AnnoMi-therapist/dev.tsv

id	text	label	dimension
100_137	Oh, you do?	 question	communication behavior
100_139	Good for you doing that.	 reflection	communication behavior
100_141	Yeah. Smart.	 reflection	communication behavior
100_143	Discouraged.	 reflection	communication behavior
100_145	Discouraged, yeah.	 reflection	communication behavior
100_147	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
100_149	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
100_151	Uh, yeah, it does. Uh, I am yet to- it-it seems to me just in this time we've been talking together that you, um, um, do have a sense that a lot of it has to do-do with, uh, timing, luck, who you know, and being, are you able to have that conversation where you know that you can sell yourself and your skills and, um, and your competencies and the fact that you've overcome so many things like, um, substance abuse problem and, uh, have been, you know, uh, a good upstanding citizen all this time. Um, to me, if I were an employer, you know, I would- I would be impressed with that.	 reflection	communication behavior
100_153	Uh-- You're welcome. And- so what about, um, I know I had a client that told me a couple of things. He was doing some work on this, uh, if you- if you'd be interested I could tell you what he shared with me.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
100_155	Okay. Um, he found the most valid information on blogs done by felons.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
100_157	They are your experts.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
100_159	And, uh, they-they are actually, uh, uh, much what you have said, they said, but they also, uh, uh, talked about which places and companies they did find were open. For instance, family-owned businesses just tend to-- They can, if they can--	 therapist_input	communication behavior
100_161	Right, right.	 other	communication behavior
100_163	Or start your own business. That was another thing that I thought was really--	 therapist_input	communication behavior
100_165	Uh-huh.	 other	communication behavior
100_167	So being an entre- being an entrepreneur fits for you.	 reflection	communication behavior
100_169	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
100_171	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
100_173	Well, that, you know, now that's a-a really different way of looking at it than how you were looking at what you can do versus what's getting in your way that you know you can't do.	 reflection	communication behavior
100_175	So, um, what kinda- what-what are you starting? What's this business? If you-you don't have to tell me if you don't want, I know it's on the up and up, but you don't have to tell me if you don't want.	 question	communication behavior
100_177	You'd be so good at that.	 reflection	communication behavior
100_179	Uh-huh.	 other	communication behavior
100_181	You-you would be the corporate company.	 reflection	communication behavior
100_183	CEO.	 reflection	communication behavior
100_185	[laughter]	 other	communication behavior
100_187	So. Yeah, I- I've heard that-that in recession, uh, those are often the best opportunities for people to start doing business is to, um, see an area where you see a need go in and fill it.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
100_189	One.	 other	communication behavior
100_191	You're comfortable with that?	 question	communication behavior
100_193	I know. That's fantastic. It is.	 reflection	communication behavior
100_195	Acting out would be what?	 question	communication behavior
100_197	Okay. Gottcha.	 other	communication behavior
100_199	Like you are now.	 reflection	communication behavior
100_201	So the-the-the law of, um, felony convictions is-is something that you don't have any control over. I mean, nobody does. So, um, you know, and I'm thinking about how you were talking about getting all the way through the interview and then getting rejected, you know, versus being upfront about it and-and even on the telephone to see whether it's a deal breaker or not, because it must- it sounds like it's so much harder to have that good interview and walk out of there ad know you've done well, and then get turned down.	 reflection	communication behavior
100_203	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
100_205	And your brother didn't know that when he gave you the lead on the job, that there was a background check involved?	 question	communication behavior
100_207	Okay.	 other	communication behavior
100_209	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
100_211	You're not a criminal.	 reflection	communication behavior
100_213	That's right. You're rehabilitated.	 reflection	communication behavior
100_215	A plus shining new guy.	 reflection	communication behavior
100_217	Oh, I think so, too.	 other	communication behavior
100_219	I guess I would just have a tendency to say it. I'm a recovering person, and back in my former life, I have a felony conviction. And before we go any further, I don't wanna waste your time. Uh, would that be a problem in even getting the interview, what would you think about saying something like that?	 therapist_input	communication behavior
100_221	Mm-hmm, mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
100_223	Okay. I mean, I'd be happy if you wanna work on a few, you know, things, uh, to write down that sound comfy and fit, you know, how you talk and you use words and stuff. 'Cause I-I also think, you know, interviewing is a good schoo- a good skill, and the more you do it, the better you get at it. And you've been getting a lot of practice at it. So that's-that's been useful too.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
100_225	I mean, even-even though you get turned down, that feels terrible. The actual and, I bet you with every single one, you get better at it.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
100_227	Uh-huh, uh-huh.	 other	communication behavior
100_229	Yeah. I bet you're even better now.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
100_231	You got lots of practice.	 reflection	communication behavior
100_233	Yeah. Well then lastly, just getting back, um, to this, another source that that same client was an advocacy group called the John Howard Society.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
100_235	I don't know if you've ever-	 other	communication behavior
100_237	Yeah.	 other	communication behavior
100_239	Uh, he, yeah, uh, he- they have a lot of, uh, they have a lot of really good stuff on there about this because they're trying to change the laws about that because-	 therapist_input	communication behavior
100_241	-they are so, um, they are so prejudicial. They really are. And I would check with the ACLU too. I mean, just as I-I don't know much, and now I'm very curious and I wanna find out about it myself, but yeah.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
100_243	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
100_245	Oh, absolutely.	 other	communication behavior
100_247	Absolutely.	 other	communication behavior
100_249	You're not allowed to vote.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
100_251	And you're not allowed to vote.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
100_253	That shocked me when I found that out.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
100_255	I couldn't believe that.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
100_257	Do you know how many millions of people and when you think about that racially, um, hmm.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
100_259	Yeah, mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
100_261	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
100_263	That's a great word for it there. Yeah. So, um-	 reflection	communication behavior
100_265	Yeah. So-so maybe you- if you- if you wanted to, and this is really up to you, you could check out the blogs, you know. Um, I can see if I can track him down and stuff and the John Howard Society. And, um, I'd be really interested if-if you wanna get together to see what you have found out.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
100_267	Mm-hmm, mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
100_269	But this has affected it.	 reflection	communication behavior
100_271	Rejection-rejection, yeah.	 reflection	communication behavior
100_273	Yeah.	 other	communication behavior
100_275	Yeah.	 other	communication behavior
100_277	I'll do some checking around for you. I will. Yeah.	 reflection	communication behavior
100_279	Oh, you are welcome. Thanks for being so open with me. I appreciate it.	 reflection	communication behavior
100_281	Yeah. Okay.	 other	communication behavior
101_0	So, Jill, um, I know you're here to talk about your blood pressure today.	 reflection	communication behavior
101_2	Um, before we get into that, I see you filled out our annual screening forms here. So if-if you're okay, can we take a minute to talk about that?	 question	communication behavior
101_4	Okay, great. It looks like, um, the way you filled out the alcohol form puts you into our, uh, third zone of drinking. Can you- can you tell me a little bit about your drinking habits, where you drink, what do you like to drink?	 question	communication behavior
101_6	Okay.	 other	communication behavior
101_8	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
101_10	Okay. Kind of socializing?	 reflection	communication behavior
101_12	All right. How often do you do that?	 question	communication behavior
101_14	Okay. And on a regular night, how much do you-- how many glasses of wine would you guess you drink?	 question	communication behavior
101_16	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
101_18	Okay. Okay.	 other	communication behavior
101_20	Mm-hmm. Okay. So let me just show you on this, um, card here, um, from a medical perspective, we know that there's good evidence that shows that women you're age who drink more than, um, three drinks on any one occasion at any- at any sitting or more than seven in a week, are likely to run into health problems from their drinking, either problems they're having right now or maybe in the future.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
101_22	Yeah. Surprised, ain't you?	 reflection	communication behavior
101_24	It sounds like you're drinking a bit more than that right now.	 reflection	communication behavior
101_26	Mm-hmm. From this, uh, drinker's pyramid over on this side of the card, you can see that the-the score on your screening sheet shows that you're up in the harmful category of drinkers. So that it's likely you're drinking, you know, in quantities probably more than about 90% of the folks who come in to see me here at the clinic.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
101_28	It doesn't feel like a problem to you right now, yeah.	 reflection	communication behavior
101_30	Yeah, okay. And then the other thing I should mention, Jill, um, drinking more than these quantities, it's-it's possible it could be pushing your blood pressure up a bit, and I'm wondering if that might be affecting the difficulty we're having getting your blood pressure down right now.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
101_32	Mm-hmm. Yeah, it can sometimes.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
101_34	My perspective as a doctor, it would be good if you could think about cutting back a little bit or doing something different about your drinking. What-what do you think about that?	 therapist_input	communication behavior
101_36	Okay. So on a scale of 0 to 10, 0 being not ready at all to do that and 10 being very ready, where would you lie on that scale?	 question	communication behavior
101_38	Okay. Okay, so that sounds-- I think that's great. So why would you be up at a six and not down at a two level? What kinds of thing would push you to be there?	 question	communication behavior
101_40	Yeah.	 other	communication behavior
101_42	Okay.	 other	communication behavior
101_44	Yeah. Yeah. So you've got some good reasons to try to cut back a little bit.	 reflection	communication behavior
101_46	Yeah. And it sounds like you're willing to maybe try not going to the bar quite as much and maybe drinking a little bit less when you go to the bar.	 reflection	communication behavior
101_48	Okay. So to what levels do you think you could do that? Where-where would you wanna go with your drinking?	 question	communication behavior
101_50	Okay. Okay.	 other	communication behavior
101_52	Mm-hmm. So you'd drink maybe just a couple of times a week and maybe a little bit less on each occasion? Is that what you're saying?	 reflection	communication behavior
101_54	Okay. Okay.	 other	communication behavior
101_56	And you think you're-you're able to cut down to those levels of no more than seven a week?	 question	communication behavior
101_58	Okay. I think that sounds like a great step for you as your doctor. Why don't we revisit this the next time you come in to talk about your blood pressure in about six weeks or so and, um, then we can see how you're doing with it.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
101_60	All right?	 other	communication behavior
101_62	Well, let's get back to your blood pressure then and see what we need to do about that.	 other	communication behavior
103_0	Thanks for coming back, [unintelligible 00:06:00]. I know last time we talked about, uh, maybe going out and joining some activities in the community-	 other	communication behavior
103_2	-to work on meeting some people, so-	 other	communication behavior
103_4	-maybe you could tell me about how that's going?	 question	communication behavior
103_6	Yeah, I know you've mentioned that in the past. When we were talking about the pros and cons of going out to one of these activities-	 other	communication behavior
103_8	-you really mentioned that anxiety-	 reflection	communication behavior
103_10	-is a big con.	 other	communication behavior
103_12	I remember that.	 other	communication behavior
103_14	Okay. To make a change-	 reflection	communication behavior
103_16	-that you've wanted for some time.	 reflection	communication behavior
104_0	Before you go, do you mind if I take a look at the questionnaire you filled out before the visit?	 question	communication behavior
104_2	Thanks. I want you to know that whenever patients and I talk about alcohol and drugs, my role is to share information and learn from what they want to do, if anything. Does that make sense?	 therapist_input	communication behavior
104_4	Great. So, you wrote here that you've used alcohol in the last year on at least eight days?	 question	communication behavior
104_6	Okay. How would you describe your drinking?	 question	communication behavior
104_8	Okay. What kind of alcohol do you drink at parties?	 question	communication behavior
104_10	How much do you think you usually drink at a party?	 question	communication behavior
104_12	Yes.	 other	communication behavior
104_14	Speaker 1: Okay. You checked the box here that drinking helps you feel relaxed, feel better about yourself or fit in?	 question	communication behavior
104_16	And you also checked that sometimes you forget things when you drink.	 question	communication behavior
104_18	What kind of things do you forget?	 question	communication behavior
104_20	Sometimes you forget where you're at.	 reflection	communication behavior
104_22	Here's the part where I share information. The safest level of drinking for teenagers is zero drinks. That's because we know a number of negative things are more likely to happen when adolescents drink. We know alcohol can harm how the brain develops as an adolescent and teens who drink are more likely to hurt themselves by accident. Sexual assault is another thing more likely to happen and so are sexually transmitted diseases. I'm curious, do you think your drinking has anything to do what the possibility of having an STD?	 therapist_input	communication behavior
104_24	Do you remember giving consent when you had sex?	 question	communication behavior
104_26	How do you think drinking alcohol affected using a condom this time?	 question	communication behavior
104_28	Sounds like drinking changes how you think in those moments?	 reflection	communication behavior
104_30	There's something else I wanna share. When people forget where they are or how many drinks they've had, that's a sign of heavy drinking. And when people keep drinking despite experiencing negative consequences, that can be a sign of what we call alcohol use disorder.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
104_32	I'm curious. What do you like about drinking alcohol?	 question	communication behavior
104_34	Okay. And what about your drinking do you not like?	 question	communication behavior
104_36	Anything else?	 question	communication behavior
104_38	Right. So, on one hand, you like the feeling of being relaxed and having fun when you're drinking and on the other hand, you don't like forgetting where you are or forgetting how many drinks you've had and you don't like putting yourself at risk for STDs?	 reflection	communication behavior
104_40	So, when you think about what you like and not like about your drinking, where do you wanna go from here? What would you like to change about your drinking?	 question	communication behavior
104_42	How ready are you to not drink too much? If I asked you to pick a number on a scale of 0 to 10, and 10 being totally ready, what number would you pick?	 question	communication behavior
104_44	Very ready to stop drinking too much. Why do you think you picked such a high number like nine rather than a lower number like a six or a seven?	 question	communication behavior
104_46	Okay. What plan could you come up with to make sure you achieve that goal?	 question	communication behavior
104_48	Great. Who could help you reach this goal?	 question	communication behavior
104_50	Okay. And how about unprotected sex? It sounds like you don't want to experience that again.	 reflection	communication behavior
104_52	All right. So, you're very motivated to change your drinking and you have a plan to keep from drinking more than two drinks at parties and keep from having unprotected sex. I would like to share how it's working for you. What do you think about coming back in six weeks or so?	 reflection	communication behavior
104_54	Great. Thanks for talking with me and I look forward to seeing you again soon.	 other	communication behavior
105_0	. So, um, tell me about the exercise.	 question	communication behavior
105_2	You have?	 question	communication behavior
105_4	That's fantastic.	 other	communication behavior
105_6	So, what else have you noticed other than your-your pants are fitting better?	 question	communication behavior
105_8	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
105_10	Your-- my what?	 question	communication behavior
105_12	Wow.	 other	communication behavior
105_14	Mm-hmm. So and what would you-- What would- What would help you get to building up to it? Spending more time there.	 question	communication behavior
105_16	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
105_18	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
105_20	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
105_22	Mm-hmm. But you made it-- You made it one day-	 reflection	communication behavior
105_24	-instead of zero days.	 reflection	communication behavior
105_26	That's fantastic.	 other	communication behavior
105_28	Even with this, you know, pretty horrendous schedule going on.	 reflection	communication behavior
105_30	So you-you'd like to get buffed?	 question	communication behavior
105_32	So, but for right now, it sounds like the-- just having the pants fit better-	 reflection	communication behavior
105_34	-sounds really, you know, like it's making you feel good about yourself and—	 reflection	communication behavior
105_36	What other positive things have you noticed about the exercise?	 question	communication behavior
105_38	In what way have you gotten a little bit better?	 question	communication behavior
105_40	So you're at the second thought part. And what do you think would-- might take you, uh, over to actually doing it if you wanted to?	 question	communication behavior
105_42	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
105_44	Oh, okay. The payoff just wouldn't be worth that two hours of treadmill versus that double fudgy browny thingy.	 reflection	communication behavior
105_46	'Cause it is decadent, it's lovely.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
105_48	Yeah, yummy, so-	 therapist_input	communication behavior
107_0	Well, let's talk about then how you ended up cutting yourself.	 other	communication behavior
107_2	So, what happened. So first of all, tell me what you did, exactly.	 other	communication behavior
107_4	Well, I mean, where did you cut yourself? I know you said you cut yourself when you-	 question	communication behavior
107_6	Like your arm?	 other	communication behavior
107_8	What did you cut yourself with?	 question	communication behavior
107_10	How deep?	 question	communication behavior
107_12	Yeah. Let me see. You know those look to me like they-they-- did you go to the-- It doesn't look like you went and got any stitches, but that looks to me like you could have used them. What do you think?	 question	communication behavior
107_14	Okay, but part of the problem is those look deep and like you're going to have significant scars. So my suggestion is in the future, if you do it, is that you put some sort of bandaid on it to keep it closed. But let's talk about how, um, how this happened. First of all, tell me, you were telling me on that phone that you wanted to die. But, um, did you-- Was this a suicide attempt or do you think it was just-just a cutting? Were thinking of killing yourself or wanting to kill yourself or wanting to die when you did it?	 therapist_input	communication behavior
107_16	Okay. So let's-- Okay, so it sounds like me not being avai-- Was me not being available with you, rela-related to you cutting yourself?	 question	communication behavior
108_0	Well, I want to thank you for coming in today to see me. Um, I do understand from talking with your counselor that you've got quite a bit on your plate, you've got a lot going on. Can you tell me a little bit about that?	 therapist_input	communication behavior
108_2	Yeah, I could see that. Um, may I ask, are you also a single mom?	 question	communication behavior
108_4	So you've got a lot of stressors right now. You're a single mom raising a two-year-old, you're working full time, and you're going back to school. What do you think would be the most helpful for us to focus on today?	 reflection	communication behavior
108_6	Okay. Can you tell me a little bit about that?	 question	communication behavior
108_8	Okay. So I'm hearing you say that the situation with your mom's not ideal. You actually miss class sometime and had to lose some work shifts as well, and that's problematic.	 reflection	communication behavior
108_10	Okay. Um, outside your mom, is there anyone else that can help with childcare?	 question	communication behavior
108_12	Okay.	 other	communication behavior
108_14	Hmm. So what I hear you saying is this neighbor was supportive when you really needed her to be.	 reflection	communication behavior
108_16	Stepped in last minute. Um, when you picked up your son, you didn't have any concerns and he seemed happy?	 reflection	communication behavior
108_18	Okay. Let's pursue that neighbor a little bit. Um, people like that, I like to think of as natural resources, but I know for a lot of people, the major problem with, uh, childcare is affordability.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
108_20	Have you given any thought to, if you'll be able to afford to pay someone on a regular basis to watch your son?	 question	communication behavior
108_22	Yeah, I can understand that. Um, what are some of your natural skills?	 question	communication behavior
108_24	Oh, I bet you're a really good cook then. Um, what would you think about a plan where you worked out an arrangement with this neighbor, where in exchange for her watching your son, you would prepare dinner for her and her, um, daughter?	 therapist_input	communication behavior
108_26	Um, you know, you could maybe swap a meal for child care. What do you think of a idea like that?	 therapist_input	communication behavior
108_28	Okay. Okay, I'm glad you think so. Um, so, other than this neighbor, or is there anyone else that could help you?	 question	communication behavior
108_30	Okay, I can respect that. You-you really have to go with kind of your gut and follow your own intuition on that. Um, what about the baby's father, is he of any help?	 question	communication behavior
108_32	Okay, fine. You know what? We've got one really good lead with the neighbor. I think if you would follow up in pursuing that, you might find some relief and resolve some of your childcare issues. Um, how many days a week are you in school?	 therapist_input	communication behavior
108_34	Okay. Um, so what would it look like if you had a plan where both your neighbor and your mom were helping you out?	 question	communication behavior
108_36	Okay. So what I'm hearing you say is that, if you could just reduce the amount of time that you're needing your mom, she might be more supportive, more onboard?	 reflection	communication behavior
108_38	All right. Um, so what do you think would be your next steps in working out a plan between your neighbor and your mom?	 question	communication behavior
108_40	Okay. Sounds like you got a good plan to follow up on there. All right. Um, now you mentioned that your son is two. When will he turn three?	 reflection	communication behavior
108_42	Okay. Well, in that I-- in that case, I've got another idea for you. Um, what about, um, maybe when he turns three, you could enroll him in Head Start? Are you familiar with that program?	 therapist_input	communication behavior
108_44	Okay. Head Start is a very affordable, very high-quality preschool program. Um, it was really created for parents and families, just like yours, folks who have a lower income and fewer resources, but Head Start really prepares your child both socially and intellectually for going to school. Um, and you know, by the time he turns three, you may find that that routine is something that's better for him to get used to before he starts kindergarten. Uh, would you like some more information on local Head Start sites?	 therapist_input	communication behavior
108_46	Okay. Well, good. Um, all right. It sounds like you've got a good plan there going forward. Um, now I did see from the nurse practitioner's notes, you're also working on reducing your smoking and your drinking. How's that going?	 question	communication behavior
108_48	Okay. So what I hear you say is that it was a bigger challenge than you expected, yeah, but you're working on it. You're-you're still committed to it. So yeah, that's really to be commended. I just want to ask you one thing though. Have you thought about secondhand smoke and the dangers of that and how that might be impacting your son?	 reflection	communication behavior
108_50	Oh, okay, good. You know, I can tell you really have your son's best interest at heart here. You know, just from our conversation today, I can tell you're a really good mom. Um, let's reflect back on what we've discussed here so far. Now, we've got a couple of good options between the neighbor and Head Start programs for childcare. What do you see as your next steps in getting that going?	 reflection	communication behavior
108_52	Okay, okay. Good. Um, I think you've got a good plan there. Um, what would you say to us getting back together, say, in two weeks, just for us to kind of revisit and see what kind of progress you've made, you know, if you've got something worked out, great, but if you've hit a bump in the road, I tell you what, we'll put our heads together. We'll come up with another plan.	 question	communication behavior
108_54	All right. Good. Well, I want to thank you again for coming in today, Sarah. It was really nice to have met you.	 other	communication behavior
108_56	You're very welcome.	 other	communication behavior
109_0	Okay, hard part's over. So the good news is no cavities.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
109_2	Yes, always happy to hear that. I do have some concerns though because I'm seeing some irritation in your mouth in the palate that's called nicotinic stomatitis and-	 therapist_input	communication behavior
109_4	Yeah, it is. It's some damage to the roof of your mouth that happens from tobacco smoking and so I'm wondering if you can tell me a little bit how-- about how tobacco fits in your life right now.	 question	communication behavior
109_6	So you've made a decision in your life not to smoke cigarettes, that's something you didn't want to do. It sounds like you're kinda concerned about the health effects of cigarettes. But you have been smoking the little cigarillos at least one or two every time you go out.	 reflection	communication behavior
109_8	Yeah, so you're not-- You're not like those chain smokers, you're not smoking packs and packs a day.	 reflection	communication behavior
109_10	The amount you smoke is so miniscule you can't even imagine that it would cause any harm and yet here it is damaging the roof of your mouth.	 reflection	communication behavior
109_12	Uh-huh. So smoking has kind of become a big part of your social life now. When you go out, you're smoking, and even during breaks at work, you're smoking.	 reflection	communication behavior
109_14	So aside from that social aspect, what are the things you like about it?	 question	communication behavior
109_16	Okay.	 other	communication behavior
109_18	Okay. How about the other side? Have you noticed any not-so-good things about the smoking?	 question	communication behavior
109_20	Yeah. So we're noticing some pretty negative effects in terms of your oral health with the smoking. Are there any other things that you're concerned about?	 question	communication behavior
109_22	Mm-hmm. So there's your oral health, there's the financial aspect, and then e-earlier you brought up some concerns about smoking cigarettes and how that can be harmful for you.	 reflection	communication behavior
109_24	Were you aware of the fact that smoking these little cigarillos, the Swisher Sweets, can have some of the same negative health effects?	 question	communication behavior
109_26	Mm-hmm. So it's kind of surprising to you that something you've been doing and you've been doing more and more of it is actually pretty bad for you.	 reflection	communication behavior
109_28	Mm-hmm. What do you kind of make of that now that you realize that you're actually a tobacco user and that you might actually be causing some pretty se-serious health effects.	 question	communication behavior
109_30	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
109_32	Well, the good news is in terms of the nicotinic stomatitis, at the point in which you stop smoking, you can actually reverse all the negative effects that occurred and you might also know that you can stop the progression of any other diseases that had started, just by quitting smoking.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
109_34	Yeah. Is that something you'd be interested in?	 question	communication behavior
109_36	Mm-hmm. Well, if you think about it on a scale of 1 to 10 where 1 is really don't think you could do it at all and 10 is really confident that you could quit if you tried, where do you think you fall?	 question	communication behavior
109_38	Okay, what made you choose seven or eight as opposed to a-a five?	 question	communication behavior
109_40	Mm-hmm. So, it sounds like just to kind of summarize, you've noticed some negative effects of the smoking, you have some concerns about health effects that could occur, there's the financial aspect, and yet you feel pretty confident that you could quit if you tried. So, where do you think we should go from here?	 reflection	communication behavior
109_42	Okay, well, I'd be happy to talk to you more about that and give you some tips and advice and give you some suggestions about where you can get some support with quitting.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
109_44	I really appreciate you talking to me about this today.	 other	communication behavior
110_0	--today.	 other	communication behavior
110_2	Okay. So, you want your son to grow up in a great environment and to have more than you had?	 reflection	communication behavior
110_4	Is that right? so that's on your mind right now?	 question	communication behavior
110_6	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
110_8	Mm-hmm. Is there anything in particular that's happening right now where this is more of a concern for you than usual?	 other	communication behavior
110_10	What you want to do in life? Can you explain?	 question	communication behavior
110_12	So you feel that your differences in career choices is-is having an impact on your relationship with your son?	 reflection	communication behavior
110_14	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
110_16	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
110_18	Mm. Okay, so your boyfriend?	 question	communication behavior
110_20	Is he your fiance or your boyfriend?	 question	communication behavior
110_22	Okay.	 other	communication behavior
110_24	Okay. And he's a truck driver?	 question	communication behavior
110_26	Does he drive long distances-	 question	communication behavior
110_28	-or just local?	 question	communication behavior
110_30	And so sometimes he's gone away from home for, what like, days, weeks?	 question	communication behavior
110_32	Okay. And so he's a truck driver and you are an aspiring social worker, and you have a son who you want to give a really great life to, and you feel that you and your boyfriend are in different, going in different directions-	 reflection	communication behavior
110_34	-maybe? Is-- Can you elaborate on the part that you're maybe the most concerned about or that's the most on your mind right now?	 question	communication behavior
110_36	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
110_38	Okay, okay. And so that-that realization that you're having right now is, it sounds like, it seems like maybe, just from your nonverbal, that maybe you feel like you need to make some sort of a choice. Is that right?	 reflection	communication behavior
110_40	Yeah? Okay.	 reflection	communication behavior
110_42	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
110_44	Well, you know that he's not physically available-	 reflection	communication behavior
110_46	-to do these things that you want to do-	 reflection	communication behavior
110_48	-like go on picnics.	 reflection	communication behavior
110_50	"He's saying to you, ""why is it a problem?"""	 reflection	communication behavior
110_52	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
110_56	Yeah.	 other	communication behavior
110_58	So, your heart says you want this great relationship where there's like a true family unit and you can go on picnics and be together but your mind says, what?	 reflection	communication behavior
110_62	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
110_64	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
110_66	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
110_68	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
110_70	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
110_72	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
110_74	Okay, so you know what you want, you're not so sure that your boyfriend wants the same thing. His actions indicate that he doesn't.	 reflection	communication behavior
110_76	His words indicate that he does or he doesn't? You're not sure? I'm not sure about that part either?	 question	communication behavior
110_80	Yeah.	 other	communication behavior
110_82	Mm-hmm. So now you have this information and it's on your mind, is there-- have you given any thought about what you might want to do about it?	 question	communication behavior
110_84	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
110_86	Mm-hmm. [chuckles]	 other	communication behavior
110_88	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
110_90	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
110_92	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
110_94	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
110_96	Oh.	 other	communication behavior
110_98	So that's another realization.	 reflection	communication behavior
110_100	"It's like, ""Wow,"" it's really, really prevalent for you right now, you realize that you are the caretaker, you are the person who listens to other people but you don't necessarily have someone like that for you and so—"	 reflection	communication behavior
111_0	Hi, are you Katie?	 question	communication behavior
111_2	Hi, my name is Beth. I'm the nurse that works with the nurse practitioner Mrs. Smith that you just saw. Do you have a moment to talk?	 therapist_input	communication behavior
111_4	I know you were here to get a prescription for birth control but while you were waiting to see Mrs. Smith, you filled out a healthy habits questionnaire-	 therapist_input	communication behavior
111_6	-and you answered some questions about your marijuana use. Would it be okay if I asked you some questions about how marijuana plays a role in your life?	 question	communication behavior
111_8	I notice you use marijuana regularly, and I wanted to ask you more about that.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
111_10	No. No, no, no. Not at all. Um, I just wanted to ask you how it helps you and how you use it. Can you tell me a little more about how you use it?	 question	communication behavior
111_12	Marijuana is really useful in your life in helping you relax?	 reflection	communication behavior
111_14	Mm. You're a very successful student and you have a lot of responsibilities, and it's really adding to your stress.	 reflection	communication behavior
111_16	Mm. You've been very successful academically and the transition to college has been hard for you.	 reflection	communication behavior
111_18	I promise you, you're not in trouble, I wanna help.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
111_19	Uh, tell me besides helping you relax, what are some positives about pot?	 question	communication behavior
111_21	Hmm. Uh, when you use pot in a group you feel more at home with your peers and more accepted?	 reflection	communication behavior
111_23	So how is it working to help you fit in?	 question	communication behavior
111_25	Mm. So smoking pot with your peers to try to fit in more but it doesn't seem to be making you feel more comfortable with your friends.	 reflection	communication behavior
111_27	What are some downsides to smoking pot?	 question	communication behavior
111_29	So smoking pot doesn't help you feel more socially comfortable with your peers and it increases your stress because you're worried about your family and legal consequences?	 reflection	communication behavior
111_31	Can you think of any other downsides to smoking pot?	 question	communication behavior
111_33	So smoking pot also reminds you of your financial situation and you don't have extra cash to spend on things?	 reflection	communication behavior
111_35	Katie, it sounds like smoking pot is helping you somewhat in helping you relax and it's also causing you a lot of stress because you're trying to use it to fit in and that's not helping, you're worried about getting caught, you're worried about family disapproval. Having said all that, what do you think you wanna do about your pot use?	 reflection	communication behavior
111_37	Would it be okay if I made a suggestion?	 question	communication behavior
111_39	You mentioned at the beginning of our conversation that you have a history of dealing with anxiety, have you ever talked to a counselor about that?	 question	communication behavior
111_41	Can you tell me more?	 question	communication behavior
111_43	Mm. So the idea of counseling in your family is for crazy people only and it's looked down upon and the cost would cause a problem too?	 reflection	communication behavior
111_45	Katie, we know that many kids come to college and have a lot of stress and deal with a lot of anxiety, and we've also found that when they talk to our counselors and learn specific skills about dealing with anxiety, they do much better. Um, and it's been really successful for a lot of kids. Um, I'm wondering if you think it might be helpful for you?	 therapist_input	communication behavior
111_47	Can you describe why you're hesitant?	 question	communication behavior
111_49	Well, the cost is free and the counseling services we provide, we are legally obligated to protect your privacy. We can't tell your parents. There are some exceptions to that privacy rule, including, uh, mostly if we're concerned about- that your safety.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
111_51	Exactly.	 other	communication behavior
111_53	Well, uh, we can go into some more specifics if you decide to see the counselor about what-what privacy rules there are, but for the most part, you wouldn't need to worry about us sharing anything with your parents.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
111_55	So, uh, if-if you're walking out now, I can walk out with you and just take you around our counseling center. I can even introduce you to one of the counselors.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
111_57	No. No, no. I just wanted to show you where it is and let- make sure you know about our resources here at the college.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
112_0	So, Chris, I wanted to talk to you. Um, you know, you're one of our star athletes. I really value you as a team player. As Athletic Director, one of my jobs is to, kind of, keep tabs on the players and make sure everybody is performing at their best. And something came up this weekend. I've been hearing some chatter about a big party that went down and understand you were there. And so I wanted to talk to you a little bit about how partying and alcohol fits in your life right now.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
112_2	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
112_4	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
112_6	So, here you are. You're an honors student. You're a star athlete. You've, kind of, been doing everything you've been told for all these years, and maybe last month sometime, you started getting more involved in the party scene.	 reflection	communication behavior
112_8	And it was fun at first. But now you're already noticing some consequences.	 reflection	communication behavior
112_10	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
112_12	It's really changed your focus. What do you like about drinking?	 question	communication behavior
112_14	So, it helps you, kind of, loosen up, feel more relaxed.	 reflection	communication behavior
112_16	Sounds like you're noticing quite a few not so good things about alcohol though your mom got mad at you, you're having decreased focus, you're, kind of, not doing so well in school, maybe-	 reflection	communication behavior
112_18	-or any other things?	 question	communication behavior
112_20	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
112_22	So, your-your friends that you were hanging out with, there's a little tension there now.	 reflection	communication behavior
112_24	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
112_26	Okay.	 other	communication behavior
112_28	Well, given that you've sort of noticed all these changes where it's affecting your friendships, it's affecting your studying, it's affecting your relationship with your mom. Where do you think you should kind of go from here?	 question	communication behavior
112_30	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
112_32	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
112_34	Yeah.	 other	communication behavior
112_36	Your mom is really important to you.	 reflection	communication behavior
112_38	And how she feels about you is important to you.	 reflection	communication behavior
112_40	How important is it to you to make, uh, an adjustment in your drinking or even to quit?	 question	communication behavior
112_42	Okay.	 other	communication behavior
112_44	Okay.	 other	communication behavior
112_46	How confident are you that you could actually change your drinking or-or even cut down or quit?	 question	communication behavior
112_48	O-on a scale of 1 to 10 where one is not at all 10 is completely what number would you give.	 question	communication behavior
112_50	Okay.	 other	communication behavior
112_52	Why did you say eight or nine rather than six or seven?	 question	communication behavior
112_54	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
112_56	All right, what do you think's a realistic goal for you then?	 question	communication behavior
112_58	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
112_60	So your goal is kind of to do not drink at all or if you are at a party, uh, a maximum of one at the very most.	 reflection	communication behavior
112_62	Yeah. Chris, I really appreciate you talking with me about this. I know it seems like something that's been on your mind as it is and, you know, like I said I really care about you as a student and an athlete and want what's best for you. So I'm glad we were able to talk about this. It really seems like you have a good plan going forward, you know, really striving for not drinking alcohol at all and if you find yourself in a situation where there's alcohol, making sure to have that limit of one drink maximum. It sounds like something that will work for you.	 reflection	communication behavior
112_64	It's my-- yeah it's my pleasure. It's part of my job and it's probably like this so. I'm going to hurry up and get changed for practice.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
113_0	Hi, Sandra.	 other	communication behavior
113_2	Thanks for coming in and talking with me for a couple of minutes. I understand you don't have very much time, but I really appreciate you stopping by.	 reflection	communication behavior
113_4	So I get the impression that there are some things that you're concerned about, but that overall, coming in here wasn't necessarily the first thing that was on your mind when you came to the hospital with your daughter. Um, so can you tell me, what was it that made it possible for you to even come in? What-what were some of the things you were thinking about?	 reflection	communication behavior
113_6	So the last thing you'd want is for your daughter to start smoking.	 reflection	communication behavior
113_8	Hmm. And it sounds like your smoking, setting an example, those are some things that-that you're also, uh, a bit concerned about, um, but as you said earlier, not-not really ready to put down your cigarettes immediately.	 reflection	communication behavior
113_10	So Sandra, what's good about smoking? What do you like about it?	 question	communication behavior
113_12	What else? Tell me what else is good about it.	 question	communication behavior
113_14	Okay. So is there anything else that you like about it?	 question	communication behavior
113_16	So let me make sure that I understand all of the good things about smoking, the things that you like about it, and let me know if I've missed anything or left anything out.	 reflection	communication behavior
113_18	So it sounds like it's a way to relax. It's a way to socialize with your friends from work, and it's hard to imagine what it would be like for you at work if you couldn't go outside and smoke.	 reflection	communication behavior
113_20	You also mentioned that smoking is a way to manage your weight, and concern that if you were-were going to quit smoking, what that would do in terms of, um, gaining weight, and that smoking after meals is pleasurable, that it's something that would be really hard to give up.	 reflection	communication behavior
113_22	I also heard that it's very much a part of your life. It's something that you've done for a really long time and almost impossible to think about yourself as a non-smoker. Does that capture, for you, some of the good things or things that are keeping you smoking?	 reflection	communication behavior
113_24	So I'm hearing there are some things you really like about smoking. What about the other side? Can you tell me about some of the not-so-good things?	 reflection	communication behavior
113_26	Sandra, can you give me an example of a time that you did something that you think left an impression on your daughter or set a bad example for her?	 question	communication behavior
113_28	So this morning, that experience, it really brought home how she does watch you, and she does really look up to you and notice what you do. How did that feel when you looked up and saw her watching you?	 reflection	communication behavior
113_30	And again, thanks for your honesty in talking about this. I appreciate that this is a- this is a tough topic. This is a-a hard behavior to think about giving up. Um, I guess one thing that- one thing that doesn't make sense to me is that, you know, on the one hand, you talk about how being a good parent is your highest priority, it's really important to you to set a good example for your daughter-	 reflection	communication behavior
113_32	-um, and on the other hand, I'm hearing you say that smoking is important in terms of stress relief, socializing, and it's something you can't imagine ever changing. How do those two things fit together?	 question	communication behavior
113_34	So what would it take for quitting or changing your smoking to be something that was more important, that raised it up in the list of priorities for you?	 question	communication behavior
113_36	Okay.	 other	communication behavior
113_38	"So, it's-it's not so much that you don't wanna quit in a way, it's almost, ""How could I do it that would work for me?"""	 reflection	communication behavior
113_40	Okay. I appreciate. We've- we've probably used up the time that we have. I would love to see you next week if you'd be willing to schedule another appointment and talk with you more about this. Is that something that would be helpful?	 therapist_input	communication behavior
113_42	Okay. So I hear-- [crosstalk]	 other	communication behavior
113_44	[chuckles] Not necessarily the-the most exciting thing for you to do, but I appreciate you are willing to do that. Can I also ask you to do a little bit of homework between now and next week? I promise it's not too time-consuming. Um, we have a booklet that we like to give folks who are just thinking about changing, who aren't sure that this is something that they're ready to do, and one of the exercises is to write down your top three reasons for change, why you would even consider quitting smoking. And then to reflect on some of the good things as we talked about, as well as some of the less good things about quitting and about continuing to smoke. Is that something you'd be willing to do over the next few days?	 therapist_input	communication behavior
113_46	Okay, here you go.	 other	communication behavior
113_48	So thanks for coming in, Sandra. We'll see you next week.	 reflection	communication behavior
114_0	In summary, the Minnesota State Mankato security report states that you were stopped on stadium road last Friday, cited for driving under the influence and you're transported to detox. Plus the report lists your age as 20. Dylan, what is the accuracy of the report? And can you share with me some details leading up to the incident?	 question	communication behavior
114_2	You decided to drink more than you intended because you were disappointed at how the Vikings were playing. And when your roommate couldn't give you a ride home, you decided to drive yourself home. Did I get that right?	 therapist_input	communication behavior
114_4	Yeah, I understand that your intention was to have a good time while watching the game with your friends. You didn't think about what could go wrong when you drank alcohol underage because you were at your friend's house and not a big party and you made an effort to be safe by finding a ride home.	 reflection	communication behavior
114_6	Dylan, you told me what brought you here today, what do you think the problem really is?	 question	communication behavior
114_8	Sounds like you attribute your current situation to bad luck. If that's what you believe and you don't attempt to make any change in your behavior, what consequences might result?	 question	communication behavior
114_10	How important is it that you avoid future problems with the police or school, Dylan?	 question	communication behavior
114_12	Yeah. What would you be willing to do to prevent going to detox again and getting suspended?	 question	communication behavior
114_14	On a scale of 1 to 10, how confident are you that you'll be able to follow through with that plan with 10 being very confident?	 question	communication behavior
114_16	What steps could you take to move that six to a seven or eight?	 question	communication behavior
114_18	"In what ways might your life be better if you succeed in 

making the changes you mentioned?"	 question	communication behavior
114_20	College is all about making choices. Can you tell me about your beliefs and values that influenced your decision-making and how do those beliefs and values align with the decisions you plan to make about drinking?	 question	communication behavior
114_22	Thanks for coming in for participating today. Your sanction will involve being placed on university disciplinary probation and attending an alcohol education seminar that will cost $150.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
116_0	Molly, thank you so much for coming over and yakking with me today.	 other	communication behavior
116_2	Yeah, I appreciate it. So, um, uh, your mom had given me a call and said that, um, um, there were some problems with kids kinda given you problems at school and being mean and things like that, and, uh, that's a hurtful thing.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
116_4	That's a- that's a lot of school to, yeah, and, you know--	 therapist_input	communication behavior
116_6	People like to make up stories.	 reflection	communication behavior
116_8	For, like why do you think, wh-what kinds of-	 question	communication behavior
116_10	So it's, uh, so when you were talking about like nagging on, tell me a little bit more about, can you give me an example of what you mean?	 question	communication behavior
116_12	And-and what happens when you don't leave it be, what usually happens?	 question	communication behavior
116_14	Okay.	 other	communication behavior
116_16	Okay.	 other	communication behavior
116_18	Okay, so and then what-what's it like for you after that, once you get spanked in the principal's office?	 question	communication behavior
116_20	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
116_22	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
116_24	That's pretty cool that you did that.	 reflection	communication behavior
116_26	You should be proud of yourself, and how did you do that?	 question	communication behavior
116_28	Uh, that says a lot about you and your mom's relationship though that you can kind of put yourself in her head and think about how she would feel about it.	 reflection	communication behavior
116_30	You know what I mean? It's pretty cool, not everybody can do that, so. So you could kind of put yourself ahead, uh, it's almost like watching a movie ahead-	 reflection	communication behavior
116_32	-and knowing how it's gonna turn out.	 reflection	communication behavior
116_34	That's the worst, the silent treatment.	 reflection	communication behavior
116_36	Yeah, so, um, so but that worked for you, where you just let it go, you thought about your mom, you like what we would call like, you channeled to your mom, you know, and, uh, channeling mom, and then, um, you were able to walk away, and you were proud of yourself and nothing bad happened.	 reflection	communication behavior
116_38	Is that right?	 question	communication behavior
116_40	Does it--	 question	communication behavior
116_42	Yeah, so- and so when you- when somebody else told you that they or people said you that you're an easy target, um.	 question	communication behavior
116_44	Okay.	 other	communication behavior
116_46	Okay, so they-they kinda know how to hook you.	 reflection	communication behavior
116_48	-and reel you in-	 reflection	communication behavior
116_50	-right, and get you upset. And then bad things happen and then you get in trouble.	 reflection	communication behavior
116_52	Yeah. So, yeah. And it's, uh-- So, um-- so you-you know that when you're kind of channeling your mom, that helps. It sounds like you taught yourself almost. Like there's-	 reflection	communication behavior
116_54	-a conversation inside. What other ideas do you have about what you could do?	 question	communication behavior
116_56	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
116_58	I don't know what pickleball is.	 other	communication behavior
116_60	It looks like a pickleball?	 question	communication behavior
116_62	There's no pickle?	 question	communication behavior
116_64	Okay.	 other	communication behavior
116_66	I wanted to pickle and stuff.	 other	communication behavior
116_68	That's a really good decision.	 other	communication behavior
116_70	Yeah. No, but how smart on your part to know that if you would- if you would had to play with her, something bad would've happened.	 reflection	communication behavior
116_72	You knew that.	 question	communication behavior
116_74	Right? You knew that. So-	 question	communication behavior
116_76	So you know actually which kids-	 question	communication behavior
116_78	-know how to push your buttons that real you in.	 reflection	communication behavior
116_80	That's okay. That's-- Yeah, 'cause it's not important. The important thing is for you to be happy. And, uh--	 other	communication behavior
116_82	Uh-huh.	 other	communication behavior
116_84	Uh-huh.	 other	communication behavior
116_86	Yeah.	 other	communication behavior
116_88	Yeah. That's-- that-- it's-it's really big unknown territory. Pressure High School class is probably 1,000 kids.	 reflection	communication behavior
116_90	1,003 kids.	 other	communication behavior
116_92	2,000-	 therapist_input	communication behavior
116_94	-potential enemies, friends, who knows which ones.	 reflection	communication behavior
116_96	That must have been hard for you.	 reflection	communication behavior
116_98	Yeah.	 other	communication behavior
116_100	Mm-hmm. So but finally after three months, time went by-	 reflection	communication behavior
116_102	-and you got--	 question	communication behavior
116_104	Okay. And so how else do you identify who your friends are that you can really trust who have your back?	 question	communication behavior
116_106	You trust her back then?	 question	communication behavior
116_108	Okay. Well, that makes a lot of sense that people-- it goes both ways.	 reflection	communication behavior
116_110	You know. And, um-- So and for you, friends that, um, kind of, um, give you the attention that you'd like to have. Texting you-	 reflection	communication behavior
116_112	-calling and you hanging out with you, and stuff like that, rather than pretending to be a friend-	 reflection	communication behavior
116_114	-when you know maybe they're gonna--	 reflection	communication behavior
116_116	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
116_118	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
116_120	Mm-hmm.	 other	communication behavior
116_122	Mm-hmm. Wh-what don't you like about her?	 question	communication behavior
116_124	Okay. So she sounds like she's, um--	 reflection	communication behavior
116_126	Or-or not worth your time.	 reflection	communication behavior
116_128	She's not worth your time. So what would it be like for you to really just spend time with the friends that you know are really--	 question	communication behavior
116_130	Good. That's really good. Yeah. And if-if you need like some extra support from them--	 question	communication behavior
116_132	Right, and what kind of things do you ask from them?	 question	communication behavior
116_134	'Cause they can do that. They can- they can kinda give you some, uh, information like, uh, um-- they can give some accurate information, um, and back up your story versus the other person's story.	 question	communication behavior
116_136	So, okay. So we're-- You know what? Um, it sounds like you actually have some pretty good ideas about, um, how to handle this, and yet kids are-- I know kids-- actually, adults can be really mean too. But, um, I know in high school, i-it's really bad.	 reflection	communication behavior
116_138	So I'm wondering if, um, uh, if-if you wanted to, we could get together again and continue to talk 'cause you-you've got some good ideas already. And I'm very open that if you wanted to bring any of your good friends in, that that would also be totally cool too.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
116_140	So would that be something--	 question	communication behavior
116_142	Yeah.	 other	communication behavior
116_144	Okay.	 other	communication behavior
116_146	Yeah.	 other	communication behavior
116_148	Well, I would want this session though to be for you though, Molly.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
116_150	I mean I'm willing to see her too, you know.	 therapist_input	communication behavior
116_152	It sounds like she really needs-- she'd like someone to listen to her.	 reflection	communication behavior
116_154	Yeah. So, um, we could maybe talk about some other ways of, um, helping, uh, deal with this because, um, it does sound like, um, people are, you know, just being plain old mean to you for no good darn reason.	 reflection	communication behavior
116_156	Yeah. And, um, so you'd be willing to come back and talk about it then? Okay. All right. And I just wanna let you know that I think that you're, um, really doing a good job of-of, uh, dealing with how hard it is to be in high school, 'cause it is hard.	 reflection	communication behavior
116_158	It is.	 other	communication behavior
116_160	Yeah. And it is hard, and-and I-I think it gets better. My experience was it got a little better. The freshman and sophomore year, you know.	 reflection	communication behavior
116_162	But, um, anyway, I think you are hanging in there beautifully, and I love hearing that you're involved in swimming and some other things 'cause they must help connect you up with some pretty-- I would hope-	 other	communication behavior
116_164	-[unintelligible 00:13:12] people. So okay, anything else? No? Okay. All right.	 question	communication behavior
116_166	Thank you.	 other	communication behavior
117_0	Hello, nice to meet you again. And, uh, and what seems to be the-the problem or what-what prompted you to come along?	 question	communication behavior
117_2	Okay, so you feel as if drinking is a problem for you at the moment?	 reflection	communication behavior
117_4	Okay. Wh-What makes you say that it's gotten worse?	 question	communication behavior
117_6	Okay.	 other	communication behavior
117_8	Yes.	 other	communication behavior
117_10	Sure.	 other	communication behavior
117_12	Okay, okay, so you've noticed over, I guess, uh, the last six months in particular since you decided, you know what? I'm going to take a risk and-a-and go out to try to meet a-a-a pot-potential partner again that it's with an increase in drinking.	 reflection	communication behavior
117_14	Okay.	 other	communication behavior
117_16	Sure, sure. So you're noticing that the drinking at the moment is a way of perhaps calming the nerves?	 reflection	communication behavior
117_18	To-to-to speak to-to potential partners?	 reflection	communication behavior
117_20	Who-who-who, boys?	 question	communication behavior
117_22	Okay.	 other	communication behavior