind of waiting a little before they start dating again to make sure it's what they both want. I'm waiting for a confirmation on whether or not they will be getting back together before I make any moves.\n\nI have told her that I have my eye on someone (her), but she doesn't know it's her. I keep telling myself that I can't help who I'm attracted to.\n\nIs this a wrong thing to do? How should I go about telling her without totally ruining the friendship between me and her?\n\nOh, and please, no judgment over the fact that she cheated. If anything happens between me and her, I will be cautious, but I doubt she will do it again.\n\nEdit: I've been told by people to be straightforward about wanting to date her with my friend, but I'm the one who brought the whole fact that she cheated on him (such a long story, PM me if you want details on that) to light, so I feel as if being straightforward with him would cause problems between me and him. I feel like if I dated her period it would cause problems between me and him, but she is the only girl I can think about lately."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am interested in this girl, which happens to be my friends ex.\n\nI am closer to her than to him though. When me and her first met, it was sometime during spring or summer of last year. Me and her instantly connected as friends though.\n\nShe understands me, unlike everybody else where I live. I have helped her and my friend with relationship problems before. Of course, I would rather her be happy with him than me happy with her. \n\nFrom my point of view, their relationship wasn't the best. All he is interested in doing is smoking weed and she has told me that she feels he always needs to be high and is always high when they hang out.\n\nNot too long ago, she ended up cheating on him. Her and I were talking about that, and she owned up to her mistake, and I'm not judging her on it, because we all make mistakes, and I could tell it was killing her inside, and she also lost a lot of friends because of it.\n\nHer and her ex are trying to work stuff out, and they are kind of waiting a little before they start dating again to make sure it's what they both want. I'm waiting for a confirmation on whether or not they will be getting back together before I make any moves.\n\nI have told her that I have my eye on someone (her), but she doesn't know it's her. I keep telling myself that I can't help who I'm attracted to.\n\nIs this a wrong thing to do? How should I go about telling her without totally ruining the friendship between me and her?\n\nOh, and please, no judgment over the fact that she cheated. If anything happens between me and her, I will be cautious, but I doubt she will do it again.\n\nEdit: I've been told by people to be straightforward about wanting to date her with my friend, but I'm the one who brought the whole fact that she cheated on him (such a long story, PM me if you want details on that) to light, so I feel as if being straightforward with him would cause problems between me and him. I feel like if I dated her period it would cause problems between me and him, but she is the only girl I can think about lately."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am interested in this girl, which happens to be my friends ex.\n\nI am closer to her than to him though. When me and her first met, it was sometime during spring or summer of last year. Me and her instantly connected as friends though.\n\nShe understands me, unlike everybody else where I live. I have helped her and my friend with relationship problems before. Of course, I would rather her be happy with him than me happy with her. \n\nFrom my point of view, their relationship wasn't the best. All he is interested in doing is smoking weed and she has told me that she feels he always needs to be high and is always high when they hang out.\n\nNot too long ago, she ended up cheating on him. Her and I were talking about that, and she owned up to her mistake, and I'm not judging her on it, because we all make mistakes, and I could tell it was killing her inside, and she also lost a lot of friends because of it.\n\nHer and her ex are trying to work stuff out, and they are kind of waiting a little before they start dating again to make sure it's what they both want. I'm waiting for a confirmation on whether or not they will be getting back together before I make any moves.\n\nI have told her that I have my eye on someone (her), but she doesn't know it's her. I keep telling myself that I can't help who I'm attracted to.\n\nIs this a wrong thing to do? How should I go about telling her without totally ruining the friendship between me and her?\n\nOh, and please, no judgment over the fact that she cheated. If anything happens between me and her, I will be cautious, but I doubt she will do it again.\n\nEdit: I've been told by people to be straightforward about wanting to date her with my friend, but I'm the one who brought the whole fact that she cheated on him (such a long story, PM me if you want details on that) to light, so I feel as if being straightforward with him would cause problems between me and him. I feel like if I dated her period it would cause problems between me and him, but she is the only girl I can think about lately."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am interested in this girl, which happens to be my friends ex.\n\nI am closer to her than to him though. When me and her first met, it was sometime during spring or summer of last year. Me and her instantly connected as friends though.\n\nShe understands me, unlike everybody else where I live. I have helped her and my friend with relationship problems before. Of course, I would rather her be happy with him than me happy with her. \n\nFrom my point of view, their relationship wasn't the best. All he is interested in doing is smoking weed and she has told me that she feels he always needs to be high and is always high when they hang out.\n\nNot too long ago, she ended up cheating on him. Her and I were talking about that, and she owned up to her mistake, and I'm not judging her on it, because we all make mistakes, and I could tell it was killing her inside, and she also lost a lot of friends because of it.\n\nHer and her ex are trying to work stuff out, and they are kind of waiting a little before they start dating again to make sure it's what they both want. I'm waiting for a confirmation on whether or not they will be getting back together before I make any moves.\n\nI have told her that I have my eye on someone (her), but she doesn't know it's her. I keep telling myself that I can't help who I'm attracted to.\n\nIs this a wrong thing to do? How should I go about telling her without totally ruining the friendship between me and her?\n\nOh, and please, no judgment over the fact that she cheated. If anything happens between me and her, I will be cautious, but I doubt she will do it again.\n\nEdit: I've been told by people to be straightforward about wanting to date her with my friend, but I'm the one who brought the whole fact that she cheated on him (such a long story, PM me if you want details on that) to light, so I feel as if being straightforward with him would cause problems between me and him. I feel like if I dated her period it would cause problems between me and him, but she is the only girl I can think about lately."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Reddit. I actually don't think this is going to be so long, because I'm not really needing to vent everything on my mind. at least right now. The breakup was mostly on her end, but we both saw it coming. Things got stale, she's been bettering her life and health while I continue to work a job I hate and drink more often lately because of said job/general outlook on my life. I don't blame her much, and we're on good terms, just both very sad. \n\nThe problem: We live together, and basically rely on each other. I rely on her car to get me to/from work and the normal daily stuff people do, and she relies on me in a financial sense that she makes enough money a month to just squeak by, whereas I make substantially more and pay for most things needed. \n\nOur lease is active until March 2016, and I'm not sure either of us have the means (in different ways) of moving right now. I'm currently camping out in our guest bedroom, and she has our normal bedroom. She's even still letting me use her car as I need it right now, which is kind of her. Again, we're on good terms. We love each other. I just can't be what she needs anymore.\n\nSo, reddit, what should I do? Should I talk to our leasing place and see if I need to buyout the remainder of the lease and find a studio apt, or should we seriously talk about just sticking it out and living as roommates, with set boundaries and rules? Does anyone have ANY suggestions or personal experience from this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Reddit. I actually don't think this is going to be so long, because I'm not really needing to vent everything on my mind. at least right now. The breakup was mostly on her end, but we both saw it coming. Things got stale, she's been bettering her life and health while I continue to work a job I hate and drink more often lately because of said job/general outlook on my life. I don't blame her much, and we're on good terms, just both very sad. \n\nThe problem: We live together, and basically rely on each other. I rely on her car to get me to/from work and the normal daily stuff people do, and she relies on me in a financial sense that she makes enough money a month to just squeak by, whereas I make substantially more and pay for most things needed. \n\nOur lease is active until March 2016, and I'm not sure either of us have the means (in different ways) of moving right now. I'm currently camping out in our guest bedroom, and she has our normal bedroom. She's even still letting me use her car as I need it right now, which is kind of her. Again, we're on good terms. We love each other. I just can't be what she needs anymore.\n\nSo, reddit, what should I do? Should I talk to our leasing place and see if I need to buyout the remainder of the lease and find a studio apt, or should we seriously talk about just sticking it out and living as roommates, with set boundaries and rules? Does anyone have ANY suggestions or personal experience from this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Reddit. I actually don't think this is going to be so long, because I'm not really needing to vent everything on my mind. at least right now. The breakup was mostly on her end, but we both saw it coming. Things got stale, she's been bettering her life and health while I continue to work a job I hate and drink more often lately because of said job/general outlook on my life. I don't blame her much, and we're on good terms, just both very sad. \n\nThe problem: We live together, and basically rely on each other. I rely on her car to get me to/from work and the normal daily stuff people do, and she relies on me in a financial sense that she makes enough money a month to just squeak by, whereas I make substantially more and pay for most things needed. \n\nOur lease is active until March 2016, and I'm not sure either of us have the means (in different ways) of moving right now. I'm currently camping out in our guest bedroom, and she has our normal bedroom. She's even still letting me use her car as I need it right now, which is kind of her. Again, we're on good terms. We love each other. I just can't be what she needs anymore.\n\nSo, reddit, what should I do? Should I talk to our leasing place and see if I need to buyout the remainder of the lease and find a studio apt, or should we seriously talk about just sticking it out and living as roommates, with set boundaries and rules? Does anyone have ANY suggestions or personal experience from this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Reddit. I actually don't think this is going to be so long, because I'm not really needing to vent everything on my mind. at least right now. The breakup was mostly on her end, but we both saw it coming. Things got stale, she's been bettering her life and health while I continue to work a job I hate and drink more often lately because of said job/general outlook on my life. I don't blame her much, and we're on good terms, just both very sad. \n\nThe problem: We live together, and basically rely on each other. I rely on her car to get me to/from work and the normal daily stuff people do, and she relies on me in a financial sense that she makes enough money a month to just squeak by, whereas I make substantially more and pay for most things needed. \n\nOur lease is active until March 2016, and I'm not sure either of us have the means (in different ways) of moving right now. I'm currently camping out in our guest bedroom, and she has our normal bedroom. She's even still letting me use her car as I need it right now, which is kind of her. Again, we're on good terms. We love each other. I just can't be what she needs anymore.\n\nSo, reddit, what should I do? Should I talk to our leasing place and see if I need to buyout the remainder of the lease and find a studio apt, or should we seriously talk about just sticking it out and living as roommates, with set boundaries and rules? Does anyone have ANY suggestions or personal experience from this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little long this one, but bear with me.\n\nWhen I was at university doing my electrical engineering degree I did industrial experience over the Christmas holidays at the test centre of a large cellular provider. The guys there were a fairly close-knit bunch, and they loved their office pranks. Being the industrial experience kid I didn't have a lot experience with how this environment should work (which was the point, really) so it took me a little while to get used to it.\n\nOne guy there, T, loved to sneak up behind you and AAHH! in your ear. The first time he did it to me I determined not to react immediately but to instead plan my revenge. He did it to me at least once a week and must have thought I was the perfect target.\n\nIn my final week there the opportunity I had been waiting for arrived. He went on a conference. At this time we were using Windows 3.11 and all the PCs had Turbo C+. I got onto his computer and wrote a little program that looked exactly like DOS 'format' running on his C: drive, even writing some random garbage to a file to make the disk light flicker. At the end, it would say gotcha from me.\n\nI wrote it to simply exit immediately until at least 6 weeks after I was finished up, and put it in his startup autoexec.bat.\n\nAbout 6 weeks later, I got a phone call from one of the other guys in the office.\n\n'Mr. ExParrot1337, you are an evil genius. T just about wet himself this morning. Well done!'"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little long this one, but bear with me.\n\nWhen I was at university doing my electrical engineering degree I did industrial experience over the Christmas holidays at the test centre of a large cellular provider. The guys there were a fairly close-knit bunch, and they loved their office pranks. Being the industrial experience kid I didn't have a lot experience with how this environment should work (which was the point, really) so it took me a little while to get used to it.\n\nOne guy there, T, loved to sneak up behind you and AAHH! in your ear. The first time he did it to me I determined not to react immediately but to instead plan my revenge. He did it to me at least once a week and must have thought I was the perfect target.\n\nIn my final week there the opportunity I had been waiting for arrived. He went on a conference. At this time we were using Windows 3.11 and all the PCs had Turbo C+. I got onto his computer and wrote a little program that looked exactly like DOS 'format' running on his C: drive, even writing some random garbage to a file to make the disk light flicker. At the end, it would say gotcha from me.\n\nI wrote it to simply exit immediately until at least 6 weeks after I was finished up, and put it in his startup autoexec.bat.\n\nAbout 6 weeks later, I got a phone call from one of the other guys in the office.\n\n'Mr. ExParrot1337, you are an evil genius. T just about wet himself this morning. Well done!'"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little long this one, but bear with me.\n\nWhen I was at university doing my electrical engineering degree I did industrial experience over the Christmas holidays at the test centre of a large cellular provider. The guys there were a fairly close-knit bunch, and they loved their office pranks. Being the industrial experience kid I didn't have a lot experience with how this environment should work (which was the point, really) so it took me a little while to get used to it.\n\nOne guy there, T, loved to sneak up behind you and AAHH! in your ear. The first time he did it to me I determined not to react immediately but to instead plan my revenge. He did it to me at least once a week and must have thought I was the perfect target.\n\nIn my final week there the opportunity I had been waiting for arrived. He went on a conference. At this time we were using Windows 3.11 and all the PCs had Turbo C+. I got onto his computer and wrote a little program that looked exactly like DOS 'format' running on his C: drive, even writing some random garbage to a file to make the disk light flicker. At the end, it would say gotcha from me.\n\nI wrote it to simply exit immediately until at least 6 weeks after I was finished up, and put it in his startup autoexec.bat.\n\nAbout 6 weeks later, I got a phone call from one of the other guys in the office.\n\n'Mr. ExParrot1337, you are an evil genius. T just about wet himself this morning. Well done!'"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little long this one, but bear with me.\n\nWhen I was at university doing my electrical engineering degree I did industrial experience over the Christmas holidays at the test centre of a large cellular provider. The guys there were a fairly close-knit bunch, and they loved their office pranks. Being the industrial experience kid I didn't have a lot experience with how this environment should work (which was the point, really) so it took me a little while to get used to it.\n\nOne guy there, T, loved to sneak up behind you and AAHH! in your ear. The first time he did it to me I determined not to react immediately but to instead plan my revenge. He did it to me at least once a week and must have thought I was the perfect target.\n\nIn my final week there the opportunity I had been waiting for arrived. He went on a conference. At this time we were using Windows 3.11 and all the PCs had Turbo C+. I got onto his computer and wrote a little program that looked exactly like DOS 'format' running on his C: drive, even writing some random garbage to a file to make the disk light flicker. At the end, it would say gotcha from me.\n\nI wrote it to simply exit immediately until at least 6 weeks after I was finished up, and put it in his startup autoexec.bat.\n\nAbout 6 weeks later, I got a phone call from one of the other guys in the office.\n\n'Mr. ExParrot1337, you are an evil genius. T just about wet himself this morning. Well done!'"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my gf has been going for 3 years, all is good, but she does this thing where she doesn't talk whenever I pissed her off in the slightest ways. Also she is psy major so I m suspecting that she is conditioning me using silent treatment. This gets me so mad which obviously makes me wanting to ask her what's going on, but she just doesn't say anything more than a few words, like \"Yes\", \"I don't think so\", \"Yeah\".\nEven when we are not argueing sometimes she would go to total boring mode and not talk and shut me off. For eg. She would say she has plans in the weekend but not tell me what. I mean sure you don't have to tell me but if i asked you can't you at least come up with something better than \"I don't have to tell you everything\". \nLast time we ran into some guy she knows and I ask her who he is and she said \"some creepy guy\". And I asked her \"How you know him\" after which she just shuts me off. I mean wth is \"some creepy guy\" supposed to mean, if he molested you i wanna beat him up right, she just wouldn't tell me anything about that person. We end up argueing the whole day about it and to this day i still don't know who that guy is. I'm so sick partially cause she wouldn't tell me but also the fact that I could have dropped it and probably we didn't have to argue. But god you know what the best part is? I TRYED to drop it, but she silent treated me right after she said \"he's just some creepy guy\" and wouldn't talk about anything. which left me nothing else to talk about. Sometimes I wonder if we should still be together."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my gf has been going for 3 years, all is good, but she does this thing where she doesn't talk whenever I pissed her off in the slightest ways. Also she is psy major so I m suspecting that she is conditioning me using silent treatment. This gets me so mad which obviously makes me wanting to ask her what's going on, but she just doesn't say anything more than a few words, like \"Yes\", \"I don't think so\", \"Yeah\".\nEven when we are not argueing sometimes she would go to total boring mode and not talk and shut me off. For eg. She would say she has plans in the weekend but not tell me what. I mean sure you don't have to tell me but if i asked you can't you at least come up with something better than \"I don't have to tell you everything\". \nLast time we ran into some guy she knows and I ask her who he is and she said \"some creepy guy\". And I asked her \"How you know him\" after which she just shuts me off. I mean wth is \"some creepy guy\" supposed to mean, if he molested you i wanna beat him up right, she just wouldn't tell me anything about that person. We end up argueing the whole day about it and to this day i still don't know who that guy is. I'm so sick partially cause she wouldn't tell me but also the fact that I could have dropped it and probably we didn't have to argue. But god you know what the best part is? I TRYED to drop it, but she silent treated me right after she said \"he's just some creepy guy\" and wouldn't talk about anything. which left me nothing else to talk about. Sometimes I wonder if we should still be together."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my gf has been going for 3 years, all is good, but she does this thing where she doesn't talk whenever I pissed her off in the slightest ways. Also she is psy major so I m suspecting that she is conditioning me using silent treatment. This gets me so mad which obviously makes me wanting to ask her what's going on, but she just doesn't say anything more than a few words, like \"Yes\", \"I don't think so\", \"Yeah\".\nEven when we are not argueing sometimes she would go to total boring mode and not talk and shut me off. For eg. She would say she has plans in the weekend but not tell me what. I mean sure you don't have to tell me but if i asked you can't you at least come up with something better than \"I don't have to tell you everything\". \nLast time we ran into some guy she knows and I ask her who he is and she said \"some creepy guy\". And I asked her \"How you know him\" after which she just shuts me off. I mean wth is \"some creepy guy\" supposed to mean, if he molested you i wanna beat him up right, she just wouldn't tell me anything about that person. We end up argueing the whole day about it and to this day i still don't know who that guy is. I'm so sick partially cause she wouldn't tell me but also the fact that I could have dropped it and probably we didn't have to argue. But god you know what the best part is? I TRYED to drop it, but she silent treated me right after she said \"he's just some creepy guy\" and wouldn't talk about anything. which left me nothing else to talk about. Sometimes I wonder if we should still be together."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my gf has been going for 3 years, all is good, but she does this thing where she doesn't talk whenever I pissed her off in the slightest ways. Also she is psy major so I m suspecting that she is conditioning me using silent treatment. This gets me so mad which obviously makes me wanting to ask her what's going on, but she just doesn't say anything more than a few words, like \"Yes\", \"I don't think so\", \"Yeah\".\nEven when we are not argueing sometimes she would go to total boring mode and not talk and shut me off. For eg. She would say she has plans in the weekend but not tell me what. I mean sure you don't have to tell me but if i asked you can't you at least come up with something better than \"I don't have to tell you everything\". \nLast time we ran into some guy she knows and I ask her who he is and she said \"some creepy guy\". And I asked her \"How you know him\" after which she just shuts me off. I mean wth is \"some creepy guy\" supposed to mean, if he molested you i wanna beat him up right, she just wouldn't tell me anything about that person. We end up argueing the whole day about it and to this day i still don't know who that guy is. I'm so sick partially cause she wouldn't tell me but also the fact that I could have dropped it and probably we didn't have to argue. But god you know what the best part is? I TRYED to drop it, but she silent treated me right after she said \"he's just some creepy guy\" and wouldn't talk about anything. which left me nothing else to talk about. Sometimes I wonder if we should still be together."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The main reason we broke up in the first place is that I couldn't take the guilt anymore. We broke up and within a few months I moved across the country because I couldn't stand to face her. I was still in love with her and couldn't stand the thought of her starting a relationship with another person, so I fled. \n\nAfter a few months we started talking again and even flew out to visit me. We had a great time together and continued to talk. We worked out out differences and decided to give it another shot. I was naming on moving home by Christmas of this year. \n\nLast night I finally revealed to her that I had slept with someone else during out previous relationship. I knew it wouldn't go over well but I had to tell her. She obviously was extremely upset and says she no longer wants anything to do with me. I'm absolutely crushed. I know I was in the wrong, but I cut the affair off immediately after it started and I realized I had made the biggest mistake of my life. \n\nI feel like I want to die. Could any of the girls in this sub ever see themselves getting over something like that and being able to move past it? Any advice on how I should try to handle this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The main reason we broke up in the first place is that I couldn't take the guilt anymore. We broke up and within a few months I moved across the country because I couldn't stand to face her. I was still in love with her and couldn't stand the thought of her starting a relationship with another person, so I fled. \n\nAfter a few months we started talking again and even flew out to visit me. We had a great time together and continued to talk. We worked out out differences and decided to give it another shot. I was naming on moving home by Christmas of this year. \n\nLast night I finally revealed to her that I had slept with someone else during out previous relationship. I knew it wouldn't go over well but I had to tell her. She obviously was extremely upset and says she no longer wants anything to do with me. I'm absolutely crushed. I know I was in the wrong, but I cut the affair off immediately after it started and I realized I had made the biggest mistake of my life. \n\nI feel like I want to die. Could any of the girls in this sub ever see themselves getting over something like that and being able to move past it? Any advice on how I should try to handle this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The main reason we broke up in the first place is that I couldn't take the guilt anymore. We broke up and within a few months I moved across the country because I couldn't stand to face her. I was still in love with her and couldn't stand the thought of her starting a relationship with another person, so I fled. \n\nAfter a few months we started talking again and even flew out to visit me. We had a great time together and continued to talk. We worked out out differences and decided to give it another shot. I was naming on moving home by Christmas of this year. \n\nLast night I finally revealed to her that I had slept with someone else during out previous relationship. I knew it wouldn't go over well but I had to tell her. She obviously was extremely upset and says she no longer wants anything to do with me. I'm absolutely crushed. I know I was in the wrong, but I cut the affair off immediately after it started and I realized I had made the biggest mistake of my life. \n\nI feel like I want to die. Could any of the girls in this sub ever see themselves getting over something like that and being able to move past it? Any advice on how I should try to handle this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The main reason we broke up in the first place is that I couldn't take the guilt anymore. We broke up and within a few months I moved across the country because I couldn't stand to face her. I was still in love with her and couldn't stand the thought of her starting a relationship with another person, so I fled. \n\nAfter a few months we started talking again and even flew out to visit me. We had a great time together and continued to talk. We worked out out differences and decided to give it another shot. I was naming on moving home by Christmas of this year. \n\nLast night I finally revealed to her that I had slept with someone else during out previous relationship. I knew it wouldn't go over well but I had to tell her. She obviously was extremely upset and says she no longer wants anything to do with me. I'm absolutely crushed. I know I was in the wrong, but I cut the affair off immediately after it started and I realized I had made the biggest mistake of my life. \n\nI feel like I want to die. Could any of the girls in this sub ever see themselves getting over something like that and being able to move past it? Any advice on how I should try to handle this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 4 months. We have our own hobbies and friends, but we share a love of books, TV, and games. We talk daily, see each other 3-5 times a week, and I spend the night every Monday since we both are off on Tuesdays.\n\nNow into my problem: I haven't had a real relationship. I have really only had a high school relationship and it was somewhat short lived. I don't have older siblings or a mom to talk to. I have friends, but they are just as experienced as I am.\n\nMy main questions are the following:\n\n* How do I tell if this is exclusive or not? How do I bring that conversation up? I haven't been in a real relationship, so I don't know how this conversation usually goes (if it goes at all).\n\n* I get a lot of flak for the age difference. We are both fine with it. How much of a difference does it really make? (My parents were 6 years apart, my grandparents 15, my friend is married to a man 10 years her younger. It's not weird to me, assuming both people seem to fit together.)\n\nI know the relationship will progress naturally, but I'm so nervous about it! I really like this guy quite a bit and we never run out of things to say or do - even when it's nonsense. We both have a natural curiosity. We are both creative and adventurous and open minded. We try each other's likes and we laugh constantly. I get butterflies when I'm walking up to his door, even now months later. And he listens! He remembers and is thoughtful. We don't spend much money, but he'll pick up candy I like when he's at the store or he'll remember to make ice for me. It's little, but it's so wonderfully kind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I got into an accelerated program for a Masters of Accounting degree. They are putting me through like 4 prereqs before I can get into the the actual grad classes. \n\nIf I take an internship this summer instead of going to school, it will set me back about a year in school, meaning I would graduate a year later. Is this a good idea? \n\nKeeping in consideration that I have 2 years left and I have to finish my degree by 2013 or else I will lose a bunch of money because my funds will dry out. \n\nIt is a weird situation that I don't feel like explaining, it has to do with a bunch of weird requirements for a scholarship I have and stubborn family members. So is it worth it? What would you guys suggest I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I got into an accelerated program for a Masters of Accounting degree. They are putting me through like 4 prereqs before I can get into the the actual grad classes. \n\nIf I take an internship this summer instead of going to school, it will set me back about a year in school, meaning I would graduate a year later. Is this a good idea? \n\nKeeping in consideration that I have 2 years left and I have to finish my degree by 2013 or else I will lose a bunch of money because my funds will dry out. \n\nIt is a weird situation that I don't feel like explaining, it has to do with a bunch of weird requirements for a scholarship I have and stubborn family members. So is it worth it? What would you guys suggest I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I got into an accelerated program for a Masters of Accounting degree. They are putting me through like 4 prereqs before I can get into the the actual grad classes. \n\nIf I take an internship this summer instead of going to school, it will set me back about a year in school, meaning I would graduate a year later. Is this a good idea? \n\nKeeping in consideration that I have 2 years left and I have to finish my degree by 2013 or else I will lose a bunch of money because my funds will dry out. \n\nIt is a weird situation that I don't feel like explaining, it has to do with a bunch of weird requirements for a scholarship I have and stubborn family members. So is it worth it? What would you guys suggest I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I got into an accelerated program for a Masters of Accounting degree. They are putting me through like 4 prereqs before I can get into the the actual grad classes. \n\nIf I take an internship this summer instead of going to school, it will set me back about a year in school, meaning I would graduate a year later. Is this a good idea? \n\nKeeping in consideration that I have 2 years left and I have to finish my degree by 2013 or else I will lose a bunch of money because my funds will dry out. \n\nIt is a weird situation that I don't feel like explaining, it has to do with a bunch of weird requirements for a scholarship I have and stubborn family members. So is it worth it? What would you guys suggest I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Massachusetts:\n\nI am public HS teacher. Was out of town for August. My car (97 subaru legacy wagon, in great working condition but fairly worn on the outside, ODO 200,000) was totaled in a hit and run (4 am, was parked legally on the street with nose to sidewalk, nobody hurt). Right rear axle bent, trunk window broken, door damaged, extensive frame damage. Another car was also damaged (scratched).\n\nDeclared totaled by police, who have it towed in town to garage which stores it for 35$ a day. Proprietor (and PD) assure me that driver's insurance could (would?) cover this charge. can't be moved from that location until appraised by driver's insurance (which may cover damages to it).\n\nSlightly complicated scenario ensues:\nDriver is apprehended by local PD after being identified. I begin insurance claim, but need to wait for final incident report from PD to have my insurance (Lib Mut) able to contact drivers insurance (unknown party, unknown ins - to me). I am still abroad. As it turns out, my insurance policy only covers liability, not damages incurred to the vehicle. (Fair enough, it was an affordable policy and the car somewhat old).\n\nThe day before I return, I hear that a different driver has been identified (by video), who has no insurance and a suspended license. Friend who had admitted to driving either took the fall or was intimidated (unclear to me). New person was been arrested a week or so after the incident. (bail of 5k$, may still be inside), initial court hearing 10/5, a month from now.\n\nTo cut my losses, had the car scrapped. 800$ fee from garage for storage. I am able to submit requests for court-ordered restitution for both damage suffered to the car, and expenses incurred as a result. \n\nTo complicate matters further, comments by those who know him on a FB post by local PD about driver doesn't cast a good light on his character, to say the least. much to the effect of \"no integrity, will never repay debts, etc\". That said. what are the options in terms of terms restitution? How are they enforced?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Massachusetts:\n\nI am public HS teacher. Was out of town for August. My car (97 subaru legacy wagon, in great working condition but fairly worn on the outside, ODO 200,000) was totaled in a hit and run (4 am, was parked legally on the street with nose to sidewalk, nobody hurt). Right rear axle bent, trunk window broken, door damaged, extensive frame damage. Another car was also damaged (scratched).\n\nDeclared totaled by police, who have it towed in town to garage which stores it for 35$ a day. Proprietor (and PD) assure me that driver's insurance could (would?) cover this charge. can't be moved from that location until appraised by driver's insurance (which may cover damages to it).\n\nSlightly complicated scenario ensues:\nDriver is apprehended by local PD after being identified. I begin insurance claim, but need to wait for final incident report from PD to have my insurance (Lib Mut) able to contact drivers insurance (unknown party, unknown ins - to me). I am still abroad. As it turns out, my insurance policy only covers liability, not damages incurred to the vehicle. (Fair enough, it was an affordable policy and the car somewhat old).\n\nThe day before I return, I hear that a different driver has been identified (by video), who has no insurance and a suspended license. Friend who had admitted to driving either took the fall or was intimidated (unclear to me). New person was been arrested a week or so after the incident. (bail of 5k$, may still be inside), initial court hearing 10/5, a month from now.\n\nTo cut my losses, had the car scrapped. 800$ fee from garage for storage. I am able to submit requests for court-ordered restitution for both damage suffered to the car, and expenses incurred as a result. \n\nTo complicate matters further, comments by those who know him on a FB post by local PD about driver doesn't cast a good light on his character, to say the least. much to the effect of \"no integrity, will never repay debts, etc\". That said. what are the options in terms of terms restitution? How are they enforced?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Massachusetts:\n\nI am public HS teacher. Was out of town for August. My car (97 subaru legacy wagon, in great working condition but fairly worn on the outside, ODO 200,000) was totaled in a hit and run (4 am, was parked legally on the street with nose to sidewalk, nobody hurt). Right rear axle bent, trunk window broken, door damaged, extensive frame damage. Another car was also damaged (scratched).\n\nDeclared totaled by police, who have it towed in town to garage which stores it for 35$ a day. Proprietor (and PD) assure me that driver's insurance could (would?) cover this charge. can't be moved from that location until appraised by driver's insurance (which may cover damages to it).\n\nSlightly complicated scenario ensues:\nDriver is apprehended by local PD after being identified. I begin insurance claim, but need to wait for final incident report from PD to have my insurance (Lib Mut) able to contact drivers insurance (unknown party, unknown ins - to me). I am still abroad. As it turns out, my insurance policy only covers liability, not damages incurred to the vehicle. (Fair enough, it was an affordable policy and the car somewhat old).\n\nThe day before I return, I hear that a different driver has been identified (by video), who has no insurance and a suspended license. Friend who had admitted to driving either took the fall or was intimidated (unclear to me). New person was been arrested a week or so after the incident. (bail of 5k$, may still be inside), initial court hearing 10/5, a month from now.\n\nTo cut my losses, had the car scrapped. 800$ fee from garage for storage. I am able to submit requests for court-ordered restitution for both damage suffered to the car, and expenses incurred as a result. \n\nTo complicate matters further, comments by those who know him on a FB post by local PD about driver doesn't cast a good light on his character, to say the least. much to the effect of \"no integrity, will never repay debts, etc\". That said. what are the options in terms of terms restitution? How are they enforced?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Massachusetts:\n\nI am public HS teacher. Was out of town for August. My car (97 subaru legacy wagon, in great working condition but fairly worn on the outside, ODO 200,000) was totaled in a hit and run (4 am, was parked legally on the street with nose to sidewalk, nobody hurt). Right rear axle bent, trunk window broken, door damaged, extensive frame damage. Another car was also damaged (scratched).\n\nDeclared totaled by police, who have it towed in town to garage which stores it for 35$ a day. Proprietor (and PD) assure me that driver's insurance could (would?) cover this charge. can't be moved from that location until appraised by driver's insurance (which may cover damages to it).\n\nSlightly complicated scenario ensues:\nDriver is apprehended by local PD after being identified. I begin insurance claim, but need to wait for final incident report from PD to have my insurance (Lib Mut) able to contact drivers insurance (unknown party, unknown ins - to me). I am still abroad. As it turns out, my insurance policy only covers liability, not damages incurred to the vehicle. (Fair enough, it was an affordable policy and the car somewhat old).\n\nThe day before I return, I hear that a different driver has been identified (by video), who has no insurance and a suspended license. Friend who had admitted to driving either took the fall or was intimidated (unclear to me). New person was been arrested a week or so after the incident. (bail of 5k$, may still be inside), initial court hearing 10/5, a month from now.\n\nTo cut my losses, had the car scrapped. 800$ fee from garage for storage. I am able to submit requests for court-ordered restitution for both damage suffered to the car, and expenses incurred as a result. \n\nTo complicate matters further, comments by those who know him on a FB post by local PD about driver doesn't cast a good light on his character, to say the least. much to the effect of \"no integrity, will never repay debts, etc\". That said. what are the options in terms of terms restitution? How are they enforced?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi folks,\n\nMy current situation is weird, but please hear me out, I could use a lot of help.\n\nSo my mother is a single parent, who lives with my grandmother and my sister. My mom works 2 min wage jobs, make roughly $1800 a month and my sister makes roughly $800 from her job (min wage as well). I'm away at college, and basically I take care of myself. My sister put $6700 worth of debt onto one of my mother's cards and (I just found out) $7000 onto another card. My sister basically takes care of our finances and my mom has no idea. The debt is from when we were going through some rough times (both cars broke down, grandma's dental bills, ect). Yelling at my sister won't change much, I basically want to get my mother out of this debt.\n\nWe have roughly $7000 in a savings account, which my sister hasn't been using to pay the debt off because she thinks we may need it in case something else goes wrong (I've been urging her to use at least some of it for the debt). Our rent/utilities come out to be roughly $1600 or so per month at the moment. Also, after taxes my mom and sister should receive about $6000 in tax returns.\n\nCan anybody lend me some advice about this. My mother has virtually no idea of finances, my sister clearly isn't handling this properly, and I'm just getting overwhelmed and dealing with my sister crying on me every time I bring this up (I love her to death, but I'm also stressed as hell right now)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi folks,\n\nMy current situation is weird, but please hear me out, I could use a lot of help.\n\nSo my mother is a single parent, who lives with my grandmother and my sister. My mom works 2 min wage jobs, make roughly $1800 a month and my sister makes roughly $800 from her job (min wage as well). I'm away at college, and basically I take care of myself. My sister put $6700 worth of debt onto one of my mother's cards and (I just found out) $7000 onto another card. My sister basically takes care of our finances and my mom has no idea. The debt is from when we were going through some rough times (both cars broke down, grandma's dental bills, ect). Yelling at my sister won't change much, I basically want to get my mother out of this debt.\n\nWe have roughly $7000 in a savings account, which my sister hasn't been using to pay the debt off because she thinks we may need it in case something else goes wrong (I've been urging her to use at least some of it for the debt). Our rent/utilities come out to be roughly $1600 or so per month at the moment. Also, after taxes my mom and sister should receive about $6000 in tax returns.\n\nCan anybody lend me some advice about this. My mother has virtually no idea of finances, my sister clearly isn't handling this properly, and I'm just getting overwhelmed and dealing with my sister crying on me every time I bring this up (I love her to death, but I'm also stressed as hell right now)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi folks,\n\nMy current situation is weird, but please hear me out, I could use a lot of help.\n\nSo my mother is a single parent, who lives with my grandmother and my sister. My mom works 2 min wage jobs, make roughly $1800 a month and my sister makes roughly $800 from her job (min wage as well). I'm away at college, and basically I take care of myself. My sister put $6700 worth of debt onto one of my mother's cards and (I just found out) $7000 onto another card. My sister basically takes care of our finances and my mom has no idea. The debt is from when we were going through some rough times (both cars broke down, grandma's dental bills, ect). Yelling at my sister won't change much, I basically want to get my mother out of this debt.\n\nWe have roughly $7000 in a savings account, which my sister hasn't been using to pay the debt off because she thinks we may need it in case something else goes wrong (I've been urging her to use at least some of it for the debt). Our rent/utilities come out to be roughly $1600 or so per month at the moment. Also, after taxes my mom and sister should receive about $6000 in tax returns.\n\nCan anybody lend me some advice about this. My mother has virtually no idea of finances, my sister clearly isn't handling this properly, and I'm just getting overwhelmed and dealing with my sister crying on me every time I bring this up (I love her to death, but I'm also stressed as hell right now)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi folks,\n\nMy current situation is weird, but please hear me out, I could use a lot of help.\n\nSo my mother is a single parent, who lives with my grandmother and my sister. My mom works 2 min wage jobs, make roughly $1800 a month and my sister makes roughly $800 from her job (min wage as well). I'm away at college, and basically I take care of myself. My sister put $6700 worth of debt onto one of my mother's cards and (I just found out) $7000 onto another card. My sister basically takes care of our finances and my mom has no idea. The debt is from when we were going through some rough times (both cars broke down, grandma's dental bills, ect). Yelling at my sister won't change much, I basically want to get my mother out of this debt.\n\nWe have roughly $7000 in a savings account, which my sister hasn't been using to pay the debt off because she thinks we may need it in case something else goes wrong (I've been urging her to use at least some of it for the debt). Our rent/utilities come out to be roughly $1600 or so per month at the moment. Also, after taxes my mom and sister should receive about $6000 in tax returns.\n\nCan anybody lend me some advice about this. My mother has virtually no idea of finances, my sister clearly isn't handling this properly, and I'm just getting overwhelmed and dealing with my sister crying on me every time I bring this up (I love her to death, but I'm also stressed as hell right now)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have always felt like an accessory in my boyfriend's life - like he's happy to have me around, but he'd be 100% okay if I walked away. Part of it is that he really doesn't like to be vulnerable (who does?). And part of it is definitely my own insecurity and past harmful relationships. I had a lot of false friendships growing up - people who acted as friends only to turn around and stab me in the back. I'm aware that this has really impacted my current relationships (romantic and otherwise), and so I am conscious of the effect this history has on my present problem.\n\nWe've done the love languages test, and learned that we are almost exact opposites in that regard. We've worked really hard on making sure the other person's languages are being communicated, but it's still not helping. I'm at a loss for what to do next.\n\nLogically, I know he wants to be with me - he often says \"I'm not going to stay in a relationship that doesn't make me happy, and I'm still here, right?\" so there's that. But I guess maybe it's inaction vs. action in showing affection. He's relying on his inaction to show that he loves me whereas I would much prefer action. I don't know, and I need help. What are some tools that we can try?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have always felt like an accessory in my boyfriend's life - like he's happy to have me around, but he'd be 100% okay if I walked away. Part of it is that he really doesn't like to be vulnerable (who does?). And part of it is definitely my own insecurity and past harmful relationships. I had a lot of false friendships growing up - people who acted as friends only to turn around and stab me in the back. I'm aware that this has really impacted my current relationships (romantic and otherwise), and so I am conscious of the effect this history has on my present problem.\n\nWe've done the love languages test, and learned that we are almost exact opposites in that regard. We've worked really hard on making sure the other person's languages are being communicated, but it's still not helping. I'm at a loss for what to do next.\n\nLogically, I know he wants to be with me - he often says \"I'm not going to stay in a relationship that doesn't make me happy, and I'm still here, right?\" so there's that. But I guess maybe it's inaction vs. action in showing affection. He's relying on his inaction to show that he loves me whereas I would much prefer action. I don't know, and I need help. What are some tools that we can try?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have always felt like an accessory in my boyfriend's life - like he's happy to have me around, but he'd be 100% okay if I walked away. Part of it is that he really doesn't like to be vulnerable (who does?). And part of it is definitely my own insecurity and past harmful relationships. I had a lot of false friendships growing up - people who acted as friends only to turn around and stab me in the back. I'm aware that this has really impacted my current relationships (romantic and otherwise), and so I am conscious of the effect this history has on my present problem.\n\nWe've done the love languages test, and learned that we are almost exact opposites in that regard. We've worked really hard on making sure the other person's languages are being communicated, but it's still not helping. I'm at a loss for what to do next.\n\nLogically, I know he wants to be with me - he often says \"I'm not going to stay in a relationship that doesn't make me happy, and I'm still here, right?\" so there's that. But I guess maybe it's inaction vs. action in showing affection. He's relying on his inaction to show that he loves me whereas I would much prefer action. I don't know, and I need help. What are some tools that we can try?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have always felt like an accessory in my boyfriend's life - like he's happy to have me around, but he'd be 100% okay if I walked away. Part of it is that he really doesn't like to be vulnerable (who does?). And part of it is definitely my own insecurity and past harmful relationships. I had a lot of false friendships growing up - people who acted as friends only to turn around and stab me in the back. I'm aware that this has really impacted my current relationships (romantic and otherwise), and so I am conscious of the effect this history has on my present problem.\n\nWe've done the love languages test, and learned that we are almost exact opposites in that regard. We've worked really hard on making sure the other person's languages are being communicated, but it's still not helping. I'm at a loss for what to do next.\n\nLogically, I know he wants to be with me - he often says \"I'm not going to stay in a relationship that doesn't make me happy, and I'm still here, right?\" so there's that. But I guess maybe it's inaction vs. action in showing affection. He's relying on his inaction to show that he loves me whereas I would much prefer action. I don't know, and I need help. What are some tools that we can try?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: About a month ago my (23 F) boyfriend (26 M) of three and a half years and I got engaged, and I am ecstatic about it! Here's the kicker, I cannot tell my family as of yet. His parents, grandma, and a couple of our friends know but that's about it. \n\nThe reason I can't tell my family is, they've never even met him. I didn't even tell them we were together until we were dating for a year, and I had considered having them meet earlier but at the time he really just wasn't interested in meeting them. Not to mention there is a language barrier. My parents are very conservative and I'm trying to tread lightly, I wanted to start slow and have him meet my brother first but that seems like it may take awhile. And honestl, while his family is very supportive of us, one of my fears is that I will lose total support from my family. \n\nI want to move things along though, especially since I know that not moving it along probably brings some doubts about whether or not I'm serious about this. The idea of dinner was brought up, but my parents hardly ever go out, and I'm kinda at a loss. It's not like I could really have him over and have them all sit on the couch and talk, although I have toyed with that idea too. Does anyone have any advice as to how to make the meeting go smoothly? Or any advice as to how to introduce them?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: About a month ago my (23 F) boyfriend (26 M) of three and a half years and I got engaged, and I am ecstatic about it! Here's the kicker, I cannot tell my family as of yet. His parents, grandma, and a couple of our friends know but that's about it. \n\nThe reason I can't tell my family is, they've never even met him. I didn't even tell them we were together until we were dating for a year, and I had considered having them meet earlier but at the time he really just wasn't interested in meeting them. Not to mention there is a language barrier. My parents are very conservative and I'm trying to tread lightly, I wanted to start slow and have him meet my brother first but that seems like it may take awhile. And honestl, while his family is very supportive of us, one of my fears is that I will lose total support from my family. \n\nI want to move things along though, especially since I know that not moving it along probably brings some doubts about whether or not I'm serious about this. The idea of dinner was brought up, but my parents hardly ever go out, and I'm kinda at a loss. It's not like I could really have him over and have them all sit on the couch and talk, although I have toyed with that idea too. Does anyone have any advice as to how to make the meeting go smoothly? Or any advice as to how to introduce them?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: About a month ago my (23 F) boyfriend (26 M) of three and a half years and I got engaged, and I am ecstatic about it! Here's the kicker, I cannot tell my family as of yet. His parents, grandma, and a couple of our friends know but that's about it. \n\nThe reason I can't tell my family is, they've never even met him. I didn't even tell them we were together until we were dating for a year, and I had considered having them meet earlier but at the time he really just wasn't interested in meeting them. Not to mention there is a language barrier. My parents are very conservative and I'm trying to tread lightly, I wanted to start slow and have him meet my brother first but that seems like it may take awhile. And honestl, while his family is very supportive of us, one of my fears is that I will lose total support from my family. \n\nI want to move things along though, especially since I know that not moving it along probably brings some doubts about whether or not I'm serious about this. The idea of dinner was brought up, but my parents hardly ever go out, and I'm kinda at a loss. It's not like I could really have him over and have them all sit on the couch and talk, although I have toyed with that idea too. Does anyone have any advice as to how to make the meeting go smoothly? Or any advice as to how to introduce them?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: About a month ago my (23 F) boyfriend (26 M) of three and a half years and I got engaged, and I am ecstatic about it! Here's the kicker, I cannot tell my family as of yet. His parents, grandma, and a couple of our friends know but that's about it. \n\nThe reason I can't tell my family is, they've never even met him. I didn't even tell them we were together until we were dating for a year, and I had considered having them meet earlier but at the time he really just wasn't interested in meeting them. Not to mention there is a language barrier. My parents are very conservative and I'm trying to tread lightly, I wanted to start slow and have him meet my brother first but that seems like it may take awhile. And honestl, while his family is very supportive of us, one of my fears is that I will lose total support from my family. \n\nI want to move things along though, especially since I know that not moving it along probably brings some doubts about whether or not I'm serious about this. The idea of dinner was brought up, but my parents hardly ever go out, and I'm kinda at a loss. It's not like I could really have him over and have them all sit on the couch and talk, although I have toyed with that idea too. Does anyone have any advice as to how to make the meeting go smoothly? Or any advice as to how to introduce them?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I realize that not everyone is going to like me and only a small percentage of people will really like me enough to pursue a serious long-term relationship with me but I feel like I am having troubles that I haven't had in the past.\n\nI have been going on a lot of dates, meeting guys, old guy friends/FWB have came out of the woodworks, etc. but none of them stay interested for very long. At first they are very interested, text me constantly and ask me out but that only lasts a few weeks. When we hangout it goes well (from my perspective we both seem to be having a good time) which makes it all the more confusing to me. \n\nI am not sure how to keep a man's attention in a positive way. I am very kind, pretty smart, independent, and am told I am good looking. However, even though I always treat guys nicely they just end up ignoring me. I realize it could probably be a multitude of things but I can't figure it out. I'd settle for them just seeing me as a friend and treating me as such; I just don't want to be ignored when all I am doing is trying to be friendly. It obviously hurts my feelings a lot and it just hasn't happened this much in the past, especially all in a row."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I realize that not everyone is going to like me and only a small percentage of people will really like me enough to pursue a serious long-term relationship with me but I feel like I am having troubles that I haven't had in the past.\n\nI have been going on a lot of dates, meeting guys, old guy friends/FWB have came out of the woodworks, etc. but none of them stay interested for very long. At first they are very interested, text me constantly and ask me out but that only lasts a few weeks. When we hangout it goes well (from my perspective we both seem to be having a good time) which makes it all the more confusing to me. \n\nI am not sure how to keep a man's attention in a positive way. I am very kind, pretty smart, independent, and am told I am good looking. However, even though I always treat guys nicely they just end up ignoring me. I realize it could probably be a multitude of things but I can't figure it out. I'd settle for them just seeing me as a friend and treating me as such; I just don't want to be ignored when all I am doing is trying to be friendly. It obviously hurts my feelings a lot and it just hasn't happened this much in the past, especially all in a row."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I realize that not everyone is going to like me and only a small percentage of people will really like me enough to pursue a serious long-term relationship with me but I feel like I am having troubles that I haven't had in the past.\n\nI have been going on a lot of dates, meeting guys, old guy friends/FWB have came out of the woodworks, etc. but none of them stay interested for very long. At first they are very interested, text me constantly and ask me out but that only lasts a few weeks. When we hangout it goes well (from my perspective we both seem to be having a good time) which makes it all the more confusing to me. \n\nI am not sure how to keep a man's attention in a positive way. I am very kind, pretty smart, independent, and am told I am good looking. However, even though I always treat guys nicely they just end up ignoring me. I realize it could probably be a multitude of things but I can't figure it out. I'd settle for them just seeing me as a friend and treating me as such; I just don't want to be ignored when all I am doing is trying to be friendly. It obviously hurts my feelings a lot and it just hasn't happened this much in the past, especially all in a row."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I realize that not everyone is going to like me and only a small percentage of people will really like me enough to pursue a serious long-term relationship with me but I feel like I am having troubles that I haven't had in the past.\n\nI have been going on a lot of dates, meeting guys, old guy friends/FWB have came out of the woodworks, etc. but none of them stay interested for very long. At first they are very interested, text me constantly and ask me out but that only lasts a few weeks. When we hangout it goes well (from my perspective we both seem to be having a good time) which makes it all the more confusing to me. \n\nI am not sure how to keep a man's attention in a positive way. I am very kind, pretty smart, independent, and am told I am good looking. However, even though I always treat guys nicely they just end up ignoring me. I realize it could probably be a multitude of things but I can't figure it out. I'd settle for them just seeing me as a friend and treating me as such; I just don't want to be ignored when all I am doing is trying to be friendly. It obviously hurts my feelings a lot and it just hasn't happened this much in the past, especially all in a row."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: we have had a rather rocky two year relationship. We have considered breaking up a lot but can't seem to decide to make that decision yet. One of the biggest things is pot. I'm not super keen on dating a drug user anyway, but have coexisted very happily with others. For whatever reason my SO becomes very unempathwtic and selfish when high. If I feel emotional and he is high he can't fathom why I would feel that way or why he should do anything. For periods of time he went sober and I thought he seemed more alert to emotional things. Then went back to smoking and he became detached again. Would seem very interested in my thoughts when high sometimes then very irate when sober. He has so many excuses why he can't see a therapist (mostly money) and I get that but I'm sick of our arguments always turning into \"you don't like me high because you don't like pot\" and me turning into \"I hate pot\". I know plenty of nice people who smoke but I don't know why my boyfriend acts this way. Advice for addressing his behavior without sounding opinionated and condescending? Any ideas why he becomes a selfish detached person when using it?"
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